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Dr. Brené Brown is a researcher professor at the University of Houston, Graduate College of Social Work, where she has spent the past ten years studying a concept that she calls Wholeheartedness, posing the questions: How do we engage in our lives from a place of authenticity and worthiness? How do we cultivate the courage, compassion, and connection that we need to embrace our imperfections and to recognize that we are enough -- that we are worthy of love, belonging and joy? Brené is the author of I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn't): Telling the Truth About Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power (2007) and the forthcoming books, The Gifts of Imperfection (2010) and Wholehearted: Spiritual Adventures in Falling Apart, Growing Up, and Finding Joy ( 2011).
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@langlenmayengbam9297
@langlenmayengbam9297 2 ай бұрын
Who’s watching this in 2024🫂
@dwindlepatrick8433
@dwindlepatrick8433 Ай бұрын
This topic is still valid.
@AgboubiMouloud
@AgboubiMouloud 25 күн бұрын
I watched this video now
@emalabado
@emalabado 23 күн бұрын
Me
@emalabado
@emalabado 23 күн бұрын
Me
@SabyUsa1
@SabyUsa1 9 жыл бұрын
"You know what, you're imperfect and you're wired for struggle, but you're worthy of Love and Belonging." -Dr Brene Brown
@docbeepsjb
@docbeepsjb 5 жыл бұрын
Powerful...❤️👊🏾
@david_oliveira71
@david_oliveira71 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful.
@mitchellmckervey734
@mitchellmckervey734 3 жыл бұрын
She is so wonderful. This changed my way of thinking. Love her.
@changeeyecolor3891
@changeeyecolor3891 3 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍
@alliparker4084
@alliparker4084 2 жыл бұрын
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@trainingvisions
@trainingvisions 13 жыл бұрын
Fully embrace vulnerability! Have the courage to be imperfect! Do things without guarantees of success. Feeling worthiness is the key! Let go of who you think you should be and just be! You are good enough! You are worthy of love and belonging! You are enough!
@dreamchaser6381
@dreamchaser6381 Жыл бұрын
what risks did you take ? cheat on your husband without getting caught? LOL
@cynthiaogechukwu2974
@cynthiaogechukwu2974 Жыл бұрын
I'm here October 10 2022 and I have to say this woman speaks beautifully. Her choice of words and diction is top notch. I'm glad she didn't beat around the bush making pointless quotes and referencing other people or their works, she just hits the nail on the head. I can listen to her speak for hours, She's very commendable
@griffin0886
@griffin0886 10 жыл бұрын
The way she speaks makes you feel like she's having a conversation with you one on one. Very enjoyable.
@xabierpombo8704
@xabierpombo8704 7 жыл бұрын
griffin0886 que momonn
@lesleyelalami2562
@lesleyelalami2562 3 жыл бұрын
Soul connection.
@changeeyecolor3891
@changeeyecolor3891 3 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@FlorDeFerro
@FlorDeFerro 2 жыл бұрын
and not vulnerable, I'd say.
@sarahharb0
@sarahharb0 Жыл бұрын
Lyy
@yeseulshin920
@yeseulshin920 3 жыл бұрын
“Blame: a way to discharge pain and discomfort” it shed lights on why some people in my life were so harsh.
@dreyfalex
@dreyfalex 11 жыл бұрын
As a perfectionist, I need to listen to this every day. There is so much important material in this talk, it is hard to take it all in at one hearing. She only sneaks in the truth, however, that children who grow up to believe they are worthy of love and belonging, are raised by parents who give them that message. The rest of us are severely wounded and need deep and ongoing healing. Practicing gratitude and vulnerability is not so easy for those of us with this wound, but powerful medicine.
