6 Verbal Tricks To Make An Aggressive Person Sorry
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Jordan Peterson VS Cathy Newman Debate
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Have you seen the Jordan Peterson and Cathy Newman debate?
See for yourself how he deals with it and give us your opinion in the comments!
We've all found ourselves in conversation and felt attacked like we started off talking about one thing and then the other person twisted our words and before we knew it, we lost our cool, lost respect in their eyes, and maybe even acted like a jerk. Now, I don't normally do the same person twice in a row but this interview between Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson was just too interesting of an opportunity to discuss how you can handle someone who uses subtle conversational tricks to bully you into looking dumb. So in this video, you're gonna see firsthand some of the most common tricks that people might be using on you and you're also gonna learn how to reverse those so that you can walk out of a kind of aggressive situation having earned more respect than you had going in.
So first off, to stop a conversational bully, you have to realize what's going on before it's too late. Now, typically, a person will reveal their aggressive attitude early on with their tone of voice and their word choice. Check out the rest that we will show in this video and how Jordan Peterson tackles them.
1:49 Jordan Peterson deals with so-you're-saying trap
2:39 Jordan Peterson deals with the "assuming the sale"
5:30 Jordan Peterson deals with the smash technique
7:08 But don't straw man the other person's ideas though
7:47 And visual imagery can also help
8:25 You can show them that they're already agreeing with you
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@wieb72 3 жыл бұрын
I love the statement someone made years ago. "People don't want to hear your opinion. They want their opinion to come out of your mouth."
@hees0009 3 жыл бұрын
That's basically most humans. Even myself. It's actually a survival technique to respond positively to those who support our ideology, while avoiding those who could present a threat. You might think we'd have moved on after thousands of years...
@ramoncotta1264 3 жыл бұрын
My tactic is to exaggerate, in a bombastic and exaggerated fashion, in the following way: "Oh my God! That's exactly right, boy you hit the nail right on the head, no doubt about it! It's like you're in my head or something! I mean WOW! You even got all the punctuation down with your inflection, and I have to hand it to you, wow, yup exactly down to the last molecule, a precise word for word rendition of not only what I said but what I meant by it, which by the way is exactly what I said. " Then I sit back beaming smugly at them because I called them a liar in a very sarcastic way. Nobody wants to argue with me anymore after that. Nasty, I know, but it has been several years since I realized there is no way to convert a fanatic so the best you can do is cut the interaction to a minimum and hope they die soon.
@hees0009 3 жыл бұрын
@airlockengage agreed.
@Camaink1 3 жыл бұрын
@@ramoncotta1264 that is radical bro!
@mikep9312 3 жыл бұрын
@@hees0009 That's just straight up confirmation bias though and doesn't save you at all from the ramifications of the Dunning-Kruger effect. You can be in danger of being manipulated and your confidence exploited before you even know it, you won't see it coming because you were so sure you were right and now you're too embarrassed to be wrong.
@adoboflash 6 жыл бұрын
Cathy is a bully then plays the Victim when she lost
@elkeleser9196 6 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what bullies usually do ...
@xs10tl1 6 жыл бұрын
How to be a Marxist 101.
@jerome1335 6 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't say she is a bully, but rather, this is her job - she needs to interrogate, question and command soundbites from the interview. Yes, she may personally agree with much of what she is saying, but there are times where she needs to play devil's advocate. That is how I see it anyway.
@adoboflash 6 жыл бұрын
Jerome . HAHA! thats a good point.. But I don't Think Cathy's saying things Out of context, over simplifications, misrepresentations and misleading are form of intellectual interrogation.. Cathy is a Bully its her Job to do so.. She is no Devils advocate. She is just Dumb. Seriously Just watch the "Lobster" part.. You will see her Level of Intelligence.
@adoboflash 6 жыл бұрын
Jerome.. She is misleading and misrepresenting what Jordan had said.. ANd that is what bully always do. Then once you trap and defeat the bully. They play as a Victim in which is what she did.. She even claim that the Jordan Fans will gonna harass her.
@AmirahJoy 2 ай бұрын
I’ve learned to say “If you want to know what I’m saying, you’ll have to stop talking and listen.”
@user-dw3sf5qz1q 2 ай бұрын
Brilliant; thanks, I'll use that if things get too heated!
@DrJohnPollard 2 ай бұрын
That's a good one. Well done.
@DeborahThird-og1uo 2 ай бұрын
“I’ll answer when you stop talking.”
@LucyKelly-of6cu 2 ай бұрын
I have used that. It worked as part of a larger solution.
@LucyKelly-of6cu 2 ай бұрын
@@DeborahThird-og1uoThey'll keep talking. They have no shame.
@paolafriedrick 2 ай бұрын
This level of clarity and mental speed is not achieved by simple tips and tactics. This shows a long time of commitment to truth. When you commit to saying what you think is true, it will be easy to see clearly what's in front of you, see through people's bs, see through the games, call things out and quickly be able to straighten distorted arguments. Once you choose true, life will become the best adventure of your life.
@lizetteco900 2 ай бұрын
Yes! Could not have said it better. 🙌🙌🙌
@wf4983 Ай бұрын
I also think that this is the more authentic (and easier) approach. Much better and faster than to learn all those tricks and games by heart.
@JoyCrossbridge Ай бұрын
I love that thought!!! 🙌🏼👍🏼👌🏼
@HallPhoebe Ай бұрын
Great comment
@JillChristyGroup Ай бұрын
Yes, so much of this cannot be taught. It can be identified in how it becomes a successful debate, but cannot be taught. It comes with a lifetime of educating oneself and being a keen listener.
@s0nnyburnett 6 жыл бұрын
Bad idea to play mind games with a psychology professor.
@dorianphilotheates3769 6 жыл бұрын
Equally bad to play psychological games with a mind professor.
@IGamingStation 5 жыл бұрын
Like challenging the Flash to a game of tag, lmao.
@jefftalbotmusic 5 жыл бұрын
@@dorianphilotheates3769 Equally bad to mind a psychological play with a game professor
@PhilippeLarcher 5 жыл бұрын
probably not an idea, more of an habit and intuitive behaviours (just learned what's usually effective by intuitive trial and error over years and got into the habit of practicing it)
@vanleeuwenhoek 5 жыл бұрын
so it's like trying to make a medical doctor sick?
@cowboy4378 4 жыл бұрын
Peterson: “gotcha” Newman: “so you’re saying that you now own me.”
@CarolinaAnzures 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@Baron_Blue_Max 4 жыл бұрын
He DID own her
@Baron_Blue_Max 4 жыл бұрын
@Sirius Stark Al Ghul this comment popped up and before I recognized the thread, my initial thought was "what did I say now?"
@danielrodriguez9987 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo
@lesterjones5278 4 жыл бұрын
@Sativa Rommola so what your saying is asia is incapable of engaging in underwater combat
@K162KingPin 2 ай бұрын
I've been doing this for years, and never realized the technique behind it. I was raised by a Father who never appreciated any thought or idea he didn't believe was his. So I learned from an early age the art of letting the other person have my idea. I have since used this successfully in business and personal life for decades. People get so hung up on making sure people know something was "their" idea, that they miss out on having it widely adopted.
