It's better to walk away and risk losing everything, than to stay and try to hold onto nothing.

Remember ladies and gentlemen, you walk away as a fighter, not a loser.

At 50yrs old I've learned to walk away from anything that disturbs my peace.

I walked away and i feel so good my anxiety gone! I have my moments of sadness but ill get over it eventually ....

It's hurts to walk away it's all mental u win in the long run

In ANY negotiations, the one who can walk away has the power.

10 Reasons Why You Should Always Be Willing To Walk Away: 1. A willingness to walk away eliminates neediness. 2. A willingness to walk away helps you get what you want out of life. 3. A willingness to walk away indicates an abundance mindset. 4. A willingness to walk away is the key to freedom. 5. A willingness to walk away projects confidence. 6. A willingness to walk away projects fearlessness. 7. A willingness to walk away projects strength. 8. A willingness to walk away protects your integrity and self-respect. 9. A willingness to walk away protects you from being taken advantage of. 10. A willingness to walk away will being you peace of mind.

Once you get over the hurt, realize that being unattached is not so bad. Don't jump into a relationship. Just chill. Keep in mind that there are millions of gorgeous women out there.

Whoever reads this have a nice day😊

Walk away from people or situation that rob u of your inner peace. Love yourself.

She went out and found someone else. I walked away and found MYSELF. 🙏🙏🙏

The power of walking away from a narcissist

Here’s the real advice that this woman is leaving out. Walk away and never look back. If she’s not worth staying with, than she’s not worth going back to.

Walking away means nothing if that person never cared and u were there just to fill a void in there life..

I’m gaining the courage to walk away by recognizing that I am not happy being bread crumbed. They were only loving me on their terms. No more!!

“Is this person your engine or your anchor?” That is powerful.

She is spot on. Women don’t respect anything but walking away. It shows an abundance mindset which is the foundation for the confidence and self-esteem.

I was following my x-wife every where asking her to reconsider our relationship I was hurt every day. But as soon as I walked away I found joy in myself and peace.

When’s you walk away for the first time, and you do a excellent job, you will never be fear to ever walk away again.

Walking away is a sign of self respect. There ought not to be anything in your life that after sixty seconds of deep thought you cannot walk away from and never look back.

Self Respect is key !

Honestly the best thing to do is just walk away for good. When a relationship reaches this point, you are negotiating desire. A person that loves you and wants to be with you, doesn't play games and is direct about their feelings. It's better to burn that bridge and don't look back.

48 Laws of Power: Law 16: Use absence to increase respect and honor. Law 17: Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability.

Walk away with without regret, Never look back, you will forget

🏃‍♂️ walk away and build attraction ( work on yourself )

Walking away empowers you at the same time it takes away the power of the other person

If you were doubting you were in a toxic relationship wait till you break with the toxic partner: they will use flying monkeys against you, they will create jealousy plots, they will talk bad about you and blame you for everything. If you walk away, mean it and never look back. Remember that you are walking away for a reason. Stay strong!

I did this and all of the anxiety and stress I had associated with my ex is gone now. This does work.

It’s a big game, walking away works only temporarily. If you walk away, stay away. If you want your significant other to change, walk away because they will not change.

Relationships are about power. Plain and simple - and the only way it ever works, is if the man holds most of the power. If the woman feels she can control the man, that he is always there and would never leave her, she will quickly lose respect for him and once that happens, it's only a matter of time until she leaves. Only way to keep this from happening, is to show a woman that you will walk at the first sign of disrespect. You don't need to be spiteful or petty, you don't need to leave her just because she had a bad day - you just remove your attention if she starts taking you for granted. You withdraw from the situation and ignore her until she changes her behaviour. If you let things slide and continue giving her attention when she disrespects you, she will just keep doing it. Not only that, but the disrespect will get worse over time, because she is seeking a boundary to push up against. She wants to know how far she can push you, before you finally push back, and so the best way to minimise the drama is to do it the first time you feel disrespected. If you do it right, she won't do it again any time soon, and she will respect you all the more for it.

