The Truth About Being A Girl
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@nelehasnoclue3235 3 жыл бұрын
"A real girl isn't perfect and a perfect girl isn't real" -Harry Styles
@OdiaSongLyrics 3 жыл бұрын
Love Harry Styling
@JameyLeanneCooper 3 жыл бұрын
“It only take a second to call a girl fat and she’ll take a lifetime trying to starve herself think before you act” -Harry Styles
@zoemilklover6603 3 жыл бұрын
i have a yellow sweatshirt with that exact words, never knew it came from Harry styles, thanks beb 💞
@janjosephmadriaga3164 3 жыл бұрын
a perfect girl is also called a waifu
@soccersmith8956 3 жыл бұрын
he just said the same thing twice...brilliant, a true philosopher.
@Babe-mg7he 3 жыл бұрын
That one girl looking down at 1:50 looks like she can relate to this so much .
@StrangerThings4Lf 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. she does
@idk-im3qb 2 жыл бұрын
As an author myself, she is such an inspiration for me. I hope she gets the recognition she deserves
@garimaaaaa 3 жыл бұрын
"Boy, please, the moment you misidentified everything was when you forgot that not even 100 years ago, i could not vote" 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 *Well said queen*
@hanzothegreat1257 3 жыл бұрын
You still shouldn't vote
@jimmyjohn6479 3 жыл бұрын
Who the hell cares what happened 100 years ago were you alive to be oppressed at that time? No? So what’s your point?
@samusaran7317 2 жыл бұрын
@@jimmyjohn6479 Its the oppression olympics, didnt you know?
@trentreffner5699 2 жыл бұрын
100 years ago, she forgot that men (UNLESS they owned land) could not vote either. *Well neglected queen*
@bersolo6870 2 жыл бұрын
@@trentreffner5699 well a woman whether she owns a land or not can't vote
@saketthavanani312 3 ай бұрын
I am a guy and I find this really inspiring. Every man needs to listen to this speech and give respect to women.
@waterdreams.s7245 3 жыл бұрын
"Silence can't exist if it's not tolerated." 💖 The way you said it.❣️❣️You're a legend 😢
@trentreffner5699 2 жыл бұрын
The vacuum of space doesn't care if you tolerate or not.
@humanbeing1754 2 жыл бұрын
Facts don't care about your "I'm a woman and I'm oppressed" type of feelings Please stay in touch with facts and do not believe in exaggerated "Violence on women" statistics Women aren't anything as opposed as the media and news channels show you
@Madi77767 Жыл бұрын
@@humanbeing1754 first of all why are you everywhere in the comments, second of all where are you getting your facts from bc you’re just spouting bs left right and centre. Do you genuinely think women are going to be open about being sexually assaulted or harassed? Personally I was harassed by someone who I thought was my friend for three months, and I didn’t tell anyone for so long, and that person would not leave me alone. Do you genuinely think the statistics are correct? Do you genuinely think a woman is just going to say yup I have been raped?
@Faatimahbaksh 2 жыл бұрын
THIS IS THE TRUEST THING IVE EVER HEARD HOW IS THIS NOT VIRAL
@TheRealSeeJ 2 жыл бұрын
Because it comes from a spoiled place
@josephstalin8298 Жыл бұрын
Because it’s stupid as helll
@nejlarexhepi9873 Жыл бұрын
She slayed
@Marlena-Lash Жыл бұрын
@@josephstalin8298 Why do you think it's stupid? It's the truth in what women have to deal with every day
@lilab3870 2 жыл бұрын
“Equality is education “💗
@sophiehanna591 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! ❤
@marianafrancisco7551 Жыл бұрын
This speech means sooo much to me !!!! I hate men cause im afraid of being raped, especially on summer, everytime i go out i feel mens or even old mens looking at me like sharkbait like im some kind of meat they want to buy its purely disgusting and scaring !!!! That makes me wanna hide in my room forever and im 23, 24 this year i should be living my life but instead i cant even find a job cause i dont have a dregree and i dont trust people out of my circle !!!! Being a girl is wayyyy hard everyday !!!!! But we make it trought cause we are survivors and fighters !!!!!!
