Sorry but I thing Stephanie have a terrible boss or bosses over her , and she is not talking about them

I’m a grown man and this brought me to tears...thank you

Love you Ken 🧸👍🏿

@@marietellez6021 hi Marie love you take care babe 😃🤙🏿

You are amazing! Greetings from Greece!

Yeah...im thinking about that too... I feel like im not just born to work. Its crazy waking up every day just to work

@@susan7374 me too

Same

@BrunetteBabe I’m Muslim too but that was a shit analogy u sound young

Oh wow, that’s how I was feeling and saying to myself, I had lost my self confidence, every day in tears, on Friday I got an. Offer for 3$ an hour more, and less hours, I am. giving my notice tomorrow. There’s always end of the tunnel, keep your head up , after every dark night there is a bright morning. Learn. Your lesson and get out, imagine yourself already being where you want to be, I pray for you 🤗

Exactly, especially in my country

As Richard Ashcroft famously said, ‘you’re a slave to the money then you die’

They are stuck there. We’re all prisoners.

Completely true

Maine is a relatively rural state, so the caller's location might be part of the issue.

Same here. I feel like I'm losing my mind every single day. How is the situation now?

@@mphorabutla5204 I hate my job but i have go to work full time cus i have to pay the bills. I don't want to end up being homeless and making no money.

This is me every day. All I want is to die. I'm on 3 psychiatric medications, been in therapy for year.... It's my job. I hate my job. I hate office work. It's not worth the money.

Same here, it’s disheartening

@@goodday0013 that's very painful friend , so sorry for your situation.

I feel this way so much right now I work in a call center and I hate it so much I was thinking about going back to school and pursue something else because this call center environment is not for me

I have been crying for almost a year now in the same industry.

Reyn Nuera are you in the call center environment too?

Ariel Johnson You should! I’ve been going to school full time and I use my leftover school money to pay my bills. I have a 6 year old daughter also. Idk what part of the country you live in but because cost of living where I live isn’t too high I’m able to pay my bills with that money. If you do, just make sure you choose a major that you can make some good money in to pay off student loans. I chose Information Technology. Try to get some scholarships too. Good luck and stay strong! I know how awful it is to dread going to work everyday.

Cindy Singleton I live in America I been looking into going in to the health field and try to do something part tome to pay for school I have never had a job where I hated so much like this one even my off days I dread because I know I have to come back in here this is no way to live

no kidding...and tomorrow is monday

Hw you dng nw?

​@@user-iz3ux6rd4e much much better - left my horrible job and finally pushed myself to start my own business. still scared af but its worth it

@@jazlyn2159 I'm happy for you. Wts your insta?

Feeling same

how did it go ? i wish i had the courage to do it :(

AA it went well, I have 5days left as notice. I wish I can finish now but for the sake of good ref I need to finish on good terms. I never thought I’d say this but I’d rather be broke for a while and be happy while find something else to do. I’m moving back to my parents for a couple of weeks until I can get me another job again. But for now, I just want to look after my mental and physical health. I have to get out while I’m still young and capable of doing more than just being stuck in a environment that drains me. At this point, I’m not afraid to start over again. I would rather do that than dreading going into work every single day and feel so uninspired..

So happy for you 😊👏👏

@@aloha_oe311 how are you doing? Im in the same situation. Although i would like to safe until the end of the year. And also i work for a prestigious company and bla bla.

Joselyn548 I would advised to hold on for now because convid has made it extra difficult to find a job but that doesn’t mean there are no job out there. There’s tons of jobs everyday all you need to do is send your cv to every job you have experience with and ask for full time. While you are still working at your current. But don’t leave without a plan or no saving if you are the bread winner in the fam or have kids I suggest to find a new job before leaving. But for me, I have no kids and I was happy to give up my own flat just so I can start over again and I wasn’t bother by money. I just wanted to leave the toxic environment for the sake of my health. So different situations different way of dealing with. But you still cannot work in a place you’re not happy in, it will take its toll on you one day if you’re super unhappy everyday 🙁. I hope you’re ok.

How are you doing now?

I’m in the same situation.

How are you doing now? ​@@polishherowitoldpilecki5521

me too..

