SHE WON'T DECLUTTER ANYTHING!

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Жыл бұрын

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This week's video on the Carla project is a declutter with friends episode. We are decluttering and organizing a super cluttered living room. My friend has lived in this apartment for nearly 15 years. Decluttering a small apartment is not easy. Especially if you struggle with feeling attached to items and feeling sentimental about the things in your home. But little by little you can start to make a change. Decluttering first and then organizing! You can't organize your way out of a cluttered home. Today's video will inspire you to declutter and organize your small apartment or motivate you to declutter and organize your living room space.

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@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Erica is the funniest Declutter with Friends FRIEND who doesn’t want to Declutter 😂😅I actually think getting her a storage unit could be the gateway to her clearing out her space. Let us know your thoughts and thanks Erica for opening up your home 🏡 ❤ (like the video if you want us to make part two)

@choochalah Жыл бұрын

When I saw the title I was like....ooops that is me🙈

@claudiajimenez5037 Жыл бұрын

A storage unit would only solve her problem if she stops buying...that is not going to happen. She needs someone to help her deal with the issues behind the clutter

@dogwalker97 Жыл бұрын

I think getting a storage space has potential to be the pathway to success for Erica if she makes the commitment to not filling the space created by moving the items currently in her home to the storage unit. It could be highly motivating if some items can be removed in such a way that Erica will have a room or even part of a room that is orderly and calming. She will however need to make a solemn promise that existing clutter in other parts of her home will not migrate into the newly cleared space and no new items will be introduced into the cleared area. Please film a part 2 to this video. I enjoy your videos very much!

@skd7028 Жыл бұрын

Definitely no storage unit. That’s just a recipe for further hoarding.

@mirandaryan3362 Жыл бұрын

This is because her Mom died....at least in part. When I am dealing with this situation I go mystical and burn sage. I was working with someone who had months to live and we got rid of 1 glass milk bottle that had a $1 deposit. I gave her the dollar. You can't convince these people it has to come from within. You handled this beautifully!

@jen.... Жыл бұрын

Yes, part 2 (and 3 and 4) please. Nearly lost it when Erica wanted to keep the toaster manual 😂

@ihatehandles111 Жыл бұрын

Yes!! This needs to be a 10 part series lol. Sorry Carla!

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Lol 😂

@libbyecheverria730 Жыл бұрын

For the toaster she didn't own anymore and already replaced!

@callieobriant272 Жыл бұрын

Yes! I want to see more! I think as you go she will be more willing to let go of things.

@rickgonzalez1218 Жыл бұрын

Deb here. I prefer paper manuals because I can find them faster and it is easier for me to read. My manuals are in one location not scattered around.

@Tru-lyCozy Жыл бұрын

I think it’s SO important for y’all to show this! Not everyone can just declutter everything and THATS OK. It’s a process and you showing that and showing grace is fantastic. I’m here for all the parts!!

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Thank u 😊

@lisa8990 Жыл бұрын

Erica reminds me of a hoarder. They won't let go of even the little things. I appreciate Erica allowing us to see her home. I hope there is a part 2 so she can let go.

@somethingclever2 Жыл бұрын

That's because she is a hoarder lol

@SarahAnew Жыл бұрын

I personally don’t think she’s a hoarder. She may have hoarding tendencies, but that doesn’t mean she has a disorder. She’s a creative person, too, so she may see thing as having value in a way that others don’t. And it could also be attention span and spending habits too. I totally relate to her and I have hoarded (bought a lot of things I didn’t have places for and have attachment to) when I was going through a difficult time in my life. I don’t think being a hoarder makes you an unacceptable person or anything either. I just want to say that. Hoarding is a mental disorder that is often brought on by coping with trauma. Even if that’s not the case, some people are more attached to their belongings and have a more difficult time letting go. It’s a process. You have to build a muscle for it when it doesn’t come naturally to you.

@theloveyourfacegal2773 Жыл бұрын

I think your right she's bordering well there on hoarding tendencies with trash & new things mixed in boxes and bags :/

@Xiroi87 Жыл бұрын

I agree the tendency is there, but she's trying to improve.

