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The Paradox of Improving in BJJ (A Rule for your BJJ)

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Chewjitsu

Chewjitsu

2 жыл бұрын

With 20+ years of grappling and competing you learn a few things.
And today I’m going to give you an important rule for your Brazilian Jiu-jitsu training. Probably 1/3 of the questions I received revolve around some form this idea.
That rule is. . .
You must understand the paradox of BJJ progression.
Here’s what I mean.
On one hand you remove your dependency on the outcome. A lot of times this gets worded to something like trust the process or love the journey not the destination.
From personal experience. Detaching myself from the immediate outcome was one of the biggest breakthroughs I ever experienced in BJJ. It freed me from worry and allowed me to become more aggressive, creative and unafraid of “what ifs”.
Here’s the flipside to that.
You still have to recognize good performances and bad performances.Or perhaps you prefer well executed vs poorly executed techniques. When you fail you can’t simply dust it under the rug and ignore it to focus on the journey. You need to break it apart, dissect it and crack open the lessons to be learned from the experience.
It’s a balancing act.
You have to roll like failures don’t exist but objectively look at every failure with a magnifying glass.
And truly understanding this paradox is one of the key ingredients for having a good mindset for getting better at BJJ. At least in my furry faced opinion.
-Chewy
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@The_YouTube_Critic
@The_YouTube_Critic 2 жыл бұрын
"The lion is not concerned with failure, it only makes him more hungry" - Rorden Gracie
@KAP32DW
@KAP32DW 2 жыл бұрын
Great comment!
@wafflescripter9051
@wafflescripter9051 2 жыл бұрын
"The lion only feels the rage to eat the gazelle. He does not get curious about the deer he eats every day. The lion does not get full of gazelle." -Rorden Gracie
@graysonchavis
@graysonchavis 2 жыл бұрын
@@BarHarborMoOse beautiful mindset brother keep training, you can only get better with that attitude and consistency, cheers from a four stripe white belt
@stephenroach8033
@stephenroach8033 11 ай бұрын
Watching these videos has been a gift. They helped get my mind right and even stay motivated. Starting in my 50s i don't have alot of time waste so i decided to do normal classes/go live then once a week i do a private lesson and pick 1 or 2 areas that caused me problems during a live roll that week. Best money i could've spent. After nearly 3 months I'm more than holding my own against more senior white belts, and even surprise a blue belt from time to time. I know its not cheap but to me the lessons are priceless.
@zubayergillarkyckling7832
@zubayergillarkyckling7832 2 жыл бұрын
3 steps: 1. Train and compete like you wont do any misstakes 2. Realize your mistakes after 3. Think about these mistakes before your next or match and act to fix them
@rollinOnCode
@rollinOnCode Жыл бұрын
don't fix. master it
@psyience3213
@psyience3213 2 жыл бұрын
It's always been so satisfying going to class one night, feeling like a killer, only to get my guard passed by a white belt. Then go home and ponder, what do i have to do to prevent. Come up with a solution and then execute it successfully next training session.
@axb321
@axb321 2 жыл бұрын
"Failure is the currency by which we pay for our success later on"... 11 more of the these and it sounds like we should have a Chewjitsu wall calendar... awesome content, as usual!
@kyle52245
@kyle52245 2 жыл бұрын
Two good mindsets, but used independently. Don't worry about the outcome, just go for it, have fun, try new stuff. However, afterwards, look back on it and see what worked and what didn't. Why? Analyze, Tweak, Adjust and go have fun again! This makes so much sense with other areas of life, "live in the moment" I think is referring to the same thing: Don't focus on the outcome or "what ifs". Failure of poor execution can easily come from lack of confidence. Worrying about the outcome or what could happen can create doubt and lower your confidence. Nobody knows whats going to happen, so just get after it and then re-evaluate afterwards!
@ilyaibrahimovic9842
@ilyaibrahimovic9842 2 жыл бұрын
"Do not try to create and analyze at the same time. They are different processes" - John Cage He's right. Create as if mistakes don't exist; analyze (post hoc) as if there is imperfection in everything.
@hitman47784
@hitman47784 2 жыл бұрын
Nice video. Makes a lot of sense
@kumai77
@kumai77 2 жыл бұрын
Man... Such a nice video. If it wasn't done already, I would have SUBSCRIBED again! :)
@user-bv1tv9ef9y
@user-bv1tv9ef9y 2 жыл бұрын
One of the most important mindset change evry beginner needs to make
@kingkaotic1368
@kingkaotic1368 2 жыл бұрын
Man I'm fresh into jitsu and your who I listen to on a day I feel I got pounced keep up the great videos look forward to 20 years down the road when I see how far I go with it.
@Sierra_HooverBJJ
@Sierra_HooverBJJ 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! Once I started thinking like this in my training it made EVERYTHING more fun and allowed me to expand past my comfort zone. It’s helped me in competition because I started to look at tournaments like another training session/open mat where at the end of it I wanted to learn something and get better!
@fernandotvchannel
@fernandotvchannel 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u great man!! 20 years wow thats awsome.
@neilgregory9083
@neilgregory9083 2 жыл бұрын
No mistakes or losses, only lessons. Hard lessons granted but lessons all the same. ;-)
@FR-ty5vn
