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The Pillars Of A Strong Identity (How To Be Grounded In Your Own Reality)
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Күн бұрынJulien Blanc reveals what he did and the questions he asked himself to build a strong identity...
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Julien Blanc is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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The Pillars Of A Strong Identity (How To Be Grounded In Your Own Reality)
In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to have a strong sense of self and how to build a strong identity!
Discover how to have a strong identity and how to be grounded in your own reality!
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@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
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@johnd1282 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Julian.....
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnd1282 Merry Christmas!
@adk6998 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Julian! Indeed you're doing IMPORTANT work man..
@Fer-De-Lance 2 жыл бұрын
Be true to yourself. Thanks Julien.
@becsta365 10 ай бұрын
My issue is trusting the world - my bike career stolen due to cheats, a trainer told me I was hopeless little shit, and couldn’t fit in, so I decided to stay away from people/groups so not to get hurt - now 50 and must break this. Face it and let it go. I make friends very easily but I’ve shut them off…with your teachings I’m beginning finally to simply let it go and “be me” and connect again and pursue my real calling in life…🙏
@bull_Tattoo 2 жыл бұрын
You have to allow yourself to feel your negative energy and think accurately about it. that's pretty much all "letting go" is. The more you allow yourself to sit in painful emotions the stronger you get
@ayesha8809 2 жыл бұрын
Ugh ok
@HollowIchigo3D 2 жыл бұрын
This is the lesson i learned lately. Before that, everytime I felt bad I tried to force myself out of feeling bad instead of just accepting that I am feeling bad now and that this is just the mood I have right now. The result of trying to force my way out of grief and just continue with life was a disaster. I made impulsive decisions (which now haunt me in the form of debt), I doorslammed a lot of people and burned myself out in the process. That's because all my decisions came from a state of grief. Instead of trying to look for solutions to the phases you feel bad I should've asked myself "How do I survive these phases? How do minimize the damage from them?" Because they are gonna happen either way. none of us is made to feel good constantly.
@rue1x25 2 жыл бұрын
I try bro that’s how you accept your shadow side is what I heard but my past.. it’s been hard I been sort of praying
@diegomiranda1952 2 жыл бұрын
Im sorry that’s wrong. Haha. The book Letting Go that Julian references is simple and yet beautifully complex and the simple process Dr Hawkins offers is decoupling emotion from thought. So sitting with the emotion and letting the thousands of thoughts one emotion causes arise and NOT paying attention to any thought, simply letting them happen, like swimming through them. You do this when the same emotion arises enough times that it cures it to let go of you and you of it, sometimes it doesn’t, there’s a whole section in the back of the back of the book where there’s warnings of times this technique does not and cannot work. It seems to mostly work so why not try it.
@rexythet-rex3513 Жыл бұрын
Can you define “think accurately”?
@ryanhughes1101 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve built my life to the point that I don’t even schedule it. Scheduling it is still a task that follows the paradigm of work. Allow it to come to you and take it when it’s right.
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Nice! Glad that works for you!
@OwenCookSelfHelp 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas bro and great video !!! -Owen
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas, man! Thank you!! 🙏
@mixopablidis5098 2 жыл бұрын
Why do you always quote yourself?😂
@roofabncvlogs5300 2 жыл бұрын
You two has changed my life Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
@felipejzrd 2 жыл бұрын
@@mixopablidis5098 He is living in the email times, just like me 😂
@FadyoG 2 жыл бұрын
Love how they always find time to comment on each other videos
@FabianGuppenberger 2 жыл бұрын
It‘s incredible that you put this video. It fits perfectly 1:1 to my inner struggle. I‘m always being dragged by all this opinions into different directions, always saying „yes“ to everyone and everything, instead of taking a break and really ponder, what I value in my own life & where I wanna go. Thanks so much for this Julien, really appreciate it🙏🏻
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Great takeaway! Glad this resonated with you! 🙏
@focusedallday5620 2 жыл бұрын
I know exactly where you're coming from. I have been a rebellious person my whole life who had a problem with authority especially coming from the women in my family. Know I live my life by design, which means that everything in my life is there because I choose it to be.
