The Two Codependent Personalities: Why You Need To Know About Both

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3 жыл бұрын

In this episode of Heal The Hurt podcast I am going to share the fascinating polarity of the two codependent personality types and the characteristics of each. Codependency can be characterized as living in one of 2 extremes.
On one extreme is the under-empowered and at the other end of the spectrum lies the falsely-empowered.
Discover why the rarely mentioned falsely-empowered codependent requires just as much of empathy, understanding, and help and many times gets confused for being narcissistic.
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@charlenejacoby514 Ай бұрын

My god?!?! I knew codependency wasn’t solely overly empathetic. This was my identity… I’m a victim and others take advantage of my kindness. In reality I’m filling my worthiness void with the gratitude of others.

@RedMambaYard 11 күн бұрын

This video doesn't show us how disfunctional you are. It shows how much presence, honesty, patience and work on ourselves it takes to proceed along this path of change. THANKS FROM THE HEART for allowing us to watch ourselves from the outside. 🙏

@angeleyes15207 2 жыл бұрын

One thing I've learned is admitting things doesn't make you separate or bad or defective! It's so freeing! The burden of trying to be perfect is gone..

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Perfectly said.

@maid_in_cornwall 5 ай бұрын

I’m nearly 50 .. my step mum dying last year ripped any remaining scales from my eyes .. I thought I was well on the way to healing but I wasn’t .. my dad is shining his full toxic array of colours and I’ve tried to Sheild my adult son and daughter from his manipulation .. in the process I’ve realised how my behaviour is still co dependant and I have to trust their relationships and their judgements and be around for healthy discussions and we’ve done that .. I’ve had opportunities to talk with my son and daughter without having to force an issue .. and I’ve asked them to never be afraid to be honest and open with me .. when I’m off my game and in my high horse they mustn’t be afraid to rein me in … I’ve talked out the books I’ve bought and I’ll pass them on .. I’ve held my hands up to all the times my head was so far up my arris is choked my colon … I’m so very lucky that my children are patient and forgiving and tog et her we work it out … I’m in a far better place to help guide them with their insecurities and we acknowledge where we go wrong … the difference in our bond is like night and day … I know we’re just starting out on our journey but we’re all pulling in the same direction and that’s the magic … we love each other and respect each other and we’ve taken a huge leap out of a generational whirlpool of perfect imperfections … now I feel as though we’re breaking new ground and I can’t wait to become a granny one day 🙏.. best wishes to everyone embarking on this journey and I hope you find it liberating too.

@coachingforchrist4090 2 ай бұрын

It is freeing to be honest. The truth set us free ❤!

@alleynejoelle 2 ай бұрын

Love this! Yes, it's a weight lifted.

@coachingforchrist4090 2 ай бұрын

@@alleynejoelle yes indeed it truly does

@guenthermarschall01 Ай бұрын

Hello Kenny. Thank you, thank you, thank you for this video. The idea of co-dependency in both directions (over and under empowered) has just about blown me away - in a positive sense. It clicked in my head a few times while watching the video. It fits sooo well with what I'm currently discussing with my therapist (balance between autonomy and connectedness). And thank you also for your open words about yourself - I don't see that as unprofessional, on the contrary: I see your authenticity in it and find it exemplary. All the best for you, peace!

@Usernameblahblahnblah 28 күн бұрын

I had no idea what an empath was until a few people labeled me as one. I started researching and I felt convicted. It seems like a term being tossed around as though it's something to be glorified. I don't want the glory and don't need the glory. I don't want people attaching themselves to me and looking for me to give them life. I'm not God, nor do I need the recognition or glorification as though I am God. I'm a human who has been broken and hurt by others but I don't need or want to he on a pedestal because of my trauma. I want healing and freedom that I've only been able to find in Jesus. Everyone and everything else left me depleted and empty. I want restoration and it most certainly doesn't come solely from people.

@rebekah613 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate your self-awareness, sincerity, compassion, and humility.

@kennyweiss 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@taylora7453 7 ай бұрын

I’m a millennial female over impowered. Because I’m so detached I never saw myself as co dependent. I’m so grateful to have clicked on this video!! I feel so validated thank you & god bless you!!

@EmpowerEvolveElevate-shree Ай бұрын

Thanks for bringing out the difference between empath and codependent. I am just binge watching some videos for my own inner work. ❤

@crystalmorrison1539 12 күн бұрын

I love how you are real and with your admitting your stages in recovery is a blessing that shows it is a journey. ❤❤❤

@mattconway7409 3 ай бұрын

Superb video @kenny! Knowing you can vacillate between over and under powered codependent is a great and helpful distinction. As is starting out as overpowered and switching to underpowered when a relationship is secured.

