The Psychology of “Old Money”: 5 Behaviors That Say Culture and Elegance

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Old Money Luxury

Old Money Luxury

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You’ve told us you want us to dive much deeper into the actual psychology behind “old money”, as we like to call it…
Now of course when we say “old money”, we don’t mean the coins you found wedged in your sofa cushions.
We’re talking about venturing into the rarefied world of the the Rockefellers, the Rothschilds, and the Astors.
These are families whose wealth has been passed down the generations, creating a culture with its unique psychology.
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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 Introduction
1:31 Behavior #1: Legacy and Long-term Thinking
4:38 Behavior #2: Importance of Etiquette and Good Manners
7:22 Behavior #3: Discreet Success
10:20 Behavior #4: Emphasis on “Giving Back” / Philanthropy
12:17 Behavior #5: Valuing Education & Intellectual Pursuits
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First off, let’s talk about legacy and long-term thinking.
For the “old money” clan, wealth isn’t a fleeting concept, a one-off viral song on TikTok, or a VIP ticket to Coachella.
Instead, it’s a family heirloom, a treasured relic to be passed down with care, generation after generation.
Their mindset for long-term planning and wealth management is vigorous and precise.
Their strategies are never short-sighted. Instead, they’re designed with a long-view telescope, always peering into the horizon.
They don’t ask, “What will make me rich?” They ponder, “What will keep my family secure for centuries?” It’s all about protecting and growing the nest egg, ensuring the comfort of generations yet to come.
Next on the agenda is the elegance of etiquette and the magnificence of manners.
There’s something about “old money” that exudes a level of decorum that’s hard to overlook.
They’ve got the good grace to hold their tongue when angry, the right words at the tip of their tongue when they’re called upon, and the good sense to use them at the right moment.
It’s not just about knowing which fork to use at a gala dinner, it’s about showing respect and dignity in every interaction.
Rolling into the third principle, we’ve got “Discreet Success”.
Now, this is an intriguing one.
In this social media frenzied era where every iota of success, be it a new car, a vacation, or a pricey pair of shoes, is plastered online for all to see, “old money” offers a palpable difference.
They are the keepers of a very different philosophy: understated wealth and quiet success.
They often downplay their riches, and their successes are seldom the fodder for flashy headlines. You won’t catch them flaunting a new jet or a diamond-studded necklace on Instagram. No, they prefer to live their lives away from the glaring public eye.
Next in line, we have a behavior that’s both noble and noteworthy - the old money’s sense of ‘giving back’ or philanthropy.
They may be tight-lipped about their wealth, but when it comes to charitable deeds, they’re as open-handed as they come.
Of course, we’d be lying to you if we said that the tax write-offs or photo-ops don’t help push the needle on this one, but always remember many “old money” family members are discreet and do not even mention to others that they give back.
Last but certainly not least, we delve into the realm of education and intellectual pursuits.
If there’s anything “old money” values as much as their wealth, it’s their knowledge.
They consider education not as a mere stepping stone to a job, but a lifelong pursuit, an essential part of their personal and character development.
For these families, it’s not just about securing degrees from Ivy League schools. It’s about being well-read, well-informed, wellversed in the arts and sciences, politics and culture, history and philosophy.

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@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
COMMENT: Which of these “old money” behaviors have you seen a particular person you know exhibit in real-life? Tell us your story.
@defining_moments
@defining_moments Жыл бұрын
The behavior I’ve seen executed by the old money style is that no matter what is being educated and having exceptional manner etiquette when treating other people well. No matter what!
@gaslitworldf.melissab2897
@gaslitworldf.melissab2897 Жыл бұрын
My great grandmother, now decease, prioritized classic fashion, quiet sophistication, despite being perhaps only 2 generations away from being a slave in Georgia. She maintained a clean, organized, unfussy home with very few luxuries.
@eclosion6940
@eclosion6940 Жыл бұрын
Thet are ot allowed to see them.
@albevargiu
@albevargiu Жыл бұрын
Parte melone alle ore due edifici da Nuoro come al ospedale Trane il martedì giovedì le infermiere che anno non rientro
@LotsaPawPrints
@LotsaPawPrints Жыл бұрын
from a young age you accept staying within the station you were born. Often identified as elitism or snobbish, it is an inherent acceptance that life for outsiders is often miserable. Less is always more. You do a nice job explaining so many things but the "aloofness" is often to shield others.
@creigfitzpatrick5442
@creigfitzpatrick5442 Жыл бұрын
I have a dear friend who is old money. Her family money goes back many many generations. She told me once that the reason why their money keeps growing and not disappearing like the Vanderbilts is because #1, they live sensibly, they're not flashy and strongly prefer to blend into the background or as she said to me once, "under the radar". She also lives by and practices the mantra of "wealth whispers". Secondly, the money (inheritance) skips generations. Her money came from her grandparents, her son will inherit his money from her parents. This way the money has a whole generation to be invested wisely, grow and replenish itself.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Great story, Craig, wow!
@stellamaxwell777
@stellamaxwell777 Жыл бұрын
Old money is all about trusts and sophisticated wealth management-a lesson everyone could benefit from!
@susanarsoniadou
@susanarsoniadou Жыл бұрын
There is also the danger that money like honey attracts flies. Not a good idea to show off because there are many predators.
@gormenfreeman499
@gormenfreeman499 Жыл бұрын
Family becomes less related to each other as it grow. A great grand child is only 12% related to you, thats the same as a first cousin. I always assume thats the problem, thats why rich people used to practice incest. They were trying to keep themselves related to each-other for long as possible.
@susanarsoniadou
@susanarsoniadou Жыл бұрын
@@gormenfreeman499 Look at the youngest boy of the Romanov family.
@RD-us2kb
@RD-us2kb Жыл бұрын
I was once a guest of the Bavarian royal family. We drove from their home outside Munich to St Anton, Austria. A large portion of the trip flanked by 'family' forests, fields and chateaux. For him, he was very aware that he inherited a 900 year old asset: his daily decisions had to maintain and grow it 900 years forward. Doing so meant educating himself and his children on latest environmental skills, newest farming methods: a steward of his inheritance, not an entitled taker.
@jozette-pierce
@jozette-pierce Жыл бұрын
I met "Otto" in Munich, while he was visiting his family Doctor.. We were houseguests. He was a wonderful person.
@Demi1369
@Demi1369 Жыл бұрын
Wow! It is so rare to come across someone who thinks in this manner. It was wonderful to read and a great lesson in a few short sentences. 💕
@JS-ld2qd
@JS-ld2qd Жыл бұрын
So amazing
@juliehernandez80
@juliehernandez80 Жыл бұрын
Wow. That’s beautiful.