@Jester2b04 2 жыл бұрын
I completely can relate. This video is GOLD.
@privateequityguy 2 жыл бұрын
*9 things to quit for all Strong Minded People:* 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Chasing meaningless relationships 7. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 8. Wasting time by scrolling social media 9. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
@mattshepherd1736 2 жыл бұрын
If I added up all the time I spent taking my sossage hostage and spent it improving myself I wouldn’t need to do it ever again
@Jamse. Жыл бұрын
I've spent my whole life stuck inside my own head, since the age of like... 14 I was reading the likes of Nietzsche non stop, and thinking. I've always loved my mind; loved being alone with myself, so In a sense I'm already halfway there, because I'm already comfortable with myself at my core, I love to experience my consciousness, as it drifts through my mind: wind to the soul, nothing more. I've cultivated a rich inner world, which I love, but now I'm ready to project this inner confidence externally. I'm awesome, I want to run with it, rather than quietly marinating in it.
@Mixo1998 3 ай бұрын
That's so beautiful my friend I hope the best happens to you
@aminahmadi7581 2 жыл бұрын
5:10 providing value to people while interacting would lead to you not being pulled into different directions, by other people, and generating your own reality/ being grounded in it. 5:30 be your own hero, role model. Be your own idol. Don't ask for answers in life, take responsibility. 6:00 but don't be stuck up. 11:48 let go of the scarcity paradigm , that people are scary, the world is scary, etc.
@becsta365 10 ай бұрын
Yes - life changing and quickly life changing once you get it - only wish I had found Julien earlier…quite the very best 🎉
@focusedallday5620 2 жыл бұрын
One of the most helpful pieces of advice I ever heard was from another Dating/Manhood coach on KZfaq called Mr. Locario. He said, " You have to live your life by design. Everything that is in your life should be there because you allowed it to be." Now I live exactly like that and it is amazing! Stay Focused Guys!
@josephmorgan3396 2 жыл бұрын
Wow that part about not scamming and also the part about parents was absolutely amazing. Well done this is not the content to be monetized. It should be for everybody. Thank you
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Glad this resonated! 🙏
@erhanalankus 2 жыл бұрын
This video pulled me out of my depression. I'm productive again after doing nothing for weeks. Thanks.
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing to hear this was so helpful!
@glazeHDMI 2 жыл бұрын
I bought the HVC couple days ago and i'm so excited for the launch! I wanna thank you for putting out so much free amazing content as well. Much love!
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing! You've gifted yourself one hell of a product! I'll see you on the inside... 😉
@tatakea3518 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a introverted person who just came out of a psychosis and I just released that the glasses where on me. This video helped me so f much. So thank you. Cause dam has it been 2 years . and im 23
@stuvlog 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Julien! Love and value your content so much! 👌🏻
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! Merry Christmas!
@SmiteKite 2 жыл бұрын
The papa life is shown on your belly bro! Stay fit 💪 Thanks again for your vid. Very helpful.
@juicyMoviemaking 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Thanks Julien, this is a true Christmas gift for me i appreciate this I'll do my best to make these lessons STICK
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas!! You're very welcome! 🔥👊
@DerekVidell 2 жыл бұрын
Julien, your videos found me exactly when they needed to. Thank you
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing to hear! You're very welcome!
