The one who’s exhausted is not the mother or father. It’s the eldest kids. 🥴
@creedbratton54563 жыл бұрын
Yes. No sleep, no space, no school for escape.
@nevestelling6623 жыл бұрын
And that's why they will jsut keep having them because that way they ain't really dealing with it the kids are
@izumimiyamura98303 жыл бұрын
Luna MLE ikr. Because the big kids are suppose to be “RESPONSIBLE”. UGH.
@wallflower74413 жыл бұрын
Luna MLE exactly
@atreyanixx20243 жыл бұрын
The father has to work himself to death to feed that many people! However I feel worse for the children. The father had the choice to blow his load in the mother but the children had no choice in coming out of her.
@4mySweetheart3693 жыл бұрын
What appals me is how none of these parents listen to their children. All the children were saying how they couldn't stand the chaos, the noise, didn't want any more kids. "My parents are addicted to babies." And the parents are like, "I think they love having someone around them all the time, I think they love a big family."
@scarlett87823 жыл бұрын
terrible parenting, imo. it really upsets me to see this type of emotional neglect.
@iowa8873 жыл бұрын
sounds exactly like living in a city.
@MummaMia52 жыл бұрын
Looks like her 2 eldest daughters are more mature than she is.
@aishahowasis84842 жыл бұрын
Honestly no kid is gonna be happy about a sibling idk I have 3 kids atm and I am pregnant with another I take care of all my kids by my self and spend alone time with each of them
@noorbohamad57963 ай бұрын
@@aishahowasis8484I was happy at the beginning not anymore because I always loved babies little kids but not teens not younger siblings it’s fine everybody’s different
@umjination4022 Жыл бұрын
The noise, the mess, the chaos, the expense, the lack of privacy. I'll be out of that house as soon as I can.
@SomeRandomFelineАй бұрын
the day i was 18 if i had the money id leave as soon as possible if i was that family
@Pixku_ Жыл бұрын
Having a kid at the age of 14 is something I can't even imagine, let alone a whole army of them. It's absolutely insane, the elder kids must feel so neglected ngl.
@steffimaier729711 ай бұрын
Even worse when you find out that in many cases (like the Radfords) that the dad was already an adult.
@imkeyyaaaaaa10 ай бұрын
@@steffimaier7297ugh grossssss
@ilonacharlton11448 ай бұрын
@steffimaier7297 he was 18, she was 14. Yes technically he was an adult but don't make it sound like he was in his 30s impregnating a 14 year old. They lived near each other and knew each other for years. From memory they connected over being adopted originally
@dollypeeps6 ай бұрын
She was 10 when they met and pregnant by 13 and had her first at 14 think on that 12/13 having sex and if you can find the pic of them she looks very very young. Him not so much @@ilonacharlton1144
@brooklin_bernek4 ай бұрын
Why would they feel neglected ? From what we’ve seen they don’t even do chores just because their the “bigger kids” like my family did.. I think we judge but damn they do a great job. Bible study , limited tv I mean come on. I have a few kids and we have iPads lmFAO’
@suctorialspark33503 жыл бұрын
The dark truth behind these families is how much responsibility is put on the older kids....
@amouran20443 жыл бұрын
This!! 👏🏾
@Clairebear1203 жыл бұрын
amen
@quackity33433 жыл бұрын
Yeah its like a form of child abuse, i find it disgusting.
@DMRJ533 жыл бұрын
Not fair to them at all
@suctorialspark33503 жыл бұрын
It's not shown, but im sure majority of the responsibility is on the older kids to take care of most of the younger kids. Wbile the mother and father focus mainly on the youngest ones. I've seen it a million times on different TV shows. The older children are unhappy and exhausted, just not living the life a young person should live. And then, it makes them not even want kids.
@keyholes3 жыл бұрын
I just can't imagine looking at my own genes and thinking, "Yup, this is perfect, let's make fifteen more."
@inspirationmovemebrightly96273 жыл бұрын
Can’t believe this comment doesn’t have thousands of likes
@lanabobana33113 жыл бұрын
@@inspirationmovemebrightly9627 I was about to say this is an underrated comment lol
@LJDenarri3 жыл бұрын
Right? 🤣🤣🤣
@suhana7503 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@ctcdreamer3 жыл бұрын
Turns out there’s about 6 more of them
@rylangrimes1239 Жыл бұрын
This is challenging me as an OB nurse. I whole heartedly believe that everyone has the rights to their own body and we cannot force a hysterectomy on someone just for having kids. But the ethical issues that are associated with this is beyond my scope. The kids are clean, fed, and developing accordingly with their milestones. But I have to wonder how this is going to impact the kids mentally in the future. Both positives and negatives.
@tiahnarodriguez3809 Жыл бұрын
Mentally, you can tell the kids do not like this set-up. It’s ok to speak on the reality of things. In these women’s cases, a hysterectomy should be advised. The poor children are not doing as well as you think. Feeding, clothing, and housing is the bare minimum a parent must provide, and is not a true indicator of how well a child is doing.
@Mandy-rl9vc Жыл бұрын
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 The man can do a snipsnip as well. To think there was a newspaper article where the man took NO responsibility in his part there...
@srhccc7 ай бұрын
Like they said, it is also unethical to stop life. And by using contraceptives, hysterectomy etc, it's all hindering a natural process of giving life. Surely, that's an ethical concern which needs to be considered, but the brainwashing has normalised anything that murders babies.
@colleenshea22934 ай бұрын
What an empty comment.
@user-eg5xo4lz1h Жыл бұрын
My grandma was like this, wanted to have babies but not children. As soon as they were 1-2 years she'd have another one, and just abandoned the older kids to be looked after by my mum who was the eldest.
@maddiemary66913 жыл бұрын
The woman complains about how her biological mother gave her up for adoption and made her feel unwanted but she doesn't realize that the lack of attention she gives to her kids is making them feel unwanted too.
@skylarthompson2993 жыл бұрын
Hypocrisy, people should know just because they’re aBoOseD doesn’t mean they should abuse others.
@deckmanbestie97723 жыл бұрын
@@skylarthompson299 Exactly, my parents would always use their childhood as an excuse to torment me when I was younger, and I never grew up with a healthy mindset. This is how the cycle continues, until somebody puts a stop to it.
@skylarthompson2993 жыл бұрын
@@deckmanbestie9772 I’m sorry that your awful “parents” did that to you, because they couldn’t get a darn therapist instead they pour all their problems onto their own family as excuses to make themselves look better when they’re not. Are you doing okay now?
@deckmanbestie97723 жыл бұрын
@@skylarthompson299 Yeah I'm doing good now, thanks for asking :] although Im still in the same family and house as them Im finding better ways to cope like having friends around that care about me, etc.
@skylarthompson2993 жыл бұрын
@@deckmanbestie9772 That’s sweet and I hope you’ll be able to move out or leave the family behind soon. (Why do I sound toxic!?)
@brandym39263 жыл бұрын
"Having more babies is worth the risk." Really? Because um. Pretty sure your children would rather have their mother than another sibling. That mentality is actually scary.
@0Jenna73 жыл бұрын
It's an addiction, and they're treating it with what the mothers' are addicted to. Hearing them say it's worth the risk is like hearing a heroin addict say it's worth the risk. It'll never not be worth the risk unless something really, really drastic happens. And it can't just be their lives at risk because, again, addict mentality.
@majdavojnikovic3 жыл бұрын
They are religious and live what the Bible says. "Fill the Earth.." or something like that. No birth control, God forbid abortion, so what do you do? You keep on having child after child. They live their convictions. And they are all healthy children, which is great. What I like less is that chaos is seen as normal. If you decide to have this many children, you have to give them other kind of attention and group occupations and clear responsibilities so they form a team and so they can get something from being one of many :). Lot of screaming, fighting, rivalry and not having enough peaceful time at home is not good.
