Nothing like a natural, classy woman full of integrity, grace, and honor

I love my natural body, hair and short classy nails. I dress modestly because I don't like attention. Social media has ruined this world!!

TG...💯👈 I prayed to God:... " until Im healed please don't send no man my way, I don't want to mess up no good man's life if Im still broken inside" 🙏

I really appreciate how you drew the line in the sand between a wholesome woman and worldly woman.

This message is short and sweet, Tony is talking to men and women whether they are ghetto, classy, or sophisticated. A lot of people don't know who they are, so they conform to society standards.

I have been told I'm backwards and conservative because I despise how people are carrying themselves, IG has been the worst. I had an account for about 6 months in 2016 then deleted. I'm not joking but people were making fun of me not being on that app. Fashion-wise is becoming ridiculous, I was looking for cardigans and they were basically a piece of fabrics that couldn't suit even a 4 years old. I'm glad more and more people are finally starting to call out whatever is happening, it's disturbing seeing little girls twerking a Christmas. The list goes on...

It’s important to know what to wear and where to wear what you are wearing. Knowing how to put it together as well. Real talk Tony. This is adult leadership talk not follower society trend.

Thank you Tony for touching on the fact that people do NOT know how to dress for the occasion these days. And it's so annoying. That's why different types of clothes are made for different situations. People wearing out/club clothes to interviews, work and church. People dressing teenagers in prom clothes and full face make up for the first day of school. People wearing casual clothes to weddings. Like let's get it together. It's called adapting.

Multiple women (including my own mother) always put me down for my god-given natural big butt. I always dressed modestly. But they made me feel totally ugly and insecure. Now, women are intentionally paying large sums of money to have a BBL surgery to have the butt that God gave me naturally 🤷‍♀️. I still will not expose or flaunt my butt. But I am upset with all the women who criticized and put me down. Women went out of their way to criticize my butt and tell me I am ugly. Even complete strangers did this to me. The reason I am writing this is to emphasize that NO one should put anyone down for the way God intentionally created us. Maybe you do not find it attractive, but someone else will find it attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Please stop shaming people for the way God created them. If God wants a person to look a certain way, then God did it intentionally. Never criticize God’s handiwork/creation. I am also writing this for the women who are criticized for their natural looks/appearance by other women. I want to tell you to ignore these women’s hurtful/damaging comments. Just because society has a norm for what they think is beautiful does not mean there is something wrong with you if you are not an identical match to that norm. All women are physically beautiful. There are different versions of beautiful. Love and accept yourself.

Tony was spot on! This shows that it’s the little things that set us apart. Let go of the caterpillar lashes, wigs and Cardi B nails.you’ll realize that a good man is going to appreciate classy simplicity

I don’t have a “fake booty” or long nails. I’m also a Swedish girl, and I appreciate your perspective. The esthetics of women are up to them though. I work at a private country club and I see the entire spectrum of obvious plastic surgery and less obvious tweaks. It’s so tough as a woman to navigate. No man at that place has to worry about his body or features but women are constantly on and judged by their features. The aim is to stay classy no matter what. It’s just so harsh to feel like men always have a say in what to look like.

Is it me but did anyone notice brother Gaskin can low key sing 🤔🙂..anywho just a observation 🙂 Gaskin is always dropping gems and blessings through his purpose. Thank you!

I'm so glad you mentioned how those long fake nails interfere with cleanliness!

Yes, that was a Kirk Franklin & the Family song, "Melodies from Heaven".

Tony your wife is a good example of what you're talking about. I appreciate your words and all that you're saying implying the words behind what you're saying. In other words you're saying would we be embarrassed at our appearance if we were before the Lord. Thank you for all that you said. It wasn't easy for you to say that to a lot of women but it's well appreciated thank you.

Tony! Thank you soo much for this message!! As a young 25 year old woman who is trying to stay true to my values, I admit, the pressures of society today and social media makes it rough for women like me who rather save what you see on social media for my husbands eyes only! Thank you!