@lauralunaazul
@lauralunaazul 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@carshapeter1397
@carshapeter1397 Жыл бұрын
So true, thanks for sharing Sharon
@johnmarte8083
@johnmarte8083 Жыл бұрын
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@nancyewood
@nancyewood Жыл бұрын
@dreyfalex: Each one of us is unique, though, and that's the point that makes all the difference -- I grew up being raised by parents who loved me, nurtured me, supported me, and gave me the most wonderful life they possibly could (and it was estimable, since my Father was in the U.S. Army and we traveled overseas, and I was exposed to the good, honorable, artful, beautiful, and loving things in life) -- but I still have experienced the woundedness and need for deep and ongoing healing that you describe -- and I’m 75 -- But perhaps it came to me from another lifetime... perhaps I took the pain on to be inspired and moved to seek the experience for myself so I could become aware of and learn how to share the way through it with you and others in like pain… the shame... we never know. The Universe is 'waaay bigger than you -- we -- imagine, and the storylines and possibilities are WAAAAY HUGER than you’ve likely imagined. Watch a bunch of NDE videos on YT, and begin to get the Bigger Picture and see what the real story is -- thru each other unique person’s eyes and experience -- each and every story is different -- unique (look it up!) -- NONE OTHER EXACTLY LIKE IT -- and yet, It Still All Comes Down To LOVE, no matter the road and experiences we've followed to get ourselves there...
@comelypepper
@comelypepper 10 жыл бұрын
I love how the way she concludes. "That's all I have" captures the essence of the struggle between shame and self acceptance wonderfully.
@wontanajj7820
@wontanajj7820 2 жыл бұрын
do the little thing in your life that for poor people that help your feeling make you feel worthty that anti depress or you pray for other with your pure heart that you can
@ReyyanK
@ReyyanK 11 жыл бұрын
"They were willing to let go of who they thought they should be, in order to be who they were." Incredible, yet much easier said than done.
@coraautumn1130
@coraautumn1130 Жыл бұрын
Having parents who couldn’t show that to themselves meant they raised children who didn’t know how to show it to themselves either, parenting is such a massive contributor to this.
@BobSmith-ic5qo
@BobSmith-ic5qo 5 жыл бұрын
That was nine years ago and it still feels like cutting edge clarity on something that underpins everything we do and are. Brilliant.
@jvyoga
@jvyoga 11 жыл бұрын
WOW! Ironically I used the word Wholeheartedly on a video years ago at my brother's wedding. I had no idea others would make fun of me for using that word. I let that experience affect my self image for years. Thank you for this research story. You created a breakthrough in my life today. I live wholeheartedly and choose to speak authentically and lovingly embrace times when people, even family, make fun of me or don't quite get me! Thank you for giving me back the permission to be me.
@hazelgreen1001
@hazelgreen1001 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Inspiring words. Always be true to yourself x
@filmneye
@filmneye Жыл бұрын
It takes courage to live wholeheartedly and to speak your Truth, be your authentic self. I try to be my authentic self, which defies the Asian stereotypes that Society puts on my race, and is not met with acceptance by a lot of White folks. But I've gotta be me, so I forge onwards, and keep breaking those stereotypes!
@bonnierobinson8684
@bonnierobinson8684 Жыл бұрын
If you get here, give me a call. Callie, Mandie, Jeannie or Bobbie! 💗💗💗💗
@nancyewood
@nancyewood Жыл бұрын
Ohh, jvyoga, it makes me so happy to hear that you finally found relief and expanded awareness for yourself thru Brené's words (me too today)!! And the ironic part is -- see how loving and FAR AHEAD you actually were, instead of the "behind and less-than" as you imagined then... Great congratulations, and wishing you even more happiness to come...
@user-ne5gz3rq2t
@user-ne5gz3rq2t 7 ай бұрын
I have the same issues of family not always getting me. I live wholeheartedly as well.
@youyoua988
@youyoua988 2 жыл бұрын
Vulnerability is not always good. It can be detrimental with the wrong people. For people who appreciate it and understand how it help the connection, then yes!
@jayraldcruzada8356
@jayraldcruzada8356 Жыл бұрын
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@jayraldcruzada8356 Жыл бұрын
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@suzannahjames5264
@suzannahjames5264 Жыл бұрын
Yes , I’m one of them..