@brandym39263 жыл бұрын
@@majdavojnikovic the big "risk" I'm talking about is her life. I get why she's doing this, but if she ends up dying, she is leaving a husband by himself with all these mourning children. Does their God really want them to have children until she dies young and abandons her children? What is the point of that? I'm not even against her having a large family. That is fine. But when a doctor is telling you that death is knocking, I think you should take a second to seriously think.
@majdavojnikovic3 жыл бұрын
@@brandym3926 I agree with you, for me this is not responsible behaviour, but you could see how they both rationalize their choices. One with way to cope with trauma of being adopted ("not wanted"), other one with following the Bible. As they themselves assume, it sure looks like a kind of addiction. If it is addiction, addicts don't think rationally, or can rationally address risks. What is also tragic is that all those children have nothing to say about all of it.
@brandym39263 жыл бұрын
@@majdavojnikovic absolutely.
@SheniceSays214 Жыл бұрын
What concerns me is the ability to give each of their children the proper amount of time and attention and the huge amount of responsibility placed on the older children.
@brookewilson1950 Жыл бұрын
"Sue's been pregnant almost her entire adult life" My guy? She got pregnant at 14? She's been pregnant the ENTIRETY of her adult life
@SomeRandomFelineАй бұрын
14 is barely even a teenager to make it worse...
@beckybnyc322Күн бұрын
😆
@skeetskeeh70703 жыл бұрын
"Being in a big family is horrible" - child The parents = Yeah we just want another baby
@itzobadalol28043 жыл бұрын
I want to have 60 siblings it would be chase for every season
@alexcrazyart65223 жыл бұрын
@@itzobadalol2804 my dad is the youngest of six siblings and he said it was hell growing up. Trust me, you don't want more than 1 to 3 kids.
@alexusjovan88483 жыл бұрын
My kids think eating vegetables is horrible.
@itzobadalol28043 жыл бұрын
@@alexcrazyart6522 my parents have 4 Siblings and I was the 4rd Lol
@Ckim63343 жыл бұрын
@@alexcrazyart6522 I'm the youngest of seven siblings.. and yeah..
@chi.34223 жыл бұрын
i feel so sad for the thirteen year old girl at the second family, it seems like she actually wants to go to school and also genuinely cares for her brothers. probably her mom doesn't pay attention to her.
@plateofpasta123 жыл бұрын
Yeah it breaks my heart. I feel like she has potential that could be reached if she could study with kids her own age and not stuck with younger brothers who are disruptive and a mom who isn't qualified to run a classroom. So sad
@jojoflowerbird76423 жыл бұрын
@Tiffany Patton hi I agree with you
@abhilashasarkar24593 жыл бұрын
@Tiffany Patton o god i guess you got no brain! she means to say the girl maybe wants to go to school to study with her aged friends and not with her younger siblings because her mother needs to focus more on the younger ones and thats how she gets ignored , parents can teach you and thats amazing but imagine studying with someone younger and then they will get more attention cuz they're younger and less smart so they have to be explained more whereas you know everything but still have to wait for them to understand! get in into your fat head dumbo!
@sebaplays84163 жыл бұрын
Yeah I feel bad for her. Her mother isn’t qualified or anything and she thinks it’s better to homeschool kids
@jojoflowerbird76423 жыл бұрын
@@abhilashasarkar2459 this argument is getting way out of hand
@karenjulieattard4171 Жыл бұрын
The thought of even having one kid is enough to bring me out in a cold sweat! Who in their right mind would want a dozen of them?! Madness 😮
@cosmicreef5858 Жыл бұрын
It is not the kids that are the problem. More like who in their right mind would want a dozen when they are NOT CAPABLE of taking care of even one.
@frogmanjr Жыл бұрын
If you want a lot of kids you better be able to give each child love, attention, care, a stable home, good environment/ education and for a child to be a child.
@user-ee5kp5es1w3 жыл бұрын
I'm not against big families but having many children and not being able to give each one the best future possible is just not right.
@juliasaik83113 жыл бұрын
exactly. Make as many kids as you want until you can afford everything they need and give them proper childhood, which in such a big family is just impossible. 0 silence, 0 or very little contact with mom, babysitting until you move out. That's sick.
@nachogirl353 жыл бұрын
I agree, it’s very selfish
@Szpuppet3 жыл бұрын
*cough cough* Mexican families. Mexican families have like 4-18 kids, at least in my family.
@cindyramos59573 жыл бұрын
@@Szpuppet I feel that was more in the older generations...nowadays they only have around 2 or 3
@Szpuppet3 жыл бұрын
@@cindyramos5957 Nah my fam got up to 4- 7 kids now.
@lordzetheron19043 жыл бұрын
The lack of privacy some of these kids have. My god, being 22 and sharing a room with your baby brother must be freaking torment!
@salami89623 жыл бұрын
literally
@Lenawire3 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't she be in college though?
@user-mx4jl3jd5e3 жыл бұрын
Why is she 22 and living at her parents house hah
@Lenawire3 жыл бұрын
@@user-mx4jl3jd5e Not everyone moves out when they turn 18.
@user-mx4jl3jd5e3 жыл бұрын
@@Lenawire When you are born in a family like this you honestly should
@maremoosfx4668 Жыл бұрын
I’m the youngest of 7 children (20years old now) Our childhood was rough! After my mums parents started to get ill (when I was little) that put a massive strain on our family and sent my mum into a breakdown. My mum and dads relationship fell apart and she became a single mum. Her dad dying and the stress of the kids were too much to bear, we were neglected and had to be taken away from her. One of the older kids ended up in foster care, and the rest of us forced to live with our dad or sofa surf as a young adult. We all struggled with suicidal tendencies and depressed from the trauma of our childhood and I was raised completely by my siblings. I can’t imagine how hard it was for my older siblings to look after the young ones let alone being in a family double the size! Our childhood has effected us all even into a adulthood. However, the relationship I have with my siblings is absolute amazing. We are all best friends and love spending time with each other now. I truly hope that these family’s get the light at the end of the tunnel as I did. But, their age gaps are a lot larger than ours so being close as adults may be more difficult. Another thing is the house, having 7 kids and keeping a tidy house is almost impossible, with money being very tight and my mum couldn’t afford to get rid of anything and developed hoarding problems. Tidying the house and doing that much loads of washing was unmanageable alone. The house became so cluttered it was honestly a health hazard, we turned up to school regularly unbathed with knotted hair and the wrong shoes on. You can imagine the knock on effect that had to our education, it’s hard to concentrate with the pressure of what’s going on at home.
@susannehuber39969 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you had to go through this. ❤❤❤❤❤❤I’m sending a lot of love your way ❤❤❤❤
@beckythornton6470Ай бұрын
That was quite a vulnerable share, thank you. Insight into the reality of huge families and the strain and toll it takes on children. It's just so lovely that you all are tight now as adults, and have that love and support for each other. But you paid your dues young, so I hope it paved the roads for your adult life to be smooth and easily traveled. You deserve that!
@Dachozan12 күн бұрын
I'm the oldest of 8 and yes you described it all so well
@alisonalibongo3177 Жыл бұрын
I had twins at 38 weeks naturally in hospital went home the same day. I had breathing problems as well around 27 weeks on because twins take up your whole stomach. They were 7 pounds per baby. Grateful ❤️❤️
@jessicajones8872 Жыл бұрын
U went home the same day?? What country do u live in ? Wow. That wasn't safe at all
@kellyalexander7347 Жыл бұрын
Same here also had twin girls naturally 19 years ago and went home the same day ❤
@baishalideb5565Ай бұрын
same day??? what a negligence?? shame on your health system.
@sennaoneill31604 жыл бұрын
Anyone watching this when the whole country is in isolation? Imagine how they will deal with that lol
@69Fabulosity4 жыл бұрын
I dont have that much patience for a crying baby and a kitchen full of 101 kids🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️❗
@wendydeacon83614 жыл бұрын
Follow their you tube videos and you’ll see they’re doing fine.