@thereseclaire9806
@thereseclaire9806 Жыл бұрын
That's beautiful ❤️
@brianmason9361
@brianmason9361 Жыл бұрын
I spilled a glass of red wine on Mr. Konica, owner of Konica Industries, while waiting on him at a restaurant in the 1980s. He laughed a little and said, "Thank you. But I don't use wine this way," My manager came over and started to berate me in front of him. He stopped her and said it was no big deal, an honest mistake. He was thrilled to get his dinner comped that night and have his $75 shirt paid for by the restaurant. He left a $20 tip and was back again the next week. My manager did not permit me to wait on him again! He was truly a class act.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Wow, what a story! Spot on
@viharsarok
@viharsarok Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't have made a scene out of this, either. And neither would most people. It's just you don't appreciate good manners unless it comes from a wealthy person.
@sisterssquad909
@sisterssquad909 Жыл бұрын
@@viharsarok the wealthy have the option of getting away with bratty, rude , arrogant and disrespectful behaviour and are tolerated for throwing around their weight (think Meghan Markle).. good behaviour inspite of this choice is admired and appreciated
@candicelondon
@candicelondon Жыл бұрын
yes they are light hearted in their approach
@user-nf8ke1rf2u
@user-nf8ke1rf2u 3 ай бұрын
Wow very kind of him
@joannec3579
@joannec3579 Жыл бұрын
I worked for Rothschild back in 2011. I met a lot of 'old money'. Trust me. They do look down on people.
@itoo3654
@itoo3654 Жыл бұрын
Of course they do. But, with a smile!🤭
@raiseyourworld5324
@raiseyourworld5324 Жыл бұрын
@@itoo3654 Rothschild are not a good example, maybe you should do a little research on what this family is about.
@itoo3654
@itoo3654 Жыл бұрын
@@raiseyourworld5324 I said what I said, or, more accurately, what I wrote. It was a GENERAL observation, not necessarily specific to the Rothschilds, anyway.(although true, I'm sure)😐
@shivangi3769
@shivangi3769 Жыл бұрын
@@raiseyourworld5324 The Rothschild are mentioned in this very video
@julien4741
@julien4741 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@TomArrrrr
@TomArrrrr Жыл бұрын
Love that line about “it’s not what I can afford, it’s what I can sustain” We have forgotten that over the last 30-40 years
@edheldude
@edheldude Жыл бұрын
People aren't thinking in generations because they value hedonism over social structure.
@acmarston
@acmarston Жыл бұрын
"Who is we, sucker?"
@noorgonzalez1076
@noorgonzalez1076 Жыл бұрын
@@acmarston😂😂😂😂
@TomArrrrr
@TomArrrrr Жыл бұрын
@@acmarston didn’t realize I was talking to a billionaire
@catecurry
@catecurry 11 ай бұрын
What about "Embrace the power of etiquette and good manners. Make grace, tack, and politeness the currency of your interactions". @@acmarston
@hopekevans
@hopekevans 9 ай бұрын
My grandma used to say, “Just because you’re poor doesn’t mean you need to act poorly.”
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury 9 ай бұрын
Wise words!
@phylis3917
@phylis3917 7 ай бұрын
Is pa wise!
@NitaMahopmaa
@NitaMahopmaa 7 ай бұрын
She has the mood
@louisdussault326
@louisdussault326 7 ай бұрын
That is correct
@lubabaalqaysii
@lubabaalqaysii 7 ай бұрын
Well said.. core truth
@brianmason9361
@brianmason9361 Жыл бұрын
Years age I did a remodeling job for a Congressman in Marietta Ga. I miss priced the job to my detriment by quit a lot. At the end of the job he looked over the work and asked if I had priced it too low. I admitted that I had, but did not expect him to pay more than we agreed on. He wrote the check for several hundred dollars more and thanked me. A class act!
@sonjak8265
@sonjak8265 Жыл бұрын
He should have written a check for a thousand dollars more.
@nextwave1314
@nextwave1314 Жыл бұрын
And you, sir.
@silencedogood9747
@silencedogood9747 Жыл бұрын
@@sonjak8265 how can you know that without having any firm numbers?
@libbyneves5457
@libbyneves5457 Жыл бұрын
The opportunity to be generous is a privilege.
@Threadbow
@Threadbow Жыл бұрын
Did you make a profit, after he paid more? Also did he recommend your work to others afterwards? A true gentleman.
@marisajurgens3022
@marisajurgens3022 Жыл бұрын
1) Legacy and long term thinking 2) Importance of etiquette and Good Manners 3) Discreet Success 4) Emphasis on “Giving back“/Philantropy 5) Valuing Education and Intellectual Pursuits
@Abracadabraa666
@Abracadabraa666 Жыл бұрын
Look at rich Parisian kids and repeat it again (if you can) lol
@markc1234golf
@markc1234golf Жыл бұрын
🤣
@garyshepherdly9357
@garyshepherdly9357 Жыл бұрын
Giving back to their charities n future generations. Crooks they are .
@garyshepherdly9357
@garyshepherdly9357 Жыл бұрын
This video is everything what USA 🇺🇸 n UK 🇬🇧 don't want you to experience n achieve. 😂😂😂
@Eugeniadella
@Eugeniadella Жыл бұрын
4) philantropy like killing us all wirh a virus......😉
@SusanMyburgh
@SusanMyburgh Жыл бұрын
My family was well off, but we certainly didn't have the kind of money to buy Rolls-Royces and such. And yet, this video shows exactly the principles I was brought up on. No wonder that I find the modern world so disturbing and worrying: an idiocracy, actually.
@nineteenfortyeight6762
@nineteenfortyeight6762 Жыл бұрын
My family is proletarian. I was raised this way too. Oddly, my mom's side were recently aristocratic.
@ophyjenkins8283
@ophyjenkins8283 Жыл бұрын
I understand where you are coming from. I didn't know that we had money growing up, and to this day still don't realize just how much. As children we were raised to have the most tip-top of behaviors, manners, and were to be seen and not heard when in front of company. We were aloud to play and get dirty, but knew exactly when and where the time was for that as well. We were not children of lavish gifts, parties and events for our birthdays, graduations, etc. We got jobs in high school and placed 50% of our net pay into savings, gave portion to charity and what we were left with went to clothes or savings for a vacation/trip. We gave to the community and volunteered at events like Special Olympics, SPCA and church events. I too am bothered with the way generations behave with the lack of manners that I thought were normal. I raised my own children with those same manners, morals, and they are now raising their children with them.
@anna-tn8mg
@anna-tn8mg Жыл бұрын
You know you can buy a new brain at a dollar store. It will be much better than the one you have now.
@arlenburgin2392
@arlenburgin2392 Жыл бұрын
Get over it. It's just a fad
@anna-tn8mg
@anna-tn8mg Жыл бұрын
Well, I can assure you that your world was equally idiotic. Your "principles" prevented you from seeing the real world. Or maybe mirrors didn't exist then.
