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When I started, fake it till you make it was the conventional wisdom when it came to learning how to meet people and become confident doing so. This helped me a lot in the initial stages, I created a brash character. There's definitely something to be said for acting AS IF. For those who are not natural extroverts, the idea of meeting and talking to new people is abhorrent. But hovering at the side of a room hoping no one will notice you is not going to improve your odds of success. Instead, *force yourself to act as if* you’re not horrified at the thoughts of forced conversations, put on a smile and say hello to someone. Eventually you figure out that a lot of the folks in the room feel the same way you do about these situations. It won’t get easier immediately, but it will over time.

Bro you attract such a unique crowd nowadays, you're definitely leading from the front on the company's transition into specifically teaching transformational experiences

Authenticity sells everything. After all, in a society built around lies, isn't that what we all long for deep down? You made me realize it's not about who you portrait, but how you portrait yourself. In fact it's deeper than that. It's not even about portraiting anything, it's about being without the need to be anything but what you are. It's our most fundamental battle against ourselves, the fight to be someone we're not. We want to own everything, but we never own ourselves. All because we think impressing other people is more important than being authentic. Such a huge flaw in our upbringing/society. We, as a society, are manufacturing shells of people, and then wonder why we all face the problems that we are facing currently. It's like running a server on cheap computers that were merely made to look cool on the outside.

Hey man, love the work you're doing. I know for a fact that you've helped so many guys and so many people. Appreciate your work!

This dude is on another level. In the near future, I am pretty sure Julien Blanc is a name most people will know.

I LOVE IT, ze deed het echt geweldig. You should come more to the netherlands i would love to come if i can convince someone to come with me :)

It seems like accepting your own emotions and the present moment.

Wisdom as always 🤝🔥

THIS KIND OF THINKING IS WHY JULIEN IS THE BEST ! THIS IS HOW WE SHOULD ALL BE THINKING AND ACTING !

Very Helpful

This gave me such a stupid smile I love it

0:51 the way she look at the camera man tho brooo 😩

Very helpful video julien! 👏 Just a question! How to know my version of charisma?

Can i ask if you did inner work at this event ? i want to see it so bad

I died with the crazy wiggle worm part

Instant like when I heard about your girl playlist haha female voice is just magical :) We just have to own it haha

Hey julien, do you have any advice for body dismorphia? Specifically living with someone who constantly makes you not want to be around them because you feel bad about yourself around them?

Don't be a model citizen with individual attributes. Be an individual with cooperative attributes.

Hey i was talking to a girl who was stranger then in conversation I called her dude and then she started calling me buddy, dude etc! And i felt like my 😂verbal energy got shared all thanks ❤to u julien Your videos are literally worthy

“Character is higher than intellect… A great soul will be strong to live, as well as strong to think." -Ralph Waldo Emerson Authenticity trumps all my friends 🔥 Great video Julien!

0:53 ¿Cuál es la versión de caricatura de ti? Cuando ves a alguien con mucho carisma, en vez de preguntarte cómo puedes ser como él, preguntate cuál es tu versión de ese carisma que ves en él.

I have struggled with shyness most of my life and I only have one ? For you..... Is your little girl song playlist private??? I also started one of these for my girls who are 8 and 6, and wanted to see if there's maybe a new to me great song out there that I'm missing out on....

0:51 Bronn: I'd... I'd love her

Haha kroketten That was good :D Greetings Form germany :b

11:28 when she said friends why those two sitting moved like that🤔 strange are they friends?

How do u know that this version of u is acceptable or effective in an public speaking setting or this version of u is suited for being on a date , or this version on this environment etc

Obviously in holland haaah

The caricature version of me might be a cross between Hannibal Burress, Rakim and Steven Wright.

Gekoloniseerd

Are you still in the Netherlands bro? Let me take you out if you end up east in the country! Hit me up

Yoooo that accent, was this in the Netherlands? DID I FUCKING MISS IT?!

Sorry all I noticed was the camera guy

He really does sound French when speaking German 🤣

Omg my fave is World of Warcraft too! Add me on battle ID 😂 they call it “warcrack” for a reason

Guy in orange t shirt has some dutch accent ...

Seems to me that the problem here is almost all of us are NOT extroverted loud outgoing demonstrative supercharged people like Julien is. He says what is the supercharged version of us? Well, that would then be someone who is extremely quiet, extremely introverted, and more unlikely than ever to succeed in demonstrating charisma to some stranger. What I got from this aggressive video is that to do what he says, we must become the exact opposite of what we are now. And lord knows that can never work! Becoming supercharged is completely unrelated to the core of our present selves. Let me give a small example. As an artist/designer who worked in NYC, I did some work for the owner of a small firm after an introduction by a fellow freelancer (both of them female). I (male) tend to come across as modest and quiet, so when meeting this new employer I did not boast about my skills and background at all. I did illustrations for her for the client Canon camera products. She found them to be incredibly well done and perfect, so she told the other woman freelancer that "he really undersells himself", which got back to me. Here was a rare case when one gets to hear a real opinion about how I may appear to others. But, was that going to change my personality going forward?? Absolutely not, because to do so, that would mean I have to become what I consider to be a "braggadocio a88hole". For me, let the talents speak for themselves.

Julien looks stressed out at the moment. Like he needs more sleep and exercise, not hating just saying.

I like you but please fire these kiddish sales man then dnt know well how to beg.

Love you Julian, but please don't ever say "cuck" again. The right wing has stripped that word of all meaning in their overuse, just as they did "beta" before it.

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