@edeeeXO4 жыл бұрын
@@wendydeacon8361 what's their channel name?
@wendydeacon83614 жыл бұрын
@@edeeeXO The radford family
@cherrelle32314 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! Telling all those kids that they can’t leave the house.
@biawsome254 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for the 13-year old girl. She is being denied her right of an education and lives in such a stressful household. This mother is not qualified to give them classes and she is sabotaging her daughter's future. I seriously hope that she didn't develop depression in her teen years, she looks so done with it all.
@juliebrown85863 жыл бұрын
She can teach her kids what she sees fit its not our job to tell someone how to raise their child Edit: July 23rd 2022 After almost 2 years I keep getting harassed because of this comment and insulted. I myself was a teenager when I posted this and while I still think people need to mind their fucking business, the harassment I received because, "People have a right to their opinion" While trying to silence mine? Only proves my point that you people don't know what you are talking about and harass to feel validated. Please for the love of god, get a life and leave me alone. Clearly if you have time to harass a stranger for a comment they made almost 2 years ago you have way too much free time on your hands. And I will add after all the shootings, I've seen on the news lately, I am more determined now than ever to homeschool my children, when my fiancé and I decide we are ready for a family, I will probably homeschooled until they are ready for middle school then put them in public. So they can still form friendships, become more independent and so on.
@melodiechartier51733 жыл бұрын
Julie Brown we have the right to our opinion../ and it's true it's not fair for the 13 years old, of anything it's abude
@juliebrown85863 жыл бұрын
@@melodiechartier5173 it's not abuse and no you dont have the right to have an opinion over how someone raises their children that girl ia obviously happy and thrilled to have more siblings both the families that are happy its not child abuse whatsoever they can raise the children they created, the way they see fit (as long as it doesnt break the law) you can save your opinions for your children and raise them the way you see fit
@elisestokes72063 жыл бұрын
@@juliebrown8586 You sound like someone who would enable this kind of situation. I understand that it's difficult to work in school due to distractive students. However, I don't feel like it is appropriate for her to have her siblings disrupting. There should be a strict family and school division otherwise it will cause psychological stress for all of them. Clearly after watching the brief education their mother is providing, I strongly feel that she is being deprived of the potential education she could actually be having. She even looks fed up! I'm not saying homeschooling doesn't work because I know it does. Only if you have a sufficient teacher. Which, the mother clearly is not. Also, just to clarify, that person does have the right to an opinion. Just like you have a right to an opinion. So, don't tell them they can't express how the mother could be better in raising her children.
@juliebrown85863 жыл бұрын
@@elisestokes7206 actually depending on the school situration my soon to be husband and I have agreed to homeschool our children and I juat think as long as shes not actually.abusing the kids which shes not then people should mind their own business almost every single parent is doing their best to raise their children the best way they can this is what she sees fit and I dont like how the school system is now so it's reasonable for her to teach them and shes doing a good job honestly anyone can be a teacher to their children if they tried my mom wasnt a genius but what she didnt know we learned together and it turned out just dind considering my brother is in college to become a lawyer and I'm going to become a therapist
@requiscat0in0pace48 Жыл бұрын
I only have one sibling and still sometimes thought that my parents weren't giving me enough time when I was growing up. Now as an adult and having adult conversations with my parents, I had my mom confess that more than once she struggled harshly with being a stay-at-home parent, and my dad telling me of how he lost sleep thinking on how to provide and not being home that much. We were just TWO kids and there were still so many things my parents wished they did differently and things my sibling and I wished they did to connect better with us. Most kids here are still small, but when they start becoming teens and needing new different kind of attention and more space things are gonna get wild. I can only imagine that it already is to the older kids who, for intents and purposes, have to be parents to their youngest siblings, that's a responsibility they didn't ask for. There's more to having kids than giving them food, clothes and shelter, there is no way all those kids are getting their emotional needs met
@elongatedmusk25379 ай бұрын
Damn man. I'm a middle child in a family with only 3 kids but that middle child syndrome is so real. Even though I've only got 2 other siblings, I felt ignored a lot of the time as a child and I often felt as if I didn't matter as much as my older and younger siblings. I can only imagine how the kids in incredibly large families like these must feel. It breaks my heart. It really does 💔
@tigertbalm5 ай бұрын
I was 2nd out of 5 ,so thought it sucked that I didn't even get to be the middle child.
@SomeRandomFelineАй бұрын
a lot of them probably have middle child syndrome
@feverdream_13 жыл бұрын
Woman: *keep having baby’s * Vagina, bills, etc.: *am I a joke to you*
@MiaMizuno3 жыл бұрын
That uterus is working day and night shifts for a poor living.... Wondering if that body part is not almost in burnout mode.... But soon, menopause hits and finally retirement
@-nottouya-61143 жыл бұрын
@@MiaMizuno yep
@alexcrazyart65223 жыл бұрын
*First 7 kid's mental health* has left the chat.
@lynnbaedeeboo31323 жыл бұрын
"There's someone born almost every single years."- Predictable family plan.
@blackual3 жыл бұрын
why is the vagina relevant to you?....
@LearningAmerica4 жыл бұрын
Isnt it a red flag when the kids sound like they have more common sense than the parents??? Jeez
@whitneyrebeschini87663 жыл бұрын
Yeah tbh
@MiaMizuno3 жыл бұрын
Guess just from living in that household the kids are better prepared for the future than their parents. I bet, everyone will be rather on contraception and start a family in their 30s.... They grew basically up all the time with babies... So I am sure they want to have at least 15 years of child-free time.
@klassickari3 жыл бұрын
When I read ur comment I literally got an ad talking about common sense lmao
@arriibacon5313 жыл бұрын
Yes they should really stop
@flyorwalk17433 жыл бұрын
Agreed....It seems when the parent's age are passed and the now grown-up children will come and visit them, things will be really sad. No attention=no attention. Unfortunately there is no strong bond of the kids to the parent.
@riphope3470 Жыл бұрын
Imagine growing up with zero privacy, a mum that spends 6k on strollers instead of education, parents who suffer SO HARD from being adopted, they spend their entire life on popping out children. These kids will never escape this family bubble or get a job outside of the family business..
@jjamesgames6573 Жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for those kids. They need public school. They need to reach all the school milestones and need to make friends and get a break from the exhaustion. Especially the ones over the age of 8 that are stressed. Poor guys. 😕
@noorbohamad57963 ай бұрын
NOBODY in their right goddamn mind needs that sheesh it’s possible to make friends with family:(no it doesn’t necessarily have to be a sibling):instead of with strangers during forced unwanted extremely boring as all goddamn hell schooling
@ang16923 жыл бұрын
The fact that the lady’s 8th grade daughter was learning the same things at the first grader is soooo concerning. Her “history lesson” was pathetic
@marianna32533 жыл бұрын
The girl with end up like her mother, a baby making machine with no real goals or aspirations in life, living off benefits
@nessasbbq69623 жыл бұрын
@@marianna3253 THATS RUDE
@nessasbbq69623 жыл бұрын
RUDE
@eyelessjack73923 жыл бұрын
@@nessasbbq6962 WELL ITS TRUE!
@ang16923 жыл бұрын
@@nessasbbq6962 Im not trying to be rude but this is beyond being excusable. She’s putting her daughters education and future at stake
@patblack7813 жыл бұрын
it's so sad how thw daughter quite clearly says her mom isn't qualified to be a teacher... she sounds as if she really wanted to learn
@kimkon21713 жыл бұрын
Poor girl, she seems intelligent
@patblack7813 жыл бұрын
@Madame Satanas Yes and if it's there at least it should be closely monitored by authorities and children should be given the possibility to choose
@patblack7813 жыл бұрын
@@kimkon2171 Yes sje really does, I hope she can still somehow make something from that
@atticus34423 жыл бұрын
@Madame Satanas No, it shouldn't. I mean, parents should be able to become a teacher. (Idk what the degree is called lol)
@atticus34423 жыл бұрын
@Madame Satanas I know, I'm just saying that the law should be that parents have to have a degree in teaching to home school.
