Oh Owamie the part where your father kicked you guys out of the car really had me breaking down 😭 big hugs to you big sis, your life journey is giving all of us strength ❤️

By the sound of this, it appears like your dad hated your mother, and then transferred that hate onto you guys. Probably being a traditional man, you being girls fuelled the hate. And he'll never love you. But God is great. Watch how his life is gonna turn out eventually, and your mother's spirit will continue to rise up for you girls❤

One thing I love, is that you're making sure that he too is uncomfortable. You're fighting a battle a mom should've fought. I think your Dad is used to people who let him get away with stuff. I think your mom also let him get away with too much

Thank you for being vulnerable with us. This series made me realize that I'm better off as a single mother than forcing my baby daddy to be in his son's life. Thank you, you've also just helped me accept my situation. Wouldn't want my kid being mistreated, because i forced the relationship

Some father's dont deserve to be called father's. He is just a monster.

The EX wasn't supposed to tell your story on that podcast coz he lied 💔. This story is deep and heartbreaking

Narcissistic people "being a parent" takes all the power and authority to make himself popular out there as if he's kindhearted to overshadow his abusive tendency upon his family 😢it's heartbreaking💔💔💔💞🙏💞

Your father is a narcisist, there is nothing good you could have done to be loved and accepted by him. The most important thing for you and your sisters now is to go to theraphy and work on your healing.

Your Father just wanted every little excuse to disown you guys...he was very quick to resort to that each time because it would relieve him from fatherly duties...I know you said you don't want to talk about anyone else apart from your sisters but I'm so curious hle on what kind of a Dad is he to your other siblings?...I'm trying to figure out if he was a deadbeat only to you guys or overall, if you don't feel like sharing, I completely understand...that man wasn't brought up with love himself and instead of doing better he perpetuates the cycle...so sorry for all of you guys...the part about him leaving you on the streets ...broke me😢

Narcissistic fathers for you ! You are giving us the courage to talk about our experiences Owamie !!! I’m so sorry ! I know exactly how deeply painful it is to have a living parent but feel as though they are as good as dead .

Oh mammie allow yourself to cry ,if we as strangers can cry from hearing this unfortunate events what about you that has went through this 🥺🥺

You don’t need to call that man dad. A dad is someone who loves his children but this man is your father not dad Owamie. This is triggering a lot

This father is using power and money to abuse his own kids 😢😢😢

I’ve never disliked someone I don’t know this much😭😭😭

Thank you for being so vulnerable and allowing us into your world, childhood and emotional state. You are healing so many people without even knowing it ❤

How to spot a sociopath? Sociopathy Traits *Lack of empathy for others. *Impulsive behavior. *Attempting to control others with threats or aggression. *Using intelligence, charm, or charisma to manipulate others. *Not learning from mistakes or punishment. Lying for personal gain. *Showing a tendency toward physical violence and fights. This describes his character to a Tee. We normal people can never understand or even try to reason with such a person. I'm so sad, heartbroken but Owams you are healing many with your story and I know you yourself this is cathartic. Sending you Love and as much positive healing energy as I can master 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞

I promise you right now Owami, you will feel pity for your dad on his last days. He is going to suffer like no man's business. I am a witness of that because my dad wished my mom was alive because of the way he treated her. He is going to suffer I am telling you. That's being evil at its level best. Just keep on being strong for your siblings. Your father will get what's coming to him one day. It seems as if he celebrated your mum's passing.

I really wonder what makes people cruel😢especially to their own children💔

Botse botse Bo papago baya Loya straight. I am so sorry for what you and your sisters went through 💔 it will not be a surprise to find out your mom did not die a natural death. Maybe he had a hand. Such hatred no man this is too much💔💔💔

As Am Typing This Tears Are Falling Out 😢 I Am In The Same Situation 🙌🏽 We Suffered And My Dad Was Also Abusive 💔 Now I Have A Special Child Instead Of Helping Me They Want To Benefit From My Son's Grant 🙌🏽 It Hurts So Bad

That old male needs to be called to order 😭 God must punish him now on earth, where everyone can see. 😭😭

Losing a mother very early on in life is very breaking, my siblings and I were kids and 11 years later we are still trying to pick up the pieces... I will say that I'm glad my dad realized that we needed him and he actually came to the party eventually and I thank God for that.. I'm sorry you and your sisters had to go through all of that ❤

This is heartbreaking to watch, yhoo what a vile human being is that old man😢

Yhooo this man is very cruel 💔 this man robbed your child wood... am so sorry Owamie and ur sisters may God continue lifting you high.

