My Purity Pledge: Texas' Abstinent Youth

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7 жыл бұрын

How hard is it for the teens of Texas to resist temptation?
Texas Teenage Virgins travels to Lubbock, Texas, deep in the heart of the Bible Belt, where - as a result of a law introduced by George W Bush when he was Governor - teenagers are expected to take purity pledges, promising to remain virgins until they get married.
But how hard is it for these teenagers to resist temptation, and what are the consequences if they don't? And how does the climate of fear and misinformation impact on their lives?
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@janedoe1230
@janedoe1230 7 жыл бұрын
The toothbrush analogy really got under my skin. Bitch I am not like a toothbrush I am like a $20 bill. No matter where that bill has been, it still has the same value. You could put it on the floor, crumple it up, spill food on it, put it in a stripper's asscrack and yet people are still willing to touch it and keep it. People think that their worth is diminished because they have done "dirty" things but in reality it isn't. To me being dirty is something that can be fixed by taking a shower, not the choices you make with your body
@jl4260
@jl4260 7 жыл бұрын
Wow that's an awesome analogy. Yeah that sick pastor obsessed with toothbrushes probably watches toothbrush porn when he gets home from preaching purity to teenagers.
@hsugraduation2103
@hsugraduation2103 7 жыл бұрын
+Jane Doe That is an amazing way to say it. And, yes, the toothbrush thing grossed me out too.
@qeddeq1
@qeddeq1 7 жыл бұрын
and you've been passed around as much as a $20.
@afierylight
@afierylight 7 жыл бұрын
+qeddeq1 It's easy to be good when you're ugly and no one wants you. You know what I mean.
@Marie-gm9ql
@Marie-gm9ql 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a virgin until marriage, and I say power to you, that pastor is just dumb...there is no power in keeping it until marriage or doing it before marriage. It is all personal, nothing is wrong or right :)
@Chuloon
@Chuloon 7 жыл бұрын
I think it's hilarious she was allergic to her purity ring.
@relunnie21
@relunnie21 7 жыл бұрын
Sarah Wald yes hahahaha 😂
@tracywilliams4294
@tracywilliams4294 7 жыл бұрын
Sarah Wald you could tell from her body language and how upset she got at her mom that she isn't a virgin. Her mom's body language and use of words also shows that her mom doesn't believe she is either. However, I kept getting the vibe that if she isn't still a virgin, that it was done against her wishes.
@harlie5129
@harlie5129 7 жыл бұрын
hm maybe a creepy toothbrush enthusiast has something to do with it?
@tracywilliams4294
@tracywilliams4294 7 жыл бұрын
Harlie Ranstead that's exactly what I was thinking
@laurene2342
@laurene2342 7 жыл бұрын
its only because it was cheap metal such as a copper or nickel. it oxidised and turns green on the finger
@cellarofpurple8410
@cellarofpurple8410 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Christian but this is creepy. Teens need proper sexual health education (preferably from a health professional, not a youth pastor :/ )
@FranzValer
@FranzValer 4 жыл бұрын
Are you right man
@Lion08888
@Lion08888 4 жыл бұрын
Cellar Of Purple exactly the pastor is obviously going to be biased, and push his beliefs on to impressionable teenagers
@Lerian_V
@Lerian_V 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lion08888 God's law is not biased, it is absolute.
@Lion08888
@Lion08888 4 жыл бұрын
Lerian V not everyone believes in “god’s law”.
@Lerian_V
@Lerian_V 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lion08888 We are all bound by God's laws whether we believe it or not. If I don't believe in gravity, I'm still bound by it. If there's last judgment, you're bound by it whether you believe it or not. Truth is what gets us in touch with reality.
@devin8481
@devin8481 5 жыл бұрын
"I like to take their heart out, play with it, and then put it back." That doesn't sound very Christian like. That sounds psychootic..
@maipoina-xk5zk
@maipoina-xk5zk 4 жыл бұрын
Then it fits well with christian beliefs.
@troywright359
@troywright359 4 жыл бұрын
@@maipoina-xk5zk nah dude, where in the bible does it say it's good to play with womens hearts?
@maipoina-xk5zk
@maipoina-xk5zk 4 жыл бұрын
@@troywright359 and that's what makes you so blind... the fact that you didn't even see my little innuendo... it's ok.
@WeComeFromALandDownUnder
@WeComeFromALandDownUnder 4 жыл бұрын
@@maipoina-xk5zk I did. It was great!🤣🤣
@briannotafan3368
@briannotafan3368 4 жыл бұрын
he likes little boys
@gabriellapoirier2627
@gabriellapoirier2627 7 жыл бұрын
The lack of education and massive amount of manipulation is so saddening
@ghostlybird327
@ghostlybird327 6 жыл бұрын
And by ''education,'' you mean feminist and Marxist indoctrination, right?
@alejandraalvarado-f.2923
@alejandraalvarado-f.2923 6 жыл бұрын
Ghostly Bird No,it's education. If you teach someone to take care of their heart; you should teach them how to take care of their reproductive system.
@aliciamartinez8716
@aliciamartinez8716 6 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@aliciamartinez8716
@aliciamartinez8716 6 жыл бұрын
Ghostly Bird hahaha, I'm assuming that's a joke, though not a very good one
@sashagreen673
@sashagreen673 5 жыл бұрын
Ghostly Bird you seem like a classic case where more education would have been beneficial.
@vg7735
@vg7735 6 жыл бұрын
I worry about the impact the "dirty toothbrush" metaphor will have on sexual abuse victims.
@mikaelam.695
@mikaelam.695 5 жыл бұрын
Right?
@lozzylols
@lozzylols 4 жыл бұрын
I know, so sad, dirty for life and no one will want you ever. Hmmm what's their young person suicide level like?
@bambismiler
@bambismiler 4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa G I was taken advantage of at 6 for a while by children a couple of years older than me. Even though my parents never pushed purity on me, I always felt dirty as a young child, and I still have trouble feeling like I’m not tainted or broken. The used toothbrush metaphor is so gross.
@Kayleigh27
@Kayleigh27 4 жыл бұрын
I thought of that right away
@aimeek1236
@aimeek1236 4 жыл бұрын
Good thing it's not about that
@DourMessor
@DourMessor 5 жыл бұрын
This isn't a church, this is a textbook definition cult... The Pastor is preaching what he wants not what the bible really says
@heiroot
@heiroot 5 жыл бұрын
His lip looks like he has a perpetual dip in it
@mwamwa3488
@mwamwa3488 4 жыл бұрын
You've obviously never read the bible LOL Shame
@iamevajanis9779
@iamevajanis9779 4 жыл бұрын
So what's really the bible say?
@mmackenziiee91
@mmackenziiee91 4 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, it is a church. But churches are pretty much just popular, socially accepted cults. Even the church's up north do things like "silver ring thing" and purity balls. This is what the church believes. It's disgusting and sad.
@TheLordisMyShepherd_
@TheLordisMyShepherd_ 3 жыл бұрын
1 Corinthians 6:18 - Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 - For this is the will of God, [even] your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: Ephesians 5:5 - For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God Hebrews 13:4 - Marriage [is] honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
@lozzylols
@lozzylols 4 жыл бұрын
To me the abstinence thing just pushes teenagers and young adults to marry much quicker! Any one else agree?
@truecrimerip7936
@truecrimerip7936 3 жыл бұрын
Lauren T i think that was the whole strategy behind it
@judy3460
@judy3460 3 жыл бұрын
I was a virgin until I got married... not hard to stay a virgin knowing how many sickos there are out there
@allisonovo
@allisonovo 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, which could be a good or bad thing, depending on the situation.
