You are not soft at all. You are a wonderful, loving son. A real man isn't afraid to show emotion, especially with your loved ones.

It takes a REAL MAN to show emotion and be vulnerable. Give yourself grace. Prayers for your fam, and mad love from Canada 🇨🇦

And don’t apologize for showing emotions especially when someone you love is hurting. You are not soft!

I’ve had Lupus since the age of 18. I’m 71 now and there and my life has been good. Every time I thought I was done for new treatments came along. Tell your Mom to follow her doctors orders and you’ll be so much better. You and your family are going to be all right.

Powerful, Tim said " you know when the Devil is working hard, Gods got something planned for you "

Tim, don't be afraid to speak to a professional. These are traumatic situations you are dealing with and speaking to a professional can truly help. Sending prayers.

Your momma is BEAUTIFUL - hair or no hair. She raised some amazing human beings and her light shines so BRIGHT.

She is beautiful! Her hair doesn’t make her who she is. It’s her heart and soul. Wigs!!!! But I think she looks absolutely stunning!!!! Go Mama

Tim, your Mom is beautiful. I got diagnosed in 2014 when I was 54. It had been in remission since my 20s. I was terrified. I took chemotherapy, lost my hair…I will tell you prayer and family support is important for you and Mom. I have a daughter nearby and she’d visit often, go grocery shopping for me, laundry etc. Read up on the type of lupus Mom has. Some affect only the skin, etc. I have the most serious type and it effected my kidneys. Following doctors orders is key. I’ve had no major issues since. Also there is a Lupus KZfaq channel. Try to educate yourself about how the disease effects folks differently. I’ll continue to pray for you, Mom, and the rest of family. We’re all here to support you. ❤

I'm so proud of you for crying. My mom was sick for so long and I never cried. I thought I had to be strong for her. When I finally started to heal, I was so broken. You are strong and your ability to cry proves that. You're a wonderful son baby.

They say it takes a village to raise a child, well it also takes a village to face a medical crisis. Your mom needs you, keep being there for her. You are a good son. 💙🙏🏻

You're not soft, man. I went through sickness with my own mother. First, with kidney disease and then pancreatic cancer. I lost my mom last May three days before Mother's Day. Stay strong and focus on your mother. Your supporters aren't going anywhere 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

You are not weak but kind-hearted. I hope everything turns out well. My prayers are with you.

Your reaction to the news of your mom’s illness is so loving and compassionate. Grief takes away our energy like nothing else. Don’t try too hard to push through the pain. Often it takes time to process big emotions. Huge love to your mom and your family. ♥️

You're human. You are kind. You are loving. You owe us nothing as the public. Praying that your family finds healing. Please remember to take care of yourself and family first. We will be here when you are ready.

Your mom is beautiful!!! Prayers for mom, dad, you and your family. You take all the time you need, your process is your process.

It's called empathy. It's one of the most noble character qualities a person can have. You're a good man.

Hi Tim Glad to see you. So sorry to hear about your Mom’s illness and that your Dad is still missing. I will be praying for her and the whole family. “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning” Psalms 30:5

Your mom is beautiful without hair. I hope you can accept that. My hair has mostly fallen out due to an autoimmune disease. My husband has supported me through all of my health problems. You and your siblings can support your mom also. She will make it through with your support for a long time.

You have a kind heart, and that is a STRENGTH. Love and peace to you and your family. ❤️

Don't worry about posting reaction videos until you are in the mood. You cannot fake your genuine, humorous and warm music reactions that we love, so we will wait until you are ready again.

Glad to see you. Sorry you've been going through so much! ❤ Your mom is beautiful!

My twin is very very sick and it is most definitely like it’s happening to me and I pray for God to put it on me all the time. You are not alone. And your mama is so beautiful ❤

I am going through a family member battling an illness and I definitely let out a loud weeping cry the other night. It’s been a trying time . One of the hardest times in my life . Praying for you. I couldn’t imagine seeing my mom without her hair and having lupus. My prayers go out to you and your family🙏🏾 currently in the hospital with my loved one right now .

I don't have lupus but I do have an autoimmune disease. You're right, each person reacts differently. I've got a few friends who suffer from Crohn's. Each one reacts to different treatments differently. However, one thing is for certain. You can't give into the stress. I know that sounds like fortune cookie advice but it's true. Learning to deal with stress in a healthy way (yoga, meditation, prayers, walks in the park, riding a bike, writing in a journal, whatever!) is 85% of the battle. Another 10 % is diet and exercise and the last little bit is meds. You got this. Your mom has got this. So long as you remember the strength you have as a family, y'all got this. And when in doubt, look back at all the people behind y'all sending prayers, good thoughts and emotional support y'all's way. Find strength in those around you. ❤❤

Thank you Tim for the update (although you don’t owe us an explanation). The way you feel when someone is suffering is called empathy, and from the years that I’ve been following you, that’s definitely the kind of person you are. Please do whatever you have to do to get through this, and know many of us are truly praying for you in the name of Jesus 🤗 P.S. Your mom is gorgeous!