@mirinabourbonnais2375 Жыл бұрын

This is an awesome video!Everyone used to tell me I was too nice. I went to therapy and learned it was my way of dealing with my own traumas. When I started to put my boundaries in place I was all of a sudden heartless. So I let myself become totally unaffected. I wasn't. Deep down I was severely affected and had to learn how to be more balanced. I went to CODA with my narcissistic mom as a child, and so its been a triggering experience to become more honest with myself about my own reality of who I am. I love that you're all about reality and honesty. Its been the key to working things out with my traumas. Love your work! Thank you for these awesome tools!

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

I am happy what I teach is a help to you. ;-)

@lorilee7213 Жыл бұрын

@@kennyweiss Him any many others. God love you for helping us now , the way you were taught.

@dogdude2457 7 ай бұрын

Finding out I'm codependent is one of the hardest pills I've had to swallow in my life. I appreciate your honesty and help.

@vickiespencer1844 2 жыл бұрын

I am so glad you pointed out that we can swing back and forth between under and over empowered. That's me. This is all very helpful.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome

@gailmulligan983 2 жыл бұрын

I am too.

@gailmulligan983 2 жыл бұрын

Over-empowered, way more, the last few years- emotionally and physically, probably because I realize the other way isn’t working for me anymore. 🤪 When I fell a month ago, I didn’t allow myself to be in touch with it, despite bleeding from a bad scrape on my left. I bandaged it up and went right to the gym, deciding I’m not going to let this get in my way. I’m on my own. Then a week later, My right leg was really bothering me, and I learned I sprained it. My father told a nurse after I smashed my left knee meniscus a long time ago, “My daughter has a high tolerance for pain,” and to give me more pain killers. Ah connections!

@susanmartin1054 Жыл бұрын

Kenny , I always thought the overpowered Codependent was a Narcissist..Thank you so much for Explaining this ! I was the Perfect Child to get Love , Exhausting !! Again Thank you for EXPLAINING ALL the Perfectly Imperfect !! People ❤

@HolisticManifesting 2 жыл бұрын

I love your transparency. It's truly appreciated.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😁

@mtsb557 8 ай бұрын

You are putting into words what I found out about myself, my family and dynamics within our familysystem. I felt so manipulated by an overempowered empath, even thought she is a narcissist.

@Mary-vr3xz 13 күн бұрын

Thank you, Kenny. I really appreciate your sharing. I want to heal from my childhood trauma and have a strong sense of self so I can have peace with myself so I can have meaningful relationships with other people. I

@deenique3112 2 жыл бұрын

It was soo painful to watch this,i hv to admit that i am the overempowered codependent,closed off alot.been completely alone for a year now,i really want to connect but for me 1.i dont feel like its safe for me to open up 2.im always scared that once i do commit or fall in love that the other person would just turn on me and i would be trapped with a narc.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

We develop those defensive skills because for a period of time they work. They help us navigate the painful situations of our childhood. Eventually, as an adult, they stop working and they start creating more problems in our life. In your other comment I left you suggestions that will help you if you feel you’re ready to heal?

@donnao8950 2 жыл бұрын

I love what you do and I take away something from each video. I think that codependents live their whole life, living just under the radar. We’re never sure who we are and never want others to find out who really is behind that mask.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Beautifully said and so true👏👌

@kjbkjhkjhjk7775 Ай бұрын

I have experienced both of these

@Arven8 Жыл бұрын

I love how you call yourself out and laugh at yourself. That's so refreshing. It makes me like you more. :)

@joanaziz745 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes expressing passionately can be confused for over empowerment is not over empowerment but deep commitment to a belief or understanding that worked for themselves.

@loriellen2726 Ай бұрын

@joanaziz745 Ah, yesss! When I uncover a new-to-me-truth, it is so empowering, so life-giving, so inspiring that I enthusiastically share with those I care about… and usually they don’t receive it the way I presumed they would! A short period of time later, after I’ve been on top of the world with my joyful, hopeful, childlike wonder, everyone-needs-to-know-this enlightenment, I am, again, despondent, depressed, self-deprecating, withdrawing, avoiding contact and connection.

