It's a very dumb philosophy on the macroscale it means no one will ever date ever. Because if a man is more interesting than you. He shouldn't date you.

Any man with even half a brain and a shred of self-respect would avoid women who think like that. Most women who think themselves interesting are actually anything but. If you find yourself interesting, you're obviously easily amused.

Do everybody else a favour & stay single...

@@thatguy22441 Oh my, this is so ignorant 😅 Do you personally know this person since you feel comfortable bringing this statement to the table? 🙈 Do you know the quote "clever people are never bored"? I read something similar into this saying. Except I would think equally interesting could do the trick of a balanced relationship tho 😁

@@genericscout5408 being interesting is not a universal, objective, or even quantitative quality, it's really all about your experiences and likes. A person that i find interesting, may not be to someone else. Similarly, if i find someone more interesting than myself (e.g., because of their hobbies), doesn't mean that they find me (who, let's say, have *different* hobbies) less interesting than they find themselves. It's completely subjective

+LucyTalks I used to feel the same way and recently realized the same thing, and I'm also 22! :)

I've just turned 22 and feel exactly the same

im 18 and im pretty happy with being single too, I've only had relationships with people that have lasted around 3 months but they never felt comfortable and I much preferred the relationship I had with them before the "relationship" you know? (sorry about not being in the 22 group!)

mavishill finally someone told it. No one can ever hold on the singleness forever. And those who say they can, never remain single forever either. It's a good remedy to loneliness tho, but it doesn't work forever

This is me, I've always been single, never had a boyfriend or a kiss, and I was always independent doing my thing going to school with hobbies, and saw relationships and thought of them as very difficult because lots of problems, until 6 months ago I found a person that was my friend really cool and I got into a relationship, and it is really different from what I thought, I just want to tell always of you that don't settle for anyone a good partner is there, but you have to pick it right

