this needs to be said louder omg

Yes but the amount of simps are gonna get offended by this statement :D

Well said 👏👏👏

Rigjtt🤘🤘🤘

Falling in love with the person whose job is in entertainment isn't any different than marrying a person in any other profession. It's not their jobs that makes them human. It's the soul behind all the public persona that needs love like everyone else. Private and separate. We are all humans that need support and love. It doesn't matter what we do for a living. We all need someone in our corner. Personally for them.

It is the companies fault because they sell the parasocial relationships

it's kpop stans fault lol they never shut the fuck up about others opinions and defend their favorite groups as if their idols gave a fuck about them when we're all nobody to kpop idols in the long run😂

@@janvdb9258 Fans who pry into their idols' private lives, regardless of what the company does, are just as much at fault and need to be held accountable. It's just not okay.

@@TiaTam yes and there are stalking laws for this but the companies keep trying to use these creepy idol model to sell their garbage merchandise and VIP clubs

Some fans are quite scary they think the idols are like their dolls . They have to do whatever they want. I think the music companies should remove the dating ban clause. I mean idols should be allowed to date and get married without asking any permission or apologising themselves. They are human not dolls!

I agree

@phantom thief alibaba exactly like they expect their idols to be single forever or they think they have a chance with the, like BFFR💀

not you tae tae love, aka jenniecrushed, blink if youre a blink, lalalisa world etc trying to act nice again after you were seen attacking idols even with this acc just yesterday again. typical thing for you to mix up your stan accs with your troll accs of which you also have many, like methyl fairy, karina runs aespa, gura, peacemaker etc.

@@vipman2170 😳wait what....oooooooh

@@vipman2170 💀 bruh

This and I feel even more uncomfortable when fans go out of their way to dig up any information, if there is any on who an idol is in a relationship with. Like mind your own business, this behavior is unhealthy.

LOL

Or I'm single..then we're pregnant..then we're getting married..then divorce lol

@@janvdb9258 that's sounds cringe sorry

@@buxxy_kookies I mean it happens lol

@@cosmicalsims most of the idol don't get divorced

When your popularity is fading and fans aren't interested in your personal life anymore, it's way more easy. Paparazzi are too busy with the youngest and more trendy groups to spy on 1st gen idols. Even 2nd gen now are slowly getting married.

@@shizukagozen777 you might not understand but this is seo-teaji we are talking about. He was the father of modern kpop and the start of a musical and cultural revolution in s.korea with an enormous amount of fame. Him disappearing into thin air and hiding his marriage so early in his career (if I remember correctly less than 3 years) is a pretty big deal

@@adrianaaleksandrova9670 Why I "should not understand" ? Maybe you don't understand that Koreans don't care about that, all matters for them is being young, beautiful and trendy. See how idols who are in their 30s see their popularity slowly fading to be replaced by younger generations, then when you're as old as him (50), your popularity is almost gone because no one cares anymore. It seems that he hasn't been doing much as a singer during the last decade, which doesn't help too. Ps: I googled his marriage dates while typing this and I thought it was about his "recent" marriage but actually, it's about the first one which was between 97 and 06 so what I previously said doesn't apply for this marriage even if my point still stands. So first, my bad for that, and second I wanted to say that back in 1997, most people didn't have the internet, there were no smartphones (mobile phones weren't even a thing), no social media like nowadays, etc, and it was WAY easier than today to keep things secret. Even in 2006, internet weren't in every home, mobile phones had no internet and cameras, etc, so despite his popularity back then, I'm still not surprised that they could keep their marriage hidden, the only ways people could have known about it would have been because someone close from them spoke to a magazine or because of a paparazzi but once again, back then in the 00s, the new generation of Kpop was making its debut and paparazzi were probably too busy with them to care about the other ones.

@@adrianaaleksandrova9670 seo didn’t hide it for 11 years. you got that let confused with the guy after him.

They all deserve love and happiness in their life's - they have given ExoL and the world, especially the kdrama ost world, so much over the years already

What’s so funny abt exol ? After the news of Chen I rmb that is this video when there were quite a few fans sitting outside of the company , protesting Chen to leave the group. But there were another group international fans and wanted Chen to stay in the group . They literally video a small part of it when one of them stand in front of these Korean fans say “we want Chen we want Chen “ is so funny . I am not even an exol 😂😂I want Chen to be at the exo. So what he is married have a baby . So long talent stays who cares . 😂😂😂

wtf does bias mean

He's one of my bias, this guy is a huge teddy bear. No matter his age, I will always want to pinch his baby face. He's so adorable. 💖

Changmin always talked about wanting to get married. I remember that during one radio psychology quiz he said that most of the books he reads are romantic... Id remember what year it was but it was before the split. Everyone always took him as a baby that never dated but he was and still is such a romantic person, I'm so so soooo happy that he found someone he loves now. ❤️💕

For?

@@shapoosi2684 he got unnecessary hate

@SWITHU honestly, I was there and I didn't hear him get booed at all. Was very shocked when I saw people talking about it on twitter.

@@jaytothet people protested outside sm to get him outta the group.

