One thing that happened to me when a man complimented me. I was doing a needlepoint project at work on my break and the owner of the company happened to come in and said, "I have to say that is something I just don't see anymore - a woman sewing." He just beamed me a big smile and I felt wonderful and proud to be a woman.

Well Nikki, I broke my toe and am covered in ozzing poison ivy, and I just wasn't feeling it. But as I listened to you today, and looked out the window and saw my beautiful peonies. Yes, now I am inspired to go out and bring the beauty indoors! Thanks!

I love your way of seeing life and embracing femininity. Staying orderly is also a way of maintaining mental order. Thank you for the words that always truly inspire. Blessings and much love Nikki ❤🌹🥰

Thank you for inspiring me to embrace the woman that I am. I wore a dress to today for the first time in a long time. I will.say it felt good.

I have found it to be true when you take care of yourself it starts spilling out into taking good care of your surroundings and setting the mood for your home. Same as the reverse. The environment becomes the lady.

You are such an inspiration💗 I’m 26 years old and married. I have been on my journey to be more feminine the last 2 years. While I was pregnant I felt God tell me to get rid of my jeans and mostly wear dresses and skirts. I got rid of my 20+ jeans. I now only own 2 jeans and some linen pants. I don’t even miss jeans!! But it is true, when wearing dresses people just treat you differently and I feel differently as well! Since becoming a SAHM and now 10 month PP I am really trying to get dressed everyday even if I don’t go anywhere. It makes all the difference!

When I wear a dress people say oh you look nice where r u going? I say just showing up for life😊

Thanks for sharing all the inspirations from all the ladies! I have to say that when I am wearing a dress I get the most compliments from my husband, so they do notice and most of them love it!

I've been loving your videos of late. They are such a wonderful encouragement to dress and act as a lady in a day when it is not popular. Men can easily recognize the difference between a woman and a lady. My husband certainly does and appreciates when a woman acts (and dresses) as one. He treats all women with respect, but he occasionally comments about how much more attractive skirts and dresses are on women compared to slacks/jeans and leggings. I don't think most women today value the kind of treatment and respect that men are ready to give to us when we truly act as ladies.

Thank you Nikki. Your inspiring videos and way of “being” have made me fall in love with my home, and my daily routines again. I take a lot of joy in beautifying my spaces….and am loving my personal journey of becoming the person I always wanted to be. Much love x

Your videos are the best!!! Thank you!!!

I just found something easy and inexpensive to do. Have a on your tea cup saucer. That way you don't have to hear the clink all the time, it will catch the drips, and it looks so cute like a high end restaurant. You can use one on the saucer and one to place your spoon on. Or just use one for a treat or snack. Also, I would kind of like to try cloth lace placemates for a change.

Such a beautiful teaching ❤

Hi Nikki you are definitely a lady, and the wonderful way you speak is definitely calming. I agree with everything you said, and l am going to change my drawers to make me feel more romantic. We should embrace being a lady. Loved your video l always do thanks Nikki ❤❤

God Bless you and your family Miss Nikki. Your channel is such a blessing to me. Your love of our Lord. Our gratitude and the blessing of being a woman. The joy to aspire to live and provide a beautiful nurturing environment for ourselves and our families. It can be a humble room, or a large home. That does not matter. Prayer and gratitude to God, and being good stewards of all of His gifts.

I have a lovely lace evening dress. I bought it for our Silver Wedding Anniversary, so it is very special to me. I occassionally wear it at home in the evening, as we have dinner - just because. I have nowhere else to wear it. Watching Downton Abbey inspired me as the ladies always changed into evening dresses for dinner and I always thought it was such a fun idea and evening dresses look nice in candle light. The dress has a zip in the back, so I have to ask my husband to zip it up for me. This simple act, as I hold my hair out of the way, always feels so feminine and glamorous - just like in the movies and my husband's eyes always light up. I guess he enjoys it too :) And then at the end of the evening, I have to ask him to unzip it, which he enjoys again too............ Hmmm.......I think I might treat myself to a couple more evening dresses. Not sure what my neighbours will think. I live in an apartment and the other night set my dinner table nicely, and lit my 5 candle candelabra. As I sat down at the table, I noticed a young man out on the balcony opposite and saw him looking in at my candles. He probably thought what the heck? Is this a period drama? My lifestyle is usually pretty casual, but occassionally I do like to dress up and have a glamorous evening at home, just for fun. Nikki, do you have any evening dresses and change for dinner? If not, try it and suprise your husband and children. You never know they may join in too. I forgot to add, does anyone watch "The Chateau Diairies" about an English Lady who bought a chateau? My Aunt and two cousins are fans and we all went to stay for one night at the chateau last summer. Before dinner I washed and styled my hair and my cousins too and we all wore nice evening dresses to dinner. All the other guests dressed up too. We had pre-dinner drins on the terrace and sat down to dinner at a beautifully laid table. We all felt very glamorous and it was a very special evening.

