The Neuropsychology of Men During No contact (SHOCKING!!!)

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Today we’re going to talk about the psychology of men during no contact.
First of all, most people, they’ll be able to hold on for a few days or maybe even a few weeks. The goal of no contact is to make the guy submit to you in a weird way, to make him come chasing back or to right a wrong that he did or to give you more leverage but the core of no contact is to inflict pain. This is the type of pain that men feel:
1. Envy and jelousy- men naturally feel competition. Every action that you do could potentially mean that you found another guy. It’s a lot easier to project things that are not there and if you’re trying to make him jealous, don’t be so obvious because he’s paying attention to everything.
2. A desire to connect with you - because there’s no oxytocin. What would happen if he actually loved you or liked you and you made no contact with him, it’s gonna make him long for a connection.
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@QueenB-yv7br 2 жыл бұрын

NEVER EVER be too available to a man who hasn’t let you know he is serious about. Get a career, travel, get a hobby, build wealth anything but running your life around a man who is not going to be your partner. Thank me later. Went through it twice got out of the relationship had to start all over. Have your ish so if he’s gone you have a fulfilled life still. Thank me later ladies.

@cherankimiorak1739 2 жыл бұрын

The realest here 😍🙏🏽

@Lxoxo333 2 жыл бұрын

🥳 this right here! 👏👏👏 ☝🏼 FACTS

@luckie6682 2 жыл бұрын

Amen, I walk away silently, gone on with my career, I will not allow any man too waste my time and energy, cause if he truly love you he will move mountains for you, he will help you build, he will help you too grow, and you will blossom, its equal give and take in a relationship, marriage, has nothing too do with just sex either, some of these women act like their danzel in distress and baby thats co dependcy, not good ladies, you are your own beautiful individual, make them give you respect and honor, you, Amen

@floml7073 Жыл бұрын

Well said! Thank you for your wise words I screenshot your comment to always remind myself

@breanna2408 Жыл бұрын

So not wrong

@zubieM 2 жыл бұрын

No contact is the perfect strategy when you realise you are dealing with an abuser or a narcissist- they CAN NOT stand it!

@CashFlow287 2 жыл бұрын

shouldn't you be leaving an abuser or narcissist permanently instead of using strategies?

@Stephanie-dx1eo 2 жыл бұрын

@cashow literally lol

@lincolnhtschick 2 жыл бұрын

Then it should be PERMANENT no contact!

@shanaz3 Жыл бұрын

I’m about to try this and find out how crazy he will go

@SanctifiedLady Жыл бұрын

Raid?! 🪳 make them feel like a loser that they are and run

@farfetched9296 2 жыл бұрын

I'll stay single til I die. Ppl are sick af. Between the games, entitlement, and ego I'll continue to love myself. It's no drama nor bs

@KimberlyH. 2 жыл бұрын

I used to think like that. Dating is a lot of work, if you don't understand the dynamics of the male and female brains. Really, it's a self esteem thing. Dating is about knowing what you want and how you want to feel. Anything less than is a no-go

@Crystallight11_11 Жыл бұрын

Yes this 100❤ I’ll love myself We came into this world alone and we will leave alone so learn to love yourself

@verab2700 Жыл бұрын

Exactly right!

@blak_momba3056 Жыл бұрын

I went no contact for two and a half months. He kept contacting me periodically. After a while he started contacting me more especially when I started post of ig again. He went crazy!!! He would not give up! I was trying to make it to three months but I gave in after two and a half because he texted me saying it was an emergency. I said ok so he FaceTimed me. The minute I saw his face I broke. He told me he loved me. We been together ever sense. Yes we still have problems but we work to fix them….. it does work but only if the guy loves you!!!

@ToxicLittyGaming Жыл бұрын

Did he love you enough to not risk leaving you and possibly losing you forever?

