Have you ever felt mom guilt?

As a man I got to chime in and respect this. I think even married moms carry the torch because the responsibility you guys carry in the household is a burden in itself in addition to working outside the household. Salute moms 👑

I was married for 13 years. When my marriage ended, I made the extremely hard decision to leave my 3 young children with their Father. He was the bread winner and everything was pretty much in his name. I had to start over from scratch. I felt so much guilt but today my kids are doing well! Two have graduated from college and one is a Senior in HS and a future WNBA player(Yes, I'm claiming that lol). Children are resilient. If you love on them there will be forgiveness for all the missed times.

As a single father I needed to hear this💯! Sometimes I feel like given up ..

I'm not a single mom. Married mom, but being a mom in any space is hard. I needed this today. Thank you.

My babies are 32 and 29 now, but I too had mom guilt raising them. I was single working 8 to 10 hours a day. Sometimes more. They were sleep when I left to go to work and it's dinner time when I get home. I hated it but it had to be done to make ends meet. At times that didn't make ends meet. God I thank you. Without him I couldn't have done it

This is emotional for a lot of single moms. It’s not easy . They’ll understand and appreciate your hard work when they’re older.

I didn’t know that LeToya wasn’t married anymore. This breaks my heart!😭 I divorced, after nearly 14 years of marriage, in 2010 when my girls were 11, 9 and 5. It was a painful time and all I wanted was to be the best mom for them. But found myself overwhelmed and feeling guilty about all that I couldn’t provide for them. Everyone around me told me I was doing an amazing job. My girls were all in the advanced program, super smart, respectful and happy. My ex wasn’t present and intentionally made life hard for me so I would fail. But God! My worst nightmare happened on Mother’s Day last year when my oldest graduated from college. As she was leaving to move out of town, she tells me I was never there for her and she needed more. I had worked from home since she was 2 years old…so I was literally ALWAYS with them. Never dated, took trips without them and sacrificed my life. That day destroyed me and I’m trying to heal. She has since apologized and told me she was going through a hard time. However I will never get past knowing any of my kids needed more. My other girls have told me repeatedly that I’m the best parent in the world, but it’s hard to hear. My mother passed in 2012 so I lost my rock in order to be the mom I needed to be. I pray every day. Mommy guilt is real. Do your best and know it won’t be perfect, but we are all human. Prayers ladies!🙏🏽💗

When you said “mommy was always the role I wanted to play” I had to hold my tears back because I felt that in my soul!

Mom guilt is real. Kids just want their mom, and they don't understand the vision or the sacrifice. Moms just do the best they can with the resources they have and its okay to feel the guilt, but don't rest in it. Just make quality time when you can and learn and grow from every moment in your journey.

We, as Moms, are waaaaayyyyy to hard on ourselves. We must learn to allow ourselves some grace as much as we extend it to others. Being a Mom ain't for punks not even a little bit. Stay strong ladies!!!!

As a Single Mom we often feel guilty because our children are missing their fathers. Even in Co-parenting it’s hard not having their father around full time. I’ve conditioned myself to know I’m doing the best I can and I’m always here for my girls no matter what. 🙏🏾💜

LeToya you’re a wonderful Mom. Don’t ever carry guilt for being a provider to your Kids. Keep up the hard-work. Love you!

This is why I love Letoya Luckett. I am sitting here crying. Every Mommy journey is different. I didn't have the dream I had envisioned either. I went to law school but ended up sacrificing my career because my husband had a demanding, high profile career and was much more established than I was. We didn't want nannies raising our family and I didn't have the luxury of a great village. We agreed that one of us had to be there for our child. I was ridiculed by my community because people couldn't understand why as a woman I had to be the one to make the sacrifice. I carried my child and I chose to be there. No one made me. I don't have any regrets and now my kid is a grown, well adjusted, beautiful human. I said all this to say, it's okay if the dream doesn't match reality. My life is my path. I learned so much about life, sacrifice and love. Life is a beautiful, unpredictable journey. Just live in a place of acceptance and love and everything will be what it is supposed to be! My advice to every mom is to follow your heart in every circumstance and dismiss the guilt and replace it with joy and gratitude! Blessings!

