The only realization you need to find peace with Existential Questions

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Robin Schindelka

Robin Schindelka

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@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
Hi sweethearts! I hope this video brings you peace today ❤️
@theskipgilberto
@theskipgilberto 6 ай бұрын
I'm at 9 months since my dpdr took over my life. I've been feeling really good the past month. All of my health anxiety has pretty much dissipated. You have to tap into the root cause of your anxiety and deal with it. I go to therapy and do several exercises every day. I put in the work and I'm reaping the benefits. It's not the end of the road when you feel dissociated. It's the beginning. Good luck y'all. You can do this!
@nour6540
@nour6540 6 ай бұрын
I am suffering with this exactly and for me it’s like I discovered the truth and I’m insane now so I can’t live. It doesn’t make any sense but my head perfectly made that up and it feels so real. I’m so glad I’m not the only one that has been suffering about this exact thing. I had dr/dp, existential thoughts, panic attacks for almost 8 months straight and even agoraphobia because I ended up locking myself at home. It’s insane how fast it went. To anyone who’s reading this, I promise you it’s not dangerous, you aren’t crazy, you’re just really stressed out❤ it’s gonna be okay we’re gonna be okay
@jackdamanchan
@jackdamanchan 5 ай бұрын
I promise you I am going through the EXACT same thing, I am real and so are you and everybody else, I’ve had mine for about 3 months now, I’m still working and doing everything I need to but I’m constantly afraid that I’ve gone insane
@MarcelFerrin-
@MarcelFerrin- Ай бұрын
@@jackdamanchanhow are you doing
@jackdamanchan
@jackdamanchan Ай бұрын
@@MarcelFerrin- absolutely fine now, anxiety has passed almost completely and I don’t know what I was ever worried about haha
@ceciliabuckland
@ceciliabuckland 6 ай бұрын
You have no idea how much you've helped me with my existential crisis/ derealization. You were the person who helped me most when I was searching for answers. One day I found your KZfaq channel and it changed my life. Now I rarely get anxiety attacks and I refer to you when I feel anxious. Thank you so much you helped make my life better !!
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
This makes me so happy to read! Don't forget that you're the one that helped yourself the most by putting these things into practice! Hope you are well ❤
@holdenbarbarino
@holdenbarbarino 6 ай бұрын
I just wanted to share my own victory with everyone! I came home today and just felt very sad emotions out of no where which is something I had not felt in a while… obviously sadness is not the exact emotion I’m looking for but it’s a start and it gives me so much hope! I’ve been focusing on the source of my anxiety and totally looking past the symptoms that come from dissociating. I can genuinely feel my mind starting to heal. To me DPDR is one big paradox and the more you fixate on it the more intense it gets. It was easier for me to think of DPDR as a signal from your brain to change negative thought patterns, self image, or lifestyle. When I began to think like this i realized how wrong I dealt with my own issues before DPDR. We truly can all recover.
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
That's great Holden! So proud of you 😊
@DouglasSpencer-mf9tx
@DouglasSpencer-mf9tx 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this Robin. I’ve seen so many therapists over the decades and nobody has ever come close to the levels of insight and understanding that you share here.
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for the wonderfull comment! I appreciate it and hope you feel better soon ❤️
@greglavine4035
@greglavine4035 4 ай бұрын
The gun question answer...is it doesn't matter,chasing the rabbit hole,leads to answering questions with questions to the end the gift of God to us our unique essence..thank you I have found myself
@ca7582
@ca7582 6 ай бұрын
Yes! I was having the same thoughts during my existential crisis (happened like 6 weeks ago, very acute but fortunately recovery has been speedy). I just didn't take myself all that seriously and was deeply aware that I hadn't discovered anything that I wasn't aware of rationally before neither was I going to resolve ANYTHING by sheer thinking and trembling underneath my sheets. It is like going through hell, this anxiety, depression, DPDR, however you may call it, but it goes away. You do take away stuff -completely agree with the notion that there is no REALLY good and evil... but then again, didn't i already know that rationally from before? Haha, whatever. Thanks so much for your contributions to the topic. Your video about recovery and what you were going through was the first one I ever watched when I was at my lowest (the past october 13th) and it was the first glimmer of hope I had because I realised I wasn't alone, recovery was possible and this was gonna be rough, but a thing that was already set in motion and was gonna have to go through it. I don't even know if I'm stronger, weaker and whatnot, what I know is that is infinitely better to get up from the couch and start, listening to music, petting my dogs, writing screenplays and making music than stting down to contemplate "who am I right now?" "How much has this really helped/damaged me?" "What will become of me/what have I learnt?" "Will it come back?". Nah, mate. There's stuff to do and There's a life to live and in my renewed motivation I am determined to improve the lives of others who surround me - strangers, acquantainces and loved ones alike, as much as I can. Again, I already wanted to do that before my crisis, but now I guess I wanna do it more. Probably "no more procrastination" is the actual best lesson to take from this. But I don't know; in fact I know almost nothing thank God!😂 Thank you Robin and sorry for the rant - I needed it! ❤
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
Hi sweetheart, How amazing that you already have this mindset just six weeks in! You will be absolutely fine. It's a very difficult period of life to go through, but it's worth it if you open yourself up to learning to find peace within yourself. Thank you for sharing your story! I am sending a hug your way 😊
@lyndastanonis4356
@lyndastanonis4356 6 ай бұрын
Robin, you really seem to speak in a way that I can truly relate with and offer insight that puts me at ease. I have been struggling with GAD and existential anxiety for about 4 years when my life changed completely in so many ways. Although it was planned the emotions that came with it terrified me because they were so uncomfortable and unfamiliar which began the existential dread I started to feel which scared the crap out of me. I have been watching you for some time and find so much clarity in what you say. Thanks so much!! You have helped me tremendously ❤.