@babar06
@babar06 Жыл бұрын
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@Morid13Rocks
@Morid13Rocks Жыл бұрын
Keep reading and listening to Brene 😊 she shares about who deserves your vulnerability in ways that encourage you to hold your boundaries and your worth
@clarajohnson5155
@clarajohnson5155 9 жыл бұрын
The words of this woman has helped me constantly through my three years of depression. I know her words will help me again in the future. Keep this video in your watch later; it will always help.
@xabierpombo8704
@xabierpombo8704 7 жыл бұрын
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@xabierpombo8704
@xabierpombo8704 7 жыл бұрын
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@mavismorely3305
@mavismorely3305 7 жыл бұрын
did u find out you are gay?
@lauralunaazul
@lauralunaazul 4 жыл бұрын
Listen to Louise L Hay, she help me a lot in my worst moments, :)
@juliekmunden495
@juliekmunden495 Жыл бұрын
Same! Love her.
@Goldun-nah
@Goldun-nah 2 жыл бұрын
This is so so deep. I can’t believe this was 12 years ago. We could all use this lesson today. Much of our issues is coming from our lack of self of awareness.
@amandalewis8590
@amandalewis8590 3 жыл бұрын
Vulnerability for me is laying your heart and your flaws at someone’s feet and hoping to (whatever you believe in) that they don’t stomp all over it... and then being ok within yourself if they do. Being able to love yourself enough to know that that behaviour is fear and pain, not malicious intent. For the most part.
@cancelyoursubcription
@cancelyoursubcription 10 жыл бұрын
I could listen to her talk for hours ! She is such a great speaker.
@tylermcknight3650
@tylermcknight3650 3 жыл бұрын
You should read her book Daring Greatly!!
@simofish
@simofish 3 жыл бұрын
If you're reading this you are loved, you are beautiful, you are strong, and someone out here in this big ole world thinks you are amazing. Thank you for being you!
@O0001
@O0001 3 жыл бұрын
I wish.
@cbwavy
@cbwavy 12 жыл бұрын
I watched this on netflix last night and i think I'm starting to have my own breakdown. Never realized how my lack of outward vulnerability has completely shaped my life today. I'm definitely one of those that would fall into the category of struggling with connection and acceptance.
@BethanyKay
@BethanyKay 5 жыл бұрын
Brene, I read your books and saw your Netflix special, and just barely coming back to see this original Ted Talk you did. I know you don't read the comments because everyone knows it's a recipe for disaster, but I still have to tell you that you changed my life. Your book Daring Greatly opened the door for me to understand a lot of things about myself, and I will be forever grateful to you for your openness, vulnerability and willingness to be real and raw.
@reelsoon
@reelsoon 4 жыл бұрын
Found this because I'm reading Daring Greatly right now😁
@patrickconnolly9807
@patrickconnolly9807 4 жыл бұрын
she doesn't read her comments because this is ted talk's channel not hers.
@isaacwaring9263
@isaacwaring9263 3 жыл бұрын
In her Netflix special on Courage, Brene describes reading the comments under the original publication of this video and the damage it did to her because of the terrible things people said about her. Your kind response is a sweet contrast to those venomous replies.
@SW-rr7nl
@SW-rr7nl 3 жыл бұрын
Even if she doesn't. Your comment helped me find the Netflix show.. thank you
@annakozlowski3071
@annakozlowski3071 3 жыл бұрын
Love it ... “ be real be raw”
@dqualey1
@dqualey1 12 жыл бұрын
As a Social Worker, as a mother a partner and a person this hit me to my core!! I have my shield and sword out at all times never wanting others to know I'm vulnerable and how many times have I shouted blame at others. Thank you Brene' today is a new day I see things differently and will begin to move forward with grace, openess and a large HEART
@dreamswankim
@dreamswankim 9 жыл бұрын
I am the person that LOVES ALL my emotions. I wallow AND Celebrate....I like the highs and the lows and I can tell you that MOST people think I'm crazy - when I tell them to 'embrace, the sorrow' and "THAT is LIFE happening in your life"...I think that we do not want to feel and I cannot figure out WHY. Thank you for a little bit of clarity. I give (as a gift) your TED talk to my friends. When they need it.
@susannakpetersen
@susannakpetersen 3 жыл бұрын
You're not alone I feel exactly the same way. feel all the things and love all the things. It helps you to have empathy for others as well.