It’s important to be attract the audience of men that you desire. Aesthetically this can be different for each women. All men are attracted to something different. What’s most important is who you are as a person. Are you a wife before you even meet him? In the end it’s important to do the inner work and heal. This is how you’ll be able to attract a healthy, whole masculine man if that’s your desire. This is what I discuss on my channel.

Thank you Tony for being a faithful servant to the Lord & always speaking the truth.

You are right! This is the type of woman I was in my 20 year marriage and my ex-husband wanted the more worldly woman that partied and drank and traveled more. When I had his kids and help him built his career. Not bitter and forgive just glad to hear the prospective from a real man and know that good men are still out there.

It’s amazing that each of us was carefully made to be unique and so many women want to look the same.

I'm a real man. And I agree with everything this man said. What society is turning our women into. Good men is not attracted to that.

I know you’re being serious but I lost it at “baby chicken hair and lashes”😂😂😂😂😂

tony gaskins , i feel like i’m perfect bc of u . I’ve been in tony gaskins youtube academy for ab 3 years lol i’m only 18

Tell the truth & shame the devil! Thanks for the message!

Hey Pastor Tony! Thank u for bringing us back to reality, teaching us not to be like the world and what a whole healthy good man is looking for. Perfect! Be blessed.

It takes courage, faith, love, to speak the truth, when you KNOW, that truth might hurt, might not set well, WILL cause some to stop supporting you... It takes a true man of God, STILL seeking God and his mercy, to DO IT....because it NEEDS to be done, needs to be said, needs to be heard, DESPITE any backlash that may come. Thank you Tony. We need to hear truth from a man’s perspective, truth that we know is from the heart and not constrained by the wallet. Thank you.

Exactly! Today’s society is fighting so hard to BE what they think authenticity is… it’s not holding on for dear life to rebellion- or running into the room! It’s being an authentic chameleon… in life and relationships. We’ve somehow confused “versatility” with “faking.” If the human is “complicated,” we should be diverse- or have the ability to blend, shift, pivot… in any room.

Great Afternoon 🙏🏽 Yesssss it's a attention seeker👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 most women just don't have respect at all anymore. It's more to life than my body. GET YOUR INSIDE TOGATHER!

Good one. I was taught to be conservative in appearance. After many situations, I now have my own vision, direction, and thoughts for my life. I don’t need my purpose partner to be my manager.

Class, grace. Everything should be done decently and in order. Moderation is the key word. We should not cause our brothers to stumble.

As always, Perfect message! (I’m Proud to be one of the Natural, Healthy, Wholesome/Graceful, Disciplined, Discerning, Intelligent/Educated/Career-Driven, Women on this platform) Stay Blessed/Happy Holidays!

I know this is a SERIOUS CONVERSATION! SERIOUS VIDEO! AND YOU ARE SPEAKING NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!! BIG FACTS! I AGREE! BUT I'm laughing sooo hard because in the very beginning you did a disclaimer and told certain women to click off! You are telling the truth about women These days with the nails booty and lashes! I'm not a immature person at ALL, but your Truth has me laughing soooo hard! GREAT video! Much needed to be said and heard🤍👍🏾😂

I wouldn't waste any time on those who say this isn't true. The devil hates conviction/truth..

This was real good!!!! You spoke on so many things my husband and I discuss but I can’t really talk to other women about. Thank you for great content❤!

Well spoken sir! God bless you for bringing this teaching of modesty as Godly women. Decency is the key 🙏

“The looks that scares the kids” 😂 I love how he adds humor to his messages

Lol Tony said how is that going to look at your 5 y.o’s birthday party 🤣🤣

Why is this a serious topic but, funny at the same time 👏🏾😂 Bless you for speaking facts sir!

How do people afford to go to the salon for nails or hair extensions these day...rent is so high. 🤔

You are so right about how secular music is supposed to emulate the gospel music not the other way around. I love what Kirk Franklin has done because it’s a blend of hip hop/R&B/gospel but he never went trap! John P.Kee has an old gospel song called “Life & Favor(You Don’t Know My Story)” and Queen Naija came with a song a few years ago “Karma” with the same tempo. I love both songs but I definitely do not like trap gospel. It makes no sense.

