LULZ, you don't give respect for them acting normal and civil, that's a bare minimum. Good job also to them for not shitting on the floor and twerking from the ceiling beams, very proper.

@RobertMorgan lol true 👍

​​@@RobertMorganyou give props for being above average. Being chill is above average these days.

@@tesladrew2608 how far we've fallen that they need to be praised for being held to basic standards of dignity and respect

You shouldnt get credit for that.. just for being able to have a "conversation"... tch

I think he is referring to "the hoes"

Exactly. Well answered.

Kids nowadays think it's more a competition smh

Great point

That guy was wrong on many things then the other guy, possibly the clown recording himself looking at a frame of a picture copies it and shares it as his own then you clowns go and support this plagiarism lmfao

Ooooouuiiii ffaactttsss..

Once I realized that after my divorce, I ended up meeting a guy that I didn't even want to give a chance. It had only been a year since the divorce was finalized. And dammit, I fell in love with that guy. I was angry because it was too soon. I just knew though. Now we've been together for 11 years, married for 7. I haven't regretted my decision once. My first husband, I definitely tried to fit into a mold and it didn't work.

Love you for that, we all gotta do our part in small ways to be better, i as a man will always strive to be better, no woman will feel unsafe in my presence

So now you're a pick me... You used to be one of those PEOPLE. PEOPLE. You being a woman isn't why you did these things. You growing as a PERSON is why you stopped. Your chromosomes don't negate you shared human experience. What does being a woman have anything less or more to do with lacking true love than being a man or women? Love is human.

Me too! And ever since this finally clicked in my brain six years ago I’ve been single. 😅😅

Why bittersweet? Can you share more pls? I would like to understand and learn pls

Spill the tea😂😂

@@karlatrevino860 bittersweet because loving someone takes a lot of energy and when you care so deeply about someone it kinda dictates what you do in your life.

​@@yanelisn.b4379 Yall make us do shit we dont wanna do 😂

​@@DarknessReprieved Men in love are cutest tho 😂 I saw an old man in cafe the other day, sipping on coffee and looking lovingly at his wife. As soon as she goes to washroom this man put her favorite pastries from his plate to hers. When she came back he smiled and said "darling eat em all, i ordered it for you anyways".❤

If that's true - and I have no reason to doubt it bc I don't know you - then you, and your partner, are definitely exceptions to all rules! Good for you both. Hope it lasts.

I CLAIM AND RECEIVE THIS TYPE OF LOVE FROM THE MAN GOD HAS FOR ME 🙌🏾🙏🏾! I PRAY YOUR LOVE FOR YOUR FAMILY REMAINS THIS WAY ALWAYS🙏🏾

WOW I almost said I love you after I read your comment 😂. You're an awesome human Sir 🙏🏾🥰

Forever is a long time, my friend. Wish you luck.

Your gratitude is so refreshing! I know marriage and raising a family isn’t easy, but it’s such a gift to get to experience both the up’s and down’s with people who you’ve chosen to love, and know they choose to go through it all by your side. That’s true richness in this life 🤍

No women's limbic systems which is the more emotional and social parts of the brain are more active. But we tend to have friends and family that we go get drinks with afterwards and we have a bigger social structure. Men typically don't have emotional talks with their male friends.

Aww that’s so sweet. So nice to see it this way!

​@@deannas2778 Not quite right. Today's youth talk and discuss their feelings with their male friends.😅

You don't love women like me. I'm too sexual for a man could love me. You want pure women, and I don't really care anymore I'm used to being unwanted for how I truly am. I know how to love myself I don't need a man and i don't need anyone

No woman wants to triple and quadruple it with kids AND a man she doesn't love, so whatever y'all thinking, multiply by more and right back at ya. Lol

Congratulations and may God continue to bless and keep you both.

I think this applies more for the "falling in love" phase. Once you spend enaugh time together, it's inevitable to truly love each other, assuming everything works well. My little sister changes crushes every 2/3 years and brags about them for hours to everyone, I only had 4 in my life and nobody knows a thing about the first 2; the last one had me falling in love 2 days after we met the first time 3 weeks ago. It feels entirely different from whatever I've experinced before, it's the first time I'm behaving like my sister, but unlike her I'm scared shitless: this girl is older than me and already has a car and job, I truly can't stand the idea of making her move and pay for dates, I'm trying to figure something out, but it's hard. I'm experiencing what the guy said in this short, I'm in distress and, occasionally, pain becouse I love this girl and I don't know if I'll be able to carry this responsability, while my sister clearly cares not for responsability and is, in fact, infatuated to the idea of being taken care of, rather than to a specific person. At least the girl seems interested back.

That means you still in Love zone tho, may it continue eternally

Yes, men are responsible for their women, and women are responsible for their children, but it doesn't work the other way around.

We're far from that now. The breakdown of values has created a chasm to far for us to cross. Not without help. So until then, cut the losses and move on. Or settle. But just remember the risk

Nah, Enough of that equality bullshit. That's not reality. Men carry the world on their shoulders.

He’s talking about in regards to dating , men are technically naturally the providers ever since time. Biology

You’re totally right, it is, but he’s referring to the (typical) difference between what men and women feel responsible for.

I’m sorry you experienced such hurt because of loving someone….

@@ms.deflorimonte1690 I appreciate that. Thank you. You're a very kind person.

Damn I hope you're doing better man..❤ also happy birthday

@@27jerry27 Thanks, my man. I'm doing much better now. Although, I've never had another relationship since.

HAPPYYY BIRTHDAYYYY STRANGERRR🎉🎉🎉🎉!!!! Have a good day bro😎

You seem to be much more mature in your emotions then the guy in the video. Though I don't know you, I'm happy your enjoying your experience.

