Marina Concannon agreed

Hallelujah

I forget about this

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It changed my life

thats not good though. Its hard but you gotta buck up and do it.

Alfred Pardoe listen to what Steve said

Sooo true...and the jacked up part of this...there are women out there who once you tell them you don't want them, they can't take that for what it is and walk away no matter HOW many times you say it, show it or both.

kncox81 bro do you have a link to that

That is true

Truth

Thank you 🙏

It's true.its foolish to go where you're not wanted.

-Maya Angelou

But don't forget to move accordingly when he shows you who he is. We can see it all day long, and then do nothing.

The FIRST time!

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Wow congratulations 🥺🥺🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Amen!

Chances are, he's waiting on you to so it or attempting to lead you into doing it depending on his actions.

Men need to speak openly....... Just say it's not working out....I think they don't want to end up empty handed, but we ladies know we will survive.💁

Me too. I feel much better!

Yeah cause being open and honest with a woman always works out. Lol

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WIGAHOLIC 14 I don't believe that true after getting cheated I broke it off right away

exactly her point, you were the one who broke it off not him

I always thought it was the other way around.

Truth.. Cowards do that

I do this

You go girl🙌 It's never too late. I hope you're doing well 😊.

I am going through this now. Can I ask what his actions were

What you have said has exactly happened to me. Through his actions he showed me he didn't want me, even though I would try my hardest to keep him happy it was like anything I did was not good enough so il tell him "I think it's time we break up," but he didn't like the sound of that and would try & argue with me about it making me out that it's my fault. I wanted out because I would of rather be alone then be in a relationship with someone who wasn't 100% Real with me. It was all fake love. I ain't dumb I knew exactly why he tried to hang on to me was for his benefits. I'm now 6days out of this relationship and I know as each day goes by I'm more closer to getting myself back, getting myself healed again and living a happy life

Well done!! Keep going.

You will be fine...the more you take care of yourself....the less effect he will have had on you. He was probably a narcissist. Those things are everywhere...they don't even seem like people....a different species I'd say🤔🤨🥴

Shadia Ali your are 100 percent correct. Men like too keep the door open your the back up plan. If new the relationship don't work out. In his mind he believes. He can comeback too you. I nail the door shut not reopen again. I'm at place in my life right now. I don't need any details once you tell me you want out that's closure for me. It clear you don't want me their is nothing else too talk about deuces!!!!

Never be someone’s Option.

I will NOT subject myself to that pain by trying to hold on especially when he tells you it is over!

Waiting to get to the alter. Once the I do is done ✅. It’s on 🤣🤣🤣👶👶👶

FACTS!! They swear the mistress is much better. Whole time she plotting your murder. lol

@@StopSelfDoubting right 😂

First one seemed really dumb tbh.

@@feisalelkiwi4477 yes women can be very indecisive as well. The third one was the best and the burning of the bridges the second.

So true what Steve says… damn, wish I knew this when I was younger

5. Because of 4, it's not necessary your fault. The truth is that 98% of the time, you were an option and he just found a better option

@@noemie9579Not always necessarily better, but almost always a better target.

not necessarily... I had to break up with a girl cos after 6years, there were grey areas that i know for sure i can't allow or take into Marriage... It was painful but i had no girl lined up. I just had to do what was best for me. So your theory may not entirely be correct. BTW, she is my first and only relationship as of then

DeeRock Im sorry to hear that you two went on different paths but in my theory I was siding with what Steve said. The majority of men will have a side piece/back up plan if they do decide to leave there woman. not all men but a good 98%

+dj french you're right. it's like a job. A man isn't ending the relationship (even if he isn't satisfied) unless there's someone else to go to. It's why you see men in long relationships they aren't happy in. Haven't found a replacement so not enough impetus to leave.

DeeRock The exception doesn't negate the rule. You must be in the minority.

***** That's the point...So assume the lady knows how to cook, or she is nice at something(whatever the thing may be).. A guy could get her to cook all his food, or just get whatever benefits she has until he's ready to move on.. You can call it dependency.. but that's a woman's language. A man really don't look at it that way since he has switched his emotion. Just say he will use her for as long as he can. Men tend to have control of their emotion more than women.

i really dont understand when women say responsibility of a men you are confusing us, what is a men.

This is so true just went through this. Im very hurt but he is not worth it.

my hubby left after new yr .left me with a baby. we been together for 6 yrs. married for 2 yrs. he left said bec he needed to save money n lived with his co wrker female n 3 of her minor kids. it hurts me to my core.until today i dnt undesrtand why he left. i done everything to be a good wife. im really hurt.

@@honeybarnett9299 I'm sorry that happened to you. Please watch assc direct on KZfaq. Quinn specializes in NPD. I think this will help you now and in the future 😇

It happens. It happened to me and If I could give a BIG ASS Thank you!!! What you hold on to is holding you back

So true.

Arlene Williams

Arlene Williams He's done because he's doing wrong.

@@dorisnoel7881 yes I totally agree

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If you no longer have feelings for someone it does not matter i she goood or bad if the relationship is over is over.

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Why you say that.

Or wear or what hairstyle to use...or a multitude of other things.

Can't argue with you guys there,

Alex Chiu We decisive on everything besides that😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Women are impulsive, not decisive.

Alex Chiu more like impulsive

Sadiya Halanle Although I agree with you, I also think the blonde woman made some sense too. I was able to agree with her 3rd point. I've lived that 3rd point on a few different occasions lol.

I know of a powerful man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

Whtsaap him"**

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Hey!Hope your feeling better :)

Pain is temporary.. Eventually it will subside. What's meant for you will never leave you. You will be alright.

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Yes, a lot of it boils down to options.

She's so motivating !! I love her

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Paula Laye I’m sorry. :-/

me too. i feel u

Paula Laye So sorry to hear that. Curious, what were his actions saying?

Sometimes God takes people out of our life for a reason.

Be alone your whole life then.

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