@abby_1815 Жыл бұрын
The fact the first family have had like 7/8 more babies since the video
@nadjavandenbroek8053 Жыл бұрын
I actually saw a documentary about the Radford family as the 21st (!!) baby arrived. I actually think that this family is surprisingly happy. The children all seemed well still and the oldest children said that they wouldn‘t want it different 😊
@Teshiro Жыл бұрын
Such a naive thing to believe older kids are happy in family like that. No privacy no attention no escape from home because they’re homeschooled. They might seem happy on cameras but I wouldn’t be surprised if the kids would get depression from it
@steffimaier729711 ай бұрын
@@Teshiro Exactly! On top of it all; the dad got her pregnant while he was an adult already and she was 14. Super creepy!
@susannehuber39969 ай бұрын
Kids will tell you what the parents want to hear.
@Lena.Jones137 ай бұрын
@@Teshirothe Sullivan fam were homeschooled not the Radford kids
@ahuman57724 ай бұрын
@@Teshiro Maybe you need to practice your listening comprehension. They have a whole scene where they take the Radford family to school. They are not homeschooled. You know this documentary followed 2 families? Maybe you confused them.
@itz_nancyy61824 жыл бұрын
Her:I really enjoy being pregnant. Me: scared of the thought of even being pregnant
@patizii4 жыл бұрын
Itz_Nancy Perez me too
@hailchan4 жыл бұрын
Same ;w;
@margotbaran90654 жыл бұрын
@@FolkloreIreland #
@Heaven134204 жыл бұрын
Its the birth that scares me😳😳😳
@jerni16834 жыл бұрын
Itz_Nancy Perez samee
@saniyamcwilliams91654 жыл бұрын
I’m not watching bc I want a lot of babies, I’m watching bc I’m bored and I’m in quarantine🙃😂 who else?
@Chance7544 жыл бұрын
Saniya McWilliams me too!! 🤚
@MizzG5204 жыл бұрын
Saniya McWilliams girl me too !! 😂😂😂😂
@outbreaksofsocietyrosie9944 жыл бұрын
Same here!!!
@Ricatolentino184 жыл бұрын
Me too 😪
@kaylaclarkhall4 жыл бұрын
True
@Csc180Ай бұрын
Is she trying to do the 100 baby sims challenge????😭
@Harrypotterandfriendsedits127Ай бұрын
😭😭
@Beeboop522 Жыл бұрын
These parents are beyond selfish. They’ve got this baby fever without considering the fact that they can’t equally care for and love every child, it’s impossible. That mum “teaching” her children is a crime how can you teach a 4 year old and a 13 year old at the same level. I feel so bad for that 13 year old girl she deserves proper education as well as all of them. Smh.
@petyrparker Жыл бұрын
I know right! If they really want big families and love children maybe adopt a few. It seems they are only obsessed with being pregnant and having babies ...baby fever smh
@morganb49933 жыл бұрын
This man is saying it’s immoral to stop a life. It’s immoral to neglect your already living and growing children!
@oliviab35353 жыл бұрын
Exactly omg
@emeraldgem89353 жыл бұрын
So many of the primary school aged children were neglected and under stimulated - both these women need therapy to address their unresolved issues of abandonment and control.
@batwom43043 жыл бұрын
@@emeraldgem8935 right!!! Those kids just didn’t look like they were thriving like they should be. Very disturbing and sad.
@Foxie7703 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@kaylaleave3 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of that Nick cannon surely people who keep reproducing are mentally ill using Bible verses or silly beliefs on why they keep on having children this is honestly sickening
@emilyreynolds41853 жыл бұрын
A lady who dropped out of school after getting pregnant with her first child takes her kids out of school, one, because she doesn’t agree with early childhood sex education. Is that irony or just plain ignorance? I guarantee those kids know full well where babies come from already.
@sodiepop6663 жыл бұрын
Exactly, it's a 2021 and almost every kid in the US has access to the internet
@coolwater553 жыл бұрын
Oh, yes, probably home birthing too. So of course they know. She doesn't want them to know about birth control may be the real reason.
@hyde18933 жыл бұрын
the oldest daughter looks so defeated, i can tell that she wants to learn and is upset that she isn't being given the opportunity :(
@teresa63873 жыл бұрын
I think it’s because she doesn’t want to promote any type birth control? If she is pro-life that might be the reason why, because in school they teach you about using protection, ways of not getting pregnant and so on…
@emilyreynolds41853 жыл бұрын
@@teresa6387 So it's irony, then. That's what I had my money on.
@brooklin_bernek4 ай бұрын
He says he hates a big family , but take them all away and he’s miss them terribly . They really do run a wonderful daily life, dinner together , school lunches, and just overall love you can see . Hard work and dedication from mom and dad. ❤
@denisedspain799111 ай бұрын
I’m the youngest of 10, my mom was the oldest of 9 and her dad was a middle child in a family of 13. Screw anyone that doesn’t like it! We all loved growing up in a big family! We always had someone to play with. My mom was an Angel and was a wonderful mother! My dad was never afraid of hard work!
@ericacollins198510 ай бұрын
I the 2nd of 6 that should've been 9! I agree 🖕 those who don't like it.
@FramokamcАй бұрын
Not everyone have the same possibilities, having children is equal to having economical resources, mental health and space
@lindamarshall7274Ай бұрын
You are both so lucky to have such a amazing loving family you both have something that money can not bry I would love to live next door to you take care sending lots of love and hugs ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@strategystuff5080Ай бұрын
Ha. ask the oldest how he she felt about it.
@katonnacartier20194 жыл бұрын
A lady, addicted to having children, does not believe sexual education at the beginning of puberty is appropriate.... 🤦🏾♀️
@m2ukass4 жыл бұрын
Omg, I was thinking the same! These are the type of kids that need it the most. Statistically children of women, who have children very young or have a lot of children, also tend to have children young.
@tvds83504 жыл бұрын
the irony
@mqddie4 жыл бұрын
some people are really dumb 😂
@charlenebailey614 жыл бұрын
LOLOLOL!!!
@michellegemima75854 жыл бұрын
She wants something different for her children what’s ur problem
@LTilli3134 жыл бұрын
If if were one of the older daughters, I'd be slipping some birth control in mom's tea.
@sarah-beruriahbooi95293 жыл бұрын
L tilli 🤣😂🤣
@marya13313 жыл бұрын
Smart
@erics.czernecki73333 жыл бұрын
Just replace "older" with "younger".
@kylahayes67703 жыл бұрын
No frfr
@ashey23323 жыл бұрын
Simple... But effective 👀
@Soph_mum Жыл бұрын
Did anyone else here the narrator say “and his wife sue is about to have baby number 50”
@lizziemartin23828 ай бұрын
Imagine being close to teenage years and being stuck at home all day learning about the same stuff as your 3 year old sibling? 😢
@evitaamungkasih24333 жыл бұрын
Having that much kid isn't blessing, it's a torture to the kids.
@riona20083 жыл бұрын
Ikr its like there living in a nursery
@PinksMagenta3 жыл бұрын
Smh 🤦🏽♀️ and people told me I shouldn’t have waited so long to have my third child 🙄... What Imma do with a house full of babies 😂😩
@liliamuseum1963 жыл бұрын
Fr
@monicasmith84683 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a family of 13, my mom LOVED being pregnant. Watching this reminded me of the complete chaos, noise, and fights. I was the quiet one that craved attention but always felt a sensory overload. My mom also homeschooled us - but we went into the education system for high-school. Some struggled, some thrived - a social life was impossible as a kid, we had to babysit, do chores, do homework etc. I love and have close bonds with my siblings, but I'm a little bitter I missed a relationship with my mom. She was so focused on the new baby or the new pregnancy, or the chaos on hand; it's not possible to remember the quiet child.