Listening to this as many times as possible because this need to sink and a constant reminder that I am the best version of myself. My natural hair, body and all. Thank you uncle Tony

I am not a religious woman, but i found a lot of truth in your message and thank you for making it so simple and clear. I realize values and integrity are so important especially when trying to stand aside to society’s ever changing trends. This has helped me. Bless you

Whew! Thanks for this message Tony!

On point. Thank you Tony.

Thank you Tony 🙏🏽

This right here! Real talk Tony!

Thank you Tony!!!

This snatched me up & needed to be said! ✍️✍️🙌🏽

Always brilliant Tony! Thank you!

Thank you for keeping it real, sir!

Loving the new introductions of these new series.

I don't usually comment but today I had to. I'm over here cracking up. Especially at the "baby chicken hair w/ lashes." 🤣🤣🤣 Tony you're speaking straight facts! 💯

Another blessed and truthful word!

Wow, this is sooo on point!! Amen brother! This is so refreshing to hear!

This was amazing!!!! Thank you Tony!

Very good points.

This is good, Tony. Thank you for addressing this.

This was so good and such a word!! Thank you Tony Gaskins!!

Excellent! Continued Blessings Tony!

Thank you for Another Great Message!

Well said 🙏🏽

Thank you for telling the truth, Tony 🙏🏾

As always, excellent message.

Excellent message!

Thank you Mr. Gaskins for your words and wisdom 🙏

I’m loving this series Tony! 🔥

Thank you, Thank you!! it really needed to be explained. God bless you Tony.

Speaking truth as always TG❤

Great message! Thank you!

Thank you Tony. Amen to the truth God bless you 🙏🏽

Be blessed Sir!

Blessed pastor Glad to be here too🤗🤗🤗

Thankyou uncle tony, your videos and work has helped me groom myself so much.

Continue the good job Tony.. God bless you

I have enjoyed this video. Thank you!

I love how you preface your videos 👍🏽 you have a great singing voice too!I appreciate the wisdom you share with us women who are working on ourselves and wanting a good relationship aka marriage. GOD Bless you and your family 🙋🏽‍♀️💜

Such a crucial teaching today from a helpful and Biblical perspective, thank you sir 🙏🏾

Amen! Straight facts....🙏💜 I really enjoyed this video. Thanks

oh my Lord . now this is music to my ears. thank you brother Gaskins, great content..POINT BLANK PERIOOD! God bless you!

This was so good! I’m happy to hear that I’m on the right track!🙌🏽

You stay coming with the gems, Tony!!!

I want to sincerely thank you for this topic and video . I definitely receive this message to apply to my life.

Thank you!

Spilling truth while cracking us up. 🎯🎯🎯🎯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Thank you!

I’m on the right track… thank you Tony.

Thanks Tony for all you do to help us understand the ways of a man! May God bless you and your family. 🙏🏼

Another awesome word! Yes!! Follow the spirit GOD gave us verses following trends 🙏🏽❤️😇

Solid message

Your on tip top point.i love it

Wow in this video you have showed me how much inner healing I have gone through.

Thanks Bro Tony for this reality check for me as a woman, it was truly needed.🙏🏾❤️

Well said. The message is clear.

Good talk!

Well said brother I’ve been refining my image also. As I’m going into the business world. I’m becoming a classic but also a transitional woman. I know God was helping me confirm what had already been in my spirit. Blessing to your family and you in Jesus name.

Tony you betta come through & educate these women and men about those spirits!! I’m here for this message MOG!

Great advice. Thankk you. Its much appreciated

Thank you Mr Gaskins you have no idea how much your videos help us, Also thank you to your wife for allowing you the time to help us!!! God Bless

🙋🏽‍♀️🖐🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Amen Tony! This video was very much informative & needed for women who want to be married. I hope it touched, inspired & motivated them to change their styles. Thank Tony for always keeping it💯!. God bless you.

Never thought about it like this 😮 thanks❤

Mr, Gaskins! Thank u Sir for sharing God's love, not only with ur words but also with ur life. Sir, Thank u for reaching out and touching the lives of others with the love of the Lord. May God continue to bless u Sir!! May God shower u with His blessings! I appreciate u sir! Much love from the Netherlands!