Yup, that's the only problem I see with the theory of this video. Some girls are not that simple because they like to be "chased" a lot and they still want guys to persist. So in the end it all comes down to the guys' patience...

Mário Lopes why play games tho when you can find someone that isnt trying to make it hard?

@@hectorgutierrez5240 If only that was true in my case... Lol

Women will let you chase forever, if you let them.

@@SolaireGamingPT you need to change buddy.. if the woman doesnt interested in you just move on..

Yes truths bro...rejection is the most painful thing if we don't know how to handle it....Rejection gives an opportunity to find the next best deal instead of lowering our thoughts....many lower their values and expectations once they get rejected by someone....remember that's when we prove ourselves by targeting and owning the best ones.... That's when the value gets multiplied..... 😉

Lol damn

Not interested

If she's interested, she would go with you in the middle of an alien invasion.

@@victorsuarez3 100% truth

She not intrested in you. Just ignore her, find another women

Take baby steps , be careful and think.

35 and same

37 and same..

lmao

I feel bad that I know who the chick in the thumbnail is.

@Ozymandias TR some premium snapchat chick named Heidi Grey

😂

You’re wrong. A lot of singles are making the most of this time.

yeah that is usually my case too so its always confusing after that

@@TheDestroyer73 i give them benefit of the doubt one time and if they do it twice, i put the ball in their court.

Yo, Savage! All is well?

They also admit to using men for free meals. TRUST ME Tripp knows this which is why I am confused he is saying this is black and white...ITS NOT. nypost.com/2019/06/21/a-third-of-women-only-date-men-because-of-the-free-food-study/

Yeah this is bad advice in numerous ways and has a very low likelihood of success if dating her is your goal.

Tell me about it. I am 30 and I feel embarrassed watching these

If the spark was there, it still is. Texting is weak sauce unless it holds value. Text only with the purpose to see them in person, unless you want a text buddy. Let her dictate the text game. Be there for her, but don’t set up a precedent that she’s the one who’s there for you. If you’re always texting and initiating, she will feel pressure to respond even if she doesn’t feel the need to.

Joe, you clearly don’t understand women and our hormones. If the guy doesn’t keep engaging, we lose interest. It’s a hormonal thing.

Danielle Zorzin Men also lose interest if women don’t engage and personally, I don’t chase. I clearly don’t understand women? If you say so...