This is very true. I had an ex I walked away from and never looked back. Now he calls me nonstop from different numbers and begs me back. And even made a fake social media account to message me. I ignored all contact. I dont want him back. It was a point in time that I thought that I would never get over this guy. I wanted to so badly but i would keep thinking about him nonstop. Its been 6 months and I have no desire to get back with him at this point. Not interested anymore. Walking away is very powerful and you feel better overall that you let a toxic relationship go. We are stepping into a new year and its time to do whats best for you.

"The strongest negotiating position is to walk away and mean it" Coach Corey Wayne

Very hard to let go. I’d say it takes about a year or two not weeks to really let go depending on how long the relationship was... everything you say is true. I had to walk away from a wife who left me. It was hard to say no when she wanted to come back, because I still loved her. But I knew nothing would change. Self love and know your worth.

Non-attachment is so powerful. I work towards this every day and it's liberating. Life is too short to spend time with people who don't make you feel content. Hanging on to a negative person is like willingly wearing a ball and chain...when you have the key.

I walked away because I realised he was always lying he never had any respect for me either. He used me too. He made me feel like an idiot. I have done the right thing.

Walking Away is a sign of self respect.. I've been doing this if someone doesn't like me.. I'll use this power and authority to walking Away..

Man's ultimate weapon is to walk away ! First value yourself !

"Are they an engine or anchor?" My heart sank when I heard that. It made me realize it's time to walk. Thank you for your wisdom, Apollonia.

One thing we have to remember is to be “brave” for ourselves. No one can do it for you. You have to hate being treated less than and start being brave for yourself so you can walk away from that that makes you feel little.❤️

Wish i knew this at 18, my life would have been so much different.

Just walk away from my 6 months situationship. Can't wait to see my healthy self in a week 😊

I'm currently quarantined with a wife who wants to divorce me because of how needy of a bitch I've been. My strategy since, has been to hide out in my studio and not let her see my hurt directly. I'm not initiating conversation and I'm limiting my responses to her. I'm reminding myself that the only power she ever had over me is that which I gave her. I'm focusing on creating and expressing through my craft. I'm prepared to lose her if that's what it's gonna be. But yeah, it's been a journey and regaining my sense of self worth Videos like yours are immensely helpful so a million hearts to you, you gorgeous and brilliant woman.

If you want peace of mind , if you want better for yourself walk away . Walking 🚶‍♂️ away has power . Put your trust in GOD read your Bible happiness is right around the corner 🙏.

I had to do that the other day because she continues to put me in the friend zone and she only comes to me when she needs something. I told her that we need to stop meeting if she doesn't want to take it to the next level. It doesn't feel good but I'm much better for it.

This is so true..walk and keep walking it’s a powerful thing!

I was in this toxic relationship with a narcissistist girlfriend. I walked away. It was extremely painful but when i look back today i feel intense gratification and satisfaction. If she was to come back i would say a big No without hesitation

one thingg i learned that really helped me, in all aspects of life actually, is emotional intelligence and emotional control

Walking away is no cake walk but I ve had to do this maybe 4 times and it is best thing to do ! In the long run 🏃 is best for your own sanity 🌅👈

Whenever I've been dumped or ghosted, it helps to come back to these videos so I know I'm capable of being in control

Walked away (2nd time) from a relationship that was great when it was great but ultimately she wasn’t available and felt taken for granted. I’m in pain most days but also know it’s what is best for me. I watch this video a lot to help me on really hard days. Thank you so much for doing these.

I was so needy after she left me for no valid reason, I became so angry, obsessed with her and in denial of the break up but it been a month since I decided to walk away. I'm praying everyday to God to give me the strength to accept and move on with my life.

She cheated on me and I walk away... show her that I am happy and traveling and enjoy my life .. and have new hobbies ...

Jeremiah2;19 Your own wickedness will correct you and your backsliding will reprove you, so that you can learn and see that is a bitter and evil thing to forsake the Lord thy God, and that My fear is not in you, says the Lord God of hosts.

