The Truth About Introverts

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I have been an introvert all my life. I still enjoy other people's company and crave social interaction (especially recently), but most times, I embrace my alone time to myself to recharge and grow.
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@sanghamitrag7270 3 жыл бұрын

Just because someone enjoys solitude, doesn't mean they are lonely. No one asks an extrovert to talk less or socialise less. But, I often see introverts being pushed against their wish to do things they don't wanna do!! Like, why !! Thank you for making this beautiful video. ❤️

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I agree with you completely 🥰 introverts have our own special place in this world. Thank yoh

@houstonka 3 жыл бұрын

I am the same way 100%. God created us in a special way as a gentle , humble souls in love with nature.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I love your comparison with nature 😍 and I completely agree. I am just learning how to embrace it. Thanks for your comment ❤

@MsHarmony-qd7mx Жыл бұрын

That's one of the best ways to describe us.

@ThomasHoellriegl 10 ай бұрын

No god created anything. Men created gods.

@sweetseasons2510 3 жыл бұрын

I love being introverted..... my soul feels more comfortable when I am alone or with limited people around me. The deeper and more meaningful the conversation the better ..... small talk scares me 😱 😂💗

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Small talk scares me too! I feel so awkward and not myself. I am so glad you can relate 🥰

@pavlova3310 3 жыл бұрын

Lol everyone hates small talk, me especially

@jackchueh1231 3 жыл бұрын

I love watching movies in a theater alone. Just me, a diet coke and bucket of popcorn.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

That sounds so perfect actually. I can't wait to do that again!

@hufflepuff5975 3 жыл бұрын

Wow... Wish i could do that do..

@Ssaidak 2 жыл бұрын

And me. I did that another day in a cinema in Edinburgh, watching the Christmas classic Remember the night.

@gw7615 3 жыл бұрын

I'm a person who enjoys my own company too. Sometimes being mistaken as arrogant which I'm not. I find that being dependant on external stimuli to keep me entertained is not fulfilling. One can be alone and feel fulfilled. A free spirit, alone but not lonely.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I can relate to your every word. I think it is difficult for people to understand that this time alone is a MUST for introverts. Thank you for your lovely comment.

@lydiaderhake2532 2 жыл бұрын

Someone told me I was an introvert, despite my seemingly vivacious personality. I disagreed with them, until I heard this definition: "An extrovert is someone who recharges by being with people. An introvert is someone who recharges by being alone." Now I agree. :)

@MalamaLife 2 жыл бұрын

love that :)

@timothyryan6947 3 жыл бұрын

I am an introvert too. I find energy in solitude. Being in group totally drains my energy. I am often looking for a way to escape cocktail parties, etc. But, I'd say as introverts we are in good company with other introverts, like Barack Obama, Albert Einstein, Abraham Lincoln, Hillary Clinton. The list goes on. It is the quiet, humble people who often make a difference in the world.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I completely agree Tim. I admire the introverted qualities of those people you listed. I think introverts naturally spend more time alone and results in being more in tuned with themselves. Thank you for your lovely comment 😊

@joangonzales3106 3 жыл бұрын

I am also an introvert but I as when I get older I realized that theres no need to please other people just to be part of them and not being one of them.What is important is that I am happy and value my importance as a person more and not bei ng pressured by our society.😊Thank you for a wonderful vlog because this is very helpful in dealing our daily life.

@hengpatrick63 3 жыл бұрын

Me too. Its the "Empath" tribe :). Introverts have more 'antennas' and often absorb other energies. This causes us to be easily drained. See ya, Love the video.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! I love what you said. I do feel like I have my antennas up when I am interacting with others. Thank you for watching

@LoveLeeMeJenny 3 жыл бұрын

Another introvert here. For a long time I wished I was more "normal". Something that helped me accept and embrace the way I am was a conversation I had with a very outspoken and energetic person. I told her I envied her ability to speak so freely and fill the room with her intelligence. She answered that while that can be a very useful trait she wished to be more like me, because on the few occasions I do speak people really listen. This has become one of the little gems interactions with other people can give you. It has helped teach me to love who I am and not who I wish I was.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

So true. If we all just embraced our natural abilities and qualities, I think it can help us in so many ways. Ever since embracing my introverted qualities, I feel so much happier :) Thanks for watching