@oliviad5474
@oliviad5474 3 жыл бұрын
Judy Nikitchuk lmfao
@acaciahathaway7799
@acaciahathaway7799 3 жыл бұрын
Happened to me 😑
@HayyyyitsKayla
@HayyyyitsKayla 7 жыл бұрын
If you have sex you're like a "used toothbrush"???? Wtf raise your hand if you're disgusted by that comment
@Mystics-_-
@Mystics-_- 7 жыл бұрын
Kayla well he does make a point. Being pure
@emdrewgaming3488
@emdrewgaming3488 7 жыл бұрын
Kayla uh no he doesn't. a twenty dollar bill is still a twenty dollar bill even if it's been through the gutter
@Tina06019
@Tina06019 7 жыл бұрын
Raising both hands.....
@jrom6263
@jrom6263 7 жыл бұрын
And yet a 20 dollar bill will eventually reach it's expiry date and will eventually be unusable.
@petradeffenbaugh4599
@petradeffenbaugh4599 7 жыл бұрын
Jrom that happens to it because it is old. Being used to much doesn't effect when it will expire
@kturner1015
@kturner1015 7 жыл бұрын
LOL the pastor is like the sex ed teacher in Mean Girls!
@mennawalmsley7168
@mennawalmsley7168 7 жыл бұрын
Katelyn Turner yesssss
@hsugraduation2103
@hsugraduation2103 7 жыл бұрын
Actually I think he's worse, they guy in Mean Girls did give out condoms at the end of the period. And he didn't compare any of the teens to toothbrushes.
@kturner1015
@kturner1015 7 жыл бұрын
lol true. when i saw this guy i immediately thought of the sex ed teacher saying "you will get pregnant. and die."
@kasiakrajewska1702
@kasiakrajewska1702 7 жыл бұрын
dont have sex or you will die
@paigeettore271
@paigeettore271 7 жыл бұрын
lol nah the teacher in Mean Girls did a better job cause he gave out condoms
@taylorl3199
@taylorl3199 5 жыл бұрын
This is painful to watch not only because of the gross early 2000's fashion but because they are SO brainwashed.
@Thomas-ll6hm
@Thomas-ll6hm 5 жыл бұрын
especially because of the 2000's fashion!!
@julietchristman1389
@julietchristman1389 5 жыл бұрын
It was filmed in the 2000 s. Thats why. Lol
@Thomas-ll6hm
@Thomas-ll6hm 5 жыл бұрын
@@julietchristman1389 You don't say 🙄
@childofthemosthighyah8145
@childofthemosthighyah8145 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@childofthemosthighyah8145
@childofthemosthighyah8145 5 жыл бұрын
Their eyebrows actual look real, lol
@deltaloraine
@deltaloraine 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, Eva’s mom is the best. She has some actual sense in this world of crazy. She said it’s okay if Eva breaks the pledge, but Eva’s getting all sassy about it saying of COURSE she isn’t going to break it. But she just got into high school right? She doesn’t even understand that temptations will come. I hope her mom keeps that attitude of not judging her daughter, even if the father will probably get upset
@drewhinners8793
@drewhinners8793 3 жыл бұрын
Nah, Eva's mom specifically says "I'd take her down to the clinic and get her birth control but that's just not needed here!". She's not thinking straight.
@madisonsynakowski6040
@madisonsynakowski6040 7 жыл бұрын
no sex before marriage but underage drinking and partying? SURE why the hell not!!
@jassmeenpena1537
@jassmeenpena1537 6 жыл бұрын
Madison Synakowski 😂😂
@kendrathompson3002
@kendrathompson3002 6 жыл бұрын
Madison Synakowski LMFAO, right! 😂😂😂😂😂
@shaetaylor4455
@shaetaylor4455 6 жыл бұрын
Madison Synakowski 😂😂😂 true
@mehrj.3041
@mehrj.3041 6 жыл бұрын
Honeyyyyy it's all about the pee pees and the poo poos
@NatlovesJesus1
@NatlovesJesus1 6 жыл бұрын
Madison Synakowski drinking dont give you a std or get pregnant
@Nicole-ze9yo
@Nicole-ze9yo 7 жыл бұрын
unlike a used toothbrush, you can actually ask a person about their sexual history and go for testing.
@shallot6
@shallot6 7 жыл бұрын
skj you forgot the aids
@samurilip
@samurilip 7 жыл бұрын
my tooth brush has done 3 gang bangs, and has an ex owner that was a bdsm freak. its strange how tooth brushes get around these days
@purpleviolet72
@purpleviolet72 6 жыл бұрын
Unlike a used toothbrush, you're not a piece of trash to be thrown away.
@nkiyywo3729
@nkiyywo3729 6 жыл бұрын
bishplis but the toothbrush can't speak for itself, unlike person you're interested in. You can verbally communicate with them
@katlynbrooke1
@katlynbrooke1 6 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻
@katiecramerson7778
@katiecramerson7778 5 жыл бұрын
Adults who are obsessed with whether teens do it or not freak me out. Plus I wonder just how much more pressure any of this puts on anybody who has been violated. My heart breaks when I think of what happens to those who are assaulted and then have to deal with not only surviving the violence but also the stupid idea that they lost their precious "purity" this way.
@katmanson6879
@katmanson6879 3 жыл бұрын
It is the most alone and disgusting you could ever feel in your life. Extremely agonizing.
@xxaliciajeanxx
@xxaliciajeanxx 5 жыл бұрын
I like the mom of the 15 year old. She's realistic and understands it isn't unstoppable. That even if her daughter breaks her pledge, she'd still love her. That is what religion should be. Acceptance.
@sjthewolfboss
@sjthewolfboss 4 жыл бұрын
Christianity is not a religion, but a relationship with Jesus.
@amybess
@amybess 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I really like her
@Luka-zi9kv
@Luka-zi9kv 4 жыл бұрын
sjtheWolf Boss *vomits*
@chocolatemafia4303
@chocolatemafia4303 4 жыл бұрын
@@Luka-zi9kv y?
@Lerian_V
@Lerian_V 4 жыл бұрын
@@chocolatemafia4303 Guilt.
@iDontCareAtAllllllll
@iDontCareAtAllllllll 7 жыл бұрын
" your body is a precious gift for your husband" wtf
@3brendan933
@3brendan933 7 жыл бұрын
Creepy
@juggernaut4644
@juggernaut4644 7 жыл бұрын
gamer girl Z men are taught the same about their body
@wazzup20011983
@wazzup20011983 7 жыл бұрын
Brodie B it's only creepy to those that don't follow that line of thinking.
@emdrewgaming3488
@emdrewgaming3488 7 жыл бұрын
jugger naut they're not though. I used to be preached to about all this insanity and it's so much worse on the girls
@juggernaut4644
@juggernaut4644 7 жыл бұрын
EmDrew Gaming so was I. I was raised in the church of Christ and once talked to a girl about sex. Just TALKED, we were both 17 and her dad found out, I was berated and told I had defiled her soul. If anyone found out you weren't a virgin you were shamed regardless of gender.
@AbbySugiyama
@AbbySugiyama 6 жыл бұрын
no offense but they don't need abstinence education with those guys... like damn my legs closed so hard im a mermaid.
@briannenoonan2870
@briannenoonan2870 6 жыл бұрын
Hisoka Lee omg thanks for this comment 😂
@rosedalinevaletine6931
@rosedalinevaletine6931 6 жыл бұрын
Hisoka Lee Exactly what I was thinking, lol
@whyamialiteraltrashcan6253
@whyamialiteraltrashcan6253 6 жыл бұрын
This is great😂
@bunnynjesus4eva
@bunnynjesus4eva 5 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sadeeregian9528
@sadeeregian9528 5 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@DClean
@DClean 5 жыл бұрын
Can we get a 10 years later update. Thats where the real juice is. You can talk a big game at 15, but lets see how a few years in the real world goes for ya
@quickmike420
@quickmike420 5 жыл бұрын
Lol, was thinking the same thing when that 15 year old got so indignant with her mother.
