🥊 THE SIDE CHICK CONFRONTS HER MARRIED LOVER IN HIS MARITAL HOME 🏡 👀 | PART 2

🥊 THE SIDE CHICK CONFRONTS HER MARRIED LOVER IN HIS MARITAL HOME 🏡 👀 | PART 2 | FDV

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@blackmuzunguu4525 2 жыл бұрын

Has anyone else realised how dependable aunty Fumi is? She's your pull up friend! We all need a friend like Fumi in such times

@ConnectWithUganda 2 жыл бұрын

Just wondering how your name is black mzungu 😆

@simplyregine6844 2 жыл бұрын

Frfr, she be like ok, let’s go 🤷🏾‍♀️

@victorioussisters3307 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been such a friend and I’ve given up in finding one.

@Nkem_O 2 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking same. Like how is she always the pull up friend? Even in this “old age” o! This story isn’t in her 20s or 30s. This was 4 years ago. Lol

@blackmuzunguu4525 2 жыл бұрын

@@ConnectWithUganda it's my nickname

@Bdeezy-lq8ce 2 жыл бұрын

Dearest Fumi - You are truly a 'ride or die' friend to your circle. Having said that I must tell you, my father knew he was terminally ill and sat me down at the age of (11) and gave me a small laundry list of skills to help me navigate through life. I am now (69)yrs old and still remember the issues he touched although I was so young and honestly couldn't relate to many, but remember writing them down in my diary. He told me concerning affairs of the heart, always walk away in silence and he was right. You really want to make a man lose it, just walk away in silence. My experiences have proved him right. This 'Sister to Sister' reminds me of all the women I have known or know about that went bunkers and did nothing but make fools of themselves, their results were pure humiliation they created for themselves.

@sharpekinks 2 жыл бұрын

I love that your father wanted to leave you with something valuable at such a very young age. My mind use to play out the attacks I wanted to make on those who hurt me. But I always chose to walk away in silence. Best advice. ✨✨✨

@aliciaervin4235 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi, you seem to be that friend / family that don’t mind riding out with a love one when they need that support system in their corner! Ride or Die! I love that about you! Be safe Big Sis! 😘

@catherinegordon2010 2 жыл бұрын

I clicked as soon as the notification came. I couldn't wait to hear the end of this story. Love your earrings Fumi..God continue to bless you and your family

@Rosemary-mn3ms 2 жыл бұрын

Just love the way you narrate your stories in "sister to sister " ❤ you Fumi.Great job and thanks for the lessons. We learn and unlearn.

@videostoviews2262 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I came for part 2😂

@valeriastokes504 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry that she felt a need to call him out and have the wife share her misery. Generally wives know that their husband is a player and this was probably not the first time. Brave and supportive of you to go with her. It could have been a tragic circumstance.

@brittneyk0158 2 жыл бұрын

“SOUL TIES” ARE NEVER BROKEN!

@mavisparris3084 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love the earrings. I got a tidbit of truth that eased a burden I was carrying.

@carolynstephen5122 2 жыл бұрын

I just love your laugh. It is so infectious and always makes me smile. You are also a really good story teller and gorgeous with it too. I hope your friend is in a happier place now.

@simplyregine6844 2 жыл бұрын

Ooohhh excited for part 2, I was mad at you yesterday for that cliff hanger, but one thing I love about you is the consistency and knew we wouldn’t have to wait too long 🙏🏾🙂🥰 Thanks

@IamCarrieNotBranshaw 2 жыл бұрын

Melissa has to learn to overcome this. Once he told her that he was married, she should of walk away then. Until he have proof in his hand that he was truly free, he will always belong to someone else.

@mwila1879 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! I never expected the wife to be pregnant. It is understandable why Melissa has not moved on yet because the pain is great. The lies were huge and the time was wasted. Melissa, I hope you forgive yourself for not seeing the signs of his untrustworthiness. You are not wrong to desire love and to be loved. Please let the pain go and love again. You will meet your twin flame who will make you forget your passed pains. Promise!

@aquarius8325 2 жыл бұрын

Melissa was in a very long marriage and relatively out of the dating loop. She still had older dating values so this was a shock to her. It's going to take time for her to adapt to a new dating climate with a lot of dishonest people.

@macummings7818 2 жыл бұрын

Mwila Thx for this tender and loving response - I was in my own feelings after this horror story and appreciate hearts like this out there! 😭💔 So very sad how damaged and damaging we sometimes can be...

