living your life from one goal to the next goal is not bad, but if achieving your goals is what makes you happy. then you will never be happy

Its true. I have so many designer handbags. Its takes the thrill out of it and I dont wear them. If I only had 1 or 2 then I would appreciate it more and actually use them. This applies to several areas of our lives.

“Everything we do is to gain pleasure” Freud would have agreed with this initially but then later on he talked about how we sometimes can override the “pleasure principle” through what he called Repetition Compulsion whereby we are compelled to repeat patterns that are not necessarily pleasurable and he said that this was particularly true if people have experienced trauma

"I have seen everything that is done under the sun, and behold, all is vanity and a striving after wind." (Ecclesiastes 1:14)

Thanks for making this; I got a lot out of it. Appreciate it.

"Everything we do in life is to gain pleasure, if anyone disagrees I'ld be happy to have a debate session down in the comments"... Well, the very book you're summarizing presents (rather strongly) an argument against that: "Pleasure is great, but it’s a horrible value to prioritize your life around. Ask any drug addict how his pursuit of pleasure turned out. Ask an adulterer who shattered her family and lost her children whether pleasure ultimately made her happy. Ask a man who almost ate himself to death how pleasure helped him solve his problems. Pleasure is a false god. Research shows that people who focus their energy on superficial pleasures end up more anxious, more emotionally unstable, and more depressed. Pleasure is the most superficial form of life satisfaction and therefore the easiest to obtain and the easiest to lose. And yet, pleasure is what’s marketed to us, twenty-four/seven. It’s what we fixate on. It’s what we use to numb and distract ourselves. But pleasure, while necessary in life (in certain doses), isn’t, by itself, sufficient. Pleasure is not the cause of happiness; rather, it is the effect. If you get the other stuff right (the other values and metrics), then pleasure will naturally occur as a by-product."

I thought it was a great book and I took a lot away from it. It's been a while since I read it and this video got me inspired to reread it. Thank you for this and great job!

not only to do with pleasure, a greater motivator is avoiding pain

Awesome series idea and I really like how you presented things.

This book has been sitting on a shelf in my closet for about a year and a half. I think I’m getting around to starting it tonight before I sleep and making it part of my nightly routine.

Love this 🙌🏼 just read the book and love how you summarized it. Thanks ❤️

good summary but am i the only one who hates the backgroundsong ?😭

Nice breakdown, great read. They key to knowing what’s important is truly knowing what is not. Peace.

Have just read this book, and can attest that it's amazing!

Pleasure is the hedonic view. Fulfilment is the hedaimonic view. Pleasure: Buying something, watching a nice movie, spending time with friends, going to a spa, sex, but also drugs and addictions. Fulfilment: Following your path, living in line with your values, getting great at things, creating something.

I read both the books but even then loving your video!

I feel super content in my meditation sessions (many times); but 100k/year would be good too!

Love from India.. Explain very well

Fulfillment is a better persuit than pleasure or even hapiness. I think it makes more sense even when evaluating if a long term goal is worth present sacrifices.

The book is contradictory it comes down to you doing wats best for u and makes u happy

I suggest this subtitle for the book: "Love one another. Improving the human society." :DDDD

Amazing job bro!!

Great summary, keep it up.

Great contenttttt man help me out a lot!!

Got me as a subscriber with this video!

Just one question ? With which software you make these animated stories ? I just want to learn about animation films

Everything that you do is based on how "Happy you feel"... grasp

I actually had a funny story to share. I was trying to explain to my daughter how this method really of thinking really helps me, but I felt like a comedian trying to explain this method of thinking to her and tried not to swear saying words like "poo and even trying not to use the word shit." "We have to let our poo run sometimes" I told her. She said "like the refrigerator is running" "is this a joke" she said. and I kept trying to explain without saying bad words. But I ended in saying "you'll understand when your older. I love this book and how it helps to not make a big deal about everything and focusing on higher priorities. But it's so funny hearing people try to repeat out loud what it means without swearing. "if my poo can run, yours can too." Because we all got shit to do. Excuse my language. But don't try explaining it to kids under 10. Lol 😂😂

Nice summary 👐🏼🌝

Cool book and video 🙃

impressive knowledge

Great video! Quick question “the enjoyment you’ll get from pursuing more experiences will be overpowered by the enjoyment you’ll get from the depth of experiencing a few things to the fullest” I didn't really understand, going into tons of dates and traveling many countries is pursuing more experiences, but I would enjoy more the life of community and settle down?

This pairs well with that meditation book "30 Days to Stop Giving a Shit" by Corin Devaso.

life is not about happiness its about experiences... things that made you happy before fades away from your memory down the road but memories that stay with you forever are times you been in some crazy shit... (during the moment you was scared, after you reflect upon it as that was awesome) for example I was surfing out on a huge day at pipeline, I took off on a wave and eat shit, held under water for 30 seconds while getting tossed under water, i ended up getting scars on my legs which i still have to this day. I was scared shitless and wished i never went out. Now that i reflect upon in it, i dont have a single regret and truly believe im a fucking madman What is something yall can never forget?

