Excellent video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
@michaelfischer-xp4cw2 ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my marriage of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@bartholetbay4122 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@michaelfischer-xp4cw2 ай бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@bartholetbay4122 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
The point is that ☝🏼WOMEN and food are my two “favorite” things in the whole wide world. It isn’t Guns or knives, or Martial Arts. Believe It actually happens to be ☝🏼GIRLS .
@stayhappylittlemermaid2 ай бұрын
Some people think discipline holds them back. Successful people know discipline is what sets them free.
@ApolloniaPonti2 ай бұрын
Yes.
@ragegamer16422 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@EHH612 ай бұрын
So true...
@anarky42032 ай бұрын
Hi Apollonia, Adam here. Giving you an update. I'm still here, still watching your content. Still clean. 3 months now. I've still been dating, though I've been working a lot on myself lately. Focusing on staying sober, healing and focusing on my business. I can say say one thing, working on myself definitely works. So I go to church every Sunday. Its part of my support system. Ive noticed all the single women in the crowd are slowly every week sitting closer and closer to me. ALL of them! I'm doing good though. I'll make sure to reach back out in 3 months.
@eugenebruno14812 ай бұрын
Honestly, i truly believe that alot of relationship issues are rooted in our own personal lives especially at a very young age and experiences from our upbringing.
@ragegamer16422 ай бұрын
You hit the nail on the hammer with this one!! 👍
@ApolloniaPonti2 ай бұрын
Comment below let's chat! or let's BOOK A FREE DATING EVALUATION CALL HERE: form.typeform.com/to/KRWc9SBb
@squand3r2 ай бұрын
Timing is everything, gentlemen - Find a moment where she is completely in her feminine and feeling safe in your presence - the moment must be calm and peaceful such as cozy pillow talk after sex, laying in the sand after playing volleyball, watching the sunset with a glass wine etc. When you bring the exclusivity topic up, be completely nonchalant - as if it is the most natural thing that you two belong together. If its a no then dont freak out - smile gently, give her a forehead kiss and tell her that you appreciate her honesty. Your words will stick in her head and if she is the one she will bring the topic up herself when she is ready.
@quackquak54712 ай бұрын
My secret about women: I learned a loooong time aGo that I don't need a woman.. I want a woman in my life: There's a difference.. If God created something better than a woman: He musta kept it to himself.. Thanks, Luv for good advice.. ✨
@ApolloniaPonti2 ай бұрын
LOL, love it.
@jacyjohnson86362 ай бұрын
If you're dating you're exclusive
@mjsteward55082 ай бұрын
You're the best Apollonia. Thank you so much for helping men find better women in life. The best thing to do is let your intentions known to be clear because if you don't do that then you would get hurt at the end of the day. I learned from my mistake to make better decisions with women.
@globalhits68412 ай бұрын
Lovely 😢 this was the biggest challenge in my dating life now I feel like I'm in control of this part of my life
@claibornemiller7954Ай бұрын
Thank you for this 🙏🏾
@TomFox12 ай бұрын
Thanks amiga
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
It’s 2024 and in a person with that much of a ☝🏼narcissistic personality disorder, it could potentially send the message that “But I look so great when I do this in the ☝🏼Mirror,” and then when reality hits and he’s no longer fighting with his own reflection anymore,” he could potentially ☝🏼“confuse” it with an actual ☝🏼FIGHT or Altercation with Spectators all over the place and a choreographed fight scene in a movie that he’s deluded enough to believe that ☝🏼HE’S “starring” in at that particular moment. That’s called a Narcissistic Dissociative Identity Disorder.
@briar359812 ай бұрын
Make sure she's into this type of direction with the relationship. If she's not agreeable to this transition. You just gave your power away. She controls all the intimacy. You control the relationship. Also expect that intimacy to drop in frequency with an exclusive relationship, living together, and marriage. She has acquired her goal of locking down a provider. She no longer has to do the work she did before.
@mecklonpereira75802 ай бұрын
Amazing advice, you provide vlue with your videos
@ApolloniaPonti2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@CheddaChief2 ай бұрын
I had a girl tell me another guy asked her to go Exclusive........in a voice mail.....i think she was dropping me a *STRONG HINT* after less than 6 mos! We were in a open dating situation!