@krisphiles
@krisphiles Жыл бұрын
My husband has taught me a lot about the value of choosing classic and well-made articles of clothing, and especially shoes. I always wanted to save money and have variety, but he always said "Buy good shoes!" This has carried over into other philosophical shifts, but I'm grateful for this lesson. Quality counts and lasts longer.
@maureenrhysjones4643
@maureenrhysjones4643 Жыл бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree with you. To add to that, things of quality are usually made by artisans. Cheap fashion is usually made by workers being taken total advantage of.
@MrDodgedollar
@MrDodgedollar Жыл бұрын
@@maureenrhysjones4643totally correct
@davidcattin7006
@davidcattin7006 Жыл бұрын
I feel like a million bucks in my expensive shoes. Style and quality that holds up.
@createone100
@createone100 Жыл бұрын
“Success is personal and doesn’t need an audience”. Yes!
@w.randlescott
@w.randlescott Жыл бұрын
To be honest I may not be old money but I’m grateful to have adopted the old money concept, it just makes sense.
@ciatris9006
@ciatris9006 Жыл бұрын
It makes for nicer people.
@georgiafrancis9059
@georgiafrancis9059 11 ай бұрын
@@ciatris9006 most of the time, I would agree, however, I know a few that are not very nice.
@johnwright6102
@johnwright6102 Жыл бұрын
I was raised in a low-income home, but my French mother instilled the ideals of "comportement distingue" in her daughters, few but quality clothes, good manners and reserve (restraint) when in public. These are values that have nothing to do with old, new or no money. They refer to character building and alas, old money (and no money) can install those values in some of their children, but not in others (think trust fund babies).
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
😮
@ciatris9006
@ciatris9006 Жыл бұрын
Sounds good to me.
@jjoanes4196
@jjoanes4196 Жыл бұрын
This has been my experience as well.
@Maker.of.Mischief
@Maker.of.Mischief 10 ай бұрын
This resonates with me. We also grew up low income, and my family was also from Europe. Though we didn’t have much, we were always taught to conduct ourselves with grace and style. The fine things that did have were passed down from previous generations, and we were taught how to value and preserve them. Education, and self enrichment was a standard part of life. I studied art, music, science, history. We had tea from (inherited and secondhand) fine china every day after school, sitting at a nicely set table, eating fancy (though home made) pastries. Elegance was normal, and it would sound like I had a privileged upbringing. But it’s completely achievable by anyone. The lesson was that class it’s self does not cost money. The trappings of “wealth” do cost, but the attitude one has regarding themselves, others, possessions, etc., are completely free.
@PsychicIsaacs
@PsychicIsaacs Жыл бұрын
Both my parents were from Old Money families, Dad from the Bonham Carters and Mum from a Scottish Laird’s family. But we lived in a working class suburb, Dad worked a 40 hour week at his blue collar trade (fitter and turner) and we (mostly) went to State School. I only had a couple of terms at a Catholic college and hated it! But at home? Our home was full of antiques, old, original fine art by famous artists, a fine piano that Dad played for about an hour every night (Tchaikovsky, Beethoven, Mozart, Bach, Handel, etc). Mum had opals and garnets in her jewellery box, gifts from Dad over the years that she treasured. Some were inherited from his family as well, and a few pieces from her mother including an exquisite carved ivory pendant, from India, that was very, very old. Dad was always terrified of being robbed, but we never were. Us kids were all sworn to secrecy about the treasures in our home and many years later I learned he had a .303 rifle and a .22 rifle as well. He would have used them as well, had we ever been robbed, but like I said, that never happened. Dad spoke six languages, including Russian, German, two indigenous languages (he was a former Missionary) and Ancient Greek and of course English. Mum was a stay at home Mum, cleaned houses for pocket money and her mother was good friends with Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon, AKA the Queen Mother! I never met my grandmother, but she was a model of class and culture although her husband (also high born) had the reputation of being the Town Drunk, meaning he drank all their money and when my mother was a little girl during the Great Depression, she often had no shoes. Nevertheless, Grandma’s manners earned her the nickname of Queenie, and rightly so! That’s my story, and the story of my family. God Bless You All…
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Wow thanks so much for this AMAZING comment and sharing your story :) We hope to feature it some day on them program!
@PsychicIsaacs
@PsychicIsaacs Жыл бұрын
Mum’s family estate was featured in the “Scottish Field” magazine and a copy of that magazine was in the farmhouse when I moved into my current estate. Paid cash for the estate thanks to help a long time ago from a cousin who was a department store owner and executive. I took it as a sign that I was on the right track. Mum said her family always regarded themselves as being farmers and have been on the same estate since the Stone Age! In this magazine article, Her Ladyship was featured with her daily routine, which involved working in the vast, wildcrafted gardens. Her first task was discussing her latest plans and the day’s tasks with her head gardener, then out there with the spade and plants in the golf cart, for a day’s digging and cultivating! His Lordship deals with the business end of the Estate, but the amazing gardens are entirely her work, over many, many, many decades. She has recreated a Scottish Woodland, that has been her life’s work and to look at it, you’d never know it was 100 percent man (woman!) made! I live on my own and have no staff, but I have a similar conference with myself each day before I begin my work and a similar style of gardening, although the species are different as I live in Australia, not Scotland.
@PsychicIsaacs
@PsychicIsaacs Жыл бұрын
Dad’s ancestor married an Anglo Indian Woman when on military service in the Punjab. He brought her home to England and they were shunned by the whole family. Because of this, they moved to Australia. Mum’s parents moved out here to Australia as Soldier Settlers after World War One. The whole thing was a disastrous sham, their 200 acre farm was a forest, not a field, they were required to clear it and it had a mortgage on it! Home was a corrugated iron hut and there was no electricity or running water! Pop felt deeply betrayed and this was why he began drinking. He would have felt even worse because he was actually a veteran of the Household Cavalry (guarding Buckingham Palace!) Mum and Dad met in Geraldton, West Australia, Dad’s family had somewhat recovered their fortunes but Mum’s family was still destitute. Nevertheless, they fell in love, married and the rest, as they say, is history…
@ekaterinaschmidt6755
@ekaterinaschmidt6755 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your amazing story!
@choicesnconnections
@choicesnconnections Жыл бұрын
Would make a great book/movie.
@d.j.desrosiers2954
@d.j.desrosiers2954 11 ай бұрын
"It's not what you can afford but what you can sustain" "Etiquette can open doors that even money can't" "Nothing says class like good manners" "Wealth doesn’t define a person's worth or character" "Success is personal and doesn’t need an audience. It's not about how others perceive us but how we perceive ourselves"
@Tripps2564
@Tripps2564 11 ай бұрын
I think the big thing is these ideals require a lot of impulse control and tempering which often comes from upbringing and being around money for a while in a responsible manner. The issue is a lot of new money are overwhelmed by the money they've earned. They didn't have others controlling them nor expectations of maintaining a reputation to be in the good graces of other rich peers, so they feel free to do whatever they want and show-off. Probably cause they still think in the manner of middle or working class folks who are deprived DESPITE now having money. Many working class folks would be figuratively eaten alive and abused if they couldn't engage in direct confrontation (including showing their literal worth to skeptical peers). In a nutshell, new money folks act as they do because they have the money of old money but retain the mindsets of more common working people and act in a way that would make sense in their former class life.