@juliadow54003 жыл бұрын
that sounds really rough. :(
@pascoto3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that, Monica. :(
@michellegriff133 жыл бұрын
☹
@00Peregrine003 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience. I hope others with hopes of giant families come across this.
@spiritualempress66913 жыл бұрын
I can only imagine. I had one daughter and I can’t imagine raising and being emotionally invested in more than one child. They deserve undivided attention.
@dralfred2400 Жыл бұрын
Those kids need a better life, Most times it amazes me greatly how I moved from an average lifestyle to earning over $63k per month, Utter shock is the word. I have understood a lot in the past few years that there are lots of opportunities in the financial market. The only thing is to know where to invest.
@bjoe631 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or bitcoin and stocks.
@nyreggie Жыл бұрын
I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more.
@bjoe631 Жыл бұрын
@@nyreggie That won't bother you if you trade with a professional like *Mr Gary Mason Brooks* my consultant. I found him on a CNBC interview where he was featured and reached out to him afterwards. He has since provide entry and exit points on the securities I focus on. I basically follow his trade pattern and haven’t regretted doing so.
@nyreggie Жыл бұрын
@@bjoe631 You allow people to trade for you? that's interesting, I would love to learn, hope it’s safe?
@susanhaynes679 Жыл бұрын
Wow I can't believe you guys are discussing about Gary Mason Brooks , I once met him at a conference in California 2019, just before the pandemic. I can testify that he’s very good in trading..Highly recommended.
@stewbugz521311 ай бұрын
One of my close friends has 9! She homeschools and her husband is retired military. They are very calm and great with their babies! I could never do it, more power to these families. God Bless them!
@lucythornley66394 ай бұрын
I only have 3 thinking about a fourth
@mermaidocean96454 жыл бұрын
If my parents were to tell me "take care of your 15 brothers and 13 sisters" I'll be like "bye, you made them not me" 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️
@straightfromthecommentsect53464 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@madihamateenzoo83644 жыл бұрын
Lmao🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣
@rlgcy97713 жыл бұрын
Me too
@lizmowrey98663 жыл бұрын
Yep
@shellpeters40463 жыл бұрын
RIGHT
@marianna32533 жыл бұрын
They all need therapy, not more babies. It seems they are trying to treat their different traumas with more babies
@apdroidgeek17373 жыл бұрын
Ikr i feel like after she lost a baby she keeps trying to replace it, but she always think its not enough when the truth is she cant really replace the lost child.
@rebeccateece92923 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you 🤔
@IamKnucks Жыл бұрын
The real issue is you simply don't have the time to give each kid the attention they need to grow up mentally healthy. Even two kids can stretch that sometimes. It's irresponsible and selfish to have this many children. It's not about them, it's just about the parents. At what point does this become child abuse?
@HannahBlowers-np8xz9 ай бұрын
I have 4 two are twins if you are able to take good care of them I don't see it as abuse tbh
@badumba5511Ай бұрын
What like it's not already child abuse? Maybe at 6, I think that should be the biggest limit to having kids cause I heard of sextuples cases.
@despacitodaniel801 Жыл бұрын
i noticed how fast the kids seem to mature when theyre caring for the littler ones
@everbloom16324 жыл бұрын
I think she just enjoys not having her period
@Blackcat219434 жыл бұрын
Ever Bloom I think your right
@IsoldeHallArt4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you’ve never had a baby lol. I would take a few days of cramps over months of mild/moderate discomfort followed by the single most painful experience of your life and the worlds longest period/bleeding.
@Blackcat219434 жыл бұрын
Monica Hall no cuz I’m not stupid like some who start having children at 20 and below
@sarahrazdan20444 жыл бұрын
Ever Bloom😂😂😂😂
@lyrikgraham95814 жыл бұрын
KizzyKitty Rap Up1778 having a baby below the age of 20 makes you stupid? grow up lol
@DS-ji6yl3 жыл бұрын
Addicted to babies is right. They don’t care about having and raising children and watching them grow up. They just want the babies. But they don’t stay young so they’ve got to keep having them. Selfish and irresponsible. Poor kids.
@gift_x3 жыл бұрын
Ikr like if you just want the babies you might as well give them to a person to trust since you obviously can’t take care of them and it might cause problems for older kids that have to take care of them
@itsariii90783 жыл бұрын
They should just get a silicons baby
@brittanyt89523 жыл бұрын
100% agree People that just like being pregnant should just be a surrogate
@anonymoususer38883 жыл бұрын
Right? Then those poor older kids have to take care of them despite still being kids themselves
@nuzasa15753 жыл бұрын
should just work in the early childhood industry...
@lovepeace4065 Жыл бұрын
In my opinion it’s an addiction. Children require attention as well as love and food and security. They seem happy God bless them all 🙏🙏🙏
@Smeraldo-_9 ай бұрын
As an only child this is unimaginable, I don't know if I would survive living in such families
@barbara_rocas3 жыл бұрын
there is no way any of these parents can give the healthy amount of time and attention to each individual child to guarantee these children will be psychologically & emotionally sound. what a tragedy
@nico-ke1nn3 жыл бұрын
Precisely.
@yayapassionfruit22693 жыл бұрын
NO
@eliadore70033 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I thought. I have 2 younger sisters and I already struggle to get alone time with our mom. I can't imagine in these families, my god...
@ruthmartinez33963 жыл бұрын
I agree100percent
@princessland_283 жыл бұрын
I have two little brothers and i dont get alone time with my mom one brother is just 2 months old so mom has to be with him at all time but i still want a sister😂i want my mom to adopt a baby girl cuz she said she is done having kids so i said adopt she says when my brother is 1 year old but i dont believe it but i wipl get her to adopt so yeah I dont know how im going to get any alone time with her if she dose adopt when u had 1 brother i hardly geted alone time with get now i sometimes get alone time with her at 1am when both my brothers are sleeping
@FleurAdel4 жыл бұрын
This hole Thing is about her having 15 children. *Why is no one talking about the fact that she is 36 years old and have a 22-year-old daughter making her 14 years of age when she had her first kid that is insane*
@trishapaniagua91924 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing scary
@sassysanya4204 жыл бұрын
That tells you, it’s more than just having kids.. she has a problem that she thinks having babies will fix so she keeps chasing that feeling.
@cargetawatson33914 жыл бұрын
Obviously ur not listening, she did say she got pregnant at 14
@raerambaran4 жыл бұрын
Thought it was me alone noticed that
@AyeeeDreanneee4 жыл бұрын
And her husband was like 18
@Grizzisnothome9 ай бұрын
here's some homeschooling advice: you don't teach 7th grade subjects to 3rd and 4th graders and kindergartners, as well as 11th graders.... teach them the subjects they need to be learning at their age and stop generalizing. Plus just copy a public school schedule from the internet and get rid of the topics you find inap like education on ... and so on EDIT #1: You could send them to kumon for math and english difficulties so that they can have structure and still have a somewhat normal classroom experience and direct communication with friends and teachers.
@drasiella10 ай бұрын
This is a sickness and should not be allowed to happen. None of those children will get enough attention and love from their parents, growing up in constant chaos. This is what hell looks like.
@yourebeautaeful69253 жыл бұрын
Here’s a red flag three minutes in how they keep on saying they love babies yet never really mentioned their own children when they grow up it’s like they love the euphoria that they get up having a shiny new toy but once it wears off they can’t handle it and want a new one
@xikristinxo3 жыл бұрын
That's kind of how my mom is. She and my dad had 7 children and my mom loves babies so much, but we were emotionally neglected as children and growing up. It's funny you mention that because I've always thought that way about my mom.
