If he left you for another woman, she didn't take your boyfriend, she took your problem!
@aml87605 ай бұрын
Amen
@don4glenn5 ай бұрын
I wish her (probably, more than one 'her') well; she just inherited a whole 100% demon.
@livg33115 ай бұрын
Yes!!! 100% 💯
@BrendaBaBoom5 ай бұрын
Yup. Let her take him off your hands. 🙌🏾
@karlataylor11725 ай бұрын
Absolutely 🎉
@Susana.Cervantes5 ай бұрын
The partners that leave, were only using us. A partner that loves us, commits, they never leave.
@sophiagray6235 ай бұрын
So true.
@sanjanagrover74364 ай бұрын
Hmm
@sophiagray6234 ай бұрын
Absolutely right.
@user-cq4vk1wv9u5 ай бұрын
He thought I wasn't going to leave him. Hell I thought I couldn't. The light switched on and I walked away no more words no long text just no more of the bull. I'm sure he thinks im coming back as i do. No more crown back on. Ladies self- worth self- care self -esteem self -confidence. Valued!
@sophiagray6235 ай бұрын
Been there with him , that back and forth mess . Finally I guess it had to end. 😊
@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi17213 ай бұрын
Congratulations I respect your strength!!
@sonjacox48745 ай бұрын
Absolutely! I was just a placeholder
@ChocolateLover43655 ай бұрын
Same 😢
@user-cy6nw9ri1n5 ай бұрын
people only do to you what you allow it was a hard pill to swallow thank you bro
@alogan95025 ай бұрын
True true 💯
@khanyisilewotshela47485 ай бұрын
He was not even aware of himself.
@35densmore5 ай бұрын
It’s making so much sense. I had to walk away for my health. I could feel my decline( depression and anger), I do wish him the best though
@soniagoddard62585 ай бұрын
You are a thousand percent correct, he was never there
@debratownsend54954 ай бұрын
Absolutely 😮😮😮😮
@patkeeler66453 ай бұрын
Drug addict
@dorothynewell94085 ай бұрын
You’re so true I’ve been there my first love of 7 years just up and left me to raise our children on my own and after that: I didn’t speak to him for 30 years and I moved on and then he tried to come back after I left a 20 year marriage and I said no I don’t love you ; God has ( Delivered ) me from him and my ex husband; I’m at peace and working on my business and I thank my Heavenly Father.❤
@juanitafishburn7732 ай бұрын
Amen. Sis
@oliviabarr29865 ай бұрын
I told him he needs to heal from past childhood trauma and he said maybe I don’t want to be healed ✌🏽
@desertangelfish140Ай бұрын
Least he was being honest!
@maggiewanjiru28072 ай бұрын
Absolutely! Ghosting... and more ghosting! Oh my! What have I been thinking?!
@djeralds685 ай бұрын
Derrick, Please continue to give these deep teachings on social media and not just in your private groups. You have no idea how much you helped me today. Thank you, and thank you for considering what I've requested. Lastly, thank you for being the big brother I never had.
@user-hv7rk8vk4v5 ай бұрын
Let. Go. Let. God take. Control. Of. Heart. Stealers. Remember. There. Is. Reaping. Time. For. Those. That. Goes. Around. Breaking. Good. People. Hearts. ❤❤. God. Bless
@skybundick66855 ай бұрын
Thank you for the message this is why you guard your heart
@stephaniecobb14973 ай бұрын
No, you are helping women.. I love it.
@abshirayussuf3 ай бұрын
I have been listening to you all this afternoon and I learned so much, it gave me the clarity to see he was not there to begin with, and I was delusional to think that he cared, and I have hard time to forgive myself for who I thought he was.
@lisacleveland57855 ай бұрын
So true! This resonated in your first few words!
@latashahumphrey7695 ай бұрын
Know your value, know your worth focus on the importance of life a womans job is never done. U allow them to be happy in their relationship and find you. Smile 😁 God loves you.
@latashahumphrey7695 ай бұрын
💯
@sophiagray6235 ай бұрын
ITS EXACTLY WHAT I WENT THROUGH WITH HIM AFTER 10 YEAR RELATIONSHIP, WAS LONG DISTANCE. NEVER AGAIN, IM DONE.
@MarieN89595 ай бұрын
D you've been called for this . Many people do this just for the sake of doing something but you king was ordained for this. Thank you for not allowing your own circumstances stand in the way of your calling.
@success88cct2 ай бұрын
I am so grateful for you 🙏
@brookefreeney66735 ай бұрын
When I’m listening to D videos I’m not even looking at the phone I’m just listening to his PURE FACTS! ❤ ❤❤
@zebjavid29005 ай бұрын
Hey brother, please don't worry about being raw . Truth of the matter is, most if not all women have gotten into these situations with good intentions but road to heel is paved with good intentions. So personally, I feel, u being raw is exactly what is needed. It may be tough love, but it is real love and honesty you're providing as a great brother would and should . There's that saying, "If u do the crime, u must do your time". This is sort of like this situation, except here, your crime is that u let the new shiny thing that just walked into your life with hope and promise, drown out your inner consciences voice until u can no longer hear it. Then slowly it dawns on u, that u lost far more than u thought, u lost u. So sometimes the only way back is to hear the real truth, no matter how ugly , shameful or even painful it is. Some truths are bitter, but u have to face the music. So raw is exactly what we need. Thank u so much, it truly warms my heart to know, that there are still good men in this world. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@adrienebuford7505 ай бұрын
I like that analogy of the person controlled by drugs, it’s just the shell of the person..