@lizzy_bu Ай бұрын
genius!
@JoyCrossbridge Ай бұрын
That’s very insightful and remarkable! It speaks to your confidence in your identity (even as a child) and a rare kind of high achiever that seeks for the greater good rather than primarily self glorification. God bless you!!!
@HallPhoebe Ай бұрын
This is so true ! Who care where the idea came from?!? If your ego needs that, then go for it. Take it as your own.
@K162KingPin Ай бұрын
@@JoyCrossbridge That's a nice thing to say, I never though of it that way. I was just trying to keep the peace and get things done :).
@JoyCrossbridge Ай бұрын
@@K162KingPin “Humility is the surest sign of strength.” ~Thomas Merton You unwittingly learned to turn your negative circumstances into something positive…that’s wonderful spiritual alchemy! ☺️
@She.33 2 ай бұрын
I love the bit about the risk of offending a person and how Jordan answers it, "In order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive. You're certainly willing to risk offending me in the pursuit of truth. Why should you have the right to do that? It's been rather uncomfortable." (I also love the hilarious comments in here.)
@stevemiller123 4 жыл бұрын
The level of patience Peterson has is just out of this world.
@zekehatcher2196 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, when i argue with people, Ibget unpatient that they wont realize that they're wrong, or that im right, and they just keep babbling ao that they can somehow make themselves right, or make me wrong
@woutervanr 4 жыл бұрын
It's just common sence. He knows how visably getting angry makes you look and as psychology professor he knows exactly how anger works.
@replevideo6096 4 жыл бұрын
It really gives you the upper hand if you are laid back and patient when the other person is attacking you. It wrong foots them because they wanted to make you angry and it doesn't work. I had a boss do that when I was representing another worker's interest. I just sat back patiently and let him vent his anger until he ran out of steam. Then I calmly asked him if we could discuss the subject now he had got that off his chest. Needless to say I walked out of that room with everything I went in there to get, and the worker was delighted that I had won for him. If you lose your rag, you are going to lose the argument, and that boss knew that. So did Cathy Newman. If Jordan had lost his rag at any moment she would have made mincemeat out of him.
@catenaa4594 4 жыл бұрын
Yes being a woman myself I have to agree and I also would have to be tied to the chair!
@Adiudicium-1776 4 жыл бұрын
I could not agree more! I so wish I had his level of patience!
@sharsSafeSpace 3 жыл бұрын
This lady doesn’t even want him to talk. She just wants to hear her own voice
@ironcrosstrainingltd6482 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@somebloke13 3 жыл бұрын
She's no lady...
@MysticalGB 3 жыл бұрын
She is womansplaining xD
@robofistsrevenge3288 3 жыл бұрын
In my experience, the people who talk over you refuse to listen because they're terrified of the fact that you may be right and they may be wrong. That terror manifests in frantic anger, which is why ignorant people are so frustrating to talk with.
@hagartm 3 жыл бұрын
This video is montaged in a way that makes her seem like a bully (if I had to decide whether she really was or not, I'd say she was), but we lack context. The cuts are way too short.
@normapadro420 2 ай бұрын
I've learned since I was very little that I wasn't worthy of anything. Eventhough I saw many successful people on television. I saw very highly intelligent people too. I never believed that my environement was going to play a role in my future. This is why I involved myself in educational goals. Graduated from High School. Graduated from College. I never listened to the put downs. If I did I would never create Art. Photography. Become an Author. Compose music for movies, television, videos would have been an obsticle for me, and never think that I would mount to anything. I didn't believe that I couldn't make it. I learned everything I wanted to learn through reading books, and anything educational. There is no limit, but the one you place on yourself.
@RoninMike-DR Ай бұрын
This is true
@carolinemcgovern8059 Ай бұрын
Well done.
@patriciaknode8638 2 ай бұрын
The “right to not be offended” line always cracks me up. This isn’t a right.
@RoninMike-DR Ай бұрын
You only have the rights you can afford to defend.
@willowskid Ай бұрын
there is a great south park episode about this
@JulyIsMagaMonth Ай бұрын
They offended individual need only choose not to be offended. Also, not a "right" anywhere in the world.
@Blogdorf Ай бұрын
When I was studying Law I learned that it is not illegal to offend someone, i.e., to hurt their feelings. So she's arguing that a person has a legal right to not be offended? Give me a break. People get their feelings hurt all the time. Only if you're living in one of these goofy, liberal, socialist countries can you get legal relief for that.
@1312Johnny Ай бұрын
@@Blogdorf’goofy liberal…’ so, the entire western world then? 🤷🏻♂️
@anthony_gaytano 4 жыл бұрын
KZfaq: How to avoid embarassing yourself in an argument "so you are saying that i embarrass myself in every argument??"
@gabrielbelmont1496 4 жыл бұрын
I know that I do
@salmansana3997 4 жыл бұрын
Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhh powerful one, for whoever understand it
@ThereIsNoSpoon678 4 жыл бұрын
This comment is the winner.
@morrishellgrn 4 жыл бұрын
I used too
@osamana7163 4 жыл бұрын
Nice one
@Ard-mhacha-abu 4 жыл бұрын
Peterson: “What a clear, sunny day.” Newman: “So you’re saying clouds have no right to be here?”
@roye6961 4 жыл бұрын
she was just trying to make sure she understands whats hes implying, because Peterson's arguements most of the time werent consistent enough to serve the premise
@georgeisaak5321 4 жыл бұрын
hahahahahaahaha the best comment ever ...she is insane
@Tobyodd 4 жыл бұрын
@@roye6961 I can't tell whether or not you're joking.
@Kratezia 4 жыл бұрын
@@roye6961 How about answering then ?
@amihere383 4 жыл бұрын
@@roye6961 I really truly hope you were joking. Peterson literally could not have been clearer in his positions.
@DanielCunningham-bm5vb 2 ай бұрын
I remember watching that interview, and feeling my own anger at people using these aggressive tactics on me, the strawman thing and gaslighting and assuming you already agreed to the sale, et cetera. Thank you for analysing the debate so well for me. Now if only I could remain calm and not go into suppressed violent thoughts when verbally attacked.
@mcmorrowm 2 ай бұрын
These awful cancel culture people have taken alot out of Peteresen's hide, too. Keep fighting back. He does.
@oneoranota 2 ай бұрын
Learn defensive rhetoric and apply it. Your anger comes from your powerlessness. Once you can back up yourself, you'll feel much better. It's kinda necessary because the world is full of self centered assholes.
@tongpoo8985 Ай бұрын
Above all remember that you are righteous, when people choose to engage in that kind of thing, you are above them by default.
@Electrocycle300 2 ай бұрын
Having blown off university learning, it’s so very nice to watch MR Peterson at work. He’s such a genius. I recall watching this the week it happened. Might’ve been the day but was so awesome
@marc4199 4 жыл бұрын
Notice how she asks a question, then talks over him when he tries to answer.
@Andy-ud1gd 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, but only in the entire interview.
@gordonlawrence1448 4 жыл бұрын
She is absolutely renowned for doing that as are most feminists as quite often they don't want to hear the answer as it will not fit with their agenda.
