How to REALLY be yourself and love yourself (true self esteem)

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@HolisticTraumaTherapy 5 жыл бұрын

You have beautiful eyes and great solid wisdom. As a therapist and 20 year spiritual practitioner I truly feel your words are solid. Thanks Jack!

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Angela 🙏 I appreciate hearing that given the experience you have. And grateful that recently lenses have given me the opportunity to be more directly 'in contact' with people

@ontherox007 5 жыл бұрын

OMG this is mind-blowing! You may have just changed my life with this distinction. I'm more rooted in western culture than I like to believe. Thank you so much Jack!

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Wow! That would be amazing! Yes, given I've only lived in Western culture hard to know sometimes the bounds of its influence!

@kayehaskins4333 5 жыл бұрын

I'm challenged with people pleasing and being focused on what others think. I have listened to many of your videos and am taking notes and journaling to be more authentic in my interactions with others. This video leaves me feeling hopeful(energized in my heart space) that by focusing on essence rather than striving I will be able to live a more authentic life.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your share. Yes, I think it will (just tread gently with yourself as you do - sometimes the inner critic can have a 'oh, is this really your essence? field day!') Glad these videos are helping you 🙏

@zambiarecreationsbykamosse3172 5 жыл бұрын

Never knew what I was doing but glad to know I wasn't going through a life crisis. Lots of tongues wagged when I resigned my job, went into business as I changed to my authentic self-mindset from striver-self. Shed skin is right! I felt less the need to prove myself and more the desire to just live as me. I'm feeling healthier and happier. Also strangely enough I'm rediscovering my joyful childhood innocence that just loved living and life when I'm relaxed. That's when I get more creative and resilient. Thanks for this. It's always refreshing when you realize others are in your corner and guiding you along.

@joanclawford8964 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Jack as always ... I see myself as a constant movement, ivolvement & change .. For me there is no end result ... I've realized when I change I'm still myself ... 💕😄

@dig1272 5 жыл бұрын

Jack, This very much landed with me. I have participated in many Landmark Education courses, seminars, etc. since my early 20's...anyway, my husband passed from cancer 40 mos. ago, then my mother a 13 mos later and then my father 12 mos after that...bam bam bam...and I was in action mode until a few months ago when I completed settling my parents estate. There I was. Widowed and not having to be so frantically go go going all the time. I went from there into constantly creating my next steps and having way too many goals and starting things and quitting them over and over...exhausting(!)..and slowly but surely I realized I need to slow down and be present and only once I did that, every day, even with my full time job and constant house repairs and car repairs, I have started to get closer to the essence of who I am. My authentic self. I have now let go of caring what my two siblings think of me or anyone else, for that matter. I am focusing on self care and forgiveness came first. Also, gratefulness (every day), patience and forgiveness of myself when I fall short, eating healthy, exercise, singing, dancing, reading...LOVE "The Power of Now", by Eckhart Tolle, which I am halfway through...learning to choose my 4 or 5 main goals and striving from a more relaxed place. You said some things though that helped me to acknowledge all of the above and more and I just realized that how I was not consistently being my authentic self with a man I know that I am very attracted to and interested in. So, thanks and this was one of my favorite of your videos. It felt like I could reach out and touch you as it was so REAL. Awesome job!! ♡

@pennyjackson1699 5 жыл бұрын

Wow...sounds exactly the same as me...right down to the man

@dig1272 5 жыл бұрын

Really Penny?!!! Wow!!

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Diane! Sounds like a lot has been on your path! Trust life knows you can handle it at some level. Really love that this message felt so real to you 🙏 Did you manage to shift things with the guy? I also love the Power of Now both when I first read it in 2009 and when I re-read it lots in 2017!