@websurfer8041
@websurfer8041 4 жыл бұрын
there's always that one kid who's brainwashed into this kind of thinking and that kid is always the one to go the craziest in their mid to late teens.
@baileymadison9019
@baileymadison9019 4 жыл бұрын
Sam Pickles I can tell you that it sucks I am in high school and there are so many pregnancies it is mind boggling
@mahnoor5930
@mahnoor5930 4 жыл бұрын
@@baileymadison9019 still ? They don't know how to use a condom or what ? Lord this is 2020 .
@Koekje_Kijkt
@Koekje_Kijkt 3 жыл бұрын
Bailey Madison It used to be worse. Imagine that!
@Scarletsongs346
@Scarletsongs346 5 жыл бұрын
Fun fact my ex boyfriend was conceived by his parents after they’d gone to a purity ceremony.
@georgiemartin6236
@georgiemartin6236 4 жыл бұрын
Nice
@sylwia7060
@sylwia7060 4 жыл бұрын
And that is Why You met him🤓😂😎,wish You and you'r loved ones all the best ✌ sending You lots of love and Light from faraway Norway 🤗
@Lerian_V
@Lerian_V 4 жыл бұрын
@@sylwia7060 You don't know what love is, you're just saying it.
@sylwia7060
@sylwia7060 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lerian_V Why do you say that? 🙄
@Lerian_V
@Lerian_V 4 жыл бұрын
@@sylwia7060 I think you're tacitly supporting immoral lifestyle.
@leahturner3110
@leahturner3110 6 жыл бұрын
Telling kids that condoms have holes in them means they won’t use them because they don’t work then there gonna end up pregnant or with stds
@Killer_snail
@Killer_snail 4 жыл бұрын
Leah Turner and that is EXACTLY why this town has one of the highest teen pregnancy rates in the country! How on earth they can justify hiring that idiot to preach absolute lies to the kids in school is beyond immoral and irresponsible
@meowmeow1597
@meowmeow1597 4 жыл бұрын
That's a big offense to the manufacturers.
@bleuneptune
@bleuneptune 4 жыл бұрын
That's why there are many girls from churches got preggo young..
@websurfer8041
@websurfer8041 4 жыл бұрын
everything about that dude screams phony and creep. i bet he sleeps with a lot of those teenage girls he's preaching to.
@briannotafan3368
@briannotafan3368 4 жыл бұрын
in the sevice i usto stick pin holes in the condoms in the condom box in the ordely room nex to the pass box overseas
@1992MR1992
@1992MR1992 7 жыл бұрын
I wonder how the preacher knows that sex outside marriage will ruin your life, if he never had sex outside marriage.
@TheTuesday11
@TheTuesday11 7 жыл бұрын
North Viking Go talk to a preacher he deals with the fall out everyday trying to help people who come to him! I'm a pastors kid I saw first hand the people come needing help who had sex outside of marriage
@1992MR1992
@1992MR1992 7 жыл бұрын
I don't think he's a bad person, and all honor to your father for trying to help people. But i believe that this man, you and your father are miss guided. ( Sorry for being brutally honest) Sex is one of our basic instincts, and when our body is ready for it, the brain will signal your body. If you decline this, it will damage your brain chemistry. (All of this is proven, and you may check it out) In fact, i encourage you to do some research. (I have studied psychology) I have never met or known anyone that had problems regarding sex pre marriage. But i can understand why your father have received such issues. Example: Someone is raised to believe that picking your nose is a bad thing, the person will feel bad if he do so. Will he feel bad because he did it? Or because he were taught it was wrong? I believe that you are master of your own life, and you should be taught so! Think for yourself, find your own path. Defying that is the key to unhappiness.
@UTRipleyxoxo
@UTRipleyxoxo 7 жыл бұрын
North Viking Yes that really stood out to me
@1992MR1992
@1992MR1992 7 жыл бұрын
+Teacake No, its not the same. And the difference is that i can "relate" to others experiences. For example: I once knew a guy that died from a head injury after crashing his bike without a helmet. Or, i have seen people on the streets taking heroin, and that's a position i don't wanna be in. My point is, what you are describing are physical issues. While having sex before marriage is a psychological issue. Another factor is that its not logical. I can understand why riding a bike without a helmet is more dangerous than riding with one. This is very simple action/reaction. However, i don't know anyone that had any problems with sex pre marriage. (Including me) And i don't see any logic in it either. A ring on the finger does not have any significant meaning. Its make believe. And to be 100% honest, i think its some hypocritical shit. If you don't wanna marry someone because they had sex before, you have a problem. And its called jealousy, obsessive ownership and bad self esteem. But its all very hard to understand, because people now a days have no self knowledge what so ever. If people are "presented" with a problem, they *never* look at them self as a possible cause of it. -Peace out
@britonsolis3948
@britonsolis3948 7 жыл бұрын
North Viking I doubt he was so pure himself, he kinda looks like a creep.
@pocketsizeforyourtravelcon3325
@pocketsizeforyourtravelcon3325 5 жыл бұрын
Jason's friends all look like a rejected boy band from the early 2000s...like Outta Sync or FrontStreet Boys or something...
@lefreakful
@lefreakful 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahhahaha 😂😂😂😂 yes!!!!
@azraelbatosi
@azraelbatosi 4 жыл бұрын
R S my EXACT thoughts
@ItssaLyssa96
@ItssaLyssa96 4 жыл бұрын
Lmfao!!!!!!!!
@iwannabuyaduck60
@iwannabuyaduck60 5 жыл бұрын
Everyone: “And this is why Texas has one of the highest pregnancy rates and sexually transmitted diseases Texas: “Did Yall here something? Because I didn’t”
@silviasacchi9001
@silviasacchi9001 5 жыл бұрын
@@AstroMartine what are you talking about? The sole fact that you distinguish between black and white tells a lot.
@AstroMartine
@AstroMartine 5 жыл бұрын
@@silviasacchi9001 yes, it tells that I am mentally sane despite all the attempted brainwashings by the international media. Some cultures and races are incompatible, period.
@lizzy4716
@lizzy4716 4 жыл бұрын
I live in East Texas and DAMN AM I FRUSTRATED BY THE BULLSHIT IM SURROUNDED WITH SAVE ME
@kat9073
@kat9073 4 жыл бұрын
Louisiana is really bad as well, New Orleans and Baton Rogue are 2 of the cities with the highest rate of aids in the US (the biggest cities). The purity culture is really strong here
@jakewade5231
@jakewade5231 4 жыл бұрын
I bet u r!!!
@hollywallis9777
@hollywallis9777 7 жыл бұрын
First thing that should be taught in sex education: CONSENT.
@nucky3025
@nucky3025 6 жыл бұрын
Holly Wallis never force people to drink tea
@bibianaguadalupeislasherre9880
@bibianaguadalupeislasherre9880 6 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@elliemae4820
@elliemae4820 5 жыл бұрын
CanucksFan85 unconscious people never want tea
@drsnova7313
@drsnova7313 5 жыл бұрын
Not really. I mean, I get the sentiment, but there's plenty of things to be taught before you go on to the social component.