@nobodysperfect062 ай бұрын
One social meet up group I attended lately, one of the guys there told me he sadly didn't get his very first girlfriend until he was 30, while he is happy about having a girlfriend now, he still gets kind of depressed and bitter and resentful over having been single that long. Feels he didn't grow up having a normal youth because of being single that long. Causes him to envy and feel resentment and feel bitter when he sees couples out there younger than him. He has the mindset that he feels if he had been born a woman at least an average plain-looking woman, then there is a guarantee he would not have been alone or single that long. Since women are always guaranteed attention or dating options because for all time women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention. A lot of guys hate and resent how nature and reality dictates that men have to make the first move all the time and be the initiators and do the pursuing but unfortunately there's no other way. Yet people think men still have the better end of the stick in the dating world than women do, especially when men are far more likely than women are to be single that long, be alone or single longer, or to have a lonely journey, yes men and women each have different difficulties or different issues to deal with but being alone or single later than normal is normally never an issue or never a problem for women. He says he feels angry and mad whenever people and Society say that he should feel grateful that he has a girlfriend now and that he has no right to feel angry and bitter that he was single and alone that long. Or why get angry and upset about what didn't happen in the past. Well he has a right to feel how he wants to feel. Probably because women are just a guaranteed options and attentions for just existing and breathing or having a pulse but it's not true if you're a guy or a human male. Men have to learn all of these skills or behaviors or know how to talk and behave a certain way or act a certain way to attract women( I got even more pissed off when a guy said that men also have to learn how to talk a certain way and behave a certain way or act a certain way in order to get a job or get certain social ranking in Society), that pissed me off a lot because that's a different issue and that's a different matter and plus the way you talk and behave and act in order to get a job or get social ranking in Society is different than what it takes to attract women, women however since they play a passive role, I just don't understand why or how women have to learn any skills in order to attract men, I just don't get it, that doesn't require any learning or I just don't see how it requires any learning. It's stupid and mind-boggling that women would have to learn any skills to attract men or how to meet men when they don't have to do any thing in the courtship phase the man is doing everything. So yeah I get very mad and annoyed that there is even dating advice for women on how to attract men But yeah I get very angry whenever people think men have it better than women do in dating. I feel like I can relate to him because I didn't really have a breakthrough or a long-term relationship until my early 30s, I'll forever be sad and depressed and bitter and resentful that I didn't have a long-term relationship in my 20s. Yet people still think men have it better than women do when in fact women have always been and always will be less at risk than men do at being chronically alone or single later than normal like I described. It won't surprise me if you are the type of guy or the type of person who has the mindset that it's better to be a man than it is to be a woman at the end of the day. Overall, I will forever be angry and bitter, resentful, that I didn't have a girlfriend until later than normal. I remember when one person told me that I should just be glad that I was able to get a girlfriend or have a girlfriend now and enjoy the fruits of my labor and that just made me more angry and pissed me off even more it sounds like that person has the mindset or mentality that a guy or a man should still be happy that even if he finally managed to get a girlfriend even in his 50s or 60s or as a senior citizen. Yeah I have the mindset that women are the only gender that are owed a relationship but men are not. It naturally feels like women are owed a relationship but men are not, because when you're on the receiving end of sexual attention it means that you always have options and choices or it just means that you are in abundance by default for simply just existing. Because that client you mentioned, in his early 30s and he's never had a girlfriend before, cases like him make me mad and angry, depressed, because it's a reminder that men are obviously more likely than women are to be alone and Single that long.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
They wanted to make it look like I got the Prefrontal Cortex of a “girl who can’t fight.”
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Somebody was saying “but he’s neurotic” so at least one of my own people obviously said something to the effect of ☝🏼🤣☝🏼”I LIKE THAT___.I’m gonna USE ☝🏼THAT!🤣 🐍
@Lolggesther2 ай бұрын
Gracias ✨🙌
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
They wanted to make it look like I got the “reaction time” of a person who is dangerously intoxicated, ☝🏼EVEN when I’m sober.
@askesqkuyea21842 ай бұрын
Is it just me or does Apollonia Ponti look different in this video?
@MotivationEra-hn7hz2 ай бұрын
I thought so too! But I think she looks more beautiful after giving birth and her teeth looks so good on her
@ApolloniaPonti2 ай бұрын
@@MotivationEra-hn7hz Aw thank you gentleman. Appreciate you :-)
@askesqkuyea21842 ай бұрын
That's it. She has given birth. I have been following her posts for a while now. So, it's obvious I can spot the difference. She is a reflection of her message: "Men, don't settle. You can do better. There are high-quality women out there."