@jessicaalexandra3063 жыл бұрын
Like people with kittens they want a new kitten cuz its tiny and cute until its 5 or 6 months old when its bigger and when it starts to spray in the house they just throw them outside like garbage and forget about them instead of caring enough to get it fixed and love it its whole life and get a new one . Like this mother she said when they they are 6 to 10 months she starts thinking of having a new one that's fucked up
@chickenlover6573 жыл бұрын
And how would you know? Are you a mind reader?
@yourebeautaeful69253 жыл бұрын
@@chickenlover657 because it’s pretty common to read how a person uses their language and how a person acts in order to guess their intentions it’s a useful skill learn it
@yourebeautaeful69253 жыл бұрын
@@chickenlover657 because it’s pretty common to read how a person uses their language and how a person acts in order to guess their intentions it’s a useful skill learn it
@cydnebrown26193 жыл бұрын
Imagine loosing a fundamental part of childhood which is school, making friends and socialising just because mummy want the feeling of a new baby
@rzferre79662 жыл бұрын
That's literally my life rn. I have too much priorities to do other than taking care and watching over my 5 siblings. Sometimes, I don't feel like my parents appreciate me even though I'm the one doing all the work they're supposed to do. Even if I would try to make them proud a million times, they wouldn't give me the impression I want. Right now, I'm struggling with mental illnesses and I mostly struggled with overwork, depression, anxiety, and good child syndrome and I don't even know myself yet or what I am. I didn't have time to make friends and now that I'm 15, I am so shy to strangers and I don't want to meet new people. And rn, my mom just gave birth to another baby but I'm not mad just kinda sad and happy.
@alsoknownasanne55062 жыл бұрын
@@rzferre7966 ohhh I’m so sorry for you. I’m am only child myself and I have always wanted siblings but I’ve never realized that it could be hard to take care of 😭😭 I hope you’re gonna be okay, find your own place and your parents will realize that you’re in pain 🥺 Sending you big hugs from the Caribbean ❤️❤️❤️
@xKellogsx2 жыл бұрын
i cant believe that there are people who still feel this way. Sorry, but your opinion is an outdated one. The only 'socializing' going on in a public school is the wrong kind. When you are 'allowed' to talk, its to kids your own age. No interaction with different ages, let alone adults. Homeschooled children are MORE socialized than regular schooled kids.
@rzferre79662 жыл бұрын
@@alsoknownasanne5506 thank you sm. Even the smallest words help me to be motivated♥️
@COVID--kf3tx2 жыл бұрын
@@rzferre7966 aw th at sucks that your parents don't a llow you to be a kid. . As someone else who struggles w social anxiety what helps is just going out and about in the world. talking to people about boring stuff n all
@tinotendamagaisa7444 Жыл бұрын
I’m the second of 7 kids and my younger siblings all suffer from a learning need or a disability it’s hard to be living all under one roof but I’m glad my parents didn’t make me feel like I had to look after them for them I always feel as I’m helping and not a second mother I’m happy my family are happy as large as we are we never have a dull moment ❤❤❤❤
@trashpandageek Жыл бұрын
I would be so mad at my mom. With that many kids the individual children dont get enough attentention and even more bc of the fact that she risks her life with more and more pregnancies. I cant imagine the feeling of loosing my mom because of it ... The risks are insane. How can she confidently continue and risk all of it... her kids could grow up without a mom :( The fact she doesnt even let them go to school and socialize or get a proper education is even worse :( This woman needs help and work through her trauma instead of ... this... :(
@leola_lottie3 жыл бұрын
Sure... yeah... A woman who dropped out of college and then starts obsessively having babies thinks she can do a better job than fully qualified teachers. I feel so so sorry for her kids.
@tavrosnitram15293 жыл бұрын
as you see more and more of the world, you'll see that dumb people think they're the smartest and smart people thinking they aren't at all
@tavrosnitram15293 жыл бұрын
@@hvymtlangel depends on who teaches you, i was also homeschooled for a time and was ahead Others were not so lucky, only a few were ahead like us, the others (usually from religious households) were far far (years) behind
@xLemon_3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@kozmikkarma3 жыл бұрын
@@hvymtlangel I'm glad you had a good homeschooling experience, but that one example does not a rule make. Additionally, I am willing to bet that your parents were more educated and qualified then this woman.
@l123xy3 жыл бұрын
sometimes i´m really happy to life in germany. Our school system isn't the best but everybody is in the same school system so everybody have similar chances to get good education. (sorry, in case there are mistakes in my text, my english isn´t really good)
@meikekroll3243 жыл бұрын
The thing is, most people dont even recognize this as a form of neglect. You cannot have that many children and take care of their emotional needs. Those eldest siblings must be exhausted too
@fauxcommander3 жыл бұрын
i already have to deal with the aftermath of neglect just because my mom was emotionally immature and couldn’t handle TWO kids. this video makes my skin crawl honestly.
@maraivfrance25573 жыл бұрын
@@fauxcommander I can’t even explain how pissed I am by this. There’s nothing funny about it. These women should be stopped. Putting kids into the world like this should be a crime, specially in those financial circumstances. As someone w an emotionally draining relationship w my parents, and there wasn’t more than 2 of us underage at home living w them, I hate these people. And I realize how strong that word is
@fauxcommander3 жыл бұрын
@@maraivfrance2557 I absolutely agree! I hope you’re doing well 💖
@jeannedarc53513 жыл бұрын
@@maraivfrance2557 on the other hand, my mil is a ball of anxiety and would never have given her kids an ounce of privacy if she hadn't had 5 kids. My husband is definitely more well adjusted because his mother couldn't focus just on him and if she had had 7 kids instead of 5, he would probably have been even more well adjusted. Some mothers need to be forced to cut the emotional umbilical. So, yeah, neglectful mothers are bad, but many mothers tend towards the other extreme as well and I can see how having more kids would help those kids emotionally, because they wouldn't be under their mothers microscope all the time.
@barbaraagal12823 жыл бұрын
@@maraivfrance2557 I agree, my mom and dad just kept having babies. I started to take care of them when I was 6 years old. Giving the little ones baths cooking and all that. I was 9 and told my grandmother that I was only going to have 3. Funny thing my grandparents only had small families, just not sure why my parents kept having children
@christal4117 Жыл бұрын
It is impossible to give attention to all kids at the same time, it most always turns out the older sibilings raise younger ones while mom is busy making more kids. You dont even have time to spend any alone time with each kid to get to know them, you can barely talk to each during the day.
@susannehuber39969 ай бұрын
Poor kids. Just having kids for selfish reasons is inhumane.
@ronjahack7923 жыл бұрын
Usually when someone’s mom tells her children she is pregnant, they are like really we are getting A new sibling, for them it’s just a regural monday.
@TheOriginalLexa3 жыл бұрын
Ronja Hack regural?
@creedbratton54563 жыл бұрын
@@TheOriginalLexa It is grate gramarr
@helenavlogs39843 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂lker
@TheOriginalLexa3 жыл бұрын
Lol, you guys are all funny 😆 Ronja Hack, I have a large family and people have joked about that kind of thing with me for years. The most common thing I used to get when they were all young was that my doctor should just install a zipper in my stomach to make the c-sections easier 🤦♀️ By big, I mean 4 in 6 years, and #5 4 1/2 years later.
@miekekuby4 жыл бұрын
When the little boy says “Living in a big family is horrible” wow.... you really see the cause of that. There’s NEVER time for the individual... :(
@R.M.3.144 жыл бұрын
The Far Away Family to be fair, kids in EVERY size family says it’s horrible/the worst/etc 😂that’s just kids for ya
@lakotahfrye66424 жыл бұрын
I thought it was horrible I only had one sibling. I wanted a sister. Its definitely a kid thing lol.
@cathaaaa72364 жыл бұрын
@Bowser 17 Same. I only have a sister. I want a brother. Lol
@Ssh-dc6ze4 жыл бұрын
Living in a big family is really beautiful and interesting. You will not know it until you experience it.