@misskeisha4820
@misskeisha4820 2 жыл бұрын
that’s a really brave way to live life, i hope i’ll have that one day for myself as well
@aaronslusher7256
@aaronslusher7256 7 жыл бұрын
I can't believe this is from 2010! It is so perfectly true today.
@Wamagirii
@Wamagirii 5 жыл бұрын
I heard of her only today from another talk. 2010? Its 2019.....her talk will forever remain relevant
@smit1807
@smit1807 5 жыл бұрын
This is because this message is as relevant today as it would have been in 1750. This is at our core as a species.
@lauralunaazul
@lauralunaazul 4 жыл бұрын
2010 isnt many years ago, really.
@PosyRoberts
@PosyRoberts 9 жыл бұрын
The "no family stuff, no childhood sh!t" comment was great. I've said those same exact words before. Great talk. I can't wait to share this with my husband. Thank you.
@marisacherry
@marisacherry 11 жыл бұрын
"Our job is to look and say, you know what, you're imperfect and you're wired for struggle, but you're worthy of love and belonging." YES
@s.c.mastergardeners5383
@s.c.mastergardeners5383 3 жыл бұрын
Listened to 17 minutes of the talk so far, You are absolutely right, WHen I lost my parents, dog, aunt etc and was so over whelmed forever it seemed with grief, I knew the only reason I grieved so profoundly was because I loved so deeply. And even though it was hard, I would never lessen my love to spare my grief. You are the only one I have heard recognizing this .
@yeunju7
@yeunju7 13 жыл бұрын
It's true, as a college student, i've been vulnerable to my roommates, which changed my life in what i believe of connection. I was drawn so much closer when my roommates and I shared our darkest hurting secrets. From experience, I agree with her message.
@jennysprung6093
@jennysprung6093 2 жыл бұрын
To be called a story teller is, in fact, a huge compliment.
@plastiswafers
@plastiswafers 13 жыл бұрын
We accept the love we think we deserve.
@BrenMurphy1
@BrenMurphy1 8 жыл бұрын
12:46 > "I know that vulnerability is kind of the core of shame and fear and our struggle for worthiness - but it appears it's also the birthplace of joy of creativity of belonging of love - and I, I think, I have a problem -, and, I just, I need some help, and I said, but here's the thing, no family stuff, no childhood shit, I just - I just need some strategies!" Brilliant - let me cut and paste that one...
@downhomegirl5
@downhomegirl5 4 жыл бұрын
I think Coach Craig Kenneth is the best on KZfaq just thought I'd share.🌞
@Imagomana
@Imagomana 13 жыл бұрын
Believing I am enough begins with being compassionate with ourselves. That begins with observing instead of judging. We all have within us unconditional love. When we are still we can hear its whispering voice behind our loud ego. Observing the ego quiets it allowing us to feel the love. Love tells me "I am enough!"
@johnbhakta7177
@johnbhakta7177 4 ай бұрын
Pov: your therapist send you here
@BeatrizOliveira-cn5kp
@BeatrizOliveira-cn5kp Ай бұрын
Same 😅
@yousfi1851
@yousfi1851 Ай бұрын
No my teacher did
@yousfi1851
@yousfi1851 Ай бұрын
No my teacher did
@andreschacon6011
@andreschacon6011 26 күн бұрын
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@howardgelf
@howardgelf 18 күн бұрын
My mother did.
@FrameArtsWarehouse
@FrameArtsWarehouse 11 жыл бұрын
The risk involved to be vulnerable. Fearless Love is my life's mantra. To love fearlessly. I know I have hidden behind my buddhist practices and used them as an armour, a way of NOT connecting, a way of protecting. I know that many of you have done the same. And BLESS YOU, the individual who risks look of being foolish and risks being wrong, when everyone else has their armour so perfectly oiled and shined. Bless the sangha which embraces and supports their comrades through such a dance.
