Moral of the story: our deal breakers in marriages/relationships are not the same.

Promise's husband sounds like a provider and a lot of women will never leave a cheating provider. This lady is not stupid and she actually choose what's beneficial for her

Honestly Mrs Law is misunderstood because she’s vocal about things that other women consider “private”. In my opinion, this was the most beautiful and honest interview Gogo!❤

I never saw Promise as a wise woman but honestly i feel like she is.... she is choosing herself and her happiness everyday and majority of us are failing to do that.

This is just one matured and straightforward podcast I’ve watched , that’s all I can say.

Side chicks are angry😂 Married woman are mad and Promise is happly married to her cheating husband ❤

Promise Ur emotionally & mental matured, much respect to u girl

I love how she loves her husband. People wanna make her feel bad for always saying “My husband” people need to heal shame!

Promise is right 💁 cheating is about a man with a low self-esteem ✌️ or has nothing to do with the wife.

Promise sees life her own way and I love her for that...she's not typical. She is herself & she is the Queen, big ups Promise😘😘😘😘

This lady is being misunderstood, I am listening to a women who is choosing to love openly & freely❤ & the absolutely nothing wrong with this. I am not agreeing with everything she says but I understand her😊

I got goosebumps listening to this. I love how Mrs Law embraces her subjectivity ❤

I admire Promise's bravery, she is honest about what she wants, which I love. Us women are just jealous of each other,thats why others take people's husband's.

Gogo can we have Senzo Meyiwa's ex wife❤

What an episode, people really need to understand Promise... her choices are her choices same as you chooses on how to live, and embracing marriage is not a bad thing, people always want to celebrate fails which is why we are so bitter and always negative towards life.

A lot of women are disagreeing with what Promise is saying on the socials but are mbokodos privately 😂

PROMISE IS A WHOLE WOMAN, 👑👑

Promise is about "living your life according to your plans". People who live on the opposite- basically living unplanned lives are pissed off. It's as basic as that...I love her message.

Tumi is a great interviewer guys. She probes respectfully and doesn't interrupt the guest

Many Women will always say if he cheats i leave. Guess what....they are still there😂. Ppl just dont wana hear the truth

Listen, I had a different perspective about Promise until I listened to her, she's smart and I love her for who she is👌🤌❤

Gogo is giving us the content we need❤😂

I Love how she describe cheating because i agree, Cheating has nothing to do with a person who is cheated on.

I think people should come and listen to promise without Judgment.

Mina I don't understand y people are coming for this lady, She loves being married, so why are people so pressed?

I love you Promise, everybody stay in the corner.Thank you for coming and explaining

Promise is very secure with herself. People just don't understand her or respect that she's allowed to have different opinions.

She's smart, first time knowing her, she left a sweet taste on my mouth

I grew up with a mother like Promise. My dad had 8 kids outside the marriage and he said he wished my mother would have been more stern against cheating. Knowing that she’d never leave is exactly what made him and his mistresses feel that they were not disrespecting my mom’s marriage - no fear. Absence of respect led to a very chaotic household. When you are married you become one with your spouse. So, I do not agree with Promise that a cheating husband is his own problem. Some men need to know that you both value the marriage (both the cheater and the cheated on) - the mistress also needs to value your marriage, she must think that your husband has a lot to lose. It's not about you when he cheats, but it is about the marriage. Imagine if you as a wife are faced with a challenge (emotional/physical/spiritual) and your husband says sorry you got yourself there I'm not involved. I would understand if Promise says she’d welcome a potential second wife for the greater good of the family, but I sensed that Promise comes from a very concerning single-minded and competitive approach. I've lived that life, Dad had a passport to do as he pleased. He had a lot of money and charm. Mom got whatever she wanted. Mom was ok with his cheating, would not leave him and was very clear that there shall be nobody taking her position. Our family became chaotic. It was worse than being in a polygamous family.

Our relationship dynamics are different, our priorities in relationships are different. What might make you leave a marriage might not be a reason for me to leave. Do you people and stop enforcing your beliefs on other people

Gogo is right, it's not about the baby mamas it's about the kids. Let the kids have relationship with their father it's not about you period.