@Simon-je7ko 3 жыл бұрын

It's weird that one day you find out that you are an introvert. Me I just knew I didn't fit. I like to walk alone. Because it makes me recharge. The world is going so fast. Way to fast for me. So to walk alone. It's like a balance. If I didn't recharge I was going to go insane. I prefer to be alone than to be in bad company.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I have always felt this way as well, but I couldn't really put it into words. You are so right about feeling a balance when walking alone. It's very therapeutic for me. Thanks so much for watching

@i_9330 3 жыл бұрын

Your videography is so good and your voice is too pleasant to hear 😇

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. So awesome to hear 😊❤

@elansings 3 жыл бұрын

So beautiful my friend! My introversion lets me be more creative. To be creative means to be in love with life. You can be creative only if you love life enough that you want to enhance its beauty, you want to bring a little more music to it, a little more poetry to it, a little more dance to it.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, you said it so beautifully. I admire your interpretation of creativity and life. I think you're right. I enjoy the process of making these videos because I feel so blessed with everything in my life and this is my way of reflecting on my own life. Thank you for sharing your insight :)

@reciprocalhealing 3 жыл бұрын

Totally feel you on needing time to recharge after being around people.. it is exhausting. It's still fulfilling in some ways though. I only learned that I'm introverted in the last half a decade or so in my life so not the same in the regard but the video resonated nevertheless😚❤

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I feel you! Especially in the past couple of months, I've missed being around people a lot! I have recharged a lot more than usual 😁 thanks kelss

@AllThingsAlexa 3 жыл бұрын

Your channel is growing so fast! Not surprised your content is amazing!! 👏🏻💫

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for noticing Alexa!! it's because of sweet people like YOU 😁 thank you so much.

@meedit9096 3 жыл бұрын

Very true Alexa

@joshuathinkingoutloud 3 жыл бұрын

I’m very similar lol. However, when I am passionate about a topic, I do become quite extroverted. What an interesting setting. I wouldn’t have imagined that a forest that looks like that would exist in Hawaii. Thank you for another beautiful video 😃

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Josh! Can you believe this is Maui? It's quite high up on the volcano and we go here to escape the heat. The smell of the trees is such a treat too. Thanks for the comment

@aliciagc2539 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for beautifully articulating what it's like to be an introvert. For much of my life I tried to be more extroverted when everything inside me knew it wasn't really me. Now that I have embraced my true nature I feel more at peace and have come to appreciate and love who I am, just as I am. My introverted friends get this. It's a wonderful thing to find like Souls.

@bajdcmp 3 жыл бұрын

INTROVERTS WHERE YOU AT? 😌 there's beauty in becoming an introvert in this world full of noise. Only introverts know ♥️ so much love for this video! P.S. If you haven't, I suggest you read QUIET by Susan Cain. It's such a good book to read, screams fact and wisdom!! 🙌🏻

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I was just recommended that book :) thank you so much

@markblado4282 3 жыл бұрын

I can really relate to this Sophie! My mom called me the “quiet one” too. I rarely talked as a child, but would whisper to her instead. As a teen, I forced myself out of my shell by getting retail jobs. In college, I was a DJ for the campus radio station. Here I could play the pop music I liked and talk about the albums on air. Slowly I was coming out of my shell when I wanted to. Even today, at a social event, I can withdraw and watch, or engage with the people I want to. Sometimes I mentally prepare to become the “ life of the party” if needed! Afterwards, I need to withdraw and recharge. I really do admire a good stand up comedian, and good impromptu comedy groups!

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

You are so COOL!! i love that you became a campus radio station DJ. Is this what brought you out of your shell or did you get the job because you were trying to be more extroverted? Any job that allows me to explore music is really cool in my book. I also admire a good stand up comedian as well. It takes a lot of courage and wit to up there and perform. Thank you Mark

@markblado4282 3 жыл бұрын

Awwww... thank you for the great compliment! ☺️😊🙏🙏🙏🙏 I really appreciate it!! ♥️ The DJ job really allowed me to come out of my shell. It was a two hour show from 8 AM to 10 AM on Fridays. I had to sign on with announcements, then get right in the music. I had the show pretty well planned out, so I knew what I would be playing for two hours. I did take requests, and promised I would play them the following week! I was terrified at first, but once I got rolling, it really was a lot of fun! Anytime you’re with audio files, you’ll learn a lot about music, groups, and artists. Many I’ve never heard of before. So that opened up my mind to a lot of different genres of music. That knowledge really helped my self-confidence. Almost everyone on the planet likes some kind of music!