Be Valuable, not always Be Available all the time, that's Self Love and Self Respect

Walking away from my toxic narcissist ex, whom I was very much in love with, at that point, was my most difficult and powerful Walk-away. He never expected I would take this step, he thought he had a strong hold on my mind through his manipulation. But, 2 years and now It has transformed my life for good. It also ignited my spiritual awakening because of all the deep pain and loss I felt.

I definitely suffered from a narcissistic, toxic, and manipulative relationship...so I tend to love her more than myself, I really needed this video, it helped me regain a little of my strength and power back. She definitely anchored me down but the beginning of the relationship was very passionate and loving but soon she showed her true colors...However I became very needy, clingy, and overbearing after the breakup...But I’m getting better now because of you, one step at a time. Thank you so much, Apollonia!

Sometimes it's better to end up with nothing, than a bad long term deal that is detrimental to us. Our emotional empathy may prevent us from making healthy choices. It's not our job to fix toxic individuals, nor be their savior. A relationship is not worth saving at the expense of our sanity, wellbeing, and mental health. People in toxic relationships often end up developing a trauma bond as a result of the abuse cycles they have gone through.

Toxic relationships I have no tolerance for. Watch out when people think you need them in your life. The power to walk away and stand by your decision.

This is true a man’s most powerful weapon. Anybody’s honestly

I am going through that right now. Listening to this message is helping me to finally make up my mind to finally walk away. I give her 120% of myself, but she gives very little or nothing. She's made me to almost lose my sense of relationship-self. So, thanks for helping me to make my final decision. Thanks a million!!!

That's what I did. I was dating someone and it started out great. Communication was awesome. Then after a month, communication died. She wasn't making an effort anymore so I ended it

Yea, i wanted to hold on but i walked away from someone that didn’t take me seriously

tip for anyone whos relationship is falling apart and is causing you anxiety and overthinking, just end it. Its so much better for your mental health to just end it rather than stay and get dragged along

I’m the type of person that once you walk away for me don’t come back it’s just that simple

Since I walk away from a 2 year relationship. The man after I walked away from them all to the point I dont want to try another relationship no more .working on me to make me feel good

I was ghosted by someone I really loved. After a few months got in touch then it happened again, three times in fact. Then she wanted to get back together and get married and have children. After about four months realised I could never trust her from disappearing again and with a really heavy heart ended it. I didn’t realise ending a relationship is just as painful as I’ve never been the one to finish a relationship with someone I love. Been with an amazingly beautiful intelligent kind woman since February. It really is the difference between night and day. The ex tried to get in touch but no way would I even consider going back with her. What a shame it is when people play these games when they have you, then act all heartbroken when they realise they are never getting you back. Very weird experience especially from a 40 year old woman.

Walk away with purpose already....is always about get your self better..stay positive and stay busy!!.....

There's so much power in just walking away, gain your power back, invest in yourself,if your with someone that's toxic, it's a major wake up call for them, take your pride and power back, remember one thing you deserve better, take care of yourself and be blessed everyone, you got this.

I decided to walk away after I became a needy person. It was very difficult to go through this time but I'm very delighted that the advices were made my relationship to come back around after two months of no contact. Now my girlfriend is the position that I was before five months and she's clingy. Thanks so much for your helpful tips and advices Appollonia😊🙏❤.