I have mom guilt everyday. Being a single mom of twin boys & doing everything alone is difficult. I didn’t think I would be 35 yr old divorced and raising kids alone. Struggling to support my kids. Having to turn down jobs, because I don’t have the support. This episode definitely helped me.

Feeling guilty sometimes is already a sign of being a good parent. ❤️

As a man watching this, this makes me think of my mother and her love for me as well as my love for her. It’s good to get the perspective of women and their viewpoint as the mother.

It’s the transparency for me…. Mom guilt is so real.

I am a man with no children, but this makes me think of my own mother. Even with a 51 year old child, she still asks me if she was a good mother. I now know what "Mommy Guilt" looks like. I wish she could dive into my mind and understand that my gratitude for her is eternal. Although I've tried to reassure her, I think she will always question her impact in my life. Thank you for this!

A lot of celebrities aren’t good at this KZfaq thing. I like you Letoya you are yourself, and very transparent about everything you’ve been through. It’s weird to watch one of my favorite actresses be so down to earth lol. We love it though girl! Subscribed 💕

Give yourself GRACE❗️You’re doing the best you can.

As a single mom or dad, just give yourself grace. Don't put so much pressure on yourself to always get it right. You will make mistakes but you will get it right more than wrong. Keep ya head up and take one day at a time.

I’m literally in here ugly crying, because this hit home for me. Thank you Latoya. I I am an active duty, divorced, single parent. It is so hard. Thank you for this.

I don’t know who proposed this show idea but this is a hit!!! LeToya was made for this type of format and potentially talk show tv. She’s relatable and it translates extremely well…

Girl, you need a talk show on tv too. I can listen to you talk all day. You seem so real and so down to earth💜💜

Luv ... I'm 62 years old ... my beautiful baby is 45 and I still carry "mom guilt". I feel like I did not become the best person I could because of the depressed state I was in. I thank God that she is an amazing young woman and I know it's only because of His grace. You're a beautiful spirit and without a doubt I know you are doing the best you can for your babies. Keep doing you Mami! God bless you and dem babies!!!

When i tell you that i LOVE this woman… the “undera-tion” is just CRAZY TO MEEE cause honey can SANG, ACT, DANCE and GIVE FACEEEEE!!! Go mommy, go mommy, GO!!! Give LeToya a tv show or something, we NEED her in our lives DAILY!!! Thank you for this!

Definitely relate to this. I have broken down in front of my daughter. I need her to understand that I am human. It's ok to feel what we feel, as long as we keep moving forward. Being a mom, a single mom at that, is such and emotional journey.

Mom guilt is so real. I also struggle with overcompensation, where my children are concerned.

I love this, these are the conversations we need to be having as women. They teach and are so transparent

Yes ma’am. As a single working mom I cry so much and even that makes me feel guilty 🤦🏾‍♀️

I got mom guilt. I'm in nursing school 30 hours a week. Work 30 hours a week and still have to study,help them with their work and have to still raise them the right way. I find time to sleep when I can. I'm overwhelmed a lot but I ask God to guide me and give me wisdom,strength and courage to keep going and find a way to do it all. Thank you for this

This topic eats me up girl! I work 9 hours a day. My baby is sleeping when I leave for work and only up for 2 hours once I'm off. The weekends are all about catching up and balancing my mood, my child's mood and needs and so much more is hard. Thank you for being open and honest about your struggles and give yourself a pat on the back because not only do you hold yourself accountable, you fix what needs fixing and do your best.💜

Yes I went part time , I couldn’t imagine giving more time to the job than my kids …. First I paid off all my debt , bought my home , went part time .