@jackielaurin8692
@jackielaurin8692 10 ай бұрын
Love these comments & it's a yes! spot on.
@lukespector5550
@lukespector5550 10 ай бұрын
Rodney Dangerfield STILL can't get no respect!
@marilyncole3560
@marilyncole3560 Жыл бұрын
At one time the Rockefellers and the Astors, Vanderbilts were poor and just coming up. At one time all the old money was new money, and people adapt and learn as they.. go up the ladder,, about the proprieties of society. Money does not buy class you either have it or you don't. You can be poor and still have class. There are plenty of rich people who are rude and nasty.
@Katharsis44-091
@Katharsis44-091 Жыл бұрын
YES !👍
@Methne555
@Methne555 Жыл бұрын
@@Katharsis44-091Exactly. I have no idea why people think that old money equals class. They clearly haven’t seen the IG/TikTok pages of some “old money” offspring. They are full of “look at me on my expensive holiday”. Or “look at all the free stuff that I was given because my family is really rich.”
@msairs
@msairs Жыл бұрын
old money is the royals or the landowners because they had the responsibility of taking care of the land and the people on it. ill use that fictional tv show Downton Abbey where that earl and his mom said they employed people, so they thought about the people.
@vickster4474
@vickster4474 Жыл бұрын
people should really look into HOW they acquired their wealth and added to it
@bperez8656
@bperez8656 10 ай бұрын
That is only somewhat true. There are old money families that stood the test of time for generations Some built their way up, and remained up, Some historically were high and are part of the new poor. I would consider myself that. My family came from everyone having masters degrees, wealthy careers, military, wealth, belonging to fraternities and sororities, all of a sudden doing none of those except making more than $100k a year per member and struggling to check the boxes of affording private schools, vacations, investments. And that’s when I realized we were upper middle class in income and declining intergenerationally, since my ancestors struggled with none of that. Education and manners never stop to beer the highest values, but unfortunately access to opportunity and privilege did decline overtime
@azurephoenix9546
@azurephoenix9546 Жыл бұрын
I worked for a certain very old money family, as an au pair, and they were excellent employers, exceptionally kind, very generous. I asked the mother of the children I was caring for why they, as opposed to the employers of others I knew, were so polite and kind, and she said "we were taught to view everyone who contributes to our quality of life as essential to our family's well-being." And I have always held on that and done my very best to treat my employees with the same respect. I will say that I have met many "old money" families who are not so kind to their employees and are not particularly well-mannered or respectful, but believe it, that lack of respectful and respectable behavior doesn't stay a secret.
@mdillard881
@mdillard881 6 ай бұрын
My Mom worked for a lady who came from old money. She was very kind to not only my Mom, but also my Dad and siblings. It was like being part of the family, while also not being part of the family. She did attend my brother's wedding. My Dad would visit her and play his guitar for her and talk religion. My Mom was her caregiver for many years as she had various health conditions in her elder years. She has now passed and I miss "Miss Terry" as does my family. Her home was so modest and simply furnished for a millionaire, but very good quality and timeless natural style. She always had lots of snacks and treats on hand for her caregivers so no one would go hungry.
@cindersmolloy6584
@cindersmolloy6584 Жыл бұрын
My late father who had is own law practice and 5 children to raise always gave generously to charity and regularly donated his time, to charitable works on top of all his other duties. Our education was a priority and his mantra was always "knowledge is never a burden." He never put anyone down. He always carried a notebook and pencil in his top pocket to write down the many requests he would receive from others asking for his help, be it a visa application, money, or a relationship problem. He spent his life being useful to the world, and volunteered in WW2. Never left the house looking anything less than immaculate. He used to take my brother in the car with him in the morning to take him to school and would have my brother read Caesar's war commentaries in their original Latin to him as he drove. He didn't waste any of his time!
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Wow! What an amazing story, thank you so much for sharing. Speechless!
@pinkfuture8275
@pinkfuture8275 Жыл бұрын
You have an amazing father ❤️❤️❤️
@priceless2382
@priceless2382 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@cindersmolloy6584
@cindersmolloy6584 Жыл бұрын
@@pinkfuture8275 thank you, alas he has passed away but he was amazing.
@juliehernandez80
@juliehernandez80 Жыл бұрын
What a legacy your father left. He sounds like an amazing man. Rip.
@mevyamr3188
@mevyamr3188 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately very few people follow the old money behaviour. Personally I have great admiration for this life style.
@riyadougla539
@riyadougla539 7 ай бұрын
Sadly true. I embrace old money values fully.
@jacc88888
@jacc88888 Жыл бұрын
My guess is that ‘old money’ parents teach their children about the value of saving money and investing it. This is seldom spoken about in most families or especially in schools. Our culture promotes the importance of consuming and showing off rather than investing in the future.
@sarahmottramart
@sarahmottramart 9 ай бұрын
My child’s state school educates about saving money, as did my state school. Perhaps it’s a cultural focus more than schools in general. Most children I know are making money decisions in regards to allocating savings, expenditures etc. quite interesting.
@annaopoku2742
@annaopoku2742 Ай бұрын
On point. THANX
@amrayabaptiste2933
@amrayabaptiste2933 Жыл бұрын
Good manners, etiquette, knowing how to control one's emotions are values we need to hold near.
@kareno7848
@kareno7848 11 ай бұрын
Why is Diana featured? She did an assassination job on her husband on TV.
@mattanderson6672
@mattanderson6672 9 ай бұрын
I NEED to learn this!!
@canadafree2087
@canadafree2087 Жыл бұрын
Old money is all about family. As a person from a broken family, I say, God bless old money. Old money may have expensive tastes, but it comes from the old adage: "If you can't afford to buy 5 of a thing, you can't afford to buy one."
@janebaker966
@janebaker966 Жыл бұрын
I've never heard that one! I do know "if you have to ask the price you can't afford it"
@bperez8656
@bperez8656 10 ай бұрын
@@janebaker966that’s an exaggerated saying. I prefer the one above If you can’t mathematically afford 5 don’t buy one
@holdenbauer1255
@holdenbauer1255 Жыл бұрын
I love how you emphasize that you can be like the old money regardless of your job or wealth.
@dingusdingus2152
@dingusdingus2152 Жыл бұрын
Old money treats everyone equally, with courtesy and respect. They don't look down on people who are "beneath" them, and act arrogant. The groundskeeper, the server at the restaurant, the butcher, the baker, etc.; each are granted their human dignity.
@ClickyPen0101
@ClickyPen0101 Жыл бұрын
It's very poor form and classless to be rude and disrespectful to people. Sometimes you don't know who you're really talking to.