I Really Like You But There's Something I Need To Tell You... RED FLAG Hi. I'm Professor Cos. If I build a foundation without knowing what it can support, then hope it accommodates the weight that I put on it, it wouldn't matter how nice I really am, or how good my intentions really are. I would be gambling at the mercy of the foundation's tolerance level. So if you build a relationship foundation based on secrets and manipulation, don't expect it to support any truth or secrets about yourself that you finally reveal. Your foundation wasn't built with truth, it was built with bullshit under the guise of honesty. Trying to put the weight of the truth on top of a foundation built with bullshit only reveals your dishonesty, and/or your stupidity. It wouldn't matter how nice you really are, or how good your intentions really were. You are now gambling at the mercy of the person you deceived. You are at the mercy of your own bullshit accommodating the truth. Since we're both tired of bullshit, I'm going to try and help you understand how the average heterosexual man builds his relationships with people so you can build an honest foundation. A man's relationship with another man starts off socially, minus the reluctance. In most cases, a man doesn't have to like another man to talk to him. Men don't give each other fake compliments the way women do, however, they may do some ego stroking. Unlike women, men don't hide their true nature from each other to avoid being judged. Since they're dealing with men, they don't have to pay the price of admission by pretending to think like a woman. The foundation gets built with honesty. Should those men genuinely like each other, the camaraderie can develop into actual respect, which can develop into friendship. That friendship can then grow into an emotional bond resulting in what many refer to as "a brother from another". Those men can know each other for years without becoming anything more than two men who have respect for each other and be just fine. That is the man to man version of the "friend zone", except it's the "respect zone". Unlike the friend zone where the woman is foolishly considering a friendship with a man who is pretending to want to be friends with a woman he really wants to have sex with, there is no false pretense in the respect zone. For some reason, a woman thinks that just because she is not attracted to the guy, her wanting to just be friends automatically changes his original intention to suit her choice to just be friends. Women who are even dumber than that will actually think that they're in real friendships with guys that they know want to have sex with them. A man's relationship with a woman starts off physically, except when he reluctantly pays the price of admission by socializing. A man doesn't usually have to like a woman to want to have sex with her, and if he likes her, she usually knows after he has had sex with her. The things that a man pretends to want to do prior to having sex with a woman that he pretends to like, will be done after he has sex with her, should he like her. But unlike her, he has his own way of showing a woman how much he likes her. A woman that doesn't need her emotional diaper changed will get treated with respect, and communicated with like an adult. And when a man can communicate with a woman that he doesn't have to hide himself from or filter his mouth around, he can create an honest emotional connection. And that emotional connection can lead to him actually caring about the woman he's with, rather than burdening himself with scripted love and romance. In other words, he becomes a true friend to this woman rather than some "happy wife, happy life" buffoon. Remember, the more hoops a man has to jump through... The more demands a woman makes... The more requirements a woman has... The more solipsistic a woman is... The more bullshit a woman can expect to hear from him. When a man pretends to like a woman or think like a woman prior to having sex with her, it's because he knows that she doesn't understand or accept the way men are. That of course results in the man conforming to the female perspective, which reinforces the woman's ignorance, which results in conflict. While the woman may enjoy the "courting" and "wooing", she won't be entering a relationship, she'll be entering a reluctant compliance. In other words, the foundation will be built with bullshit. The same way a woman decides within 5 minutes whether she will have sex with a guy or not, a guy also decides within 5 minutes whether he wants more than sex from her. A man decides in a split second wether he wants to have sex with a woman, and in 5 minutes if he likes her mindset. A woman decides in 5 minutes whether she wants to have sex with a guy, and could take several weeks to decide how she feels about him. By that time, the man is either hoping his feelings for her are mutual, or he has already had sex with her after deciding that he doesn't like her and has gone on to find someone else to have sex with, or someone he really likes. So for you women who keep wondering why guys don't call you back, here are a few reasons why... He either got a dose of your solipsistic mindset, your sense of entitlement, your golden uterus syndrome, your borderline personality disorder, or he thought you were just plain ugly but wanted to hit it and quit it anyways. Maybe you talk like a chick instead of a mature woman and he couldn't stand to hear your annoying vocal fry or uptalk. It's also very possible that after finally deciding how you felt about him, he heard the words: "I really like you, but there's something I need to tell you"

WILD BEAR... Thank you for reading my comment. I appreciate it. Also, thank you for your response. I appreciate that too. Now, what I would have really appreciated, was a response that either contributed to my point, disproved my point, or at least challenged my point. It seems like you've overlooked everything you read just to give me your opinion on my assumed state of mind. Let's for the sake of argument say that I'm full of anger and resentment as you more or less stated... Would that make what I said any less true if what I said was true? I don't know what your intentions were, but your response was merly an undermining tactic which is usually done by people who are angry and resentful towards the speaker who spoke the disturbing truth. The worst part is, nothing constructive came about as a result of your response. Your free opinion on my state of mind makes you seem caring and altruistic. My therapist is caring, but not altruistic. That's why I have to pay him for his psychobabble, while I can allow yours to net result in $0.00. I hope you have a good day or night, wherever you are in the world!

WILD BEAR I have a very hard time believing that the reason you didn't cough up an argument was because you didn't want to start an argument. And contributing to my point would mean that you agree with what I said, and are adding some additional points of your own. Just so you know, I'm not actually paying a therapist. That was just my way of telling you that if I needed a psychological evaluation, I'd hire a professional. So I seem cynical huh? Does my cynicism negate anything I said? Don't think so. Lol why are you more concerned with how I sound than with what I said?! Anyway, thanks for updating me on the current time and weather.

Oh, and I forgot to add... If your reason for not "contributing" was because my opinion was very set, why bother respond at all?? Furthermore, would telling me that I'm cynical make me any less cynical? By your logic, telling me that I'm cynical would be pretty futile! So why do it?!