@imanebarakat55674 жыл бұрын
I have two sisters and as a kid I thought it's a horrible thing, even tho each one of us have a separate room. And when I moved out i realized that family is the best thing and having siblings is not a horrible thing, kids say stuff
@ashenkoisan5723 ай бұрын
This is the IRL Loud House yo
@Alexandra9001 Жыл бұрын
Oh God, poor children. It's really hard to watch how sad, overwhelmed and hard - pushed they are. I'm really sorry dor rhem.
@Quackzine Жыл бұрын
What? Plenty of happiness in these kids. Did you atually watch this video?
@jasminekennedy4774 Жыл бұрын
@@Quackzinethe kids seem slightly upset about the amount of siblings if you actually listen to what they're saying. I especially feel bad for Caitlin
@ladymallowyt2 жыл бұрын
I'm the second oldest (6 kids, me included) and I always felt like my parents didn't give me much attention. I can't imagine how some of these kids feel. There's no way you can give each kid the love and attention they need
@sydb591232 жыл бұрын
Heck I am # 2 out of 3 kids and the only one without neurodivergence, and even my mom will admit that there were a lot of times I didn't get the same attention my siblings did. It's probably mild compared to your situation, but I can't even imagine the neglect these kids feel
@m82s01l2 жыл бұрын
I have 8 siblings and we had plenty of attention and both parents worked.
@free_as_a_bird2 жыл бұрын
@@m82s01l I wonder if all of your siblings feel the same. I came from a large family and friends of mine that came from large families all realized there is only so much time and attention that can be had. I didn't really care to have any extra personal attention but my younger sis STILL wishes she could have more attention from our mom....and we're in our 40s.
@vermilion69662 жыл бұрын
@@m82s01l yeah youre also a liar lmao
@marietitan72812 жыл бұрын
I don’t know I’m number 2 out of 8 kids and everyone felt love and attention and we even went on family vacations. My mom is a single parent also
@Overlandparkgirl4 жыл бұрын
This is me when I play the sims lmao
@Adriana-hp1eh4 жыл бұрын
Best comment ever.
@litchtheshinigami89364 жыл бұрын
Lol same
@M-O-884 жыл бұрын
Ahahhahahahahahhahah
@Justdijona4 жыл бұрын
Lml
@HunM054 жыл бұрын
I can only handle one in The Sims 😂
@ronaldparker8326 Жыл бұрын
A parent is the most important teacher they teach every day raising their children
@yellowbird5411 Жыл бұрын
As soon as the eldest ones can do tasks, they are put to work to care for the younger ones. That is how it was years ago with large families, too. The eldest never got to be kids, as they became caregivers to their brothers and sisters. They spend their time with housework, laundry, cleaning up messes, and generally being a free housekeeper/babysitter who is taken for granted after the age of about 5, and labelled as "Momma's helper." As each one gets older they must also pick up the chores as they are able. They feel a lot of responsibility for the welfare of the household. If they are on a farm, the chores become harder and kids become adults long before they are ready.
@JG_SmileSOBright Жыл бұрын
Bingo!!!! So cruel to those kids 😞
@TALIEXTALIE3 жыл бұрын
its funny how the homeschool mom doesnt want them in public school because of "early sex education" yet your talking to ur first grade child about genocide and war.... but dont want to address how all of your blessings are made...????
@zarakb25223 жыл бұрын
literally
@alexcrazyart65223 жыл бұрын
Also, I'm 14 and I'm pretty sure I'd be able to give a better WW2/Holocaust history lesson than her.
@strapdemon3 жыл бұрын
At least if they took sex Ed they won't end up like their family
@belbarcelos92643 жыл бұрын
She is also giving the same class for children of all ages, probably ranging from 14 to 7. How would that work? Shouldn’t at least the oldest be at school?, Christ
@chelseamatthews8543 жыл бұрын
@@belbarcelos9264 and not teaching the older kids sex Ed because they don't agree with it😂
@amorarose19594 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for the 13 year old girl, She must be so stressed :(
@clairawilliams52184 жыл бұрын
@multi-stan trash I agree, I always was made to look after my younger sisters from a young age and my mom just kept pumping babies out. I was always stressed and upset that my mom didnt care about how much she made me literally parent her own kids.
@mochiakayoaigod844 жыл бұрын
@Shapri Baddest I am a twelve year old girl going on 13 and I have one older brother and 3 younger and I am stressed and don't get peace but I love them and can manage but sometimes it's so hard
@iamlekat4 жыл бұрын
It is stressful as f**k
@readyintrovertone58084 жыл бұрын
That's the price you pay when you choose quantity over quality and resources...
@icy.diamond3 жыл бұрын
I’m 13 and have 7 siblings, my house is usually quiet though. I’d go crazy if my house was as loud as theirs!
@capmarketer5038 Жыл бұрын
I'm the youngest of 14 kids but we lived on a farm so grew lots of our own food. I can't imagine growing up in a city. It wouldn't be as fun cuz the outdoors are such a big part of life.
@SnowWhite717_7 ай бұрын
The Radfords have 21 children now and they lost one to miscarriage between the 15th and 21st. The thing I can say about that family is they’re not on benefits, don’t need handouts, provide a lovely loving home for their children and financially cover everything on their own. They should be able to have as many as they’d like as they are the exception to these families because all of their children and now grandchildren as well still choose to live at home or come over daily and holiday as a family too. Even the one they say is the most hated- why do they hate her? All her children are happy, healthy and from the same father. She divorced the father and now has no support from him and now needs benefits. Until the divorce she never needed help. Her and her husband provided. She’s not leeching off the system. She’s a single mom now and she can’t work enough jobs to provide for her family by herself. She needs assistance. I’m sure between her and her husband they paid in plenty. I don’t necessarily agree with these mega families but if they can take care of themselves and they’re happy and not causing problems then what’s the problem? They’re not popping out kids and using the benefit money for booze and drugs…
@JessicasASMR4 жыл бұрын
It’s fine, she’s just doing the 100 baby challenge.
@tarawright12874 жыл бұрын
The world record of the most babies popped out
@TinaMChaos4 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@ashlankemp24004 жыл бұрын
This sent me 😂😭
@hugheast3184 жыл бұрын
Tara Wright it was 69
@bimnature22964 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Reckoning29433 жыл бұрын
They say not wanting to have children is selfish but when I see these women who ignore health risks and their other children’s needs because being pregnant and nursing is a drug to them, I can’t help myself thinking that this is real selfishness.
@mrsraven91693 жыл бұрын
They don't even breastfeed they just give shitty bottles
@midnighttennessee89043 жыл бұрын
Not have children is a choice. Sometimes a very educated, loving and responsible choice.
@melissavickery22363 жыл бұрын
I don't think it is selfish to not want babies. What is selfish is having so many, that you can't provide proper care. Those kids need dental work, they need education. Honestly, I am all for big families but this made me sad. Those 14 kids are not being taken care of properly. What job does the parents have?? I guarantee it is not enough to pay for all the needs of their children. I can tell that within the first few minutes of the video. It is disgusting when parents do this. Rely on the government system to take care of your children. Disgusting. I normally am supportive of big families but this is just ridiculous
@natahliak76913 жыл бұрын
Amen to that!
@sandraevans3 жыл бұрын
the world is so populated, having this many kids is purely selfish.
@natashafuller9832 Жыл бұрын
1st family seem hectic but so much fun, and the second family seem stressful. I wish all health and happiness.
@Nex010 Жыл бұрын
I think the biggest hit on life gets the oldest kids since they get to take care of young ones while the mother is busy with the newborn and pregnancy most of the time. My grandmother was born into a big family, she wanted to go to school but her parents wouldn't let her cuz they had young kids and a farm to look after.
@kellyjones47353 жыл бұрын
Selfish parents. How are these children being properly looked after in such a huge family? None of these children have privacy either. I would go insane.