@emmsdoll8321
@emmsdoll8321 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a Christian and a loyal one, I am planing not to have sex before marriage, if anyone wants to do it before I totally support them, as it's their body. However this pastor is talking pure bull and he puts teenagers down in my opinion, God loves everyone and everything and this pastor lies and I'm ashamed at his behaviour
@Em-vb8tp
@Em-vb8tp 7 жыл бұрын
emmsdoll I'm not religious but i really appreciate your comment & opinion, there need to be more like you
@IonIsFalling7217
@IonIsFalling7217 7 жыл бұрын
emmsdoll YES! I am not a Christian but was a virgin until marriage because I never saw the point until I met my husband. My best friend was raped and her pastor told her it was her fault and that she was ruined.
@emmsdoll8321
@emmsdoll8321 7 жыл бұрын
Disturbing Shellfish so sorry to hear that about your friend 😢❤️
@deathgripsnightcore8121
@deathgripsnightcore8121 7 жыл бұрын
aww I'm atheist but I'm amazed by your understanding and love. You do you boo 💖
@emmsdoll8321
@emmsdoll8321 7 жыл бұрын
Zł Mo Thankyou very much, totally respect your choice of being an atheist ❤️❤️
@livingdeadgirl_8816
@livingdeadgirl_8816 5 жыл бұрын
Even as a Christian I feel that the pastor is pushy and very very creepy...
@frenchhorn3048
@frenchhorn3048 5 жыл бұрын
Hanna Kelley Same.
@miloshort3553
@miloshort3553 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@brendanpetry6709
@brendanpetry6709 5 жыл бұрын
I feel the same. Too controlling and using scare tactics.
@waitnotable
@waitnotable 4 жыл бұрын
if ur western and still thinking ur christian that is just a joke ,christianity is far far away from u people .
@truecrimerip7936
@truecrimerip7936 3 жыл бұрын
That guy seems like the kinda pastor that tells everybody not to be dirty and then molests the teens.
@aysha4197
@aysha4197 5 жыл бұрын
Pastor reminds me of the coach from Mean Girls. Acts holier than everyone in public but probably has a lot of skeletons in his own closet!
@CanVan216
@CanVan216 5 жыл бұрын
Aysha which one??? Because one of them reminds me of yondu from guardians of the galaxy.
@r0ckymarie
@r0ckymarie 5 жыл бұрын
YUP, he’s probably ruined a lot of young boys lives by taking advantage of them and abusing them sexually....without a doubt in my mind.
@jesusdamian1874
@jesusdamian1874 4 жыл бұрын
Las Vegas weddings
@azucenanajera2295
@azucenanajera2295 3 жыл бұрын
@@CanVan216 she's talking about Coach Carr.
@medusaink3
@medusaink3 3 жыл бұрын
You weren't the only one thinking this.
@laurenfyle3825
@laurenfyle3825 7 жыл бұрын
the only thing I find disturbing is how by doing this they're kind of fetishising teenage girls by drawing attention to their virginity. it's kind of nasty.
@Tina06019
@Tina06019 7 жыл бұрын
It is definitely nasty.
@Baxterthewaggster
@Baxterthewaggster 7 жыл бұрын
How much do you want to bet that the people preaching this bullshit hate muslims? And guess who else places such a huge importance on girl's virginity? Muslims! The hypocrisy is palpable!
@savanahkuklinski6833
@savanahkuklinski6833 6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I was thinking! The fixation on these girl's virginities is really uncomfortable
@jellehendriks4312
@jellehendriks4312 6 жыл бұрын
Savanah Kuklinski agreed
@ashandblake
@ashandblake 6 жыл бұрын
Lauren Fyle I don't think there was a gender specification...they taught abstinence to both genders, not just girls.
@TheCerealluvr
@TheCerealluvr 7 жыл бұрын
Teaching teens that condoms have holes in them is so destructive, it's unbelievable. What that "pastor" is doing horrible.
@lyvsix
@lyvsix 6 жыл бұрын
redhatgnome its crazy and probably some kids believe him...
@solemnitytribe1769
@solemnitytribe1769 5 жыл бұрын
They do have one hole in them..?
@bobbij7089
@bobbij7089 5 жыл бұрын
I know it's sick that they tell blatant lies to these kids. I'm sure somewhere there's a couple from his church who can't figure out why they haven't been able to get pregnant😂😂😂
@twischta
@twischta 5 жыл бұрын
@Bobbi J In that case, maybe it's not so bad, right? Think about what would happen to their kids if they figure it out... Poor kids.
@kelsagruban8644
@kelsagruban8644 5 жыл бұрын
Ever watched Friends? Ross and Rachel... Thats all i'm saying!
@tianamarie3217
@tianamarie3217 5 жыл бұрын
Idk I lost my virginity at 17 after being with a guy for 2 months and I now I'm 23 and I'm fine and fulfilled in a relationship with a different person that doesn't look at me like a dirty toothbrush because like normal adults, we talked about our past sexual relationships and getting tested.
@salehthani
@salehthani 5 жыл бұрын
Bit#@##
@taisstea7306
@taisstea7306 5 жыл бұрын
I lost mine at 15 and my house hasn’t burned down yet 🤷🏾‍♀️
@waitnotable
@waitnotable 5 жыл бұрын
ur creating ur imaginary comfort ...ur dirty .
@aseftajwar2095
@aseftajwar2095 4 жыл бұрын
@@waitnotable not more than your thoughts she isn't. Have you looked into your *** hole recently? If that makes you dirty then yeah, you were dirty most of your life like all other human beings. If you disagree, then you are closer to the truth and as clean as any woman is, virgin or otherwise. Don't be offended but food for thought, is your mother a virgin?
@liveyourbestlife143
@liveyourbestlife143 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. I lost mine at 18. I am now 40. I have have an amazing husband ( who also was not a virgin)we are 100% satisfied.
@eddierich6179
@eddierich6179 5 жыл бұрын
"I guess, some girls find me pretty attractive, or whatever. So it just makes it that much more hard, especially if the girls not real strong with her walk with the Lord. Like if she's after it." Amazing.
@dragonloverxxl34
@dragonloverxxl34 Жыл бұрын
Like if she's after it lol
@LivLuvHaul
@LivLuvHaul 7 жыл бұрын
the title should be "CRINGE COMPILATION YOU CRINGE YOU LOSE (HARDEST VERSION)"
@Iiterally
@Iiterally 7 жыл бұрын
(MUST WATCH!) (NOT CLICKBAIT)
@TheStacyfergie
@TheStacyfergie 7 жыл бұрын
Olivia Halsey lmaoo
@Emzo99
@Emzo99 7 жыл бұрын
hahahaha
@rueh1747
@rueh1747 7 жыл бұрын
I lost 🤷‍♀️
@AK-wb2ww
@AK-wb2ww 6 жыл бұрын
You must love Pewdiepie
@courtneyheide6107
@courtneyheide6107 7 жыл бұрын
"you can die using a condom." this pastor makes me cringe. "all condoms have holes." Omfg.
@eratoisyourmuse659
@eratoisyourmuse659 7 жыл бұрын
Courtney Heide It's called propaganda.
@meghanelizabeth6911
@meghanelizabeth6911 6 жыл бұрын
"You can die using a condom" sounds tempting, pastor.
@mariemakeup101
@mariemakeup101 6 жыл бұрын
Courtney Heide I mean it's obviously a very far stretch, but his point wasn't on the act of actually using a condom when he stated that you can die from using one. His point was that no method of protection is 100% effective and that if you contracted an STD such as HIV/AIDS, then you could die from it (eventually...) but yeah it is totally a stretch lol
@BUMKID622
@BUMKID622 6 жыл бұрын
what's wrong with people nowadays.. eveything is a problem even encouraging kids to stay virgins, yes he exaggerated but there is some truths to what he says. most condoms do not have holes yet condoms are not 100% safe, but it's also up to the parents to talk to their kids. and please stop using that phrase "om*g", those words don't belong together.