WILD BEAR I wasn't necessarily looking for an argument. I had just posted an essay that you responded to with nothing of much relevance. And now you're throwing softballs at me and I'm hitting them over the neighbour's fence. Here's some advice, try getting a good grip of the English language, as well as an understanding of reasoning before trying to play with fancy rhetoric. It will make you a "smarter smart ass". Btw, I take it you agree with everything I said in the essay!

but to serve biology imperative you have to buid a family, if you are a narcisist self centered thing , go ahead, enjoy misery.

+hannahapple xxxx

It's the best way to be because it means that you only surround yourself with people who nourish your life. Also then if/when you do find a relationship it will be a worthwhile one. More problems come when people have low self-esteem and take the first offer they get.

Oh my god, that's so reassuring to hear. You're right that we shouldn't feel ashamed of having high self worth. I love my own company and I agree that does make you set the bar high. I often leave even bad dates feeling happy because of the fact that I get to go home with myself! Also, the more I spend time alone the less hyper and 'too much' I am around other people so I think it makes me better company. Saying all that though, I've recently realised that despite loving my own company I would like to meet someone that I can laugh with. I find I laugh out loud less when I'm by myself.

Nothing wrong with laughing when you're on your own! I do and I'm married. But it is nice to be with someone too; just keep being you and doing things you love and someone will come into your life. Saying that, I was friends with my husband for ten years before we got together. For that whole time I was certain I was not attracted to him then one day it just clicked. Life is weird.

coscointernational you will notice, i didnt specify men :)

Is it true? or do you just see yourself in a far more favourable light and appreciate your complexities far more than you do that of other complex human beings that only met for a very short period of time and only try to project what they think you might like to like rather than all facets of their personality? As a man I've met far too many women that seem to want a guy thats funny, charming and interesting, sort of sitting there expectantly waiting to be entertained. While to an extent I am those things, I find that what they themselves offer falls far too short of what they expect. If you say you are "far more interesting" then I'd like to ask why? Have you climbed mount Everest and almost died but instead came out alive and have a tale to tell? did you cross the planet on your own an encountered many wild adventures? did you overcome a horrendous fear or phobia to then become a champion of the cause and lead others to salvation? What makes you so interesting other than your own ego telling you that you are? ask yourself that.

+Francesca Georgiou blows many fran-destined kisses your way xxx

Please date women then when you do date and leave men alone, if your views are similar to the poster you would be doing all men a favour.

+Anne-Marie Dames YEY - tidy mind, FUNNER life. Asking yourself whether you're missing out by not being in a relationship is kind of like questioning who you'd be if you'd been born in a different town. It's like - interesting - but also irrelevant, this is your relationship status, this is your home town :) x

+justkissmyfrog Exactly! Might just set that as a daily reminder to myself :) thanks again

You are not describing introversion, more like self-absorption.

