I needed this so much. As a young 21 year old woman,I put myself through way too much pressure seeing peers far further than I am in life on social media. Thank you for these conversations, I've learned to be grateful for what I have because I'm not willing to sacrifice anything for a bag.

The hunger is on a different level… As a junior attorney hungry for success and growth. The sadness of senior advocates at times wanting to take advantage of that, it’s even scary to ask for help these days

No wait, who's the girl with the short hair and red lippie? Mama you're so pretty🥺🥺❤️

Thank you so much for this conversation. The moment you can't figure out what these people do to get to where they are, its the moment depression kicks in,the self doubt...and by the way you don't learn anything from pictures of nice breakfast, the vacations except being envious. From now on I am going to be more intentional with my social media.

Umjolo has openly become a trading system, yes mostly a transactional somewhat supply and demand basis-game. When as a man, lust is a main attraction to a women, she has all the rights to also get what would be a suitable remuneration for her which is in truly speaking, money and the spoils that comes with it.

This lady is so deep in every conversation.

I love this conversation because it gives a deeper insight into this issue. I think you should expand it to the impact it has on children born from these types of relationships.

Oh Jackie,you're such an intelligent woman.I never get tired to listen to your interviews.I wish I could afford young girls an opportunity to listen and learn from you.Ill never forget your book launch in Portshepstone

The line isn’t blurry though, it’s purely transactional. What gives rise to these conversations is buyers/sellers remorse. At what point does “help” become “control”? Everybody should take accountability for the relationships and transactions they enter into, don’t change the narrative or claim manipulation after the fact. And most importantly, think for yourself don’t be a follower.

I really miss shows like home affairs..

Jackie you have answered the questions I've had ukuthi why why is our society super dysfunctional the way it is...lack of rehabilitation 😢😢

You put light on so much.... Thank you...

you uploaded this 3 days after my birthday. I found your channel tonight and im in love with the depth of topics, nuanced intellect in conversation, and most importantly the grace and poise you carry with your voice, gaze and body language. in the most non-weird way, I could stare at you for hours cuz the way you speak is intensely attractive and not to mention you're pleasant to look at... I think im in love with you 🤣

This was a great conversation, thank you 💟

just got introduced to Jackie. love these conversations especially as a new uni student

Loving the channel.Brain stimulating.😍

Great show Ursula... So proud of you my honey.

Keep up the good work Jackie your truely an inspiration 👏

We really need rehabilitation as men.

Wow Jacky I'm learning so much.

Been a minute missed these conversations

You are so beautiful hle ausi☺️❤️

Very interesting conversation, educational, inspiring, insightful and informative video. 👌👌

Sho, this speaks to a lot of our societies dysfunction, esp the last part of the convo. 80's kids us, were raised by very sick very strict parents who taught us taught us to keep our heads down and work in our little corner, we inherited and developed other illnesses - lack of confidence etc- that we are now raising our 2000 kids with. It all comes to a head because ma 2000 live in a very fast paced info age that the 70's & 80's parent is constantly catching up on. Mind you all the while each generation gets better at hiding these ills and things that matter and even better yet at being rebellious and loudly outlandish. It's a mutating cancer. However; by being self aware, teaching emotional restraint, meditation, therapy and such we can allow for vulnerability and conversation about the traumas we carry and slowly begin to heal our little corners to impact the greater canvas. We see it in social media where the admission of one's fears etc heaves a massive global sigh that 'hey me too' and open conversations begin on any topic.

you are such a great host. Definitely subscribing to your chanel

We are sad as human beings...we as a COUNTRY are 💔

Crazy obsession with money

Jackie is very intelligent, straight to the point, powerful lady and that's what makes her very seriously sexy too. Controversial isn't her, I thought she was. She's just a beautiful human being.

As a homosexual young female🥺, I relate.. Because the pressure of being the funder of the relationship is weighing me down and makes me feel like I am not trying enough. I'm just 21 and I am student funded by NSFAS for heaven's sake. Sometimes makes me feel like love is an expense😢

I am hear for Jackie ♥️

Yoh Jackie 🌺

Haybo why I am only discovering your channel now? 🥺🥺🥺

I finally found your channel 😍😍😍😭❤️🙌

The is also a " Ghost lady " speaking as well 😂😂.... Anyway great talk👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

The saddest thing that I see from this whole culture is that these people who are doing these things are women who are suppose to be goddesses that raise a nation of children kodwa just look at what is important to these women? Imagine how thier kids will be? Imagine the principles that they are learning and picking up from this culture? We are creating such a sick society just because of materialism its really disgusting. There are so many more important things in life kodwa ke everyone makes their bed they will sleep in it. As a woman who is a blesses you should expect that your daughter will one day date someone who is 20yrs their senior and there will be nothing you can do because you feed her the posion.

Having a blesser is selling your soul to the devil ,giving in then expecting in return ( especially material things )😢

I love this channel.

I hate !!!! that fact that we need to listen and learn these things. I hate it because these things are so basic, just basic morals, and people are talking about a greyline. Anyway let listen because we are parents and we must understand why people do such madness.

This Jackie lady is quite in intelligent

You're very pretty. Im cutting. My hair tonight. Jack she is the best in Africa. I like her.

Dope🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Siess!

How does one connect to Jackie's publishing company?

In the UK, a sugar daddy is what she describes a blesser to be

There's something I am struggling to understand on the point of our men suffer from the things that happened in the past. What about the men from Dubai what's the story there? Are also suffering history to treat women this way. I think humanity all over the world is somehow the same. Who is responsible to rehabilitate?

Eish bafwethu...the era of modern family, where now certain lifestyles are imposed on the kids at home by the parents or relatives...oh and social media

What’s wrong with ricoffy and jacobs 😂😂😂

I blame capitalism

I wish I can get a bleser. But I'm a celebern

Her idea/definition of sugar daddy is wrong. It's well documented. Maybe in a South African context you can argue for it but even then its a stretch

That lady commenting behind the scenes needs to know not to speak louder than the guest.

As a Zambian lemme just state that the dating culture in South Africa is extremely inflated and outragously materialistic. Out here as a 29 year old guy I can manage to easily get into a relationship and hardly spend anything on my partner other than the occasional dates and birthday reasonable gift.

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It creates delusion, sad generation 😢😢😢

You look like zandi nhlapho

Can the lady who is the host not talk too much we need to hear her guest telling the story

Sick generation 😢

I like girls today are just scary