@user-onyoutube868
@user-onyoutube868 6 жыл бұрын
Dr. Brown sharing her own vulnerability is what kept me watching. The authentic teachers are the ones who open up to let others see that they understand because they have been in the same place. That creates connection because of the commonality. She doesn't come across as trying to "fix us", but rather as showing us through her own experiences what really works.
@dlewis895
@dlewis895 Жыл бұрын
HUMBLE IS THE SAFEST PLACE AND I NEVER STOP LEARNING
@naomiemacanda7034
@naomiemacanda7034 2 жыл бұрын
That stuff about telling your therapist I don’t wanna talk about family, past tense childhood trauma, looool I’ve gone here for one thing and one thing only STRATEGY. 😂😂😂😂
@cefarther3945
@cefarther3945 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely enjoyed this wonderful speaker! Very rare on TedX talks. Wonderful speaker, insightful, provocative thinking. Absolutely great.
@125sano
@125sano Жыл бұрын
As a perfectionist and a person with a big fear of rejection it was a hard pill to swallow. Her words went straight into the bottom of my heart. So so true. Where the trust are there the risk are. We have to be courage in order to fulfill our best with joy and love. Thank you so so much for that precious sharing.
@andreakatsinis
@andreakatsinis Жыл бұрын
You can tell this woman is a Sherlock Holmes, noticing every detail! & look at her matching shirt and background with her name! Loved every word Mrs. Brown 🤎
@AndreaVernucci
@AndreaVernucci 2 жыл бұрын
This was 2010 and 12 years after I have red and witnessed this message spreading around the world. Stil though, we are the same society. And this still touched me deeply as it would have 12 years ago. Thank you.
@miracleshappen4483
@miracleshappen4483 7 жыл бұрын
Great job! I've got to the same conclusion after healing myself from depression. As you said, when we shut ourselves down refusing to be vulnerable and "seen" by others, we also shut our source of joy at the same time. I think we, as human beings, are obsessed with a sense of perfection which doesn't exist - despite being widely advertised -. We think we can improve Nature by controlling Her but are not humble enough to admit that our Nature is perfect and that the only imperfection is in our failure to understand that what we perceive as chaos or "imperfection" is a mere comparison that our mind makes between what is real and what we ought to be real and acceptable according to cultural or religious standards. I think it's time to change that and we shouldn't just love our children, we should also be completely honest with them because we are all imperfect (from a human point of view) and that's the beauty of existence itself!
@gaurav3290
@gaurav3290 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your understanding 🙂
@sandraviegas7298
@sandraviegas7298 Жыл бұрын
I love your way of thinking about it!
@nancybats666
@nancybats666 4 жыл бұрын
Love this specially when she talks about children it’s ok to say you are imperfect you are still worthy. Don’t compare yourself to others, you are only hurting yourself
@anthonypat2197
@anthonypat2197 Жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful beautiful Nancy
@jconfident5753
@jconfident5753 2 жыл бұрын
Realizing being vulnerable keeps you open and humble. Holding in emotions can cause pinned up anger and cause you to shut down or burst out. Being vulnerable allows one to grow and learn more about themselves and those around them.
@user-jc5lu9wd5x
@user-jc5lu9wd5x Жыл бұрын
Amazing that this was in 2010 because it sounds even more timely in 2023.
@TheNinjacow2211
@TheNinjacow2211 12 жыл бұрын
I was told this would change my life and as a person who has suffered massive heartbreak and felt feelings of vulnerability, I would have to say that this has changed my perspective on everything for the better.
@nancybirsch-celli9404
@nancybirsch-celli9404 Жыл бұрын
Bless you Connor.
@Hubrisgoat
@Hubrisgoat 13 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah! Someone speaking profound (yet common) sense, succinctly and with warmth of spirit and generosity. Well done Brene Brown.
@josephercastor8026
@josephercastor8026 Жыл бұрын
Being vulnerable shows strength and confidence
@Bebang60
@Bebang60 3 жыл бұрын
So the ONLY pathway to joy, authenticity, belonging. is embracing vulnerability, not to numb it... Thank you Brene😍
@heyeveryone
@heyeveryone 2 жыл бұрын
You can tell how not vulnerable she was when she mentioned she didn't want to talk about sensitive subjects. She also refers heavily to control which is the opposite of being vulnerable. Therapists are meant to guide you into finding the answers of your life within yourself as oppose to adopting theories of life from someone else. Hence why they ask more questions than answer any with true conviction.
