No

@@Emptytopfloor yes! Most definitely! The truth has spoken!

yes

Very relevant

Very relavant

Absolutely there should be a certain degree of attraction but that’s not everything. ❤

And attraction usually also a sign that he is your future husband

Yes girl, believe me I was engaged to someone who I wasn’t attracted to, not that he was ugly but he’s not my type. Everything else was also un compatible, but it still bothers me to this day that I gave time to someone I wasn’t even attracted to 💀

Exactly!

Men can definitely marry someone they’re not 100% attracted to because they might want something else from her but women are waaay more visual than men

Isn’t that just a basic thing to expect from a marriage? Lmao funny how we’ve made it into some kind of unexpected thing we need to accept

@@Hahahah7718 no it is not a common expectation especially if its arrange marriage.. a lot of women settled for what they got.

That is BS trust me. She was on point on the part of the manners of the man before marriage and the meher. The rest, she doesn't know what she is talking about. I also doubt she tried these things. Don't be her experimental mice.

thanks for the summary

please add the bonus point too.

@@p.o.w_judithadded it to the list

hello, I really do think that you can apply everything to the Christian faith. Its really similar and both hold beauty in itself. Best wishes

THIS!!! I was introduced to a few and was told to get know them and give them a chance. But I didn't even want to entertain the thought of giving them a chance. I just simply wasn't attracted to them. What hurt the most was some of my family members pushing me. They just didn't understand and told me it isn't all about looks and deen is the most important thing to look for in a spouse. But see, beauty IS an important criteria to look for as well. If I can't even imagine holding hands with this person (let alone doing the deed) what makes you think I'm gonna give them a chance? It's sad how men in some cultures just gets to pick and choose a girl they're attracted to and now the girl just gotta be grateful to even have been picked and have to get to know him...

If men were more visual than women they’d care about beatifying themselves and their homes etc don’t let ppl fool you men will sleep with anything, they care about what a woman can do for them whether that’s looking after them, have their children or for their reputation they are more driven to make choice based on service and honour a woman can provide not looks, she can be very average, divorced, has children etc it’s not important

This!!! I always think about and it's better not get married to a you aren't attracted to than to get the angels curse you.

​@@s_f5914 because men think they own woman

​@@fadilabsadiq3539 that hadith is false by the way... atleast check your facts people. You really think God would let the angels curse you if you were tired and didn't want to have sex? That wouldn't be fair الله حرم الضلم على نفسه.

Tell me about it. My mom tried to give my number to her friend’s son so I asked for a picture to see what he looks like before I agree. How is she calling me shallow for caring about looks 😂

this is why it is important to seek knowledge on our deen. attraction is an important matter in islam, and it is a valid reason for to reject someone for it. as attraction can influence a lot of things, and not being attracted to ur spouse can effect ur marriage in a negative way. so while choosing a husband or wife, consider also if u feel attracted to them or not.

Marriages don't work nowadays!

its not society sweet heart. let me be honest. its called biology

Alhamdulilah I am so glad I could help! You got this my love keep going! 💕

Alhamdulilah I am so glad I could help! You got this my love keep going! 💕

Don't confuse your Biology and society. Life is not Linear like the Sister said in the Video. Build your Life, choose wisely not according to your friends choices and preferences but according to what you want. Because at the end of the day, you are alone with the person Not your friends. Most important thing, Social Media is not real Life !!!! Do everything in your Power and leave the rest to God !!!! if you follow everything you see, you will go nowhere !!!

It’s not a high expectation to want a husband who knows how to communicate. Also, communication is not an unrealistic expectation in a partner. If you chose to marry a man who didn’t know how to communicate and was willing to stick with him while he learned then I admire your sabr but I don’t think you should advise women to lower a very minimal standard.

​@@MK-sh2qm👏🏽👏🏽

Agreed you get it. Nothing is better then growing and learning together. Dont listen to ppl here do what works for you.

U don't qualify to talk about marriage in Islam.... U exhibiting ignorance.... Leave Islamic issues for the scholars.... U feminist big mouth...

No no nooooo, why do people think like this 😢

Don't

Then you also need to say that you want a thug. But you always talk about having a lapdog that does everything you want.

@@MrOsmanu get away from here, nobody needs your nonsense comment. My God, men always bringing their personal stuff into people's comments. pathetic.

@@MrOsmanu I wonder who hurt you... Are you perhaps ugly? lol

Hahah I feel that! Thank you for watching the video and for your kind words my love! 💕

Put the agreement in your marriage contract. If he breaks it you can easily divorce him if he won’t change his behaviour.

You're friends are right!

Then she has to stop working and ask him to spend on her. Easy. Don't do extra and ask for more.

​@@Jahannam.BS. They are not right. They simply can stop working and stay at home and ask their husbands to take full responsibility

​@@ahmedmohammed5350 So a woman has to completely give up her career and financial independence because her husband can't do household chores? I call BS on that. Even if the husband was the only provider, he should still do household chores, because it's his house too. Women are not slaves to their husbands.

Thank you so much my love! 🫶🏽

Its half of deen for a reason 😊

​@@authoisaifyhalf of Deen is jail?😅

@@authoisaify marriage is not affordable now days, but Muslims with wealth should definitely get married

@@ajax1472 People can get married even if they are not ascetic with money, because in the religion of Islam we are taught that we should not be tempted by the world, that we can live in it without expensive things or bragging about things that we do not have.

@@M.SA93 yes it is true, unfortunately in our modern times without money you can't even afford rent plus you have no time for family because work is too much, and no woman is interested in a man who does wage slaving

MsA??? just say MaashAllah 😭

Nope

@@ahmedmohammed5350 what's wrong?

Thank you so much my love! I am so glad you are here 💕

Well it depends on where the woman lives, is that not true?

🍉 All day everyday!

Where can you find women like that now

@@mayg7415 there's plenty of wealthy woman they just dont show it oe they might not be in your area

@@mayg7415 why the hell would u want a rich woman my guy

@@azishai5419 that's my point, you can hardly even find one not to talk of marrying

Ameen my love may Allah do that for all of us!

I pray for more strength for you❣️❣️

Your 11th point was funny 😅. I just discovered your channel and subscribed

Girl don’t get a boyfriend. This woman made so much sense, you’re just not hearing it. She also didn’t say not to marry young but not everyone will do it nor will it be good for everyone

Because this generation of women do not prioritise the deen. They feel that will grow over time and put attraction and career first. Women are petty. That’s why there are a lot of women still unmarried late 20s even mid to late 30s, and they’re still petty after that