@eduardochavacano
@eduardochavacano Жыл бұрын
The middle classes and new rich find gratitude with thought that others are beneathe them.
@PLegalrep
@PLegalrep Жыл бұрын
This is because it is VERY hard to find trustworthy people who will do a great job and not gossip about the family business they hear in the course of their duties, also their discretion is not the only thing that is valuable. Finding someone who doesn't want to shake you down is another big challenge.
@dingusdingus2152
@dingusdingus2152 Жыл бұрын
@@PLegalrep quite true
@Lili23995
@Lili23995 Жыл бұрын
​@@ClickyPen0101I know a family who curses like sailors yet drops names and brags. They don't come from money but are wannabes.
@trishalivingston1051
@trishalivingston1051 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I was raised. Loud voice, crass behavior, rudeness, 'me, me, me' is very tasteless. It is never all about me. It's about the long term, treating everyone the same, humility, quiet grace, subtle humor, and expecting one's clothes due to choosing quality, not quantity. I remember when I was about 4/5 attending a party and wanting a chocolate eclair. However, there were only two on the plate and several others were talking about the eclairs, so I chose something I didn't really like, and left the eclairs for the others.
@boadiceameridionalis3732
@boadiceameridionalis3732 11 ай бұрын
That is class, and you encapsulated it brilliantly. I was raised in hard scrabble farm country, where manners were essential because that's all anyone had of much value beyond the land if you were fortunate enough to keep it. Someone was always welcomed in, offered a drink or something to eat, and you would never take a popular food item that others wanted. I worked for a pair of attorneys in college, and the old money partner was very different from the new money partner. The only thing negative I ever heard about the old money partner was that he was a poor tipper to waitstaff, but it could genuinely have been a lack of understanding of how their earnings were predominantly tip-based. He was very kind, treated everyone with dignity and good will, and was highly approachable. The new money partner was bombastic, flashy, demanding, and had much less concern about being rude. An earlier comment talked about living in a modest home in a very modest area, working a j-o-b, but having lovely things with history, and a rich life with music and language -- that is living a good life.
@HeavenlyLights
@HeavenlyLights Жыл бұрын
Respect & Dignity in every interaction. Grace, tact, politeness.
@viewercjg
@viewercjg Жыл бұрын
My parents both came from poor immigrant backgrounds and emerged from the Great Depression and WW2 with modest means. My father invested always with an eye to making a solid foundation of resources with an eye to future decades and generations. We lived nicely, but not ostentatiously and were not aware of net worth until we were adults. My mother, though prevented from attending college or art school by her step mother, encouraged us to read, take music classes and attend cultural events. I always resented that my dad did not buy luxury cars, etc. unlike others in around us. Now I appreciate my upbringing and can identify with this video.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story! Definitely when we are younger we tend to resent that our parents didn’t splurge like some other parents on flashy items, but in adulthood we realize how much value the emphasis on manners, education, and culture from parents is worth! Cheers! :)
@steveneldridge5332
@steveneldridge5332 Жыл бұрын
I like the idea of being quiet about your money.
@soundsgood9417
@soundsgood9417 Жыл бұрын
Yeah especially when there is none to be talked about 😭
@janebaker966
@janebaker966 Жыл бұрын
Always. It's the best way. No one else needs to know
@stephaniebarker9244
@stephaniebarker9244 Жыл бұрын
Wealthy people are not flashy and you can feel their class just by talking to them. English class goes back many centuries. They appear normal and take great interest in everyone regardless of where they work or their position.
@itoo3654
@itoo3654 Жыл бұрын
African and Middle Eastern society goes back THOUSANDS of years beyond the Bible. The BRF are Germans, essentially, and just "recently" Anglicized their name. 🤫
@bkllily
@bkllily Жыл бұрын
Philanthropy is my favorite habit since we no longer see many people really involved in giving back genuinely. Congratulations for the great content !
@adrianamaclennan7832
@adrianamaclennan7832 Жыл бұрын
I like the focus on living a richer more meaningful life. Not about consumerism. I like this
@user-py5gy9ty9x
@user-py5gy9ty9x Жыл бұрын
I believe that good manners never go out of style. It's just in my nature to be kind to people. Others will remember how they are treated, no matter who you are!
@charlotteseager9751
@charlotteseager9751 Жыл бұрын
My father, brought up in English Quaker schools. Quiet, unassuming, more interested in decorum than show. Quietly lending a helping hand where needed, and well loved by his associates and servants. He hired the down-and-out to give them a hand up, kept up with the news and read books by authors like Winston Churchill. He had a wry sense of humor and insisted in correct pronunciation, honesty and fastidious care of tools. His legacy was, as written on his gravestone, "Here lies a true gentleman"
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Lovely!
@kathleensaenz4717
@kathleensaenz4717 11 ай бұрын
Beautiful!
@mommabear5059
@mommabear5059 9 ай бұрын
Lovely. Makes me proud to have come from Quaker stock.
@trojanette8345
@trojanette8345 Жыл бұрын
My maternal grandparents who were nothing more than, mere children at the time were greatly influenced by the Forbes Family from, the 1930's. The 2 'old $$' traits that she passed down to me were, the value of education to help make oneself a more well rounded individual; and charitable giving / volunteering. Actually, my grandmother in particular was a stickler for this rule and one other. My grandmum had a family mandate that before any of us kids graduated from high school we were expected to learn at least 1 or 2 other languages; AND do some volunteer work. She once said if you can do these things it will go a long way to making someone a much more well-rounded person.
@kathleenmorrison3707
@kathleenmorrison3707 Жыл бұрын
Knowledge is a wealth no one can take from you. ❤
@janebaker966
@janebaker966 Жыл бұрын
Ah. But it needs to be the right sort of knowledge. I mean if you know all about economics + maths + can do those tricky sums and work out interest.etc thats useful but having a brain stuffed with random knowledge so youre a great quizzer that's fun but not useful IMO. I am one of those brain sponge people. I get every question right on tv quizzes,well nearly,but that is not at all useful in real life.
@lth7023
@lth7023 11 ай бұрын
My Mother drilled into me "You can't buy Class"! And my Father toned, time & again, "Don't Flaunt ANYTHING you have & don't try to Lord over those who have Less. You could easily be in their shoes tomorrow!" (Remembering the Depression) I'm 73 & so glad they instilled those Values in me! With Money comes responsibility! Bc of your Advantages, You need to help those who have Needs you can meet. To dress Conservatively in Timeless pieces, you can take the Energy it takes to obtain more, more & Focus that Energy on the things that really matter instead of trying to keep up with "The Joneses" & buying the latest "In Thing" that is only Temporal.
@ChronicTacoz
@ChronicTacoz Жыл бұрын
I never realized my family is "old money" until watching this video.