@alleynejoelle 4 ай бұрын

"I have been abusive to my children." OMG you are so good to video yourself saying this. It is helpful. I asked my mom to open up her mind to the fact that she has contributed in her way to the problems in our relationship (that I'm not the sole culprit), and she couldn't. Parents making snide, sarcastic passive aggressive jabs at their children is highly problematic. It deeply hurts. The child has to shoulder the "blame" that they made you say it, they deserved that comment.

@coachingforchrist4090 2 ай бұрын

Yes I couldn’t help to be abusive because that’s what I was taught I was verbally and emotionally abusive. I’m in constant healing from years of incorrect teaching

@alleynejoelle 2 ай бұрын

@@coachingforchrist4090 Makes sense. She gave me a couple examples of things her parents said and did to her when she was a child and they were appalling. But when I pointed out to her the abusive way they treated her, she disagreed. She said they were teaching her lessons. So, like you say, it's a learned behavior. I know I learned some of my bad traits straight from my parents. She completely idolized hers. Would NEVER be disagreeable or confrontational with them, even when they were needlessly verbally attacking me. She stood by and stayed silent.

@coachingforchrist4090 2 ай бұрын

@@alleynejoelle Thanks for sharing.. its an honor to be heating and soaring, becoming better humans 🙂

@RedMambaYard 11 күн бұрын

Precious beyond words. ❤

@Starmander 2 жыл бұрын

This is really helpful! I'm trying to sort out my codependency and you touched on a lot of things I've never considered. Thanks!

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful John!

@devadebruijn7010 Ай бұрын

Yesss, i am the coindependent. I dont need anyone...i am strong and nothing hits me. This is the mask i have....in the past i acted more codependent. From one wall to the other. That costed me a lot of development...now growing to the in between situation...it takes so long and it cost me so much effort. I had a very difficult youth and the most surprising part of it is that i survived it. Now still attracting very destructive people. But working on it. Step by step. Thank you for you knowledge and vibes. It helps!

@dianacapota8069 5 ай бұрын

Wow! I am in tears, this is the last puzzle piece that had to fall in place. Just filed for divorce, and was so torn up about it because I still love him and feel so selfish for wanting to separate. While I am the classic underpowered co-dependent he is the over-empowered one. I was so confused and unable to understand why our behaviours were like an echo chamber reinforcing this state of chaos and hurt. I am grateful that I found therapy, support groups and good friends that put the mirror in front of me and was able to see the truth finally. Breaking up is like mercy for both of us. I will find my way out of this pit, (and how co dependent of me to say) hope that he will too and I will be able to stay away and not control his recovery/downfall and honor this boundary.

@maytheforcebewithyou4313 Жыл бұрын

Guilty of the less than over acheiver who hates intimacy from being rejected for over acheiving and rejected for under acheiving. I did both alternately at times and tried to figure it out my whole life.

@unbecoming_7006 Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for your vulnerable sharing. It's really great in that you become our stepping stone to healing. I was in therapy last year and felt so incompatible with my doctor. She had some type of grandiosity, and I felt a bit judged. Also, thanks for pointing out these realities that we are so oblivious to. I agree. Once I admitted that I had secondary gains from being an empath, it was an awakening. Lol at the illusion that sometimes I know it all. Today, I practiced not instructing but coaching, and only when asked😉. I'm catching myself, it's oh so beautiful and yes, I am starting to enjoy this process. It's fun. It's life's lessons. Challenging yet fulfilling. Scary too 😳 oh and there's funny aHa moments 😄

@gailmulligan983 2 жыл бұрын

I soooo appreciate your own vulnerability. How refreshing from my psych, who never shared anything about herself for almost 35 years, and was like a parent to me. So wrong.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@elvenbae Жыл бұрын

Thankyou so much for this video! I'm a Borderline who keeps falling for codependents... mostly overempowered and trying to get out of the trap right now. I'm working on getting rid of my rescue fantasy so I stop believing their fake help which ends up being an excuse to control me.

@kellynottingham-smith2873 2 жыл бұрын

This makes so much sense. I’ve never heard it presented this way. Thank you for taking the time to make this video.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

You’re very welcome. I have a whole codependence playlist which would probably really help you if you’ve never heard the difference between the two before.

@masteringfibromyalgia 2 жыл бұрын

I am learning so much from you, thank you for your generous videos explaining this!!

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

You bet

@HighPriestessEmpathTarot Жыл бұрын

This helped me put some crucial pieces together, thank you! I love your transparency. It’s refreshing. Because at the end of the day… we are all perfectly, imperfect, as you humbly break it down 🙏🏼

@davinakiely4117 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been on self discovery journey since as long as could read. I have watched countless hours of these type of videos for years and you have spoken to me more than any other.