And then u expect men to wait for u to deal with your nonsense and time we moved on

@@brandonsexperience2008 not every girl is the same as the one(s) who hurt you

@@brandonsexperience2008women for the most part aren’t capable of working through their own mental adversity and being with a guy the love. That is why they leave when it’s hard because it’s easier to start a new than work on themselves and a man at the same time. Women seek the idea of love but it’s hard for them to genuinely reach that leave so instead they just want it to be there alrrady

What does this mean? I’m not sure what you’re trying to say.

@@AmericaUncensored-my4bg tbh, I know plenty of women who have put their all into a relationship, and the men they’re with take their efforts for granted. I’m not saying it’s like that for all women ofc - and it’s not the same for all men either - but I think generalising us as not being able to work through our own adversity is bs, it goes both ways. I do agree with you to a certain extent, but I believe that’s an individual’s issue, and not purely based on gender

Yea the only men that think they love more authentically than women are the selfish ones. Notice he said “when a man falls in love that’s not a happy experience.” Yea for YOU cuz u don’t wanna think outside of yourself for once. Most ppl who fall in love are happy 😂

👍Exactly! Thank you for sharing!

Awwww 🥰

True. He is talking about the initial attraction and dating stages when he talks about women and the love stage when talking about men so that's not fair. Also men may fear their role but that doesn't mean they love more. A woman can fear parts of her role too. Fear they can't have kids or they won't bond with kids, or they are not enough for him, they can't look after him as much as he deserves because she is just as tired as he is after work, fear she is not the nurturing type. There are lots of fears women experience in their role too but this man doesn't see that. A lot of men don't see that and don't realise that many things women complain about are things that impact her ability to do her role to the best of her ability. Like taking out the trash or fixing something in the house. If her role is to nurture and make the house a home that can be comfortable for the whole family, then having a pile of stinking overflowing bins means her role is not fulfilled. When she does a full day at work and needs help to keep the house to an acceptable standard but is tired so needs his help, like she is helping him with his role of being provider, it impacts her ability to do her job properly. Men and women both love and no man can say its worse for men because he can never really understand what it is like to be a woman and vice versa

Thanks for sharing

Men like that are more in their feminine energy which is fine but those men will always attract women that are more in their masculine.

​@@tigerpaws111 it's funny what defined as feminine and masculine. This is subjective based on your country. In my culture, if men fail then it's alright. A women as his partner should do that. What if wife failed to give baby? hated? need to be replaced? OR what if men become disable? no more provider?

Exactly I’ve loved one man my whole life and it’s hard to get that connection, I’m not in love with love. I want to know everything about them and just want to know them. Men here again acting like they’re the only ones that experience life

They are the only ones that experience life…as Men. He never negated women either 🤷🏾‍♂️

​@@nanaegyirackahtaylor9661 he kinda did. To say men love "more" authentically, is telling women how they experience love which is in his great wisdom less authentic.

Funny how men accuse women of being "picky" and "having high standards." Then they say we see men as interchangeable and are willing to plow through them. RIDICULOUS.

@@fairygodmother139 Don't forget though, we do live in the era of feminist narcissists, "empowered" women children, me too! manipulative scum. A LOT of women seem to be doing everything they can to make ALL WOMEN look like worthless people. I've met more like that by far in my life than genuine good women. While I know it doesn't speak to the WHOLE, it unfortunately does speak to the MOST, and it's a really, really bad look.

Men cheat because they give love by having sex, it's also in our biological drive to spread seed. Women cheat because they're constantly looking for the next best thing.

Women don’t want to hear reality. Example - right here. And BTW, men and women cheat at the same rates..

People should stop selling podcast equipment.

​@@amusingwordplay7298 I agree with you there

Thank you, our generation have really are always having this emphasis of men and women difference and one trying to one up the other and constantly finding issues that were never there in the first place , but was created by them in the first place, there is understandable dichotomy between us but that should be In a harmonic ying and yang sought of thing ever so different but forever working in unity

I was too. All men I know are womanizers. Have no idea how to love..look at the younger boys..no men to love them. I was ready to swipe😂

Yes, it 🐑only shows she has no capacity to think or analyse things herself for arguing.

​@@ojala5555what?🙎🏾

@@ms.evegene I was being sarcastic.

@@ojala5555 oh lol

Okay, so she's dumb. What else you got?

But can you understand his perspective?

@@sdm_za absolutely 💯

But have you

@@Truestoned0 yes I have… I can attest it is ethereal

@@Kwa_mngomezulu good to hear brother✊🏼

It’s not so much that as it is the men’s side has by and large been dismissed as patriarchal and oppressive for the past 60 years. We say our side and people don’t like what they hear because they haven’t heard it as part of mainstream discussion in 60 years. Men have, by and large, always felt this way

It's just talking about differences not putting against each other

I think women r in love with love when they're young. As we age we realize it's not just about romance. You must be friends too and have similar values.

@@danilaroche1156 and depending on the choices they made when they were young, that affects their chances at the real thing like anyone else

Perhaps but God always gives us another chance to change. I know I have.

Peasant*

Bullshiiiiittt

​@@Mira-gu6we 👍! I only wonder that they didn't erase your comment. My comments are often erased even with more modest words💁‍♀️

​@@ojala5555it's cause there's more than one "i" and "t"....

@@snipesoneverything6872 Is it true?

Im sorry that you got a douchebag father

😮😮 I am confused...

Confused about what?

