The Reasons Why Women Doubt Polygamy (ADVICE)

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Жыл бұрын

Some of the reasons why a woman may be hesitant to be in a poly marriage
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@AfricanNewsChannel987 Жыл бұрын

Its wonderful when done right. I love my sister wife. I was able to go back to school and when im done with school shes going back. We're doing well

@nonmonomantv5149 Жыл бұрын

love that

@AwakenGoddess 2 ай бұрын

That's great. I had unsatisfactory experiences 2 times.😮

@jbwallace69 Жыл бұрын

I fully understand where you're coming from and can respect that point of view but in the scenario of 10 houses vs 1... just because that one Man has all those houses and land doesn't necessarily mean he's good quality! This is how women get trapped and sometimes hurt with that superficial mentality. Abundance doesn't always equal quality. The guy with one house on one acre, although he has less, may be a much better choice and comfortably capable of accommodating 3 to 4 virtuous women not to mention being spiritually in tune. That one house could be over 9,000 square feet, 2 levels plus full basement, inground pool, jacuzzi, bar along with SOOOOO many other amenities throughout the property! Not to mention he could own millions of dollars in assets and have TIME to actually be there, get to know, care for and coddle each and everyone of his women and children! Polygyny is a good and beautiful thing that can go terribly wrong if not approached with wisdom! ✨⚖️

@Lets_go_already Жыл бұрын

Modern women will not understand this concept.

@rayologyxm Жыл бұрын

Even North American indigenous people practiced polygyny before the Anglos arrived. Excellent video.

@zaziedabeast9692 Жыл бұрын

I like how you see things. Not to forget that if resources are indeed scarse, more is better, and it isn't a goal. More help more hand more trust more fuel and more avenues of income or saving money.

@kelvinshorter2990 Жыл бұрын

Yep

@SerpentzSociety Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 She Said “SELFAMEY” ….Copyrights NEEDED 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@2801pepperdog Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with her perspective, especially the positive effects polygyny could have on men's desire for the improvement of themselves financially, emotionally, and compassionately before ever pursuing a polygynous union. I love your reference to BLACK PEOPLE first learning their ancient historical greatness and not defining themselves based on the lies of history and their unfortunate acceptance of religions created to control and enslave you both physically and mentally.

@rnbsteenstar Жыл бұрын

In the end, only you can decide what is best for yourself. Society has largely been socialized into monogamy, very little mention of ethical non-monogamy.

@raphaelrobinson5048 3 ай бұрын

beautifully said. it has nothing to do with promiscuous intentions, I wanna raise nations!! makes me push harder

@gwarren8475 Жыл бұрын

Beyond self insight. I love to see it. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@MuckCityProductions Ай бұрын

We've been socialized to practice and accept "Peculiar Polygamy". It's not taboo to have a child out of wedlock to a man that has other children as long as he doesn't call both of you "wives". And you BETTER not have a productive relationship with that women!

@humanityincvideos5114 Жыл бұрын

I luv how all her examples the men own land lol 💯

@ram09568 3 ай бұрын

Democracy is a helluva drug!

@natrelletyson 3 ай бұрын

Unrelated but your hair is soooooo cute. Natural for the win!!

@InquiriusStudios 11 ай бұрын

Now I’mma go take some of theses thought processes ! And honestly the man I’m with is ruffling the convo about poly relationships but has not manifested and from what he told me the women in his past he’s tried to convince left or cheated or further disappointed him so my question to you is, how can you discern whether a man wants polygamy for the right reasons like that’s really dig into that or if you can make another video, that would be amazing

@SavageSigma11 4 ай бұрын

The Black Woman Is A Goddess 🖤

@user-hj5rw5iq8q 4 ай бұрын

Which one are you talking about? Polygamy refers to a person (male or female) being married to two or more people at the same time. Polygyny refers to a man, in particular, being married to two or more women at the same time.

@salimi.sheriff7608 4 ай бұрын

Modern women will never understand let alone accept it 😢 - Sorry but the more the merrier 😂

@Activation1111 Ай бұрын

It should be obvious to even the most amateur observer,, that monogamy does not come natural to the human species (although there are a few animals species on this planet, where monogamy does come naturally. But human beings aren’t one of them). Although Long-term pair bonding does occur within the human species. it doesn’t necessarily mean,, monogamy. Down through human history, diverse cultures throughout the world practiced different relationship styles. Including polygyny, polyandry, polygamy, polyamory/ethical non-monogamy. Where there is consent there is no cheating. Legal government/state controlled or religious controlled or mandated Marriage,, is a made-up concept. It does not exist in nature. But as I mentioned,, pair bonding does comes natural to the human species..

@N8lou Ай бұрын

Amen

@TZUSMuziq 17 күн бұрын

nawww Selfamy is funny😂😂😂

@rexchiquine6049 4 ай бұрын

There was a man with 6 wives his grocery bill was 4k a month,,,

@RahYisrael99 Ай бұрын

He probably has 20 children.

@bmoretruth9777 Жыл бұрын

Y SHARE A MAN?? 🤔 WHEN I CAN HAVE MY OWN MAN 4 ME!!💯✅

@Morgue12free Жыл бұрын

You don't have to. Simply find a man who wants the same.

@emchristian4793 Жыл бұрын

A man does not belong to a woman. You take his last name, it's not the other way round

@joungyalen25 Жыл бұрын

Makes him sound like property. Monogamy ideologically is so cringey and possessive to me. If he wanted to leave you or cheat on you he would or could, so he never technically is yours. Even if he marries you and now legally has an obligation to be with you is that a satisfying belonging? Is he staying with you because he loves you or because it would be a bad investment to leave someone who is so tied with yourself financially, legally, emotionally, and physically? I think if you left the door open and your man still finds a reason to spend time with you regardless of whether he spends time with other women or not than he clearly wants to be there, but if you have to convince him to give up everything for you so it's harder to back out than that's more about control than love. Also we share all the time. Friends and parents aren't possessive so why do we come up with this concept that love cannot be shared? If your biggest fear is that your man is going to leave you for someone else than you're better off becoming a more likable person that men want to be around than to attempt to get that commitment through monogamy or marriage.

@normandy2501 2 ай бұрын

@joungyalen25 people tend to get married out of choice these days. If I, for example, don't marry my fiancé, then she legally has no access to my education benefit for her schooling since I'm not going to need it myself. If I want to bring someone else into it, legally she won't be entitled to anything, nor can she act entirely on my behalf if the need arises. When we get married, both of my jobs will pay me more for having her as a dependent. Marriage is mainly of an economic value to who already innately love each other. No duh, she isn't my property, and I'm not hers, but that's how *you* personally would view it. Mono and poly people alike need to check their projections in the matter. We're not just giving up everything for one or the other. We're agreeing to build something together as a team. And you don't generally f**k your friends and family on a regular basis, so the relationship is going to look different for a lot of people by default lol.

@THELIGHTBRINGER144THOUSAND 10 ай бұрын

Adam only had one wife and she caused him to turn his back on God. The Torah OT warns us against women hating Gods wisdom and want to live according to her own way.

@Woody_thepoet 4 ай бұрын

Selfamy 😂 5:11

@jankyred4921 4 ай бұрын

Where is this chick again😊

@nonmonomantv5149 2 ай бұрын

Her name is "Goddess Aayanna"

@Officialzaystory 8 ай бұрын

I agree with what she saying. I think black women need to accept polygamy like black men had to accept the fact that black American women aborted 20 million black babies since 1974. Call it payback dues.