@freewillietoday 3 жыл бұрын

I am with you on quiet and alone moments. While my life is active and filled with associates, colleagues, and family, I treasure time alone with my thoughts and feelings allowing me to recharge and to reset the table. Thanks for this thoughtful video and storytelling.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I tend to gravitate towards people who are similar to me in this aspect. I think knowing this about ourselves can be a huge benefit. Thank you so much Wilfred 😊

@sven28329 Ай бұрын

Your voice is certainly not the loudest, but it makes the world a better place. I'm glad that you let your voice be heard here. Again and again I get new food for thought. Your videos are always inspiring. "The forests would be silent if only the loudest birds sang." Thank you for sharing your voice and thoughts.

@kfernandes268 3 жыл бұрын

So reassuring to hear this. I am so similar. I am an observer. Love being with people but not talk too much. You give me confidence.

@JanitaGutierrez 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I’m so blessed to have found your channel, I been having a hard time and your videos are a reminder to love myself no matter how I am. Not feeling bad for being an introvert, but not putting myself in a box 📦 is exactly how I feel! ♥️ Much love !

@marshabrubaker185 3 жыл бұрын

I just found your channel and am thoroughly enjoying your videos. I too am an introvert. In fact, I've been tested as an extreme introvert as I need large amounts of time alone in order to deal with the world. I recently discovered & have embraced minimilism. Recently, I went through my space & donated 3/4 of my possessions. Next up is sentimental items.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate you sharing your story. I bet it feels amazing now that you have cleared space in your life! so amazing

@NH-mx4to Жыл бұрын

Listening this and your other video about the introverts relieved me a lot. Thank you ♥️

@bettyboop2094 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your calming videos! I have discovered this channel recently. Already got rid of the usless things in the house and folded anything left carefully. It is a mindful exercise. I am into slow living also, just didn’t knew it was called as such. You are a beautifull soul and a lightworker! Keep doing what your intuition tells you

@jenniferanderson4586 2 жыл бұрын

Oh the beauty of your gentle and quiet spirit ❤️

@lisewegener4548 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Sofie I love your videoes and this one really gave me a lot of good new points and reflections and wonderfull slow pictures scenes. You are the best on KZfaq for Me ❤

@vivianarellano8608 3 жыл бұрын

I love all your videos. Keep it up. ❤️

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

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@ashikachand6929 3 жыл бұрын

We relate in so many ways. I am so enjoying all your videos on slow living and minimalism.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😊 and so happy you can relate!

@yashom306 Жыл бұрын

'Planing the escape from the crowd' wow totally me. I'm glad you are open about it ❤️ wish you the best

@Nina21_ 3 жыл бұрын

This was so beautiful ❤ i could relate to everything you said 😊

@nkolipas2237 3 жыл бұрын

I have discovered this wonderful channel. You are amazing. I can relate 100% to all of your videos. Sending love from Spain

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Hello from Hawaii! Thank you so much. That makes me so happy to hear 😊❤

@mrsljune 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your video so much and the time you put into crafting it.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching. Appreciate your kind words too :)

@ashleypotts4165 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful love this. I can relate ❤

@rapunzell7740 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this channel 🙏💛 Greetings from Finland 🍃

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching 😍

@PilgrimKat 3 жыл бұрын

This is lovely, the script it beautifully written :) I'd say I'm an ambivert, which means that it's often my extroverted self that's on display, seeing as that seems to be what's most favored. I love spending time alone though, and I find that it's when I'm by myself that I'm able to explore my creativity to it's fullest measure 🎨

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Kat. As an ambivert, you have best of both worlds! I am also able to explore my creativity when I am able to spend some time alone. Thank you for your lovely comment.

@Senior_El_Guapo 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video you validate my thoughts about being an introvert myself

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I think introverts are great in so many ways! I'm glad that you can relate to me. Thank you for your comment Chris.