@robinkoci7227 4 жыл бұрын
My teacher does that as well, when were having an argument
@KKBash 4 жыл бұрын
@@robinkoci7227 That's just sad. If you are clearly wrong, it will come out in discussion. They seem afraid to be proven wrong. Show this to them. Re-evaluate your tactics. What you're doing makes your position look less correct because you're attempting to shut someone else out of the conversation, pre-emptively. Take a moment and THINK.
@lydia6379 4 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what my mom does...
@johndevries7397 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan: "I like dogs" Kathy: "So you're saying that you hate cats?"
@bgmagma10R 3 жыл бұрын
Every liberal everywhere. Freakin nut cases
@emmamcgorrin2478 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@spartan2906 3 жыл бұрын
Running or Jumping in excitement. "So you are trying your level best to make the life of the disabled person miserable. Don't you ? "
@edurom2111 3 жыл бұрын
@@spartan2906 haha on point
@WSlabb 3 жыл бұрын
@@bgmagma10R We'd need to see substantial evidence for that. Especially when you state "every". Not most, not many, every. Please show the evidence.
@FT-vg9mj 2 ай бұрын
"So you're saying...that you have just ended my career?"
@words007 Ай бұрын
Honestly she did, 😂 haven't heard of her since 2018. Since JP annihilated her
@raydarable Ай бұрын
Cathy Newman moved on, when will you?
@carolinasoulshine8949 2 ай бұрын
I could not be in the same room with this lady. He could have annihilated her but he always is checking himself... brilliant human
@julieclark9173 2 ай бұрын
That's no lady!
@stefanwilson4562 2 ай бұрын
She made me want to throw up 😂😂😂😂 he handle her brilliant ly.
@YeshuaKingMessiah Ай бұрын
Good Lawd She annihilates herself Yuck
@johndo7742 Ай бұрын
@@HappyOne3 Cathy is a perfect example of the consequence of equality of outcome. Had the broadcaster chosen the best inquizator for their chief interviewer, they might have stood a better chance of embarrassing Dr Peterson. But then of course that inquizator might have been a white male which would have blown away their ludicrous agenda.
@jesussaves7973 Ай бұрын
@@HappyOne3🙏🙏 for new job
@Longspout15 3 жыл бұрын
Him saying “gotcha” actually helped her. The awkward silence would have been much much worse for her.
@pz4891 3 жыл бұрын
Fact
@Wafelwaffel 3 жыл бұрын
Agree
@bakerzane3055 3 жыл бұрын
But not the right move
@agustinloera9026 3 жыл бұрын
Great point
@lehmanndj 3 жыл бұрын
So once again, he was being nice.
@leonardogrecolozano4100 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan: breathes Interviewer: So you're disrespecting dead people
@blondegiraffe2023 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@xchalibur77 3 жыл бұрын
This has gone "a bit" to far...
@Cassiellynn 3 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 Like seriously
@amanijm746 3 жыл бұрын
Ha haha hahaha Haa... This comment nearly killed me!
@T.Harry79 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@lenarsa66 2 ай бұрын
The most impressive with JP is not that he's intelligent and smart (many are but not many that publicly) the most impressive in my eyes is that he's seem to really be working on himself, not to win only but, to actually grow. That's unusual in our time. And he share's that journey, which might even be unwise for him perdonally but ... idk...
@kimt1776 2 ай бұрын
Watching this to learn how to talk to my mother. She is a true "conversational bully."
@E4439Qv5 Ай бұрын
So... you're saying you've been enabling her?
@austinarmstrong9729 25 күн бұрын
I hate how much I relate to this comment 😂 my dad popped into my mind instantly
@haroldgoodman130 4 жыл бұрын
He is a clinical psychologist with years of experience dealing with angry, self righteous people like the interviewer.
@takaw.d8486 3 жыл бұрын
in otherwords this may have been her show, but it was his episode
@emmanueledumuomongole5447 3 жыл бұрын
@@takaw.d8486 yes, 😂😂😂
@wasabi.2839 3 жыл бұрын
Let's add the fact that he have a PHD in Clinical Psychologist, and was a Post Doctoral researcher (in the same matter) for 3 more years, and been the author and co-author of more of 100 academic researches.
@takaw.d8486 3 жыл бұрын
@@wasabi.2839 yep all of that up against some angry whining baby that can only say a few words "g-g-gu gu-so youre saying that-"
@Bottleofwater-n5y 3 жыл бұрын
Oooh that's why he's so good with words, he gets under people's skin with cheap tricks too by begin a psicologist
@TharaMesseroux1 5 жыл бұрын
Peterson: "You look great today". Interviewer: " So, you're saying that I was ugly yesterday?"
@JDMilitaria 5 жыл бұрын
gold
@podcastworld-o3q 5 жыл бұрын
Girls are girls😴
@lalili1358 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes they twist your words
@mjkrh 5 жыл бұрын
"YES"
@Hypergangnam 5 жыл бұрын
Interviewer: "Are you religious" Peterson: "Depends on what you mean by religious" Interviewer: "Do you believe in the Bible" Peterson: "Depends on what you mean by the Bible" Interviewer: "Are you a man capable of answering questions" Peterson: "Depends on what you mean about man, capable, answering and questions" Yup. You Peterson fanbois love to make fun of women like pathetic incels. Yet your hero is equally pathetic as the women you attack.
@karenmitchell2902 Ай бұрын
This wasn’t even a two party conversation this was the My way Cathy show
@m.deleon6277 2 ай бұрын
This one is tough. I was listening to him talk about this conversatio. They had Met in the green room and he said that a lot of her views aligned with him and that she was a very pleasant. He was actually taken back by the way she acted onset.
@alanamaharaj 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan: I..... Cathy: So you're saying you're the only one?
@danielbuxton205 3 жыл бұрын
hahaha! That was a good one Alana.
@pureintellectualbeing3575 3 жыл бұрын
Good one Alana
@RiptoGakt 3 жыл бұрын
This. I had witnessed a classmate (who was actually a real b!$%# under the surface, which I clued into long before) go about doing exactly what this woman did to another classmate with whom I was on friendly terms with. This was in college, and the professor for that class had actually gone to the effort to get them to explain to each other clearly exactly what they were saying. Too bad the girl went and spread bull about her behind her back a day later in another class, all because she was an insecure piece of work (I pity her boyfriend, though). I really hate when people pull stuff like this because they're essentially putting words in your mouth that you didn't say just to get under your skin. It's one of the reasons *why* I absolutely dislike arguing with people, especially if they're never going to admit that they're the ones who are full of it.
@ally-nb1cx 3 жыл бұрын
we almost have the same name!
@costarica3014 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@noraknoy4261 2 ай бұрын
I'm a female, and I am grateful for men like Jordan. He tells women what men want and not what we want to hear. I'd rather have a man than have things.
@chrisfleischman3371 2 ай бұрын
Yes, life goes much easier when we seek to know the reality of the situations we are in.
@pjm8609 2 ай бұрын
Oh my god - you are shameful
@stevemiller1517 2 ай бұрын
That liberal female mentality is why l never married and still single at almost 70.
