I also met my husband on an app😍. Being a black woman in a BW/WM marriage, I took upon myself to thoroughly educate my white husband about life from my view as a black woman because racism is something he doesn't experience a lot or at all. Beyond that education we had already decided that we would use the race differences to our positive advantage. We choose to live our lives spiritually by choosing to live by humanity(human race) over racial views . That choice has lead us to seeing each other as the people we married and we are the team. We set boundaries that exempts us from having to listen to our family, friends or strangers opinions towards our lives. We are the change we want to see in others. It's beautiful, fulfilling and filled with love. Wishing you two all the best💖💖. Keep the positivity coming.

As a BW married to a WM for the last 27 years, my advice is to never stop learning and appreciating each other as whole human beings. Listen and try to understand the other's POV. Do not dismiss concerns or feelings. Validate each other's experiences. The connection that full acknowledgement of each other creates, is invaluable for a lasting, healthy and rewarding relationship. And make sure to share your kiddies' pics. They are going to be gorgeous!

Watching interracial couples balances my perspective out after seeing soo much hate everywhere else. ❤❤❤❤❤

My husband and I were married over 30 years ago and we are an interracial couple. I married him in his home country where I was the only white person around for miles. This left me a lifelong impression on me of what it was like to be singled out and being treated differently. This was so important for me even though I found it very hard. To me, sharing the same faith was and is so much more important. However, I don’t think you can’t not think about race if you are going to have children. That would be unfair to them because no matter what you have to say that race doesn’t matter, it will impact your children. I can say this even growing up in one of the most multicultural urban city in the world. You can’t ignore racism, because your children will experience it at some level. My experiences early in my marriage made me very nervous to have a child and I waited a very long time before I had children. During those years I made sure to immerse myself in my husband’s culture (and he did the same with mine). Please don’t ignore this, it is so important. Racism can be subtle, but just because you don’t notice it, your children will. You need to embrace the challenge full on. Just my personal experience.

I hear white guys say they don’t see color BUT as a black woman OUR color points to our “Culture”. So you’re right. It’s not our color that we want you to see and learn about, it’s our Cultural.. Blacks are taught to live and learn about white culture no “seasoning” and whites don’t learn about black culture, “seasoning”. Our hair, food, lifestyle and music is not the same. And as a white man that’s where the learning comes in. Love you guys authenticity!! ❤

Yall are a gorgeous couple, Your kids are gonna be so cute!. My gf is black and she's absolutely the Ying to my Yang. ❤

As another White guy in an interracial marriage, I feel the same way -- I don't think about being different races on a daily basis, we're just in love. For comparison, I'm tall (6'2'') and my wife is short (5'0'') and that difference comes up more often (once a week or so?) than our racial difference.

My black wife and I have been happily married for a long time now and I love hearing interracial couples perspective on their relationship and how others perceive them. Kolter Bouchard who popularized the 'BLACK WIFE EFFECT' was a guest on my podcast channel discussing interracial relationships, race and the 'BLACK WIFE EFFECT'. Great discussion for anyone in interracial relationships.

I'm the child of an interracial couple! Thank you for this lovely video

It's really sad that in2024 , we still need to have these kinds of conversations . Different isn't bad , its just different. We are all human . I'm attracted to good people end of.

Hi guys it is so obvious you are perfect for each other. I love the way you interact with each other both expressing unwavering support for each other. As a wm i believe love never sees colour and it is imperative that wm follow the lead/trend set by bm in opening their options to all races of women. Stay strong, stay safe and keep posting the message of love❤️🥰

You guys are 100% right😍😍You were also lucky to have open-minded parents.

100 + years of mixed race in my family (on both sides)...and I'm proud of it. I wouldn't be here without them.

What a beautiful couple. Love is blind. Simple and true.

My boyfriend is Hispanic and I’m white and not enough people talk about this stuff. I also met him on a dating app. Bumble in 2018! Thanks for sharing this on here ❤️

love it love it love it !!! your kids will be beautiful , my son is 6' 4 his girlfriend is 5'11 they are both former runway models... your situation is blessed

I stopped watching the news too in 2016. I have been much happier since then .

Love this new subscriber!!! You guys have such a positive attitude and mindset I love it 🥰 my husband is Asian and I’m Black. So totally can understand 💕❣️

You're such a beautiful couple keep the love flowing 🎊 🎉 💖 🙏 💕

I am older but I. absolutely agree with you both.