@MonethSato 3 жыл бұрын

I have to watch again☺️I’m an introvert too and I love being alone and spend my time cleaning our house☺️

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I love cleaning my house too :) it is actually one of my favorite things to do! thanks for watching

@manannersisyan7831 3 жыл бұрын

Interesting thoughts ,as always .enjoy your frame of mind ❤

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching 😊

@mikegreenguitar 3 жыл бұрын

HA!!! I KNEW you were an introvert, so awesome! I found your channel earlier this week, I've probably watched a dozen of your videos. They're always so calm and peaceful, your speaking style and voice helps the vibe. And beautiful Maui is wonderful to see. My new favorite channel!

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

That's so sweet of you. Thank you so much! It means a lot to me. Big hugs from Maui ❤

@sophiemira1196 3 жыл бұрын

The aesthetic of your videos is immaculate.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Sophie. I'm so happy to hear that and motivates me to make it even better :)

@DeandraStubbs 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing video so calming to watch and listen too; I love my only time as well I thrive in it. So happy I found your channel saying hello from the Turks and Caicos Islands 😊💕

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Deandra! Thank you so much for watching and supporting the channel. I really appreciate it. Also, you are so lucky to live in such a beautiful place :)

@DeandraStubbs 3 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife you live in a beautiful place as well, im so glad we are both islanders with the same goal to slow down and simplify our life.....I have just started to show this on my channel as well.

@minniezurbano879 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Sophie 🙋‍♀️❤ Thank you for this video. I got emotional...because it was like hearing the exact same description of myself. Made me realize that I am not different. I am just me. Being alone, exploring things on my own...loving the company and being content with one or none...i feel more free when by myself. Thank you Sophie for enabling me to see the beauty of an introvert person...much more, you made me appreciate the uniqueness in me. 💞

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I am so happy to hear that :) thank you so much for sharing! I think introverts are so special in our own ways.

@wendyuyennguyen 3 жыл бұрын

you said it perfectly. I used to even misunderstand myself becuase I didn't know why I was so shy. Thank God for the internet because I found out there are a whole lot of people like me. By the way, have you ever thought of having a podcast channel? Cos your voice is so soothing I would listen to it every day. I deleted youtube and instagram from my phone as a way to detox from social media, but I found myself looking up your youtube every day on google lol. My husband said I might as well redownload the youtube app.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Wendy! always good to connect with another introvert :) I am actually trying to re-upload all my videos onto a podcast for people who are not trying to get off social media. I will announce it when this happens!

@BlackButterfly78 3 жыл бұрын

That nature walk is everything!!

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Such a beautiful part of Maui :) it smelled incredible too

@arleneyamagata5542 3 жыл бұрын

Omg Sophie...I can completely relate. I also find peace in the silence. And after interaction with others I require some quiet time to recharge. The things I've been feeling you've articulated so beautifully here. Mahalo!🌸🌴🌺

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I just love connecting with other introverts 😊 because I feel like we understand each other on a deeper level ❤

@arleneyamagata5542 3 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife I feel the same way.😊

@rajim423 3 жыл бұрын

Soothing voice...with calm bgn

@euniceserrano6499 3 жыл бұрын

I totally get this! When I was younger I kind of tried to be an extrovert as like what you said, they are more liked and loved socially but as I grow older and realized my worth and the things that really matter to me I didnt care much if some people dislike me for who I am. I don't want to fit to anybody's mold but mine. At the end of the day we should choose to do the things that make us come alive😊

@sumasunil5974 3 жыл бұрын

The Term My voice will never be the loudest or most dominate one in the crowd....Made my day, this is the common mistake which I make with my 10year son and drain out my energy...Thank You helping me to realise.....

@banthony8545 3 жыл бұрын

Yes to all the need for solitude. Also, I can't relax in a messy room or one that has too much nick nacks or "busy" texties. That's me and so many others. But I get a kick out of those who can thrive alright around a mess, just leave clothes on the closet floor etc. Life would be so flat without extroverts. Gotta have both, I think. I try to always keep in mind, I wouldn't want everyone to be like me, or agree with me all the time (some is good though-chuckle). Nice video.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I agree with you that we need both extroverts and introverts in this world : ) My friend is an extrovert and she always pushes me to get out there, meet people and enjoy socializing. I try to expand my horizon through her. You're right, I wouldn't want everyone to be like me. Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment.