@jimmyshousevideos
@jimmyshousevideos 6 жыл бұрын
well, all condoms do have holes. How else are you supposed to use it?
@snowpawzvideos
@snowpawzvideos 5 жыл бұрын
"I have tobacco & alcohol in my stomach" i'm not sure if that's how breathing works chief
@kiwiazcuz
@kiwiazcuz 4 жыл бұрын
олен 🤣🤣🤣
@shandean8352
@shandean8352 4 жыл бұрын
олен He might be chewing tobacco, which is so gross.
@allisonovo
@allisonovo 3 жыл бұрын
Shā C you’re not supposed to swallow that
@abigailopal0904
@abigailopal0904 5 жыл бұрын
My parents encourage me to give that part of myself away when I feel it’s right. In a safe environment with someone I really love. They don’t expect me to be perfect, but they expect me to be loved. All they care about is my emotions and my well being. I don’t really see anything wrong with that
@bethanywood1769
@bethanywood1769 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! I love your parents for telling you that and supporting you in that way.
@kariharrington1788
@kariharrington1788 5 жыл бұрын
Albus what if she decides marriage isn't for her? When she feels it's the right time for her itll be the right time because it's her choice.
@pinkrebellionxyz1567
@pinkrebellionxyz1567 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly what my parents say, my dad is always making sure that I’m safe . Especially when I’m with my boyfriend
@petermyles8096
@petermyles8096 4 жыл бұрын
Please turnto Jesus.
@Isabel-tj4yv
@Isabel-tj4yv 7 жыл бұрын
maybe if they taught against racism, homophobia and rape etc like this the world would be a better place
@jrom6263
@jrom6263 7 жыл бұрын
la la fairy tale land
@singingthesamesadsong3723
@singingthesamesadsong3723 6 жыл бұрын
"CAN WE SAY PENIS?" im d e a d
@SweetAlis1
@SweetAlis1 5 жыл бұрын
I'm dyinggg
@aimeewanjiru9517
@aimeewanjiru9517 4 жыл бұрын
When i saw this comment i just knew this documentary gonna be good😂
@fundirams3240
@fundirams3240 5 жыл бұрын
This pastor lying about condoms is probably the most tragic thing I've heard today.
@kris-wj3wj
@kris-wj3wj 4 жыл бұрын
"would you do it in front of your father if he was watching?" NOBODY WOULD lol
@marieeyre
@marieeyre 6 жыл бұрын
Imagine knowing nothing about Texas and then watching this documentary...
@MegaStarMixer
@MegaStarMixer 5 жыл бұрын
I'm from Europe and seeing this is like watching a documentary about middle age society
@Passi0nsFaith23
@Passi0nsFaith23 5 жыл бұрын
I'm from Australia. This is so backwards.
@kr9807
@kr9807 5 жыл бұрын
This is my hometown, and this is wild.
@motolexx
@motolexx 5 жыл бұрын
I am from Europe, too... and this is so painful to watch. Retarded - in the true meaning of the word.
@heiroot
@heiroot 5 жыл бұрын
@@motolexx I think this was filmed ten years ago, although I'm SURE this is still alive in the U.S.
@abigailwalter3110
@abigailwalter3110 7 жыл бұрын
That poor mother. All she did was try and make sure her daughter knew she would be loved no matter what happened, and she got shut down by both daughter AND father. She seemed to at least have SOME sense of reality and the fact that "shit happens." Honey, you think she doesn't support your pledge because she brought up the "what-ifs"? The fact that she did means she supports YOU, not just your pledge. Ugh
@margiecates
@margiecates 6 жыл бұрын
Abigail Walter Yes! I was wondering if anyone else saw that! I felt so bad for that mum, she seemed to be the only rational one there..
@anongirl559
@anongirl559 6 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the South, where women are one tiny step above dogs in the hierarchy of importance/power.
@chemoytoban7022
@chemoytoban7022 6 жыл бұрын
Abigail Walter well said.
@chemoytoban7022
@chemoytoban7022 6 жыл бұрын
Well said Abby
@NYxxDanceislife
@NYxxDanceislife 4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to jump through the screen so bad🙄. Like you would think the father would agree that life happens sometimes, promises can be broken 🤷🏽‍♀️
@ArchieWard
@ArchieWard 5 жыл бұрын
Narrator: "The party is downtown" *camera pans to a party taking place in a barn* .
@basirak9073
@basirak9073 5 жыл бұрын
Eva’s Mum is such a legend. Best person in the doco
@lauras693
@lauras693 7 жыл бұрын
The girl may be feeling righteous about her purity but she's got such a bad attitude in terms of how rude she was when she spoke to her mother.
@calisongbird
@calisongbird 3 жыл бұрын
Right?? And the sad thing was, Mom seemed used to it 🙄
@sarahgoforth7689
@sarahgoforth7689 7 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I was raised. I was engaged to a guy and we were together for three years and never had sex. The relationship ended up falling apart because we wanted to get married so bad mostly just so we could have sex. These teachings almost caused me to get married at 18 before I had even graduated high school and my parents were all for it. I ended up having sex a few month after we canceled the wedding with a guy I met on tinder because I was just so over the whole virginity thing and just wanted to get rid of the label. I always look back and think what my life would have been like if we had gotten married so young. I probably wouldn't be graduating college this spring and would probably be a 21 year old stay at home mom with 2 kids. This purity movement is a scam just to control young women.
@Marie-gm9ql
@Marie-gm9ql 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a virgin but when my boyfriend and I get engaged this summer we also plan on having sex and we don't care his religious parents don't agree the man is an adult and so am I we make our own life decisions. Good for you darling, hope you have an amazing life
@stephanierodriguez2817
@stephanierodriguez2817 7 жыл бұрын
I was raised in a hyper religious household and it's bullshit. I lost mine as an adult, also to someone on Tinder, ironically. Do as you please and be safe but don't shove it down people's throats, telling them not to do it doesn't help, but educating them does.
@TheStacyfergie
@TheStacyfergie 7 жыл бұрын
Sarah Brockschmidt thank you for sharing your story, quite eye opening
@nicxl3035
@nicxl3035 7 жыл бұрын
Sarah Brockschmidt ...and men.
@hannahallen1059
@hannahallen1059 7 жыл бұрын
say it louder for the virgins in the back
@c.t8958
@c.t8958 5 жыл бұрын
Masturbation wasn't mentioned in the show.
@ericme4767
@ericme4767 5 жыл бұрын
One of the boys mentioned staying out of the box.
@strawberryemily8755
@strawberryemily8755 4 жыл бұрын
Also a sin lol
@kinzie8989
@kinzie8989 5 жыл бұрын
"that condom will never protect their heart" should be one of these kids' senior quotes
@raflores220
@raflores220 6 жыл бұрын
But its recommended to switch toothbrushes every 4 months
@narrakasa81194
@narrakasa81194 5 жыл бұрын
R5Regina well Exactly lol
@marianna3253
@marianna3253 5 жыл бұрын
it's 3 months actually :P
@katherinegingrich6017
@katherinegingrich6017 5 жыл бұрын
-likes alot*
@Lilbooknerd
@Lilbooknerd 5 жыл бұрын
I switch mine every month
@noxaurum1
@noxaurum1 5 жыл бұрын
@@Lilbooknerd kinky
@chocolatecoatedllama
@chocolatecoatedllama 7 жыл бұрын
this is so weird to us europeans... we don't take religion so seriously, I hadn't heard of a prayer group or purity ring before this and my best friends are all christian. over here it's just less extreme and delusional, like people shouldn't have to feel shame for having human urges and no matter what you believe in, safe sex should always be taught....