@NewFresvCity_1996 2 жыл бұрын
Hey man I just wanna say As Salam wa Alaikum and may God continue to bless and protect you now and forever for all the good that you do and that I found this video to be very awesome, Informative and helpful! 🇺🇸🇦🇱🇧🇩☪️
@gareth7762 2 жыл бұрын
Peace brother
@gareth7762 2 жыл бұрын
I've been learning about improv and comedy, I feel like I don't bring enough to a conversation. I'm good at starting it and keeping it going but I don't talk about myself, the things I'm interested in are self help, psychology philosophy, stocks, fixing things, music, the people I'm around can't relate to me and I fear I seem pretentious if I talk about this stuff, so we end up talking about them or their interests. I noticed a while ago that 'banter' seems to be the universal language. People with nothing in common can vibe through it. So how do I get some banter and put good vibes out there, comedy and improv I think. The question I have is, is this inauthentic? To add to my skillset? Or is it ingratiating myself to others, is ingratiating myself to others even a bad thing in a collaborative society? Help!
@Synox89 2 жыл бұрын
I would say that is is not a bad thing to get along with strangers and new acquaintances through banter. But if it is your only source of interaction with others, you will start to feel like something is missing. The topics that interest you are not particularly exotic and there are plenty of people out there that love talking about them as well (myself included), so maybe you should try to get yourself exposed more to new people until you find "your tribe"?
@gareth7762 2 жыл бұрын
@@Synox89 something missing, like a deeper connection, it'd be superficial otherwise right? You're probably right and if I did master banter I'd probably desire more, that's the human condition. To some they may not be very exotic subjects but the people I find myself around, seem to gravitate towards drinking, different sports, bets and gossip. They have no interest in these subjects is my point. These things just don't tickle my brain and I can only be enthusiastic for so long. One guy comes to mind, he likes thrifting and going to charity shops to pick up bargains. He makes it sound funny as he gets very enthusiastic about it, he was telling me today he picked up 2nd hand shoes for £3, they looked terrible but he came back at me with "it's alright I put new insoles in them", made me chuckle. I think comedy adds value and is a good trade off for common interests. He's the pratfall effect in action. A load of rambling there, what are you interested in, you intrigued me when you said you had some similar interests.
@Synox89 2 жыл бұрын
@@gareth7762 Yeah, try getting out there to find people who "click" more on these subjects. I am far from calling myself skilled in repairing stuff but it often struck me that I get a feeling of satisfaction whenever I manage to repair something and extend its life even just bit more - like my 13 yo bike or repairing my phone instead of buying a new one. Also, music is a topic a lot of people like talking about. I play the piano and have developed some good understanding of harmonies. I just wish I felt music more but thats a different story. So yeah, dont feel discouraged if you feel like your social circle doesnt match your interests.
@bull_Tattoo 2 жыл бұрын
The universe and God has a way of rewarding those willing to authentically face their own pain head on
@S4MBONE 2 жыл бұрын
You're at the cause when you don't get threatened and can allow every thought to complete itself. A natural solution emerges once a thought has been completed.
@MagicalGalaxies112 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Julien,is there such a thing as letting go of the desire to be real/authentic? I started letting go and there was a phase where I was grounded in my reality and I really enjoyed the inner peace but I started to get attached to it and now I'm back to all the self- doubt and shit.
@HiteshHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing content You have changed my life so much Merry Christmas Julien
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing to hear! In what way did your life change btw? 🙂
@mariobauer007 2 жыл бұрын
On point as always!! Great!
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@ruferbor 2 жыл бұрын
Julien, You are the reallest person that I have found on KZfaq... Real advise, to real People, You are Reality, Thank You From Portugal.
@Capital_E 2 жыл бұрын
Great piece, thanks for sharing
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@health-generation268 2 жыл бұрын
great stuff always
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@m.scottsnelten5777 2 жыл бұрын
Good video. It fed my soul. That’s what I needed.
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@leonardofernandez2230 2 жыл бұрын
Great for making this video. More wisdom inflicted this video.
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Glad you enjoyed it!
@leslacez 2 жыл бұрын
thanks for the content
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! 🙏
@petromusic23 Жыл бұрын
Wow! This might be one of the most helpful videos that I have ever heard! Thanks you! 👊
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! You're welcome!