@MotivationEra-hn7hz2 ай бұрын
@@askesqkuyea2184 of all coaches i love Apollonia . Her message resonates alot to men and she gives so much value. Shes the reason i watch KZfaq .
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
No. I’m not referring to anybody in Hollywood right now. There’s still obviously a difference between having a drug or an alcohol problem and having ☝🏼THAT. Either one doesn’t necessarily mean that a person can’t fight at all.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
“So what’s the difference between a ‘Stress Test’ and any other altercation or confrontation?” NONE except the way in which it is designated after the fact. How is it designated? I’m not going to get into those details right now but I will tell you that it is ☝🏼NOT based on who wins or loses. ☝🏼NOT based on who survives either because it isn’t always necessarily an “Attack” per se. Sometimes it can just be an Altercation that does not escalate to Violence.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Nooo…of course I wasn’t “Offended.” I didn’t recognize her and the way in which she approached me out of the blue like that indicated that, there could have been at least one other man waiting for me in the fucking parking lot.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
That’s why the Psychological Operations Crew along with all those extras doing the thing with the cell phones that I talked about were sent in. On a Primitive Level, I can’t tell the difference.
@Yosef_Maharat2 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@ApolloniaPonti2 ай бұрын
Thanks to you!
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Cause after all, “well if this person’s development is ☝🏼THAT arrested and he’s that☝🏼THAT “‘delusional’ (that I can’t even tell the difference between a woman being polite to me in front of other people and another asshole having the false sense of entitlement to walk right up into my personal space and try to convince me that I didn’t really show up with her in the first place and she’s really there with him, how could I possibly even be able to size up other people accurately enough to w..)” ☝🏼😃THEY obviously didn’t size ☝🏼ME up accurately enough to win.
@jakeainsworth19852 ай бұрын
Thought about my value statements and took a look at all my baggage. It's quite a bit of baggage. Made me look hard at where I am and where I am going and I found I am probably not ready for dating. Most likely not ever again. I'll still watch the channel for education purposes but I think I am probably done :(.
@andrewayeni2 ай бұрын
I’ve got a question Apollonia. I’ve been talking with this girl about a month now. She seems good and intelligent. But I noticed something recently in our conversations, she called me babe while discussing and immediately said sorry, I like her though but could that be a green or red flag?
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
“No no. That’s not true. We can come out with new technology. We can come out with new weap..”☝🏼🙄😃 You may need to apply a different type of 🤔 INNOVATIVE thinking to the Design and Construction of the equipment itself but other concepts that go back thousands and thousands of years will still remain the same until we start living on other planets.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
😃The answer is Yes.😊 I ☝🏼DO believe that’s what Mike’s Son☝🏼 thought it meant. He thought that☝🏼I was “delusional” enough to be referring to a “Stress Test” as a “Show of Respect” from a Martial Arts instructor. 🤣 Kids 🤣
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
It was all very elaborate. What can I tell people? 😂
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
It was so fucked up. I can’t even wrap my head around it. These complete strangers essentially popped up out of nowhere and said something to the effect of, 🤔”wait a minute. What is Gregory Dennis doing in ☝🏼that type of environment engaging in those types of activities? That’s not the Gregory Dennis that☝🏼I ‘know.’”🙄 😂
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
No if anything it’s because of slander, simple minds, and something called a “Confirmation Bias.”
@bengoldstein21382 ай бұрын
I recently asked a woman out on a date I got a maybe or we'll see I did get a little impatient and tried not to show it too much it didn't take me too long to back off. For months now I've noticed sgns of her liking me So my questions are am I too late and do I still have a chance
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
I’m pretty sure that somebody else from NY who is about 61 years old said pretty much the same exact thing to somebody else.