@liisaking1247 Жыл бұрын

@@theloveyourfacegal2773 we would really need to see how Erica does over time in an adequately sized space in order to determine whether or not she's hoarding. She has so little space that she may just get frustrated and overwhelmed and not deal with things she is willing to get rid of. I deal with small space living and people with neurodivergence, so I'm familiar with how many people get overwhelmed or depressed and feel like nothing they do makes a difference, so why try? (She may also deal with object permanence issues, which can contribute to a lot of forgotten items of varying importance levels ending up mixed together.) Erica needs to see that what she does *is* making it better and she's not just shuffling stuff from A to B and back to A.

@lisbethkelsey6622 Жыл бұрын

So realistic...not every declutter goes smoothly or quickly. Part 2 please! I'm against paying for storage personally, unless it's for a specific time frame such as cleaning out a parents home that you need to move quickly but will go through later ... You could have a nice little trip for the $1200 bucks she'd spend in a year.

@Jen-zk9se Жыл бұрын

I wholeheartedly agree

@catgodfrey6451 8 ай бұрын

I 100% agree. She’ll never ever remember what’s in a storage unit. Most people never visit them just pay.

@sydneywood4398 5 ай бұрын

It's been my experience, when you put things in a storage unit: out of sight, out of mind. And the storage unit ends up costing far more than anything that was stored. No one wants to visit their storage unit to clean things out.

@smarterthanawaffle Жыл бұрын

can't nobody pick up her burden until she is willing to lay it down first. ❤

@Jennifer_McKenna Жыл бұрын

I'd love to see a part two. You and Erica definitely made progress. I think it's a good sign she maintained the kitchen. I vote no on the separate storage unit. It'll just become an extra recurring expense and a place where she dumps things and forgets about them. My vote is for several rounds of decluttering. Each pass she'll get rid of more stuff. She won't ever be a minimalist, but I can she her becoming more simplified and organized. Plus, maybe more videos for us? 😂 Thank you for sharing your home, Erica!

@shayh. Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I agree that storage spaces are enablers and tend to be a waste of money, especially to people who struggle with clutter and parting with things. Paying rent to keep things in storage could be replaced with selling those items and/or donating them or recycling them. A monthly decluttering session where she gets rid of 30 or more items might feel less overwhelming than trying to do it all in one take. As always, great work getting things in order. 🥰#FriendsDontLetFriendsLiveInClutter #MentalHealth #ClearClutterClearYourMind❤

@LittlePrairieLibrary Жыл бұрын

Totally agree, I don't think a storage unit would be helpful in the long run.

@smz5302 10 ай бұрын

Agreed. Storage units all too frequently become floor to ceiling piles of decisions delayed.

@GinaStanyerBooks Жыл бұрын

She’s doing great! Baby steps are fine! Some people need a little more time to declutter. I would not recommend a storage unit - that is just moving the problem from one spot to another. The problem isn’t the stuff, it’s the inability to get rid of anything. If she doesn’t learn that skill, her home will just be full of junk again in a very short time.

@idid138 5 ай бұрын

So true

@nicky_bee Жыл бұрын

I honestly think if you girls continue the process together she won't need a storage unit in the end. Erica is a sweetheart 🥰

@FrogeniusW.G. 9 ай бұрын

I agree! Piece by piece it will/would get less and less! Keep on helping and gently pushing, Carla! ❤

@tinaunderwood1113 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Erica for allowing us into your home. Good job Carla! Oh please make a part 2.

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Let’s see if she wants to continue! 😅❤

@carolinafernandez1083 Жыл бұрын

I love that you showed the progress of someone who doesn't want to get rid of anything. I'm slowly working with my mom to declutter her 3000 sq ft house. It's very difficult to get her to declutter, but she has improved so much over the last two months! I would absolutely love to see your friend's progress!

@ourtubesocks Жыл бұрын

As someone who has helped my dad declutter a 4 bedroom home, one strategy that helped was sorting items by category, and then asking “how many ___ do you think you need?” After he came up with a number, I would have him picked out that many of his favorites from the pile and then move on. For hoarders it’s especially hard to pick up and make a decision about every single item and once they’re holding it they will often find a reason why they need to keep it. Mind you, he was only open to decluttering because he had to sell the home and had a deadline. Good luck with your mom! I know the struggle.