I can definitely relate! It’s NO joke, my daughter is 17 and I’ve worked Afternoons most of her life because all the people who helped keep her including her dad worked days. I still feel guilty but I just tell myself I’ve done a very good job providing for her and she’s a beautiful girl. My daughter constantly tells me I’m a good mom and she’s appreciates me. We’re so close and I thank God for the bond we share❤️🙏🏾It’s normal to feel this way. That’s why I had just the one child.. I refuse to do that to another child unless I have a spouse that’s going to be with me 100%It gets better…. Love you Toya!❤️❤️❤️❤️

I remember my Grandma (Peace Be Upon Her) used to say, " A Mother's job is never done." ...it is with the greatest Respect that I say, " You are built for it, 'Toya. " ...and shouts out to OUR Black Mother's around the World 🌍. Mad Love and Respect for you Sister's...GOD BLESS YOU ALL. As Tupac, said, " We got our name from a Woman and our game from a Woman. " ... One Love

I really needed this message today! I broke down today because my daughter did not want to go summer school today! I’m a single mom and I have to work! I felt so guilty leaving my baby there but I have no help and have to provide for her! Thank you so much for this message♥️

Shout out to all the single parent especially mothers out there. My heart goes out to you guys because you show out for your kids. I thank God for mine. She has been a fighter all of her life.

I definitely felt this, being a first time mom at 37. His dad walked out and now I'm a single momma. It definitely didn't turn out the way that I thought. I carried the guilt and shame around for not choosing better and coming to terms with the fact that my son doesn't have a father. He turned out to be a complete NARCISSIST. I'm taking it one day at a time and doing the best I can. I thank you for this, you're so relatable.

This came right on time my girls are teenagers and I just feel so guilty at times I want to be there more for them. I’m a single divorced mom as well and it’s hard. I have to make a living for them, keep a roof over their heads. Also want to help them with their dreams, goals etc Lord give us the strength to endure to keep going without giving up Amem 🙏🏼

It’s not easy being a single mom. Like there isn’t anything I wouldn’t do for my son but sometimes it gets overwhelming and I feel like I suck. I just pray and ask God for guidance for not only me but other moms in the same position.

I'm not a Mom as of yet. However, this was very insightful and provided wisdom for a potential journey as a mother! Thank you LeToya!!!💞🙏🏽

Single mom of two here. I feel mom guilt even when I go out, which is rare. But I always tell my babies, “Mommy needs a break, so I can be the best mommy for you”

TOYA!!! You got me in here crying Chile!!! Your spirit is so incredibly beautiful! Eudoxie is right, you’re doing great and they’re gonna be fine sweetheart, just like you and your brother are!!!

I love the topic, being a divorced single mom, it’s real. My kids are older however, I spent many years feeling guilty over missing certain things because I had to provide. The kids will understand when they get older because they see things we don’t realize they see. To all the mommies keep up the good work! And to all the fathers keep up the good work! It’s a life journey and it’s a blessing to be on it with people that choose you…

Cute blouse. My Sons are 43 and 45, and I still suffer with Mom guilt. Never give up. They love you.

When she said I wanted to share this life with my kids I felt that. I’m not a mother yet but this is the mentality I carry because I want to be a mom. Not because society told me to but because I want to share this life with my future children.

I love this color on her 😍

Soooo glad you’re covering this topic! Mom guilt is real. Although my “kids” are older (19 and 22 year old young ladies) it’s been the 3 of us for over 18 years now,. Til this day I often wonder am I guiding them correctly, do I give enough love, time, and attention? And I often feel guilty when I go out to have fun. My girls say “mama we’re fine; go out and have fun, it’s your time now!” However, even with their reassuring words, I still question if I chose wisely or if I should stay home with them. I totally understand where you are.