Danielle Zorzin By your logic, if a man texts (engages) often or more than a woman and it isn’t texting with a purpose to set dates, it means he understands women and their hormones. That’s just absurd thinking and holds no truth. I’ve got news for you: texting often, engaging, and always initiating does not equate to a man who understands women and their hormones. It’s not the job of a man to keep a woman’s hormones in check. If a woman loses interest in the initial attraction because she isn’t getting pinged by text multiple times a day, every day, that’s not genuine attraction, that’s called a dopamine addiction. No high value, self-respecting man is going to run Pavlov’s Dog dopamine trials on a woman to gain or keep her interest. Most men who have high value will not be spending their time thinking, “oh shit! I’ve got to engage this women today, maybe multiple times a day, and every day or she will lose interest!” And, even more so if it doesn’t feel reciprocated. If a spark was made (in person), the attraction is real, and the job was done right, there’s no need for a text buddy or pinging a woman just to remind her of you. Let her wonder, let her think, let her get curious about what you’re up to, and give her space. You set dates. Be a lover, not the friend. Have an air of mystery. If you’ve done the job right, there should be some mystical magnetism pulling you back together. Texting often without a purpose or a clear direction to lead the interaction further romantically (and if the woman can’t reciprocate due to ‘hormones’ or they are too busy) can make that spark fade before the next date (or before setting the next date). If the spark was there and the man has done his job right, she will be happy to hear from him again, even if it’s not often, and perhaps even happier when she finally does. If the woman needs constant engagement to be reminded to keep her interest why date someone who isn’t that into you? Also, if the spark was there, the man has done his job right, and it’s real, she will be more likely to reach out when she doesn’t hear from him. Love-bombing someone new with text is often seen as needy or insecure behavior, which is not masculine energy, possibly a manipulative tactic, perhaps disingenuous, and likely unsustainable long term or consistently. Men shouldn’t text just because they feel the need to, or because a woman may lose interest, do it with purpose and on your own timeframe. Texting often can feel smothering to most women (especially if there is more than one person they’re interacting with, or they have other priorities and their emotions are in flux) and it can lead to confusion, misinterpretation, miscommunication, or wrong timing (hormones). If it’s in the realm of seduction (via text), this is also a bad idea because it’s rather risky and especially if you send questionable texts (or even questionable humor) when the timing is off (hormones). Seduction and humor is always best in person. If someone wants to laugh at memes, that’s what Google is for. Unless you truly know each other well enough, texting can backfire (hormones). Also, I don’t know a single erotic, seductive, romance novel where the man has to maintain a woman’s interest over text to seduce her, it’s just not sexy. If you’re constantly texting, you’re left with nothing to talk about on the date and it’s a less compelling proposition to engage personally, when it’s more convenient to text from the couch and avoid going out. Flirting over text? What are you gonna do? Repeat the same shit the next time you see them in person? Or save it for when it really counts? You want to chime in about mundane daily shit? Or send a joke? Go ahead. From my personal experience of understanding women, for times where something didn’t work in my favor, I’ve analyzed with introspection the reasons why, and 9/10 times it boiled down to something minor and completely benign that went amiss in a text exchange. In turn, I’ve taken a minimalistic approach to text engagement, putting all that saved energy into in-person interactions (instead of eating it on text) and have seen the results. The shifts in body language, respect, and that gleam in their eyes before they bounce, cannot be understated. So, I really can’t take you seriously. If a woman requires constant text engagement for attraction and to hold interest, that tells me that the woman is attracted to and interested in attention and text engagement more than the man himself. If the woman has more interest in the man, constant text engagement isn’t necessary from him and it tells me she’s attracted to the man, and not thirsty for attention. A woman can find attention anywhere, from endless needy chumps who will gladly blow up her phone constantly. The reserved man who is above that, is a different breed and attracting a high value man is much rarer. The need or requirement for text engagement is not typically in a high value man’s DNA, nor inherently attractive to a high value man. For a truly high value man, he knows he’s the prize. He has options, he is not thirsty for attention or to give it. His physical presence alone commands more authority than any text engagement ever could. And this is what every man should strive for, divine masculinity. To be content with or without a woman. If a woman loses interest over ‘engagement’ metrics, and can’t agree to a date because of it, it’s her loss, not his. Plenty of fish. Having said that, I really don’t appreciate your judge mental mindset and troll attitude towards me based on zero facts (saying that I “clearly don’t understand women”, which is rather interesting as you know nothing about me and I’ve been told the exact opposite rather often by women who don’t seem to understand why I’m not married), but I’ll be the better person here and reserve my judgement towards you. Also, TrippAdvice himself advocates not texting frequently, but reserving texts for setting dates. So, if you think I don’t understand women and their hormones, you’re implying that TrippAdvice doesn’t understand either. Along with just about every dating coach. And, if you’d like to clarify your statement and actually contribute some value and insight on what ‘understanding women and their hormones’ means to the conversation, I’m all ears. Myself and others would be grateful to hear a meaningful commentary to that statement and how you think women should be engaged via text with respect to their hormones. Because, to be frank, your reply to me doesn’t help address the OPs question or give meaningful insight to my contribution on the topic in the slightest, it was simply a jab. Thanks for chiming in, though. #hormones

@@joesandstrom4111 your knowledge on the topic is off the charts just ignore what that girl said she obviously has no clue how true this is

Am a girl and such a marvel fun and I don't understand people who don't have a sense of wonder.

@@cinnamonparsley6384 "A Bronx Tale" is a movie... theres a test the main character gives his love interest. It pretty much sums up all you need to know about a female.

A free date during lockdown? Definite Friend Zone haps dude! Why even bother?

@@cinnamonparsley6384 I couldn't care less. Hardly know the girl lol. You gotta know if you vibe with someone first. I'm not taking someone out for an expensive date if they're boring or only there for a free meal.

Seems a lot more clear and straightforward than the games we play fueled by Hallmark movies and romance novels.

Just say, “that’s okay, we don’t have to talk, you can watch me for hours.”

@@joesandstrom4111 nice...thank you for this

just go for it... if I was you I would much rather live knowing that I got rejected rather than regret not asking her out my entire life... just go for it dude and if it doesn't work out then it's just not meant to be brother... much love and good luck and please keep me updated on what happens ❤️

Yes cos she got used to such routine invites by multiple simps.... If that thing doesn't work, see where u can make the change and apply on her...Not every girl interested upon coffee and dinners...some like long drives and some are total opposite to it.... Well if she rejects the offers....Check the possibilities.... probably she is really busy in those days or approach too early or she has multiple options in hand or u it may be too early for her to join u.... Many girls even if they have interest, they dont want to show it right away.... They want to make sure how good you are and how worthy it is to meet you...In most cases now-a-days, girls double check your intentions behind your invitations.... They don't jump and join for drinks.... Since she gets multiple invites from many guys.... Remember you just a number in her list specially for a quality good looking women....Rather than she testing you, you need to play that role of testing her with different tasks....if she fails to pass the test.... Pack Seal And send her off....no mercy 😂... I mean move on....that simple...😉

It's not actually good advice. It has a very low likelihood of success if getting her to date you is your goal.