@serhiishamakhin94372 ай бұрын
После 20 лет совместной жизни в браке....быть для нее эксклюзивным....сложно. в итоге развод. И одиночество 😢
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Did she ☝🏼INTEND to make me feel that way? Now that I know who she was, I realize that she obviously didn’t but whether she intended to or not is completely irrelevant because at that particular moment, what I saw was a potential confrontation waiting for me outside with multiple people ☝🏼(NONE OF WHICH SHE HAPPENED TO HAVE WITH HER RIGHT IN ☝🏼FRONT OF ME AT THAT PARTICULAR ☝🏼MOMENT) that I had no rational basis to downplay or dismiss the plausible and realistic possibility at that particular moment based on the way that the way that she unexpectedly ☝🏼”approached” me.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
It’s ☝🏼IMPOSSIBLE for☝🏼ME to have that because and I’m talking out loud through my teeth right now. ☝🏼THOSE TYPES OF PSYCHIATRIC DISORDERS ☝🏼😃REQUIRE MEDICATION AND, THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL THAT I WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO HANDLE THE LAST ☝🏼3 YEARS OF MY LIFE ALONE WITHOUT PSYCHIATRIC MEDICATION IF ☝🏼😃I really ha☝🏼😃ANYTHING LIKE THAT. I obviously would have needed it in jail if I really did. By the Democratic Party propagating ☝🏼THAT kind of bullshit about ☝🏼ME what are they really in effect doing???
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
The first thing I took notice of was all the men that she had with her at the time? Does that mean that I was interested in☝🏼them? 🙄Does that mean that I wasn’t interested in her? 🙄No to both. It just means that it smacked of potential “ Set Up” at that particular moment because I didn’t know who she was or who told her to meet me there.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
No, I’m not knocking ☝🏼ANY one particular Coaches or Instructors in that particular profession. I was subtly and ☝🏼SPECIFICALLY alluding to the one from California.
@Shawnjja2 ай бұрын
❤
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
🙄👼🏻🙄👼🏻🙄 NeH, nEh, NeH-whining.👐🏼 🤔UuuUUh… 🔥🚬💨
@astardbanda57912 ай бұрын
🎉🎉
@Sneeke1232 ай бұрын
Chi❤
@TomFox12 ай бұрын
8:42 Most women want that… Just fun.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
“Mystery is Missing” + “Make Her Yours.” There’s a book called “The ☝🏼GAME” written by Neil Strauss and I’m pretty sure there’s something in there a about a ☝🏼BIPOLAR man meeting a Nurse or something in a ☝🏼PSYCHIATRIC ☝🏼FACILITY out in California . She was kinda talking to him a little bit like a child that she had to babysit. He was getting frustrated because he felt like she didn’t seem to see him the same way that he ☝🏼believed that he could make her see him in a Night Club or something and he said something to the effect of ☝🏼In so many words, “if I met you ☝🏼ANYWHERE☝🏼ELSE, I would MAKE YOU MINE.”🤣 ☕️
@lvildos2 ай бұрын
You are so complicated
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
They wanted to make it look like my own Right Brain Dominant Narcissistic Personality Disorder is enough all by itself to compromise my Tactical Thinking ability at a High School level ☝🏼Looong before I get “distracted” by the voices in my head from the paranoid schizophrenia.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
There is something called Psychological Depth Perception and “Hand Eye Coordination.” These assholes obviously wanted to make it look like I lack the neurological wiring to move and fight a certain way.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
She happened to approach me in a very kind of “controlling” and domineering type of way that she and ☝🏼ALL the other ☝🏼MEN who she happened to have with her at the time seemed to think it was adorable. The☝🏼ONLY reason why ☝🏼I didn’t is because at that particular moment, I had no idea who the fuck she was.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
No I wasn’t really referring to anybody who some people think that I may have been referring to because of my “choice of words.” The way in which some of these assholes defamatory-ally assess the character of certain individuals against somebody else’s on the basis of common male behavior is incomparably detestable. I haven’t confirmed it but I was ☝🏼TOLD that this particular person’s exact words when referring to ☝🏼ME and something unthinkable in a Conversation with somebody else who we both happen to know through that particular industry was, “My heart would break for him.”
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
I don’t know where people get their ridiculous fucking ideas from but approaching ☝🏼ME that way tells me very quickly on an instinctive level essentially tells me 🤔”wait a minute. For a woman who looks like that, sounds like that, and smells like that to be talking to me ☝🏼THIS way, she’s got to see me as one of two things. A minor or one of her girlfriends and if she sees me in ☝🏼either of those two ways then how the fuck could I consider ☝🏼THIS a genuine advance as opposed to a potential altercation outside?
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
🙄”Appeared to be.” I’ll keep it “REAL” with everybody. I was made aware of certain thing before he ever even arrived. It’s called “VEILED COVER” or “REVERSE COVER.”
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
He’s a History Buff. He’s read a lot of the same books I have and I’m pretty sure that it probably started with some type of a conversation about the Democratic Purty and how fucked up it is.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
Here’s another for everybody. WeRe the sequences in that particular movie choreographed or unchoreographed and does asking that particular rhetorical question make☝🏼ME Delusional or does it make somebody else Delusional for claiming that it does?