@@Problematicbaka Yeah around 20 people showed up for the protest. That was the most embarrassing protest i've ever seen in my entire life. 😂

Not always. Sometimes it's just rumors. And companies will sue.

That's usually yg's response.

Yg released a statement similar to this lol

As harsh as it is, you may be right because i had that thought in the back of my head. Not to mention, i also live in a country where kids born out of wedlock or even sex before marriage is seen as shameless and dishonorable. Now given SK artists or idols with their respective agencies, announcing it this way is also to cover up the truth.

That's exactly what I thought. It happened to 2 Kiss members and they're both divorced now.

I was going to comment the same thing 😂😂

Same 😂

Why is it funny ? If it's here, it's maybe because there have been rumors about them dating ? To me, Taemin gives a bi vibes (maybe gay or pan) but mostly attracted by the male side. About Kai, everyone thinks that he's straight because he has dated women in the past but that means nothing, he could be bi too. All that to say that it could be possible and that many things happens behind the cameras that we will never know.

@@shizukagozen777 its funny to me because theyre are just good friends that denied these rumors, if they are dating i will support them but people are sure they are dating just because people cant accept the fact that idols can be close without dating each other

@@shizukagozen777 geez calm down kid

Like the idols should only be known by their voice not their personal life. It's ridiculous they are worse then paps. This should totally happen. They don't need to apologise for living their own happy life.

well they'll have to start making real music and shake less booty for that. I know they are very talented people but the whole schtick of kpop is essentially churning out beautiful, talented people (who once were desperate) and objectifying them. Not that different than modern world gisaengs unfortunately. They are rich slaves with contracts, cash cows of suicidal kids not given light of day until they earn enough money to do their own thing.

Ikr, i hate the fact that he didn't get canceled hard and basically just moved on having a normal life with a second wife and child and he still had the balls to go after his exwife...

I guess people don't pay much attention to people they don't care for and/or because it's a case from a long time ago...

Right! I’ve been a fan since I was a kid but now ughhh

I was JUST thinking this

probably because nobody cares about him and he’s irrelevant 🤷🏽‍♀️

His wife is known. Kim Sa-Eun is a celebrity, so she is not a secret wife.

@@catherinemonast3711 Off topic but ok. LOL

@@shizukagozen777 I am just telling that they were talking about secret wives i.e celebrity that are keeping the identity of their wives a secret. Sungmin never hid it. Yes there was a backlash due to it though

WTF?!

@@Theoneandonly._. ?

Sounds like what 4th gen idols might be doing with New Jeans trying to give them their phone numbers. Those girls be needing 24/7 security now. 😳

@@solasluna192 babying newjeans when I’m sure they want some idols numbers lmao they’re gonna like people and probably have dated or even sex. Like u fr whining over an soils possibly liking a member when I’m sure they do too they’re not babies

Fr thats legit p do philia 🤢🤢🤢

@@solasluna192 what ewwww they do that?? Why don't they go after women their own age (we know why🥴) who did it so far? God this industry really is dangerous for young girls, so much grooming going on I dont even want to think about it...

@@brenna730 they're not babies but some are them are still children, they are all underage and at best they are young teens. Ie adult men have no business giving them their numbers

Yeah god I had no idea its actually disgusting like he's a legit P-do groomer 🤢

Yes 😞 I felt that he deserved better

He is in a different case he married and treat fans in awful away. It wanst the marrige that ruined him it was his behaviour.

@@miaka123ify I’d beg to differ. Fans made up stories of his behavior cause they were jealous of his wife and angry at him. Sungmin and his wife’s family are literally rich and I can’t believe his fans made up rumors of him using them to give gifts to his wife and fund his wedding? Their jealousy is displaced.

@@bananabear1387 According to a youtuber that dated a male Kpop idol, she got gifts, that fans gifted him. I'm sure, that this isn't the only case where stuff like this happened. But in the end no one of us knows it until the person who end up with the gifts say something.

Yes

Then tell their companies to stop promoting their idols as single forever.

@@NK-rf4db how to change it

That's the world of kpop, it's crazy!

Who is that? Chen?

@@jasmine7581 Lee Jae Hoon 5:32

😂 I’ll be so happy for him

Won't be surprised😂😂

He might as well admit it now because we all know he’s married and he has two kids you’re right

I'm already imagining

really hope idols having relationships be normalised as we non-toxic fans are dying to see them happily together...i'm pretty sure we'll soon find out about them..can't wait for it🙂💜

I’m guessing it makes people uninterested to ‘Stan’ that person so they loose popularity and that also relates to money depending how big that person is

@@rriahh_ yes

The company is selling the fantasy that the fans are the only relationship the idols have. Finding out their biases don't actually love them the best could cost the company money

Or not

Male idols still get alot of hate

@@nicoleloss7987 i don't mean to downplay that but they'll still have careers at the end of the day. I also mean the public consensus in general rather than just within the fandom.

Ayeee Bobby jr lol

And congratulations to all of the happy couples and beautiful families 😘

When did RM say that? Link pls

Agree

Where