@sophieartmusic
@sophieartmusic Жыл бұрын
My mom would alway say” there’s a time & place for everything and you better be on your best behavior when your amongst the adults”, she allowed me to be a child and play with dirt etc but we were all reminded on manners, honor, respect, integrity, compassion, intelligence & courage. Especially compassion. Dinner was followed by a lecture by my father on those things.
@sophieartmusic
@sophieartmusic Жыл бұрын
And yes my daughter now has the same values instilled in her.
@Thislife78-p1w
@Thislife78-p1w Жыл бұрын
this is absolutely true! my parents and grandparents all exhibit these behaviours. i admire them tremendously.
@AllysonJFlagg
@AllysonJFlagg Жыл бұрын
I inherited the last 10 acres of our family's circa 1863 farm. It was worn out but had some lovely Savanna Oak trees and standing 1800 buildings. I determined to seek a higher value for the land, trees, water and food source, and endeavored to learn about organic farming and ecology. Armed with this knowledge, I wrote and received several grants from our local county watershed and conservation district (Each county in each state of the USA has one of these offices. These federally funded government programs were established by Teddy Roosevelt to help reverse the damaged watersheds throughout the Nation). The Savanna Oaks were a prized and now rare tree, which brought in almost $100,000 in grants to revitalize the farm as an Organic Certified program co-existing with the Savanna ecosystems. I invited children, FFA, and 4-H students to come and plant over 1000 trees, my only legacy because I have no children. I discovered a rare garlic on the farm for which I received a plant patent and found partners to grow the garlic out. One partner is in Nevada who's farther was incarcerated in the WWII Japanese camps. The second partner is from a family whose parents escaped Hitler. It is a national healing garlic for a nation weary of negative news. The experience of the farm enabled me to return to college, although late in life, I am glad I did so. I received some scholarships, but started a cleaning business to help pay for the entire Master's program. I graduated with not one, but two Masters in Ecology from our State University. The farm is now a forest of trees and healthy food, filled with deer, cougar, birds, eagles and more. It is an island of hope. Because I have no family, I found a deserving family who can carry on some of my legacy, and someday they will benefit from my life and work. Give more to the world than you take, and plant trees. One never goes wrong planting trees.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you so much for sharing this amazing story! We will have to share it at some point!
@AllysonJFlagg
@AllysonJFlagg Жыл бұрын
@@oldmoneyluxury Yes, I would welcome you sharing this thumbnail of my work. There is much more, and I would be happy to share that too!
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
@@AllysonJFlagg Feel free to email us theoldmoneyluxury@gmail.com we'd love to chat!
@starr4490
@starr4490 Жыл бұрын
Looks like I don't have a need to look farther from me because I get it from my family. Now I'll pass this on to my child and to my students. Thank you for sharing your timeless and priceless wisdom and knowledege! Young generation needs to learn from this video and apply it in their daily lives.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind comment and thoughts, Starr!
@starr4490
@starr4490 Жыл бұрын
@@oldmoneyluxury You're welcome! 😊 Please make more educational old money videos like this.
@Jayjay_0707
@Jayjay_0707 9 ай бұрын
We found out that a family member was a millionaire when she passed away. No one had a clue. She wore simple things, decorated her house with timeless classic furniture and never spoke *about* money. My step grandfather too. Old money. He practically wore his clothes until they were rags. He spent a lot of time studying the stock market and invested his money wisely. Pinched pennies whenever he could and didn’t spend what he didn’t have. You would have almost assumed he was poor because every cent of his bad value.
@elizabethandiosa4579
@elizabethandiosa4579 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this refreshing video. My father taught me good values which I cherish. My mother taught about manners and appearances but was toxic. I learned to not have that in my life and avoid it as much as possible. My grandmother taught that one must dress well and had a love for good fabrics. My dear old friend was there for me when nobody else was and was well mannered, kind, practical, and truthful and safe and talked about boundaries. It took me a long time to learn to honour my own personal boundaries and enforce them. Counselling and support and study helped a lot. I have learned that respect, kindness, financial security and purchasing good quality items is important bot only for others but for myself too. Some can be passed to future generations. Dressing well in good quality fabrics and good personal hygiene does make a huge difference in the way people treat me. Mind you, attitude and heart go along with this too. Planning for future generations and generational safety is important. Making safe choices about everything is important. Play it safe and there is no benefit in doubt are a couple of my mantras.
@theresapryor1589
@theresapryor1589 Жыл бұрын
New rich does the opposite of old money and it’s not generational. We can learn a lot
@katomoon6170
@katomoon6170 Жыл бұрын
Hands down, double salute to the entire team behind this video. Continue doing whatever you guys are doing the world will be a better place. Many thanks and utmost appreciation from Uganda - East Africa
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@daviddeveloper44
@daviddeveloper44 Жыл бұрын
What is a double salute?
@geofreywalugembe8052
@geofreywalugembe8052 Жыл бұрын
"Many thanks" sounds a lot like Canary Mugume😁
@krystingrant6292
@krystingrant6292 11 ай бұрын
They did an amazing job explaining everything I want to tell others.
@simplip4934
@simplip4934 11 ай бұрын
Nourishing the mind and giving back stood out to me. Something I can relate to and remember how I was taught growing up. This is a great lesson/reminder for all of us. Thank you for putting this video together and sharing it!
@rachelstone632
@rachelstone632 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I enjoyed knowing that some of my values, while in conflict with modern pop-culture, have a place and I'm in good company. Now, if only I could close the gap a little between their $ and mine.
@user-em5ed1qk5f
@user-em5ed1qk5f Жыл бұрын
Awesome article. Thank you for clarifying what I have often wondered about.
@Financial-Education101
@Financial-Education101 10 ай бұрын
It's so refreshing to see a focus on long-term thinking, etiquette, and discreet success in a world obsessed with instant gratification and flaunting wealth. The emphasis on philanthropy, giving back not just financially but with time and expertise, is something we can all learn from, regardless of our financial status. It's not just about accumulating wealth, but how we use it to enrich our lives and the lives of others. This video is a stark reminder that wealth isn't just what's in our bank accounts, but what we do with it. Subscribed for more wisdom like this!
@DancingDeity
@DancingDeity Жыл бұрын
This makes me think about how flaunting of new money has become so pervasive in Hip Hop culture. It is irony at it’s finest. Majority of their audience is poor so they resort to showcasing flashy consumerism to delineate themselves from their audience like - ‘hey we’re both from the hood but I’m better than you because I can afford this’. As a result, the audience sees these logos as an identifier of status, wealth, and worthiness. The luxury brands are now pandering to the culture by pasting logos all of over their collections instead of prioritizing creativity. Just look at Pharrell’s recent LV collection as the new creative director.