GogoSkhotheni’s podcast is growing 🎉🎉congratulations gogo❤

Black man need to be celebrated❤

Publicly saying you won’t leave him for cheating is weird though… Even if you wouldn’t he shouldn’t know you wouldn’t… this man will continue cheating sana😅😅

In South Africa when you are married its seems like it's a sin

Gogo skotheni is so sweet to treat her nanny like that and also creating a safe relationship with her husband’s baby mamas so they feel that their kids are safe with her ❤

Gogo SK is a good interviewer ❤️❤️

I am one of those who regret leaving my marriage because of cheating. Kea itshola cos i started dating men who were cheating on their wives but protecting them from side chicks. As a side chick i was in the jungle with no one to protect me. I wish i knew better. Big up to promise. She is true to herself.

I love this woman she made everything clear love her🔥😂❤

I think people project onto Promise because they want her to deal with these situations the same way they would. I see why she presses people😂. Nonetheless, she's a likeable lady❤️.

I love promise’s confidence 😊😊😊😊 And she’s so beautiful ❤❤❤not forgetting her maturity 😊

To be as mature as Promise 🕯️🕯️🕯️

I love Gogo Skhotheni ❤ Especially with the children’s topic 🙏

Aow Mara bathong Promise is all about her husband and her marriage ha tshwenye motho shame.. This was nice 🙌🏽👌🏽

Yho that man will never stop cheating

Gogo we need a Monday and Thursday episode

This man is not stopping any time cheating am glad you are happy even though he is a mgulukudu in cheating

Marriage dynamics and perceptions are different in each individuality. As much Gogo Skhotheni preferred to make relationships with her husband baby mamas and it works for her marriage, therefore it’s z as actually say a lot about those baby mamas maturity because we all know how most of baby mamas bitter and crazier. As much as Promise emphasized that it’s not her duty to take that step is also dependent on baby mama to form the kinda relationship between them for the sake of their children of same man

I don't completely agree with her but she makes a lot of sense and anyway do what works for you. Also what she said about a "trying man" is really important. Honestly men need to get credit where it's due we can't always complain as if we're perfect partners.

O boletxe kgarebe ya Maipushe .give promise her flowers 💐

Self worth is important guys..

Focusing on the positivity of your marriage ❤, I love this.

Imagine being with someone and he impregnates you and he goes to marry another while you pregnant . i feel sorry for other lady shame . Nice interview though we got to understand promise better

People need to learn to listen so they can understand. Not jump to your own conclusions based on your traumas or what Tiktok and Instagram tell you. Promise has explained herself well and i support her perspective.

😂 some women are angry because Promise just told it like it is,in marriage you must really choose your battles wisely (mamaza,sister in laws,side chick's and more) but most women want to sugar coat their miserable lives, simply because the women are too needy and too tolerant and would simply sweep things under the rug.....Promise is standing her ground and not living her marriage, she being honest about marriages are ans it's all up to you.....life gives you lemons and you make lemonade, don't chicken out 😂❤

Clearly Promise is nothing without her husband's money!😮

Focus on the positivity , you will enjoy your marriage ! That’s all am taking

Why doesn’t she just keep quite this Promise? 😏

This woman looks at the marriage exactly from my point of view. Like every word!😂 I'm listening to her and I hear myself. You just got yourself a follower

Thank you so much Gogo for bringing promise to the broadcast, I have been mis-interpreting her wrong😢 I love her and understood her❤❤

Promise almost had me there until she said that her husband has also cheated within the marriage yoh😂😂😊

But ladies what about sicknesses 😢when we normalise cheating

This is so fruitful,thanks to both of you.Promise you gave me another perspective

A great show, i learnt something from Promise, this lady embraces her marriage and is living her own life the way she sees fit❤

I love how she brings all the juice to her podcasts

Promise is so confused shame, the marriage foundation is on "proving a point" nje haibo

People want to force promise to see things how they see it. And when she doesn’t they think she is stupid. Nonetheless I loved the interview❤I love the woman that stands her ground❤️

If your husband treat you exactly how you want to be treated 😻😍❤️obviously its gonna be like that “my husband this husband that “ People who against that they are not happy they are been mistreated

Unesibindi se nkomo u Promise, the way I keep to myself about my husband and kids, I don't just open up hell no! they are soo sacrad to me. However I salute how courageous she is.

I’m sorry but the part about the kids?? It’s a big no for me. Once you choose a man with kids, those kids become yours too. You can’t pick and choose.

Kodwa gogo we need atleast 3 episodes a week, loving this podcast more and more❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

If i were a man, I’d marry Promise and her type too…. I won’t have to account for anything, no accountability whatsoever

Cheating is cheating and is a breach of marriage contract and the hubby thats cheating has no self control and will make enemies for the poor wife so Promise be careful on that part.