So true and beautifully said, Nikki. And when it comes to feminine decor: if a man loves to see a beautiful lady in bloom, why would he not appreciate the feminine beauty in his surroundings as well? As your husband so well said, in your home he sees you 😊 Thank you once again for the gentle encouragement, Nikki❤

Loved this lovely video, Nikki! I was taught at a very young age to wear dresses and be a lady. 🎀 I'm so thankful for that! I love feeling lovely. Thank you for inspiring me today, Nikki, and have a blessed evening and week ahead. Love, Lynnae 💐🩷

Thank you for the inspiring teaching. Blessings!

I have always had a vanity. I just moved in a new home with a huge master bathroom (double sink), and it is just me. So, I arranged my countertop and drawers like my vanity and ordered a really pretty counter stool. This is my first time in a long time getting ready in the bathroom. But right now, so far so good. If I ever miss my table, I will get another one. Great video as always. :)

Thanks Nikki....such a lovely video...❤

Another great video!! Thank you Nikki..

That's a great work you are doing with all these couching and free for that. I mean you are a great lady. Thank you.🎉

Hi Nikki, This was another inspiring video! Because of these recent videos I've decided to keep my Ethan Allen pained armoire which is similar to yours. I realize after seeing how you use yours how I can really find mine useful. I still like wearing flowy slacks but I am definitely trying to wear and purchase feminine blouses. I am looking for a couple of dresses though so I'll let you know.

Awwww…Just came across your channel ❤You are now my role model 🥰

I've tried to think of myself as a jewel and my home as the setting. I don't exactly love myself that much yet, but I'm working on it. Much further than I used to be. I like to imagine myself reclining on my velvet sofa in a beautiful gown or nightgown and my husband looking at me. I'm lucky that my husband likes to look. He does appreciate my dressing up and a nice home.

Nikki, your videos are so inspiring. I don't wear dresses exclusively, but have always loved them, and you have inspired me to wear them much more often. Your home and decorating style is sublime. You had mentioned your peach paint color in one of your videos, but I cannot find it. Can you please tell me? Thank you for all you do. You are touching more lives than you know. ❤

What a lovely video, I appreciate the comments with the video. Thank you for sharing.

So true my husband does appreciate that I dress like a lady.

Nikki, could you make a video or two about wardrobe during the maternity phase? I’m currently 5 months pregnant with my second, my first is 20 months old. I started purchasing more dresses between these pregnancies and was feeling very confident but now I’m kind of at a loss. I have some maternity dresses but when I’m pregnant I tend to just feel fat. I want that confident feeling back but I don’t want to spend much since this phase of my life won’t last very long (we’ll probably have one or two more). Any advice?

Beautiful video. Thank you.

Bravo I agree with everything you said in this video

What about being a lady in the gym or working out? I would love your take on that please :)

I am hardly believe this !! I’ve always worn dresses. People question me , “ Don’t you EVER Wear pants ??? I travelled lately and the stewardess thanked me for dressing up for the flight !, one of the stewards complimented me on my hair done up !!

I really enjoy having my lingerie chest and my vanity, it’s a must have for any lady 💖

The funny thing is.... When i was 14 to 18, I was choosing the feminine niceties that spoke to me. I had the vintage nightgowns and the candles in my bedroom, the beautiful comforter on my bed and i was choosing dress fabrics that i actually liked and looked good on me. I dont know what changed. 😂 I dont care for attention from men. My husbands attentions are satisfactory enough. 😂 i have had random commenta about looking like a lady and that they appreciate it that. One fella thanked my husband for getting the car door for me. I think men need to hear that from other men these days. I feel that we mothers and ladies of the house need to be teaching our sons how to be worthy gentlemen, men of God, and or daughters how to be ladies of the house and worthy daughters of the King. We have lost a lot when we transitioned feom women at the helm of the home to women in the work place.... And while I know not all women can be or want to be in the home, it IS important that at least SOME of us are carrying on the tradition and shaping the future for further endurance of the beauty of homemaking. I used to say " im just a homemaker "but my husband would say " just nothing! You ARE what keeps us alive and thriving! If it werent for you, we wouldn't be! " and he is right, if therea no one doing those mundane, thankless necessities, it would slowly crumble to nothing. So why NOT us? And why shouldnt it start with us embracing our delicious feminism in decadent nightwear, and then clothing ourselves in beauty and grace while we keep the home fires burning and create a space of rest and retreat for our precious family?.

Question: If I sign up for Niki's patreon, does it include access to past patreon videos in addition to the current week's videos?

Dear Nikki, sorry if you have already said, but where do you find your dresses? Love from France... where we have the same ugly problems.

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