@@silverlow your comment was rambling about like 7 different unrelated things.... i'm also wondering how any of that fit together

​@@silverlowI think I got what you were saying

Śrī Paramahansa Yoganandaji said that we must cultivate at least one relationship of pure unconditional love in this lifetime. May we all be blessed to cultivate pure unconditional love for All That Is. Peace be with you. One love always 💜🙏🕊🕉✡️⚛️☪️☯️✝️🕉

Nah

Of course he would suffer, it's called compassion.

@@aaliyaheverett2601 Awe my dear compassion is not suffering from my perspective. Compassion is feeling with and for the other but it's not the same thing as suffering. I can feel sympathy for someone or I can empathize with them and both of those have different affects on myself. To me suffering is a choice, as it's the conscious endurance of pain or distress. Peace be with you. One love always 🙏🕊💜🕉✡️⚛️☪️☯️✝️🕉

@@Ilovelife20101 Empathy is the ability to put oneself in another persons shoes, especially when they are suffering. If you're heart doesn't hurt when another persons hurt, that's not empathy. Compassion, at it's very core, is painful.

Does a woman need to reconfigure or sacrifice at all in a relationship?

​@@isz92yes sir or ma For the genuine ones at least. I know I did, and nearly joined the "men are scum" gang. It wasn't pretty. Being in love is a gamble of life both for men and women I guess

This man as provider etc etc, has to do this and that that women don't have to do is a myth. Men don't need to take care of women like children. Both men and women work in this modern world.

@@theresaandrade5708it’s all of the false expectations in our head that makes us go “dammit!”

💯. Just had this conversation with my dad. I’m 40 he’s 62. We’re still both learning

Praying women come into your life soon. Hoping you can prioritize that and manifest it, because it’s easy to not realize how important those relationships are until you have them and look back.

Exactly!

It’s only responsibility for men

@@ixxac9814then why women are the one who hold all the responsibilities in a relationship??

@@lovejunkie490 like what? It’s a man’s job to provide and protect if he doesn’t he’s seen as weak and you can’t be seen as weak because they don’t feel secure and protected. Yes nowadays women and men make money but if a women makes more she starts to feel like the man is weak. The woman out-earning the man is a huge cause of divorce because men are the only ones built to protect and provide.

@@ixxac9814 like carry the mental load, being literally your therapist, like helping and supporting you while you always take credit for it, never being grateful for us supporting you, if a man cheat you will say stuff like « she wasn’t giving scmeck to her man » if we leave because you disrespected us, neglected us, etc, it’s always our fault. We are always the one responsible for the family (chores, childcare,…)… we always take accountability for your actions indeed. Men are causing the divorce by neglecting them emotionally, don’t support them, don’t help them, cheat on them but somehow we are the one in fault. Accountability is kryptonite for men…

@@lovejunkie490 does emotional support stress you out as much as supporting a family of 3 or more in a 300k house with a mortgage half of your income where you work 70+ hours and then come home to help your wife with childcare and chores bc it’s who you are and then get up the next day to do the same thing without being able to ask for sex without the wife seeing it as needy and a 1 way desire just to get up the next day and do it again then 15 years later she decides she wants to be a hot girl and take half your shit and the kids you raised don’t speak to you while you live in a rented apartment paying your mortgage payment in alimony to your ex wife. My point being it’s more stressful for men although I don’t doubt it being very stressful for women, it shouldn’t be with the right man just as it shouldn’t be with the right woman. And I agree abusive relationships are the man’s fault although no abusive man will admit that bc he’s too drunk, and I also agree men shouldn’t cheat if they aren’t getting anything but if asking your partner for more sex is seen as needy and they don’t desire you and haven’t in years and you have kids together what would you do?

💯❤️

Mmmhm. This video just creates more of a divide and reason to separate each other and justify behaviors that do not serve authentic relationships. Can people not just say, when I fall in love with someone this is what happens? Instead of trying to be the all-encompassing expert?

​@@InvictusAlchemy facts.

@@essoundsofsilence he’s avoiding the real issue that he associates love with pain and danger 😞

Yes because those men now that they are ass*****, thats why they stay away of their Kids, all Out of Love, for sure😂

Since there are no men who want to see their children, regardless of not being with his partner.

There always exceptions to anything, men and women just Naturally think differently and there's nothing wrong with that at all, things like tomboy exist because they think like boys in a way but this guys statement till holds true, God bless you

Well worded ! ❤️

Right?! I catch feels like it's influenza.

you missed the whole point lol

I Understand Your Take On The Subject. Although, I As A Woman, Don't Just Consider Myself As Just A Giver. I Too Consider Myself As A Receiver As Well, I Am Just Very Weary And Aware Of Who I Choose To Seriously Receive From. Because All Who Give, DO NOT Give With GOOD Intentions. I Guess That's When My Childhood Lessons, Such As 'Don't Take Things From Strangers' And 'Everybody Is NOT Your "Friend"'??(From Hindsight Gear), Always Seems To Tend To Automatically, Kick Back In. I Also Think That My 'Over Giving', Is Just A Coping Mechanism, To Sooth The 'Takers'(Greed), Especially, If I Have Already Allowed Them To Share Or Give Me ANYTHING, To Keep Them From Feeling 'Used🥴'(Due To Their Personal Sense Of DELUSION), Because Although I Give, There Are Certain Things That I Can Tell That They Are Trying To Get Out Of Me Or From Me, That They Will NEVER Get. Because I Know That They Are Not Like Me, And Don't Appreciate Much. If That Makes Sense, To Anyone Else??💁🏽‍♀️ Because It Sure In The Hell, Makes Perfect Sense To Me.🤷🏽‍♀️😁🙂 #But #ToEach #His #OR #Her #Own😊

@@letsgot1274 beautiful point

He doesn't have to provide for her neither cause she works.