@dig1272 4 жыл бұрын

@@thejackbutler Hey Jack, Yes, I did manage to shift things with the guy basically by being real with him. I shared how he helped me. Opened my heart and did not make him feel there was any obligation or pressure to reciprocate and he shared, just briefly, half a sentence, that I helped him as well. The issue there is complicated, on his end. But it is interesting that since I have been practicing not being attached and focusing on myself, over the past few weeks I have dropped 10 lbs and started running. And, I still think I am in love with this guy but I am clear that I am the source of love and a huge amount of romantic thoughts and feelings, not him. I know I AM the SOURCE so I can create this with any man I choose AND I am still not done with this thing with this particular guy. Maybe there is just a healing going on between us and once healed we will let go. Oh, once I was authentic with him he drew the line..no no that cannot be and I accepted that. Funny thing is that now he is reaching out to me more than before. I think it made him trust me more when I laid myself bare. I am a bit dramatic. lol! If anything, everything I have been through has been a path to getting in direct contact my higher self. Sometimes, often times, I am now feeling like I am 25 again and there are endless possibilities to explore. I really feel deeply for the guy, I really do, but it is not my job to rescue him or force anything. I am working on being the space where he can open up. And I am aware I may be trying to heal him, and myself, so it is a balancing act to keep my true love for him and my desire to heal him separate. I may have repeated myself...It is just so amazing and freeing to feel love again even when it is excruciatingly painful.

@dig1272 4 жыл бұрын

@@thejackbutler - Strange thing happened. The "guy" ended it yesterday because I got too emotionally involved (bottom line) and although it hurt like hell yesterday for about 4 hours, I now feel relief. I was dwelling on him the whole time and had trouble focusing on MY life. Now back to ME! Your video where you talk about subject/object was interesting. Never heard that before. Will look into that. I need to do the work to see why I am attracted to emotionally unavailable men.

@crystalali4514 5 жыл бұрын

This certainly resonates. I have been that person you describe who has lived multiple lives in one lifetime. It's been awesome. But it only came about once I dropped my need to be in control of things and dropped to my knees and said "Not my will, but Thine." With this I gave control over to my Authentic Self, and have never regretted it.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Wow. Love it. And love how you talk about it 🙏

@nancymcloughlin2931 5 жыл бұрын

Have not finished yet but felt to let you know , this does resonate with me.... I will keep listening ! Thank you🧚‍♀️

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Nancy McLoughlin Awww thanks! Appreciate that 🙏

@melany.muraour 4 жыл бұрын

I love the word "essence" it's just perfect 😊😊😊 I've created a strong / driven / outgoing personality as a strategy to succeed in life up until now. Below this is the true me. Many people don't know and see and when they do they get confused by when I get into the real me. The older I get, the more I'm trying to flow and be the "essence" of me while I switch on and use the power of the "who the world wants me to be" and sometimes I like to be both. Sometimes it's a blurred line between who I really am and who I want to be.

@stepsistertrap5992 5 жыл бұрын

Dear Jack! My striver self is exhausted and gone and my authentic self is letting me discover and enjoy live. I didn't know what was happening to me but your video has let me understand and maybe, sort of articulate what being - simple being - is like. Thanks for your beautiful, profound and important insight!

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Hey Inaki! Thanks for your reflection! Glad this helped you get closer to what might be happening for you!

@sanaz3219 5 жыл бұрын

Wow I loved this this video. Thank you Jack for all the good contents and perspectives.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

You're really welcome, glad you loved it 🙏

@monikalange7243 Жыл бұрын

I love this kind of talk you give. I am a searcher, my thoughts often revolve around my path. I'm guessing it's a lifelong process to explore and discover. I will never be finished trying to figure it out - nor would I want to, as I love learning. Thank you for being part of that.

@thejackbutler Жыл бұрын

Happy to hear that - thanks for including this in your path

@loronna1223 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh!!!! I love what you are teaching and describing Jack. It’s such life changing material without even changing anything except for my way of thinking ❤️ you definitely create paradigm shifts that are so fulfilling!