@CommonSenseSisters 2 жыл бұрын

Fumiiiiiii we love how you tell your stories. Honestly we are usually good predictors but all our guesses were wrong on this one today. All we can say is that May Karma visit people like this man who abuses the love and vulnerability of others. We hope that once day, if desired, your friend will come across the love she deserves. This is a huge lesson out there. As my fellow Nigerians will say, You must SHINE YOUR EYES ohhhhh 😩

@eidera3763 2 жыл бұрын

Omg 🥺I don't know how but I could predict the pregnancy and I was right, so I wasn't surprised when aunty Funmi said it.. I'm just 23 and I don't do married men not even want to hear you are in a relationship ( I run away as if I saw a ghost 👻 😂) you have everything to lose if you play in that team my darling.

@teressacooks7928 2 жыл бұрын

Finally one I actually SAW COMING...Preggers!! Oh men...how they lie [figuratively and literally]😫

@DeeCee84 2 жыл бұрын

Oh I can't wait for your reviews on Young Famous & African because I know you're going to provide us with some life lessons. And this part 2 was worth the wait!!!

@Cupcake4me 2 жыл бұрын

I listened with my mouth wide open. Poor Melissa. I hope she can mend her broken heart and find a way to let someone else love her the way she deserves.

@dr-k1667 2 жыл бұрын

There is so much I could say, but I'll just say this. God is watching and James (the husband liar cheater) his day will come. I don't think I would ever be able to trust another person if that was me and just hearing about this is shocking. He never intended to leave so the real lesson is... UNTIL THE PAPERS ARE SIGNED SEALED AND DELIVERED HE/SHE IS MARRIED AND NOT YOURS . Fumi you were a true blue friend, but that could have gone very badly for the both of you, but I think it is obvious God had all of you, your friend and even the wife in his hand. How devastating to be pregnant for a man who was cheating on you for the entire time. GUYS THIS ISN'T WHAT BEING A MAN IS ABOUT . Think of your Mothers and Sisters think of what it is to be hurt. WOW! We still have a long way to go on this road called humanity. I hope your friend will be healed from this brutal betrayal. She has such a loving heart and it has been severely broken. As for the wife... I hope you are well and your child is safe and happy. You deserve better, both of you.

@palesamatsipa2157 2 жыл бұрын

I have a girlfriend,a divorcee,who always asks to see the divorce decree!!!😂😂 the dude's fizzle out like an aspirin😁. If he doesn't produce it she goes in hard..." when can we have a family picnic with the kids!"AND THEY'RE GONE!!!!😂😂😂😂(#thefumilaugh)💃💃💃

@dr-k1667 2 жыл бұрын

@@palesamatsipa2157 Excellent way to filter the trash from the treasure!

@alexisagginie4574 2 жыл бұрын

What a story!? Why does a grown adult man act so irresponsibly?

@its_mel5822 2 жыл бұрын

I fully understand your friend. When you love someone your reasoning leaves the room 🤣 when I found out my boyfriend of 4 years who had promised to marry me had a 1 year old child with a wife that I knew nothing about, I spent many sleepless nights wondering “how will he explain this to me when him and I finally get married?” 🤣🤣 I laugh about it now but those were the darkest days of my life. Needless to say I left him, after confronting him and he had no way to explain it. It’s been 2 years and I still haven’t dared to date anyone, I simply CANNOT trust anything a man says!!

@RoseMary-jm4gj 2 жыл бұрын

It’s Mel it all begins with having an open mind which may not be as easy for some. My personal way which works tremendously for me is living by the words of the Bible applicable to me and I don’t call myself a Christian, neither I’m I a church goer since I spent most of my younger life going church. The Bible states the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. Mankind is weak to things of the flesh😊. Learning this expect the unexpected and live and leave room for disappointment. Yes when reality hits we react accordingly but with an open the hurting won’t last too long. In all honesty I always ask please if you are out there please protect me by swimming in trunks lol (use condom ) Thankful I never had to see doc regarding by rose 🌹 garden lol

@lydiamarendes7554 2 жыл бұрын

Now see that......that's why I chose not to get married and I love living alone. I'm an introvert and a man like that will just mess me up! Who needs that...????!!!

@ronrendon 2 жыл бұрын

GURRRRRRRRL. You are a GREAT STORY TELLER. I CLUTCHED MY PEARLS AND SCREAMED THE moment you said she turned around and was pregnant. I'm crying/laughing coz I didn't see that one coming!