@cathyimlah2254 Жыл бұрын

Yes to part two. “NO” to storage. I think a lot was learned this session and your friend may be more ruthless with decluttering next session if you have one. Good luck.

@seansgirl80 Жыл бұрын

She looks like she made great progress after you went. Sometimes it’s doing the smaller stuff with a friend that is the push we need! Wonderful to see a ‘perfectly imperfect’ before and after. Much more realistic on how decluttering often goes ESPECIALLY paper clutter! Great video as usual Carla! Xx

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I was so shocked when she sent me that last video! Really happy that she has that work area set up now!!

@vdruskas Жыл бұрын

As a writer, maybe she can write her feelings down and that will help her process. . it's funny to see her work in this room vs the kitchen, where she was more flexible when it came to the de-clutter & organize. Thanks for keeping it real, Carla.

@idid138 5 ай бұрын

That's good advice. Also writing things down actually helps us to believe it.

@Iluvchknz Жыл бұрын

Decluttering and organizing someone else’s stuff is the lord’s work. Seriously, even when a person recognizes there is an issue that level of “mess” is driven by psychological trauma not just complacency. As evidenced by wanting keep a duster “I use” but was under 6 trash cans… and who needs that many little trash cans. Good luck to you both.

@nolasavedmysoul Жыл бұрын

Yes to part 2 and more through her journey. I was her at one point, making excuses to keep everything. Now, through a 5 year process, I’ve donated about 40 boxes/bags worth of stuff, sold over 250 items of clothing and shoes, and trashed a bunch of stuff too. It can be hard, but it can be done over time.

@wendyeskelin8765 Жыл бұрын

Wow. Where did you sell your clothes at?

@wendyeskelin8765 Жыл бұрын

@@nolasavedmysoul I sold some bigger ticket household items on Craig's List.. mailed some of the best clothes to my niece. I have a pile for a friend, and I donated the other stuff, which I should have tried to sell. I figured it would just sit there if I did that, so I donated it. Maybe I'll plan to do that in the future. Our last thing we decluttered was books which I donated. I sorted out over 300 and my husband around 250. We have a lot of bookshelves. We had the room on them but I was just tired of holding on to ones we would never read again!. Great job on your part sticking to it and getting some cash back on your clothing.

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Very inspiring!!

@SarahAnew Жыл бұрын

How awesome!

@ThereseDavidson Жыл бұрын

Progress over perfection, this did SO much for her

@shaynaformity1384 Жыл бұрын

Yes, as Dana K. White says, "Better is Good."

@FrogeniusW.G. 9 ай бұрын

I agree.

@davidawilliams252 Жыл бұрын

She actually did a LOT! Very nice. Progress over perfection. Storage is not the answer. Curating her items, having a design style, giving herself limits is part of the answer. Looking forward to part 2.

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Yeah, and she hired a TaskRabbit! She did do a lot!!

@lkrouse100 Жыл бұрын

Don’t get storage space. That will be wasted money that she could invest or pay off a bill. Just deal with the stuff now. It’s not worth storing it and then going through it years later after you’ve spent all that money.

@Kay-fv7cw 9 ай бұрын

As long as she is making progress she is moving in the right direction. Yes, to a part 2.

@angelwings1 Жыл бұрын

Decluttering is an ongoing process. I’ve been doing it for years. Stuff always pops up. Things get added to the home and need clearing again. I think you should get your friend to watch decluttering videos for inspiration and/or videos on minimalism etc. They always inspire me to sort my stuff out x

@lorrainef.3213 Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@wendyeskelin8765 Жыл бұрын

omg me too!

@KristiBranstetter Жыл бұрын

Yes!! I just did a big declutter again (have done multiple ones already), and now I am finding stuff that I really don't want.

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

It’s definitely a lifestyle!! ❤

@zzhoundzz8403 Жыл бұрын

I don't think she should get a storage. Use it or lose it. The more that she sees the freed up space, she may be more apt to let some things go. It's a process.