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Loronna! Here's to fulfilling paradigm shifts! Really gratifying to hear it's been life changing 🙏🙏

@nainapatel2907 5 жыл бұрын

What a beautiful message. Really resonated. So please do a video in how to tap into our essence and operate from there as in practical steps to do everyday

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Naina! Thank you! Requested noted :)

@becky7468 4 жыл бұрын

I lived most of my life with the striver self. Now I can look at myself and accept myself with gentle kindness and I feel joyful! I still have motivation, now I can give freely to people whom have not learned that kind love for themselves. How wonderful that you are providing that for people, too. ❤

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

That's awesome Becky, good work! And thanks 🙏

@SD-rm5ty Жыл бұрын

Whoever suggested this video to me thank you i needed to hear this ❤

@thejackbutler Жыл бұрын

Happy to hear that 🙏

@nikstar1313 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome awesome awesome Jack! So glad I found you, you're such an amazing teacher!!

@deetran5967 4 жыл бұрын

Jack, I love your content! Thank you!!

@MonikaCiepla 4 жыл бұрын

Beautiful message as always ❤️✌🏻thanks Jack

@honoryourself2098 4 жыл бұрын

Exactly where I am in life right now, nice to hear you articulate it

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Honor Yourself Awesome, love that and appreciate your username!

@johelka7901 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve been listening to your videos with different people and I just want you to know that I love your acknowledgement with different topics. I love reading and I studied psychology and you are very assertive!! Thank you very much!!

@chrisperry8860 3 жыл бұрын

WOW - thank you so much! Eye opening for sure - I’m on this journey and appreciate the help greatly!

@trinap.8904 4 жыл бұрын

YOU ARE AMAZING! I have watched a ton of self-discovery videos, read a ton of books, and hours of online searches learning about essence, self esteem, being yourself. Your ability to pull together abstract ideas and convert into small chunks of knowledge for public consumption. Pure genius. I wish I could afford private coaching sessions with you. desperately want to do the personal work to rediscover myself, show up for myself, be whole in dating and have meaningful personal relationships.

@j.defleur 4 жыл бұрын

I am on this journey right now. Circumstances have fortuitously put me on this path of surrender to self-discovery. Finding, or rather being found by and watching this video has provided clarity. Thank you.

@sallysaffer9503 2 жыл бұрын

Your information came at the moment I was helping someone to deal with a very difficult situation. I forwarded two of your posts to her. Now you are helping her, too. She is my granddaughter and she means a lot to me. Thank you from both of us, as I gained a good deal from you and am grateful.

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

What a sweet share - thanks for feeding that back and wanting to forward this video. ATB to you both!

@user-uh5tb9er4o 3 жыл бұрын

thank you for bringing more complex considerations to relationship challenges

@CarolinaCastanheira 4 жыл бұрын

Really great explanation about the two development phases!

@Kitten.Goddess.Sparkles 4 жыл бұрын

Wow! It's like noticing your masculine energy part of yourself - "let's achieve that goal!" And your own feminine energy part of yourself -"what am I feeling right now in this moment without any mask or pretense." All at the same time. Very powerful and eye-opening.

@jenniferan2899 4 жыл бұрын

This video is incredibly helpful...your open invitation to be curious about the internal structures of ourselves is invaluable. Putting language to these existential experiences is fire!!!

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Jennifer An That’s how I experience it too!

@ina32747 3 жыл бұрын

love this.

@gracewebber9103 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jack. I love your content. It’s always so authenticity real, honest and extremely practical and relatable. You’re work is very valuable. Sending blessings of energy inspiration that you can continue helping people come home to self both individually and in partnership. Sincerest gratitude. 🙏🦋

@DaretoDream814 4 жыл бұрын

I've watched several of your works and this one really rang truth in my spirit. I remember an old adage, "You're not a tree. You can move. " Appreciate what you do.😊

@audra1976oliver 3 жыл бұрын

Finding our authentic self is important. Recognizing that the same mindset of who I was 10 years ago, has changed to someone different from my present self today. To focus more on the here and now. That way to be more 80% with self, 20% over there. If we stay aware that we need to be more relaxed within ourselves, without defining ourselves as one specific type of personality, we will find less restraints and be able to be more fluid as Jack has said.