@TheTuesday11
@TheTuesday11 7 жыл бұрын
chocolatecoatedllama I live in Europe and I was taught no sex until marriage, one of the best thing I was ever taught
@alexandraherrera3183
@alexandraherrera3183 7 жыл бұрын
chocolatecoatedllama hi
@tihanaselendic7434
@tihanaselendic7434 7 жыл бұрын
Soooo glad I wasnt stuck in some small town USA when growing up....go Europe!
@BKKGarrett
@BKKGarrett 7 жыл бұрын
Believe me...it is weird to most of us Americans also. Most Americans are not like this. This is the minority.
@looseymcgoosey
@looseymcgoosey 7 жыл бұрын
chocolatecoatedllama exactly, in Ireland we find it very important to get the education
@shelbyspringer9819
@shelbyspringer9819 5 жыл бұрын
just wait til eva gets a bf and her hormones are thru the roof
@jolandaerasmus8447
@jolandaerasmus8447 3 жыл бұрын
Do not be negative. If shes strong nothing like that will happen to her. God willing
@silviaboomchakalaka
@silviaboomchakalaka 3 жыл бұрын
The "toothbrush" example was so inappropriate and so disrespectful of people who choose not to stay virgins until marriage. Like calling everybody a prostitute. It's a shame
@Fallenangel-nw2pp
@Fallenangel-nw2pp 7 жыл бұрын
What's his obsession with kids staying virgins, honestly creepy af
@jessier8949
@jessier8949 7 жыл бұрын
Fallenangel14301. I know right, when my daughter goes up I don't wanna know about her sexual life. Maybe if she's 14-16 it'll annoy me. But 17+ I wouldn't care or want to know about it.
@seekersjourney7312
@seekersjourney7312 6 жыл бұрын
Rachel J I'd just wanna make sure that they were safe about it and were mentally well.
@ewe392
@ewe392 6 жыл бұрын
Dying from aids
@jassmeenpena1537
@jassmeenpena1537 6 жыл бұрын
Fallenangel14301 lmao right😂 his kinda creepy
@angie675
@angie675 6 жыл бұрын
Fallenangel14301 couldn't agree more.
@Tina06019
@Tina06019 7 жыл бұрын
I am glad that her mother had the guts to tell her daughter that she would love her no matter what, even if her daughter got annoyed. Her mother wants her daughter to be happy and safe, but she also needs her daughter to know that her worth as a human being and a daughter is greater than her "worth as a virgin."
@mnvro7989
@mnvro7989 6 жыл бұрын
Tina exactly! I totally judged Herby her cover at first with that awful dress buying the ring but then she got real! There's people with brains down there!
@LB-sj2yu
@LB-sj2yu 6 жыл бұрын
Tina I
@janagurung2392
@janagurung2392 2 жыл бұрын
so what? Is it a sin?
@Val_Far
@Val_Far 5 жыл бұрын
Mind your own god damn business, Pastor Ed.
@maddiealyse
@maddiealyse 5 жыл бұрын
"C-c-cops are no beuno"
@littleginger101
@littleginger101 7 жыл бұрын
im from Houston, Texas and in high school when we had health class they totally skipped over this stuff. we had 3 teen pregnancies that year.
@TheTuesday11
@TheTuesday11 7 жыл бұрын
Caitlin Downs that had nothing to do with what you were or were not taught at school! Sex is a subject to be taught at home!
@1992MR1992
@1992MR1992 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah it *should*. But as we see here, allot of people fail at that. Therefor it should be a subject in school as well. (Just to be sure)
@1992MR1992
@1992MR1992 7 жыл бұрын
+someone important Indeed, the school should be a safe neutral place, where *facts* should be taught. And let kids decide for them self witch path to pick. I can't stress this enough.
@aboutashow
@aboutashow 7 жыл бұрын
I'm from Houston too! They only taught us about sex for maybe a few classes in my health course.
@GenaFrog
@GenaFrog 7 жыл бұрын
My sex Ed in the mid 1980's was given by a very embarrassed science teacher. He was so red faced and hadn't a clue, us teens had more idea and when he didn't know what to say and asked us questions, we felt embarrassed ourselves so he asked us to write our questions down and put them in a tray on his desk. It was evident most of the boys saw porn mags due to their questions whereas girls asked about the act of making babies. NOTHING about prevention or contraception, it was all very awk!
@budlorry8937
@budlorry8937 7 жыл бұрын
I never buy a pair of shoes before trying them on.
@april547
@april547 7 жыл бұрын
Bud Lorry bahahahah
@georgief9655
@georgief9655 7 жыл бұрын
Bud Lorry 😂😂😂
@SamA-ji3kz
@SamA-ji3kz 7 жыл бұрын
Bud Lorry So true, but eventually you won't buy the used one right.
@un1verse_ua
@un1verse_ua 7 жыл бұрын
Samah Alomary but you'll buy a pair that someone were trying on before))
@cermetdelrey9560
@cermetdelrey9560 7 жыл бұрын
Bud Lorry shoes and people are different. A worm out or used pair of shoes is actually made "less good" I guess. But humans aren't like shoes, you don't get worn out like a pair of shoes does from having sex.
@bambismiler
@bambismiler 5 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, the over-tweezed brow era.
@shandean8352
@shandean8352 4 жыл бұрын
Amber Marie I saw that, too!! I was like, girls, where are y’all’s eyebrows?
@marithamenace1880
@marithamenace1880 5 жыл бұрын
soo what they gone do if somebody gets raped....they still a used toothbrush?
@jemima885ify
@jemima885ify 7 жыл бұрын
Saying virgins are pure and clean and that non virgins are dirty, like used toothbrushes is so wrong, it makes me so sad for these poor children, it's such an awful message
@nap5142
@nap5142 7 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with being a virgin
@jemima885ify
@jemima885ify 7 жыл бұрын
KUBBYSPICE I never said there's anything wrong with being a virgin, but there's also nothing wrong with not being a virgin, virginity has no bearing on who you are as a person
@TheTuesday11
@TheTuesday11 7 жыл бұрын
Jemima Jones what should we teach them? Seriously, most of us would never use a tooth brush found in bar, but everyday people meet in a bar and have sex... That's twisted. Having sex is far more risky then using a found tooth brush. No it's not a pretty example, but sometimes the truth is not pretty!
@jemima885ify
@jemima885ify 7 жыл бұрын
TheTuesday11 we should teach them how to use contraception, not teaching them how to use condoms is just going to make it unsafe when the inevitable does happen, despite what these people say, condoms are 98% effective and one of the best ways to prevent stds
@jemima885ify
@jemima885ify 7 жыл бұрын
TheTuesday11 the truth here is not pretty, this disgustingly inadequate sex education has led to some of the highest levels of stds and teenage pregnancy in America, there's no evidence to suggest that this form of sex education is doing anything other than creating a problem, it's like the gun problem in America, they think not having guns is less safe than having guns, but in England there was one school shooting and everyone except farmers had their guns taken away, and now gun crime is incredibly rare, in the areas in America where they teach safe sex to teenagers, teenagers have safe sex, what a surprise
@jilliandavis5701
@jilliandavis5701 6 жыл бұрын
That youth pastor makes me sick to my stomach. What a fake, egotistical disgrace.
@Niphredyl
@Niphredyl 5 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure he wants to fiddle those teen virgin girls and doesn't want competition.
@kimberlyhaines107
@kimberlyhaines107 5 жыл бұрын
He creeps me out just by the way he looks. Like a boy band reject.
@bree8917
@bree8917 5 жыл бұрын
I can only imagine the skeletons he has in his closet.
@quickmike420
@quickmike420 5 жыл бұрын
I've personally known two youth pastors. Both are now convicted pedophiles.