@bucko2263 Жыл бұрын
Sorry that second line
@B-rb4ze Ай бұрын
You can’t judge all for the actions of sum
@eigentlichtoll02 27 күн бұрын
obviously those men find you attractive and they just perceive you this way they are also (sadly) biologically programmed to do so and though this looking can be very creepy and uncomfortable, it is not a crime you can also try to start a neutral conversation in some moments sometimes to normalize the situation, or say something like "can I help you?" (can't hurt to have some pepper spray when possible though and keep a good friend updated where you are in some situations) (maybe there is also a big difference when coming to a rather urban, open-minded region or city ?) also it is important to overcome fear, though this is said _far_ easier than done of course..... also when you can identify traits in yourself and friends, that make you/them a trustworthy person, it becomes easier to trust strangers and get a bit better at identifying them
@BrailleGamer04 8 ай бұрын
I love her inspirational speech! This is so true💕😭 Stand up ladies!
@cr7world671 3 жыл бұрын
This is great ❤️❤️❤️
@soccersmith8956 3 жыл бұрын
no, not great, she is misinformed.
@eggs708 2 жыл бұрын
That gave me chills
@kleinexpoetin 3 жыл бұрын
my favourite poem
@SillySausages_123 Жыл бұрын
THIS NEEDS TO BE VIRAL
@m4l_101 3 жыл бұрын
*Damn this hit me like a truck*
@lemmetellusum4884 2 жыл бұрын
Or maybe the Wall :)
@vlovescats05 3 жыл бұрын
this is awesome because it ain’t even pseudo feminist and she has a speech Dear Girls where she speaks about equality of women and men and not just women empowerment i love this
@Salam.2000- 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. She respects both men and women equally. Love that.
@reeseexplains8935 3 жыл бұрын
@@Salam.2000- no she doesn’t.
@Salam.2000- 3 жыл бұрын
@@reeseexplains8935 You clearly didn't bother enough to watch the entire video. You just made an abhorrently wrong assumption. Thank you. Peace. ✌☮
@reeseexplains8935 3 жыл бұрын
@@Salam.2000- I think you need to watch the video again. She acts like all boys are obsessed with sex and vilifies them throughout the entire video.
@Salam.2000- 3 жыл бұрын
@@reeseexplains8935 She mentioned in her video, "It is ALL of you clearing the path for every woman and every MAN." She even gave her father as an example of someone she respects immensely for raising her the way he did. Before you judge, please take the time to take in all that she stated.
@kristen.santiago8485 3 жыл бұрын
Who is that 1 person who disliked this video? This was so inspirational and touching.
@humanbeing1754 2 жыл бұрын
The people who disliked were intelligent Please stop this feminism
@xifuu 2 жыл бұрын
@@humanbeing1754 oh sorry that i think us women should have equal rights. let me just sit in my place while some men objectify me.
@humanbeing1754 2 жыл бұрын
@@xifuu if you want equal rights, become a supporter of egalitarianism, not feminism. Feminism policies are not pragmatic at all.
@locallonerlol2716 2 жыл бұрын
@@humanbeing1754 why are you so against it? it's not entirely a bad thing. it's true. im sorry you clearly don't understand
@humanbeing1754 2 жыл бұрын
@@locallonerlol2716 it's because the promoted policies are inefficient in the long run.
@jonug7660 3 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! Really true
@reeseexplains8935 3 жыл бұрын
Really false
@hannahreynolds9446 3 жыл бұрын
@@reeseexplains8935 are you a man? Cuz if you are of course you think that.
@reeseexplains8935 3 жыл бұрын
@@hannahreynolds9446 here’s proof she’s wrong. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/lduThZBis9XIcac.html
@ashantijordane1862 2 жыл бұрын
Truer words have never been spoken
@gauriarora5921 2 жыл бұрын
This made me cry 😭💓
@animista9824 Күн бұрын
This made me laugh 😂🎉
@hansalidissanayake7683 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@velissavigil4817 2 жыл бұрын
You are amazing and inspirational and I am only 11 my life is like this
@animista9824 Күн бұрын
Kid wtf, why and how the hell are you relating to this?
@trynotagree 2 жыл бұрын
Who can make a correct script of her speech (subtitles are not correct), I need it for my school research project. I'm learning English and having trouble understanding some words she'd said.
@veronical1890 3 жыл бұрын
This is the sad cold truth.