@lindylee1139 5 жыл бұрын

I love how your videos get me thinking in new ways.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Linda Casper Awesome! Happy to hear ⭐️

@CorporateQueen 5 жыл бұрын

Food for thought. I think I started this process a long time ago...and it's ongoing.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Glad it's food for thought - wishing you well with your ongoing process :)

@sistersgatheringtoheal3645 5 жыл бұрын

It's fitting that I get to be the 100th person to comment on this...because this was 100% spot on! WOW! Thank you for giving me language for the metamorphosis that I went thru about three years ago. I got so tired of striving...so I stopped. And since I was standing by my bed, I took a long nap. When I woke up I began living from my essence. Boy, do I love it! But you know what Jack, I'm glad to have experienced both selves...because my "striver self" went to law school, wrote three books, edited more than 35 books, and read hundreds of books written by some pretty smart strivers. LOL Then something whispered, "There's another way." HOWEVER, from time to time my striver-self will tug at my dress, saying, "You should do so and so." Then I remember that so and so ain't me. Your video is a game-changer because you've helped me to more fully embrace, love and honor where I am.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

I enjoyed reading this. Yes, striver selves can be really amazing! And they still exist within us - it just maybe we now don't want them to run the show. Glad the video resonated and thanks for the 100th comment 🙏

@tasfiahnabani8719 2 жыл бұрын

Binge watching your videos in this time of loneliness is a great source of comfort ! I'd like to give you my heartiest thanks for sharing all your valuable wisdom here , for free . Thank you , thank you very much ! ❣️

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

Really happy it's been a source of comfort. Thanks for the binge!

@heathergabriel8543 5 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love this! It’s exactly how I’ve felt my entire life-that life flows through me, but I’m also always yearning to discover, to embody, my true essence and follow the steps that happen to uncover it... Thank you for sharing such a deep and authentic way of looking at love and ourselves, relationships that begin with our inner relationship with ourselves and own own Source.

@masterartist1025 4 жыл бұрын

I got the "flavor of what you're talking about." Thanks, Jack!!

@cherryboo65b56 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you! This is so needed for me. Life has changed and I feel me changing. This gives me the extra Umph! to push ahead!

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

That's great to read! Blessings on your journey ahead! :)

@runner399 4 жыл бұрын

There is a lot of value in your videos. I gain something every time I watch. Thank you.

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Cindy Bunker Awesome to hear that Cindy! 🙏

@MrPonderiffic 3 жыл бұрын

I'm a fan, thank you for this;)

@martinavy2305 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you so much for this distinction, Jack! Explains a whole lot! ♡

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

Happy for that!

@Janettyboo 3 жыл бұрын

Please do more videos like this one, on this topic! Much appreciated!

@user-dr8ox7zg3u 3 жыл бұрын

This is the first time I am commenting on a video about relationships. There is a profound balance among nlp, cognitive behavioural therapy, psychoanalysis, and spiritual work ( probably there is more that I am not ready to hear yet). Lately I feel extremely alienated from my self and others and I am on a constant explorative mode, with self criticism and anger. This video opened a whole new world! However it sounds like a journey that one needs to go alone. It’s been three years already that I have been introducing myself to me..and I am still in the beginning .. thank you for this 🙏

@tasrajwani 2 жыл бұрын

This is my favourite video of yours, Jack. Thanks for your insights.

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

Happy to hear that - one of my fav's too!

@carolynvane9037 4 жыл бұрын

Brilliant!

@deea745 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!!!!!

@emilyvillemaire6065 4 жыл бұрын

This video is absolutely life-altering. Thank you so much!!!

@lo-fidreamsASMR 5 жыл бұрын

So relatable and inspirational! Wow. Thank you, as always.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you! As always you're welcome!