@khalidsafir
@khalidsafir 4 жыл бұрын
This talk is essentially about self worth, which from my experience, is mostly an issue in individualistic societies. Brene said that you cannot love others until you love yourself, I believe its the other way round. Only when you love everyone indiscriminately, like your brothers and sisters, as is common in many non western cultures, will you stop discriminating against yourself. If you are harsh on others, you'll be need harsh on yourself. I see everyone as my brothers and sisters and feel need to look out for everyone, friend or stranger, it's the way I've been brought up. When you are kind to everyone, without checking if they really deserve it, then in the same way, given that you are also a person, you should be kind to yourself. This way of thinking comes from a well known saying in the poorer, more communal parts of the middle east "your self has a right upon you".
@dmt7674
@dmt7674 2 ай бұрын
This is difficult for people who abandon themselves to take care of other people
@cassiosoares
@cassiosoares 2 жыл бұрын
Came here recommended by my therapist. I'm actually learning a lot from this. Thanks.
@SheriKaz
@SheriKaz 13 жыл бұрын
SIx years of research condensed into 20 insightful minutes of wisdom for the soul. Thank you for sharing.
@Jeb9221
@Jeb9221 Жыл бұрын
I've watched this so many times. It doesn't get old. Love this Ted talk.
@AstralDrivingSchool
@AstralDrivingSchool 11 жыл бұрын
This presentation was an eye opening piece of just how you can live your life with more spirit, determination and passion.The research into vulnerability has opened a whole new spectrum which could really change your life. Delivered with skill, humor and a genuine voice..This is one of the most illuminating talks I have ever had the pleasure of discovering. Now it's off to buy the books! Thank you for a truly thought provoking presentation!
@kevingeorge862
@kevingeorge862 2 жыл бұрын
one of the best descriptions of human nature ive heard
@nancybickel6582
@nancybickel6582 2 жыл бұрын
"let go of who you think you should be and be who you are" thank you!
@selmaberrios2549
@selmaberrios2549 10 жыл бұрын
Wow, here I am looking for a good video in authenticity in Social Work (for my students) and I found myself watching, and listening to this woman who is describing my struggle. I am a story teller who is afraid of writing the stories because I am not sure about the "worthiness" of it. Specifically, the story of First Generations Puerto Rican women coming to the USA. Who cares for these stories? Anyway, the relationship between the sense of belonging, vulnerability and worthiness is very real.
@ZiddersRooFurry
@ZiddersRooFurry 9 жыл бұрын
I would read it :)
@selmaberrios2549
@selmaberrios2549 9 жыл бұрын
Agradecida, grateful. Selma
@nomadchica
@nomadchica 9 жыл бұрын
Selma Berrios I would read them! :)
@devgene
@devgene 7 жыл бұрын
i would read it
@selmaberrios2549
@selmaberrios2549 7 жыл бұрын
devgene Thank you for vote of confidence. Health to you
@mimicici13
@mimicici13 11 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Brené Brown for coming into my life right when I needed her. Twenty-four hours ago I had never heard this name. Then I came across it in three or four completely different situations. I got the message. Thank you.
@gaurav3290
@gaurav3290 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, how are you now after 10 years of this comment ?
@RichardPosey
@RichardPosey 13 жыл бұрын
90% of TED talks seem to qualify for the word "best." I have to rank this talk as one of the "best of the best." I think almost everyone I know would find Brené Brown's presentation well worth watching. Thanks!
@andrewjameslochrie
@andrewjameslochrie Жыл бұрын
Such inspirational and important work. I have to say that if a person fails Dr Brene Brown's rules for trust (BRAVING), being vulnerable with them may not be safe.
@marisacherry
@marisacherry 11 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, I love this. I love her combination of research and stories.
