I used to be super nice and helpful with people Who used me and talking behind my back but today i'm completely a different version of myself

THIS LADY IS SPEAKING FACTS!!! EVEN YOUR FRIENDS, EVEN YOUR FRIENDS!!! YOU DO YOU!!!

Make no mistake - you need to know HOW to be selfish, especially how to explain your selfish choices in a charming and logical manner so you don’t lose friends and support at work.

Love this. Self care is everything. Fill your cup first and then let it overflow to others. Trying to practice this.

Super talk ! Now I am even more convinced to be selfish and to see it as a positive thing

The moment for me to accept being selfish was when i gave my heart to a girl. And her telling me i dont know what it feels like to like someone who dont like u back. Even though I’ve been rejected 20times and shes only ever had 1bf

This was great Jen - thank you for sharing

Excellent video. Thank you for speaking to all of us instead of dividing us into categories of race and gender

fax, i'm done with going out of the way for other people at my own expense.

Lol, today I noticed that people are always in search of positivity. No matter how much darkness is there, people always wanna see the light, Thus, blinding themselves by the dependency.

When you experienced absolute joy watching the sunset, it's when you realized the miracle of nature, at that instant you become one with "existence ",you experienced "presence " you remove the toxic power of your thoughts, you live in the moment, ie. here and now,my joy is hiking, it's so magical, I learned that from Eckhart Tolle's book "The power of now ",everybody must read this book, it's on utube, audio book.God bless.

I think selfishness can be a little beclouding, because we’re all told that selfishness is a horrible thing, because it means we only care about ourselves instead of caring about others yet we’re also told to do a lot of great things for ourselves like taking care of ourselves, defending ourselves and standing up for ourselves as well as being a lot of “self” things like self-assertive, self-confident and self-reliant. I think young people need to be told that selfishness, like a lot of things in life, has its pros and cons. I think parents need to tell their teens what those pros and cons of selfishness are or let the teens figure the pros and cons out for themselves (which is better).

Well said...

From past few weeks, I have been trying to become more selfish in a healthy way. I have a tendency since childhood of people pleasing, trying to fix others and I figured out it was due to unhealthy parenting style. I realised that in order to take care of others and help others properly I need to take care of my own self well. I have started prioritising my own needs, my own physical and mental health properly and it takes time to develop that pattern of thinking, feeling and behaviour but it's all worth it.

I was feeling that feeling just before the video!!!

That moment for me was, skinny dipping with my friends in Mexico with beer and the moon as our guide. I was

Great work Jen - really enjoyed.

Only reason people might call you 'selfish', is because they want you to be 'them-ish'. And you are worth more than that!

Thx cuzzz

very good speech

Prolific. The latest Joe Budden episode brought me here. 💯🏁

Selfishness is realizing that friend who calls u “selfish” for making ONE little and realizing why you DONT want that someone to be a friend.

Amazing video

Cool.

Selfishness is also a form of isolation. This loneliness comes about through our daily action. We are self-centred. What has meaning is to observe our own selfishness, your own self-centred activity, your constant, endless occupation with yourself, as a man or a woman you are occupied daily with yourself. And where there is self-centred activity, it must inevitably lead to isolation. You may talk of co-operation, working together, being together, but as long as this self-centred movement is going on in the form of nationalities, groups, sects and all the rest of it, that self-activity must inevitably lead to loneliness and isolation. So to merely observe the fact that one is selfish and not make a single movement not to be selfish, because any movement of the mind which has been living with deep unexamined selfishness, self-centredness, any act of the mind with regard to selfishness will not only strengthen selfishness, but will change the pattern of selfishness and you will think that pattern is unselfishness. So to observe without any movement of thought or action, that is, to observe your self-centred occupation in the name of god, in the name of all the rest of it, etc , to observe it without the past interfering, just to see your face, as it were, in the mirror, you can't change your face, probably you wish you could but there it is. It is what it is, and to observe it purely without any distortion, without any pressure, just to observe, that very observation exposes the whole consequences of selfishness and that observation cleanses the mind of selfishness. Do it. So if you could listen so entirely to the fact that all self-centred activity in any form must inevitably lead to isolation and therefore division and therefore strife. That's a fact. It is like gravity is a fact. You can't do anything about it. But if you observe it very closely, minutely, precisely, without any distortion, then that very perception is immediate action. So where there is isolation in our relationship, and we are isolated in our relationship, you may be married, you may sleep with another, you may hold his hand, you may say, my wife, my husband, my girl friend, whatever - we are isolated in our relationships, because each one has an image of the other put together by thought, through days and years and time. Those two images have relationship; images put there by memory, by association, by remembrance, and that is not relationship. That's why if you observe it, the image that you have about another, to see it actually, what is happening, that your relationship is based on memory, a remembrance of another, which has built an image in yourself of the other and the other has also an image about yourself, these two images are the factor of division. . And as long as there is that division there will be isolation, loneliness, pain, jealousy, anxiety, anger, hate, strife.. And loneliness is the consequence of our self-centred occupation. If you hear that and see the truth of it, instantly, immediately, then you will find that self-centred activity comes to an end. It is like ending something which you have been carrying for a thousand years. So there is an ending to sorrow. And there is the sorrow of mankind; man has borne, has made, has brought about sorrow. Killing each other, dividing into castes, nations, groups, sects, ashramas and so on. Dividing, dividing, dividing, fragmenting and as long as there is division between nations there must be war, as between people. We know all this, perhaps logically, intellectually, verbally, but we never apply, we never say, test it out. And so sorrow never ends.. So one asks, can there be an activity which is not centred round oneself, because as long as man is lonely through his daily activity, sorrow must inevitably continue...

So in on this! The only way to be selfless is to be selfish, is that right?

Enjoy the sun. Connect

Lv u

Shawty thick

On the positive side: "...greed, which is to demand ever more, is a praiseworthy quality provided that it is displayed under the right circumstances. Thus, should a person show greed in acquiring science and knowledge, or in the exercise of compassion, high-mindedness and justice, this would be most praiseworthy." ~ Baha'i Faith

But what if what I want to do doesn’t work for me.. and everything I let go to be selfish backfires

is that mike ehrmantraut's daughter or granddaughter?

Woodley still thinks ppl listen to his parts 😂

What she is saying is that she started earthing for a certain period of time and she became healthy, long story short. Science is intertwined into her healing. Duhhh

Yeh thanks to the Matrix we are in and the ancient aliens who created this Matrix ofcourse we have to be selfish. This isnt the divine home. Plus we humans are not pure enough or spiritually strong enough to be a saint in this Matrix.

I don't agree with her completely. Stress is a body reaction to danger. When we feel danger, our body reacts and we become stressed. So logically speaking, in order to remove stress we need to remove dangers from life. That is the ultimate solution to the stress problem. Employees are stressed as a reaction to the danger of being fired from job and stayed unemployed. Can we say that the solution to this is to ask employees to become selfish?? seriously ? No the utlimate solution to the employee stress problem is to put huge restriction to abusive firing and adopt company management strategies that push all employees to cooperate and not compete to achieve the best goals for the company.

Man i hate how these demons teach selfish behaviour