@missphoton 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. It describes where I am now: trying to let go of the persona I thought I was, layer by layer, to become my truer self (or inner self I like to say). I find it exciting, and a bit unsettling as there are no (or new) benchmarks that have NO connection with what I'm use to. Now it's more on intuition and vibrations, feelings... so meditation helps a great deal to develop this new way of being and going around. I love it and I'm happy to see that others are going through it too, and able to put words on it, like you do so clearly. Namaste Jack

@janetspencer6382 4 жыл бұрын

I am in that same place now, and Jack always puts his finger right on it!! "Huh. I get to be me." Love it!

@susanboisse399 4 жыл бұрын

you are awesome , so true !!!!!

@karenfischer 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jack! What you said has given me permission to be me. This path of learning about myself has been the best gift ever! I appreciate you and look forward to each of your videos. Each one speaks directly to me. Thank you times a million 😘

@mariamkarouni3980 4 жыл бұрын

Such valuable and pure, real material. I found this very helpful ,Thank-U.

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Aw thank you very much!

@erinhappy-go-lucky5040 3 жыл бұрын

How did I miss this gem last year, Jack? It is quite the pleasant surprise 🥳!

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you found it - one of my fav's!

@MegaFunkified 2 жыл бұрын

You’re so awake! How can I find other grounded, authentic and conscientious men?

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

Well I am in my awake moments lol :) I would become part of communities of practise where men are waking up - yoga, meditation, inner work

@sundaywallace8904 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jack! Thought provoking & substantial for me to explore. I shared the vid with my oldest sister & we had a great dicussion.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Thanks for share! Glad it gave for a substantive discussion. Did you guys conclude anything?

@popstargirl79 4 жыл бұрын

Perfection! Thanku Jack :)

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Kestrel Aww thanks!

@jennywarchesik1697 4 жыл бұрын

This distinction between striver self and authentic self helps me realize why I'm struggling so much right now. I'm caught between feeling like I should be striving but I don't want to any more, it doesn't resonate with me. Thank you!

@deea745 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

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@SumanBijlaniGynaecologist 3 жыл бұрын

I love the way you say... Hey, it's Jack❤️

@sallgrey5494 5 жыл бұрын

Always so helpful. Love it!!!

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Sall! Love hearing that 🙏

@jenniferaltimari8262 5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on 11k subscribers!!!

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Jennifer Altimari Thanks so much! 🙏

@hazelbranzville8867 4 жыл бұрын

A very inspiring message you’ve done, Jack. Been listening and watching you and Clayton. Keep it up! 🙏

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

hazel villamil You’re welcome, thanks for tuning in and will do!

@rost8303 4 жыл бұрын

I just find u now nd I feel like u r not just a good relationship advisor but an amazing healer. I been trough the depression and anxiety for yrs nd ear u is like I found d kind friend I wish I could talk to.Even if I don't like to give my problems to other people who don't have nothing to do with my problems. I just want say ear u is like u r speaking to the our spirit and soul. I thank god that I find you.keep up cos you r an amazing soul.Thank you so much for words of life 👏🏼👏🏼

@fruittofruition1254 4 жыл бұрын

I've just stumbled across your channel Jack, you articulate so well. Thank you!

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

FruitToFruition Thank you thank you! 🙏

@clairebear4697 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Jack. You are brilliant at sharing very spiritual concepts in a very practical way. You articulate stuff that is really hard to put into words. Thank you, you are really helping me understand this stuff! I love being me and discovering more of what that means :)

@saidanormukhamedova8808 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Jack! You're the best! It was exactly what I needed. I've been watching for so many coaches those days and you're the only one who resonates with me!!!!!! You're a real professional 🙏❤️❤️❤️ Thank you once more!