@janes2180 2 ай бұрын
Okay Nora, and have you been picked yet?
@judiejackson4312 2 ай бұрын
I would rather have a man like that in the world with us, there should be more of them. I personally don't want a man or woman, I do have "things" but I also have a great relationship with each of my children and my good friends and family. Cathy here thinks she is being so clever but I am seriously embarrassed for her. She is being sneaky and bulldozing him with various "points" running into him with several ridiculous points buried into one sentence. If she were playing a game, I would say she is being sneaky and cheating.. Jordan Peters on is the hero if this game in my opinion. This woman is keeping him on his toes but he handles it well. I couldn't have handled it so well. He is incredible.. I also agree with loads of his views and believe he was treated terribly by not only this interviewer but by others and by his university and by his government..
@SABOREAME68 3 ай бұрын
⭐⭐⭐⭐ Unquestionably, the most annoying attitude of Cathy Newman is her ability to continuously talk over Jordan Peterson. This shows the level of non courtesy when conducting an interview.
@VNewGenerationV 5 жыл бұрын
She said "so your saying" over 20 times that interview.
@akshaykumarjha9136 5 жыл бұрын
over 75 times in the actual video!
@brwhizz3060 5 жыл бұрын
*you’re
@yongliao7014 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe they are trained to do so.
@speechfreedom7242 5 жыл бұрын
Libtards love this phrase, they absolutely do. I’ve encountered this illogical phrase countless times - whenever I try to get a point across, they just throw it at me.
@Rx7man 5 жыл бұрын
It's the tone in which they say it, clearly Newman was trying to entrap Peterson, but you could say the same thing in an ordinary conversation and it would be fine.. Newman was clearly looking for straw for her strawman though
@uafc1 4 жыл бұрын
Peterson: "Is nice to see you" Interviewer: "So you are saying is ugly to see every other woman?"
@thegreath.sapiensapien6907 4 жыл бұрын
CATHY YOUR SAYING ABOUT 50 TIMES
@ThoughtinFlight 4 жыл бұрын
Tbh most woman do this
@JustTheColemans 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@Polones12 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Sigurther 4 жыл бұрын
I think that's the most telling thing about this 'interview'. Every question she asked of him was just a warped and twisted regurgitation of a valid point he'd made that she simply couldn't accept or understand. It was't so much an interview as a hit piece. You could tell in the way that she shotgunned questions she was reading from her tablet that she didn't care about answers, merely wanted to hurl accusations at him.
@Ruifulify Ай бұрын
Just stumbled onto your content and this is great stuff. As someone who suffered from social anxiety from a young age, it's taken a huge blow to my ability to communicate effectively during contention. I'll have to dive deeper into each of these concepts to get a better understanding. Thank you!
@ausgoogtube01 2 ай бұрын
Good analysis. Very helpful. Thanks for putting this up.
@thebookwasbetter3650 3 жыл бұрын
I liked it when he said "it was nice talking to you" at the end of the interview. The only untrue thing he said.
@TheFirstManticore 3 жыл бұрын
Well, it may have been uncomfortable, but for Peterson, that kind of conversation adds to his total understanding of humanity, so he is still glad that it happened.
@bobsapsford7526 3 жыл бұрын
Should of said nice of you talking at me.
@lesp315 3 жыл бұрын
He simply enjoyed toying with her and he let her know. I wish to be at his level. Maybe next life.
@RyaKey 3 жыл бұрын
I'm with Manticore on this one. The response could have been genuine, cause both of them left with an experience.
@dansanchez9251 3 жыл бұрын
I think Cathy got hot for the man
@DanielMartinez-nw1pn 3 жыл бұрын
"How to avoid embarrassing yourself". 1) Don't be Cathy Newman
@mikegrigg11 2 жыл бұрын
Damn, that's accurate !!
@AA_04 2 жыл бұрын
2)Don't speak what the media feeds you
@rrmark6294 2 жыл бұрын
Classic 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@nogoodname8133 2 жыл бұрын
1) don't be a communist/socialist...
@kennedymungai 2 жыл бұрын
If she was interviewing Kim Jong Un, I'm pretty sure you'd think she is doing a damn good job. In my eyes, she did her work splendidly. In normal conversation however, she'd be a huge red flag giving off narcissistic vibes
@stevethompson8504 Ай бұрын
Watching this conversation progress actualy hilighted to me that I already do effectively recognise and confront these pitfalls and traps in everyday conversation without having to intentionally watch out for them as such .which comes naturaly if you really are listening to what others say to you and consider being precise about your wording before you speak .i think that it follows that if you practise trying to convey to people in conversation exactly what you mean then you do also look carefully at their wording to ascertain its validity in the context that they're being applied. The ones that you should walk away from and disregard are those who have to be right now matter the level of denial that they have to embed themselves in to do it .I know one person at least ,an older guy i work with who is so set in his own ways that he reacts defensively, to even rather shallow depth that I present in my points of view. That ."So your saying phrase "! Coupled with a strongly dismissive attitude. But it isn't about what I'm saying at all ,and is really about him choosing not to listen properly because he cannot cope with the complication of details .being drawn into discussing details that butt up against his frustration and impatience seem to be the true cause of the issue .
@budmackenzie Ай бұрын
I've watched the interview several times, though with your help this is the first time I see just how quickly he responded to her poop. Thanks, and thumbs up again Jordan.
@Tsukiko.97 6 жыл бұрын
Peterson: "I like cats". Interviewer: "so you are saying that we should kill dogs"?
@mattbouler1439 6 жыл бұрын
Abyssinia Empire hahahaha yep
@makeshiftplayer 6 жыл бұрын
Abyssinia Empire politics in a nutshell
@Bubbles99718 6 жыл бұрын
If u reversed that I would agree with it.
@CitizenAgim 6 жыл бұрын
that sums it up
@nickdipaolofan5948 6 жыл бұрын
Bingo!!! Peterson: Womens individual choices effect how much money they make Interviewer: So you are saying that you hate women and will actively try to keep them down financially and eliminate women's personal choices...................
@adonisparts1343 4 жыл бұрын
I'm starting to think this was less of an "interview" and more of an interrogation.
@diatom333 4 жыл бұрын
just an attack on him really
@and1smax 4 жыл бұрын
@@diatom333 and a horribly backfired one
@harryshome4588 4 жыл бұрын
Stargate fan I see 👀
@Shungabali 4 жыл бұрын
and a very agressive one by the way
@sophiesjourney1551 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a journalist and I believe this is a very bad piece of journalism. The woman is clearly biased and is constantly attacking him.
@MotifMusicStudios Ай бұрын
Super interesting! Loved your unpacking of these conversational techniques!
@jaredosterhage6428 Ай бұрын
I love this! You had the luxury of calm contemplative analysis after the fact. If you could do this in the middle of her wretched performance , well then you could pretty much win any debate. But I would have to memorize what you said and then then STUDY STUDY TO SEE IT IN THE CONTEXT AND THINK, THINK HOW I MYSELF, COULD DO THE SAME. But thanks for the demo….well done. What do they teach them in COLLEGE THESE DAY?!?!!!
@deadmonsterhr7209 4 жыл бұрын
Jesus christ i barely talk properly, now i have to talk like im playing chess...