A female friend is the one for which u don't have feelings.. and freind zone means u have feelings or are interested in the girl romantically but she thinks of u not the same way and just wants to be friends with you cause she isn't interested in you in that sense

i think thats just her a excuse....people make time and put effort if they like the other person or at least interested...so her not trying would be me thinking she doesnt fully like me that way

@@TheDestroyer73 you read my mind. I just wanted to know anyone else opinion, thanks dude

@@tyfn1963 yeah no problem, its just one of those things that i too cant get my mind around sometimes since the girl acts good for the most part yet the other part never makes sense

People will make excuses to see the people they really want to see even during a pandemic. I think 4 months is a lot of wasted time on a virtual platform. I’d ask her out one more time, make it a ‘safe’ option for her, or ask her for a suggestion. If it’s another No, cease contact, stop liking her posts, disappear, move on, and live your best life. Only reach out again once the pandemic is long gone, if you’re still interested, and she doesn’t reach out herself. If you keep flirting and texting, she will get bored or you’re bound to screw up in some form, imo. Currently, you’re a cure for boredom and she’s feeding off the attention. Meanwhile, she’s thinking about the guys she’s attracted to that aren’t giving her attention. Disappear on a high note with a good impression and your dignity in tact. Just my 2 cents.

I’d say find another one. The whole pandemic thing is lie.

The so called "Mind Games"... Don't look into her status....u need to block her in first place as a male... That's where u rebuild your value and respect.... 👍

@@devilisbackk what does it mean if she is playing mind games is she still interested in me . thanks you respond

@@chinnagunda7001 may be yes or may be no....but don't get trapped to such silly and innocent game play.... If a girl likes u whole heartedly then she never play games with you.... She playing kinda hide and seek..... Ignore her completely until she takes all the efforts to reach you... Even then you need to think multiple times to take her back... Cos such mentalities will play again and again in future as well.... So it's ur call bro....

@@devilisbackk thanks lot sir.

@chinna gunda if she’s intentionally hiding her status or aspects of her social media life from you, walk away now! This isn’t someone you can trust. It should go without saying that if you feel the need to check up on someone and to always keep apprised of her sm status, listen to your gut telling you that this is not the right person for you! You can look forward to nothing but arguments. And it stinks to feel like one always has to keep checking up on a partner to affirm they’re not doing something behind your back. Who wants to live that way? There are not many possibilities as to why she’s doing that and none of them are good. If she’s blocking you because she’s seeing other people and doesn’t want you to know she’s not for you, walk away! Fast! If she’s blocking you because she feels you’re snooping and doesn’t like that, she’s still the wrong one for you; there’s a huge difference between someone who, realizing an insecurity, would take steps to reassure you (would mean she cares) vs. block you with an attitude like “Oh you wanna snoop my status? Here, you’re blocked, that’ll teach you.” (someone who does that to you doesn’t care and is contentious, you will have no end to arguments in life, not worth it walk away!) In fact one has no standing or foundation at all for a trusting relationship with someone that blocks you. Lastly if it’s ever an ex doing this, walk away. Exes are called exes for a reason and once someone is an ex it should stay that way. Unless you are looking for more heartache, like to deal with suspicion and feelings of jealousy and like to argue, walk away. Don’t go by your feelings, go by logic on this one! And anyway wouldn’t it be so much nicer to meet someone new and form a friendship/relationship where there IS trust and where you don’t have to wonder if there’s some other guy she’s chatting up and have to deal with such mind games where you always feel like you have to keep checking up? For as long as blocking you from her social media continues you will never get rid of those feelings, you will have to suppress and internalize emotional pain and this will inevitably lead you to ask questions that she will look at as invasive, which will inevitably lead to further argument and eventually another break up. Getting back with an ex rarely works out; almost never!! Successive break ups are always worse than the one before. You may feel like you really love this person but with her acting that way she is not in love with you. If she loved you she would be inclined to do everything to make it work out rather than to hide parts of her life from you. Trust this, you will feel better and will forget about her once you meet someone who truly reciprocates love. Being in a relationship with someone who hides aspects of their life, which means they’re living a dual life that you don’t know about really sucks. Don’t go along with that! Walk away! There are PLENTY of great people to meet! Life is too short to live with such an unhappy situation when genuine happiness is all around and easily obtained! Forget that ex, forget mental torture. Go forth, explore and find happiness with someone worthy of your attention and your love! An ex who blocks you from her social life is not worthy of you. Be very glad that this person is an ex! You’re luckier than you know being free of her, don’t blow happiness and ruin your life by going back!