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

Happy this was so resonant 🙏

@cryptointegrations9854 2 жыл бұрын

What an incredible listen

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

Yay

@dtoortiz655 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Jack, I think I feel an Understanding of what you mean, more than how to articulate it. Lately, my communication has been challenging because I want to say what I truly mean and not the script. I find myself clarifying my words so not to be misunderstood. Learning to go with the flow of it and try not to stress if others don’t get me at first. I do feel a bit out at sea floating about. Thanks for identifying that state of mind. Your words and your voice have landed beautiful Soul. Thank you always! Have a great day!☀️

@olgadorable 5 жыл бұрын

I love it! Thanks, Jack ❤️

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

olgadorable Yay! 🌟🙏

@SF-pm1ov 4 жыл бұрын

‘Drop the script’ 💥💗

@evieferbin2130 5 жыл бұрын

WOW! This was awesome. Thank you.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for writing that! Appreciated!

@lisal2092 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Jack. Perfect words of wisdom that I needed to hear. Not easy to be back out on the dating scene at 63. Really enjoying all that you have to offer. 😊👍👍

@sher4902 5 жыл бұрын

This is so timely and incredibly helpful! It's something I've been stuck on and you have really helped clarify it - thanks Jack! I'd love it if you could do some more videos expanding on this if possible?

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Glad it's right timing for you! Ref future videos - let me know if you have any specific questions or problems so I can know what might be helpful 🙏

@cryptointegrations9854 2 жыл бұрын

This is so good

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@deetran5967 4 жыл бұрын

Wow Jack, Your explanation of Essence and Personality is superb! I was practicing as a pharmacist but my true self is a Certified Diabetes educator. I love coaching, support and empower people living with diabetes with the knowledge they need to succeed. I believe it starts with curiosity to find our authentic self. Let down our ego and our wall protection and learn. Thank you for sharing your insights.

@chessadelrosario1111 5 жыл бұрын

I fully understand your wisdom! Thank you Jack! I totally agree w/ you on being authentic is truly liberating! :)

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Chessa del Rosario Yay! Authentic liberation! :)

@ann-kristinmolde4698 5 жыл бұрын

I needed this video now. Thank you!

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Awesome - love hearing that!

@geraldinemckernan9129 4 жыл бұрын

Ann-Kristin Molde me too

@ChelseaEdmunds 5 жыл бұрын

You always talk about interesting concepts I hadn't considered. Not going to lie, I had to hit rewind a couple parts to pause and think about what you're saying but always good food for thought. I think it's great that you've found yourself and really gotten to know who you are.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Chelsea Edmunds Thank you 😊. Yep I realize I was pushing it a little with this video but glad I did it as seems like it’s been valuable. Thanks for your ongoing presence here 🙏

@ladymuse1022 2 жыл бұрын

You have a beautiful mind and way of expressing it.

@thejackbutler 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I appreciate that

@cultural3388 4 жыл бұрын

So brilliant and helpful Jack. All my life I never knew who I am sounds weird to even admit this but this amazing explanation and resource you sharing with the me and the world has made me aware of me being a chameleon all my life.

@Mint6688 4 жыл бұрын

I hidden being myself since a child to keep me safe . When i achive something , become some concept base on outer world. After years i break out . And being true self means begining from zero

@natasalazic3417 4 жыл бұрын

Wou! I, by myself am moving in the circles around this theme, but more intuitually and unclear. This is big streem forward for me. Unbeliveble clear.

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Natasa Lazic Thank you! Glad this is helping you move forward 🙏

@tasrajwani 5 жыл бұрын

I love this video. I just shared it on my blog/fb page

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Tasleem thank you - so appreciate that 🙏

@aliajohnson470 5 жыл бұрын

Powerful, Powerful, thank you. This is were l am, a shift has taken place, less emphisre on some areas in my life. Blessings.

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Alia! Thanks for sharing your experience - glad it was powerful x 2! Blessings to you too :)

@cathythomas2692 4 жыл бұрын

This is valuable and very clear on trance as habituated personality choices, Thank you.