You still cannot see his point even when he put it out like that. When I was younger, I would see men who were doing great, dressed fine and had nice stuff when they were single. As soon as they got married, those things stop. Responsibility and sacrifice will do that. On the flip side, the kids and the wife will get new stuff before he changes his shoes. You're here talking about ego.🤦🏾

@@ProfessionalCleancutguy this is an assumption of all marriages and families and women. Which is always false because you cannot bunch us all up in the same category. Stop pitting men against women and vice versa. That kind of rhetoric is just going to further the divide in this country. Most men want a dainty well put together nicely dressed hair done nails done kind of woman. With that in mind, it’s obvious that the woman would buy more clothing and spend more money on looks than her husband. Again… that’s not always the case.

She's not his women, why the hell would he protect her at all? SHE is HER MAN's liability to protect her. Oh, her man isn't there, must not be much of a man. Oh, she doesn't have a man, must not be that much of a woman.

I don't think he's saying men's thoughts and emotions are above women's, but that we teach love and how to love differently to both genders. Thats how when that love comes about for either men or women, it often works differently. If anything he's saying men don't know they love someone till they in it, but women often know "if" they can even love someone after meeting them a few times. So it becomes a matter of awareness. Sometimes though women can be too in they feelings to recognize whether they really feel love for a man, or if it is just infatuation. While most times because men are taught not to be overly emotional and to push everything down, when EVEN they admit they're in love; its because no matter how hard they push their feelings down their feelings for that women are so strong that they can't help but admit it. I would say a women's love is like a Diamond. It can shines brightly in the light, but it is often shaped and sculpted by that's woman's previous experiences in life. Just like how Diamonds are formed along side conditions outside themselves. At the same time Diamonds are as valuable as their supply and access. So a woman who gives her "diamonds" to just anybody makes her love seem worthless, because if she gave it to these 500 other men, what value is the diamond I get?? Yet, if she truly limits not only the supply but the access of her Diamond to one man, it is more valuable than anything in the world. And that woman has every right to be angry if the man she only gives her diamonds to fumbles the bag. While a man's love is like a pearl. It can only be formed in the depths of man's soul, but once it's formed; it is entirely unique. Its value is entirely up to what the man takes in and internalizes, and how much pressure he puts on that love. So a man who doesn't care about you will give you a "pearl" that isn't worth its weight in salt. A man that does care and love you, will give a pearl worth more than its weight in gold. I dont mean strictly monetary value when talking about Diamonds and Pearls. I mean things like romantic values, family values, and even spiritual values as well. Those things are often the priceless things of life we all want.

@@sonyyung5510 men are the ones infatuated and in lust way more than women.and it's due to hormones and rate of maturity and brain development. Research and self reported cheating rates and Limerence proves this too. People talk too much about themselves and project in comments. I study the science of relationships, as well as Child and Family Development. This video and comments are romanticizing a moment in time and not talking about love LONG term but the recognition you must love someone if you are doing things for that person you don't normally do. Women already do things for others more and often are higher on agreeableness and flexibility scales than men so men are not seeing that women already start off at a higher place for that in childhood and teens so men when they show or feel it as teens are acting like it's some amazing thing to not be self absorbed but are already way below that of females. To say that is love is also not a universally accepted idea. Maybe men, especially ones in this video, feel/ believe that their love is more intense but that's not shown in research and over time women around the world stay more loyal and love longer and sacrifice more for their partner and you cannot argue with the data and be anything but deluded.or in denial. Not.many active single dads out there staying celibate pining for their wives to come back. Not many women lying about marriage status to have affairs compared to men. Yes they do it but the self.reoieted and numbers obtained by other means still show a large gap in fidelity, though it is closing as women ACT more like guys instead of men reducing their cheating rates and acting more like the women keeping the vows and not spreading diseases as much...I worked in HIV research in late 1990s so don't even think I'm ill informed. Most men never sacrifice anything substantial for a woman or kids, but every woman that gets pregnant sacrifices years and health as a result of that man, unless she is single and used in vitro. Research show life span and telemeres reduce with each pregnancy and those with less support age and have other psychological issues they would not have had if they remained single and focused on working and enjoying friends. This is not conjecture. The men benefit greatly with longer life spans due to being married. Wives take better care of them so the roles reverse about mid life and on if not from day one of marriage as she wants him to eat better and cares about hygiene, etc... I am an advocate for healthy marriages and families BUT I know the stats and will not lie and will call out those that spread deception or their "feelings" and then act like those feelings are facts. These men are GASLIGHTING these women and probably themselves too. Men do it from childhood and are told it's just their opinion and everyone is entitled to one and never grow up to see there is a difference between an honest and evidence based opinion and one based on lies or wishful thinking spin and based on no evidence and just the feelings from chemicals in their body at that moment in time. My Proof is how many men say they love a women just to get sex and know deep down they don't love her, they love having sex or getting sex from her and that's NOT remotely the same thing now is it???? I've heard grown men who are authentic discuss this with young men ALL the time and it's a very EYe opening session. It takes DADS of girls to see Truth and take the time to cut through the macho crap is what I have learned and I am nearly 50. Sex isn't love either. Love is honoring the values of the other person enough to DENY yourself. LOVE is a lot about self sacrifice for the good of others, especially kids and I see women doing that way more than men in every single ethnic group and every religion and every earnings bracket,.except maybe female CEOs and Celebrities. FACTS y'all.

thats exactly what came to my mind why bother

The point is we can see many red flags in a man and still try to make him fit our criteria and romanticize any thing he does. That's why you see many women not leaving because they're In love with who they want him to be ( their romantic fantasy) whereas men don't do that so they usually separate sex amd love so when they actually love a girl they love them

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink 😂

Doesn’t stop them from trying…

if that was true there would not be an 80% female divorce rate and astonishing single-mom-ness. This is why I say never marry before year 10 together, you need THAT LONG to make sure she's not FAKING liking you for money or status. Why, because BILLIONS of men get exploited for money and status like that. I'm unlovable, so she has to WANT to overcome that to keep me.