Wait for her to reach you, if she doesnt reach you, you have in everyway to move on. Dont ask her out again as you will ruin your chances bcoz imidiately you will seem as you only has one chance with girls & desperate and needy...

First mistake, not immediately asking what days she’s free and negotiating a date when you’re both available. You’ve now waited a week to negotiate that date and you may be met with the same resistance, she could easily be booked up again. Women sense that hesitation and put you in the weak category. You either need to solidify plans in that moment, or she should provide you with an alternate date of availability. Currently, you’ve been put it in a situation where you want to see her more than she wants to see you. She’s in the power position and can keep you benched as long as she wants. Meanwhile, she’s swiping right on Tinder and lining ‘em up, after you demonstrated some weakness. Best course of action... take the ball from her and then put the ball back in her court. Something like, “Sorry, I’ve been busy. I’d love to see you again when I have some free time, so let’s make some plans! Thoughts?” There’s no reason she can’t respond to that. It’s your time she needs to be fighting for now. If she’s not willing to negotiate a date, the attraction wasn’t strong enough and attraction building over text is a death sentence. If you don’t hear from her, you have your answer. And, you walk away with your dignity, giving her no more attention. Let us know how it goes!

live 48-hour she's got another dick mate don't be sad many other fish in the sea try to get one a bit fresher

No

r2d2502 müller thanks for the advice

Never go back to ex, belive me or search on yt why

@@God4Father appreciate that. I’ll do some research

Depends on what you did. It's almost always the dudes fault, which is a game changer once you accept it. Basically, you not being a man = goodbye girl.

Hang out = let her prove she’s worth dating. Date = you were cool enough for me to waste my time and money to see you again and take it to the next level.

Joe Sandstrom that hit hard buddy. 👌

Right away. You want to meet her in person, don't you?

@@raqu7066 yes, i still tried to create a conversation with her since i sent you the first message, but it seems that she is not asking anything. I asked her phone number but she said she cant give it to me.. so i think she is not interested

@@goaheady1306 In Germany we say: ,,Aufstehen, Krone richten, weiter machen". In English this would mean something like: ,,Get up, fix your crown, move on". You will find another one.

@@raqu7066 thank you man!

Link?

I am a fan from the netherlands thank you so much you helped me alot

Payam Soccer cool man but he wants a link. Give him one lol

@@blackout2430 i gave it to him cant you see ??

Payam Soccer typical leftist KZfaq censoring you I guess. I can’t see it

Look for woman's in your area :)

Careful brother, so far, it doesn’t mean anything. You’ve got a connection sure, but don’t assume that means she likes you romantically

Boundaries are good. Clear intentions are bad. Boundaries are for you. Intentions are a way to communicate what your plans are with them (it’s for them, not you... and a way for them to decide if they wish to proceed), which may not be currently in alignment. So, it’s best to keep your intentions unclear and to just have fun and romance, until that conversation is necessary.

I’m in the same spot. I don’t allow women to play games with me. However, I’ve noticed that’s when things are the most fun and exciting. Some level of “playing” is necessary in the initial stages of flirting and attraction. It’s a tough and blinding road to navigate. I like ‘playing’, I don’t like being ‘played’ and haven’t seen as much success going straight to serious mode. Unfortunately, I feel like I cut women off and walk away too soon because of this ‘I don’t play games’ attitude. I’m on the fence about whether it’s a winning strategy. On one hand, I save a lot of time and self respect by cutting it off early and going my own way. On the other hand, it seems to to lead to many dry spells.

Joe Sandstrom I definitely agree 100 percent. It’s like I’ll “play” but to the point to where I let it be known that I’m not just a friend. Like you said though if you don’t “play” you have a dry spell. I went through that shit for months until I was ready to play the game again. The whole situation is just annoying. Luckily I’ve never had a chick not know that I was at least not trying to be her friend.