@FR-ty5vn 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant - never hear it presented as a paradox - it really is… And it made me think if you do this you progress much faster because you’re willing to make the mistakes (right away) that you will correct (thereafter) and continually improve your game at a faster rate than the student who is too conservative & fears making any mistake, yet makes the biggest mistake of all…
@thorbreakseverything1836
@thorbreakseverything1836 2 жыл бұрын
Had a tournament oct 31, this video sums up where my head has been at for two days.
@KAP32DW
@KAP32DW 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. It is so on point for me right now. Why? I was tired and got thrashed...beating myself up about don’t go roll if your not on your A game. Well I learned a lot...but my ego/end game was upset. This video helps me let that shit go (I was working on it to as well) and focus on the good. Excellent mindset/mental lesson.
@Aleccook
@Aleccook 2 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of the quote “ Good judgement come from experience and experience usually comes from bad judgements”.
@christopher2215
@christopher2215 2 жыл бұрын
Love the content, please keep it coming
@etherealessence
@etherealessence 2 жыл бұрын
My instructor says "Be connected, but not attached." I say "I suck and that's okay." Same thing.
@CanaleAV
@CanaleAV 2 жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom right there
@ScottieFindsFish
@ScottieFindsFish 2 жыл бұрын
the podcast on this was excellent
@Chewjitsu
@Chewjitsu 2 жыл бұрын
This video was supposed to go out Friday. Same day as recording goes. I got busy. 😂 A little repetition isn’t bad. Helps drive the ideas home.
@livetheater5281
@livetheater5281 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t really understand the beating yourself up ideology. I recall seeing people gets so pissed off about having to tap. If something is your passion then you’ll do it not matter win or lose. If you love music but you suck at singing and guitar, who cares what matters is your passionate about it and will improve slowly if any at all. Calm Down. Where do you think your going to accomplish stressing out?
@HeavenestStCyr
@HeavenestStCyr Жыл бұрын
Failure is the currency that we use to pay for our success in the future" - Chewie
@fupasaan
@fupasaan 2 жыл бұрын
Good information chewy
@TruthSubjective
@TruthSubjective 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@zubayergillarkyckling7832
@zubayergillarkyckling7832 2 жыл бұрын
Also: Is it wise/good to compete 1 month into bjj against guys that have been traning for 1 year?
@gianttigerfilms
@gianttigerfilms 2 жыл бұрын
ahhh probably, you'll learn something but it will hurt your record as long as you feel you can be safe and not hurt someone or yourself go for it
@metemercan1147
@metemercan1147 2 жыл бұрын
Love you Chewy
@ghostferatu6241
@ghostferatu6241 2 жыл бұрын
3:30 But I have no friends :(
@lumpanimalyt971
@lumpanimalyt971 2 жыл бұрын
Hey chewy can you help me with a predicament I’m currently enrolled in an MMA gym that I where I train in BJJ and a few other martial arts but I talked to my coach about enrolling in a BJJ gym a little closer to me so I could train more but not have to drive for 30min to train during open mat both coaches talked to each other and blessed off on it but they never discussed how the belts would work between the gyms (BJJ+Judo)
@tristanmorton1057
@tristanmorton1057 2 жыл бұрын
I’m new to pure bjj. I go 4-5 days a week and have background knowledge in wrestling(2 years) and a few years of mma training that brushed over bjj w catch wrestling. How long should I expect to be a white belt for
@kobejordan5518
@kobejordan5518 2 жыл бұрын
FOREVER
@noobzoar
@noobzoar 2 жыл бұрын
Be excited about your mistakes.
@jimreily7538
@jimreily7538 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice but making that mindset transition isn't easy. Because if you roll like making mistakes doesn't exist, won't you just be a spaz all the time ? I personally try a lot of visualisation and writing moves down as I learn visually (and through repeating components of moves) but drills often go pretty quickly and they're pretty complex, at least for me, a few months in.
@FR-ty5vn
@FR-ty5vn 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think you need to spaz - I believe he means don’t be afraid to go for that Armbar you see or try to take the back or whatever because you’re afraid to lose your good position or because you might get caught with something - go for it, and if you make a mistake just analyze it later and patch that hole in your game. Chewy can correct me if I’m wrong…😜
@SenseiEmmett
@SenseiEmmett 2 жыл бұрын
@SenseiEmmett
@SenseiEmmett 2 жыл бұрын
@chewy Any advice for a 37 year old starting out in jiujitsu, not concerned with belts, just enioying the journey, but I want to compete a little for the expeirence of it. I competed at kickboxing in my teens, and want to recapture a little of it again just for fun.
@graciescottsdale
@graciescottsdale 2 жыл бұрын
@@SenseiEmmett Tap early and often. :-)
@SenseiEmmett
@SenseiEmmett 2 жыл бұрын
@@graciescottsdale thanks, im on the right path then. Im getting tapped at will by everyone at the minute and loving it, ive learned so much already from just tapping over and over.
@DonavanBarraza
@DonavanBarraza 2 жыл бұрын
good day
@gilbertopequenoiii7961
@gilbertopequenoiii7961 2 жыл бұрын
Dang
@02468
@02468 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a simple man, I see Chew drop a vid. I click and like.
@hastii36
@hastii36 2 жыл бұрын
Hope the bump above, and to the left of your left eye isn't anything serious!!
@Chewjitsu
@Chewjitsu 2 жыл бұрын
It’s not.
@drauc
@drauc 2 жыл бұрын
Be independent of the outcome
@drauc
@drauc 2 жыл бұрын
Analyze your mistakes, they are what help you grow and move forward. Also the difference between theory vs practice
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