The Science Behind Cheating, Human Mating Behavior, The Red-Pill Advice is GARBAGE (MUST WATCH)

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Күн бұрын

We've asked a real scientist the science behind cheating and his response WILL SHOCK YOU!
Macken Murphy joins us this epic 2-hour podcast, Macken is a scientist at the University of Melbourne where he studies human mating behavior. In this video we are discussing a variety of issues:
What makes humans "attractive", how do we pursue the opposite sex, why are women obsessed with the height of a man, the reason why women are more selective and why it is so important for them to do so.
Macken claims that there is scientific evidence that cheating can be passed down from your parents, meaning that it could be hereditary.
We also had a chance to dive into the growing toxic red-pill movement on social media. Why a lot of these men have such issues with women and why it is detrimental to young men.
Macken dismissed the nonsensical conversation of 'body count' and why both genders can actually be at a disadvantage if they sleep with more people.
A lot of red-pill guys will somehow claim that men and women are not the same when it comes to having slept with more people, which is scientifically not true!
This episode was epic!
To learn more about Macken Murphy click the link below:
www.mackenmurphy.org/
#cheating #science #viral #dating #relationship
00:00-:00-30 : Introduction
12:00-21:00 : Height
26:24 - 27:37 : Insecurity
30:00 - 36:14 : What People Find Attractive
39:00 - 48:12 : Male Standards vs Women
48:13-51:11: Why women need to be picky
53:05 -55:48: Older Women get more upset over heartbreak
58:22-59:53 Red Pill Advice is Garbage
1:00:45 - 1:06:36 Don't Date Younger Women
1:28:00- 1:40:00 High Body Count
1:39:10- 1:57:00 Andrew Tate and Red Pill

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@v9b23j 3 ай бұрын

What Macken is saying is that both women AND men have a short window of mating opportunity because as they age, the opposite sex finds them less physically attractive. This makes evolutionary sense, as the reproductive advantage of both sexes diminishes as they age.

@feelsrestricted8322 10 ай бұрын

This dude is spot on. I have dabbled into researching this topic from a scientific perspective(so actually looking at published research or stats online) for the past year and he’s nailing it. These redpill dudes will paint false pictures based on half truths which makes men focus on the wrong aspects of dating, and make them resentful and distrusting of most women.

@user-lt1jd1ye3v 2 ай бұрын

Don’t forget for literally no reason too, just for fictionalized reasons

@HappyJiyoung 4 ай бұрын

This interview is GREAT!!! Loved it!! Thank you!!!!!

@livsterk7943 5 күн бұрын

Women generally like tall men, but we also LOVE a short king (he’s short, funny, kind, ally to women). Women generally like muscular men, but we also LOVE a dad bod as long as he treats us with respect. Women have a million things we are vocally and secretly insecure about, we stick needles in our face once a month spend thousands on skin care and hair products etc etc, just to look our best… the stakes are so high,,, all we are asking for is empathy from gentleman allies. Xoxo

@sesimiryam7301 Жыл бұрын

5 minutes in and im already loving it

@murphymacken 10 ай бұрын

Glad!:)

@HappyJiyoung 4 ай бұрын

@@murphymackenYou are so young yet so goooooood and wise!! Loved this interview a lot compared to other big youtube channels you went on! Thank you!!!!

@Claudia-rq5lj Жыл бұрын

AMAZING EPISODE

@ReservedInvestments 2 ай бұрын

Incredible interview!

@gpeschke 4 ай бұрын

About the difference in what can be said... It's actually pretty simple- Gals determine what is appropriate/desirable (for both men and women to want), and Men are expected to follow it. So Men's wants are surfaced by reflection- a woman catering to a male base, or a gal with such a trait putting it forward as attractive. It can then get ratified by the group- the first defector problem. There's a mirror to this- the 'where do we eat' problem. In that everyone is more comfortable if a guy proposes it, then the group ratifies it. Same diff, only reversed.

@sherriflemming3218 3 ай бұрын

Women generally have higher mating standards than men. Discerning. Qualities of a good partner. Kindness Communication Consistency Commitment Character Safety

@gpeschke 3 ай бұрын

@@sherriflemming3218 By mate, do you mean 'ally' or do you mean one night stand? If you look at the lit (on why pair bonds form within tribes- look to gibbons), you need an ally to help keep other women off your back- in order to feel safe having kids. So yeah, you totally need to find someone that other gals think highly of. That need seems to supersede what ya'll find hot. Qualities of a good partner lists are self fulfilling prophecies. Ultimately you need other women to approve of your use of your body. What qualities those are varies by situation. You just need enough status between the two of you to justify family. Men don't need to think about that. I'm not sure one is more discerning than another. Just different. The one night stand criteria is about the same regardless of gender. It's just harder for a girl to give in to what they want.