@baneshamiller1734 2 жыл бұрын

Such a sad story. I hope Melissa finds true love one day. I hope she can let go of the past pain and move forward.

@tricepnm8590 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been waiting. I was at work last night listening to part 1. I had gotten so invested then Auntie says tune in tomorrow I was like Damnnnnnn!! Nooooo! Lol So glad for part 2

@keahv7900 2 жыл бұрын

that was deep !! you had me on the edge of my seat waiting for this 2nd part lol loved it

@simplyregine6844 2 жыл бұрын

Funny thing is I dated a James in the past that disappeared on me, didn’t find it till years later why, when he finally decided to tell me the truth. The whole time he was “ dating” me had had a whole family on the side or should I say be on the side. Come to think of it, I’m hair he ghosted me instead of telling me the truth at that time as I would have been heart broken. Thanks Fumi for always enlightening us 🙏🏾🙂

@evette7951 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi, Your channel is better than regular TV! I look forward to your videos because they excite me. The intro was amazing too! 👍

@CustomThreads 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this lovely story full of wisdom and advice

@MJ-xj2tz 2 жыл бұрын

My darling fumi ur laughter 🤣 i live i love story time and the cliff hanger ending and the finale 🌿🌻taking notes👩🏾‍💻💕💋

@reemagee4828 2 жыл бұрын

Yaaas! So glad you are going to review Young, Famous and African!

@beckyd712 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Fumi! The world needs your good sense and advice, not to mention your wonderful way of story telling. *I know it is early, but Happy Birthday!* This is my birthday month as well and I think we should celebrate for the entire month! Okay call me spoiled, I am a bit (few years,maybe 10) older than you and I now believe in enjoying every day I have left! Thank you again for helping us all; in life and getting through tough times, you are an inspiration! *Blessed Be and Stay Well!*

@jamilaabubakar8356 2 жыл бұрын

Indeed mama fumi my friend is getting married to as a fourth wife to a man that says the previous wives left him and my Friend is delusional that she found the right one I don't know how to talk her out of it ... I can relate on such issues and I must say they ain't fun at all

@aquarius8325 2 жыл бұрын

She's not going to believe anything you say to her. She's going to have to figure it out herself. Painful as it may seem we can't save everyone especially from themselves.

@carolynololade4126 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I can’t wait for your reviews on these 📺 shows 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

@jacquelinesiayaogutu8670 2 жыл бұрын

Love your story time

@omobao3546 2 жыл бұрын

Looking gorgeous! Love the colours. Oh the earrings, so lovely. The hair, perfect too. I think your updo's suit you perfectly!

@millionairedee6136 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi this is sad but funny at the same time. I thought part 2 would have been a man lol my bad... Your friend is bold. She could have lost her life doing that. on a different note Praying for your friend. It nothing good about dealing with a broken heart.

@lydia824 2 жыл бұрын

I can't wait to hear your review on Young Famous and African. I didn't even know there was a series on Real Housewives of Lagos. Can't wait to hear it ALL!!! Fumi you brighten my day!!!

@NnennaRG 2 жыл бұрын

It’s only this channel that I watched with normal speed

@babym9524 2 жыл бұрын

How could she confront a pregnant woman. Is she expecting her to leave him after finding out? Or to cause trauma to her in her state. There are sometimes you walk away without confrontation. She played herself from the beginning to the end. The man saw the desperation and that’s why it didn’t work.

@diamondp419 2 жыл бұрын

Been waiting for the rest of the story

@mariamamutuhiire-vz3dw Жыл бұрын

Thank you dear for the advice

@egoddess9432 2 жыл бұрын

Yes. You did Fumi!!

@AzohChe 2 жыл бұрын

Aunty Fumi I'm so ready for your review on the show of young, famous and African especially with regards to the ladies and how it relates to us African women and relationships. Much love God bless you 😘🙏❤

@doreenonekalit9888 2 жыл бұрын

What a story. Must I say you look gorgeous in your makeup and have lovely skin

@Brunellesp 2 жыл бұрын

Ooh! I got here real fast! Hi Fumi

@aw33 2 жыл бұрын

I just love you Fumi!!! You’re the auntie I wish I had 🥰

@lisa-annyearwood1760 2 жыл бұрын

Greeting from Antigua and Barbuda. The music for the first two minutes is 🔥

@canmooedithpeace1210 2 жыл бұрын

I hate it when sister to sister is just 10mins 🤣🤣🤣 I love listening to you aunty fumi

@Adaobichukwuma 2 жыл бұрын

You inspired me to start my own channel,thank you

@londieb.9362 2 жыл бұрын

I love your sister to sister stories but this one was particularly painful. I guess it’s because the wife was pregnant. Women must be aware of traps and tricks loneliness can bring. I hope your friend heals and finds true love.