LeToya , you’ve always been my favorite actress. I’ve seen sincerity in you from day 1 & I’ve always loved that about you. I recently turned 50. My husband and I have been married for 27+ years. We also have 2 children. Our son is 25 & our daughter is 22. They both have birthdays in August. My husband and I both grew up with both of our married parents. Our upbringing was completely different though. My parents were a lot older. He has younger parents. My parents had 7 children together. My husband is an only child. Only my father loved me. Both of his parents loved him, yet he spent most of his time with both sets of his grandparents.Some people’s marriages work out & some don’t. I realized some years ago that for various reasons, God made people’s lives different according to NEED. I’ve always had to be a LONER. God knew that I needed someone faithful in my life for the long-haul because of total Dysfunction after my father’s death when I was age 15. My husband and I met when I was 22 & he was 24. We married 1 year later. People are resilient in different ways. My resilience has gotten me thus far, & God knows that your resilience will take you even further. You’ve got this 💪🏽! Stay Blessed 🙏🏽🤗!!!

Y'all ever seen this woman in person with no makeup? GORGEOUS 🥰🥰🥰

I was a single parent as well. I had to work sometimes two jobs most of their younger years until I was established in my career today. My children are now 38 and 40. We have never had a conversation about my whereabouts or them missing out on my presence. They honored me for all my hard work. I was there for most of their monumental moments and some I missed. I endured some mommy guilts for the ones I missed. Both of my parents worked. My dad was a pastor but he also held down a full time job as a Foreman. He had a growing ministry and between his regular job and the demands of a Pastor, my time with him shared, limited, but he made them very special. My mother was a nurse and she worked midnights for over 25 years so that she could see myself and my siblings (7 of us) off to school and be home to cook meals and nurture us. I never felt neglected because they could not always spend quantity of time but the quality of time is what really mattered. The difference with them was that there was two of them and only one of me. I remember talking to my mother about the struggles of single parenting (their dad was not present physically or financially) and she told me that when I did have time with my children to make it count. I set out to make sure that every moment I spent with them, they had my undivided attention. My daughter was a hip baby meaning when we were together, we were together. She was very clingy and my mother told me not to push her away. I never did so if she needed a snuggle, I would stop, and we would snuggle. If she needed to entertain me, I was fully present even if I was just walking in the door from working long hours. I stopped and watched her change into different characters and put on shows. My daughter was so clingy that she would ask if she could spend the night at a friend's house only to call me at 11pm asking to be picked up. I did, I went and picked her up. My son was just as clingy but in a different way. He only wanted a listening ear and food ;) A good meal was our bonding moments. He would sit in the kitchen and pick out the pot and watch me cook. My daughter was accepted to a college 3000 miles away. I expressed to her that I was not going to be minutes away and she would not be able to call me and ask me to pick her up. I was dropping my baby off in NY and thinking what if I did not teach her enough, what if she get scared, etc etc. The day before I dropped her off, she said, "Vagina Vagina Vagina" I asked her what did that mean and she said that is where I want to go back to, I burst out laughing but this shook me when on the plane to leave. Some 4 years later she had decided to live in NY. I asked her once, "How did you manage after being so clingy as a child" and her answer was..."Mom, you gave me all the loving that I needed as a child. You gave me knowledge that my friends with two parents did not know. You showed me how to be safe and how to work hard. This is how I survived." My son on the other hand decided to pick a trade. He moved out when he was 18 and he is now an entrepreneur. He has never moved back home. Side Note: Neither one of my children have ever asked me for money because they did the budgeting when they were teenagers not because I wanted them to know...but I would be so tired that I thought...I am going to get them to help me. This paid off as well. I consider both of my children successful in adulting. My daughter, at 26, got a job as a Director and through her career is now a Executive at major store. My son has his own business which was a dream of my father. My son has been married for 17 years and my daughter has been married for 7 years but with her husband for 14 years. I did not date when raising my children. I did not want anything to interfere with my quality of time. I remember worrying that I was not an example of what love should look like but that did not matter because I made sure they had the tools to be independent and be a significant other. They have been together longer than I was with my ex. I said all of this to say that the guilt will turn to joy if you put in the work as a parent. This is a GREAT conversation. BTW...when my children were grown and gone, I started back dating and it's funny that I did not miss anything. hahahahahah! I'm still cute, over 55, and living my best life.