@BeccaDoesStuffYT Жыл бұрын

Erica has a great personality. She’s funny and sweet and she deserves a part 2! 😄

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

She’s hilarious!!😂

@noelleursel7848 Жыл бұрын

I would LOVE to be able to declutter my friend's places - literally my ultimate dream lol. For now, I'll just keep an eye out for more of these videos. You and Erica make me laugh!!

@MissBeeMarie Жыл бұрын

I’m a therapist and Erica seems to be a hoarder. She may need some therapy to address her attachment and abandonment issues. I also see some anxiety and depression. But, I hope she gets to a point where she is able to let go of the external clutter, so she can declutter her mind. 🙏🏾

@triciaf8261 Жыл бұрын

Yes to a Part 2 - it seems you really jump-started the process which is a true gift to your friend, Great job ladies!

@latonda5634 Жыл бұрын

Yes please continue this journey! The truth is we ALL have parts of our lives that we resist decluttering. So many life lessons in this clip. Tell Erica we appreciate her being willing to show her vulnerability to the world! Great work for both of you all. You have planted the seed…that’s why she asked you to come back.

@kemillegreene9743 Жыл бұрын

This is an episode of hoarders for real! Don’t buy a storage unit!!! She’ll just be paying for storage without any cleaning! And it’s going to add to the sadness and anxiety and anger when she has spent the money AND doesn’t have a place for her things. Plus when she can’t see it she will just buy multiples of what’s in storage. Take it from me EVERY ONE of my family members does this me included. We just can’t help it. It takes a real commitment (and doing the de clutter ourselves) to change things.

@fim1968 Жыл бұрын

I don't want a part 2, I NEED a part 2!

@thetherapyofplanning_1 Жыл бұрын

Carla it was so awesome how patient and understanding you were! I had Peter Walsh flashbacks on this one! Erica made a comeback and made some progress in the end! Great job Erica! I know it’s hard but it the end like Carla says, you will feel soooo much better! Yes part 2!

@MarielaMerino Жыл бұрын

watching this reminds me of myself when decluttering for my parents 😅 the struggle is reallll. progress is progress though! can't wait for part 2!

@diannagoulart3850 Жыл бұрын

Yes part 2 or more. Erica needs you to guide her through. She’s going to be so free after you help her declutter. You can do it Erica… Maintaining is easy once it’s decluttered and organized. Declutter your newly decluttered and organized space every few months and you will stay happy and organized. 😊

@scholargrrl Жыл бұрын

Good job for her showing a realistic maximalist or maybe someone who is at the very beginning of their decluttering journey!! This is very true of every person who has to declutter the very first time and is feeling overwhelmed. Hopefully it helps to encourage many people to continue on their decluttering journey. 💕

@kadrikiis8654 Жыл бұрын

Of course we want a second part. I also decclutter up my room and now it's so good to be. All the things I need or use are still there.

@myxochi Жыл бұрын

Part 2. I think you’re right that she needs the storage unit first to physically see how much her clutter is costing her. My fear though is that the cleared surfaces will be re-filled. although she did keep her kitchen…there is hope for when she is ready. It IS a process and she is a beginner. Let’s get her started and let us know how it goes. ❤️🍁

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Yeah, we were thinking as she would get the storage unit and that could be the space that she does some decluttering from. It’s still in the idea stage so we’ll see how she wants to move forward…tbd

@valerieodonnell6764 Жыл бұрын

I remember watching a show in the early 2000s (maybe it was called clean house) where they cleaned out and organized hoarder level houses. Sometimes they would clear out an entire room by emptying it in the front yard. Then they would put the room back together with only a reasonable amount of furniture and decor. Sometimes that was the push the people needed to see what their house could really be like without the extra stuff. Maybe a storage unit could help with this realization. Or it could also be used as a time limit. For example if I don’t need to get something out of the unit in the next 6 months I don’t need it and it has to go. But it could also be a crutch to acquire more stuff. Time will tell.

@Steph568 Жыл бұрын

“I’m keeping this” Why? “Because it’s Betty White” 😭😭 she is so funny omg

@jazzie_wolf Жыл бұрын

This was me a few years ago! I wanted to keep everything but I also wanted a simplified space. I had to go through my home 3-4 times to finally get it to a place where it looks more like a home and less like a storage unit. I think Erica did so well for her first round, and the later clips are awesome! Way to go, Erica!