@TodMusicOfficial 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@thepsychicpeach8425 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@dylangaeta6462 4 жыл бұрын
Four player, three leveled holo star wars chess.
@thalassaer4137 4 жыл бұрын
@NO NAME haha no hail satan
@elvishabonimana8796 4 жыл бұрын
Smart comment, made me think of it in another way
@kelvinrodriguezjr2184 3 жыл бұрын
"Winning" an argument is easy. Changing someone's mind is another story.
@asharnk 3 жыл бұрын
Do you think Kathy is of the kind whose mind you can change? Lol
@sonicpoot5692 3 жыл бұрын
Nope
@bluemcdaniel99 3 жыл бұрын
Then you gotta wonder is it worth that.
@ceoofracism2178 3 жыл бұрын
That is what free speech is about... I can silence one person but that doesn't mean that i won... I just silenced that person... I didn't actually won...
@nexpro6118 2 жыл бұрын
Winning an argument or debate is subjective. Each person will always say that they won the debate. Majority of people want there personal views and beliefs to just be fact without evidence.
@theodorevegh6030 Ай бұрын
This is priceless. It happens to me all the time. People talk to me as if they are my boss and I am under their control. It's really good how you explain it.
@ramzimakarem1837 5 күн бұрын
Very educational, thanks for pointing out important debate techniques.
@ravindupabasara3016 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan: "YES" Kathy: "So you're saying NO?"
@arnoldhorton8115 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan: "NO" Kathy: exactly
@sankalp2520 2 жыл бұрын
Kathy every 10.0 seconds: "So you're saying..." _Proceeds to say something which he never said._
@ravindupabasara3016 2 жыл бұрын
@@sankalp2520 😂😂😂broo😂
@ravindupabasara3016 2 жыл бұрын
@stefano Greco H. thnx mate😘😂
@uncleJuancho 2 жыл бұрын
Laugh really hard with this one 🤣🤣
@yj5172 5 жыл бұрын
Peterson: "Hi" Interviewer: "So you're assuming I can speak English?"
@sininenblue9161 5 жыл бұрын
The north is just lost Polar bears, seals, ice, water, a pole, it's a MESS
@shantanusingh5320 5 жыл бұрын
Peterson: I am actually right though.
@apricotmadness4850 5 жыл бұрын
PenisMcWhirtar How is Autism a sign of being lost?
@kierstanfaulks 5 жыл бұрын
@*Black *Maple* shutup snowflake
@gemmaster9369 5 жыл бұрын
Peterson: ohhh, so you really like Dogs??? Interviewer: oh Yeees. Peterson: so you agree that the Cats should be all killed?!!!!
@MasonDarwin 3 ай бұрын
@Charisma The "Ha Gotchya" was good I think. It was an attempt at *play* and *breaking the tension* of the interview where he's showing that there is no hard feelings with her going at him as her job is requiring her to do. Never mind the pot stirrers that want to make something out of nothing. He says one small phrase and gets more criticism than what she did to him for the entire interview.
@murrismiller2312 2 ай бұрын
kid : he didnt "MAKE" her 😖... he brought her to a point of humility - wisely !!
@ThisHandleFeatureIsStupid 5 жыл бұрын
Jordan: **inhales in preparation to speak** Cathy: "SO YOU'RE SAYING..."
@wokecults 5 жыл бұрын
and the winner is... :-)
@IR240474 5 жыл бұрын
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL - This is the best one!!
@Smiley_Face0 5 жыл бұрын
Level asian
@fabooshka 5 жыл бұрын
So you think you have more right to breathe oxygen than women
@Denyshowe 4 жыл бұрын
@@fabooshka Why, yes. Yes I do.
@EliasUlrich1984 3 жыл бұрын
We all know Jordan deserved his "gotcha" moment.
@philipberggren1823 3 жыл бұрын
The entire interview was a gotcha moment.
@Mistanyycguy 3 жыл бұрын
@@philipberggren1823 So what you're saying is, Cathy won the debate?
@Mistanyycguy 3 жыл бұрын
@Michael Jordan lol I know, my comment is just a meme
@Mistanyycguy 3 жыл бұрын
@Michael Jordan can be hard to read sarcasm on the internet sometimes 😂
@TheJacklikesvideos 3 жыл бұрын
he definitely indulged after considering it a net benefit of breaking the silent tension for her. it was a pretty friendly gesture playing on how trappy her incessant strawmen were.
@oldschooltakingyaback 2 ай бұрын
To imply that by saying, "Gotcha," closed the door on a potential eye-opener on Kathy's behalf, after having stated she's committed 5 negative/aggressive conversational tactics is denial 'on command.' It was a perfect phrase for an aggressive, not truly listening just waiting for their turn to speak individual like Kathy. The lady isn't having a conversation. It's someone who's trying to have a monologue & win.
@amandachilds5290 2 ай бұрын
At 6:11 mark, I paused it and said I'd tell her that she should answer her own question since shes been dispalying textbook abusive behaviors and extreme anger this ENTIRE Interview, and that if she'd rewatch herself with some honesty and integriry, then perhaps she'd offer up better advice than he ever could for these supposedly abusive and angry people because frankly we ALL know it takes one to KNOW one and she clearly speaks their language better than Peterson ever could!
@steedandersen 4 жыл бұрын
He deserved that "Gotcha" after tolerating her attacks.
@tommyodonovan3883 3 жыл бұрын
That was SWEET.
@aqua3418 3 жыл бұрын
He may have deserved it, but doing the same thing the other person does is never the right move when it comes to winning anyone over. It only is on their same level - humiliating and demoralizing them. It wasn't in good taste, but everyone makes mistakes. Overall, he still did an excellent job - certainly much better than many others do.
@CHIEF__ 3 жыл бұрын
I saw it as more of an ironic "gotcha" like he wasn't trying to do that, but he's happy he got her to see his side without belittling her. If he could've taken control of the interview back right there and said something like how he didn't actually want to have a "gotcha" moment, and he's happy she's seeing his side, it would've made him out to have taken the high road and still beat her.
@tommyodonovan3883 3 жыл бұрын
@@CHIEF__ Jordan was playing with her. He has treated 100's of women the carbon copy of *Katty,* the most telling part of the whole interview was when JP said; "I suspect that your unpleasantness has served YOU very well over the years" Katty's rep; "Yes.... YES it has in fact" JP was gentle with her, because he knows just how mentally fragile she truly IS.
@daquan99999 3 жыл бұрын
@@aqua3418 If I were Jordan, I don't want to win that woman over. So Gotcha all the way.
@iambuhlockay8007 4 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson: “I’m an analyst and therapist.” Cathy Newman: “so what you’re saying is you’re an Analrapist?” Edit: I no longer care for Jordan Peterson.
@unknown-zg2bb 4 жыл бұрын
Stop stealing comments
@guppy0112 4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant! 🤣🤣👑
@angmmm6667 4 жыл бұрын
Alek Blaylock 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@yummygummy2133 4 жыл бұрын
Bruh 😂😂😂
@oregol93 4 жыл бұрын
@@Afs-g1clor cuz it's exactly same comment from original video
@lisageorgette8254 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this insight.