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Why did they want to do that? One reason, why is because that way they could attribute certain things to mental illness and some type of Arrested Development as opposed to me just having a few drinks.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
No I didn’t I see a potential confrontation with ☝🏼ANY of the males that she happened to have with her at that particular moment either. I was obviously far more concerned about what I ☝🏼couldn’t see at that particular moment.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
☝🏼CONSCIOUSLY, I obviously know the difference because if I didn’t I would be delusional and insane but that’s not how it works.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
🗯🤔💡☝🏼Is it just because it wasn’t true or were there any other reasons?🙄
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
🙄👼🏻🙄👼🏻🙄👼🏻 I just obviously had reason to believe that somebody said something to the effect of “looks like Drunken Monkey.” Here’s another one for you. Ya ready? Does that make me delusional and Narcissistic too or if anything does it imply the exact opposite? 🥁
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
I could be mistaken. I’m not a Doctor but I don’t think that there’s anything as a person who goes to Jail twice within a 6 month time period the way in which I described who really has anything like ☝🏼THAT and doesn’t need medication for it while he’s in there assuming he’s in there for more than just a few days which I obviously was.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Another words “it will be like taking candy from a baby. Just as a rule of thumb, generally speaking I DON’T normally like men who think way about☝🏼ME or when it comes to anything pertaining to☝🏼MY personal life. 👼🏻
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Did they really say that or my just 🙄👼🏻🙄👼🏻🙄👼🏻☝🏼😃YES, they sure did.
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
On a different note, separate and apart from that particular ☝🏼MOVIE for people within a certain industry who may have recognized on the Security Cameras it when I was in another place at another time, that is Correct. It ☝🏼WAS “Drunken Monkey.”🥃
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Yes, it is the truth because although other guys may have handled it differently, people lead all different types of lives. They could have all different types of other concerns going on beneath the surface at that particular moment and not everybody has the gift of gab like that. There are different degrees to everything in this world but, if somebody else was to handle it the same exact way that☝🏼I did at that particular moment, what would they be saying? Probably something to the effect of “🤔WeLl in HiS DeFenSe (with the NeH, NeH, NeH)….RiGhT??? (🙄)
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
And I remember even ☝🏼then it was such a pain in the ass with the paper thin cheap children’s Gi’s and the the draw strings that would keep coming apart and the belts that would unravel. “Why the fuck do I have to wear this clean cut nice guy white thing? The Black ones are so much Cooler.” Watch them twist that out or context now. Didn’t I say they watch too much television?
@abdulrazzaq13542 ай бұрын
Hi
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
Yeah, it’s a bit of a “Spooky” thing per se 😇because when I say that I can ☝🏼SMELL something like that what I’m really saying is that what I’m smelling is something called “Crookedness.”
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Yeah. Of course it’s common fucking sense. How you gonna fight effectively, if you’re so used to doing it in the mirror that when you don’t have one, your perception of the world around you is that fucking distorted that you can’t properly gauge range and distance? I was able to do that at a level that was far above average even with a head injury like that.
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
How come these bastards never said that about Charlton Heston?
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
☝🏼NO. 🙄I don’t just pull it out of the sky. It doesn’t work that way.
@ApolloniaPontiАй бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
Just know that I wasn’t referring to a training exercise because that would obviously be a serious offense and a complete breath of “Ethics”to, to, to..🙄👼🏻🙄👼🏻🙄👼🏻☝🏼to say the ☝🏼least for 🤔UuUUuuh….FOR ☝🏼ANY “martial arts instructor” to facilitate that kind of bullshit.🤣
@user-ef1zm2ih7hАй бұрын
Why did people in☝🏼MULTIPLE STATES☝🏼🙄😃 UhDUh, UdUh, UdUh NOT☝🏼ReALIzE uHduH, UdUH, UdUh 🙄tHat I tauT I TaW A PuTtY CAt? 🗯is it because they really don’t have the common sense to ☝🏼UnDeRstAnD UhDUH UhDUH UhDUH why I ☝🏼”TaW It ThaT WaY?🤔🐣 🙄😂
@user-ef1zm2ih7h2 ай бұрын
I heard the ☝🏼”Knock” and I said to myself, 🗯”Uh-Oh I think the Liberals are about to do something Naughty.”😇 😃😂