@@hermitkrab792 Im traveling and work on hours. I work as a nurse. So now a days, I work 1 month, and im off 2 months, and so on.

My life atm

Wow I’m so sorry to hear that

@@tiffb1300 I hate that ppl feel this way!

Sorry to hear that happened to you. I experience the same thing at my first job. Co-worker I had constantly micro-managed me, even though my manager had no qualms. My manager said I was doing a fantastic job yet this co-worker kept micromanaging me. I had to tell him to knock it off. Then his friends in the department next to us start giving me jabs at work to rile me up. I quit, I had enough. That was 6 years ago. It was my first job and put a bad taste in my month. I didn't want to return to work since, but financially my back is up against the wall so I'm finally diving back into the workplace to give it a second shot. Wish me luck!

@@bassfan71 good luck! Please keep us posted

Good mental health was more important.

I hope you get your dream job soon!

glad you had the courage to take up the step..

@G.O.A.T The situation I'm in is I hate the job I'm in and I don't want to do it. But the problem is I don't want another job either. If you could tell me I could pick whatever job I wanted and the pay would be $1 million a year whether it's as a CEO or retail worker or anything in between or I can have $100,000 a year for doing nothing, I"d take the doing nothing all day long. I don't want to work. The situation I've tried to resolve this with is through FIRE, just saving up enough money to never work again. I've been saving decently for most of the past decade and got maybe another half of a decade to another full decade to go but it feels like I'm at the foot of Mount Everest. It feels like even if it might only be 5 years from now it might as well be 50 years from now. I go to work in tears as well... working for less money is not an option.

@G.O.A.T I don't want to be my own boss, that sounds like even more work. I'd rather just have enough money invested that I could quit working for myself or for others for good.

Good question! 🤔🤔🤔

Preach my friend!

It’s absolutely sad...

Right but it all started in school they brainwash you into just getting a job. So people rush into getting a job but not following their passion.

The whole systems of things is sort of a problem...

Thats right Sydney!! There's levels to this here!!!

"Stack, save, move on." love this. Writing this down. ✍️🗒️

Girl you are GOALS! I feel trapped in my current job and feel so anxious to exit, God knows I'll crack soon!

They don't bring that up in interviews?

Plus it gives u more experiences!

That part. I’m so sick of feeling trapped

@@baddriversofrva if you have a family to support you cant just walk away from a job. And if a job uses up all your time and energy it is difficult to look for other work. Then if you do get a job interview you don't come across as enthusiastic and energized when you are in such are dark place. It took me 4 1/2 years to escape a job that almost ruined me and 12 months on I have still not completely recovered.

agree

I feel just like this.

I did the same thing same situation same emotions. I’m mad at myself for leaving something that worked for me for more money. It wasn’t worth it

Similar situation. But I felt God tell me to move from the other job. Sometimes in order to grow you must be uncomfortable. What you're going through now might help you tackle a bigger battle in the future. Have faith and keep trusting God.

Its seems the same situation that I was In but I just resigned today. I felt so Dumb whenever I went to Work. It makes them feel that way towards me my co-worker. So I lose my self esteem and confidence to the job that I worked for only 3 months. But i like the jon just don't like the people that I worked with.

Yes I feel like another person. Just too tired and sad all the time. But I'm looking other jobs

I’m in this position right now and I’m not even two months into the job. Management is horrible, there’s no work life balance and having to go into the office makes me down right suicidal. Tempted to quit already but unfortunately I need the money, but my mental health has already been destroyed. I don’t know how much of this I can take.

​@akesiaxavier276 feel like this myself (minus horrible management) and I am 3 months into a new job, not even sure if I even want to do office work anymore tbh as doing it for nearly 3 years has wiped me the hell out

Bless you!

Yep, Ken can get tough with these callers, which is what they need. He does not let go until the caller can prove to him that they will do what they love. It is awesome to watch him in action.

@port nut Not true. My aunt pays her gardener 50$ an hour and he does a smashing job. If you have some business savvy you can hire other people to work for you and make a good living out of it.