Girl I also suffer from mom guilt. Especially when I can’t take my daughter places because I have to work during the week. Than when the weekend comes I just want to relax. Love to know I’m not alone.

I raised my 3 kids on my own. Single Mother for 22 years with little to no help. Fighting for child support, working endless jobs to make ends meet. Nothing was easy, but Gods grace was with us. I remember not wanting to be delegated. I wish I had a mom group.and all 3 are soaring in life. Keep shining your light and the most important thing is they know why you have to leave and that you love them.

Speaking only for myself (I have 2 boys, ages 13 & 6): I've felt mom guilt at different times for different reasons, but my mom guilt did not compare to me becoming so wrapped up in being a mother that I forgot who I was. For me, accepting the part that I played in being a single mother was pivotal; it allowed me to redefine what being a "single mother" meant for me. I also realized that I wasn't single, God had been with me every step of the way!! Mom guilt is something that should be temporary (like any other guilt). I believe that having mom guilt at times is normal. It is only problematic if we allow that guilt (any type of guilt) to take root within us. During the pandemic, I had some mom guilt bc I realized how much time I sacrificed with my 13 yr old. After the pandemic, I valued time with my boys more. Now I weigh the life or lifestyle that I am trying to give them and the time that I am taking away from them. Honesty is very important; it is key!! I admit my mistakes and failures, so that I can do better; I take inventory of who I am as a person, so that I can be a better mother; years ago, I decided to go to counseling; I encourage myself; I set boundaries with my kids, I DO NOT allow them to interrupt my bathroom time (it's my me time, unless it's an emergency); they cannot walk into my room without knocking, even if the door is open...all of those things (plus many more) helps me to get what I need and to give them what they need, while lessening how much I experience mom guilt. Being a mother is never easy. It's a lifelong learning experience that is constantly changing. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

Mannnnnnn I felt that part when you said "mommy was the role". That hit me deep. I lost my son. It's been 2 years and there isn't a day I don't think about him. I miss him. That family unit is my destiny since a child as well. I know one day I'll get another chance to have more kids. I'm patiently waiting for my rainbow 🌈😊

As the son of a single mom, I want to say I respect and honor all the single mothers who are doing their best and beyond for their children. Truly, thank you. It's not easy either way, single parent or two parent. A lot of times, we make things difficult with our curiousity and stubborness but when we grow, we'll understand. I know I do have thanks to my mother and my grandmother, who was also a single mother.

Thank you for always being so raw and so real.

Wheeeew Chile. This was so heavy for me because I battle with this too. My children are older than yours (16,13,9) but I still feel bad having to work like I do. One thing I promised my kids is that they would never miss out because of having to watch their sibling(s) and I stand on that. I work 12hr days 4-5 days a week now and every time I leave I remind myself why I’m doing it. It’s such a struggle being able to find comfort in my “why” even though I understand. Being a parent is hard, there’s no book on how to be a great parent.

I was raised by a single mother after a divorce and appreciate her everyday. I understand Mom guilt by serving in the Military. This topic is relatable to your audience and thank you for your transparency.

I’m not a mom but I’ve watched my sis deal with mom guilt with my niece and I tell her you can’t make up for an absentee father..that’s his job..my niece is 20yrs old with her own 6mon old baby. It’s time to forgive and forget. Show her how to handle any mom guilt she may deal with. Thank you so much Letoya for this. I love your channel.

YOU ARE A INCREDIBLE MOMMY, DONT BEAT YOURSELF UP… BE ENCOURAGE AND TRUST ME, YOUR BABIES MIGHT NOT UNDERSTAND RIGHT NOW, BUT THEY WILL APPRECIATE EVERY SACRIFICE YOU MADE FOR THEM. TRUST GOD… YOU DOING A AMAZING JOB…. PRAYING FOR STRENGTH, GOD BLESS 🥰

Sistah..U don’t have to feel Mom Guilt if there is a Dad to pick up the slack! Sharing the responsibility and making the child/children Not feel the absence of a parent if they have to work, is vital! Keep hustling for Your children. Balance is everything! Stay Strong Queens!