@BrandonFrias 3 жыл бұрын

I subscribed yesterday :) You’re story telling and cinematography is SO good 🙌🏼 i wish I had time to upload more frequently but I’m not quite there yet with my creativity 😅

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Brandon! That is so awesome you think so 😆 I am posting twice a week at the moment and really surprised at myself for keeping up with it. Will check out more of your videos

@Patricia-fi9zo 3 жыл бұрын

Nice to get to know more about you Sophie! I can definitely relate to some of the introverted tendencies. Was thinking about doing a video on the topic as well. Time alone can really produce creativity and conserve energy. 😊

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I would love to see your interpretation of this topic Patricia 😍❤ I'm always curious about other people's insight and thoughts as an introvert. Thank you so much!

@Patricia-fi9zo 3 жыл бұрын

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@user-wp5od8oz5c 2 жыл бұрын

Oh I am just like you! and I thought I was odd... Thank you very much!!!

@meychu7318 3 жыл бұрын

I love watching all your videos. I kinda relate to you almost 100%. Before, i thought i was snob, weird, lonely, or depressed sometime but after i came across on your channel, it validates my feelings that i am perfectly normal. I too love minimalism, slow living and introvert. Thanks so much for being an inspiration through your videos. It’s so calming to watch...

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy that I am also not alone! minimalism, slow living, living a simple and quiet life... this has always resonated with me. thanks for watching

@meychu7318 3 жыл бұрын

I am following a group in FB on Filipino Minimalism. I hope you dont mind if i share your channel so other Filipinos also could watch and be inspired. Lots of love from the Philippines.😘

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

@@meychu7318 oh I would be so grateful 🙏💕 thank you so much Michelle

@markblado4282 3 жыл бұрын

Really great cinema photography!! The forest walk is beautiful!!💚💚💚💚

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Mark! When you come to Maui, I highly recommend walking through this forest. It feels like meditation.

@markblado4282 3 жыл бұрын

Malama Life Sounds great!! Will do!! 🌿💚💚💚💚🌿🌿

@mczilla8628 3 жыл бұрын

Yes i totally agree you need that quiet time to recharge your batteries

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Aww so glad you can relate! One of my closest friends is an extrovert and she has a completely different way of recharging her battery 😁

@ravenswoodwitch58 3 жыл бұрын

Totally get this 💖

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I think introverts understand each other fully 😊❤

@umitagupta9661 3 жыл бұрын

I am an introvert too I love my personal space and happy to introverted Your videos motivate me Love your videos 😌😊

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

So glad to hear that 😊❤ thank you for watching

@NkuliMamabolo 3 жыл бұрын

the trees are so calming

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I wish you could walk through them!! It was such a calming and peaceful place :) Thank you for your comment lovely.

@healyourliferelax7137 3 жыл бұрын

I can process my creative thought being alone,,,I'm so connected with with the universe,,,,wow,,it's growing ur channels when I subscribe u got only 770,,, subscribers, congrats

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I love that you said "I'm so connected with the universe." I can relate to these words and I feel the same when I am alone. Thank you so much. All thanks to supportive people like YOU!

@suanclarissejoyg.5434 2 жыл бұрын

We are in the same cup of tea 🤗

@michaeldemetriou3043 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Sophie for sharing your video 👍❤

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

❤🥰 your support is amazing. Thank you so much

@michaeldemetriou3043 3 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife Your so welcome. Your videos are amazing too. Always look forward to watching ❤👍

@carolynmarshall1968 3 жыл бұрын

🇬🇧 I get you 100% I’m exactly the same. My husband says I’m anti social but I’m not it’s just I prefer to be on my own and like to see friends now and again, that’s just the way I am, you can’t change someone. I will talk to anyone but I’m happy in my own body.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same! My friends are introverts too and we completely understand each other and only meet once every 6 months. Feeling satisfied being alone is a great feeling :)

@jacobl7337 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you 🌠

@alisaknv6895 3 жыл бұрын

💛 Thank you!

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Alyssa❤😍 so happy you liked.