@valerieodonnell6764 Жыл бұрын

I think of decluttering like an onion. With each pass/layer you get better at knowing what you actually use and want to keep and it gets easier to let stuff go.

@colleenlawrence6499 Жыл бұрын

A part two please! Erica may need a storage place. Especially if she is having a hard time letting go. I love that she has kept going. Carla you support and encourage with laughter and iron will. Love it

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I think the storage space could be motivating, and after a few months, she may realize she doesn’t need any of those items. Plus, it would be great for her to live in her space without all of the clutter surrounding her. It’s basically like igetting a second bedroom. Because her place is really small!

@sundoesshine8583 8 ай бұрын

@@TheCarlaProject What if you say that after the unit is is filled up, that if it's all still there in a 1/2 a year without being touched, YOU may dispose of the contents without her re-examining everything. We all know the only reason she says she wants stuff is because it's in front of her, but if she doesn't see it once it's in the unit, it wont be stressful. I've thought of doing this for myself, because once I SEE something the "what if" bells start chiming in that I'll need it. But if it's just magically gone, I'd never think about that stuff again honestly.

@krisb7465 Жыл бұрын

I have decluttered my furniture, tchotchkes, clothing, non-keto pantry items, dishes, linens, books and magazines. I'm down to the paperwork, photos and mementos. It is very hard. You are an inspiration!

@Michellehardyorg Жыл бұрын

When I saw the title, I thought OMG, then as I watched...she engaged & she tried. When death overwhelms you, it's hard to rid yourself of the silliest thing. Maybe she doesn't realize that's she's enough. She's enough without the stuff & GOD will bless her with more stuff. She could receive the help to declutter & reflect & add an activity to her life like a meetup to do a fun thing like a writers dinner group. Just a thought. I'd so give her a long hug. #understanding #love

@jodibellamy2713 Жыл бұрын

Yes, part 2! No to paying for storage space. I think as she uses her decluttering muscles, she will be able to get rid of more things to have a great space!

@Xiroi87 Жыл бұрын

The state of her home and inability to let go of things can be related to emotional issues. The good thing is that she's asked for help, so the will to make changes is there, despite her obvious resistance.

@pamelaknop4699 Жыл бұрын

Carla has certain facial poses and looks that are sooooooo similar to Jennifer Lopez...even her hair... Love It...💕💕

@dianel958 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Erica for again inviting us into your home. Carla, you are so good in this role! Your friends are lucky to have you in their court (their cluttered soon to be not cluttered court!)...yes to all the parts (2,3 and on) so we can see the progress and the process...I agree with another commenter who suggested Erica write down her feelings and thoughts around her difficulties and challenges letting go...Thanks for all you do Carla! Have loved watching your journey...

@ArabellaCharm Жыл бұрын

Seeing that Bath and Body Works box filled with unused items made me feel judged 😂. I have 3 boxes like that in my bathroom closet.

@angelwings1 Жыл бұрын

My advice would be to give yourself a set time to use them buy. If you don’t use them then give permission to either regift or throw away x

@jburgett45 10 ай бұрын

You are describing the “my future self” syndrome.

@christinehardy2059 9 ай бұрын

I am learning NOT to be Erica! Every video I watch helps me see where I can improve and encourages me to do ANYTHING towards declutter and cleaning. Thank you for showing us REAL LIFE.

@robinthompson7567 Жыл бұрын

Please part 2. Getting a storage unit will only encourage her to keep more stuff. I know from experience.

@999lizzybee 4 ай бұрын

Love this! Erica is just as I was once, saving mags, books, paper - that I did not touch for 20+ years. Then I got real, and realized stuff was strangling me. I then trashed the mags etc AND THE MANY RACKS AND STORAGE SOLUTIONS I had purchased over time to keep them ‘neat’. Go Erica! Don’t follow my bad example!

@joannecarnevale7737 Жыл бұрын

You did paint Erica's red flag pink. Clearing that corner was the catalyst. Would love to see a part 2. And even part 3, if needed.