@reeseexplains8935 3 жыл бұрын
No it isn’t
@veronical1890 3 жыл бұрын
@@reeseexplains8935 i really don't care if you agree with me
@user-qy6ub2mr3i 3 жыл бұрын
@@reeseexplains8935 Stfu
@jonathanfarley2023 3 жыл бұрын
@@veronical1890 And yet, you are wrong.
@veronical1890 3 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanfarley2023 shut up
@ncxymj8182 3 жыл бұрын
This girl is really beautiful Too bad the world is blind
@humanbeing1754 2 жыл бұрын
She might look beautiful to others going by the beauty standards But she has no facts, all her statements were exaggerated, biased and misinformed
@rcqr4148 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah ur right staring at a screen all day ain’t to good for my eyes I think I’m going blind
@novawaffles2818 2 жыл бұрын
@@humanbeing1754 let me guess, you’re a guy.
@clouddy4836 2 жыл бұрын
@@humanbeing1754 your probably a guy and some areas are worse than others. While men aren’t always offenders and can be victims too, women are mainly targeted. 1 in 6 women are raped or almost raped
@hopelessly_loveless 2 жыл бұрын
@@humanbeing1754 ur a guy aren't ya?
@chiefkeyes5359 2 жыл бұрын
Aija Mayrock should have a discussion with Helly Shah. This is a human problem not just male or female, we should stop dividing each other. We are in this together one could not exist without the other. The views would explain a lot, but the algorithm is not perfect. I have to say Helly Shah video was the next video in the feed. So it seems to be getting better from my experience. It's the traditions you should be angry at not the male or female, fore all of what one knows is what one has been told. Experience only confirms it.
@AkitaNormandy 3 жыл бұрын
you rock!
@reagan2636 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people are arguing in the comments about this message and honestly my opinion is that neither women nor men should be sexualized wether that be by anyone you know or a stranger. Women are not objects. Men are not objects. We are all human and we need to start living like every person is important bc they are and no one should be sexualized or anything like that. Not all men violate women verbally or physically. Not all women violate men verbally or physically. Not all women are gold diggers. Same for men. We… are… all… equal… 💗
@eigentlichtoll02 27 күн бұрын
Maybe one can also cultivate a shift from objectifying towards allowing for a positive sexualization that includes what your partner actually needs and wants, to make them feel good, being listened to, valued, loved...
@watcherwlc53 20 күн бұрын
well crafted words
@alexarobledo3681 3 жыл бұрын
The 1 person who disliked this gonna catch these hands!!
@loser4630 3 жыл бұрын
Dats wats up 🤜🤜
@lowmainan9340 3 жыл бұрын
Lol👀
@josephstalin8298 Жыл бұрын
LOL like a woman could fight anything
@moorthymp Жыл бұрын
Lol
@JohnSmith-td7hd 2 жыл бұрын
"I used to blame girls too (Now I blame only men because it's so much easier than being honest with myself. A scapegoat was there the whole time! What was I ever doing saying that women hold up half the sky?)."
@jayeverything 2 жыл бұрын
She needs Kevin Samuels
@bencrow9497 2 жыл бұрын
Every feminist does lol
@heenasootwal2603 3 жыл бұрын
💖💖💖💖
@pretty_tae160 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lilab3870 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@gacha_wolfertin8792 3 жыл бұрын
All the thumbs down have to be boys
@gemma5045 3 жыл бұрын
True
@serenrawat3503 3 жыл бұрын
@@gemma5045 stop grnlzing plzz
@commieman3781 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao stfu and go back to gacha or friday night lol
@ticmusic3641 3 жыл бұрын
Boys really need to stop disagreeing with the fact that this is telling you something about being a girl I’m a boy and this massage is telling me something... I shouldn’t follow what other men do to women
@munchingcherry8634 3 жыл бұрын
Please don't simp dude I promise you it ain't helping you
@gemma5045 3 жыл бұрын
Finally someone is normal and finally someone who is loyal and respectful
@humanbeing1754 2 жыл бұрын
@@gemma5045 wage gap isn't oppression, it's simply basic economics that feminists don't understand because their feelings get hurt
@gemma5045 2 жыл бұрын
@@humanbeing1754 eh but men tend to sexualise girls who even aren't feminists tho explain that
@humanbeing1754 2 жыл бұрын
@@gemma5045 when did I even mention anything about social and physical issues? That was not the topic I mentioned. I just said, wage gap isn't how feminists describe it to be, that's it. Feminism is economically flawed. And about the topic you mentioned, Sexualization isn't a gender specific issue either. Why are you saying "Men tend to sexualize girls" ? The reality is "Horny and uncontrolled people sexualize others in unsolicited ways". These horny and uncontrolled people include both men and women, not only men.