@KingCol 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Julien 🔥
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas!
@diegoosman767 2 жыл бұрын
Damn bro, this is mind blowing❤️🙏🏻thank you
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@SkinnyMinnie377 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Julien 🙏🏻
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome! 🙏
@RicardoPicena Жыл бұрын
Bro, I Thought I Knew About Personal Growth…Then KZfaq Introduced Me To Julien Last Year & Wow! I legit Need Friends Like Him…I’m Usually “The Julien” Of The Group 🙏🤠Namaste Brother! Hugs & May You Continue To Spread Love & Light ❤️
@Selfmagnet 2 жыл бұрын
This caught my eye. You were talking to me! “Introspection”. Happy holidays.
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing! This video goes DEEP, enjoy! Happy Holidays!! 🙏
@allanmeloam93 2 жыл бұрын
This video really helped me! Thank you Julien
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing to hear! What was your biggest takeaway?
@allanmeloam93 2 жыл бұрын
@@JulienHimself The point on crucial conversations. I had an argument with my girlfriend and I couldn't see how the situation was about looking for a solution, not being in the way.
@immarudamu4508 2 жыл бұрын
Nuggets of gold in these videos, wish you guys wrote a book!
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Writing a book is actually on my "to do list" in the next year or two! 😉
@gerben5419 2 жыл бұрын
Only 60 comments!??? Then I feel obliged to thank you for this marvellous dense piece of knowledge! This will blow up someday...
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 🙏
@StArkyBuildZ 11 ай бұрын
Goddamn it I love you Julien!! Thanks buddy 👍
@6lu5ky86 2 жыл бұрын
Times when all the electricity has gone out and I don't even have a phone are honestly when I get a hell of lot of soul searching done. If you have to cut the power in order to get in some contemplation I'd recommended it. Find your breaker box and shut everything down, even better if you're out in the country with little noise.
@eccentric2914 2 жыл бұрын
Same here mannn!!!
@poppyconnor4249 2 жыл бұрын
i love this song 🔥☺
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Song? 🤔
@krishajain384 2 жыл бұрын
So many learnings in just 21 mins. Wow
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Glad this resonated with you! 🙏
@VincentWilkinKora 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Always! 🙏
@Nicoladen1 2 жыл бұрын
Rule #1 in life You're 100% responsible for your experience of life. Wether good or bad, it's on you. Wether you get upset or not is on you. Wether you resist these compulsive reactions that you're so enslaved by or not is a choice. Wether you accept life or resent it is your choice. You cannot not make a choice. Because that's still you having made the choice to not make a choice. So choose wisely, because it's always 100% on you.
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed! 🙏
@Larry21924 5 ай бұрын
This is top-of-the-line. I recently enjoyed a similar book, and it was top-of-the-line. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
@mitotv6376 2 жыл бұрын
Nice
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Thx!
@KalkiAvatarATWAR 2 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas Lord of The Horde, stoked for the release of HVC ⚡⚡
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Lol, thx man! Thanks for also watching so many vids & lives and commenting on them! Definitely a "horde elder" 🔥👊
@maxhall7832 2 жыл бұрын
I like this guy
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Welcome to the channel! 🙌
@Solaris501 2 жыл бұрын
Damn you’re good. New subscriber.
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the channel! Thank you!
@kareemmohammed5270 2 жыл бұрын
resonate
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Boom! 👊
@hajar_assab3i Жыл бұрын
Wow i like this guy's way of direct and forward advice 😂
@alvaroreyes8914 2 жыл бұрын
Good
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@ozgeonay1421 2 ай бұрын
My cheesiness :) This is something I am incorporating recently, and noticing that it draws people in to me like moths to the light:)
@ditystanut 8 ай бұрын
So... I wa sbullied at school, and than had only one friend which I lost when i moved to another city, then had an only one best friend at the university, then had no friends except internet ones, and then lost them too. In the meantime, the war in my country started. It is just pretty logical to find the world dangerous now.