@lorilee7213 Жыл бұрын

It's crazy isn't it. Hours and hours and I've never herd it explained this way. It makes so much Sense.

@sino4456 Ай бұрын

I really hope I get to a stage of awareness that you have, you are able to identify moments when you are in the polarities, your sharing that vulnerability is lovely to witness. Congratulations on your journey this far. Im some way back on my journey- mainly underempowered. Its a painful journey but id prefer it to complete denial. Thanks for the info

@Juke582 Жыл бұрын

Probably one of the best topics you have done for us! Had me deeply reflecting. I am getting counseling and at least I can describe what my problem is from all this learning for best focus! I hate how a lot of other utubers make empaths seem totally normal people and focus on the narcissist hate and never teach that they are very abnormal too! It will s a two way problem or we would never have let these toxic others in our lives to fool us!

@crystalthompson6934 Жыл бұрын

Also in my opinion you judge yourself a little to harshly. Thanks for this. It explains so much about me and you are the first ive heard it from. Keep on keeping on!

@Antigashlighting Жыл бұрын

1.chilhood trauma 2.low self esteem 3.to needy for someone else to take care of them 4.dysfuntional boundaries A.over share B.too distand

@erikahepburn1539 Жыл бұрын

This is the most authentic and helpful videos I have found on co-dependency. Thank you for your vulnerability, research, honesty...

@donnao8950 2 жыл бұрын

I love the explanation about empaths.

@kims1912 8 ай бұрын

I see myself as an empath but I don't let everyone and everything sway me. I have had trouble with loss, I would really go into depression, feel I couldn't live without said person. I've been working on myself for the past 3 years and my faith in God has really helped me step into my self worth in God.

@KyleMcElfresh 3 ай бұрын

This is so good. Thanks for your vulnerability and wisdom.

@thereseservais924 Жыл бұрын

As a believer in Christ and His work of redemption, I go thru this journey you describe. My strength ? The knowledge that the truth always makes free. Every kind of lie is a prison. I like your approach. I surprised myself many times reacting with "amen !" (that means : it's right, I agree !). I think the worse thing I can do is living in denial and fleeing the confrontation. The first pain makes actually the way open to relief. From that place, you stop to juge falsely and you can step into forgiveness. Blessings !

@meriliscott2708 2 жыл бұрын

I love your transparency. It’s all so enlightening.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much

@Inprogress_of_newbeginings 22 күн бұрын

Wow, I love your honesty ! Wow !

@elanawrot9889 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this podcast. I found the answer for that little doubt I had when I thought I deal with the narcissist.... Some work is to be done, but will be done. I believe in it!

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

You are welcome :)

@Laura-ps3tb Жыл бұрын

Forever grateful I happened to click on one of your videos one day because your videos and book have changed my life significantly. Thanks to you, my struggles of my past make sense and I'm now in a much much healthier place!!

@CollinwoodGirl7 2 жыл бұрын

Your podcasts are literally saving me!🙌

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

I’m happy to hear that

@solutions4tenants141 Жыл бұрын

Kenny Thanks for being so authentic and transparent with us. It seems…Sometimes teachers or counselors stay quiet about their own experiences and then I think they have it all figured out. You are a great example of “Healer, Heal thyself first” thanks for keeping it real with all of us on this path of healing.

@patjackson1775 4 ай бұрын

Your personal honesty helps me more than any therapy teachings alone

@deenique3112 2 жыл бұрын

I cant even deny this😞😖😭,not needing help,defensive,not vulnerable,detached;i move on real quick after a breakup,;rage;i just cant control my rage i have my episodes and when i do i often find myself biting myself or cutting myself inorder to feel better..how do i change iv always wondered whats wrong with me,now i know,i really want to heal plz help!

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

That is so sad to hear you are in so much pain and have experienced so much pain in your life. You have tremendous courage in that you want to heal. If it were me and I were in your shoes, I would start learning how to heal my childhood trauma. To do that I would take advantage of my free master class which shows you how to start the process. I would also encourage you to pick up my book so you can understand the process more deeply. After doing those two things, if you really feel like you’re ready to continue, I would suggest hiring a professional like myself. If those suggestions work for you, here’s the link to my free master class- thegreatnessu.com/p/your-journey-to-emotional-mastery And here is the link to my book- www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1981471014/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1628359317&sr=8-3

@deenique3112 2 жыл бұрын

@@kennyweiss Thanks alot for responding.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

@@deenique3112 you are so welcome 😁

@nanettesue1287 9 ай бұрын

Thank you! Wish my former therapist had been this open and honest! The good is that I’ve now heard it!