@flowerh691 9 ай бұрын

How is this guy saying men shouldn’t be as vocal as women when is comes to their preferences

@TrillBill 6 ай бұрын

Yeah, he lost me there.

@brudamo9203 4 ай бұрын

I think perhaps it's not worth the grief.???

@brianmeen2158 Ай бұрын

@@brudamo9203. Well then men need to hold the line and counter the grief. If women cannot handle men talking about their preferences then they need to work on themselves ..

@dennisfabian2570 6 ай бұрын

The RedPill guys don’t say you shouldn’t DATE in your 20.. just to not necessarily settle down (with the first best option) in that time

@user-lt1jd1ye3v 2 ай бұрын

Horrific advice. And then you get to watch your first love leave you and marry someone else because you were too much of a wimp to seal the deal and keep her.

@yveje9720 Ай бұрын

Do they day say that? Honestly most RP followers are struggling to date women in their 20s that’s literally what leads them to the RP so advice about “not settling down too young” seems misplaced. Men aren’t getting matches online, are getting rejected are scared to approach women IRL and looking for dating advice online but the RP is telling them ….not to get married young???😂 imagine being this off base

@laumymazor8375 7 ай бұрын

Can someone explain why us now having less sexual dimorphism than our ancestors indicates that selection favoured monogamy? 1:22:32

@dalmagal5585 6 ай бұрын

OMG because those with sexual dimorphism didn’t get chosen as reproductive mates

@BaldyMcNosehair 4 ай бұрын

It's only an argument by correlation. We see in other animals that pair bonding and sexual dimorphism are anticorrelated.

@DuplicitousDark 17 күн бұрын

Tom C only face the camera with his good side.

@TrillBill 6 ай бұрын

45:25 Is he serious? 😂

@offBeatRock777 7 ай бұрын

“Hookup at the company holiday party” lol, this guy is trying to get you fired

@HappyJiyoung 4 ай бұрын

I can see that could heppen although it’s against company policy. 😅

@48vfl 8 ай бұрын

If you say you looks are more important personality then you're viewed shallow even though it's true. He explains mating in a nutshell with that one sentence.

@sherriflemming3218 3 ай бұрын

Romance chemistry and attraction does not create relationship success

@wildbillkerr8041 6 ай бұрын

Who are these "red pill guys"? Name names.

@williamclayton9566 6 ай бұрын

Rollo Tomassi, Michael Sartain, Fresh 'n' Fit, Donovan Sharpe, Rian Stone, Rich Cooper, for a start.

@sherriflemming3218 3 ай бұрын

Corey Wayne

@SamsonSonofKiriago 3 ай бұрын

Those Red pill guys 🤔🤔

@dennisfabian2570 6 ай бұрын

How can he say that the Red-Pill guys are wrong with saying that a high bodycount leads to an inability to pair-bond.. if he himself 3 minutes before that said, that people (also men it seems) with a higher bodycount are more likely to cheat, divorce etc..???

@williamclayton9566 6 ай бұрын

Men, less so, and women, especially so. So says the GSS.

@williamclayton9566 5 ай бұрын

It's called "moving the goal posts". They're changing the definition of 'pair bond'. In one definition they're emphasizing the verb nature of 'bond', in the other they're treating it as a noun. I.e., in the first example they claim that a woman forming lots of new relationships with new men shows that she's pair bonding by forming a new pair bond with each of these new men, which, of course is utter hogwash. The other definition, which makes more sense, is that when there is an 'extra pair coupling' (EPC), i.e., cheating, the pair bond is broken. To avoid this kind of semantic contortion, you should use the phrase "maintain/preserve the pair bond [against interlopers]."

@sherriflemming3218 3 ай бұрын

Men cheat more than women. Women are generally more discerning. Higher mating standards.

@motivationinspiration5794 10 ай бұрын

Good video but Idk about it being tough to be a woman in the dating scene. You know when it comes to dating it’s easier for a woman to find a mate than a man. You said it yourself woman in there 30s are doing fine what about the men. Plus men don’t care so much about age look at the tinder videos where there are grannies getting date.

@caps900 8 ай бұрын

Getting a date is different from getting into a relationship. Men will f anything so it's not a badge of honor for a woman to get matches on a dating app.

@anthill1510 7 ай бұрын

"It`s easier for women to find a mate than for men". This statement doesn`t make any sense. There is ONE woman starting a relationship with ONE man. The exact same moment a woman starts dating a man, one man who supposedly has it harder found a relationship with this woman. What you are maybe referring to is that it`s easier for an average woman to find a man who just wants to fuck her than for an average man to find an affair with an attractive woman, yes. But that`s affairs and one-night-stands, not "finding a mate".