Beautiful matches💖👌 and children of Christ Jesus The Most High!🙏

Candied Pecan + Ginger is a visually delicious combination.

I am interracial relationship and have been for 10+ years. We live in Sweden and here people are not used to it so they act very weird and funny around us. I try to se it from their perspective but I feel like people should know better it is 2024, we are not in the 60´s anymore, there is Tv and social media. It is as if some people want to be backwards, like they do not want to be open minded.

He is handsome

Hey love is love. You guys love each other, do it up , you two. You have a beautiful love. Let it grow.

It is now 2024. I got married in 1984. My son was a year old, my family was not at the wedding. My parents told me that a month was too short a notice for them to come to New York from Maryland. I knew deep down they did not approve of my blond choice of a husband. We are not together for at least 30 years because of his drinking, not his race. Ehat I found interesting as of two weeks ago, my sister asked me id I was ashamed of my marriage. She is always one to worry about what other people think. No, I am not ashamed of my marriage. I am dissappoin ted that it didn't last. One of the worries with my family was that he would call me the N word during an argument. That never happened. First of all any one who would call their significant other such, is a racist and would not marry a Black person. I am surprised and saddened that we still have this conversation about interracial marrieages. For me, marriage is the only way to stop the hatred. Love has no color, nationality or status. We love who we are attracted to and fall in love with. My father only wanted me to be sure the relationship was not one sided. He insulted me when he thought I was with a white man for money or status. My husband was as his T shirt once said "Flaming Liberal". He had no money except for what he worked for. A good man, except for the alcohol, which can ruin any marriage. C'est la vie.❤

I am a BW married to a WM - 23 years, 28 as a couple . My husband was oblivious to the racism I've experienced; thinking that I was overreacting. Until last year in Alaska when a restaurant wouldn't serve us.

I greatly appreciate your narrative! May the both of you enjoy a long and fulfilling life together.

I Love The Both Of Your Personalities. You're An Inspiration. I Can't Wait To See Your Beautiful Babies. Your Attitudes Are Exactly It Should Be. #GodIsOnYourSide And Remember #LoveTrumpsHate 💯

wonderful video, I love the different subjects that you touched on. I wish you lots of love and happiness.

Im glad to see you two loving each other. Just be true to each other and respect each others feedings.

This was beautiful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing! God Bless!💜

Awesome video! You two are beyond your years in wisdom. Wishing you both many happy, loving, exciting years together.

I love the authenticity of your relationship, you’re both clearly on the same page. A relationship where there is appreciation for each others is, beautiful to watch. I am enjoying you both all the way from the uk 🇬🇧 ❤❤❤

My husband and I have been married 32 years in November. I'm black and he is white/asian. I just think of my husband as my husband. He is not his race, but my husband. Our daughter is just our daughter, and not our black/white/asian daughter. We live down south, and I can only think of one blatant thing has happened in all those years. We're both American, but we do have different cultures within our American culture, so we do discuss our cultural difference. Cultural differences do play into our perception, experiences, opinions, and beliefs at times.

Hello loves. Y’all are precious, God bless you you both🙏🏻💜

Thank you so much for an important and amazing video❤

Love this!!!!❤❤❤❤ Continue to be a light you guys🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. In Jesus Name!!!

Omg I'm so glad I came across your video I definitely agree with everything you're both saying it's just absolutely in 2024 this is still an issue or problem I come from a military family we were raised with diversity I'm a beautiful woman of color I have biracial children our whole family is diverse we believe in people are people too and it is who makes you happy, loves, supports you like you said you get 1 ticket thts it I love meeting different races the food, the language, the music everything my children are the same yea we get the looks the stares my sister and I had had a black guy come up to us and get mad if we were talking to a white guy but his girlfriend was white she was just as shocked as we were it's ridiculous! Maybe I need to try tinder again I'm still in search of the love of my life I love your honesty, the love you have for each other and your genuiness I'm definitely checking out your channel! 💖💖

Right on beautiful humans 🙏🏽🙏🏽😉

I love y'all. Just keep living your lives. Right is right and good is good.