I felt mom guilt when I had to work 2 jobs after my divorce. But my cubs were so patient with me! Our children will love us through it because they see the sacrifice being made. You create and say what your normal is for your babies, if it's being on set with you, then it's being on set.

OMG, mom guilt is real. I work a 9 to 5 and I am an established entrepreneur….that is working on bettering my time management! It helps that I have a wonderful support system but I’ve realized that isn’t enough! So lately, I’ve been doing the things my son likes even if it’s something I don’t want to do while trying to balance it all, whew! 24 hours ain’t enough in a day!

This completely had me crying! Your soul is so beautiful and we feel you! Your babies feel their mommy love and energy!

And thank you for starting this podcast! I've always loved your energy and work over the years.

I am a single mother, my daughter is 29 now and is doing great, thank God. It was tough. I watch you choke up and I remember there were a lot of tears 😢 but believe me it gets better.

I'm a "sister mom"....since 2018 when our mom passed. My sister was 8, I was 24 going on 25 the next month....I don't have my own kids but I'm married...and I feel so much guilt because when my mother asked me to take care of her when she passed I had no clue just how hard parenting is. Experience is the best teacher. I knew it was rough, but you don't truly KNOW til you do it yourself and I feel the guilt heavy sometimes because my husband and I have our own business which keeps us working a lot so I don't feel I can truly be there as much as I want to for her...I just try to explain things the best I can. I love her like she's my own child...hell my mama used to say she was mine and she just had her for me 🤣🤣 I was the first to see her come out the womb....the first to hold her....she was always in my room with me when she was a baby....I love her. I do feel bad sometimes because I felt like I had no time to stop and grieve my mom's death....but I also don't feel I'm always able to be there to help her through the journey. She acts as if she doesn't even realize it happens sometimes...but I know she does. We talk about it every once in a while just so I can check on her mental being (she's doing great by the way with the situation). Physically, I wish I didn't have to work so much. Life doesn't make it easy to be home but I try to tell her I love her and I'm here for her as much as I can. I wanna be able to give her everything I can and always make sure she has a nice environment, and a chance at trying new things and finding herself....it hits me hard sometimes that I can't be everything to her like I wanna be.

I made it thru the day! I love that part and the cry on the shower/bathroom let it out! Thanks sis @LeToya! We all go thru some kind of guilt being away from the ones we love so I feel you on this! Thanks for being soooo transparent and open! Great video! Keep it up so proud of ya! ❤️ we ALL going to be alright! 💯💯

Letoya, we have all been there!!! I’m 57 and still look back and wish I did better. You are doing a great job!!

As a Mom of grown children now, I experienced mom guilt and even after they became grown, there were things that I wished I had did better. I was divorced with 3 people that depended on me to make it happen. The biggest lesson I learned was to give myself grace and to know I truly know I gave all that I had. Keeping making sure you're balanced in your approach so those babies know what self care looks like too. Your light is bright.

I'm a married mom of three and I feel mom guilt all the time! Lol! Thank you for being open and honest about your journey!

I just love your spirit, LeToya, always have. And I’m so glad you’re doing this channel with this style of content. Wouldn’t expect anything less than authenticity from you ever. Blessings.

Thank you for being so transparent. I too have Mommy Guilt but in a good way and as you said...to be a better mom, provider, protector, nurturer, etc. I also thank God for the strength to do so and women like you that share their testimonies to let us know we are not alone.

I felt mom guilt when I lost my permanent job. For three years, I was fighting for a permanent role and benefits and nothing was hitting. I had to rely on my parents to pay for mortgage and grocery bills and felt that I failed as a mother. I worked since I was 14, and to get to that space where I could not understand why I was being overlooked. Why me! It was hard. A lot of tears. I never wanted to rely on my parents to pay my bills. It hurt me to the core. I took Contractor positions. I was on unemployment. It was a world wind. Mom Guilt is serious. I have cried many days.