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing that! It means the world to me to know my video has helped you out. You deserve to feel amazing. I hope you are well!
@taodaen
@taodaen 6 ай бұрын
Oh, thank you for that.
@faith-on-the-internet
@faith-on-the-internet 5 ай бұрын
i just discovered your channel and your videos have helped me immensely. i’ve been having an existential crisis for months now and this feels like such a breath of fresh air
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 5 ай бұрын
Oh I'm glad to hear that ! Hope you find the healing you deserve very soon ❤️
@weirdloverwilde3060
@weirdloverwilde3060 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for making these videos. I’ve struggled with this for 16 years. I’m three months in to a terrible relapse that has had me completely unable to function. Your particular insight seems to tap into something deep inside me that I already know to be true. Watching your videos is allowing me to reconnect with familiar truths that are lost to me while going through an existential crisis. Thank you again
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
You're very welcome sweetheart! I hope you feel better soon ❤️ thank you for the kind words 😊
@ceciliabuckland
@ceciliabuckland 6 ай бұрын
You impress me every time by giving subtle but creative tips to help. You are an amazing person!
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
That's so sweet! Thank you 🥰
@cynthiasalinassalinas7918
@cynthiasalinassalinas7918 6 ай бұрын
Hi Robin, thank you so much for your content, I'm struggling right now with another long episode of DPDR, mine was because a lot of stress and trauma, since I was a child my brain used this mechanism to protect me from the difficulties outside, now I'm 26 years old and this is my second long DPDR episode. I don't know why but this time is more difficult because I just end some things in my life so now I have to rebuild my life again and finding things that do not depend on anyone but myself, I have always noticed that couples kept me away from DPDR (That also explains some dependency patterns that I observed in myself). I am having a symptom this time that is one of those that worries me the most, because I have never had it and I wanted to ask you if you have ever heard or experienced it. Images of dreams or things from the past come to me without me evoking them, simply because of a light or something that my head associates, they just come to me, like flashbacks, it is sometimes very uncomfortable because it disconnects me and makes me think that I am in a dream or in the past. I don't know if it's something you know.. Anyway, thank you very much for putting so much effort and interest in people, you do a very important job, you make us feel accompanied. Thank you very much from Spain :)
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
Hi Cynthia, First of all. How exciting that you are on a journey of change and becoming independent. I know sometimes you get lost focussing on the negative thing, but don't forget that dpdr is there for a reason. It's not your enemy, it's a sign that the way you've been living your life isn't in your highest good (or any good) anymore. And you have to listen to that! This can actually become a wonderful new phase of your life if you decide to open your arms to the uncertainty and learn to take care of yourself in difficult emotions. And I know you have it in you! As for the flashbacks, they might be helpful for you to release past trauma. The fact that they keep coming up might mean that it's necessary for you to release some stress around your past. Don't fight them, instead focus on how the memories make you feel and let yourself move through those emotions in the moment. Focus more on the body, and breathe deeply. Seems like you've been through a lot. At some point this needs to come out ❤
@nicholastalbert7393
@nicholastalbert7393 6 ай бұрын
OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH! I am a physicist stuck in the anxiety cycle and everything about science and philosophy I used to love now is scaring me so much! You have given me hope again so thank you! Were you able to go back to being a philosopher?
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
Yes! But not in University 😊 I would say I'm now more a 'happiness' philosopher than a 'truth' philosopher. Using philosophy to find happiness rather than control or truth!