@manjmartin9562 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this insightful video, just excellent
@adamstaszewski9235 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan declaring, "gotcha" was actually a gracious way of breaking the tension by lightening it up a bit. He could have annihilated her and let her stew in her embarrassment.
@chiselcheswick5673 3 жыл бұрын
Great point. He pulled her out of a hole there i thought.
@Jayako12 3 жыл бұрын
He actually felt bad about not being able to refrain himself from saying that. He has explained several times that there he lost the opportunity to have an actual intellectual conversation based on that topic. He could have redirected the "debate" to what he pursues, logical expositions. Instead he himself admitted later that he lost his temper there and with it, the gateway to completely change the discussion.
@howielowis458 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jayako12 i really doubt that this conversation actually could have turned into an honest, intellectual debate. Not under these circumstances. Even if she started to understand and maybe even agree to what he was saying, which to an extent i think she started to do at that very moment, there is no way she would have abandoned her agenda while being on live TV. In a private conversation? Possibly, but not in this situation.
@wxxcable 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. He’s absolutely a gentleman
@brunovaldez7986 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent point
@Chamieiniibet 5 жыл бұрын
I think that "gotcha" was intended to be more like ice-breaking, not humiliating. Kinda "stop attacking, let's laugh this off".
@lzzrdgrrl7379 5 жыл бұрын
@John Galt But she did save her position by a strategy I'd call, 'taking the hit. She's a bit stronger by admitting she's taken damage and that allow you to like her a little bit......'>.......
@a.wilson4809 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed. It contrasted so sharply in tone with the rest of the interview that it made him come across as a lot less combative. He gave her an exit out of a tough situation where his silence could have just forced her to change the subject or apologise for making him feel uncomfortable.
@tkyk4893 5 жыл бұрын
I mean at the end of the day they're both professionals and should look out for each other every now and then despite their different views. I think Jordan momentarily kinda felt that empathy given it is her show. It would've been incredibly awkward if they both just kept silent while she takes the blow and tries to stutter her way back in. Props to Jordan for recognising that.
@wtfhowbizarre1946 5 жыл бұрын
If they'd stop hacking my phone that'd be great. They're damned malicious with hacking. who are they?
@kcis5940 5 жыл бұрын
I felt like that too
@jimbarth9859 Ай бұрын
I think I watched this video shortly after its creation and enjoyed it and got a little something out of it. Without really noticing, I've probably watched it once a year since then. And as I watch it now most recently, 6 years down the road... Wow. I don't know if it's just me. But this student is getting more and more ready for the teacher.😅😜 Fantastic stuff. I've learned to implement a lot of it in the last 6 years. Integrated it to the point that some is without conscious thought. Wow. Is life getting easier. Thank you.
@maureengannaway7328 Ай бұрын
I'm glad this video came up. It's going to help me deal with family members that are narcissistic bullies...I hope it helps. I hit the 👍🏽. Thk you
@Grimblenork 3 жыл бұрын
I always felt the moment he said "gotcha" was more to spare her from the humiliating silence he had placed her in
@machuverigjummai4484 3 жыл бұрын
It's true
@nathanielfleku3416 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@oofer754 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed.
@AnkitSingh-cd7tw 2 жыл бұрын
like the way how this comment is worded in
@danzed2058 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly right !! Cos, you hear the awkward silence and then you're thinking, 'someone help here'...and than the true knight in armour Peterson comes to this woman's aide.
@emilbyberg103 4 жыл бұрын
How to keep cool: have decades of study, research and professional experience in your field
@Chillymosquito 4 жыл бұрын
Surely it can’t hurt your case
@iAmNothingness 4 жыл бұрын
Unlike that woman that didn't work for anything
@ImChickenLittle 4 жыл бұрын
Or just don't care
@zinkarius7 4 жыл бұрын
Short : competence
@jmarch_503 4 жыл бұрын
What if your field isn't psychology
@anthonyorafferty5632 2 ай бұрын
Great break down. I learnt some real strategies that iv'e been hit with.
@5sugarpicker 4 ай бұрын
Too Many People Will Misconstrue a Simple Message & Twist Everything Out of Proportion
@steveelliott77 5 жыл бұрын
The “gotcha” was the best part of the conversation. Jordan showed he can keep his cool, be persuasive and beat her at her own game. The trifecta.
@nicolab2075 4 жыл бұрын
I thought the gotcha was actually him being very kind and helping her out of a floundering silence by making a joke of it. That he had indeed won the point was obvious to all, no need to do the gotcha on that. Does anyone agree with me on this?
@RandomCarrot2806 4 жыл бұрын
I think I agree with you. I know Jordan said that he regretted saying it because he thinks that if he hadn't he could have moved the discussion into something productive instead of it going back into being adversarial but as you say, the gotcha released the tension of her becoming speechless after she realized she wasn't making sense. It's hard to know what could have been if Jordan had let it go to an awkward silence while she regrouped.
@nicolab2075 4 жыл бұрын
@@RandomCarrot2806 That's interesting. Although her style was very confrontational, I'm not sure she'd have changed it. She didn't seem well prepared for his academic style, I suppose she's used to interviewing politicians, who run a mile if a journalist hints that they're being anti feminist
@tressmcdonagh9253 4 жыл бұрын
Go home girl twisted a twelve year old knows better love you Jordan her intellect was zero
@realm23x73 4 жыл бұрын
@@nicolab2075 excellent point. And edit, I definitely agree he's not usually ever as interested in owning anyone as others are, which is the point of the guy making the video I'm sure.
@edwardsbaron3935 5 жыл бұрын
Arguments aren't about using facts anymore. It's about who can whine the loudest.
@Rattattattatt 5 жыл бұрын
depends on viewer criteria. I'm amazed at how many people use the above for theirs.
@biggyboris5540 5 жыл бұрын
thats the difference between an argument and a debate
@shankCR7 5 жыл бұрын
facts do win the convo but convo with halfwits, it doesn't work haha
@itsjohnnyyo1930 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, yes woman do this a lot
@Gioyoji 5 жыл бұрын
Lol if you let them whine louder
@lydiapetra1211 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video....I have learned new way of handling situations.... wow
@bermbuster6 Ай бұрын
Awesome! Learn so much from your communication examples
@dodieodie498 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan knows himself and he trusts to logic. That makes him comfortable in his own skin. He also has the patience of a saint.
@emmanuellelarocque9440 3 жыл бұрын
I always thought: people that won't let you talk, will twist your words ect, don't actually believe in their own arguments. Peterson knows that he's right so he'll just let his interlocutors talk until they imminently contradict themselves.
@dodieodie498 3 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuellelarocque9440 The narrator is right....it's conversational bullying. Sometimes overt, but often sneaky or veiled. They aren't there to listen to your point of view or learn something. It's like a battle for them. I see so much of that in KZfaq comments. I think most of us just react with anger and maybe get flustered and deny whatever accusation is being thrown. Jordan is very good at not allowing people to get a rise out of him. Instead, you can usually see them getting annoyed. It's very enjoyable to watch.