I really like her.

So relatable! Thank you for your transparency. It’s nice knowing that someone else’s has been through the same feelings or emotions.

Very transparent and vulnerable. So beautiful.

Letoya, you ain't seen nuttin yet! Please learn how to be okay with living your dreams while raising your kids to live theirs, all you need is balance and as long as you are doing your absolute best, then that's what makes you the best mom for them. Be kind to yourself, be good to yourself and just know it will be okay.I promise!

I suffer from Mom guilt all the time. I’m a single Mother as well and most days are rough like really rough. The other days are great. I feel overwhelmed all the time but when I look in my son’s eyes I know everything is all worth it. His Father has no care to be in his life and I’m slowly accepting that. I know I have to keep pushing but I have those moments asking God why. Like why his Father or any absentee Fathers in the world don’t realize the pain they put on their kids and the Mother’s as well. I pray all the time and give it all to God. My son is my miracle and my joy. I constantly try to keep him smiling and giving him that affection and love he so deserves. Thank you LeToya for sharing your thoughts and experiences that you have been through and going through. Deeply appreciated. 🙏🏽❤️

Why am I in tears. Thanks for sharing and holding space for us Letoya . I am contending with this now and I have been soooo heavy about it .

Toya… I appreciate this channel and I appreciate your vulnerability. As a Houston native I feel like I grew up with you and this just made me smile!

I feel guilt everyday because I had a stroke age 35 in 2013 with 4 kids youngest being 3. She is now homeschooled and basically house bound like me because I’m disabled and can’t take her out on my own and her older brothers and sister are grown and work. I was born to be a mum that’s all I wanted to be. And I know my kids are amazing but I wish I could do more. And now I have grandkids and want to see them so much and can’t and that hurts my heart xx

I was never a single mom was also raised in a two parent home...however I still have had mommy guilt bcuz in order to provide I'd work 12hr night shifts often missing so much just from exhaustion. It's not solely a single mom issue but can't imagine doing it all alone....you ladies are incredible ❗

You got this Toya!! Keep up the good work 🙌🏾💪🏾👑and thanks for all these great tips and opening up this conversation 💖

As the product of a single parent home, let me just say the kids will be fine! My Mom was everything to my sister and I. She struggled financially but always made it work for us. And today, at 52, my Mom is my best friend. I noticed all of the sacrifices she made and that only made me admire and love her that much more. Let me just say that as hard as it is for single Moms, you ladies ROCK!!!

I love how open and candid you are with these conversations. Kudos to you. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I'm a new mom. My baby is 10 months. Your speaking my thoughts as well. Gotta get the mom tribe popping. Thanks Letoya 😊

This is awesome. Anybody getting a feeling Letoya is about to make one of the greatest and realest r&b album of all times.

Thank you for this amazing episode! I am a single mommy of 4 teenagers and I am 1 of the many moms who have a 9-5. After a long and challenging day today this episode pops up and it helped me so much. Thank you for opening up and reminding us mom that we are not alone.

I can relate to this on so many levels. I wanted a family and here I am a divorced single working mom. I stuggled with Mom guilt daily.

"Mommy was the roll I wanted to play"..... Me too and not bc of the baby dolls. I just felt it and longed for it!

I love this my son is 17 and I think about this daily seeing him grow a beard and leave to hang out with his friends. You’re Amazing ❤️

I really felt the tears being held back in this discussion because I share a similar experience. Thanks for being so transparent. 💓

Surely I do ❤️ we have a dual military household and it’s a team effort. I struggled every deployment.

Mom guilt is real having a good village is helpful. I agree have to be patient and caring with kids and show some grace towards yourself.

Not me tearing up at the gym watching this video! From one single mom to another, we've got this! ❤️

Sooo many of us can relate. It’s hard and I love your transparency. We are all out here doing the work and missing our babies. Thank you for being so transparent

LaToya, you remind me so much of me! We have a lot of the same feelings and emotions. I love you so much & thank you for sharing yourself and your family with us.