I broke up with him. Yet I’m still grieving him, I’m still missing him and I’m still remembering the good memories. Because I walked away when I still liked and cared about him. I walked away when I wanted things to work out but I was in so much pain and I was tired. The good outweighed the bad. And even if the bad could be improved on there was not enough good to make it worthwhile. I tried so hard. I really tried for as much and as long as I could. -I was lowering my expectations -I was forcing myself to be content with what he was giving me but I wasn’t -I had to beg him to make me feel like he actually cared about me -I was seeing inconsistencies in his excuses and his current actions. I had actual proof of the unpleasant things he did but he called me crazy and irrational and told me that what I was seeing wasn’t real. -I had to cling on to his words about me being special and important because in my eyes he didn’t do anything to make me feel like what he said was actually true. His words did not match his actions. -He didn’t like me as much as I liked him he said he only liked me when I was in a certain mood. -I had to accept things that I didn’t want to accept in a relationship. Him staying in contact with his ex was a huge issue for me that i tried so hard to overlook. it was one of my deal breakers -He said he accepted the full package but he literally silenced me over the last time I saw him. He literally said to not make things about me and not let him hear things that are upsetting. -He invalidated my feelings and told me to think a certain way and said that other people had it worse so my problems didn’t matter. - I had to beg him to treat me a certain way to make me feel loved. - And most of all I had to pretend to be someone Im not. I had to put my feelings, problems, issues aside and put on a happy face just for things to go well. -He liked that version of me better than every version he’s ever known. He liked me when I was pretending to be someone Im not or feeling things that I wasn’t really feeling. -I didn’t feel comfortable being myself around him anymore. I had to completely turn into someone else. I LOST MYSELF JUST SO I COULD MAKE HIM HAPPY. I BROKE UP WITH HIM AND WALKED AWAY FROM HIM TO SAVE MYSELF. I STILL CARE AND LIKE HIM SO MUCH BUT I COULDN’T TAKE THE PAIN. It was so toxic

This is TRUE..Awesome video.The power of walking away gives you what you need to focus on YOURSELF.LEVEL UP,and let go.

I walked away a month ago from a narcissistic relationship and I feel so much healthier.., mentally at peace, and just relaxed. I’m building confidence. I’m setting boundaries, when he tries to tear me down I just ignore him. We share a child together so I can’t completely clock him because we co parent. But I’ve stopped telling him about my life and everything keeping it about my daughter and I feel like I finally got my power back

I did it 😻 what did you said. I’m still hurting a lot but I will survive. Thank you so much ☺️

All the comments of people being empowered by walking away is inspiring. Currently in no contact with my most recent ex whom I wanted to marry. She is now in a relationship and I'm dying, but slowly coming back to life.

I was stuck with a narcissistic aggressive woman. I didn’t believe that I’d have strength to move on, but here I am doing better than ever.

She walked away BECAUSE I was not willing to give up who I am. It was the best thing for both of us. Being who you are is certainly EMPOWERING although ending a relationship is never fun! (duh) Work on something you DO have control over: Feed/exercise both your body and mind! Be courageous, deal with your fears. Be grateful, help others, and happiness will come. All the best to those going through this. You can make a better life! Choose to do so right now!

Just simply say, “I don’t think this is gonna work out. I don’t appreciate your toxicity, your flakiness or the way you treat me. Good luck in your search.” You can walk away with no guilt because this forces the other person to look at what they did wrong. They have to look in the mirror. It’ll either force them to own up too their behavior and apologize or they will simply not come back. So what? Let them become some other persons headache.

While watching this video I finally took the first step in walking away and gaining myself back. Yes it hurts a lot and I feel like I am making a mistake but I know what I deserve now. In the past I would have put up with this but I know that I should at least get some respect back and not get ignored. I am tired of it. I need to wake up and stand for myself.

Apollonia, I've watched this video 5 times in the last 2 days. Thank you for showing the way to escape from manipulative relationships.I do deserve better!

I ran away from my whole family after finally 51 years my health began to suffer from all the stress my family gave me, my end point was reached. after so many struggles, so many chances, it was done, it was very bitter, but better for myself. I now have peace, sometimes I feel alone, but I can now save my energy for myself ❤️

I’ve watched this every time my ex and I have broken up. Definitely a needy, toxic relationship. I hope this is my last round of watching this one. Thanks AP 🖤

I walked away after 8 years of feeling stuck and excuses for the manipulative man I’ve wasted my time on. All the heart aches and anxiety GONE All I have to say is GOD is REAL and he’s good always on time !

It's harder for me to walk away....from the refrigerator 😁😉

Hearing this makes me feel sooooo good about my decision to walk away from a emotionally manipulative‘situationship’ I got entangled in a little over a year ago. I never felt more miserable in my life dealing with the said individual. I felt lied to, led on and all the above. Definitely someone who was pulling me down energetically and every way possible. Toxic. Walking away at first was one of the hardest things because each time I tried to in the past, this individual would pull another trick to soak be bk in. My strength was deflected. I was weak, pushed around and literally taken for granted. Walked away and it hurt like hell the first three months. More so because I felt stupid for allowing myself to get played at this age. After tht, each month, became lighter and lighter until the feeling was no more. This confirmation makes me wanna jump for joy. No more!