@kucingninja79345 ай бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you soooo much for this video, Derrick. This is a really powerful message.
@alogan95025 ай бұрын
My my... its so hard to hear this truth, but nescassary for the future to avoid repeating this mistake.
@lisacleveland57855 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! You did a deeper dive than usual here and it was so helpful! ❤
@she1la5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your wisdom.
@janicemurphy43735 ай бұрын
Everything you have said makes so much sense and it exposes soooooooo much he needs THERAPY, IF HE WILL EVER HAVE ANY % OF a CHANCE for change!!!!!!!
@MissHerbieBugzamore5 ай бұрын
Brilliant take on everything- that happened last time leaving me feeling so broken in every way . How to manage healthier relationships in future starting with the one with myself .
@kimkimi62855 ай бұрын
This help change my life because it’s really important to love me
@Bohoempress10315 ай бұрын
Yes you are making sense. Thank you for sharing your experiences, wisdom and providing clarity to the collective. ❤
@daniellecowley79225 ай бұрын
I am this person I dont understand people who operate from malice
@meragar53295 ай бұрын
This is a great topic! Thank you!!!
@barbarahead46935 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this! Thank you
@throughthefire19805 ай бұрын
Wow this is exactly what I have been through for years he told me early on in the relationship that he was abused for years by his mom and abandoned by many including his dad and asked me to never leave him yet he left me for another woman who promised that she was gonna make his life better she gave him keys to her car and apartment and the code to her bank account we were married for 26 years they now have 2 children
@jesuschristisking28775 ай бұрын
WOW!!!!!!. I am truly sorry this happened to you...😢
@macm23735 ай бұрын
He sounds like he has Borderline Personality Disorder. Adios! You deserve better. 🫶💪
@akijah20035 ай бұрын
I am sooo sorry!!😢
@Jathyia2 ай бұрын
Wow I needed this
@user-cb1ri3qg7f5 ай бұрын
Derrick I swear you know my situation. My story I feel you know . I’d like to join your podcast but can’t financially yet but listening to you gives me strength and I know I’m healing . Thank you for being so clear and to the point .
@alyssasims84783 ай бұрын
So many good messages here. Thank you ❤
@JO-fe6ph5 ай бұрын
Good evening Derrick Jeannette here, you are absolutely right...
@pamelaleake48985 ай бұрын
I love the way you related this . I know about all this but the way you present are so needed ❤
@carolp22445 ай бұрын
You hit the nail on the head with this subject for me thank you
@cynthiagermany47485 күн бұрын
Yes, I understand, I am going through, thank you for your help.
@tracyhoward83505 ай бұрын
Handsome Derrick,love your channel!😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤
@vanessadaniely20922 ай бұрын
Thank God that you are not afraid to speak the truth.
@pt55943 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I so needed to hear everything you spoke about about.
@melissachristian27395 ай бұрын
Thank you big bro I needed this confirmation... I'm soooooooooo happy and you are telling the truth 💯💯
@aprilcobianchi28155 ай бұрын
Thank you thank you Thank you for letting God speak through you you have been a blessing to me 🙏
@Paulaemk4Ай бұрын
Thank you for helping us all try understand each other and want to be better people ❤
@katarzynaklos65274 ай бұрын
I think that obsessive thinking and the need to make sense why they left is linked to insecure attachment ergo abandonment (really self abandonment)
@Emily-ed6ed5 ай бұрын
Great message ❤
@wenyaknowbetter5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@Ianu55 ай бұрын
Amen! Thank you for this amazing insight!
@angelabogdan42535 ай бұрын
Thank you for your time and effort. Bless you and your family AMIN ❤
@user-qn6fq4ur4d5 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much for the guidance and insight 💯
@user-ln4qe1sh8iАй бұрын
Derrick, you're a blessing to us ladies 😊 I've been binge watching your videos for insight, trying to wrap my head around why he could so easily treat me badly. I know now, he was sent by the devil 😈 I will not be anyones option. Selfish season all the way. He's blocked as I don't want him, but it has been eye opening for me, I need to love myself more to attract better quality men ❤
@aed21343 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. ❤️
@elizabethclarke20053 ай бұрын
Love the stray dog analogy!
@HazelHillaryHolland-mv9ph2 ай бұрын
This is making alot of sense right now
@created2worshipat75 ай бұрын
Your speaking truth❤
@ancestraljourney1255 ай бұрын
I just came across this page today, and I've watched video after video. I know men are upset about this 😂. I Am highly anticipating the next one.