@balau27705
@balau27705 12 жыл бұрын
I love the idea of courage being telling the story of who I am with my whole heart. Collecting stories from people as research is something those of us in the arts & humanities have long understood as incredibly powerful. I applaud Dr. Brown's research and hope she continues on this path.
@arachneartist
@arachneartist 12 жыл бұрын
it was so great to feel connected to the speaker through her allowing herself to be authentic and vulnerable and sharing her own story, but gifts and talents as a researcher/story teller. that's very simple, but powerful.
@kA-dc6zq
@kA-dc6zq 2 жыл бұрын
She is a great speaker. I really love her way of speaking. It's very soothing.
@theharnessingyourpowerpodc7715
@theharnessingyourpowerpodc7715 2 жыл бұрын
Forever my favorite Ted Talk. So grateful for coming across this when I did. I can listen to this over & over. ❤
@gigijacobs9705
@gigijacobs9705 11 жыл бұрын
Love, Love, Love You!!!! Thank you so much for the work you do! I pray and hope that your words,wisdom and knowledge will help change the world. It is hard to be vulnerable and exposed, but so important for growth.
@jornkirkengard8238
@jornkirkengard8238 5 жыл бұрын
Everybody needs a friend like her in their life.
@Ziraishere
@Ziraishere Жыл бұрын
I am a Social Work student and I started listening to your talks on vulnerability/invulnerability due to personal issues in my relationship with my boyfriend. Every "symptom" you mention in the invulnerability talk match his character, and everything you say about people who embrace vulnerability match me... So now you can imagine what our issue is. I sense this might be the case for sooo many people out there, it's like a pandemic of the masculine experience, and it's heartbreaking that so many great people struggle or lose the opportunity to love and be loved out of fear. Redirect your fear please!!!! You should be more scared of never experiencing love in your life, than of being hurt. Pain can go away, we are amazingly strong and we can heal, and in the meantime love stays, I swear it does.
@MALPALable
@MALPALable 7 жыл бұрын
Just revisited this and so appreciate Berne Brown for leveling the playing field for all us humans.
@Elgriffon57
@Elgriffon57 Жыл бұрын
This a fantastic speech!. I cried a few times!..thank you Brenne
@leslynmoore
@leslynmoore 10 жыл бұрын
OH WOW, this woman is amazing, inspiring, and amazingly brave to put her heart out there, I love this talk.
@jovicpo
@jovicpo 4 ай бұрын
Here on 01/10/2024 and watching this talk again. It really hit me and my heart and is helping me go through my issues and improving my life.
@thamirisnascimento352
@thamirisnascimento352 4 жыл бұрын
Every single piece of this universe is sending me this message: vulnerability is not weakeness. I just need to believe and practice. Thank you, Brené, for sharing a piece of your soul.
@sheridan112
@sheridan112 13 жыл бұрын
I was glued to this from start to finish. Love the message, the delivery and the speaker. Start with an attitude of gratitude. Amen to that!
@ritadighent
@ritadighent 4 жыл бұрын
I think all the wonderful things that Brene Brown teaches us is symbolized by the "I am enough" photo at the end of her talk. It's written on a middle-aged woman's chest--not a Goddess's chest, not a 20-year-old's nubile chest. Just a normal woman's chest. Gratitude for your heart and fine mind, Brene Brown.
@MsLaurel45
@MsLaurel45 12 жыл бұрын
Second time I have listened to this and am crying harder this time for the joy I have in having discovered this wonderful concept.
@sudeepgowda400
@sudeepgowda400 6 ай бұрын
02:03 Connection is essential, but shame can unravel it. 04:38 Believing in self-worth leads to love and belonging 07:27 People who live with a deep sense of worthiness have courage, compassion and connection 10:32 Living wholeheartedly means embracing vulnerability 13:11 We numb vulnerability. 15:41 Numbing emotions is harmful 18:15 Teach children they're worthy of love and belonging
@ameliahasenohrl5725
@ameliahasenohrl5725 10 жыл бұрын
The best advice to Live from!
@nicheadvice-nz
@nicheadvice-nz 13 жыл бұрын
I agree and deeply appreciate that 'I am enough' is a huge statement and in fact connects me to the greater natural order of connectedness with all beings. Thank you Brene!