@cellosong 11 ай бұрын

You are a great role model. You are vulnerable, imperfect and humble. It's hard to accept uncertainty in our lives, but when we do it frees us to learn and grow.

@131Hania 11 ай бұрын

Admitting your truth the way you do is the most healing experience i have ever experienced.

@lisajenckes7529 5 ай бұрын

I appreciate your honesty and transparency. A lot to think about - uplifting!

@terencehennegan1439 Жыл бұрын

Your honesty and vulnerability is admirable. Great video as usual.

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

Thank you. I am happy to hear it works for you.

@ananisherwood5858 Ай бұрын

Yes, I'm glad you shared your personal journey in addition to the distinctions. Very helpful ❤️

@kennyweiss Ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@jesperandersson889 2 жыл бұрын

kick-ass analysis!

@barbarauptain 5 ай бұрын

Kenny, I'm so glad I found your channel today, you have helped me so much in understanding what I've been trying to figure out myself and the woman I've been for so many years... I'm now on my healing journey to a better me!

@kennyweiss 5 ай бұрын

Good for you 🎉👏

@patjackson1775 4 ай бұрын

Your honesty is a great teacher. I see myself in your confessions

@alrinaleroux9229 8 ай бұрын

Greatly appreciate your sincerity Mr. Weiss (open-hearted warts-and-all approach, sharing your own experiences). You explained towards the end why that is important in the client-therapist relationship. It definitely makes a big difference! Can identify with a lot of what you said. Understanding!

@swissplatinumrubygold7132 2 жыл бұрын

The advice on the professionals was on point. The moderation part is very helpful also. Thank you.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome

@veronicak6023 Жыл бұрын

I love you Kenny! Your videos have helped me heal from my codependency pain more than any other tools I used.

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

Glad to help

@lissab8459 29 күн бұрын

But Sir,.........you do come with a different perspective understanding the empath..... And I like it !!!!.... I am not always moderate......

@mistyoaks6956 Жыл бұрын

Kenny!! Thank heaven for you & your work. I stumbled upon your channel as I scoured KZfaq for videos on narcissism. I’ve been in a relationship for 11 years & for the past couple of years had been noticing increasingly narcissistic qualities in my partner. And boy was I blame shifting! But then I asked myself, “I have fallen in love with a narcissist & stayed with him now for 11 years, what does that say about me?” Then I found your video on 7 Ways We Attract Narcissists. TOTAL LIFE CHANGER! With your work serving as a catalyst for me, I am now able to see myself as a primarily falsely empowered, love avoidant co-dependent in recovery. I am planning on taking your emotional mastery program & ordering your book, along with the Pia Melody books you recommended. Again, truly, THANK YOU ❤️

@TaylorTot_707 7 ай бұрын

Such an amazing video. Thank you

@conniesmith5350 7 ай бұрын

I love your transparency and honesty. Thank you.

@kennyweiss 7 ай бұрын

You are so welcome

@sallyvilleza8229 Жыл бұрын

I couldn't take notes fast enough 😊 thank you so much

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

You're welcome 😊

@user-ex6mh2qe8o 3 ай бұрын

Thank you once again Kenny. You have made sense of it all, the opposite traits of codependant victims. God bless you.

@debramarie8521 6 ай бұрын

Nice to see a happy helpful person on u tube. Thank you!

@kennyweiss 6 ай бұрын

Happy to help!

@tantalosamalfi3139 6 ай бұрын

What a great video! Thank you very much for your candor.

@thetinypineyfarm6145 Жыл бұрын

You nailed it!! Im gonna send this to all my cases who call themselves an "empath"!...great!

@loryli Жыл бұрын

Thank you for helping me understand my imperfections and I am optimistic about my future challenges.

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@revivebarber2801 2 жыл бұрын

So helpful! Thanks for sharing.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome

@Symphonia1983 3 ай бұрын

This is by the best description of how it is to be codependent, fun as it is to watch this video i see myself just like you the stuck feeling about the grandiose feeling and you just want to be there for a longer time. I see that as a strength and it feels great when you don't have to always think or do what the others tell you to do. Even if codependence is not about that but at the same time i like to be in the center of everything. Such a great video, many thanks for creating this reflection. Best regards.