@laluna1555 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@user-ji1cs5ee8e5 ай бұрын
WOW RIGHT ON POINT 👍🙏
@pamelacallahan20305 ай бұрын
This definitely resonates❤
@jackuemcintyre89705 ай бұрын
I'm so grateful to u I've learned so much
@Bijouxs5 ай бұрын
Thank you soooo much❤
@user-cy6nw9ri1n5 ай бұрын
appreciate the truth
@rhondasmith22032 ай бұрын
i so needed this thank you so much big brother
@maureendevore26315 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video.
@Niadrawalker4 ай бұрын
Than you my big brother ! I needed to hear this message you gave some very good pointers and i needed it. Thank you so much!
@roza.ivanovakatsanou73395 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right 👍💯😊
@GwendolynPearson-wo9cx5 ай бұрын
Make perfect sense thankyou for such powerful message
@JaxnVideos5 ай бұрын
Hey Gwendolyn, I can sense how much you're struggling right now, but I want you to know that you're not alone in this. It's completely normal to feel lost and overwhelmed at times, especially when it comes to relationships. Remember to be kind to yourself and take things one step at a time. You have the strength and resilience to overcome any challenge that comes your way. If you're looking for more guidance and support, I highly recommend checking out my new master class that delves deeper into this topic. You can find the link in the description of this video. Keep pushing forward and never forget that you deserve happiness and fulfillment in your relationships. You've got this! ❤️
@GwendolynPearson-wo9cx5 ай бұрын
@@JaxnVideos thankyou
@marti86415 ай бұрын
Wow , thank you, eye opening for me!
@user-on4zq1xm3hАй бұрын
I would say leave the door closed a job well done he not going to change make sure you make yourself happy it’s problems when you open the door
@cherryvillahermosa54484 ай бұрын
Hi , I am new to your channel ...yes I understand . Thank you
@user-cy6nw9ri1n5 ай бұрын
im not staying fuck that
@sophiagray6235 ай бұрын
Wish I had said and done that.
@user-hi4zr7sh8z2 ай бұрын
So helpful. Thank you.
@karlataylor11725 ай бұрын
Thank God🙏🏻
@user-on4zq1xm3hАй бұрын
Thank you
@belindarogers46463 ай бұрын
Tried to make me feel he was invested,but when I started to call him on it and took initiative to set things in real motion..out came the excuses 😊
@dwilliams57005 ай бұрын
I GET IT ... Thank You Derrick !!!
@terryannwrighthartman4164 ай бұрын
I'm get out of this relationship. You is right
@latashahumphrey7695 ай бұрын
I kept my word and stayed i kept that promise but i couldn't fight against the streets
@user-on4zq1xm3hАй бұрын
You make straight up sense
@theresacarter89265 ай бұрын
I right there you speaking facts
@Weismant81Ай бұрын
I’m dealing with an avoidant…….. we’re in that game stage.
@robertaford21274 ай бұрын
He may wanted even thought in that moment. .. . He Needed something from you, that you couldn't give him. Even what he couldn't Give to you. He still wounded from Previous Hurts Pain Emmotional Conflicts Of his heart mind & soul...... Of previous broken Soultie Relationships. Unfinished business.... Even from his youth Childhood. Only to Sooth Suffice Pamper his Brokeness..... Only adds & inflicks Your brokeness Toxic Begats Brokeness. A Broken Spirit who can bare it.
@preciousatatsi5 ай бұрын
You actually look like my brother. This was like one on one with me
@kellyharless76064 ай бұрын
You hit the nail on the head
@marietg80254 ай бұрын
You make so much sense, in every video! Yeah I get everything you say :)
@user-on4zq1xm3h5 ай бұрын
I t made a lot of sense in each step you take
@janjacksonauthorАй бұрын
making TOTAL sense!
@elizabethsanchez1453 ай бұрын
He had no balls
@carolynfields4342 ай бұрын
He didn't leave me. I told him to leave. And he left with know problem. Didn't have know problem with it.
@user-ek8wq5zd5zАй бұрын
I let him go and started taking care of my well bieng and I didn't want to lose myself
@oliviadavis99115 ай бұрын
Derrick why did he leave me when we had sex he texted me and said he was going out of town on a business trip and he never texted me or called but I thank God he left I have my peace?
@dishappywithlife25565 ай бұрын
I’m sorry to say this, he used you to have sex, once he got what he wanted he “ghosted” you. It’s painful but you now see his character, he may come back to “get more sex” to use you again and this is where you need to set some boundaries. Good luck 🤞🏽
@Jillian153 ай бұрын
My husband said he had to leave the country to get a job. He forgot to tell me and his 2 year old daughter that he was also leaving us.
@sophiagray6235 ай бұрын
Use to be successful let relationships being used in bad relationships have lost everything Amen I have let me my down fall Come with nothing Take away everything I didn't want to judge them for having less than me Thought maybe they did y have a good start.
@denisecustard62655 ай бұрын
Making so much sense
@user-on4zq1xm3hАй бұрын
I understand you made a lot of good sense i am awake i here you
@jodaisy1132 ай бұрын
This should not be making sense but oh great creator it sadly is … my person is a married alcoholic … please don’t judge me … after 24 years of ins and outs of long distance relationship … I’m in the process of letting who I thought was my best friend go … this is the most painful experience I have ever faced … I need divine support thank you 🙏💕