I love her advices on marriage life and saving your marriages,I see her sides❤

I’m so confused😮 she has been contradicting herself throughout the show,

The honesty from this women I salute u Promise,awufuni ukthandwa ngamanga...KEEP GOING CC❤

It's a big trigger for a lot of women who fight back with "my man this, my husband that." Oftentimes, you'll see that the women have abandonment issues and respond with their defense mechanisms. I absolutely agree with the fact that black men are not being celebrated enough. The fact is, nobody is perfect, not men or women. We're all fighting battles that nobody knows about, but as a couple, I highly recommend therapy. If you haven't married yet, please get therapy to truly heal from things you don't speak about. Most marriages have broken individuals together who have found comfort in each other because they mirror the same wounds! The triggers that come from boasting over healthy love-not that it's perfect, but that it's workable-always cause clashes in marriages that filter perfection while they're actually wounded. The biggest investment anyone can make in their marriage is to get therapy to understand their underlying needs, issues, and requirements. Divorce rates are high all over the world because we tend to filter our emotions instead of effectively communicating and getting professional help with them. A lot of people have childhood trauma that they've never healed from and don't even realize that they have until they get exposed to things that trigger them from within, and it's easy to throw in the towel. You certainly don't attract what you want, but rather who you are.

This was an educational session. I think I've got to learn on how to walk into my marriage. Promise sesi you are very wise,if you were to host marriage seminars I WOULD ATTEND

Promise is one of those nightmare step mothers 😭 no amount of word juggling can change that

I think Promise is right though guys, some things said in this interview are still gonna be taken out of context but if you are familiar with the red pill/blue pill content you’ll understand where she’s coming from. new age feminism has done a lot of damage to potential homes.. you decide how to run your home, I don’t understand why people want to tell her how to run hers

Promise is all about herself and things that benefit her, have to respect her for that👏🏿 okunye nokunye is none of our business😂

I love promise with everything in me ❤️❤️❤️❤️ such a strong and courageous lady she is ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I’m curious if Promise’s husband was not a provider if she’d feel the same way about the cheating

Matured conversation…I don’t agree with her,but I respect her choices

Gogo doesn't waste time😂. We love you mama❤

Listening to this woman has been beautiful and mind opening💕

Hayi gogo, you should have confidently said 'Monde is not cheating' Promise (as much as I respect her) is planting doubts in marriages in the name of 'wife hold your position, side chick in your position' akuna position la, once he cheats he does not respect you, even when he hides it well, he doesn't respect and see you as a fool that will never know.

Wow! She’s so outspoken and whatever she said there makes a lot of sense I might not relate but she makes sense!

never have I ever been so confused by the cheating part.

If he cheats it affects her (emotionally, psychologically, physically, etc). Dololo accountability on the husband. Just being loyal to someone who isn't to her to avoid the real act of betrayal of cheating if she finds out Or she really has deep issues she's not willing to tap into regarding happy in a fantasy world (delusion is a coping mechanism). If he is not happy with himself it affects how he treats HER and presents himself as a partner to HER. 'Merits' wins in this conversation because it's each to their own and how you want to live your life. I love the confidence she has in her husband and she's loving him loudly and there's nothing wrong with that. Love wena dali... Don't deprive yourself from loving the way you want dali... Live in the moment.

she’s basically giving her husband permission to cheat on her for free

Healthy marriage with a cheater?cheating is the number 1 home breakers…Ai Promise o tlhoka Jeso

What an episode,my first time I hear of this lady cause I’m not on tik tok, but she’s very matured.

I do understand Promise very well..Big up to her

I love how honest she is..

I still disagree with Promise u are correct gogo she shud be referring to her husband's kids as her own irregardless of the baby mamas relationships she must love her husband's kids akere o rata ndoda

Ohh I love promise 🥺her confidence is the best and not to mention how she brags about her husband I love that ♥️

Stand in your conviction. That's what I am getting from this. Whatever decision you make, be able to see it through and don't allow external influence to shake you. Also choose what works for you and your partner. Okay. Got it.

Gogo I love you I always spot something special about you on your podcast..You really touched me on the topic of children and Nanny you are matured ❤❤and for that I give you flowers 💐 while you're still alive..you have golden heart ♥....True fame doesn't pay bills 🤞

I’d listen to Promise all day