Thank you

"I'm literally crying... it's not because I faced it and became a victim, it's because I faced it and came out of it. I have left that environment and those people, and it was not something I could have done alone. It was truly the hand of God that brought me out of that."

That was funny, imma going to do it, just can't think of something so horrible that he hates! 😂

I can relate to a lot of things mentioned in this video. I thought maybe I was autistic but maybe I was actually just traumatized.

"You are a bunny. Asking help from hyenas"😂😂😂 can't stop laughing.

Weakness breeds aggression.

This is great. I love how you integrate psychology behind people’s actions.

I always say sorry for everything i need to stop

I stopped apologizing a long time now.

If you ever come to London hit me up… if I’m single maybe we could meet up… 😜

Thank you Father Alexis 🙏🏽🫡

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Thank you❤

My daughter (27) tries to do this to me. When she was younger I let it slide but, now I stand up for myself and she plays victim and gives excuses

Thank you, Father ❤

Don't forget that everybody has a packpack! Everybody has been through shit in life! Some even more then others, not everybody has the perfect life!

Well I must be a psychopath because I ain't never feel to run back to a man who pushed me away and expressed he didn't want me.

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Super true

I used to be taken advantage of too. Why? Very abusive, cruel parents. I had zero confidence. Never had a healthy, balanced relationship. The Bible calls these beliefs, strongholds. Good news is once I recognized that and allowed Jesus to heal & guide me, life has changed exponentially. Great video, Dalexis.

Great video Dalexis

"Erase the false impressions from my mind.... I have it in my soul to keep out any evil, desire or any kind of disturbance-- instead, seeing the true nature of things, I will give them only their due." Marcus Aurelius

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If someone is into you (especially a man) you’ll KNOW….If you’re confused, then it’s a NO & your signal to move on. If you hang around they’re only seeing you as an option & will have you on the back burner with a bunch of other simmering pots. There are sooo many insecure people using other’s attention for validation & people hanging onto to them hoping it’ll turn into something. If it’s not direct communication & action (at ANY level of the connection), then it’s a waste of your time.

I’ve learned to control my pull towards people because I’ve seen that dysfunctional people will use it even if they have no intention to move further. The needy game playing ones will just keep you around for attention where they don’t promise anything so they can say they never did. But if you don’t control yourself, people will see this as weak boundaries & that they can play with you. And then our weak boundaries will have us hanging on hoping something else will develop & afraid to have the uncomfortable conversations. Now I don’t play & I truly am happy alone so someone has to come in & prove they’re capable of adding to my life. I’ve found nothing more powerful than this way of handling my relationships. It keeps me from wasting my time & heart energy. We should only have to learn these lessons a minimum number of times. Unfortunately it took me until 50😹🙈but it’s never too late🤩

Let's keep it real, anxious attachment and avoidant attachment styles feel the need to chase what they think is love when they are feeling insecure about a relationship. These are childhood / relationship wounds coming out. If you are securely attached, pulling away and making your partner feel insecure does not make them fall in love , it is a HUGE turn off . They don't need to play childish games like that because in the long run they don't work and it only becomes a Trauma Bond not Love. Have an adult conversation, if you are putting out more energy than the other person is willing to, then it's time to move on, with peace and love, otherwise you will be stuck playing that cat and mouse game until you do.

LOOL IMMA WRITE YOU A LETTER JUST SO YOU CAN READ IT LIKE THAT! 😂😂😂 BTW- THAT WOMAN SOUNDS CREEPY AS HELL! STALKER VIBES WITH CRAZY PSYCHO EYES! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Weed and meditation compatible? Asking for a friend

I enjoy your content Dalexis. Watching from Kenya.

Thanks!

Alex, from your eyes I see your suffering and compassion/empathy to help others. I am in a very challenging relationship situation, and I need to hear this despite how many excuses I can make for the person I deeply love in order to avoid the pain of my loss, sadness and disappointment. Thank you!

I love watching u smoke

K Alex. Agree with all. BUT how do you sustain a man’s investment. They lose momentum after 3-6 months. They start to half ass once they get comfy. Suggestions? Or maybe you covered this and I missed it…

It makes me laugh so hard when Alex caughts himself making a mistake when saying the ages of his nieces or mistakes in general and quotes what we would think of that like " oh my God he is a bad uncle he is etc etc " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Amazing, hey man you're great !

I found that not being wanted also has its positives, it makes you not expect anything from anyone and shift focus only to yourself. So not being chased has its advantages. Expecting less means less disappointments, better emotional resilience and humbleness. In the end the objective is to reduce your own ego without needing or seeking external validation.

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Women need to think they’ll get better treatment from a man if they give room to breathe like a fine wine. They give to a woman more genuinely…🍷

11:55 my ex wanted me to believe EVERYTHING he believes. If I have a different opinion he calls me masculine. It could be as simple as the shape of the earth. So annoying

I had to leave a man because he literally tried to change everything about me. Why be with me if you need me to something else? I was open to wearing what he wanted an following his religion that I disagree with. Until i noticed his requirements of me continue to evolve at his will. We'd have conversations and agree then later I'd get scrolled with a new demand that we already agreed was ok before. I can't be with a man like that. Men who claim to be good leaders then suffer from effective communication and always change and expect you to just give up yourself for them scare me.

i should do that in my interviews honestly

Awesome video!!❤

You are very good at strategies❤❤❤

Father Alex im keeping you in my prayers🙏🏻 im not gonna lie when i first started watching you i thought you were toxic but now i understand 😂 you have changed my perspective ❤ thank you

So much wisdom😅 love this !!!

how often do u smoke