Keeping you and your family lifted in prayer🙏🏾🙏🏾

Your mother is beautiful! I know how you feel, though. My mother went through chemotherapy during COVID, and when her hair started to fall out, she just shaved it off. When I saw her afterward, it finally hit me that my mom was sick. It broke my heart, and I cried a lot as well. It's so hard to see and watch. And since it was during COVID, I couldn't go near her. Six feet apart. I would come home from work, change my clothes, and put on a mask just to stand six feet away from her. She's doing amazing now, thank God, and when I was finally able to get closer to her, I hugged her for a good three minutes straight. Your mom seems like a strong woman, just like mine, and I know she'll make it through her treatments in battling lupus. It's not gonna be easy to watch her do it, but the important thing is that you stay strong for her. Moms are tough, but I'm sure it breaks them to see us hurting over them. However, it's good that you allow yourself to show your emotions to your family because it's healthier than to just bottle them up. It's okay to cry. It's okay to get angry. It's okay to be happy. It's okay to not be okay. I'm sending all the positive vibes to you and your family. And I hope you find your father soon. I can't imagine what that must feel like, and I do not want to ever find out. Stay strong and stay positive.

As someone who has autoimmune myself and family members that are in crisis, give yourself some grace. I drove myself to to a local park and sat there for a while, talking to myself, God, my momma in heaven, the devil like a crazy person…and I let go…I allowed myself to feel all the emotion, pain guilt, helplessness. I got it all out. I felt so much better, able to move on after that. It’s not weak. It makes you stronger inside.

She’s beautiful! And as her son, you are a beautiful example of her love and strength. You’re doing exactly what you’re meant to do.

I understand your feelings. Please see your Mom as often as you can. Just being with & loving her right now. I am battling cancer & lost my hair during chemo. It's growing back now. Your Mom is beautiful in the photo you showed. Just hang in there . Sending prayers & good vibes ❤ 🙏🙏

Keeping you, both of your parents and your whole family in prayer. 🙏🏾❤️🫂

The enemy will not win. Tim, your honesty and love for your mom is deep! She is beautiful... Please tell her I said so. Keep on keepin' on, Tim.

4:10 You are so strong and show so much empathy. You are a very special young man. Take care of yourself.

Tim, you are one of my favorite people on KZfaq. We love you.

Your mom is so pretty. That face and eyes overcome all else. Who needs hair with beauty like that? I love that you love your mom out loud! Your emotions only make you more human. Glad I watched today.

You know I started watching you during 2020 and that was the year that my mom passed away... And your channel along with a couple others is one of the channels that would give me positivity and laughter and bring my mood up when I needed it. Your channel means a lot to me because of that. You do a lot for people without even realizing it just through your open and positive spirit. So of course, we are all going to be here for you when you are going through it. Everybody has trials in life... When you do, you give it to God. These hard times are things you go through and you come out the other side better than when you came in to them. It's hard when you're in them and you don't know why you're having to go through them. But someday you will know. Everybody is right... Your mom is beautiful even with no hair. Love her, support her and have faith. I will be sure to pray for her tonight and keep her in my prayers as well as I keep you there. Thank you for being there for me when I needed it. You are very special and deserve all good things. 😊❤

Having compassion and empathy is not soft - it is a different kind of strength. Hugs

You are loved. You've brought so much joy to the world. Let us know how we can support you. Anything. Take the time you need, turn your attention to your family and your own sanity and wellbeing. We're standing by you.

Brother, take some more time off until you really feel like posting again. Your fans will be here. Just check in for us periodically. God has ALL of you....

Damn man, I'm so sorry to hear about everything you and your family are having to deal with. I'm sure you have family and friends for support. Just know you have strangers who are also pulling for you and your family, thinking of you and sending love, good vibes for support to you and your family as well. Ultimately, you gotta do for you. Stay strong!

You don’t need to explain yourself to anybody , this is your channel, you post whatever and whenever you want. I’ll be praying for you and the family. Sending love and hugs 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙋🏼‍♀️

So sorry to hear about what's going on with your parents, sending up prayers for you and your family. 😔❤❤

My prayers to you and your family. As a lupus patient myself, the thing that helps the most is family support. Wishing your beautiful mother luck and God's grace that she will quickly find a treatment that works for her. God bless.