@akontilis1792 8 ай бұрын

I totally can relate to the overwhelming feeling this is. The boxes, boxes, boxes.... it is so hard. But keep at it Erica, because a) there IS an end to it, it is a FINITE amount of stuff and b) you can treat yourself to doing one box each evening, and you'll be so much better off each week. The seed has been planted, and we are cheering for you (and I am working right along with you!)

@conniepleasantnails Жыл бұрын

First of all…thank you for the appliance manual reminder. I will definitely throw mine out today that are filed in my box. Second…I used to have lots of CD and now I only have Apple music. I think something triggered Erika to hoard stuff, something emotional. Whether it was losing her Mom (I’ve lost my Mom too) or several other events that has her maintaining “control” of her “things”. Raising things off the floor and to the walls doesn’t seem like the answer. Erika, your spirit is so bright and positive I hope you get to a point where you realize these “things” don’t matter, you matter. Hugs ❤😊

@CurveTheRain Жыл бұрын

Yes! Give us all the parts til Erica is tired of us! 😂

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Hahaha good answer!!

@tarot-satiremitnadine Жыл бұрын

I think Erica is super brave to open up to the process. She has come so far, really! I remember times in my life when this would have been already way too much for me. I am also a writer and can relate on the creative aspect ❤️ Carla, you are amazing for being so patient and thorough and the beautiful friend who gently nudges her while making this fun! Part 2, please! 😊

@Smittenhamster Жыл бұрын

Thanks for letting us into your home Erica! I feel this was the beginning of a project that may feel a bit overwhelming still? I'm proud of her that she made babysteps into the right direction. Sometimes a detour (like storage unit here) also leads to great results.

@londonsunshine 7 ай бұрын

This is real life! You really have to be ready to get it done. It took me the 5th time to truly declutter my tupperware cabinet. Five times! But, it showed me how when your really ready you get it done. I love watching you so much. The people you help are so lovable too! Please more videos

@BlueBird-nf2gp 3 ай бұрын

It really is so hard for many people to get rid of things. I could see that she was trying but struggling. Even slow progress counts! I hope she’s been able to continue decluttering. Hugs to you both. 😊💙🐦

@Susanb89 Жыл бұрын

Definitely a part 2 💜

@librarynan4610 Жыл бұрын

At least you got her thinking about decluttering. It is always a process. Erica, You deserve a clean and organized and decluttered space.

@whitmaca Жыл бұрын

You both did so well. Paper is the HARDEST thing to sort. Especially when you have an emotional connection to the papers. Baby steps.

@TheCarlaProject Жыл бұрын

Ur right💗

@wakingbeauty2113 Жыл бұрын

Yes, please a part 2. Thank you Erica, you made me realize i should let some items go.

@buutifuleyes Жыл бұрын

“I’m sentimental not crazy” Erica is cute 😭😆 although is wasn’t a major before and after if she’s consistent and want change for the better it will happen! And please please do not get a storage unit you will waste thousands and thousands of dollars. I’m so sorry for the loss of your Mom, may you be at peace and have love always. ❤

@vq2vx Жыл бұрын

So sad that people hoard & exist surrounded by piles of stuff & trash. Just seeing this makes it difficult to breathe. You're a good friend to help. Hope she comes around

@gabrielagil Жыл бұрын

I’m also going through a similar process, but alone. I need a Part 2!.

@judithdocherty6288 Жыл бұрын

I would love to see a part 2 to this. I think Erica definitely learnt a lot from you but probably needs a second pass with you guiding her in the right direction. ❤

@pieceofpeace35 Жыл бұрын

I like to keep my appliance instructions and warranty papers so I just combine them all into one folder for the whole house and label it. I put it in the living room and showed everyone where it was so now if we need the info it's put away and accessible. We've used it several times! I also think putting the magazines into a combined pile will show her how many she actually has and help her realize she needs to get rid of some. Especially because most of that info can be found online

@bonniewilson3324 Жыл бұрын

Would love a Part 2 video when Erica is ready. I can relate to her hesitation. Wishing Erica all the best in her decluttering journey!