@Killer_snail
@Killer_snail 4 жыл бұрын
Jillian Davis i thought it was just me that thought he was way worse than even the topic! Bleach blonde hair and fluro white teeth on someone over 40 is never a good look & the guy is so obviously a jock that never grew up and thinks he’s ‘cool’ still, even though he just mocks and bullies people - gross 🤢
@starrystar2001
@starrystar2001 4 жыл бұрын
when she thought she was allergic to the ring when it’s just a cheap ring that mixes with oils on the skin and turns the skin blue green. do they really not teach them anything
@emmapetrus127
@emmapetrus127 5 жыл бұрын
“Guys were given two heads and only enough blood in their body to control one.” HAHAHA WHAT
@rovibb2128
@rovibb2128 3 жыл бұрын
lol kdkdkd
@calisongbird
@calisongbird 3 жыл бұрын
You’ve seriously never heard that one before?? He didn’t just make that up on his own. lol
@allisonovo
@allisonovo 3 жыл бұрын
they can’t even control either most of the time honestly lmfao
@sarahs7517
@sarahs7517 3 жыл бұрын
@@allisonovo Truer words have never been spoken lmao
@ambercanary443
@ambercanary443 7 жыл бұрын
I would much rather teenagers understand safe sex than just assume they won't have sex. They have one of the highest pregnancy and STD rates, so clearly something isn't working..
@ravenbrenton428
@ravenbrenton428 7 жыл бұрын
Amber Canary they tell them condoms don't work and have holes in them 😒😒
@mycatwilleatyou7569
@mycatwilleatyou7569 6 жыл бұрын
This comment section is gold.
@AudreeAdam
@AudreeAdam 5 жыл бұрын
Your name is gold. I love it.
@timfrank7461
@timfrank7461 5 жыл бұрын
I know right???
@SarasHotandDangerous
@SarasHotandDangerous 5 жыл бұрын
That’s the only reason I clicked on this video
@rachelb3449
@rachelb3449 5 жыл бұрын
Ed kind of sounds like he's got a bit of a God complex with his whole taking their heart playing with it and putting it back even Jesus and God don't do that to you
@mistyrhodes3783
@mistyrhodes3783 3 жыл бұрын
I am a mom with 3 kids. My youngest is now 16. I am in Texas but lean more socially liberal. I have taught them to be responsible but am realistic that they are also human with natural urges. Telling teens that condoms are ineffective is not only false but extremely disturbing.
@Scarfysmom
@Scarfysmom 7 жыл бұрын
"when you lose your virginity you lose your dignity" lol no
@Scarfysmom
@Scarfysmom 7 жыл бұрын
"condoms don't work" show me the science
@kareninaton5349
@kareninaton5349 7 жыл бұрын
Hard To Love well they've been working for me for about one year now lol
@LL-ip5mm
@LL-ip5mm 7 жыл бұрын
Hard To Love ikr sex is a normal thing whats the point most ppl think virginity is special somthing to hold on to but tbh its not its jus s normal part of life and it doesnt make u any less.
@Scarfysmom
@Scarfysmom 7 жыл бұрын
alias ling ling yes, exactly! I think there's no real connection between a persons worth and the number of partners they've had. Graham Saxton I think it's awesome that you want to save yourself and I have a lot of respect for that. But I wouldn't think any less of you or any other person if you didn't wait until marriage. Honestly I think there are only three rules to sex (other than the obvious one about consent): 1. Don't cheat 2. Don't homewreck and 3. Always wear protection unless your purpose is reproduction. Simple as that, in my opinion.
@sneipen77
@sneipen77 7 жыл бұрын
Lol.....Are you serious? You really belive you can get an std at birth from your mother? Wow.....So many dumb people :p
@mimi-my5bl
@mimi-my5bl 7 жыл бұрын
That Eva chick couldn't even explain what "intercourse" meant. Wow, this is why safe sex Ed is so important. They don't even know what they are pledging against.
@cutienoodle6674
@cutienoodle6674 6 жыл бұрын
never ever look at toothbrushes the same again.....
@junepassingthrouthegate8810
@junepassingthrouthegate8810 6 жыл бұрын
Tori C I think she felt embarassed or unconfortable talking about it.
@Rachhlaur
@Rachhlaur 5 жыл бұрын
Can these cameras get any closer to these people’s faces?! Goodness..
@risankati
@risankati 4 жыл бұрын
Watching Ed's face that close was extremely uncomfortable.
@stella-vu8vh
@stella-vu8vh 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm only 17, I have tobacco AND alcohol in my stomach"
@904daniela
@904daniela 7 жыл бұрын
I've always loved the expression "to lose one's virginity". I didn't "lose" mine, I know exactly where it went. ;)
@ascent8487
@ascent8487 7 жыл бұрын
I know you're joking but what would you call it?
@TriciaSenior25557
@TriciaSenior25557 7 жыл бұрын
Daniela Staples I can truthfully say out of all the comments, your comment really made me laugh 😀
@emilyharper736
@emilyharper736 7 жыл бұрын
Ascent Having sex. Intercourse. Whatever this person calls their first act of sex. You don't lose a part of yourself, you consent to an act.
@wazzup20011983
@wazzup20011983 7 жыл бұрын
once its gone can you really get it back. yes it is in a sense lost and never found again! I disagree with the pastors condom talks though. andthink that stds should be disgused as a warning to help teach the harm of having it not protected
@ascent8487
@ascent8487 7 жыл бұрын
Well, not everyone consents, I assure you. There is rape and some people really do feel violated even when they consent. I didn't. My first experience was great. But my sister's first was a rape and I had girlfriends who had sex with people they didn't want to because they felt pressured. Again, I know the first comment was a joke, but come to think of it, for some people it is a loss in a very real sense. "Intercourse?" lol As in, "I first had anal penetration at 15 and vaginal intercourse at 16." Who would say that? haha.
@am-wr6ws
@am-wr6ws 7 жыл бұрын
6:35 "can we say penis??" omg i'm dead
@oliravioliii3835
@oliravioliii3835 7 жыл бұрын
Amber P. I died at that part too lmao
@Mimmuro
@Mimmuro 7 жыл бұрын
OMG, now when I just read your comment I realised how hilarious that was and cracked up 😂😂
@callista6813
@callista6813 5 жыл бұрын
Funny how common teen pregnancy and STDs are here. 🤔
@maddiesander4786
@maddiesander4786 5 жыл бұрын
hehe all because the condoms have holes in them lmao wow
@bsqwahlE
@bsqwahlE 5 жыл бұрын
Texas has the fourth highest teen pregnancy rate in the U.S.
@carultch
@carultch 5 жыл бұрын
Massachusetts is the lowest. I've never even met a single person who was a teen parent in this state.
@HollieRoyalMorphExotics
@HollieRoyalMorphExotics 6 жыл бұрын
I'm very curious as to what their divorce rates are like there
@SarahG303
@SarahG303 5 жыл бұрын
HUGE. THE BIGGEST.
@annam9047
@annam9047 5 жыл бұрын
Ya....sad really or they feel forced to stay and never know true love....
@rsmaczny9694
@rsmaczny9694 5 жыл бұрын
www.usatoday.com/story/money/economy/2018/02/02/broken-hearts-rundown-divorce-capital-every-state/1078283001/ It's pretty average, rather lower than some northern states.
@rsmaczny9694
@rsmaczny9694 5 жыл бұрын
@@SarahG303 You're lying. please see my comment below.
@SarahG303
@SarahG303 5 жыл бұрын
@RSmaczny it was a joke....
@anne-droid7739
@anne-droid7739 7 жыл бұрын
Somebody needs to slap that pastor upside the head with some facts of polymer chemistry.
@Tina06019
@Tina06019 7 жыл бұрын
He wouldn't listen. The truth doesn't fit his world view.