@everythingpal Жыл бұрын

Awwhh sweet what would you reckon if you don't know each other well

@feiwaan Жыл бұрын

@@dreamkitty unfortunately that’s how life works. You have to play the game

@dreamkitty Жыл бұрын

@@feiwaan no you don’t. many people aren’t playing games and would never

@feiwaan Жыл бұрын

@@dreamkitty Generally, people take for granted what is easy to access. People take for granted the one who is too nice, too available. Doesn’t mean there aren’t people who wouldn’t appreciate you. But they are few. That’s why we play these “games” in relationship. It’s called games but it’s really tactics to preserve your value, and appear emotionally grounded, rational and not out of control. When we fall in love, we are bound to do things out of naivety, and out of that emotion of love, and you could be taken for granted if you aren’t employing the right actions. That’s why Robert Greene wrote his “48 laws of power” book. Cos the world works differently than we thought.

@user-iu6bv8vu8o 2 жыл бұрын

No Contact works- so does being willing to Walk Away…. Another great video Alexis!

@farfetched9296 2 жыл бұрын

No contact is just feeding the dysfunction. Walking away is way better. Never know when you're dodging a bullet

@adamsandlermovie9355 2 жыл бұрын

Was gonna say the same!! Walking away is the best choice in mose cases

@Soouber Жыл бұрын

Exactly...always walk away! If it doesn't flow, u cut it off at source....remember you only want one person, not many...so that means many frogs!

@demetricchapman460 Жыл бұрын

No contact along with walk away

@atsanik4838 2 жыл бұрын

If he really liked you in the first place you wouldn’t need to be watching these videos.

@jessicag6328 4 ай бұрын

I agree! Lol. if you’ve made it to videos like this In your algorithm- or looking for external answers- you’ve got your answer. Move along

@jodaisy113 4 ай бұрын

@@jessicag6328.. nnext 😂

@electriclioness4607 Ай бұрын

Good point 😊

@brendavillanueva1447 Күн бұрын

False. These are strategies for real life. Even treat your husband like he’s an option. Because he is. He better be at your feet too

@Eyesofanenigmaticsoul 2 жыл бұрын

“Not feeling fulfilled makes you search for love”

@willowmalone9215 Жыл бұрын

Protect this man at all costs! He is a treasure!

@heiditugers Жыл бұрын

I disagree. The purpose of no contact is to get someone who has nothing to offer you, or is toxic out of your life. When someone shows me who they are I believe them and move on. I don’t need to do a replay when I already know what I am dealing with. A snake doesn’t turn into a puppy by you going no contact, or wishful thinking.

@Alinenebulosa Жыл бұрын

He is telling how the other person reacts to it. Your reasons to no contact are only yours

@basicinfo2022 9 ай бұрын

It's also to help you detox the love drug chemicals and regain clarity.

@heiditugers 9 ай бұрын

@@basicinfo2022 💯

@abenadickson1660 5 ай бұрын

This!❤

@HealingNomad 2 жыл бұрын

The first time I did it he ended up working and made me his girlfriend afterwards. We dated for 2 years. Didn’t know this is what happens i genuinely wanted space because he wasn’t acting right. It works. It worked for me multiple times

@brooklyn3299 2 жыл бұрын

Yea but did you guys get married?

@SmazzitSEOTrainingInstitute Жыл бұрын

@@brooklyn3299 not everyone wants to be married

@safiamahummed5879 2 жыл бұрын

The Tyrone joke gets me every time 😂😂

@Yanaristocrat Жыл бұрын

Literally scrolling to see if this has someone else cracking up as much as I was.

@viktoriaerssonfloding8064 2 жыл бұрын

U know girls. I decided stop texting with a man. Why ? Cause we are so diffrent and its just create too much stress. Just fuck it. IF he want us he call

@shacutehuntyssssx 2 жыл бұрын

@nativechique7589 Жыл бұрын

I love how he doesn't have "time" I'm done here

@aurir3678 2 жыл бұрын

This is so nice, I had to watch it twice. Father Alex dropped jewels as always

@luxetales 2 жыл бұрын

Really loved this video. This was filled by biological facts, rather than the emotions, letting us learn what's going on a deeper level. We need more videos of this kind 😍

@bushrayehia2758 2 жыл бұрын

This is the best no contact video I’ve watched & I’ve watched plenty.