@dennisfabian2570 6 ай бұрын

And they have a smaller timeframe to get it all sorted

@rainbows5232 4 ай бұрын

having more options doesnt mean you have good options. if there was a guy who i thought was a good option for me, then i have no reason to refuse. but most who have approached me, i was just didnt see any reason to consider them. youre thinking about this too much like a men, because probably if you had the options i had, youll jump on them. i dont want 100 options, i just want one good option and settle down and thats it

@jedahn 4 ай бұрын

@@rainbows5232 Nobody approaches men. So you have to find an option anf most women are not really up to even their own standards.

@lcsquad. Жыл бұрын

Blue Pill Podcast

@ValentineDonato 10 ай бұрын

Genuine desire of women to men is fleeting specially when her hypergamy is not fully satisfied, Hypergamy is also the ultimate reason why 50% of women will be single and childless by 2030

@hazeljust7001 5 ай бұрын

Maybe in your fantasy land

@Pheyora 4 ай бұрын

@@hazeljust7001 I mean I suspect it'll be by choice. More and More are choosing child free and single. Men will be so mad. 🤣

@levismirnoff5450 4 ай бұрын

@@PheyoraWhy would I as a man be mad that you select yourself out? I am not even he same race. This makes no sense.

@Pheyora 4 ай бұрын

@@levismirnoff5450 women are choosing being single, and men aren't at the same rate. The number of men seeking women will be higher than those who aren't seeking anyone. If it doesn't pertain to you, then congrats. You've joined the team that has sat out being in relationships. That team will be bigger than the one who still is pursuing them. Can't break it down any further than that...

@levismirnoff5450 4 ай бұрын

@@Pheyora I understand that, the point I am conveying is that this "how will group xyz seethe about by abnormal decision" is not the own you think it is. It is self-destructive.

@gpeschke 4 ай бұрын

It's not that a gal has the burden of being pregnant. It's that her choice to reproduce will be judged by every other girl. The pregnancy fills limited slots within the tribe, that could have been filled with one of her friends' kids. And they will judge her for it.

@heroldjaras9909 10 ай бұрын

1:00:22 he agrees with alpha f beta bucks. actually many studies agree with that

@andrerenaud8785 3 ай бұрын

Except Gay Men are not matting

@user-lt1jd1ye3v 2 ай бұрын

Gay men and gay women

@drbazian3194 Жыл бұрын

Ohh boy... where to start with this one. First - toting "a real scientist" might work for those who are unfamiliar with how modern "science" works, especially in psychology, but the reality is this guy is simply pushing "his persepective". As a young, intelligent, tatooed guy in shape, I'm not surprised he has the beliefs he does. In short, he's wrong on several points and is mis-construing things. For example, that it's "easier" to date in you twenties. Using "old" data, from say, my generation (born in 77) will give you very false information. He makes many assumptions that are clearly debunked and not supported in real life. For example, that what women put on a study or answer is often much much different than what they actually DO. Women respond to a masculine man. His statement that women want a man that is physically attractive and closer to their age is true. You ask them on a survey, they will tell you this. YET, in reality, when they talk to this good looking guy their age they ARE NOT INTERESTED in him, once he opens his mouth. Why? He's lacks the other crucial qualities that many "red-pillers" talk about: being a leader (takes time to learn), building a empire (takes time and experience), etc. This guy simply takes a response from a study and fails to look any deeper. He's got quite a bit to learn and is suffering from his on confirmation bias. This is really another false attempt to discredit the Red Pill. Not that it matters much though... he'll learn the truth from life itself. Futher, he does confirm that this is the case "in the west"... hmm... I wonder why he just ignores other parts of the world or data that conflicts with the points he wishes to make: Why does he do this? Confirmation bias. The guy has lots of work to do to improve his "scientific" conclusions. Get back to work dude... you can do better.

@letslearntricking Жыл бұрын

You sound like a fish that doesn’t know it’s in water. The masculinity guru/redpill worldview isn’t a universal either

@leilangarcia2944 Жыл бұрын

Dude wtf he is on the money saying it’s hard for guy to date when they open their mouths it’s not hard to not being werido psychologist talk about this and modern youth not reaching regular milestones like in your early 20 be more social to build social awareness but now we have more young men stay in side not making friends IRL but it not hard girls are just as horny as men and 10x more shy they want you talk to them stop being weird don’t Blame women or gov it on you or say look deep he could have touched on it but not out of touch

@nanomia Жыл бұрын

As a womann, you're wrong you need to re-evaluate your "beliefs" this guy get it so learn something or two from him.

@leilangarcia2944 Жыл бұрын

@@nanomia most red pill followers don’t take the info with grain of salt, and believe everything goofies say online while most never leave the house, or to reject for being weird bumbling idiots that dress weird and smell funny

@makeyouslump Жыл бұрын

so ur rebuttal to his empirical evidence and research is, “well i haven’t seen it?” ☠️😭