@shannonmakhanian1365
@shannonmakhanian1365 Жыл бұрын
I wish manners were taught today. “Manners Maketh Man.” I collect Victorian etiquette books & wish that this was taught today. And manners don’t cost a thing. Class, manners & politeness would serve the population well today if they understood how to use them. Thank you for this video. Going to subscribe 🙏
@gaslitworldf.melissab2897
@gaslitworldf.melissab2897 Жыл бұрын
Consider how long it took for the late Princess Diana to speak out about her situation in the royal family. She was a class act. Much missed and beloved Lady Diana. Much love to you.
@exaudi33
@exaudi33 Жыл бұрын
But the way she did it, through Andrew Morton's book, was most unfortunate. As was the Panorama interview. A clear case of abandoning her aristocratic values. God rest her soul.
@carolewalker2486
@carolewalker2486 7 ай бұрын
Sadly, at the end of her life, her behavior left much to be desired.
@clydeannemauldin5044
@clydeannemauldin5044 Жыл бұрын
I was raised with the biggest house, most land, in the area. My family drove Packards black of course. I was expected to treat everyone with respect. To behave a certain way in the parlor and dining room. Dress to fit the occasion. And we had money. Not Rothschild but we'll off it was just there. My brothers were all expected to work fulfill military obligations. A handshake was a binding contract. I am 79 and am appalled at the loud vulgar behavior of Americans no manners words are said on TV that I asked what they meant the first time I heard them after I was married. Our society has no respect for anyone or anything. Just listen to the news
@alyeska1320
@alyeska1320 11 ай бұрын
What I have found is that there are many, many young people who exhibit good values, but they aren’t the ones who put themselves out there on social media or the news. The reporters are almost constantly misrepresenting the US because they want views, not the truth. Don’t fear! There are many wonderful, polite, kind young people still out there. I know them from volunteering with them and having the privilege of being related to a large number of them. They’re just not attention seekers, so you don’t hear about them. They do not use vulgar language. The ones who I have traveled extensively with actually speak more quietly in public so as not to draw attention to themselves as US citizens in other countries, so they try to consciously avoid being the “ugly American” when in foreign countries. They are very aware that they are young ambassadors wherever they go, and this idea was instilled in us from a very young age. (Travel is such an essential part of an education to help one realize the great privileges we enjoy in the US, no matter how awful the media portrays it. Though our country may have many problems, we are still very blessed to enjoy the freedoms that we do.) I was raised with these values and automatically lower my voice when having a conversation in public, and these young people have been taught to do the same. I hope this has made you feel a bit better. I promise you that good manners still exist and that the idea that volunteering is essential to everyone is being passed down to future generations in many US families.
@helenjones8361
@helenjones8361 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you about manners and respect. Be polite and not be ill-mannered. Ill-mannered behaviour gets you no where. I agree that to be rich do not flaunt off your wealth. Easy money is easily gone.
@ConstantCompanion
@ConstantCompanion Жыл бұрын
I love this. We run with some people that aren't in this class exactly but they are well-off. I love being with them. They are absolutely passionate about giving. Mostly of their time. Many come second. They're a great bunch of people.
@rajasgaikwad883
@rajasgaikwad883 Жыл бұрын
I'm chuffed to see someone influencing people the right way. Thank you.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Cheers!
@twowingsatlanta4007
@twowingsatlanta4007 Жыл бұрын
This is very intriguing!! Love Love Love This!! Very educational and a wealth of information. Me personally Love the "Old Money" lifestyle. 🥰 Glad this came through my channel feed. First time seeing this. Thank you for sharing!!
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@user-vn9dx5ns8z
@user-vn9dx5ns8z 11 ай бұрын
I dated a Kennedy in college. And as a whole, his entire family valued giving back, education, refinement, and knowledge. It was refreshing from the showy perspective of the newer “generations “
@dorismahoney1440
@dorismahoney1440 10 ай бұрын
The bootlegging criminal and unfaithful ones.b
@johnflynn5002
@johnflynn5002 Жыл бұрын
I love the guys voice that narrates these videos he has the perfect pitch! I believe reading books is a great way to expand your horizons and almost live the life of these so called rich people.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Cheers! Thanks so much for the kind words and viewing
@virginiabotha3545
@virginiabotha3545 Жыл бұрын
We are not talking about old coins lodged in your sofa.😂😂😂😂
@redbird415hann5
@redbird415hann5 Жыл бұрын
This was awesome. Thank you for the straight talk on some very important facts for how to live well despite your financial strata.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Cheers, Red Bird!
@evelyn6959
@evelyn6959 Жыл бұрын
One does not need money for these behaviours and attitudes, just intelligence and self-respect.
@loloppololp9304
@loloppololp9304 Жыл бұрын
A lot of valuable information here. Well done.
@ketherwhale6126
@ketherwhale6126 Жыл бұрын
Most of those money classes of yesterday went to “ finishing” schools or etiquette trained schools - at least for women, where manners of speech and manners as well as etiquette of the day were reinforced.
@tess694
@tess694 11 ай бұрын
This is how my parents raised my siblings and I. My husband and I tried to do our best to pass this on to our kids, who are now just becoming young adults! This was educational and infotainment! Thank you and great job!! Be blessed and keep inspiring! 😊
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury 11 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@FabianBaez
@FabianBaez 11 ай бұрын
Wonderful channel. Thank you for this timeless wisdom.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury 11 ай бұрын
Our pleasure!
@florenceugboko6880
@florenceugboko6880 9 ай бұрын
This is highly enlighten and educative. What a life. What one takes seriously another one takes it lightly and it doesn't fit in. What a life. Thank you for the exposure.
@lesyaa7428
@lesyaa7428 Жыл бұрын
They charity because charity is their job. I personally think that it’s the most clever way to earn money. Whoever created this business is a genius.
@juliegeorge8533
@juliegeorge8533 Жыл бұрын
These values are shared by many people who would never qualify as 'old money'.
@explorerryan
@explorerryan 7 ай бұрын
Brilliant. Well put indeed. The pursuit of knowledge and experience is priceless in this world
@kibaki77
@kibaki77 10 ай бұрын
probably the best channel in youtube . keep up the good work,thanks for the research
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury 10 ай бұрын
Wow, thanks! That means so much, and thanks for joining the Enclave!
@yuliaantonyan8991
@yuliaantonyan8991 11 ай бұрын
Having good manners, being educated and generous, speaking languages does not necessarily have to do with old money. You may find a lot of examples of all that in middle-class families of intellectuals.
@cedricsmith8188
@cedricsmith8188 Жыл бұрын
I learned a lot this morning watching this, thank you for saying all these nice things on this awesome video.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@cedricsmith8188
@cedricsmith8188 Жыл бұрын
@oldmoneyluxury Thank you I loved it.
@TarotTarot1
@TarotTarot1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for providing a positive light on good people that often make difficult choices💕
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Of course!!
@Plenty22
@Plenty22 25 күн бұрын
I just re watched this and I found it to be so educational and so inspirational. I appreciate the effort involved. Keep up the great work!