@maraivfrance25573 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@greengrasspillow39363 жыл бұрын
Excalty! I can’t imagine how suffocating and irritating it would be to be stuck in a house with a family of 13 during this pandemic 😭
@deiadrarose75933 жыл бұрын
I come from a family of 6. 6 is enough. Arguably too many. But at least with 6 the ages can be well spread out, and there's time for both parents to have one on one time. Rooms weren't cramped due to the age gap, as soon as I hit my tweens 3 siblings were already out. That said, I don't want to have kids of my own. I love my family more than anything in the world. But I think battling for food like we were in the apocalypse scarred me enough to swear off children of my own lmao
@ThinkingInProgress3 жыл бұрын
As a family of 9 children, I was forgotten a lot (I was #7) there’s really not much time you can spend one on one with your parents. And when you do, you also realize that their attention is not solely going to be directed on you because they also have a lot of other children too. When I was a kid I got left at home once because they didn’t count up all their children when they left to the store. Also, as all adults now there’s a lot of drama and not many of us talk to each other, and there’s a ton of grandchildren now. It’s just a big mess overall. The oldest one of us passed away at 23 years old, and I think it’s made me realize how much I care for the siblings I do have. So even though it’s a big family I wouldn’t want any less siblings than I already have.
@Thestrongone8443 жыл бұрын
apocalypse 😂😂 that was funny
@bell99794 жыл бұрын
the mom: i love being pregnant the older kids: but imagine how tired we are
@creedbratton54563 жыл бұрын
the older kids: I exist. Remember when I brought you joy?
@asiancakes44173 жыл бұрын
The older kids need to move away to college 😂
@marycook16442 жыл бұрын
Alot of times the older kids feel like they already raised children. So they don’t have any themselves.
@karmkamzz Жыл бұрын
This is straight up abuse 😭 I know damn well they not rich and they definitely putting all the responsibility on the oldest kids
@user-qw7zq1vn5y11 ай бұрын
When it gets to the point where your children are raising your babies and those babies are taking care of each other and missing out on their own childhood, that's a damn problem
@courtney34943 жыл бұрын
36 with a 22 year old. She was 14 when she started having children!!!
@monicamakui32883 жыл бұрын
IKR TOO FREAKEN YOUNG TO HAVE A CHILD.
@monicamakui32883 жыл бұрын
@Ms.Revenge exactly wtf.
@CBC4603 жыл бұрын
yeah, that is crazy and the fact that she wants more is concerning
@monicamakui32883 жыл бұрын
@@CBC460 yep
@tavrosnitram15293 жыл бұрын
im surprised she didnt die in child birth at 14, but forget surviving 10+!!!
@carlasaas96333 жыл бұрын
weird how they talk about the women can't stop having babies. The women presented in the video have a partner who happens to be the dad of these children. So I guess the fathers cannot 'stop having babies' as well. I think the linguistic framing is off either way.
@kay-wj3jx3 жыл бұрын
exactly, it’s not 100% just mother.
@VashtiPerry3 жыл бұрын
Yea i thought these were going to be single moms who keep having children. Not couples...
@cslack8133 жыл бұрын
The women hold the child inside them for 9 months. They live in a country where abortion is legal and birth control is readily available. These women are the the ones ultimately choosing to have more children. It’s very evident the men in these relationships are submissive to the woman’s desires.
@cslack8133 жыл бұрын
@I am truly Greg back to my point about women having the easy option to take birth control or get an abortion. The men aren’t “victims.” They’re just submissive to their wives desires to keep having children.
@cslack8133 жыл бұрын
@I am truly Greg who said anything about an “easy way out”??? And why are you talking like this is Twitter?
@vaehmccoy7777 Жыл бұрын
It’s honestly sad she’s never even given her uterus time to heal enough 🤦🏻♀️
@lahannahlou4 жыл бұрын
ironic that the dad is a baker. really puts emphasis on “a bun in the oven” lol
@anonymousme35714 жыл бұрын
love you bud >
@tvds83504 жыл бұрын
XD
@tiffany46284 жыл бұрын
Lol😂🤣😂🤣😂
@somerking70403 жыл бұрын
How is he providing for this many children? Now im hearing they have 22 kids! Noway is he providing on that salary. So are they living on benefits? Surely not!?
@etcwhatever3 жыл бұрын
@@somerking7040 the older kids can work.
@kawannahardy29244 жыл бұрын
Even with their now 22 children, the Radfords seem to be the more "normal" family. I never knew that they were both adopted, but it makes sense that they want what they never had before, biological relatives.
@shaghafhallak27564 жыл бұрын
Ur right
@sanchezgara54984 жыл бұрын
Exactly they said “you’re never alone” “you’ll always have each other “
@sanchezgara54984 жыл бұрын
“ we will never be lonely “ I think that was really hard for them plus she said she didn’t want to track her biological family for fear of rejection , that’s so sad honestly.
@the.1.leelee.2354 жыл бұрын
They don’t have 22 children , they have 14/15
@jillharris76524 жыл бұрын
Jaleia Adams this was filmed a while ago now they have significantly more children
@robertz2more154 Жыл бұрын
So many children without parents, without homes that really would be blessed to be adopted… 😢
@acgraphics1139 Жыл бұрын
Not everyone wants non biological kids
@robertz2more154 Жыл бұрын
@@acgraphics1139 yep. I realized that.
@alisskanetos1229 Жыл бұрын
Kids from big families have skills most will never get. Being few and spoiled is far worst and wont prepare you for adulthood. I was alone and I always been struggling in understanding social skills.
@xReaghan Жыл бұрын
Thank god i'm an only child, i was spoiled as well as a kid and look at me now got my own house, got a good job, great husband what else do you want c;
@kayleeb23103 жыл бұрын
“She can’t have any more we won’t fit in this house “ Imagine your 7yr old child having more common sense than the adult ... honestly I feel bad for them, that’s an unhealthy environment.
@calsta74763 жыл бұрын
Her mental shaped by her own HUGE family.
@truman58383 жыл бұрын
Yeah. They have too many children to give a sufficient amount of attention too individually. I don't care how loving they are or how hard they try, its impossible.
@zuzannaczerwonik83093 жыл бұрын
The reason I don’t agree with people having a lot off kids like more then 4 or 5 is because no child will be getting enough attention, time etc which will effect them badly and as the kids say they get no peace no privacy etc it can be tiring and if a child had a mental illness or needs more quite too be able too focus etc this Will be difficult for them too cope and it gets tiring.
@bloxybb92163 жыл бұрын
@@zuzannaczerwonik8309 should have said that to my parents ;-;
@emilyskinner58133 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@creedbratton54563 жыл бұрын
It is like the parents don't hear their children crying.
@KingpinCarlito3 жыл бұрын
She just becomes completely numb to the sound while the eldest children try to make them stop
@creedbratton54563 жыл бұрын
@@KingpinCarlito Precisely.
@monicamakui32883 жыл бұрын
The parents probably don’t
@itsjustmaisey58953 жыл бұрын
No
@kaleycooper91113 жыл бұрын
Those kids will grow to be attention seeking teenagers
@JazzGaming26 Жыл бұрын
As an individual who doesn’t want any children this would be my worst nightmare.
@niphrim Жыл бұрын
This is horrible. There's no way each child gets the attention they need. There's no way they will get the education that they need. No matter how I try, I simply can't get behind this.
@garnet97884 жыл бұрын
These people don’t need more children, they need therapy. I’m scared to see what would happen when they go through menopause.
@HelloNewMoon4 жыл бұрын
My midwife had 8 and then after 40 no more came and she was very sad for a few years. Then boom, last weeks she delivered her 1st grandbaby and she seems happy as a clam now.
@CasperFiles19694 жыл бұрын
Seriously some indians had their babies after 60.
@etcwhatever3 жыл бұрын
@Darc Widow yes you did. They are free people and productive members of society.
@creedbratton54563 жыл бұрын
I fear that they would hire a surrogate. They aren't afraid to spend money that they don't have so that they can have a newborn.