@dawnmartinez5344 Жыл бұрын

WoW !!! Your Christmas’s sounded fabulous 🌟🎄 Great memories!!

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

Yes it was!

@luperooney9775 2 жыл бұрын

Hi , you are so sincere , I love that!

@debbiekaren7058 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Kenny. Just thank you. ❤️‍🩹💓

@haihai5293 Жыл бұрын

Thank You! Very good video.

@melindajonah5498 Жыл бұрын

I like the style of your delivery Kenny. I do not take it either way...I take it as the authentic YOU. I think people are drawn to these videos because you come across as real.

@joyh2125 11 ай бұрын

This is a big video! Sooo much information and insights. The freedom here I felt is that we can accept our imperfections and then flow with them....both ways in a relationship. I see you are demonstrating this with humor...

@MsGabiele 7 ай бұрын

Great video! Fully agree to your findings! Same experience.

@youflyeverynight2222 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this. This really helped me

@evemarie4749 Жыл бұрын

Kenny . Wow! This is extremely helpful . Thank you 🙏💕

@Princess-ef2ux Жыл бұрын

I love this Chanel. So thankful

@4everu984 2 жыл бұрын

Kenny you are the BEST! Ty, ty, ty.

@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome😁

@Carol-tn9jg 4 ай бұрын

God bless you for sharing this content. I am just starting my journey 🙏

@kennyweiss 4 ай бұрын

You are so welcome

@rikondae-bikes8021 Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you for sharing..Thank you🙏🙏

@spice8831 Жыл бұрын

Yr a legend Kenny! Sooo authentic and aware of yr own inauthenticity equally. I want to join the journey of self realisation and healing. I’m going to embark on yr course and jump into the truth of my part of all this.

@PeachyPaigeMusic 11 ай бұрын

Insightful and thorough on another level from any professional in this field I’ve ever seen or spoken with.

@dg8522 Жыл бұрын

Kenny, you’ve opened my eyes a bit and helped me understand some things about myself and my past. You also remind of Ric Flair which is dope.

@adimeter 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my. That's a real different perspective. I'll have to keep listening. Never heard it quite that way before. But it certainly sounds reasonable. Thank you.

@gracerules2423 Жыл бұрын

Kenny, This is totally off topic and I have to say how much I enjoy your use of color in your decor and wardrobe. Fantastic! I’m an artist that loves color, so I support your expression. That being said, thank you also for your teachings on co-dependence. It is helping both my husband and I accept and handle some NARC relatives right now. Heartbreaking, sad, and yet I’m grateful that the mask has slipped.

@lefebvremireille4201 Жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot for your videos. It helps very much.

@poojapkp5496 2 ай бұрын

Incredible video❤

@RAYRAYHIGGRAY Жыл бұрын

This is so true! These videos are sooooo good wow!!!!

@sirena9167 Жыл бұрын

Great video! For my husband, he’s has moment as a father but is consistent with his narc traits as a spouse. But it doesn’t come out at all over the phone or when he meets new people.

@alrinaleroux9229 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for your videos, they are helping me a lot!!

@kennyweiss 8 ай бұрын

Happy to hear that!

@Danger_Bunnyyy 8 ай бұрын

Good stuff!👍

@derekz8074 Жыл бұрын

very important info here. ty!!

@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@don-eb3fj 8 ай бұрын

I just found your channel from a link sent by a friend, and you just earned another subscriber. I've been studying psychology literature and content pretty intensively for over 3 years to try to understand and address issues caused by attachment issues, neglect and abuse from birth through my teens and beyond and a very emotionally abusive and damaging relationship with my last romantic partner after the loss of my wife of 22 years. I recently discovered that I have the adaptations that meet the criteria for Schizoid and Avoidant Personality Disorders, and after a LOT of study and very difficult introspection I can clearly see those polar opposites of codependency in different aspects of myself, the outer wall AND internal partitions concealing the inner needs even from myself. I also really appreciate your analysis of the inversion of codependency types in our societies' sexual dynamics- I've made similar observations in different words, (I call it Leninism in drag) but yours speak more clearly to the inner processes involved, thank you so much for having the insight and testicular fortitude to bring this issue and this lens into the public sphere. ALL of these issues need to be widely discussed at length if we're to having any chance of a real life or future as opposed to the raging dumpster fire that is currently Western culture. Thanks so much Kenny, I'm looking forward to more of your clearly explained and very relatable content.