@nexpro6118 2 жыл бұрын
Jordan stays calm the majority of the time because he knows that he has stats and research to back his opinion. Which is why in all of his interviews and debates, he always asks the other person to present the evidence and they rarely ever do
@dodieodie498 2 жыл бұрын
@@nexpro6118 I think he has a sort of confidence in what he is saying because he has already thought it all over very thoroughly at some point. His business seems to be thinking and analyzing and trying to come to grips with how things are connected and how they work. And it is also instruction and enabling others to understand, which equips him to defend what he says. Even so, he will pause and consider, in case there are other possibilities, before he responds. The people he debates are seldom so prepared.
@nexpro6118 2 жыл бұрын
@@dodieodie498 very well said...and with that said, I think most people who debate with feelings and the sense of having a higher morally superiority just personally attack the other person because he and or she cannot rely on facts and stats.
@yvesm.8855 5 жыл бұрын
Peterson: "I think..." Interviewer: "So you're assuming that I DON'T think?"
@castleberries 5 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Poetry4Peace 5 жыл бұрын
ahaahha😂☺️😪🧐😈
@narieee2543 5 жыл бұрын
this is a good one hahaha
@percyharrison4414 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@beemerrox 2 ай бұрын
Great breakdown! You got a new sub and recommendations!
@blade913 Ай бұрын
Another way to describe their word choice. Notice that most of their main statements are directed at you, acknowledging YOUR thoughts, YOUR decisions. Good highlights in this video, you brought up some great examples. I noticed the same issues with salesmen, and I hate it when they do that. One of my main points to teach people when they "debate" points, is to listen to your "opponent". You will often find we share ideas, concepts and knowledge. Finding these shared ideas, are the beginning of reaching an agreement. Remember, debates are not necessarily conducted to "win". They are to find common ground. Convince the other side.
@ramonmaximiliano3557 4 жыл бұрын
Jordan: uh... this conversation is getting annoying Cathy: So you're saying talking with women is annoying
@SSJfraz 4 жыл бұрын
Yes.... as with all women.
@counsela9240 3 жыл бұрын
lol
@Amir-tv4nn 2 жыл бұрын
Name one person in this world who wants to talk to her? I bet she got divorced after this interview lol and she should. This woman needs mental help asap
@ryangamerguruji7500 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@lovesjewelry1 2 ай бұрын
“ no that is what you are saying… what led your mind in that direction, I really want to know.”
@audiotap8332 6 жыл бұрын
"It's been rather uncomfortable." That's an amazing line.
@Sweatykeyboard 6 жыл бұрын
Followed by the 2 seconds long frowns face, followed by the smile, hahaha
@jeremywilson15147 6 жыл бұрын
The change in body language really drove it home for sure.
@alfredgomez3906 6 жыл бұрын
The smile originates at the upper lip area. It’s almost like a scowl. It says “I can’t stand you but I’m still going to be civil “. His smile is the most overt action to contempt for the interviewer.
@schrenk 28 күн бұрын
Good information here. Thank you! (Liked and Subscribed)
@AshleyMeredith-u9u Ай бұрын
Excellent video! Very much appreciated!
@Valdaur 5 жыл бұрын
*Reads title of video* so you're saying that I already get embarrassed in arguments?
@jghifiversveiws8729 5 жыл бұрын
Title of the video: Yes, yes I am.
@THEMATT222 5 жыл бұрын
@@jghifiversveiws8729 , LOL
@THEMATT222 5 жыл бұрын
@@jghifiversveiws8729 , LOL
@THEMATT222 5 жыл бұрын
@@jghifiversveiws8729 , LOL
@THEMATT222 5 жыл бұрын
@@jghifiversveiws8729 , LOL
@richardbartholomew542 5 жыл бұрын
Peterson: sips water Newman: ‘So you’re saying we should let Africa die of thirst?’
@matthewadejumo9397 5 жыл бұрын
This is a bad take.
@yashim08 5 жыл бұрын
@@matthewadejumo9397 that's the joke
@sludgerat666 5 жыл бұрын
@@yashim08 he was making a joke as well
@grinnifer 4 жыл бұрын
LOL
@crazycatladyinc9191 4 жыл бұрын
He doesn't fall into the "we as a collective" game. There are plenty of groups and individuals working on behalf of Africa.
@SpinBuster2024 Ай бұрын
Every time I come across this video, I want to leave a thank you comment, so finally I do... Thank you, I think this is one of your best episodes, and something everyone should watch at least once, hands down
@renaldflores212 4 ай бұрын
Brilliant video. Thanks.🎉
@rizu9955 3 жыл бұрын
im jealous that jordan can have fun in this kind of situation because he's just that good at speaking with people
@ash_1419 3 жыл бұрын
You can be too
@jout738 2 жыл бұрын
Yes he’s old and experienced. Young and unexperienced people would maybe get aggresive. Jordan just needed to always explain how it actually is and so it made her like complete fockibg clown, when she every single time went for reason misunderstand him.
@user-dr5nt2is7f 2 жыл бұрын
That too, but I think his confidence comes from his understanding of his logic. He fully knows what he's talking about and is intelligent enough to know what other person is talking about.
@jrFRA118 2 жыл бұрын
He did handle this interview brilliantly but he has later said that it had been extremely stressful for him to go through it, and that it took him a couple of days to recover emotionally from it. He is brave and smart, but human nevertheless.
@edwardsarhuda2595 2 жыл бұрын
Me too man.i had to master my art of being "extreme calm"
@scooobydoo27 3 жыл бұрын
The "gotcha" was a human reaction. Jordan has said that before the interview, Cathy was very polite to him and they were having a nice conversation. Once the interview started, she switched from having a conversation into a pre-defined character with motives other than just seeking the truth. She is not trying to have a conversation with Jordan, she is trying to create sound bites and achieve some sort of victory over him. The gotcha was from having to be patient and put up with this nonsense and knocked her completely out of the character that she had been playing. Frankly, he was a lot more polite than 99% of the rest of us would have been.
@kackdackel9170 3 жыл бұрын
It's all show business.
@seymourbuttz2253 3 жыл бұрын
Oh ok.... so it's show business to be fake and not real towards others. I see now
@booyah7415 3 жыл бұрын
That isn't new. Most talk shows do this to their guests. They would purposely agitate the guests behinds the scenes; once they get up on air, the guests would be in a bad mood. Shows that do this are Dr. Phil, Ellen show, Tyra banks show, 90 days fiance, etc. Drama=entertainment=money
@jesusantaya202 3 жыл бұрын
@@kackdackel9170 I mean the topic was talking about freedom of speech 🤷🏽♂️ which people are trying to change.
@DEEP_WOKE 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, very polite she was.... I like how she complimented him often and never tried to vilify him at all. She's the perfect example of someone who is ABSOLUTELY IN NOW WAY a misandrist... Not one bit!!! Not at all!!! uh uh... NO sir!!!
@AnteMeridiem11 4 ай бұрын
Discovered your channel. Watched a few videos and I am hooked. Good job. Keeping making more such videos.
@stefanmaslaczyk1259 2 ай бұрын
George Galloway gives some great tips on how to handle a debate or questions. His first tip is never to accept the presumptions behind a question and to immediately challenge if you’re not happy with them. George’s performance when questioned in the US Senate was legendary. He ripped his accusers to shreds. It’s highly entertaining and on KZfaq.