The pain i felt when i lost my mum, i couldnt imagine being treated like that by my own father💔

This is too sad for me I can't stop crying...ur a brave and beautiful girl, your Dad made you wiser and stronger

Yooh my heart broke when you were narrating that you and your sisters had to buy your mom clothes, i wish there was an adult who would have helped you with that💔

Yoh I zoned out so much watching this video remembering and getting flashbacks of what I went through with my mom's passing and burial prep. I know this pain first hand. Really sorry for all of this O. Your story is so similar with mine..

Read up on how Brian McKnight treats his kids. Sounds like your dad

This made me relive my own mother’s passing. It’s been 6 years but it still feels like yesterday.

Yoh Owami i just listened to your and i couldn't stop my tears i love how strong you've been for your sisters 😘Big up sis

Its difficult to watch this video because i dont want to see you cry it breaks my heart ...again i am so sorry you had to go through that Queen Ninja.

I don’t normally comment but Sisi, I just wanna give you a big hug♥️ Love and light to you my dear. May God give you strength to overcome and strength to carry your sisters through. May your wounds and scars be healed💙 I wish you nothing but the best in life. You deserve all the wins sthandwa sam

The most painful part is that you had to deal with Big Guy's mom drama at your mom's funeral where you needed support and comfort the most💔💔💔💔 Yohhhhhh you went through ALOT💔💔💔

But you did what you thought was right at that time 😢😢

Sorry for what you and your sisters went through Owamie. May God strengthen and comfort you🙏🏼

So upset! Saw the premier but couldn’t watch! Still not home yet and left the AirPods on charge 😩😫. Looking forward to this segment. Eish God’s strength sis! And know that you are strengthening so many of us with your bravery!

So sorry you had to go through this especially from your own biological father 💔😭.

This is very heartbreaking💔😭 am so sorrie QueenNinja 👑 you had to go through that i mean most of us we didn't grow up with much but my parent's really did what they can for us throughout our lives ,yoooooooh heee your dad it's a very cold person tjerrr who does that to their kids 😏o nale pelo ya Satani stryt am sorrie to say darling but yoooh he is worse but am not suprised they are men like that out there that even take the hate to the nxt level and go to sangomas to witch 🧙‍♀️ their kids to not be successful in life if houses 🏘 could talk a lot of people are gowishing trust me your not alone....♥️

😢😢 Owami your life story is so sad! All I know is that there is a God who sees and hears, whilst also fighting your battles. Narcissistic fathers have ruined our lives. They’re like that, they neglect their family, but will blow all their money on outsiders for validation. You and your sisters will get what is due to you. Watch this space.

Finally I let my tears out over this story. You went through it Owamie shu 😭 God indeed is a restorer 🙏🏽

Ooh m so sorry for everything you’ve gone through Owamie,may the Lord strengthen you.

Its always comforting to go to your mother's mother when your mum passes on because she fills more pain than you

I believe your mother is a guardian Angel over you guys, Owamie please allow yourself to feel every emotion let it out don't hold back tears. That's how you find your healing. Please look after yourself you have been through alot.❤

People often make jokes about "Daddy Issues", they don't realise how much girl children have to go through with their fathers. The pits! Some decide to stay away from men and having children because they don't want to pass their trauma onto their kids. Some gravitate towards dating older men who treat them well and they feel assured that they are somehow loved. It's important to try not to judge people's behaviors especially when you don't know their story and why they do that

Watched your story and it's very relatable, I thought life was this hard for us who lost both parents, experiencing this from your own parent is something else.... I think your father is cursed.. I'm not trying to justify his behavior but his behavior of being a community saviour and a monster to his own flesh and blood is Not normal behavior!!!