Breakup in a unhealthy relationship or illusions, must be considered as wake up in life. Focussing on our life by walking away during such situation, needs to be considered as bliss received from the universe.

If you have been rejected. Smile, nod say “thanks if you change your mind lemme know” and you watch what will happen 👍🏻💪🏻🙏🏻

Thank you for the words of wisdom. It is truly hard to walk away

It does not create any "INSTANT ATTRACTION," but if it's necessary, then do it.

Relationships are the most important thing in our lives, for you to be able to articulate and explain the way you do, is basically explaining life. Not only are you extremely intelligent but an amazing human to do this type of work. You've already helped me so much in a few videos, it's like the information is there but love can make the smartest man make mistakes and do some dumb shit and we don't realise we are doing it. Walking away is the upmost sign of respect a man can show for himself when equal energy isn't being reciprocated.

If you ve to walk away for someone to respect you, then the person is not needed in your life.

How did I get here . Wow! You are God sent . I am. Currently going through a heartbreak.it couldn’t be more right on time. Thank you thank you.May the goodLord protect you and your family.

Just found out my ex was lying the whole time, don’t want her back, no wonder men are jaded

Greetings from Ireland appolina.. Just dumped my girlfriend, she got so disrespectful and devaluing in the relationship, that I had to do it,for my mental health alone.i encourage both women and men to walk away from emotionally abusive relationships.its vital.

After two months of no contact, a few texts with no response, being blocked on all social media, I walked away. I sent her stuff back, and sent one last text saying have a good life. I grew in no contact and learned a lot. If she wants anything to do with me she can reach out.

Thank you... I am going thru a really hurtful break up... It hurts. But I guess TIME will heal me.

In order to successfully implement this strategy, you've got to have the "IDGAF" mentality. No and, if or butts about it. Just drop your partner, walk away and don't look back. You decide when and if you're going to give your partner a second chance. You are the captain. There are plenty of better fish in the sea. I used this strategy on my ex-gf. Three months after she broke up w me; she wanted to get back with me. I simply told her I've moved on and couldn't be happier.

It comes down to the question, "are you happy with this person"? People split for all kinds of reasons. Cheating is one you without out a doubt should walk from, but alot of other things ain't always deal breakers. All your people may advise that you should end a relationship when you start hitting rough patches but that's something you have to want all on your own. The vows we say to one another are promises, they are saying you will work through life's worst beatings, together. We live in a disposable world, we acquire things and when they start to break down we throw them away and go buy a new one. We don't fix anything anymore, we don't give it the attention that would possibly salvage or fix what's wrong and continue enjoying it for possibly the rest of our life. It's not always so cut and dry but when you have challenges and you hold-fast and fix them, sometimes doing that makes for a more fruitful relationship and isn't that the point? I want to look back and say, we went through hell sometimes but here we are, still fighting the wolves away, together. Are you happy with them ? For better or worse, does being with them make you happy in your heart ? People make mistakes, don't grow up soon enough, get their priorities scrambled, we are human, we come up short sometimes when people depend on us to be a good man or woman. Don't let them walk all over you, but don't walk away at the first signs of trouble either......it's a full time job making a relationship stay together.. sometimes we have to work overtime, but after payday you see a bigger check. Keep swinging......

Remember, your heart will always be the last thing to leave, you have to make executive decisions for yourself and your well being 🥀 you deserve it

My girl walked away after me putting 1 year of dedicated effort in building relationship after many issues. It made me put more effort as I thought we could approach it as adults and genuinely work it out. That was a mistake. She lost attraction. Now, after 7 months of me retrying .... I am walking away. I have realized that while I can forgive her in 1 hour.... she couldn't for 1.7 years. I wish her happiness and I hope I can rebuild my career.

walked away from an LDR because she refused to compromise with me on making better communication