@johndo7742 Ай бұрын
Yes, Galloway's weapon of choice is the exposure of hippocracy. His opponents probably end up wishing they'd never messed with him, like wrestling a skunk and ending up smelling like one. Dr Peterson uses the same device in a more gentle way, pointing out to Cathy she could be violating his right not to be offended (if such a right were to exist).
@allmotivation3827 Күн бұрын
Yes! I knew there was going to be a very helpful reply in this tread. Thanks!
@KpxUrz5745 4 жыл бұрын
Someone should have warned her that this man is extremely intelligent.
@VeryProPlayerYesSir1122 3 жыл бұрын
based.
@turboragtop 3 жыл бұрын
If she went to Oxford no warning should be needed
@frankbridgwater4098 3 жыл бұрын
@slam slam she’s literally just doing her job as an interviewer; the chances are she was told exactly what to say
@dangelocake2635 3 жыл бұрын
Not that he's not intelligent, but debating ia much more about emotional intelligence than any other kind. And that's his true merit.
@alexfarias5156 3 жыл бұрын
@ Compared to intelligent men she's not very intelligent. Maybe she's intelligent for a woman.
@DjShadowsound265 5 жыл бұрын
Peterson: Good Bye Interviewer: so you're saying I asked you to leave?
@dannysmith697 5 жыл бұрын
Ahahahaha
@ingenious5480 5 жыл бұрын
😆
@wtfhowbizarre1946 5 жыл бұрын
Who is doing an interview？And what for？ This video is about How to keep your cool in an argument.
@edwintsang920 5 жыл бұрын
Andrew Dembegiotis best one yet
@tomaszkowalski7867 5 жыл бұрын
You don't even need to say anything. You are joging. So, you try to tell me I'm to fat and I need to lose weight?!
@WorDouglas8 Ай бұрын
This was really cool - Much appreciated!
@againandagainau 2 ай бұрын
You talked through the entire video and did my head in.
@leestorey2764 3 жыл бұрын
He is a psychologist and is the hardest man to argue with, and her entire game plan was to try make him slip up with what he’s saying and get him to twist his words, it was a televised slaughter fest and she didn’t even come close
@philliptjackson 3 жыл бұрын
@Kevin Tewey No, that is not what he is saying... lol
@feelinghypothermic 3 жыл бұрын
@@philliptjackson yep, we are catching it live in 4k the "so, what you're saying is .." trick. You implement the tips in the video correctly sir Phill
@bait5257 3 жыл бұрын
@@philliptjackson gottem
@travisborst528 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan peterson isn't a good debater, he's an excellent public speaker if you already agree with him tho... but as soon as he's on stage with any one that has experience with public debates he's made a fool of... like the debate with Matt dillihunty
@travisborst528 3 жыл бұрын
@Luc Germain it's actually not, for example let's look at what made him internet famous, his critique of Bill c13. The bill didn't say what he claimed it too... he was hyperbolic about the imitations than none of which came true, he's absolutly out of his depth when he talks about religion and atheism, his comments on lobsters arnt true in the way he describes it or relates it to how people interact... he constantly spews word salad, sounds smart but he doesn't actually back up most of what he says... there is a reason he's considered a joke now by most people familiar with him but not a follower...
@judigamroth7736 Жыл бұрын
I once had a friend who did this to me. She was great at deflection also. I solved the “problem” by leaving the friendship.
@shainavergith183 Жыл бұрын
did what exactly?? debate your different POVs? answer all your questions in a civilized manner? or prove she was right while simultaneously proving you two actually did agree on the basis of the concepts? i guess i dont see "the problem"... unless of course the problem is that you simply cant handle different ways of thinking and are threatened by the challenge of a different frame of view. hmm, the world may never know.
@calimorysquid Жыл бұрын
@@shainavergith183 I think they mean the friend was like Cathy, and not JP.
@goldfishboom8132 Жыл бұрын
@@shainavergith183 you're using the smash technique like Kathy in the video . Cuz you are bitter and trigger 🤣🤣
@nos703 Жыл бұрын
@@calimorysquid nah I still think she doesn't see the problem with this lady's way of communicating. There's actually a lot of information in the breakdown, and it goes quick. But nonetheless, the narrator breaks it down the way that the interviewer is manipulating the conversation. And unfortunately this person doesn't see it. I used to be very passive aggressive, and aggressive, myself, with my communication. Trust me, if you don't see what's wrong, and you ever want to have meaningful relationships, I suggest rewatching the video to see where he points out the ways she is manipulating the conversation. I suggest to them that they rewatch this video, and listen to try and learn from it.
@robyjacker Жыл бұрын
@@shainavergith183 YOU are the reason this video even exists in the first place.
@scapps8173 2 ай бұрын
I love that Gotcha moment. I hope it sticks in her mind until the end of time.
@muxion Ай бұрын
Nice job, very helpful
@TheChugg11 4 жыл бұрын
I wish he hadn’t said ‘Gotcha’ and just sat in silence: I believe he said it because he felt bad for her and threw her a bone.
@philiplam541 4 жыл бұрын
Yes...dead silence would have been much more embarrassing to her. She actually smiled at that one.
@joesmo2042 4 жыл бұрын
Could you link it?
@KSGomez88 4 жыл бұрын
@@joesmo2042 at 10:03
@winstonacousticstudio445 4 жыл бұрын
that is one awkward smile.
@SandipanNath123 4 жыл бұрын
He actually said that in a playful tone and tried to temper the discussion.
@wisdom10able 2 жыл бұрын
Jordan: I haven't had my lunch. Cathy: So you're saying I should make you a sandwich.
@septicalfrogs 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@trumanfenwick8409 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@vishnu5466 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, this is a copied comment
@MIHMediaInc 2 жыл бұрын
Paranoia can do that to a person turning every simple sentence into supposed threat 😅
@thesupreme8062 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@J.MartinWills 2 ай бұрын
JP: Its weepy Wednesday. Kathy Petersen: So your saying taco Tuesday cause volcanic diarrhea.
@celestebenamara6606 2 ай бұрын
Fascinating to watch!! Two different perspectives and the opposite argument styles. Jordan Peterson , Logical Argument, sometimes with bursts of emotion. Cathy Newman with Emotional Appeal. I found out by experience that is easier for the logical to understand the emotional than the emotional to understand the logical.
@BuddhistTushar 5 жыл бұрын
Peterson: "silence" Cathy : Are you implying that talking to a woman isn't worth your time?
@piergiorgiobenenati3698 5 жыл бұрын
Good one
@Crick1952 5 жыл бұрын
Legend27
@Volosous 5 жыл бұрын
Peterson: **silence**
@PC-uh6hk 5 жыл бұрын
I say that talking to women is a waste of time and even dangerous to men every day and I mean it, women know that they can lie about you and spread it all over town and a man can be arrested after having done nothing wrong and they say you can't hit a woman. Today's women are dangerous and they know it they use our judicial system like a club and you better be able to duck.
@Naaman05 5 жыл бұрын
Ohhh my soul😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
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