@tansz8092 Жыл бұрын

So spot on! This is exactly how it's playing out on my exes! Great video!

@chardaemoulton1721 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely beautifully explained, thank you so much. I really appreciate you for letting me understand this on such a deeper level.

@atlfun08 2 жыл бұрын

Professor Alex! I’m learning a lot about humanity!

@rainbowbright922 2 жыл бұрын

We have to acknowledge so many aspects of being human. There are the biology, psychology, and metaphysics of connection. In the end, the right combination of these, and many other unseen aspects will lead to connection. Live your life, get therapy, heal yourself, love yourself. THAT is the best magnet. Learn the laws of attraction and manifestation. But also, digest this content. Great perspective on the nature of men. Good to see quality YT content on the topic.

@lena-cv3tv 2 жыл бұрын

Better and better to listen🔥 Thank you so much for your wisdom

@cathy_clarinet 2 жыл бұрын

This is excellent, really. I feel that a man that loves you, he would protect you from feeling so bad that you have to go NC. Good info 👍

@redalex8794 2 жыл бұрын

Truly enjoyed you summarizing this research!

@bowlegged876 Жыл бұрын

@archanabhardwaj6348 2 жыл бұрын

Great video !! Love your explanation so much Alex 👏👏👏👏👏

@ringothecat1462 2 жыл бұрын

Happy to catch ya live!! Watching from 🇨🇦

@cladiavital3769 2 жыл бұрын

Really is a gold that you explain biological way how the body response to what he feels ...no all the people are conscious about it,most people coach only explain superficial aspects about relationship between humans ...and the is so important to know how the body response.....inside our organis, thank you so much for this information...bless

@redroselace9545 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@Strong_Libra_Scales 2 жыл бұрын

Yesss! I see the growth! This content is amazing.

@michelledirelle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. very good videos and because of the honest stories you're not toxic! Many women have problems because of a lack of acceptance. It's unfortunate because it creates unnecessary blockages only.

@trainerswebmail5076 2 жыл бұрын

Well done, brother. Your videos are very helpful

@sallylemon5835 Жыл бұрын

The title hit straight to my face thank you I needed this

@kari9655 2 жыл бұрын

Love this!!❤ You're so brilliant!!!💯

@liliarohmann4476 2 жыл бұрын

You are so interesting! Thanks for sharing knowledge 💪🏼

@ninanicole1648 2 жыл бұрын

Or, he is just not that into you.

@IAMLilianChanel 2 жыл бұрын

A very rare comment from the Non smited friend . . Bravo on your class ! Mad cool

@vchild 2 жыл бұрын

Very insightful. Thank you. 😊

@eugeniah25 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Alex, I really enjoy your videos ❤️

@rcole1787 2 жыл бұрын

I love learning about the human condition... great job! I LOVE your videos! I stumbled across your videos a few weeks ago... & am learning a lot! Thanks sweets!!

@franciscaworld8098 2 жыл бұрын

it really helps that you post so much! it keeps the innerpickmeisha nice girl away 😂💛

@billieenn 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome video Alex

@acquabablair5524 2 жыл бұрын

It’s inconceivable what one has to go through just to be in a relationship that may never manifest into anything tangible..? If someone is playing games from the beginning of contract, those games may somehow precipitate throughout the entire relationship!! Cut it OFF from the inception so there’s NO need to do so later….where feelings get involved. If you can’t be honest to the other person involved, be honest with yourself for sake of your mental being. Like Alex always advices….check your potential partner from the time he/ she becomes disrespectful! This will only lead to further disrespect because ppl become easily comfortable with doing that sh$%t. No one or nothing is worthy of this type of mental consumption…period ‼️

@valerieriggins3184 2 жыл бұрын

WELL....This Infor Wouldn't Help A 🚸 CHILD. UNTIL.... Learning They Were Raised n Brainwashed By Narc Parents. Then Grow Up And Suffer, And Educate SELF! BUT That Saying Better LATER Than NEVER.🥰🥳💯🙌👌

@AshleysActivism 2 жыл бұрын

I snapped at mine for being a jerk and he broke up with me and still hasn’t told me he loves me after 7 months but acts sad to breakup with me but has no plans on making things work

@Soouber Жыл бұрын

Cut it off and walk very early..know yourself and self respect comes first.