@cIaimthestars
@cIaimthestars 5 жыл бұрын
Religious people are so scary. I'm SO glad I live in one of the most secular countries on the planet. That pastor is the creepiest specimen I've seen in a while, yikes.
@Kortita
@Kortita 5 жыл бұрын
Where do you live?
@rishaa682
@rishaa682 3 жыл бұрын
one hundred percent. i couldnt imagine living in the US they are such religious zealots
@King-dt4gi
@King-dt4gi 2 жыл бұрын
He was not creepy.
@chloegalbraith3218
@chloegalbraith3218 5 жыл бұрын
Guess what it landed on Aids
@aubriethegreat8175
@aubriethegreat8175 5 жыл бұрын
Twist ending, they ALL said Aids! 😂
@NonaPaskemin
@NonaPaskemin 7 жыл бұрын
LET ME TELL Y'ALL WHAT IT'S LIKE BEING MALE MIDDLE CLASS AND WHITE
@byeimgone7867
@byeimgone7867 6 жыл бұрын
NonaPaskemin i died😂
@laurenc9458
@laurenc9458 6 жыл бұрын
so poor black kids dont go to church?
@adaeze4873
@adaeze4873 4 жыл бұрын
Lauren C it was a song featured in the video
@rhiannonishere7148
@rhiannonishere7148 6 жыл бұрын
It should be illegal to tell kids things like "condoms have holes" and things like that. They should teach abstinence and about contraceptives because even if you teach abstinence a lot of kids aren't going to follow and they should learn how to be safe if they don't abstain
@carultch
@carultch 5 жыл бұрын
Well technically it is not a lie, because everything made of conventional matter is mostly empty space. It's just that none of the "holes" in factory sealed condoms without defects, are large enough for the sperm to pass.
@Indian_Ringneck
@Indian_Ringneck 5 жыл бұрын
I am 20 and I m virgin ....not bcoz of religious reasons but bcoz of my personal choices....
@calisongbird
@calisongbird 3 жыл бұрын
So?
@lauren9373
@lauren9373 3 жыл бұрын
Ok
@tessahaggerty9678
@tessahaggerty9678 3 жыл бұрын
**because
@alyssalauren8088
@alyssalauren8088 4 жыл бұрын
That one guy is literally the PE coach from mean girls
@bunnylacy2097
@bunnylacy2097 3 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Lauren The PE coach at least taught them about condoms :/
@ashleyfarris6998
@ashleyfarris6998 6 жыл бұрын
Go Eva's mom! An actual realistic person who understands that being a teenager is hard and hormones are real! You should always love your child no matter what.
@lozzylols
@lozzylols 4 жыл бұрын
I found it so annoying when her daughter and husband had a go at her for saying it! We say we will do a lot of things when we are teenagers and most don't happen! I wonder if the parents waited until marriage? The Mom seems to know all too well about urges lol
@dutchess2121
@dutchess2121 6 жыл бұрын
Cop: Have you taken any drugs? "I have tobacco AND alcohol in my stomach."
@timfrank7461
@timfrank7461 5 жыл бұрын
Elle Sol i just imagine him eating cigarettes whole 😂😂😂
@tristanmason7405
@tristanmason7405 3 жыл бұрын
Even if I were married I wouldn’t do “it” in front of my father......
@beverlyho9559
@beverlyho9559 5 жыл бұрын
This disturbing youth pastor is so delusional, I keep expecting attendants with a strait jacket and restraints to burst in at any moment.
@LindseyDominguez
@LindseyDominguez 6 жыл бұрын
But did pastor Ed abstain from tanning beds? Nope.
@allieschwarz8023
@allieschwarz8023 5 жыл бұрын
He also didn't abstain from lying to kids, and from making a very nice living by doing so.
@vanessawoodall3515
@vanessawoodall3515 5 жыл бұрын
This made me laugh so hard!
@lozzylols
@lozzylols 4 жыл бұрын
@@allieschwarz8023 I know if it is God's will to teach this message shouldn't he be doing it for free?
@halfloaf1108
@halfloaf1108 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@RLS-bu4bj
@RLS-bu4bj 4 жыл бұрын
And he started speaking in tongues . . . What a surprise
@katelynturner5046
@katelynturner5046 7 жыл бұрын
That pastor is gross 😐
@lizett3465
@lizett3465 6 жыл бұрын
So is the toothbrush metaphor. Awful.
@lapinkawaii
@lapinkawaii 6 жыл бұрын
So icky...
@BeYJaNn
@BeYJaNn 6 жыл бұрын
Pastors a Pervert for sure 😂 with that Witch Mole on the forehead guarantee
@Hnzuu
@Hnzuu 6 жыл бұрын
I don't know why this made me laugh. 😂 But yeah, he really is.
@musicgames1826
@musicgames1826 6 жыл бұрын
there all gross
@ulysees321
@ulysees321 5 жыл бұрын
Wonder how many of these kids are now preggers or have kids? LOL
@alwaysme_t
@alwaysme_t 5 жыл бұрын
I always wondered if you get divorced or become a widow are you considered a used toothbrush? Just listening to that horrible analogy I wanted to know if that applies too.
@ST-yc7uj
@ST-yc7uj 3 жыл бұрын
Divorce is shameful, if a man and a woman get together after a divorce they are not supposed to share a bed (because God does not recognize divorce, it would be seen as adultery in His eyes) and widowers should never remarry, especially women. That's the traditional christanity...
@proudcynophile1901
@proudcynophile1901 3 жыл бұрын
@@ST-yc7uj traditional Christianity? I never heard of any Christianity that widowed people should not remarry.
@lindseyhelena9429
@lindseyhelena9429 7 жыл бұрын
"We wanted her to be pure for her wedding day because that's a precious gift for your husband" wtf!? I am not a gift to anyone
@Starfalllen
@Starfalllen 7 жыл бұрын
Lindsey Helena We are always goddamn blessings to our husbands and boyfriends, virgins or not 😂
@TheBratscin1
@TheBratscin1 7 жыл бұрын
You keep telling yourself that
@iwannabuyaduck60
@iwannabuyaduck60 7 жыл бұрын
Lindsey Helena EXACTLY!!!
@rosedalinevaletine6931
@rosedalinevaletine6931 6 жыл бұрын
Sara J Hope he was a virgin too and gave you his precious gift.
@hshx1n
@hshx1n 2 жыл бұрын
No you ain't
@MaximusG6
@MaximusG6 7 жыл бұрын
They look so 2000! Feels like a timemachine
@mennawalmsley7168
@mennawalmsley7168 7 жыл бұрын
MaximusG6 yep. I agree
@UranusRising
@UranusRising 6 жыл бұрын
This documentary was filmed in 2003, so yeah. Lol.
@124Nightwing
@124Nightwing 5 жыл бұрын
A person's virginity is their own decision and their own business.
@vivenomada
@vivenomada 5 жыл бұрын
That guy is loosing his youth, abstaining from parties, fun and healthy relationships. And he seems to struggle so much because of it :(
@amandareviews4674
@amandareviews4674 7 жыл бұрын
"People who have had sex before marriage are like used toothbrushes." What the fuck...
@gypsy4659
@gypsy4659 2 жыл бұрын
I found that disgusting too.
@QueenChaslee
@QueenChaslee 7 жыл бұрын
I like how the pastor said condoms don't protect ur heart and mind... but not teaching safe sex is completely irresponsible in my opinion.
@MissKealoha
@MissKealoha 4 жыл бұрын
"He made you feel like if you held a guys hand you're a sinner". Wow. Religion never lacks in the crazy person dept.
@gothgirl317
@gothgirl317 5 жыл бұрын
I would throw that pastor across the room don’t you dare touch me
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