@neptuneflower9156
@neptuneflower9156 6 ай бұрын
I have been feeling better with my anxiety but I feel weird being around people still just new faces idk and thinking if they are real people with real souls or just npc type. Or sometimes my perception feels like I'm in 1 spot when I move idk little things I over analyze makes me feel weird!!! Also what creeps me out too is thinking if we didn't exist and it was just nothing. Crazy thoughts and when I'm at work it's what I think about it ugh
@Marvinathor
@Marvinathor 6 ай бұрын
Hey Robin, het lijkt me leuk om met je een 1 op 1 gesprek te hebben tijdens een theetje ofzo ik weet dat we veel aan zo een gesprek zouden hebben
@twillsJKZ
@twillsJKZ 6 ай бұрын
Holy shit I’ve been spinning on this for months without realising it!! I keep thinking that I am now seeing life for what it is, and that before my thoughts weren’t based in reality. Because I don’t connect or identify with any of my thoughts (other than the fearful ones) I think everyone else is just going around not interpreting reality ‘properly’. It’s like I’ve flipped the script and believe in the fearful story. But it’s like I can’t see outside of it… I used to be able to contemplate on deep philosophical questions and loved it. Now I feel like I can’t comprehend any complex thoughts which is so frustrating. Like everything you’re saying I know to be true but I don’t feel like it ‘lands’ or I can comprehend it. And I feel like I need to comprehend it to get back to normal. I feel like if i can just grasp that one idea I will come out of the DPDR state and I’m frantically searching for the answers. Any tips? I sound mad I know 😂 it’s been 1 year for me
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
It seems like you have called control 'good' and no control 'bad', and that you're unwilling to let go of that (for now maybe) Asking these questions is like playing chess with life. You know you will never win but you keep trying anyways. At some point you will see that you can let go and surrender, and that will bring you peace. Sometimes the mind is just too stubbern for a long time and you have to be patient with that
@Drzhivago123
@Drzhivago123 6 ай бұрын
Hi Robin, I appreciate your videos as well as your course that I purchased a while back. In other videos I’ve heard you talk about Love as being something that exists as well as the concept of the universe (source/God) having our backs. Question, when it comes to love, a source, the universe having our backs, and, the idea that nothing is either good or evil…how do you see these ideas cohabitating? Is there a tension between love and the idea that nothing is bad/evil? Is love good? Is love an emotion we feel as a result of judgement or is it what’s experienced when we’re free of judgment? Would love to get your perspective!
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
Hi! Thank you for this question. I believe that we all strive for love intuïtively and that this is the purpose of our life. The reason I think this is because when we feel good, we stop searching and 'just are'. When we feel fear/angry/sad, we try to search for a way out. Love also is a harmonizing force. It creates, harmonizes, and connects, therefore creating a positive evolution the more we feel it. I believe that we have a choice on earth to choose love or to choose fear. and choosing that love is what we're meant to do (as we intuïtively feel that). If anyone ever created this life, if there is a god at all, then I believe they want us to strive for love, otherwise they would have us searching for fear. The more we choose love, the more harmony, the more evolution, the more connection. Now whether this evolution is 'good' or 'bad', doesn't matter. It just is the way it is. Seeing reality (love builds, fear/hatres breaks down), is different from having judgement. Judgement is a reaction to reality. Love therefore is not the same as 'good'. Love just is :) and fear just is a lack of love. Choosing love is choosing to accept things as they are and choosing fear is choosing to reject things as they are. You therefore create love by renouncing judgement, and create fear by holding onto judgement. ex: you love someone when you accept them as they are completely, and this love is what heals and connects us as people, therefore avoiding more pain in the future. If you judge someone as 'bad', you will treat them bad and hurt them more, making them hurt others more as well (this is ofcourse an over-simplification) In the first part of the course I have a segment in which I explain this a bit further :) but feel free to let me know if you have more questions
@dikshitabarman2401
@dikshitabarman2401 6 ай бұрын
Hey ,Robin one of your oldest vedio of low of attraction you said that the outer world is the mirror of our inner self , i didn't get it ,im so scared,im currently dealing with solipsism syndrome and i saw an article that says the outside world is just reflection of our inner self ,does that mean the outside world doesn't exist or its just me that only perceiving the reality 😢im so scared plz help me , i cant sleep at night because of it
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
Hi darling, first of all, take a deep breath :) What this means is that when you feel anxious, your perception of things is much darker than when you're happy. Reality physically doesn't look different to you, but you feel very different about it. You focus on different things, you interpret events differently, ... For example: walking down your hometown can be different if you feel anxious or depressed, versus when you're happy.
@adentran241
@adentran241 Ай бұрын
bro hows you doing now
@malint886
@malint886 4 ай бұрын
The problem is not just extential question..the real problem is when you struggle with your religion believes and faith
@homiekeen23
@homiekeen23 6 ай бұрын
you haven't actually discovered anything 🤣🤣🤣 love that
@fate3670
@fate3670 5 ай бұрын
I’m sick of this 😢
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 5 ай бұрын
Don't give up sweetheart. You can get through it ❤️
@2seconds992
@2seconds992 6 ай бұрын
You, and everyone who holds this view, have had a GOOD life compared to many (99.99% of living things?). If you had a 💩 life, you would wish for better, desire better, believe in something better (more good). 🙋 Byyeeee
@robinschindelka2117
@robinschindelka2117 6 ай бұрын
I don't agree with what you're saying. I believe in evolution and progress. I believe that we should definitely move towards less suffering because life = evolution. However, in order for there to be growth and progress, there sometimes needs to be suffering. Just like in evolution of species, there is adaptation to struggle, in the evolution of life, there is adaptation and growth from struggle as well. Also, you have no idea how my life has been 😉 I've had plenty of very difficult and painful experiences, but I choose to see them as opportunities for growth and bettering the person that I am. Hopefully you can open yourself up to a more optimistic view on things. All the best to you.
@2seconds992
@2seconds992 6 ай бұрын
@@robinschindelka2117 It's still a 'no'from me. Sorry.
@alvacarlsson5762
@alvacarlsson5762 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for making these videos and sharing your insights and experiences 🌸✨🩷
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