A Summary Of A Typical Woman's Attitude Towards Dating Hi. I'm Professor Cos. Because the average woman is delusional, solipsistic, and lacks self awareness, she thinks all she has to do to get a man is: 1. Be female. 2. Want a man. 3. Imagine her type of man. 4. Demand that man. 5. Wait for that man. 6. Expect that man to magically "show up" or "come along". When that man doesn't magically "show up" or "come along", or if her current man isn't behaving like "her type of man", she will read magazines, self help books, articles, "how to" guides, and seek advice from dating coaches and talk show hosts for tips on how to find "her type of man" or get her current man to change into being more like "her type of man". After taking the advice on what type of men to avoid and applying her newly learned "tips" and "tricks" in order to attract "her type of man", she will scan her surroundings for "her type of man" while thinking that her 6 prerequisites that I mentioned above gets her "her type of man". Feeling frustrated and unaccomplished in her quest for "her type of man", she will query for information on where to locate "her type of man", what type of activities "her type of man" takes part in, or where "her type of man" likes to hangout. She will then tart herself up and become a commodity for "her type of man" by doing what she thinks makes her interesting to "her type of man". So far, she still thinks her 6 prerequisites are the only tools she needs! Because she is delusional, solipsistic, and lacks self awareness, she thinks that the reason why she hasn't found "her type of man" is because "all the good men are taken". She has no idea wether she is compatible with "her type of man", how she is percived by "her type of man", or if she is the female version of "her type of man". Actually, "her type of man" may not exist, and her way of dealing with that reality is to be even more solipsistic and think that it's so sad that men aren't that way. Because men are aware of her mindset, she will either be ignored by men or become a sitting duck for men that will prey on her ignorance and vulnerability. Men will falsley conform to her ridiculous ideologies and reinforce her delusions by impersonating the characteristics of "her type of man" in order to have sex with her, or to make money from selling her all sorts of "tips" and "tricks" on how to find "her type of man". If you want to see evidence of what I'm talking about, tune into any of the many female talk shows and observe the audience. You will see women of all ages that get together to find love or improve their love lives, seek beauty tips, talk about their feelings, bash men for being so inferior, gossip about trivial things that hold no substance or importance, all while wondering why they can't score a "quality man" or find any satisfaction within their relationships. You will also notice that the men these types of women are with, are either poindexters, feminine beta males, "yes dear" men, or brain dead hunks. These women tend to think they can live a lifestyle influenced by Hollywood and pop culture, be materialistic and into fashion, read their women's magazines, have a bunch of yentas as female friends, and have their perfect, righteous, sensitive, angel of a manly man all at the same time. Erin Pizzey is a woman in her late 70's, who opened the first women's shelter in the early 70's, and when I hear her sharing the things women say to her, not only is she well aware that women are in trouble, she sounds so sad and disturbed by their thinking that it almost makes me feel bad for kicking the shit out of women. If this makes me sound any nicer, I'm not kicking the shit out of women, I'm kicking the shit out of their fucked up mindsets.

Smarter people are happy not with fewer friends, but with more REAL relationships that aren't vague fakeships. It takes more time and energy to invest in making real connections so they generally have less than usual social butterflies. Just because you have few friends does not mean you're intelligent lol xD. Better to be single and be in a bad relationship. Look up happiness gap. And you'll see it~

+Myrthe Kamoen YUSSS. Really glad it helped ! x

+thatjennybee XXX

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+charro028 xxx

me ahahah

no one, since her video got made as a result of this one ;-)

Me, because it was referred to in her notes. btw, "Single" Is Facebook language; single used to mean unmarried -- prior to Facebook