@intuitivemamadrea8166 Жыл бұрын

Chile I want to see all the sequels! We are routing for Erica 🎉🎉🎉🎉I want to see her apartment decluttered ☺️she deserves a happy space so her creativity can flow!!!! Carla your a great friend for helping Erica thru this journey ❤

@denise2768 Жыл бұрын

Please make a part 2. Letting go of items can be hard but if you want change to last and take place Erica has to be ready. If she hasn't physically gone through each item clutter will continue to happen. Once she sees her home opening up, she will have more motivation and begin to declutter more. Decluttering is not a one and done, its a process that must be done continuously and consistently. Thanks for having patience with Erica.

@robinjackson1157 Жыл бұрын

" I ain't crazy....I don't know" 🤣🤣smh!

@falasteen2723 10 ай бұрын

It's clear how hard this was for her, I think it would be interesting to work it on therapy. She seems lovely, she deserve a awsome space! Carla did so much difference at this space!

@mareemehmet3155 Жыл бұрын

Definitely Part 2!! It's encouraging that Erica is continuing to declutter herself. But I would NOT recommend a storage facility, as it simply encourages hoarding behaviour. At some point a person needs to face their stuff (i.e., demons). Usually a lot of discomfort is required to trigger the decision for behaviour change.

@dogwalker97 Жыл бұрын

An alternative to getting a storage space might be to rent a co-working space to achieve separation between work life and home life. Erica would however need to be vigilant about not introducing clutter into her dedicated work space or the newly cleared space at home.

@JessicaGonzalez-et7sq Жыл бұрын

I think the YT channel hoarders heart is a great channel to watch. She talks a lot of how she personally declutters especially when she emotional or difficult to declutter.

@BecauseJoSaidTo Жыл бұрын

I would watch multiple parts of this de litter! Slow and steady as she learns new systems and realizes she doesn’t miss the things she let go. Great work!❤

@charisaingram7500 Жыл бұрын

YES!!! Part 2 please.

@Megaloid Жыл бұрын

She's making great progress! (I'm personally against storage units, because I've had to clear out a deceased relative's unit by myself, and realized 90+% should've been sold instead of spending money to store it. Keep the sentimental, but most furniture and accessories can go.)

@Natalia_85 Жыл бұрын

I understand her sooo bad. I was like her! I'm a minimalist now but I know how she feels. The attachment to things is real and it takes a lot of training and determintation to be able to let go. I'm a firm believer it is only through your own experience that you can overcome the attachment to things. Once you start little by little letting go, you start feeling lighter and it's nice. Then you can confirm, with your own experience that you are able to survive without that sticker or the Arugula recipe. Not only that, you start to feel better for letting it go because you feel lighter and you start to trust yourself more to make decisions to let go of more and more things. I love it but it is something that did not happen overnight for me.

@Natalia_85 Жыл бұрын

I've just reached the magazines part 😂I used to collect magazines too. That was a hard thing to let go for me. It was Vanity Fair and Cosmo and all of those

@newwomandouglas2959 Жыл бұрын

My goodness, Carla. I can't wait to see Part 2. This is the biggest project that I have seen you participate in. You have a lot of patience with your friends. Keep us posted.

@MsArtistwannabe Жыл бұрын

I think a storage unit is a waste of money. Even at 100. dollars a month. Twelve hundred a year. She could likely replace all that stuff she wants to store for less money than she would spend on storage. Some of us really have to take baby steps. It’s ok to go slowly. You’re such a great friend to help her and it looks like fun was had all around.

@jmcmurrah Жыл бұрын

I suggest not getting a storage space. Storage spaces are a slippery slope. I think Erica is already catching on and will soon be able to get rid of all the stuff she doesn’t actually need. You’re both so much fun! ❤❤

@shawntennant9049 Жыл бұрын

Oh Erica, I applaud you for decluttering. I’ve been on that journey since my stroke last year. It’s really hard but the outcome is life changing

@marystrenke3050 Жыл бұрын

My friend was injured last summer -- she allowed me to help her-- still haven't been allowed to toss her eggs dated 2020!!! No chance of her eating them, thankfully, but ever since her divorce 10 yrs ago... She panics when we declutter. Great progress in other rooms though! She can finally have company! After the divorce there were car accidents, surgeries and multiple moves to find suitable housing. Boxes still packed from 4 yrs previously. Layers is the key!!! Eventually it gets better!