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Cathy! Thanks for feeding that back 🙏

@jacquelinenoel2992 4 жыл бұрын

Wow, this has really given me a lot to think about. Am I more than a very loving, positive, loyal woman? Am I more than a beautiful lady, with perfect manners? What are my other qualities that I’ve ignored out of fear. Great thought provoking video. Love Jack Butler’s genius. Covid19 has given me the opportunity to reflect on me. I’m going to allow myself the gift of being my authentic self. Now on to the harder part; exactly who am I? 🌹 Jacqueline

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like some great inquiry happening here for you! Thanks for sharing

@pure-pisces9470 4 жыл бұрын

Thankyou, i have no idea who i am, always the way i am supposed to be 🙏❤

@lisadavie5282 5 жыл бұрын

Jack Thank you so much!! I am at a loss for words because I just did my own video yesterday, and it’s almost like a psychic energy when I heard you say everything in this video.... when I listened to this today I am in the Wow!! I documented a (daily) video just for myself. Truly appreciate this and love how much this resonates with me!! 🙏🏻☺️. Thank you so much!! On top of kundalini rising and a deep spiritual awakening.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Lisa! Glad to hear how much this is resonating with you! Like that you are doing a daily video journal, sounds powerful. Wishing you well :)

@mel8008 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jack :) This is just what I needed to hear now, this will help me in the next phase of my journey. I will listen to this again. I cried at approx. 9:00, but it was a good cry, I am enough. Thank you. I loved the metaphor of the bubbling spring. Your being shines through in all your videos, but this one got me to hit the subscribe button :) Melanie x

@KiTrina66 5 жыл бұрын

Jack i just love hearing you speak!!

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Trina P Thank you!! 🙏

@alexandraclark8027 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jack for the reminder to relax and flow. You are right, we do live different lifetimes in one life and I’m finding myself striving too much now because I got caught up in the rapids. Time to slow down and float and see where the ride starts to take me. I appreciate so much the reminder to just be for a bit.... ✨

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Hey Alexandra! Glad to hear the reminder was impactful! Do you know what structures most support you cultivating being time?

@raquelt5342 4 жыл бұрын

I’ll have to listen to this again...this is crazy!!!! I get it but I can’t wrap my brain around it next or what to do..thank YOU!!

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Raquel T Glad that you are up for listening again, keep me posted on how to you go!

@shaopinko7863 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I was awakened to this a few months back but I couldn't capture the "essence" of it. I knew that I had developed habits that were reactions over my life and called it my personality, but the reality is that I could've developed different and more productive habits or personality.

@cultural3388 5 жыл бұрын

Wow Jack you just made me think of being myself and appreciating being me warts and all and encouraging and inspiring a look at my authentic self this fits in so well in having masks and not being my authentic self. Bless you.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Yay to being our more authentic selves!

@pennyjackson1699 5 жыл бұрын

OMG! Another awesome truth from Jack! Finding myself suddenly by myself...my 3 legged race w/ my spouse was over...and I didn,t know what legs belonged to me, myself and I. A year later a noisy neighbor asked me "How are you, REALLY?" ....I went home, called the realtor and told her to list the house. I wasn't the person anymore who wanted to live up to my past...I started from scratch, I really like myself now....once you sit with your sadness, disappointments, mistakes, etc and feel them, forgive yourself and let go, the happiness of now is even greater...an essense of what can continue. And solutions come together so much better. Thank you Jack. THAT WAS VERY WELL PRESENTED.

@thejackbutler 5 жыл бұрын

Why thank you! Really like what you are saying about sitting with the disappointment and mistakes, forgiving, letting go and how that enhances your experience. 🙏

@susantrimble9628 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, this absolutely does make sense. The conditioning, programming we all strive to overcome in order to free ourselves from expectations from others is essential in order to grow and evolve into our authentic selves. That self needs to not be identified with the ego values, personality or on the hamster wheel trying to prove our self worth.

@thejackbutler 4 жыл бұрын

Susan Trimble Hey Susan! Thanks for writing, happy to hear that 🙏