the reality of dropping out of school…(it won't make you happier)

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#inyour20s #collegeadvice #universityadvice
I know that dropping out of college, in your 20s, might seem like the key to your happiness right now, but as someone who made that decision five years ago, I'm here tot tell you that leaving university will not automatically make your life better…it may even make things "worse".
For anyone who is on the brink of leaving, I see you because Ive been there, but I have some personal insight and thoughts you may want to consider before calling a quits.
In todays video, i share my experience with leaving university, my reasons for doing so and reflect on what lessons Ive learned since leaving the University of Kent.
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 - 1:43 Intro
1:44 - 1:52 Do you make an effort to socialise at uni?
1:53 - 2:40 Do you open yourself up to new potential friends?
2:41 - 3:07 Are you causing your own loneliness?
3:08 - 3:31 You can't succeed in school without a vision
3:32 - 4:32 Be individualistic to access more opportunities
4:33 - 5:05 Are you obsessed with being "the fun girl"?
5:06 - 6:01 Struggling to show up as your authentic self
6:02 - 6:28 What relationship do you have to commitment & discipline?
6:29 - 7:35 Finding the balance between manifestation and taking action
7:35 - 10:06 You can't avoid work & discipline, its a necessity in life
10:07 - 10:42 University is the catalyst to personal growth in your 20s
10:43 - 14:13 your new life is gonna cost you your old one
14:14 - 15:33 leaving university will not automatically improve your life
15:34 - 15:55 Outro

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@Demeraaa 5 ай бұрын

Nothing works if you don’t!!! Leaving a job, leaving uni, moving cities, cutting 7 inches of hair. None of these things work if you don’t put thought and effort into the steps following those ‘big’ moves! Love the video.

@Adrene 5 ай бұрын

more movement, not just manifestation!

@livefromverena 5 ай бұрын

I loved this, with the montage of videos giving it a documentary-type feel 🫶🏾 coming of age even

@Adrene 5 ай бұрын

Yay! Thank you!

@sonnyvache 2 ай бұрын

"the issue is you, the issue is not the place it's who you are and how you're operating" so fucking based, instantly subscribed

@Adrene 2 ай бұрын

Happy to have you hear, glad you enjoyed🥹

@lovefromyasi 5 ай бұрын

This was honestly such a lovely video, your personality really shines through in this. Im actually thinking about not going to uni at the minute and this really makes me thing WHY I don't actually wanna go. Thank you.

@Adrene 5 ай бұрын

what a kind thing to say, thank you for watching!

@bevanbuckwheatshea5520 3 күн бұрын

I was in first year at university. Another student in my class told me I was not suited for university study. They would not elaborate or explain to me what they meant. They said I could finish the year and I passed the course and and enrolled for the following year. Unfortunately they told me again that I was not suited and to avoid any conflict, I canceled my enrollment. Please do not be persuaded or pushed by other students to leave university or other study course. I regret this and should have told this student to take a hike!

@Go-won 5 ай бұрын

hey, ur an angel for this! im not thinking about dropping out of uni, im currently in a gap applying, but i like hearing other ppls experiences w uni. im currently in a dilemma between two skls because they present different strengths, and thinking what you said about uni serving as a catalyst for personal development and overcoming ignorance has made me think ab which one i would prefer/what i’d want out of uni. thank u

@Adrene 5 ай бұрын

so glad i could help! thank you for watching

@sweet-cheeks.69 5 ай бұрын

thank you i really needed this video !! :')

@Adrene 5 ай бұрын

You're so welcome!

@zureraova 5 ай бұрын

yea when one fills their life with purposelessness and void. that is what you will feel. void and purposelessness.

@Adrene 5 ай бұрын

I hear you!

@marcyrie 2 ай бұрын

This absolutely makes sense! I don't like glorifying the reality of dropping out (because I'm a drop out as well but I'm happily content now), I believe it'll take much more effort to start everything on your own! I had fun in uni though, friends, schoolwork, many opportunities and I got into a good uni, but I considered dropping out due to the lack of passion for my previous major, and it was a huge risk in my life. And it forced me to actually work on myself, happiness was not an option in the first few months (years)! Thank you so much for sharing this, I think everything has two sides and your life can only get better because you chose to, not because of a mere decision! I'll look forward to more videos from you!

@Adrene 2 ай бұрын

I really appreciate your comment, dropping out of university has so much nuance to it! Thank you for watching🥹

@layomoi17 3 ай бұрын

You can still be successful when you drop out

@Adrene 3 ай бұрын

Facts!

@zuzanakasmanova7323 4 ай бұрын

this is out of the context, but omg girl, you are so beautiful

@Adrene 4 ай бұрын

THANK You❤️

@flexgaming115 3 ай бұрын

We donot care about lising friends, and no parties. Discipline, dedication and hardwork. No emotions. And grind for sucess every day, no matter what. This is for what we drop out of school as school never teaches this

@Adrene 3 ай бұрын

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@tankirafutho3218 2 ай бұрын

Thank you I was thinking of dropping out of Uni I told my mum . But I didn't tell her I have 6 reappears which I plan to separate 1st and 2nd Semester. 🥺🙏🏾

@Adrene 2 ай бұрын

Wishing you the best!