@simplynkule Жыл бұрын

💔💯

@kielaizensupresencia2265 5 ай бұрын

i believe in U

@MrsLibra444 2 жыл бұрын

I love this video! This is great content & so funny

@msgomui1 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this information. You explained it so well.

@G0ddess_Kate 2 жыл бұрын

Your research is definitely coming along 😘

@jjunesimo 2 жыл бұрын

Love this one 👏🏻

@pennir8834 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this video Lex wish it was longer though the psychology ones are my fav 🤩 can you treat us to an hour like the old ones 😁

@helenekailis10 Жыл бұрын

Love your energy, honesty and thank you for sharing your knowledge 🙏😃💛

@amyhope3951 2 жыл бұрын

Here's a question: Why the hell men are only interested after women are away? 😑

@misspretty2861 2 жыл бұрын

foreal...i left my sons father alone and now he's talkin about i still love u, i never stopped, i want to marry you...yes but sir-- i no longer want you!!

@angelicaangel2624 2 жыл бұрын

They want what they can't have.

@patriciaanderson6300 2 жыл бұрын

Didn’t he just explain why in this video 🤨

@Sarablueunicorn 2 жыл бұрын

They are not interested. They see you as a spare tire you know. They don't need you to have their car rolling, they have all their tires available but it's recommended to always have a spare one in case of emergency. A spare tire isn't something a man keeps in his car because he plans on using it, actually he hopes there's no need of using it but as precaution it's better to take one.

@TheBakingGirlShow 2 жыл бұрын

Cuz they didnt have enough love in their childhoods

@sabinatedlee4242 2 жыл бұрын

This makes me so happy to know

@laurenjvvuuren5197 2 жыл бұрын

These are the kind of video's I love I lurn so much out of this we need more.. You explain it so well tnx for that Alex!

@sabinatedlee4242 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this info

@daviadouglas9252 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣 “I promise u Tyrone’s going to have a problem with that” 🥂

@jemicabond3916 2 жыл бұрын

Good info Alex

@MsSadeBrown 2 жыл бұрын

I ghosted my toxic narcissistic ex over three years ago and went no contact. He still calls periodically from random numbers. Block and delete everytime.

@Jj-ls1nd 2 жыл бұрын

GREAT VIDEO 👏👏

@Sara-wb2bs 2 жыл бұрын

You're Amazing!!! 100% truth.

@AshleysActivism 2 жыл бұрын

You and damn “Tyrone” hahahahha love it

@jairozapata566 2 жыл бұрын

Good job!

@bujitea8522 2 жыл бұрын

What if we both are playing games

@Tluv_1955 Жыл бұрын

Omg I needed this 🙏🙏💜💜

@thelordisgood62 Жыл бұрын

This was really good

@deniseotoole6776 Жыл бұрын

Wow. You are taking on course on line. You are hysterical.

@Synquette 2 жыл бұрын

This was helpful! I just saw the house of Gucci and SPOILER 🚨 ALERT! And what you mentioned about it’s hard for people to get over someone if it’s attached to their ego and if being with that person gives the other person status or fame, it makes me understand the role lady Gaga played and why she did what she did to her husband when he didn’t want her anymore

@msgs6850 2 жыл бұрын

This is so much work , ugh I can't deal but I like this guy he had me laughing 😁

@ivoria3649 2 жыл бұрын

Merciiii 🙏 I enjoyed your Video pretty much. Thank you 😊

@forever-e-mazing 2 жыл бұрын

“Remember what lead up to you gettin yo ass beat” lmao... this video was super facts though love the content..