❤❤❤as BW I am not have self confidence to face the racism that's amazing ❤

There is one race the human race 😊🎉

I JUST LOVE YOU TWO!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤ CULTURAL BLENDING OR WHATEVER; LOVE IS LOVE; as the song goes don’t worry be happy!!!!!!🤎🤍🌍🌍🌎😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💙❤️💚🩵🖤👏🏽👏🏻🫶🏾 WHAT IS THE PROBLEM????!??🌍🌎🌏

Racism does happen in those relations. I know a white female who's married to a black guy but does not like black women. So sad.

He mentioned God! Lord y’all are beautiful!

Five minutes into the video, all I hear is “love who loves you”. Nothing else matters. It’s important but it doesn’t matter.

I believe that the quality of your families had a lot to do with your compatibility. Racism or openess is taught by the family well before formal education starts. Having only one child I firmly believe that a consideration in planning a family isn't just money - it's having the time and willingness to spend time with your kids and both teach and enjoy their presence. They really are different people at different ages. You two are an inspiration.

Wondering what triggered the two of you guys to make another video like this? There’s so many nuances in this matrix. I personally feel like here in San Diego, BW/WM dynamics are less common, so when people see it they stare EXTRA hard. I still think WM overall have this unspoken rule over them they cannot pursue BW, but any other race of woman is fine. If it’s an Asian woman especially, no one bats an eyelash. WM and BW share that experience actually where who we can date is policed. WM are expected to be “keepers of the white race” and BW are still expected to be “keepers of the Black race”. Whereas WW and BM don’t have that requirement on them.. anywho thanks for sharing!

Gravitate to the people that loves you both. People have their opinions and some will be cruel. Some of my greatest loves were white men. Trust the love you both have. Ignore the haters. Have a wonderful life.

PEOPLE!! Date whoever you want because it’s nobody else’s business and those who object!! Don’t make it your problem because if you do you giving them to much say so over your life as well as your being!! Life is to to short to waste your time on anyone that’s not down with you or for you ya dig !!

I am going into an interacional relationship i just joping and prayimg it works i love h forever and him me also❤❤❤❤❤❤

My husband and I have been together 21yrs.....if people give us looks we don't even notice anymore

I love how easy you guys make it sound but seriously y'all need to teach a class because it is serious out here!!!!

My dad is Nicaraguan and my mom is Jamaican. Sadly my dad’s side was extremely racist to my mom and it culminated in me not ever meeting my dad or my grandpa ( he actually died recently…I only have one photo of him but I don’t feel much when I look at it). It really affected my trust in people and I keep my guard up as a result. Interestingly enough my fiancé is half Filipino and half Swedish and I feel this sense of belonging and comfort when I’m with her. I finally feel like I have a place where I belong. I wish you both the best! ❤

congratulations Beautiful Couple people lets come together get a Grip

Beautiful.

Keep doing you!

I’m in a relationship with the same gender/racial make up as yours, and I can sadly say, the most looks and negative feedback I’ve gotten, have been from other Black people. Particularly black American people. The white people I have encountered, have thought we were a beautiful couple and have largely had nothing to say. I mean, a few of them have looked at us though. it’s definitely hard not to be bothered, but I will never be bothered enough to not be with the love of my life. We get married next March! Overall, we have gotten way more positive or neutral feedback than negative though. We are definitely super blessed. But the snickering, weird/angry comments, etc.. I have been all other Black people. It’s really interesting, because it’s not what I would have expected.

☀️ I like how you brought up the fetish thing I don’t think this applies to black n white in America to much but the Fetish idea seems big like in the White guy Asian woman ie Thai, Filipino etc type of Fetish situation

Beautiful perfect couple in Jesus Christ ❤

You guys are a beautiful couple. ❤

New subscriber here love you guys

He’s fine! Go Girl!! #Ginger

💯Race/Culture/Ethnicity differences should not be overlooked. These topics need to be discussed by the two in the relationship

I missed you cuties 🥰

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Very Cute couple#!

Why can't we just be honest for just a second when people are starting at you when you are out in public, believe me 99% of the time it's not "oh my gosh they look so cute together

Hello! You guys may be interested in a podcast episode The Cole Life (KZfaq Channel) put out a month ago titled Dispelling Interracial Myths to hear another perspective.

Beautiful lovely

Race does matter! You may not want to deal with it and find ways to deflect as a coping mechanism, but here you are explaining yourselves.