@maureenhunter11 3 жыл бұрын

Thankyou Sophie.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching Maureen ❤

@elaitupaz5858 3 жыл бұрын

I hate loud and unnecessary noises, i prefer solitude, during off work i enjoy reading books and journaling. Now i understand myself, thank you.♥️

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I am exactly the same. Just need to turn off the noise and enjoy the silence once in a while 😊❤ thanks for watching

@bluelips14 3 жыл бұрын

I felt that your description of yourself suits me.. i prefer fading into the background, doing my own stuff.. i am amazed that an introvert like you can open up so much by doing a youtube channel and putting yourself out there..

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I am so glad that you can relate. Starting a KZfaq and putting myself out there was a huge challenge for me, but I knew I wanted to go for it 🥰 I am so happy that I did. Thank you for watching

@bluelips14 3 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife thank you for replying..! I enjoy your video and your voice is soothing. I tried watching other videos on minimal or simple living but sometimes their voice can be overly loud and excited 😅 do you watch any other videos in KZfaq that has similar content as yours? Do you mine sharing?

@user-ne4us4rx5g 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you thank you thank you

@bellesoriano2244 Жыл бұрын

This video really describes me being an introvert😊

@annesmith1535 3 жыл бұрын

I'm the same. Great video, thank you

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I am glad you can relate! It's always cool to connect with other introverts. Thank you Anne.

@mariakarissalanza1013 3 жыл бұрын

I'm not born as an introvert but somehow I find my way there

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I never thought of it that way, but I can definitely love that! 🥰 thank you so much

@seankirchner2378 3 жыл бұрын

I'm an introvert as well, but with work I have to deal with people. I definitely need alone time to recharge.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Do you feel like interaction with the people at work is enough socialization for you? I definitely do. I need the evenings and weekends to just have some time alone :)

@seankirchner2378 3 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife Absolutely enough socialization at work. I'm also an empath, so crowds of people can be exhausting, if not overwhelming. Alone time is good, but I miss having a partner to share my life with. I find spending time outdoors helps me feel calm.

@tnoel374 3 жыл бұрын

We had a saying in the business world, that after 28 yrs. I retired from. Quote: (1) There are those who watch what's happening. (2) There are those who ask what's happening? (3) Then there are those who say, WHAT JUST HAPPENED????? We are all made of H2O, go figure?

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I love that! I know all of the three types of people 😁 thanks so muchf for the comment!

@kizzymulcaster6057 3 жыл бұрын

I am also an introvert nature is my safe place and my happy place. I am also very quite but i am learning skills to increase public speaking

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Hello fellow introvert. thanks for watching. KZfaq has been my biggest challenge to improve my speaking skills :)

@simplyliving22 3 жыл бұрын

I can totally relate to this.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Just learning to embrace being an introvert. I think there are so many benefits!

@dongmeilyu9688 3 жыл бұрын

People always assume I am an extrovert but actually I am highly sensitive, so I guess I am sort of in between, anyway, I like your videos, thank you for sharing.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Do you think maybe you are both? an ambivert? I think I have changed over the years :)

@hakdog6569 3 жыл бұрын

I'm used to be the person who is sociable, like literally I can make friends to anyone, I can bubbly speak and enjoy other people's company not until I talk to myself. But, as time passed by, I've learned to focus on myself and that's the time I've felt that I want to talk to others but it seems like they don't want to listen to me but it's okay. However, when I slowly felt invalidated it was the time I kept myself from harsh reality. I kept myself from others and slowly closing the doors to communicate to others. Honestly, it scares me. I've been too shy, I'm doubtful to go in every events I'm invited because of people who might be there too.

@alkabohara6970 3 жыл бұрын

I am exactly like you 🥺💞❤

@donnakinsey9703 3 жыл бұрын

Namaste 🙏🌺

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤ thank you! Namaste

@LionsGateCorp 3 жыл бұрын

Consider taking the online Myers-Briggs analysis...ENTJ here. G'day.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I am an INFJ :) I love reading about different personality types.

@ivanfures8540 3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I think you are female version of me. Being alone doesn't mean that I am lonely. Greetings from Croatia!

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I never feel lonely :)

@ivanfures8540 3 жыл бұрын

Malama Life One said that intelligent people like being alone.

@chanthana7694 3 жыл бұрын

I understand. After my divorce, people think I'm lonely that I must find a man just because I'm alone, but I'm not lonely.