@FrogeniusW.G. 9 ай бұрын

We all need a Carla in our life!! I _definitely_ want one! ❤

@eileensanders4542 Жыл бұрын

Definitely do a part 2. She has made progress but there is still a lot of stuff to go through. She will feel better when all the decluttering is done

@magorzatakozak8942 Жыл бұрын

Dear Carla. It' s not only that your friend needs declutering, but I think she suffers from the illness that is called in my country the obsessive collecting of everything. She also needs help from mental doctor, a psyhiatrist. Great she has got you

@carolcooper881 Жыл бұрын

Bless your heart Carla! You should have given her a gummie! Maybe she would have decluttered like her kitchen. Definitely part 2. Love these kind of videos!!

@jomr4249 Жыл бұрын

You helped her start the journey. I know from personal experience it can take years to get over your attachment to objects and learn to declutter. It’s a process.

@michelleb.7181 Жыл бұрын

Yes please part 2! I’m hoping the reality of paying for and managing a storage unit is enough of a push to get her in a better headspace to declutter!

@erosa2031 Жыл бұрын

Yes, please Part 2 😊would be nice! Keep these videos coming! It is very motivational, plus Erica will be much more motivated to let go the simplest things. Thank you for sharing tiur home with us! ❤😊😊

@danoyse8233 6 ай бұрын

I thought I had a long tolerance fuse, but Carla you outdo me by miles. Your patience and humour is immense. No to more storage. She can’t reposition the bar stools if she hasn’t got a bar/table to put them with.

@LittlePrairieLibrary Жыл бұрын

Watching this video I thought of the Hoarder's Heart channel. She used to have a completely hoarded house, and over years of working through her hoarding, she now has gone from a level 4 hoarder to a level 1 or 2 hoarder. I don't think Erica is a full hoarder, but some of those reactions seemed familiar to what Ms Heart talks about in her videos. Might be worth a watch to get her perspective and see how she processes letting go of things!

@christineg6123 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Erica for showing us your space! Decluttering is harder than it sounds. I would love a part 2 Carla!

@jackwilliams885 10 ай бұрын

Omg Them Jeans Have NEVER LOOKED SO GOOD!

@PTE399 8 ай бұрын

She’s not ready to really let go.🥲 You’re a good friend to her. Yes, part 2 please. 🙏🏻🕊💙❤️🕉

@Lee-fb4oj Жыл бұрын

I've had hoarding tendencies so I can relate. I do believe in organizing the clutter and thinning out at a later date. It can't be done in one day. Too exhausting. When you know what you have and where it is, it becomes easier to eliminate section by section. And you don't get that panicky feeling that you threw out something important. A friend is priceless for helping with the physical work aspect.

@Johndoe-eg6en Жыл бұрын

You all's chemistry was off the chart!! Your understanding and support of Erica was very nice to see. She can't be pushed too hard. I appreciate her effort and your motivational support. You guys positive vibes radiates through the universe!!!

@A-couple Жыл бұрын

Carla, I commend YOU for your HARD work abd EFFORT! PLEASE convince her to get a storage space AND get some sort of theraputical assistance e.g. be part of a decluttering group or something where she can talk about WHY is she EMOTIONALLY attached to EVERY think. If she can get to the root of it she can derach AND then start letting go of things! To every cause there is a root and she needs outside assistance to what you can provide. A band aid is only a tempoary cover to her wound, she has something deep rooted that might resolve this. I speak as a family member who like you assisted someone with this type of issue. Cheers and good luck!

@karenfrable8846 Жыл бұрын

Yes please a Part 2. I am Erica I want to declutter but I think I need to keep everything. Point I live alone why do I have 5 8qt stockpots, I am not cooking for the apartment complex. Your videos give me hope and inspiration.

@wandarettinger5674 6 ай бұрын

She didn't fail, God's still working on her. ❤

@TheCarlaProject 6 ай бұрын

The declutter was a fail, never her.

@marieclothildeouellette 8 ай бұрын

She is lucky to have you as a friend and you are so patient! I was in the past trying to help people around me but I have no patience anymore to debating about sticker 😀