@lisaanderson1146 2 жыл бұрын

Love time fan you keep getting better

@mariaoyine5063 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, on point as always..

@patriciaanderson6300 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏 I love this shit, what classes did u choose? I love learning too, you are a great teacher

@deborahocampo852 Жыл бұрын

Brilliant as ever

@correanne5366 Жыл бұрын

I luv it-i know u are educated in ur craft....muchos grácias 😎💚

@torybee1167 2 жыл бұрын

So very true, works time and time again when you apply the preemptive breakup. Stay vague...though...even if he apologizes.

@tenchii555 2 жыл бұрын

Are you planning on doing the social intelligence seminar online for your international followers? Or is there a livestream option? 💭

@RR-us1lt 2 жыл бұрын

Every time subscribe again I know some shit just went down in my life and I've got it bad

@weekendnomad5038 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like he really doesn’t gaf

@simbasara88 2 жыл бұрын

I have so many questions, particularly after going no contact with a narcissistic man

@evelyndavis5102 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this information. I appreciate that it wasn't presented as "I feel" It was based on scientific facts. Thank you

@tamaralynn9040 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this video 😛

@janinecousins6299 2 жыл бұрын

It's great you luv education!!!

@ariesdelfuego 2 жыл бұрын

Interesting stuff

@musicbrazilian7065 2 жыл бұрын

Alex, you sound well-read confident, and wise I love your intellectually ambitious self. Thank you for sharing and I love your videos. You are so talented. After the talk with Robert Greene, you shine brighter than the sun.

@deborahocampo852 Жыл бұрын

Very true he is a all rounder... very good videos....he knows his stuff

@Hvjvr 2 жыл бұрын

Maan you’re so funny i swear 😂😂

@michellegaindilal5758 Жыл бұрын

Thank u for educating me

@milagroestrada1330 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this🤍

@sincerelydee4787 2 жыл бұрын

I really loved your breakdown of this subject. You made it so understandable!

@spiritlikem3963 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😻

@dawnm7450 2 жыл бұрын

Love the message and you’re funny without even realizing it. Lmao

@NatalieRealEstate Жыл бұрын

you are great!!!

@mel9189 2 жыл бұрын

Like the new look... 👌🏻💯

@SGF1234 2 жыл бұрын

This is a lot of cognitive work for someone who one day, hopefully, will be your medical power of attorney, and you his. Honestly, either he is ready or not. And when he's ready, it won't require anything on your part in any direction.

@lisaanderson1146 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent

@superpoodlehead 2 жыл бұрын

Fabulous!

@BamBam-un5pz 2 жыл бұрын

I guess he isn’t jealous even if I am with another bloke. 🤷🏻‍♀️ ain’t heard from his dusty self in about 4 months

@miat.t1309 2 жыл бұрын

lololol

@HairTalk101 2 жыл бұрын

Exact 2 yrs for me.

@PaanoTheTagalogHowToChannel 2 жыл бұрын

Going in 6mos lololol

@chaseback5102 2 жыл бұрын

We reward you for your research 😁

@simplymarilyn5295 11 ай бұрын

This is deep!!

@sabinatedlee4242 2 жыл бұрын

Your best video

@duyguarat6253 2 жыл бұрын

İ love this guy's mishevious smile.

@jennifernixon563 10 ай бұрын

Your the best out here on helping us 😆.

@alejandraquintana692 Жыл бұрын

Okay so what I’m getting from this is that you are much better off not getting feelings for anyone fast and it’s always best to take YOUR time and not allow the pressure of the person on the other side to push you until you’ve seen that person present something of value. Otherwise all these natural chemicals gonna fk with how you perceive things to begin with. Have any of you met more than one guy who is not insecure and not love bombing from the get go tho?

@MindfulAttraction2.0 2 жыл бұрын

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@crystalclimenhage7159 2 жыл бұрын

Does it work if HE was cheating?