Ijoo my heart is bleeding this is too much ,May you and your sisters get the healing you deserve ninja

This is so heartbreaking Owami! Was he forced to marry your mother? Did he ever love her? What's with all this HATE to his children as if they are adopted! Was he somehow abused as a child or his father also raised him with an iron-fist and he is retaliating to his children? He will never see heaven

Your story is so heartbreaking. I don't think I'm ready for part 3 💔💔💔

Haii nna I’m looking at your other family members with the biggest SIDE EYE‼️‼️ They have no reason to be this afraid of this man. Yhooo. Not even his own mother (your grandmother) can sit her son down and talk some sense into it. Or his other siblings? Did he even love his wife?. I have a lot of questions. If he ever loved your mom; you guys wouldn’t even be begging him for a cent.

He's going to suffer Narcissistic injury after this.. He will go mad

YHO! I can't say "I'm so sorry" Enough for all the pain & trauma you went through. I have always said that cruel people enjoy the power they get from being able to emotionally abuse & hurt people. I cannot understand your father's heart. I would to actually see it, YHO! YHO! YHO! I am so heart broken for you, your mother & your sisters 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭 I wish your father can repent and try to right his wrongs.

We just passed through your dad's shopping centre... Strongs...all shall be well

I’m sorry Owamie, that man is not a father. Thank God your mom is your Guardian Angel. I think she’s watching over you and her spirit is behind your success. Look at who you have become despite how manipulative that old man was to you, your sisters and your mom. ❤

Heartbreaking Owamie! Narcissists don't have empathy. They thrive in situations where others are down. There was no video and daddy-dearest did not feel he owes you what you deemed important. The video would have exposed much and narcissists have to control the narrative so that would have gone opposite to his agenda. Mother dearest could not have imagined that her beloved children would be so badly ill-treated. Otherwise, she could have definitely chosen differently. May her soul rest in peace! May the spirit of the Lord comfort you sesi.

I was married to someone who went through such abuse… the story is almost the same because his father was once a school Principal as well. He told me he used to be chased from school for failure to pay school fees. I tried to love my ex husband with my all but we ended up divorcing. He started being abusive like his dad but I just couldn’t handle it so I left . I hope that one day he finds healing and have a happy life.

This is such a trigger, I am so sorry you had to go through this❤

I can't watch these videos because it triggers so much and Owamie you really inspire us. 😭😭 Yo! Ustrong mfazi

Owamie this is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you went through this.

Yhooooooo did I not cry this is so triggering losing a mother it's such a tradegy but don't want to lie my dad made sure we were okay he's still even trying even today because he understands how much that women loved us he also lost love of his love it's definitely not easy but he trying the best and I will always be grateful

So touching, wish one day I can be able to be open about what i have been through including my mom's funeral, she died 3 years after my separation with baby daddy and i have been through hell

Shame im finding it so hard to understand why your father was so hateful towards you guys. You have been through so much because of him. Sending u lots of love❤ I hope you will heal

This is painfull Queen Ninjah I'm sorry you have to go thru this❤

Queen Ninja. Please stop apologizing for your tears. They are warranted. I think your mother knew deep down what kind of person he is hence she made sure that your signature is needed as well. She knew that once she is gone, he would not take care of her Angels on earth but still had hope as he is your biological father. Cry as much as you want. The ninjas are here with you and for you. 😇

Owami my heart aches for you and wish you nothing but healing ❤. I felt the part where you said having one parent who is supportive then that same supportive parent dies. God forgive me but i used to ask God that question when my mom died. My mom died 1 week after my daughter was born and 5 days after my father had insulted her asking when she will die as she was moaning in pain in her final days of battling cancer. Its a big wound, from as early as i can remember my father emotional abused my mom and us when he was under the influence of alcohol. I cant forgive.

Please don't apologize for crying mama...this is so heavy. Hugs

Good morning Mzansi ❤ in bed listening.

I've watched part one, and i couldn't stop crying, Owamie😢. Your father is exactly my father. Youths from my village keep graduating every year, and he pays for their studies while I'm in the street of Windhoek rooming around 😢😢😢. It's only God who knows what I've done to him to deserve this treatment

My take away from this is, It is very easy to judge if you have never walked a mile..I always judged you Owami for taking your dad to court but now I understand. Sorry sis virtual hug..