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury 25 күн бұрын
Thanks! Glad you found it helpful, twice :)
@Mrsbc95
@Mrsbc95 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad this video exists. Thank you, for that 💛
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@JP51ism
@JP51ism 11 ай бұрын
“Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would have others think of us.” ― Jane Austen in 'Pride and Prejudice' [Re: "Success is personal & doesn't need an audience." ]
@jessikasatori3700
@jessikasatori3700 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting video. I have cherished this mindset all my life. Thanks for posting.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@lavi_arun
@lavi_arun 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video
@stellarsjay1773
@stellarsjay1773 9 ай бұрын
All the people from long term money I’ve met were surprisingly thrifty, keeping cars for years and years, wearing the same clothes for years and years, and treating everyone with dignity. If they looked down on us, it was not obvious.
@Lvaladez114
@Lvaladez114 Жыл бұрын
Charming. Yes the world could use a class in class. Your appearance and behavior says a lot about yourself. Thank you for sharing. Five great tips I'll be sure to implement. 🥰
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Thanks for viewing and commenting!
@jackielaurin8692
@jackielaurin8692 6 ай бұрын
Hurrah for this special very special video.. the best I've read ever! this wise information is the mentality that supports the "manners" that is actually instinctive behaviour of kindness to everyone... I have seen this actually with wealthy clients, it's not their education level that's impressive or their status in life, it's their low key approach and good manners to you that yells, I am / you are my equal.. it's not about the money.. we all have various talents, in business or various avenues to share with another that brightens or highlights a topic or a service you have to offer.
@pepperbird1212
@pepperbird1212 Жыл бұрын
I still marvel over my luck at forming a friendship with Diana Hobby, whose husband, mother-in-law (Oveta Culp Hobby) and father-in-law were powerful political figures in the state of Texas and nationally. Their family legacy extends over several generations. A major Houston airport is named after the family, and they also owned one of the most popular Houston newspapers. We met while in graduate school classes and discovered a mutual interest in opera. I was stunned when she offered her husband's opera ticket to me several times so we could go together, and during one intermission she kindly introduced me to another lady whose family turned out to be owners of the other major news media in Houston. The Hobby family is exceptionally supportive of cultural and educational endeavors and institutions. Diana was a lady of such grace and beautiful manners, and unusually natural and charming. It was a great privilege to know her, and I was touched when she allowed me to treat with a glass of champagne during a couple of opera intermissions.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing @pepperbird1212!
@benmahinda2008
@benmahinda2008 Жыл бұрын
You have a magical way with words,a gift of gab to dir for. I could listen to you all day. Thank you
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Cheers! Thanks
@andreapreiser6162
@andreapreiser6162 Жыл бұрын
Just my personal opinion: I not sure if rhetoric is only a gift/ talent! It is a result of growing up, education, reading books, reading let grow your stock of words, your vocabulary and putting thogether sentences! Read every genre, poems to novels..... Try it - you will love it - and you will see results😊! My mother was a teacher😅!
@benmahinda2008
@benmahinda2008 Жыл бұрын
I will definitely take your advice, I was an avid reader a while back and I am getting my mojo back. Good diction sweeps my feet away
@criminyworldriseedify8962
@criminyworldriseedify8962 Жыл бұрын
"Planting trees under which you may never get to sit" :o beautifully seen. I see several parallels with Christian thinking in the Bible as well (even though the world is broken). Thinking of legacy and love for children with the bigger picture (Not frustrating your kids, leaving inheritance even with prodigals), loves others by not wanting to disgrace anyone and listening, living in peace as far as it depends on them (reactions too), displaying 'fruit' to and for others that benefits everyone, positive thinking, etc
@LA-kc7ev
@LA-kc7ev Жыл бұрын
Beautifully and insightfully worded. Thank you. The values you portray represent civilization and man's higher understanding. They are the fruit of tradition -generational learning - that today we so gleefully toss aside.
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@ALMEER1177
@ALMEER1177 3 ай бұрын
Best video I have seen so far on youtube ❤
@jayneweaver8695
@jayneweaver8695 Жыл бұрын
This society you describe is all but gone, it is greatly missed. Thank you for the video.
@gaslitworldf.melissab2897
@gaslitworldf.melissab2897 Жыл бұрын
I have a great envy of Boston's dead elite - the Brahmin. Because of them, America has fine ivy-league institutions, now under threat due to extremism. My personal style is highly influenced by "Old Money" even though I cannot afford to buy antique furniture.
@janebaker966
@janebaker966 Жыл бұрын
You need to be so "cool" that your friends and other people you come in contact with see the kind of furniture you have,even if it's charity shop,through the filter of you,so it's cool too!
@bengerson7064
@bengerson7064 Ай бұрын
These days antique furniture costs less than new furniture, on account of changing tastes.
@LMays-cu2hp
@LMays-cu2hp Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing.
@Lee-jh6cr
@Lee-jh6cr 7 ай бұрын
I had several family members who worked for the Hill and Whitney families in MN during the first part of the 1900s. When my grandmother died during the depression, the Whitneys brought ice cream to the funeral. In an era dependent on ice houses, and in the summer to a rural area, this was quite the luxury. All because my aunt was a nanny. These families honored their former employees into their old age. Noblesse oblige.
@mandorlap8091
@mandorlap8091 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I was brought up and I don’t have old money… let’s say it’s old school :)
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
😎
@LynneC44
@LynneC44 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. We had very little, but we were raised this way-discretion and education.
@dr-ng8te
@dr-ng8te Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@rosalindhambleton9012
@rosalindhambleton9012 Жыл бұрын
Bonjour, Hello, thank you for sharing this video, quite interesting and accurate. Again, many thanks. - Rosalind -
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Thanks Rosalind!
@GurmitBSingh
@GurmitBSingh Жыл бұрын
Well analysed to a ladder of success with satisfaction!
@halcyondays8945
@halcyondays8945 Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this, thank you. I especially appreciated how the narration was done in an almost-transatlantic accent. It made it even more enjoyable for me!
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it!
@charleroy1
@charleroy1 Жыл бұрын
Quick Tip - (in regards to journaling ✍️) write down short poems when you become inspired … Then, you can gradually start writing songs … Enjoy! 😄
@dereksalas8195
@dereksalas8195 Жыл бұрын
Giving and philanthropy is an essential value to me. I’ve been on both ends and prefer giving. Education and lifelong learning is also something I’ve come to appreciate. While having a top-tier degrees is nice, it’s the process of learning, and realizing that I know little that keeps me humble and motivated to improve.
@anupreetborkar9174
@anupreetborkar9174 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for such a wonderful and knowledgeable video 🙂🙏
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury Жыл бұрын
🙏
@Sam_A_Sam
@Sam_A_Sam 9 ай бұрын
I'm only a few minutes in but I'm really loving the positive messages. Nice stuff. 👌
@oldmoneyluxury
@oldmoneyluxury 9 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed!
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