@ladybhive1210 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 💯so warm and personal

@averiagaskin181 2 жыл бұрын

Oh I didn’t realize y’all were in contact beyond an IG message. Wow, this is serious!

@emmawanjiku1358 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Fumi, your friend is really lucky to have a friend like you. Heartbreak is the worst thing that could ever happen in a relationship. They say it takes double the time you were together to get over the hurt before starting to move on😒

@michellecharlery9857 2 жыл бұрын

Wow.... That's tough

@britneealisaprescod3780 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Aunty Fumi, love from Guyana

@theresaisaBIGBOSS 9 ай бұрын

Wow!!!! You should wear green more often because you look amazing. The green against the chocolate color of your skin...wow, fabulous.👌 👏 👍 ❤❤

@Lesah_ 2 жыл бұрын

Well what an introduction. 🥰🌺🤩

@irmadiaz5928 Жыл бұрын

Well said good lesson for women to take heed let the married men be certain of their family.even if they divorce sometimes the chicken stray back to their former coup 🤣🤣🤣

@millyjmillions 2 жыл бұрын

I had this experience a few months ago oh my dear only God saved him I scattered everythin

@terriacook5036 2 жыл бұрын

I love your makeup

@dinahjanehansen4853 2 жыл бұрын

You’re an African queen

@pworm195 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ms. Fumi cause I going though the same thing . so now I have to make a decisions to let him go cause I was told too many times that I deserve better than that.

@stevena271 2 жыл бұрын

What a story!!!! Aunty Funmi, we are waiting for the 12 hard rules you talked about in episode 1, please.

@annetoussaint 2 жыл бұрын

good morning Fumi and everyone😊❤

@sandralevy9839 2 жыл бұрын

There is a lot of those Dogs around us.

@csiarea5 2 жыл бұрын

You have had so many experiences. Nice

@hotnerdt-shirts1524 2 жыл бұрын

Good job Fumi you are a great role model love you

@JBL_AESTHETICS Жыл бұрын

Loved the video. Where are the earrings from aunty Fumi??

@shakariemcdonald6988 2 жыл бұрын

Blessings good morning auntie❤

@t.p.anderson1833 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, take your time & don't settle. TFS!😘

@faithchoute7415 2 жыл бұрын

I need a pull up and show up friend like Aunty Fumi....i live i love the life lessons and stories of sister to sister🥰👍🏾

@roseleemorgan 2 жыл бұрын

Yesss, baggage it is!!!!!

@ladybhive1210 2 жыл бұрын

1:55 💞🤣 u go girl!

@VIsidore 2 жыл бұрын

I'm speechless.

@cherisealexander6215 2 жыл бұрын

I totally love you

@awardsafaris7749 2 жыл бұрын

🇰🇪🇰🇪 Kenya in the house

@Vivienne_Ndana 2 жыл бұрын

Namibia 🇳🇦 in the house

@paulinep.2253 2 жыл бұрын

Aunty Fumi, I ALWAYS L💗ve Your Gr8 words of Advice, when It comes to Relationships, You are ON POINT with EVERYTHING, I Thank You so much for this Continuation, It was Well delivered & received...P.S. You look BEAUTIFUL in those Vibrant Colors You wear...🥰...

@promiroy9133 2 жыл бұрын

From Bangladesh

@queenv4340 Жыл бұрын

I love those earrings on u

@faithandfashion100 Жыл бұрын

Fumi! You are too much! This was a good story. 😂

@DanaConquersBoutique 2 жыл бұрын

This was sad- I hope Melissa is happy and not carrying distrust for others around. One bad seed doesn’t spoil the bunch! I’m excited for your Young Famous Africans review.

@msgrace7414 2 жыл бұрын

I’m looking forward to your review on Young African American.

@pip6602 2 жыл бұрын

First Aunt Fumi, thank you! ❤ I'm sorry your friend had to experience that hard life lesson. GLAD they did not get back together and the confrontation did not have a far worse outcome. I do have one question - what would you do when the wife (of 18 1/2 years & 2 kids) becomes the side chick?