Take care of yourself. You can’t help anyone unless you are healthy yourself❤

Stay strong my brother God got your back

Stay strong young brother. Your Mom is gorgeous! She is radiating in her new look. Remember, we are not our hair. And I will be sending up prayers and timber for your father. Be blessed.

You’re extremely strong for showing emotion. We are here for you.

I wish I could be there to give you a big hug. Prayers for your mom. We are here for you.❤

Also thank you so much for not only getting your mother's consent to post her photo, but also for verbalized it for us. That is wonderful.

Your mama is beautiful!!! Hugs to her, you, your brother & all the family ❤ Lost my mom, unexpectedly, in December ... definitely regretting taking her for granted 😢

You are NOT soft you are a wonderful young man … keep praying … we are all praying for you and your family 🙏💜

I am so sorry. I have had Lupus since the year 2000 they hair will grow back and Mom will be tired a lot. Just listen to Mom on her bad days and all will be okay. 🙏💜

God is all-powerful and in control. The blood still works, and it will NEVER LOSE IT’S POWER!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️

Stay strong. Sending light and good vibes to you and your brother and family. Your fans appreciate and care about you guys!

Tim, you are loved. AND your whole family. Take as much time as you need...we are praying. 💙

Hi Tim. Your mom is absolutely beautiful. I'm pretty sure everyone on here who saw her pic agrees with me. I will keep you, your mom, your dad and your whole family in my prayers. In the meantime, look up this song... "Don't give up" by the Island Inspirational All stars. It always picks up my spirits when I'm going through it. Play it for moms too. Sending love, hugs, peace and respect. Hang in there. 🙏🎶

So sorry you are going thru so much. Sending love and light and hope that "this too shall pass" for you. ❤

You don’t need to toughen up as you say. If you don’t release your stress, it will build up and come out in bad ways. I’ll be praying for you and your family. There is power in prayer and you have a lot of support here! 🙏❤

You do go through it with them. You watch it, you feel it… the whole family goes through it. You take your time. We’ll be here. ❤

Tim I am sorry to hear about your Mother’s health problems. Some things in life are beyond your control. You need to make sure to take care of yourself. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you are feeling overwhelmed. It’s not healthy to bury your feelings. You are such a nice person and I hope everything will work out in time.

My dad has Lupus as well. Tell mama we are thinking of her and wishing her well. You are a good son, doing the best you can. Don't be so hard on yourself.

Your mom is beautiful! Tell her your fans say so. You have a beautiful heart, too. All the best to you. ❤

Praying for you and your family! 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

Sending you a BIG HUG from NYC 🫂

Stay strong 💪🏾 bro. We are all sending positive vibes and energy your families way.

Please do not apologize about a thing. This is family and family is #1. I went thru all the results of cancer treatment with both my mom and dad. You being there for you mother is where you are being strong. Many blessings for your whole family. Being there for her is far far from being soft. Much love to your family. ❤

Lifting you and your family up in prayer. Stay strong in your faith in God 🙏🏾

You are a special person. It is ok to take care of yourself. You have every right to take your time to process this difficult time.

You're doing great. There is no right or wrong way to deal with any of this. Blessings to you and your family, and especially your beautiful mama. ❤

You did the right thing - taking time when you needed it. I pray that your mom and dad are ok and that God will cover you and your family❤🫂

Thanks for this heartfelt video - someone told me creatives need to work through the drama and pause for the trauma. You are experiencing two traumatic situations so cut yourself some slack and support your family.

You, and your family have had a heavy load to deal with. You have every right, and need to focus on your family first, then when you have processed, you’ll carry on with your when you can. Saying prayers for your mom and family🙏

Keep up with your strong living. Keep up with your family. Keep up with your hard work. You are doing very well young man. Prayers going out and up for ya!

Your Momma is rocking that look. You are a sweet man. Don't stop, I am 72 and love reliving music through your eyes. Just keep loving your Momma.

No need to apologize. Life happens. Continued prayers for you and your parents. May God continue to provide you comfort and strength. You Got This!! ❤️🙏🏻

Make sure to talk to someone regularly about how you're feeling about everything that is going on. There is nothing wrong with talking to a therapist or you can talk to a pastor or just among your family and if speaking on your platforms helps, continue to do that too. Keep praying and trusting God, we will keep praying for you and your family. I'm sure your mom appreciates all that you're able to do for her even if you think it's not much or insignificant. I'm sure she is proud of you all and wants you to keep doing what makes you happy. Beautiful photo of her!💕

This guy is absolutely amazing. Such an inspiration and a joy to watch. You will be fine, hold in there. This is one of life's lessons. Every person on the planet will have to go through all kinds of painful stuff. Be strong, pray, we are all here for you!!!!!