❤ Wait do they have kids?? I cannot wait to see what your babies look 👀 like if and when you have children together

You make a beautiful interracial couple, actually my daughter is dating a White male, she is Black. I told her to ignore people who stare at her or act stupid.

Maybe it’s just me but when someone says I don’t see color,how could you not ,anyone please answer.

It is so annoying the way people view and talk about interracial relationships in the USA as though it is a novelty. The UK has the highest rate of mixed couples (mostly black/white) and kids and that has been the theme for decades. Having lived on different continents in multiracial, culturally blended societies and married to two races, I find that culture and ideologies are more of a problem than race/colour. In my personal experience and other couples that I know, it was/is the black person's family, especially the men, that was more of a problem than the white person.

Oh I met my man and I didn't have any issue dating a Caucasian man. It's your decision and besides you can't help who you fall in love with. I have dated my fellow Black men. But they didn't seem to appreciate me and the things I did for them. Best wishes always.

I have mixed kids but conflicted on doing this again

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You're lucky. Back when I dated some white men, it was a mixed bag. I mean I know no two white dudes are the same lol, but still, the last one left me after only six months and was a Papa's boy that lived with his parents at 40 and played video games often. The other one (the one that actually proposed to me, and whom I met many years before that last one last year), he was a divorced man with a seven year at the time. His ex-wife was Chinese and their kid was so cute. So you can imagine my JEALOUSY at him having already experienced that! I wanted to be his first for everything. Anyway, long story it didn't work. I hope to find a man that seems as good as yours eventually but I am up there in age already so it's going to be harder for me probably. I'm 40, I just turned.

I'm from Guatemala and my boyfriend is from Australia, Super tall and me super little but we completed each other pretty well

I honestly think that this is more of an American preoccupation…most countries don’t even utilize color to describe people’s backgrounds

KudOs to ya

She's cute.

So,race does matter,like height matters.

The reality is..... race does matter.....I have 3 mixed race children.....unfortunately kids will experience racism no matter how much you try to ignore it ESPECIALLY when they start school......it's best to prepare them for it prior to starting school....... my kids live in a diverse community but attend a predominantly😮 White school but their school have a lot of Hispanics at the school......MY KIDS EXPERIENCE racism from White and Hispanics.....my kids don't cry about it but the reality is no matter how racially ambiguous they look they still deal with racism....once they found out 1 parent is Black the insults started flooding in.....

You guys are a really cute couple, happy for you, hope you stay happily married and in love for the rest of your lives. My thing is I keep seeing this The Black Wife effect. WTF is that? White guys marry black women all the time and viscera. I didn't know it was a thing. People marry who they love and be damn those who don't like it. and BTW lady I have a membership at Costco and you can't split the membership while at the register and it has nothing to do with you being black. Some cashier's will let you get away with it but they will definitely tell you for next time.

To me this whole black white at what point will this stop mattering my hubby white British Irish when i look at him i see my husband not color of the skin were just two people inlove why are people making mix couple topic out big deal i dont get it youre just two people inlove end of story let them look stare just ignore the ignorance of other's we get stare at my hubby he could care less 😂he's 73 I'm 62 we been together 21 year's ❤❤ still inlove so be happy enjoy your beautiful marriage 🎉🎉

You guys are so lucky. It's not fair lol. Why did the people I meet (white dudes) were very judgemental and cruel towards me.

So although I support you it is hard to listen to people who call themselves pecan and ginger deconstruct race and give advice. The names minimize the the whole people you really are.

Young but more matured than a recent ex of mine. Jesus. He's 40 you guys are probably 31 or so lol.

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BTW Is Dylan Irish?

I cnt wait to date outside my race

Racism is power racism is the laws that they implemented once segregation ended. Racism is when white people could own homes with no problems then Black people had to be included and now they have all of these qualifications that must be met experience that is needed prior to having access to things that shouldn’t have been restricted in the first place.

Why do women like talking to much? You don't let the dude talk

It’s beyond me people still talk about race. It’s just the level lord ignorance in some people is just difficult to understand.

Is this still a big deal in this Era? It seems some people like to bring up races for no reasons.

People are mean

You’re promoting “faith based” and spouting church, yet talking about minding their f-ing business (9:55)…