​@@angiemarie6736this comments section has some very interesting opinions. I enjoyed reading them. Your comment described the "younger me" to perfection. I didn't realize how much music, media, and culture shaped my idea of love. As a result, I've not had a successful relationship. My ex-husband and I ended amicably and I never remarried, nor do I have any "friends". I spent the last 7 years working on myself and my relationship with Yeshua. I was a big part of the problem in my past relationships. If a person doesn't want to be alone with themselves, why would anyone else want to be with them? I worked on healing my codependency and learned to enjoy my own company. In the Bible , Paul said he learned to be content in any and all circumstances (paraphrasing). I'm more well adjusted than I've ever been, of course I'm older and now. Grandchildren are the joy of my life, second only to Yeshua. I wish I knew back then what I know now. Blessings to you on your journey. 🙏🏼

Nope! Anyone manipulating ain't in love, try again.

@@vangu2918relax, it’s KZfaq😂🤦🏽‍♂️

@@vangu2918 what I’m trying to say is that when a man’s in love, it’s love Women? Sometimes it’s just emotions. Can’t be sure

@@nathanielslot3016 I think a manipulative person is just a trigger for @vangU2918. I understand 🙂

​@@mawusivivor5546that's not true, I've seen many men just toy with a girl's emotions and leave abruptly, ruining that girl's life, and I've seen plenty of women try to stay in a toxic relationship trying to make it work because they love that guy. It's not a gender thing. It's a personality thing

Fr. Just look at history. Woman have always caterd to EVERYONE. And what did they get back? A slap in the face.

Fr. Just look at history how they treated woman for doing everything right and caring for everyone. Men are naturally more selfish and ungreatful but they still find a way to turn it around. You cant really blame them though. Its how nature made them.

As a woman, I understand what you’re saying, but his statement doesn’t mean that a woman’s love isn’t authentic. He’s clearly saying that it’s more easier for a woman to fall in love, so, the authenticity of it can be questionable. Women have been ingrained in her since she was a little girl, to be in love with the idea of love, marriage, and family. So, sacrificing herself mentally, emotionally, and physically, is easier and natural. However, for a man to “actually and authentically” fall in love, is a whole other story. He’s not falling for every woman he meets and sleeps with like some women. It’s takes special qualities about her that makes him want to protect, provide, and give up his last name to. This wasn’t the entire video, but I agree with what I did hear.

@@creativelyrics7711I don’t think that’s true. Most older single women are much happier than married counterparts and have longer life expectancies. It’s single men who seem to struggle so hard with being alone that the idea of a single woman having cats for company gives them an aneurysm! It’s what men always threaten us with : ending up alone as a cat woman! But the cat ladies are all so happy 😂

​@@Kwahzutahkeep telling yourself that darling

I absolutely agree with this comment and I wished more people would understand this.

Aren't we ignoring the rest of the chapter? If we read the rest of chapter 5, we see that the Lord is telling the church to be subservient to Christ. Wives should submit and Husband should sanctify and love their wife. The prophet is saying that the entirety of the church should be entirely focused on attaining sainthood, because we both are prone to sin (by your logic, women are disrespectful and men are unloving. Both lead to cheating)

I am not weadindg all dat

I would agree if Adam didn't knowingly give up Eden to stay with Eve

Y’all are sick leave god out of this if you cheat your a cheater if you don’t well you don’t tired of ppl making it all about men and women like we don’t know we sin we all do it’s how you respond to that experience you either learn it’s wrong or it becomes a pattern a cycle which must be treated within

Partner like a business lol

Amen

Unfortunately sometimes they do know their true values and expectations not matter how many conversations and counseling sessions 😢

feminist bs. no such thing as gender. a female is not a man's partner. she's his help mate. RIP Kevin.

@@sunnyheaven369 love this

I can tell that you are a rare gem, very perceptive. Thank you for your comment :)

😇Yeah, thank you for your comment❤! We all need more people and comments like yours because the world is a mess.🙏

Wow this is fascinating and so simple. Men and women need each other. In the Bible it says he who finds a wife finds a good thing and receives favor from the Lord! God is so good. Men and women each have flaws and strengths. It can take time to love right. It’s a battle our society is trying to break up the family unit so love, marriages and children don’t go forth. If children do come about they are in broken homes thus creating broken people. What we need in society today is selflessness. All around the world would be a better place. RN it’s just a bunch of narcissists running around. The change starts with me. I’m going to work on selflessness in my relationship! ❤

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Men like this are dumb

well those people that love authentically are more likely to be men

It is based on gender actually lol

@@FatalS420 I am a muslim woman and my future husband is the first man I talked with , I love him deeply and authentically and cant wait to be married to him and show him my love , respect and loyalty 😊 so if you didnt meet a woman like this does not mean they dont exist , stop generalising and have good faith in your future partner🥰

if that's your experience, YOU are the leftover getting settled for.

Men don’t marry because they want to be married. Men don’t LIKE marriage. Women like marriage and all the pageantry that comes with it. You’re literally just projecting your own feelings onto men.

@@RobertMorgan not my experience unfortunately. i don't settle for these men. so bold of you to assume.

@@katkat4986 "IF that's your experience" He didn't assume anything lol. Reading comprehension is important. So bold of you to assume.