I am sorry Owamie you and your sisters had to go through all of this. I hope you have your father on your funeral policies/life policy , so when he passed on you will be able to claim and use that money for yourself and sisters …i know i sound heartless but fathers are horrible peoplr

Yoh to think that you were dealing with Big guys family shenanigans at the same time as your mothers funeral 💔 it was a lot sisi

My father used to be a truck driver n he used to say I drive trucks n sleep in bad conditions so my kids can go to school and to think your educated dad is doing that ! Yho that man is evil I hate him , hate us a big word but yho ! Owamie was your mom the only child ? Where are your auntie n uncles ? Can’t they have a meeting with the Netshivadzwaulu?

Joooo, this is so emotional 😢 😭

This man was looking for reasons to destroy your future and that of your sisters coz he didn't love your mom. The way he handled everything just tells it all. For him to say youll see what to do with your mom's corpse was ruthless. Its so sad

Owami you have been through hell and back chooooooo

Sorry sis but that man is heartless and sounds like a ritualist!!!! How dare he 😡😡😡😡

Parents can be toxic too I’m sorry my ninja ❤️

Yo Ninja, your father reminds me of my "unsibling". "Unsibling" because I refuse to associate myself with such an individual. No regards for his own kids but when he started pulling those stunts with my kids, who he DID NOT have to be in their lives. I unsiblinged his ass so fast. When I was born there were 3 of us, now I only claim my other brother. Peace is what I chose. Sorry mama.

The day God deals with your dad, we will even be praying for God to have mercy on him because it will be a lot and we have humanness to feel for others. When God vengeances, he vengeances. You are Gods child aus Owamie. The day is coming.

Iyho,now I understand how you feel about your father 💔

Ninja checking in🤗🤗

I always say this some great man are not great in their homes l don't know if someone see this sometimes but they are great out there as she is saying that her father was taking onother kid some where

Ninja signing in

😟sounds like your dad never truly loved your mother and he just tolerated you because she was alive… immediately she passed, his true colors were revealed 🚩

I am imagining every u went through and its painful

I guess the name Owami is more deeper than you explained.... My daughter's name is also Owami and I named her while I was pregnant and I was sooo hurt deep to the core. And Owami lomtwana God gave me for a reason.... I never just call her by that name randomly.... It's only when we're going through a lot...

My heart broke into a million pieces 💔

This is so heartbreaking 🥺. What an evil man💔😢

Was your mom and dad in an arranged marriage that he clearly detested. May God intervene

I wanna see this man sana 😭😭😭😭how is he so heartless yoh 😪

Wickedness in another level. I am so sorry queen Ninja 😔

Your father pisses me me off so much , he is rich and still stole from kids that just lost their mother . My thoughts has always been but Owamie is talking about maintaining blah blah where is the mothers pension/ benefits money especially because she was a nurse . N this Video answered me so well. If he gave you guys your mothers money n you spent it on your development n school it would be a different story now if he isn’t involved . Owamie am so sorry. Ke utlwile bohloko . Thank you for being there for your sisters . O mbokodo. You held it down n still do

I know you have shared some things about your dad but I keep on saying yoh when u are telling us this😢

That old man ke Moloi and continue with exposing him so people can know him for who he is "MOLOI" And I'm sorry cc.

Haii; I feel like you fighting this man is actually causing more harm than good. If it was me, I would honestly seek forgiveness from God. Because I won’t even make it to his funeral.. focus on your siblings and Ray. Go to Venda only to see your mom then drive back. Give him everything and start from zero. His greediness is unmatched. His even wasting your money from all these ran around. When has the justice system ever worked ? He will pay for his sins in the afterlife.

🫂❤am so sorry Owamie, this is so sad 😭...

I’m sorry but wtf? What kind of people are these??

Askies Owami. You deserved better.

the man is cruel,,it makes me so mad,the way i can be cruel and not use my mind properly whenever i feel abused,i would be arrested doing something bad to him, struu🤞🏼

This is painful😔❤