"Schadenfreude", Right Ladies?! "Scum Of The Earth", Right Ladies?! Hi. I'm Professor Cos. A lot of guys like to downplay how great it is to be male when they're around women so they don't offend them or appear chauvinistic... But not this young fella! Not Professor Cos! Actually, this morning is one of those mornings where I just want to sit back and enjoy the misfortune of these poor little princesses! It's a GREAT time to be a guy! Well, it always has been, but now more than ever! Feminism has turned women into sexually liberated pro choice sluts, just the way we like them, and men don't need to get into relationships to get laid. Well, there goes Prince Charming! Right down the sink! I'm 32, and words can't explain how much pleasure is derived from watching these aging sluts that are my age and up, hurrying and scurrying trying to find themselves a partner! I mean, they're running about, pell mell, helter skelter! They're EVERYWHERE!!! They're on match, lifemates, plenty of fish, zoosk, dateolicious, craigslist, tinder, jezbel, chat groups, "love forums", talk shows, datelines! They're blogging about the disappearance of "true love" and "gentlemen" and "commitment"! They're buying books, watching videos, reading magazines, attending seminars! They're trying to find that "real man" before it's too late! You should see them! They're frustrated! They're cynical! They're ANGRY!! They're disgruntled! They're hopeless for god's sake! Their biological clocks are ticking! Their looks are fading! Their vaginas are damn near used up from the dozens, if not hundreds of sex partners! Their bodies are partied out, and their voices have that permanent raspy tone to it! All the martinis and tequila and vodka and Shirley temples and smoking and snorting and pill popping and late night binge eating has taken it's toll on their apperance! Man oh man! Crows feet! Turkey necks! Frown lines! Age spots! Fuzzy upper lip! Fupa pouch! Those overlapping eyebrows! Antler looking hands! Eye bags that no amount of neutrogena night cream can fix haha! I get GREAT JOY out of seeing these broads in distress! MAN I LOVE BEING A GUY! The best part is they keep complaining about all the creeps who just want sex! I'm proud to say, I'm one of those creeps who just want sex, except I can get chicks that are younger and hotter than these stretched out elastic bands if I ever want more than sex. In fact, it's pretty risky to go near these 30 year old skanks because they're desperate to get pregnant. To hell with that! If I want an easy, stress free lay, I go for the 40 year old hags. But then these 40 year olds usually have daughters that are in their early 20's or late teens! Hedonism has never been so rewarding for men until women started becoming independent career women! So ladies, keep proving to us that you should be able to sleep around just like men! "Stop slut shaming", right ladies?! Ladies, we NEED you to be sluts! Keep up the good work! Career women are as easy as 1...2...3. And they also pay for the guy! How good is that! And when they're over the hill and past their expiration date, we just move down the age bracket! There will always be a future generation of young hot chicks for men if we play our cards right and stay on the path to success! I remember when I was 23 and I was rejecting all the 18 year olds because I thought I had outgrown them and was therefore too cool for them, plus the 27 year olds in their short black dresses were telling me "I'm old enough to be your mother honey". Stupid me didn't realize back then that I was deluding myself by thinking that my broke ass could just trade up on chicks. Hot chicks in my age bracket could do better than some bum like me. So I found myself stuck in frienzone after friendzone. That's when I discovered cougars and milfs and gilfs and baby mamas and thots. Now the chicks that were 27 when I was 23 are now 36 and have fuzzy upper lips and baby baggage and aren't as hot as they used to be. Now they really look old enough to be my mother, especially the Arab and Eastern European chicks, boy oh boy! And the 18 year olds that I was stupid enough to style on are now 27 and they're turning down 23 year old guys. I'm 32 and my current chick is 23! Funny how shit works! I'm going to create a public forum on my podcast page for the ladies that I've offended on facebook and youtube over the years. Ladies, write in and tell me exactly what you think is wrong with me, I want to know! What was the straw that broke the camel's back?! What made you unfriend me?! What was that one post or comment you read that made you go "eww, I hate this guy"?! Ladies, this is your time to shine! Tell me how wrong I am! Tell me how much of a loser I am, how much of a creep I am, how much of a perv I am! "How insensitive of you", right ladies?! Let everyone know how small my dick is! Tell them how broke I am! I'm just mad because I live in my mother's basement, right ladies?! "He never gets laid", right ladies?! Tell me how sick I am, how much of a misogynist I am, how much of a chauvinistic pig I am! "God forbid you have a daughter", right ladies?! Ladies, team up on me! Get your girlfriends involved! Feminists, blog about me! Tell your feminist friends! That's right ladies! Don't hold back! No holds barred! Tell me what you wish someone would do to me. You hope I get killed? You hope I get aids?? Say waaaat? Darling, OUCH! You sure told me! Ladies, tell me how lame I am, how insecure I am! "Mommy issues", right ladies?! "You must hate your own mother", right ladies?! "My mother never taught me any manners", right ladies?! "I got bullied in high school", right ladies?! "I got dropped as a kid", right ladies?! Ladies, you sure taught me a lesson! You really showed me!!! Wait, what was that?! My mother should have swallowed me?! Hey! Hey! Whoa! Whoa! Ladies, these are my feelings we're talking about here!!!