@ronwash7462 2 жыл бұрын

OH that was good story.........Y'all went and banged on the door :) That is an old school move!!!!!!

@NazarofGod 2 жыл бұрын

Never been this early. Love you Fumi❤️ You've encouraged and inspired to reach for my goals, not to give up, and to give things a try without putting myself down because of age. It's never too late to start🤗🤗 On to the continuation of yesterday's video🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

@gildajames3208 2 жыл бұрын

I wanted part 2 to be a little longer. I just started sipping some tea and it's done!?😔😊

@denisem5437 2 жыл бұрын

I was on my seat, waiting.

@terriacook5036 2 жыл бұрын

Good morning 🤓

@tamarahenderson5241 2 жыл бұрын

Love

@vivianeni 2 жыл бұрын

It's the RHOL I want to watch

@lubutosdiary8896 2 жыл бұрын

You are an amazing story teller aunty Fumi. I just want to know what the last words were when you and Melissa were leaving Jame’s house 😅

@blessingokorafor939 2 жыл бұрын

Why the long suspenseful introduction aunty fumi😂

@taneshaross8646 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi, you said a mouthful when you mentioned the side chick needs to pay attention to the ex and children. I have been divorced 12 years now and all the women my ex dates they see me as a threat rather than understanding I am no longer interested intimately. I want to ask though what are your thoughts about him not being open to these women about our friendship?

@judithsandy9101 Жыл бұрын

Great CIA (detective)

@karenbalchin4170 2 жыл бұрын

Fumi, I didn’t expect that to be the surprise. Wow! I don’t think my heart would have taken that. Hmmm some guys are just…. No words. Selfish

@vu119 2 жыл бұрын

Omg 😳😳😳😳

@sweetbaby00000000 2 жыл бұрын

Wooooowww!!!! What a heart breaking story. I feel so bad for your friend. ☹️☹️ I must say the way you left it off Fumi I thought it was going to be a man he left her for or something crazy like that. Wow that is so sad But on to you. FUMI MY BFF IN MY MIND….You need to have your own talk show, be in some plays on broadway, and yes even on the big screen as the main actress because can’t no body tell a story like you. You keep me captivated wanting to hear more. You are the total package my love. I pray that God will continue to grow your platform and open up major tv, movie deals, and even modeling deals because your have it ….that IT factor. And your are BEAUTIFUL inside and out. With and without makeup. I can’t say enough about you. I believe in giving praise where praise is due and you deserve it all my love. Oh one more thing when are you going to be doing another makeup tutorial along with story time or just a tutorial in general, I miss doing my makeup with you. I feel like I am having a one on one session with you 😊😊. Keep being fabulous…. I Live I love my darling.

@nkhen_c357 2 жыл бұрын

Melissa was very selfish to confront his pregnant wife... What a heartless person. She didnt think what if that woman got distresses by revelation of her husband betrayal.... Heartless woman

@aquarius8325 2 жыл бұрын

The confrontation was too far in this instance I agree. Seeing her should have been enough.

@syntabelle Жыл бұрын

Hypertension in pregnancy

@shakariemcdonald6988 2 жыл бұрын

Wow smh some man is just a mess, believe me

@priscillaenjugu5045 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha 😅😅! Mugu

@valeriecarre8967 2 жыл бұрын

This is why you don't worship men My dad cheated on my mom, for .. the last time. Emotionally void wasn't my mother's house many times when she came to visit. He left my mom on Thanksgiving and Christmas alone in a new state Well my mom last straw filed for divorce Married 30 yes dad in his 60's Dad moved in with a younger broke woman with less women. Well afterward my dad called my mom's incessantly reepalizing he will have to play alimony up 5thousand and pension. We all shunned my father My mom took him back contingency thing in her name house He left that women from the backwoods which she came and her 8yr old son Apartment in her name she couldn't afford. We are of a different blk diaspora she was American, the culture difference probably added more to my dad loosing interest. My mother cooked for my dad everyday, would wake up at 6am to iron his clothes and is a house maker. He thought he was going to find that in a 30something American melinial. Not to mention my dad was strict so having someone else's son disrespect himat 65 and a medical professional. Even his sisters and brothers would not allow that women entry into their home. When you are the mistress the women in the family don't trust that you won't bring other cronies or you won't sleep with theirs. It set a tone. You have too realize what you are up against. Who can have a happy union in that stress