Your mother is so very beautiful! You can tell from her smile and the light radiating from her face, that she is a good woman and mother. Keep loving up on her and help her with whatever she doesn't have the strength to do around the house. Make or bring meals for her. Do her laundry. Pray with her. I am so sorry that you havent yet heard from your father and have no idea where he is. Hang tight to the family you do have around you.

Praying for your mom and dad ❤

Congratulations on being fully engaged in this human experience, and being 100% real and open. I share the same as others are saying - you don't need to apologize for any absences. We see you and support you. Your mental, emotional and physical health and well-being are most important. You're actually showing everyone what it means to prioritize your health. Bravo! And it is also hard and challenging to be a spiritual being in this human world too. There are always lower forces that want to take away our attention. This is the work. You're faith is strong and we can lean into it and let it strengthen us even more, especially when it get tough. The light is always with us and in us, and we have lots of spiritual support around us. Just ask our guardian angels and ancestors of love and light for help and they give it always. With our hearts full of love for the world, we can overcome anything. This is the way of an Empath too, one whose senses are open to the world and feel the vibes of what's happening around them. Cherish that. Empaths also have to really take care of themselves, resting and eating well, recharging their energy, and being sober and grounded and clear-minded. There's a quote I used to see a lot by Mother Teresa where she said, "God never gives us more than we can handle. But I just wish he didn't trust me so much." When we're given a lot to deal with, we can remember God and our Spiritual Family of light is with us and we can persevere. Much love and light to you and your family, keep persevering 🙏💙🙏

Sending love to you Tim. You seem to be struggling the last few months and I am concerned for you. I have been a fan for 4 years. I have an auto immune disease but I am doing ok. Your Mom will feel better once the doctors crack the code on her treatment plan. She is as beautiful without hair as she is with hair. God Bless you and your family. Take good care of yourself!!!

What a wonderful son you are….she has raised you well and I know she is proud of you. Life brings challenges and you don’t have to face them alone. You and your family have my love and prayers during this difficult time. 🙏💜✨

So sorry to hear about your mom's health struggles. I understand how scary that can be, my mom is sick right now too. Sending love to you and your family. I'll be thinking about your beautiful mom❤

Best wishes to you and your family, man. Life can be really cruel sometimes and you feel like the hits won't stop coming, but they will.

Prayers for your mother & family.🙏🙏 Look at her, that's royalty right there💖💖

Lupus is a difficult diagnosis. Prayers for your family. Feel what you feel. It hits different when it's your mother too. You got to focus on you now. Doesn't mean you don't care about all that's going on but you can't lose yourself in it either. Don't bottle it up.

🙏🏽 peace and love, glad to know your doing okay. God bless your family. You and ur bro made us smile and laugh over the years. So sending all that energy back to yall now.

I'm so sorry for what you & your family are going through. You are stronger than you know. You can do this, & ditch any negative feelings you have for yourself. I'm proud of you.

You just keep praying and we will be praying for all of you! ❤️. My cousin was diagnosed with lupus over 30 years ago and she's still fighting!

Prayers for your mom and you all.

I am so very sorry. I hope you have a good support system holding you. I had a loss recently and didn't really want to talk with anyone for a while. I lost an aunt to lupus and it is a mean, mean disease. Have some conversations with your Mom. What does SHE want for you? I'm a mother and a grandmother, and I absolutely want my kids and grandkids to go on and be happy after I am gone. You are a good son to visit her even though it hurts.

Prayers for you & your family. You have to take time to be there for your family. God bless! 💜🙏🏽

I have a chronic illness and am in various online groups of people with chronic illnesses. It is quite rare that people show so much care for a chronically ill family member. Especially if its an invisible illness or rare or undiagnosed illness. It is beautiful that you care so much for your dear mom and want to carry the pain for her.

We support you and love to your family ❤️

Sending lots of love and prayers for your mom's health and your dad's wellbeing. I lost my mom over 30 years ago and I miss her everyday. My dad is still living but we don't talk much. Your video encouraged me to reach out to him. Thank you. Wishing all the best for you and your family.

You’re not alone and stronger than you realize. Thank you for sharing your story. Keeping you & your family in my prayers.

Definitely sending prayers for u and your family. Your mom is beautiful, and so is your soul may God continue to bless your family

It’s NEVER easy to see a loved one going through their trials and tribulations but you can’t allow yourself to stress out over it. You’re a sweet young man and you seem to love your family hard - so do I, and I understand. Especially when it’s your mother & her appearance changes abruptly, it can be very jarring. Just know that God is in control & ALL THINGS work together for the good of them that love the Lord and are the called according to His purpose. Stay encouraged…it’ll get better! ♥️🙏🏾

Never forget what an awesome blessing you are to the world and how much happiness you make us feel. I'm sending you and your beautiful family prayers of love, strength, positivity and healing.💙🙏🏽😔