@ItsSAD 2 жыл бұрын
This is a poem but a speech That is a...... Someone give me the name please
@sapphictheaterkid5471 2 жыл бұрын
Spoken word :)
@ItsSAD 2 жыл бұрын
@@sapphictheaterkid5471 yes thankyou
@HK-bg5eh 2 жыл бұрын
Is she rhyming or is it me? Anyways I agree ✊👩🏻👩🏼👩🏽👩🏾👩🏿
@SOPHIA-um8lg Жыл бұрын
Yes bc it’s a poem
@jacobscism 10 күн бұрын
Look she's right i always try to look woman in there eyes and and appreciate them as one of Gods masterpieces but still being devoid human touch and affections makes him look in all directions when he knows its not proper but can't help that he has organs wanting crawl out of himself
@ROBERT-fd4kl Жыл бұрын
Good-looking guys are sexually harassed by women frequently. It's an issue for both males and females.
@DeepakKumar-xv5tq 3 жыл бұрын
02:38 Screeeens
@micaponce6982 3 жыл бұрын
That girl, that was fucking awesome❤🏳️🌈
@Etzrnity 3 жыл бұрын
She’s right we are not objects.
@lowmainan9340 3 жыл бұрын
But y'all are kinda like products, no offense, no bs.
@JameyLeanneCooper 3 жыл бұрын
What kind of products are we shampoo and conditioner or other products
@lowmainan9340 3 жыл бұрын
Prostitution, lol. Financial Trade, go watch Anna Bey admitting it.
@JameyLeanneCooper 3 жыл бұрын
@@lowmainan9340 so we’re products then
@lowmainan9340 3 жыл бұрын
@@JameyLeanneCooper, I like how you looking and examining the comments see if I ever did appraise. And yes, they are products to bought for such as Maid, Prostituting, and more. And here's the thing, y'all are gold diggers(not all some) They can actually falsely accused their boyfriend or husband to be "rape" so they can take steal stuff from you and the house, money too(Everyone loves $$$). Maybe the government are simps. Jamey Leanne Cooper, you can't deny that y'all aren't products. Leave me be.😂
@suga1180 21 күн бұрын
Perpetual victimhood is such brain rot
@coronad7 2 жыл бұрын
She is hurt ,, Chad and Tyron didn’t want to commit , body count is so high on this one
@ladykessel6283 7 ай бұрын
She’s constantly breathing into the mic
@theboyz7543 2 жыл бұрын
girls live life on easy mode
@awesomestbeth8767 2 жыл бұрын
Excuse me?!?!?!
@theboyz7543 2 жыл бұрын
@@awesomestbeth8767 I will excuse you for this because you are a female, and females get excused for everything just because they are girls...
@alvarocortez1919 2 жыл бұрын
@@theboyz7543 AMEN BROTHER
@satan6664 2 жыл бұрын
@@theboyz7543 girls is living life on easy mode doesn't exist. Some girls can't even go to school with out the "I bet she is tight or you can have this back only if u let me touch" this shit doesn't make them live life on easy mode
@theboyz7543 2 жыл бұрын
@@satan6664 Notice how you said "some". Compared to what guys go through, getting called a positive sexual word doesn't seem so bad now does it. It is OK to complain about something if it is genuine but women cant complain to men when the world demonizes men.