@ditystanut 8 ай бұрын
But I found new friends and will see how it turns out)
@kevinsoria-ortega6221 2 жыл бұрын
Deep nicce
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
You know it!
@bytecode5834 2 жыл бұрын
Clothes? much better now Thanks for the video Julien
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@alexkthegreat 2 жыл бұрын
Julien I loved this video, but I don't understand. Listening to this, I remembered your older video about confidence, which - if I'm not mistaken - is related to identity. How could one have the same confidence when they are on the rock bottom, so they don't have any authority? It feels like one should "fake it 'til make it".
@danethenice 2 жыл бұрын
No matter where you are in life, if you're consistently working on your purpose you'll feel more and more confident over time. It comes from experience, knowing who you are (identity), dealing with hardships and valuing the right things (internal vs external things). You can't really fake confidence. You can fake appearing confident, even to yourself, but it won't last. It's not based on reality and deep down you'll always know this, even if you're not really aware of it. Think of it like this: why would someone try to appear to seem more confident than they genuinely feel? Because they don't feel confident being authentic and vulnerable. They believe they have to appear stronger than they feel. The more they try to fake it the more they tell themselves their authentic self is not good enough.
@becsta365 10 ай бұрын
🙌
@ryanhughes1101 2 жыл бұрын
When someone tells me a movie sucks - it usually makes me like it more and vice versa.
@jayram5226 2 жыл бұрын
Ola misha Migos
@MrPodgikins 2 жыл бұрын
I schedule an entire 5 days to do this haha 😶
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@JfaJosephR9 2 жыл бұрын
He's dressed like he just woke up after a power nap after a long day of working on the farm. Really smart guy though and very insightful
@jackjack4412 2 жыл бұрын
You look like a veggie tale character
@breakthecycle5238 2 жыл бұрын
this guy is doing his laundry down the hall 🤣🤣🤣
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@MichaelNavidJampour 2 жыл бұрын
I really recommend the guru Sri Sri Ravi Shankar. He always says meditation is the art of doing nothing.
@urdadshusband781 2 жыл бұрын
What if you come to bad conclusions in your meditations? Like life is meaningless, values are pointless in a cruel world, etc.
@TurningTesting 2 жыл бұрын
Who defines meaning and value? How they are defined? How does one differentiate what's goes in a box of 'good'/'bad'? Are there any more boxes? How are those boxes constructed ? Who puts a label on the box? Are the letters hand written or printed? Can a box be constructed by one and labeled by other? Who benefits from meaninglessness and pointlessness of values? What would *you* benefit from? Please, say hi to my dad, I miss him sometimes
@Mixo1998 3 ай бұрын
@@TurningTestingyou were in a different galaxy when you were writing that comment my friend
@gordonbecker1456 2 жыл бұрын
People have treated me like shit just for existing basically my entire life. Kinda hard to believe otherwise
@amansinghrajawat8258 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Julien. I noticed you have put up a Lil weight. Is everything okay? Or you are planning something else. Much love from India 🇮🇳... - Aman
@Jaivu-fo4rv 2 жыл бұрын
what if Ferb went into the manosphere
@woojo7 2 жыл бұрын
If he was any good at what he says to do he would switch the word "you" to "i"
@rue1x25 2 жыл бұрын
Why
@_Trakman 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. This is the shit. I want to work with you 1-on-1 but you're probably $3000/hr
@JulienHimself 2 жыл бұрын
Glad this resonates with you! If you're interested in private coaching btw, you can apply here for more details: www.julienhimself.com/mentoring-application 👊
@TheFarmerozz 2 жыл бұрын
In a relationship Julian...Interesting, more wise than ever, at the same time, looking kinda sloppy man.
@laur2139 2 жыл бұрын
Nice but they that your dressed is so disheveled that it’s very distracting.
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