Thanks

u look rlly excited when ur speaking its funny

6:36 you said the f word 28 times. And the n word once.

Hey the video is awesome keep up the work.while sound sync* needs your attention

These are only first three chapters of book... Please tell us about the complete book

good job

Omg TIME SAVING

Nice video

What software are you using that makes the hand draw those pictures?

Keep it up Miss your work

This is a great review of the book. Thanks for uploading.

You can find Quotes of the subtle art of not giving a f here : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gdadfbx10pvSY5c.html

The problem is that some people misunderstand the concept oc not giving a fu.... they turn themselves from being struggling to being passive and careless

This book does have profanity, but, balanced with some tough love about how to actually be happy and how failure is the only way forward.

"F*ck you wall here have a fist" XDDDD

This summary has inconsistency from the original book. Lmao

Great summary

Great job 🖤🙏🏻 👏🏻

6:35 woah u might wanna be careful how u pronounce that in the future lol

Good summary. Thanks. BTW ...it Arnold Schwarze"Negger"... not Nig.....js

Plays at 02:40

This is your first world problem. It's not that you work more for money to buy pleasure things, in my case and my country, most people don't have choices. We work more for food to put on our table, for our family to have something to eat and somewhere to shelter ourselves from the harsh environment. You can only say you don't give a f if you aren't born into poverty or in a corrupted country. It's not just food and shelter that we worry about. We also have to work extremely hard to provide for our family, and the money to cover our doctor fee because we live in a polluted city.

longing for your new vdos. ur too good to quit

If you gave me 50 million smackeroonies to live on, I'd agree more with this book.

The reason why this hits me so hard is because I always blame others at my faults. Whether it caused by people or calamities, I always feels like the victim in this whole life. Which in fact it isn't. It just life works that way, and me having to begin improving at something has nothing to do with it. I may not be the greatest person in my life, but at least, I'm better than my past self

Neat

tl;dr - understand that Pareto principle and how to prioritize (don't give a F* about the low importance/low priority things). The Pareto principle states that for many outcomes roughly 80% of consequences come from 20% of the causes (the “vital few”). Another name for this principle is the 80/20 rule.

What's the title of your book sir where can I find it

I was looking for a summary of a summary 😂😂😂

Instructions unclear. I lost morality.

i watched this , then watched another video and then returned for the summary and second point fucked me up

This book is ok. Bought it together with the book "You Suck" by Paulie Amigo. "You Suck" was a little better, but both are good. I suggest getting both together.

Something that books like this overlook is how important fulfilling pre-existing obligations (mortgages, marriages, etc.) Even when goals shift or change, you have the obligations and promises previously made that remain to be fulfilled.

The more is not always better😅

About "Everything we do is to gain pleasure." Um, no. Say, my wife whom I am about to divorce asks me to go to the store to buy tampons, which I have never done before. On the way, I get to a traffic light where there are no other cars at all and I have a red light. I stop while thinking about the pile of work I need to get done by the end of the day that I am not doing because I am on an errand for someone I no longer love while stopped from doing what I need to do by a light that doesn't see that there is no reason to stop me. What pleasure am I getting in stopping?

How can I make my own picture videos

Life isn't about pleasure, but escaping suffering.

Isn't the voice track clipping?

His mouth!

Gain pleasure or avoid pain.

Young Markiplier.

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I’m afraid you lost me at 12 slices of pizza…

Success is to find a place to stop.

Yo, did we read the same book?

What is happiness ?

7:23

what happened to new content?

great singer, next time increase the music sound it was barely heard.

I don’t even give a fuck about finishing this video ✌🏼

You might want to give a fuck about your mic volume. 😁

I came here from Joey Bada$$

This is good but the music is distracting me especially when I am multi tasking.

The fact that you said everything we do in life is to gain pleasure means you didn't understand this book. Pleasure does not equal happiness it is simply a temporary high.

Less is more

"i am not gonna continue censoring because i am NOT GIVING A FUCK"

Sorry but background Music is Irritating.Howerver containt is really good.

ah thank you very much for making this video and saving me time to read this 1st world capitalism celebrating pseudo bs of a book. 2min was enough for me to know to not touch it and not to give a f about it. so thanx for saving me the time, sincerely someone from 3rd world who knows how starving feels.

The has many false claims like story of buddha. It was represented totally wrongfully Author should have done more studies before writting about person like buddha.

I disagree. I'm here for the debate session down in the comments

I have the not giving a f book but I didn't read it cuz I don't give a f

Hey girl I’m going out of the work for you I can do that tomorrow if I want you know that you want me a few things I can get you in the morning and then you have a chance I will talk to you in the Morning

I stop watching because I no longer give a ____

The summary is very much incomplete

Good video but music is extremely distracting and annoying

Oh...man ....get serious!!! Its like ur getting a charge outa saying curse wirds. Is that cool in Japan??