@Knusperknechtinthehouse 2 ай бұрын
she should rather fight for women in iran let's say, who are really oppressed
@eigentlichtoll02 27 күн бұрын
sorry, but this is so true
@skillet7805 7 ай бұрын
Who is saying those things about girls I've never heard a Man talk like that at all We don't compare women or describe their bodies to each other nor do we hold KimK. ,another thing I've never heard a Man say, Kim is not any kind of standard of beauty or even really attractive for that matter, the girl on the video looks better than Kim anyway and she's a 5
@eigentlichtoll02 27 күн бұрын
what!? I feel like she is definitely a 7 or higher, I find her pretty attractive... maybe a 9 or 10 even 😅 (it's funny that I didn't realize this before, only when it's actively brought to mind) Maybe the reason for this toxic male behavior and it being more present for a woman (like her), is that men of this kind also interact with many women, "fish" for women and therefore are very present for women And that's why sadly all those other better men are not represented here... but would statistically make a drastic reframing of men
@kl4wz_ Жыл бұрын
this is why im gay lol
@KRISHNAWARRIOR 3 жыл бұрын
what a fanatic.
@Desolaytore 2 жыл бұрын
Chad hurt her bad....Now she trying to rap.
@clouddy4836 2 жыл бұрын
It’s called a poem. Did you ever go to school?
@mladen.kalinic 2 жыл бұрын
All for equality but women expecting dinner dates and fairy tales from attractive successful men is like men expecting true love from a pornstar.
@whatd2751 2 жыл бұрын
ok ok ok 💀
@lyricallord7860 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 we need the boys to see this
@TheRealSeeJ 2 жыл бұрын
Mid
@arnolda.lampel6087 2 жыл бұрын
OMG she is so delutional and emotional...
@emmajaber3 2 жыл бұрын
thanks for proving her point
@FiveASideLads 2 жыл бұрын
Ha lol.
@haidynjessa8018 2 жыл бұрын
No she's just saying the thing a lot of women think but don't say
@humanbeing1754 2 жыл бұрын
@@emmajaber3 "Oppressed Angry Feminist" spotted !!
@ReginaGeorgeIsMyQueen 2 жыл бұрын
Please come back with your point when you can spell delusional, thank you! ☺️
@samusaran7317 2 жыл бұрын
Snake oil....
@rangolastarfarajevic7151 2 жыл бұрын
Men don't owe you anything :P
@ChiquitaSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Why does her voice do that little wobbly thing every once n awhile, did someone tell her to do her speech like that?
@milito537 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ.
@rzvrzv9894 3 жыл бұрын
Lol she's cray cray
@neuronneuron3645 Жыл бұрын
She obviously doesn't believe in free will
@kwh6769 2 жыл бұрын
“I’m a victim” - every millennial and zoomer girl. This was cringey 😬
@bencrow9497 2 жыл бұрын
100%
@myklaaron7879 2 жыл бұрын
They also forget only land owners could vote for the longest time. Not even the land owners son. Just the landowner......and the line at the pharmacy/mental health facilty exhibits the amount of happiness this type of "progress" brings......indeed.
@clouddy4836 2 жыл бұрын
How was this cringe? While not all this stuff or even half happen to every girl, some areas, some countries are worse. Just cause ur girlfriend or smth hadn’t experienced this doesn’t mean the rest of us haven’t. She speaks every ounce of the truth. She never says that every part of this comes from every man to every women
@bepatientIhaveautism 2 жыл бұрын
there's nothing more pathetic than the whole "GIRLBOSS" narrative
@FiveASideLads 2 жыл бұрын
Meh. I’ve heard better speeches.
@halfaddict 3 жыл бұрын
lol corny af blaaa blaaaah blaaaaagh trying to be deeeep by hollllding my syllables, regurgitating the saaaame boring...staaaale taaalking points
@luukweeko 2 жыл бұрын
Woe is me. Stop complaining and get stuff done. Stop blaming others. Its how men opperate and last time I checked you guys demanded equality, so suck it up and get better.
@clouddy4836 2 жыл бұрын
Ok so if a serial killer went on a spree and killed 10 ppl will we just say well that’s just how they operate so it’s fine
@reeseexplains8935 3 жыл бұрын
She’s wrong
@iloveunicorn744 3 жыл бұрын
She’s right
@vaina5873 3 жыл бұрын
Is she ? How ?
@reeseexplains8935 3 жыл бұрын
@@vaina5873 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/lduThZBis9XIcac.html Here’s how
@randombot8585 2 жыл бұрын
@@vaina5873 dont worry she is not :)
@clouddy4836 2 жыл бұрын
How?
@Blackwingsss 2 жыл бұрын
My ears are bleeding, thanks.
@Pagoda1312 15 күн бұрын
She can rap😂🔥
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