@@MeHoyMinoyDoodlebob you clearly skipped basic and advanced logic in school while thinking you have the best comprehension. how bold.

The goalpost is being moved ALL THE TIME - this ends up with the effort being not worth spending!

But do women fulfill their responsibility of care, nurture and purity ?

@@sourabhkumar3852 care? For what? Nurture? Who? Purity? That do not exist in Nature...

​@@sourabhkumar3852 are your mothers not enough for that responsibilty?

How about women get out of the workforce then? I won't provide for a woman who can provide for herself and her career. Most women aren't marriageable, sorry.

I thought it was just me. Women love authentically as well. We are just more open with our love and our love is more adaptable while a man's is more rigid. Both are authentic, but just different.

Right, because, in other words, he's saying that women love the idea of love due to unrealistic ideals. Fairytale weddings, the materialistic/superficial level when that couldn't be further from the truth. Everyone has their ideals, but that doesn't mean that they'll be based on those ideals. Logic versus emotion. Nature versus nuture. Some do, and some don't.

Right and his reasoning is flawed.

Tons of men are fixated on the idea of women, and care more about that than the individual women they meet. They obsess over the idea thst getting a girlfriend will fix their entire life. Or they hop from relationship to relationship as soon as a woman shows that she has needs, too. This video is bs.

He said MORE authentically. Love is love but think of how women say men wouldn’t understand what it’s like to walk the street alone & scared. Same thing when a man truly loves a woman. You wouldn’t understand.

😂stop

Me too

heartbreak is a different experience for every individual, avani. it's about how you cope with it. most men don't cope with it and it results in pent up anger issues and bitterness.

They don't feel it harder. They just feel angrier about it because they think they shouldn't have to feel bad. Men are very entitled. Women accept suffering as part of life so we just endure it and move on. Men throw a fit like a child.

And you believe it because the word "statistics" make it real and factual for All men??? Smh!

Aren't they few times more likely to leave their terminally ill partner according to statistics tho?

@@dejamesolatherapy, please seek it 🥴

This isn’t more obvious to a lot of women because men will often hide their true feelings behind a hard exterior where they appear to be uncaring and unmoved. A man’s worse fear is to love a woman and then she betrays him and abandons him. Men like to feel needed and useful. A lot of women take that away from men. If a man provides for you and takes care of you, he’s head over heels in love. But most women will sabotage this because the man isn’t TELLING her “I love you”. Most men think that should be obvious because he is taking care of you. Masculine energy is about doing and being action-oriented. Masculine energy is stable and more predictable and l likes to create structures and rules, so it knows how to apply logic properly. Feminine energy is flowing and dynamic. Its movements cannot be predicted or always explained with a rational mind. This energy is not constrained by social norms because it does not follow any rules other than the guidance that comes from the heart. When we can understand our energies we then can understand our roles and understand each other in the process helping us to fall naturally in our gender roles. ❤

^who ya quotin'? 😗

No they don't. Women like you break mens hearts. That's why men won't love you.

Men love you. Women love dates, weddings, making friends jealous. As he said, you're in love with love.

Some men, or all men?

@@sjonnieplayfull5859 if you have to ask, it's obviously _"all_ men." *Some* men would _never_ do this, but we're not talking about *_them,_* just the ones who treat women like dirt. ...which is, y'know, _men...?_

🙄That’s not what he was saying. He said it that way to convey that most men dread falling in love because with it comes responsibility. All men know that they must provide, produce and protect the women they love; mother, daughter, sister and wife/gf/fiance

Well described and cannot disagree.

Complacency is the goal. If I'm not complacent, not CONTENT, fuck that woman, she's useless. She's UNSETTLING. Why would I WANT to be unsettled? ICK. I want to know she thinks and says this today, she'll think and say the same thing 45 years later. Because that's how I am. I DECIDE I love you, that's a billion year commitment. If she can throw that away, she's not worth anything.

Wow.

Wow, I love this! I’ve screen shot your comment and placed in my photos as a constant reminder. Thank you 🙏🏾 😊

Girl SAMEE like my love is NOT for everyone and he's going to have to prove he's worthy of it.💅

Thank you!

This sentence is contradictory in its essence Pray you see it

you lying thru your teeth

@ScottPittman-jc7ph How exactly is this lying you don't know any of us 😒. Maybe you hold some stupid stereotypes of women but get your head out of the gutter now what I think she meant is that with the right person her love is unconditional and authentic and not that is unconditional for everyone which is very much possible and I relate to her comment so I commented to say that I do relate and i understand her and what she means and you don't know any of us so tell me how are we lying?.😃

if she loved like a man she'd have gotten off her ass and kept that man. She's willing to fuck him and get knocked up but NOT willing to work to keep her SON A FATHER. She's a fucking loser. She could have done the work and been a winner, like the women in the majority who DON'T fail to keep their man. I'm the son of a man that left him, and you know, it got me adopted by better people, so her being a loser was a win to me. It's why I have zero respect or even use for DISLOYAL women, and 10x respect for men who are loyal to people.

Wow, you say this like it's an absolute fact. For most of the couples I know who have divorced, it's the man who gets into a new relationship quite quickly (if he wasn't already because he was having an affair which was the cause of the divorce) while the woman stayed single for a while. Of course, I am speaking anecdotally, which is what you were also doing. I doubt you have any statistics to back up your claims. I'm so tired of this men vs. women nonsense. A lot of men seem to think they have to criticise women to make men look better, and many women do the same to men. It's not necessary to tear down others to build yourself up.

wait until you see how common it is for a man to move on in a relationship if his wife dies or divorces him.