@ivanfures8540 3 жыл бұрын

@@chanthana7694 I know the feeling, some people keep saying to me that I have to find someone😂. Idk what’s wrong woth these people, just can’t be with anyone just for being with someone.

@gunjanbhatt4810 3 жыл бұрын

It’s was a perfect reflection of the way I have been, I am and I will continue to function... simply beautiful 🥰 Your voice is so relaxing 🙏🏻 I wish you all the good luck Ma’am You have a subscription for rest of your life. Thanks for sharing the treasure 🙏🏻

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much 🥰❤ appreciate you so much.

@saadiasabouri89 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I'm a social person i love to be with friends ... but I'm more introverted I like to set alone at home I feel like more comfortable or walking alone sometimes I prefer to talk with myself than talking with anybody...

@oliviasaraswati291 3 жыл бұрын

Hi, Sophie.. I am extrovert.. thank you for sharing what introvert feels and thinks, since they rarely tell what they think or feel and it's really confused me. Hehehe 😅

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Haha aw thanks olivia❤ I am so happy you found it valuable.

@funkymonkey8777 10 ай бұрын

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@ZikhonaN 3 жыл бұрын

First 😍

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Aww yay! You're so awesome. Thank you for watching :)

@Beige647 3 жыл бұрын

Same with me! 🖤❤️

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Introverts are pretty awesome i think 😁

@Beige647 3 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife Yes. And we are not anti-social as they have assumed. Hahahah!

@nuroyshe9025 3 жыл бұрын

The place is beautiful, peaceful but little bit scary too 😅

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love the woods 😊 so peaceful and enchanting! I wouldn't go here after the dark though haha

@nuroyshe9025 3 жыл бұрын

@@MalamaLife same here girl 😅😅

@Kelly977 3 жыл бұрын

I thought this video is about me. ;) I found out recently some people misunderstand because they don't know there are people like us. ;D

@eversunnyguy 3 жыл бұрын

I can relate so much to you. The only difference is I am a male. lol. I actually love exploring national parks in US alone than with company.

@juairiya4266 3 жыл бұрын

My big bro usually said me, that, I was too intovert also selfish. Some people said, that, I was unsocial. But believe me, I was a biggest fan of ICT and I have some good friends from around the world. My friend's who lives in Facebook and ate crush usually said me, that, why don't I enjoy my life the way they do? Actually for my family members, I was boring because I was too thoughtful then my age. But I know a organized teenage only can give me a fresh 20's. Now I was 20 and I was pursuing my dream's but my school friends are still aim less.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

It seems like you know your boundaries and have your priorities straight. I hear it so much. A lot of people around me might think I am selfish because I am really protective of my time, but it's important to an introvert. I wish you the best!

@abeagleslife 3 жыл бұрын

When people ask those with introverted tendencies to speak up more...shouldn't they also point out to those with extraverted tendencies to speak less? Great video.

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Agree with you :)

@bajapickleball1052 3 жыл бұрын

My family is from Maui. Hana. Do you live there full time? How is your BreathWork meditation?

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

I love the whole Hana community so much! I work a lot with the community there, so maybe it's possible I might have ran into your family too? :) Yes I do. I've been really into BreathWork this past year! It has helped my mental clarity so much.

@allcaps2106 3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

So cool you can relate 😊 thanks for your comment!

@ITgirlniki 3 жыл бұрын

You just get me going Sophie. I think you are god's own child with finest wisdom !

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

aww you are too kind :) thank you for watching

@dean4125 3 жыл бұрын

hi Sophie nice video Im somewhat introvert but I do like being around people. I keep thinking about getting a dog but its hard when I work fulltime I feel like a dog wouldnt get enough of my attention. I wish I can work from home like you. my kids keep asking for a dog a lot to. but i live in a small apartment and not sure if there would be enough room for one. anyways I have a question for u. what ethnicity are you?

@MalamaLife 3 жыл бұрын

Dean! Having dogs changed my life for the better in so many ways 😁 but you are right, they need a lot of attention and need lots of time to socialize ( I learned the hard way! ) I hope you can add a dog to your family one day 😊 also, I'm Korean. I was born there and grew up there until i was 6. ❤