@khogeveen7
@khogeveen7 13 жыл бұрын
WOW! I am truly inspired. I found a post on Facebook shared by a friend and started listening, went to Brene's site, checked for my videos and am truly thankful for her work. Brene has encapsulated why life is most fulfilled when we risk being authentic.
@scubapepe1
@scubapepe1 13 жыл бұрын
I have probably watched this video close to 50 times. It's so valuable to hear, really hear this message. Of course, my favorite part is the last couple of minutes which gives you the "punch line". I love the positive message of how to accomplish having an effective life. Beautifully said.
@jd2008765
@jd2008765 3 жыл бұрын
I was meant to see this today. I am sitting here crying at the recognition of myself in what you've said.
@debbiemoore2747
@debbiemoore2747 5 жыл бұрын
This is one of my top 5 favourite talks I go back to again and again
@inhale.exhale.2527
@inhale.exhale.2527 2 жыл бұрын
"you are worthy of love and belonging". dedicated to Mei. 🙏
@Uzma244
@Uzma244 9 жыл бұрын
You know Brene I saw magic happen infront of my eyes when I followed you in living with wholeheart.I think not a single day passes without I questioning my worthiness, and after I stumbled upon you it became my textbook for life I cannot imagine living without it(again I might be afraid of being vulnerable without you).
@maryadamson7375
@maryadamson7375 2 жыл бұрын
So right on Brene. To me the the biggest challenge we have is to learn to love who we are. Big job!! Not easy, however, necessary. I love to listen n learn from your incredible wisdom and willingness to be right in your face honest!! Makes my heart sing. Lov ya for sure n grateful for willingness to let it all hang out!! 😍😘😄😂😂
@louisesumrell6331
@louisesumrell6331 Жыл бұрын
We struggle with it because we're afraid of being hurt. The survival strategies of a lifetime are embedded deeply.
@fraulein40
@fraulein40 13 жыл бұрын
This is just wonderful! My heart is full and I thank you!
@leonewhittaker6830
@leonewhittaker6830 7 жыл бұрын
I love you Brene, your work and words speak to my soul. I am working on my courage to be vulnerable after a lifetime of feeling not good enough. thank you for speaking up about this x
@YeraMezs
@YeraMezs 2 жыл бұрын
This video has helped to make the conscious decision to be vulnerable about my feelings of shame with my therapist and for that I’m grateful ❤️
@angelauyeung7367
@angelauyeung7367 4 жыл бұрын
I love her talk. It’s okay to be vulnerable
@LRCgalaxist
@LRCgalaxist Жыл бұрын
I first saw this ten years ago and not to be dramatic but it absolutely changed me. I’ve never forgotten it and I always send it to my loved ones that need the reminders.
@sharibosch6401
@sharibosch6401 8 жыл бұрын
THATS ALL YOU NEEDED! THANK YOU SO MUCH!
@earthtoryan
@earthtoryan 13 жыл бұрын
"i am enough" goes back to her point about worthiness. we don't strive for connection if we don't feel worthy of it. once we believe in our own worthiness then we can truly be vulnerable and experience the full richness of life. not everyone has an existential concept of life. sometime they just want to get to the end of the day.
@monicadubay5316
@monicadubay5316 8 жыл бұрын
So important and revealing. Thank you Brene Brown for speaking the truth.
@WinkleVonDinkle
@WinkleVonDinkle 12 жыл бұрын
Wonderful speach by Brene Brown. I so needed to hear this. Thank you, thank you for sharing your own vulnerability. As another commenter said, the need to be certain, invulnerable does indeed shape our lives and not in a good way.
@ghmitchell
@ghmitchell 8 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite TED talks.
@MeganZopf
@MeganZopf 13 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this with us!!! I'll be watching this a few times and sharing this with the world!
@Fierywon2
@Fierywon2 11 жыл бұрын
SO GOOD! so genuine and real I think every person alive can relate to this.
@crikeymos22
@crikeymos22 5 жыл бұрын
You can just sense she is a genuinely lovely person. Would love her as a friend.
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