Cause they are

Men are the reason you’re even able to use a social media platform to talk about gender dynamics

​@@Yxng2tone HOLY BASED brother

theres nothing better about it, it hurts. daily. and when we finally open up about it, we get narcissists like you who project anger from previous bad relationships onto us.

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So would you still have worked that five years if she wasn't around? I bet yes. I don't understand why you having a job meant you loved her unless you took on extra jobs or changed jobs just for her. I'm missing something?? I'm not saying she wasn't a bad gf with issues and bad fit, nor that she loved you, or you didn't love her and show her in other ways... I just don't understand the relevance of having a job, unless you are saying she didn't love you and the proof you offer is that she didn't get a job. Did she make meals, shop for you both, take care of other things for you, take care of house or your needs or something? If not any then she was a deeply depressed person maybe. Men often bring up livelihoods but that seems irrelevant. Those jobs are so the man can love and not be homeless, same as a woman if she is in a culture she can have a job too. You love yourself enough to put a roof over your head and feed yourself so that's why you work, right? Like all animals, they go out and hunt or build nests or gather. They don't do it for love of another animal, they do it to survive because they love themselves enough to not just give up and die. Maybe she just gave up and wanted to die or was a bum due to family stuff, but either way having a job, is RARELY a display of love, it's about duty to survive and men wouldn't all be homeless if there were no women in their lives...right?

@@amandachilds5290 Well I didnt want to extend too much but basically that is how men love, take care, protect, make sure you have everything you need, also Im south american so there was no lack of affection, to the contrary, I am very affectionate, expressive and loving and not at all a cold person, so its not like I was saying "I worked therefore that means I love her" its the whole package. My disappointment was that I really wasnt getting what I needed as a man from her and as a person, it ended up feeling like she was my daughter other than an adult I have by my side, many times I needed to count on her for something and she would arrive 3hs late when I didnt need her help anymore without any valid excuse. I dont complete blame her tho, she grew up in a family where nobody ever motivated her to be something, when she was little each time she showed interest in something her family would just mock her, so she didnt have in her the concept of "ok if I put in the effort good things will come" she just floated in life with no aim or purpose and Im not saying that is "bad" but Im just not compatible with people like that, it makes me feel like Im carrying extra weight instead of having a partner that is on my corner as well as I am on hers.

@@pablodebella7695 that's more info and clearer. Thx. Sounds like she has a lot of childhood issues to be sure. I'm sorry you weren't a good fit and yes I can see if she felt more like a daughter or little sis to you, then that's not going to work. But Now you know what you need more and not to waste time because sometimes loving someone also means being honest enough to make.the commitment and letting them go and you too to find better mates that march better. It still hurts very bad but that's part of the growing up process and figuring out who and what you want your future to look like and be with. My biggest point was that once you find someone, and if her love language, check out the Five love languages books, is acts of service, spending lots of time together, and/or words of affirmation and praise, then she won't think you having a job means anything more than you need a job to live and has nothing to do with her at ALl. She will have a good point of that's true. She thinks spending time away from work would prove you prioritize her maybe. Or that you don't hang with friends to be with her more is LOve...Some people think showing affection is a big sign of LUST instead of love and others think it is love, but I have a background where that feels uncomfortable due to my trauma so that is definitely NOT my love language and don't expect someone like me to give too much physical affection or want it but Acts of service and kindness and small gifts that show you that I thought of you or that you thought of me, like you saw a wild daisy in a park and picked it for me, or sent me a message you are praying for me just before I have to see the doctor, or you made.me.breakfast because you knew I was running late, those are way more meaningful to someone like me!!! They show interest in me and what I'm going through.. It's the above and beyond what you'd do for the typical that is love and the typical is maybe like or just life. So if you moved and took a job to match her schedule then that Is very considerate and loving but if a guy or gal has the same job as before, then that is not showing love in any way, it's just a job. I hope you can see what I mean. If you do something different because of another person, the way a lot of women give up a job or give up schooling got be with a man or have kids then that's a sacrifice for another and that is a sign of love many times but status quo job is irrelevant and living in same house as before is also a nothing and men really need an older woman to point this fact out so they realize a young woman, especially with her own job, expects WAY more nowadays. May God bless you with a good wife soon enough and may you bless her with your love languages and fidelity, since that's actually what women value highly and rarely get long term sadly. Women are always looking for a trustworthy man that will stay true to the relationship the whole time like they promise and I am nearly 50 and all I've ever seen is that even the supposedly "good" men and good dads Never were totally faithful from teen to deathbed. I've known hundreds of people and maybe two or three faithful men total but hundreds of faithful women and since I studied Child and Family Development and many are through counseling and related works it's not just an opinion but documented and makes me think men are fooling other men that they even ever did love a woman or any man ever loved any woman because of you can't love her kids and make them a priority then you never loved her. Love means prioritizing what the other person values and broken kids everywhere die to unfaithful or neglectful fathers and overworked and depressed moms who remained loyal but the men refused. And being American they are all demographics and races. It's just a sad fact of life and now I see young woman acting like the older men instead of the young people acting better they all are acting irresponsible now it seems.

@@pablodebella7695 I sent a very long reply but I can't see it. Not sure you got it. It was very intentional and encouraging so it should not have been censored but seems like something is up with my comments probably because I tell people I'm Christian and praying for them and stuff. Oh well. She wasn't right girl for you and sound like she had family and childhood problems. You can learn from that though and hope You have a blessing good wife soon. My point was that men say they work and provide for a woman as a sign they love her but if you didn't do anything different from before her or after her then you really just provide for ANY potential woman and your job had nothing to do with her. Did you change jobs for her?.Did you get a promotion or take a bad job that paid more because she wanted a different car or house? If nothing changes then she was right that it didn't have any relationship to showing feelings for her anymore than her not having a job had any sign that she did or did not love you. There are 5 basic Love languages and having a job is NOT one of them. You have to do that to survive. Love languages are like doing acts of service for the other person you would not Normally do, or showing specific types of affection to them because THEY enjoy that affection, not you enjoy showing affection ,.Or giving gifts which can be small things like notes left for her or her favorite blessing next time you go shopping even though you hate it or even big gifts that she really likes but not buying something for BOTH of you then that's not necessarily showing her love UNLESS her language of love is spending time just two of you and you bought a trip for you to go on together or something...see how that works? I don't know why men erroneousky believe that just having a job and shelter is somehow a sign they love a specific woman. It can mean you are ready to be in a relationship with a woman in case you want to marry her and have a family if you have a house BUT not that specific woman and she wants specifically about her otherwise what's the point and same.goes for a girl with a car and job and house. That doesn't have anything to do with living a man unless she bought it to be close to him maybe ?? Are you getting at what I'm trying to explain? I just wanted you to know the love languages and how women are very logical about signs of love that they must be about her specifically or they don't count at all and that's relevant to a mom getting flowers for Mother's Day that she hates and you should know she hates or is allergic to that kind or whatecer...there must be some awareness and effort or it isn't love really at all.

Sorry man. I tried to reply and I get I asked for more details than I deserve. You were very candid and she wasnt right for you. She has depression or childhood issues if she was how you describe. My BEST advice to everyone is Read the Five Love Languages books and the TYPES of Apologies book too. My guess is her love language was not the same as yours and that's part of the issues. Final point was that men have got to get it out of their heads that doing the basic stuff every human does, like a job, eating, etc.. to survive is anything more than that. A woman and most men only see it as an act of Love if it is done specifically or in a special way for HIM or HER ONLY. If you moved and took a job to be close to her, then statement of love. If you work less hours to be make more time for her and her love language is spending. Time together then she will understand that is Love. If her love language is having a nice house and nice things or trips and you get and extra job JUST for that, then she will see that as Love. If You work but she at home and makes you special meals and cleans and gives you lots of intimacy and looks pretty for you because that is what you consider love and makes you happy then she is totally doing just as much for relationship as you, especially if she doesn't have a ring and marriage certificate. I think she is nuts to do that, but lots of people play house and married and it's their prerogative. Now if she makes you cereal and tuna sandwich every single day, barely lets you touch her, the house a mess AND no kids exhausting her then she has depression really bad I bet or her family life growing up was really messed up. I think I made it clear that there are ways to show love we all recognize but not everyone wants those types of love. You gotta figure out what the other person values and prefers of you want it to last long term. If you hate giving hugs and being lovey and the other person loves it then you probably should find someone else to be fair. But if a man had a job before I met him, kept it and had same job when we broke up, THAT JOB was NEVER ABOUT ME. It was ABOUT HIM and maybe for ANY WOMAN and that's not Love, that's just basically ordinary Life and him loving Himself and that's not a bad thing but that's NOT a Sign o Love. You find out I love animals.and you keep your basic job but now spend 10 hours a week with me volunteering at animal shelter--- THAT'S LOVE my friend. See the difference? She knows you did that to spend time.eith her and prioritize the things she values and vice versa. You love football, she never did , but now she watches it with you and lets you explain it and goes to games with you and buys you a jersey of your favorite team for NO REASON to make.you smile--- THAT'S LOVE. Just sorry no one spelled it out for lots of young people. I have two adult sons and I see it A whole lot that there generation is SO Confused and Misled and I blame Information Age/ Social Media and bad Role models or parents. But y'all are all smart and NIT giving up HOPE! May your relationships be much better going forwards. 🙏🕊️❤️

It is actually. Biology would disagree with you.

Most men could cheat but still love their wife because cheating was only on a physical level. I’m not saying that is something good tho.

@aaaaabcdef8076 he cheated for a year. So I get what you are saying. She also told me not him. So extra weak.

20 years is a lifetime. I think we need free hall passes.

​@@julievanzile2482I'm so sorry that happened to you : ( I'm so sorry you found a partner who was not truthful with you. I can't imagine trusting 20 years of my life to someone only for 1 year to be false and ruin everything. Although, if he was fake for 1 year who knows how much more time he wasn't truthful with you. I'm so sorry.

​@@Emzplace-09 And then yall wonder why women don't authentically love yall.

That's anyone

Yup he did. After 20 years. This makes me laugh.

Women do the same

And you don't really hear about male gold diggers. There're are a lot of female ones..

​@@turkey4710🤓

​@@turkey4710lmao, the amount of men who try to get the mental and physical labor of women for their own benefit is huge, yet since it's not monetary, you don't see it as "gold digging" ,but it's literally that. Stop the blaming on the other gender, it makes you look so pathetic as a man

explain why 99% of females are in love with Chad and Tyron.

I've never FELT safe in my life, so makes sense I've been alone 36 of 40 years. I KNOW I'm safe, logically I have zero threats, I'm built, I have guns, but FEELING safe is extremely rare and with another PERSON, virtually never.

What percentage of men do you think are even capable of cheating?

That man is not in love

Sex isn’t as attached to love for a lot of guys compared to women

Because a lot of women try to use sex as a weapon. If you marry a man, and purposefully deprive him of sex, to control him or make him feel unhappy it's abusive. Just like if a man purposefully deprived his wife of money to get her hair / nails done, b-day / c-mas presents etc... just to control her, this too would be considered abuse.

The guy you just described is a sociopath.. they use practical emotions to manipulate people to do their bidding. A guy in love has no reason to do anything you just mentioned.