I’ve been in an exotic trip only to think about my horrible job, so I get what you’re saying.

a good meditation is more relaxing than a good vacation just throwing that out there

Reminds me of the Snl Italy Tour skit. Adam Sandler kept warning the audience if you’re sad now you’ll probably still be sad if you go somewhere else.

I had realised it and doing the same way back in my 12s but still I have to work due to social and family pressure 🥺

Welp, I guess better never have an emergency. With the cost of healthcare, for instance, you … kind of need a ton of money in the US sadly.

@Boy George fact everything so expensive

Food, rent and energy is insanely expensive where I live...

Same here. You've described me perfectly

I lasted 15 mins and left. Screw that

I've been in the call center business for 6 years and I've been crying since then... But honestly I have in my mind what I would do with the money I'm earning to follow my dream to do art and live from that I refuse to stay there forever.... Find something you love and tried to save a little bit of money and pretty soon you will be there where you wanted to be but having a reason besides family to work for will really help you I promise you

@@screwedupmystic2597 If I may ask, what was your position? I’m noticing a trend with call/contact centers?

@@mrsminnamorato Customer service representative. Trust me u do not want to do it.

So many people in the comments hate their call center jobs. Myself included. 😂

Quick question...how many calls do you take in a day? I’m curious. Thanks in advance.

@@mrsminnamorato I worked at a call center I took about 100 calls a day they fired me on fmla I was sad but a blessing because that job was so stressful my manager used to micromanage me

@@ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy Customers are fucking vicious when they don't see your face. Signed, IT Tech support.

@@latricemitchell1338 wait they fired you on fmla??? You could have sued them!

This kills me…. I’m also making six figures and making any less is preventing me from leaving. I hate my coworkers and boss. I’m extremely frustrated and the thought of working there for the rest of my life haunts me.

@@modernlunacy4341 Become debt free, leave and discover who you really are. Then, do what you love or your purpose.

@@modernlunacy4341 STACK, SAVE AND MOVE ON... Once you have long term savings and your debt is paid. Leave because life is too short. You should not be miserable just to survive.

@@modernlunacy4341 could you tell me more? I'm 37 and starting a new job soon for almost 6 figures, but I know it will eat my soul eventually. It's like I'm on a train and I can't stop it. Do you have a plan for the next months or year, even just a vague plan?

@@guyfromavillage134 Sure. The work itself isn’t bad, but the people aren’t very welcoming. I’m an engineer. I’ve been here at this job for about 4 years now. At first it was great, but I had a falling out with my boss, which led to rumors and a toxic environment. Unfortunately, during these first few years I gained a bit of quite weight (the pandemic didn’t help), so I lost all my confidence as well. I’m planning on getting into shape, and then I’ll be confident enough to interview at other companies and hopefully escape this hellhole. Until then, I just have to keep my head up and perform until I can escape. I think I’ll even consider leaving for 10-15k less than I am making now. I just miss having friends at work. I live alone, so I don’t have anyone else to converse with besides the people at work. I can see how people go crazy from loneliness and neglect.

Same here after I clock out of work I still am anxious and worried about work 😔 I too want start my own business but good luck to u💕💕🙏🏾

I completely relate

Im in the same situation.... :(

Hello olecheese, I totally understand you, I work in Phone customer service and the customerr are rude an racist sometimes, let me tell you something, I realize that if we have no job, things are going to be harder FOR A WHILE, but if we stay in this horrible Jobs, WE WILL TRULY DIE, we will lose our souls and we don't have to let that happen. A job should not be the reason of why a person stopped being happy. Take a desicion, do it for your happines, for your future and most important, for your Health.

I got this after working in customer service for almost 5 years! Been off customer service for about a year and I finally feel like I’m starting to hate people a little bit less. It’s incredible how much time you need to recover from CS jobs..

@@lucy-in-the-sky9292 I'm gald to know you are happy now, something I was worried about was the long term consecuences of maintained stress. Not healthy at all.

I am 100% on the same page

Come back and drop the Amazon link if you do I’ll support that

Drop the link!

Do ebay and Amazon

How did your side hustle turn out.

You got this. Just don't quit. Keep your eye on something worthwhile.

What fantastic, what's your job?

I work in a job with a toxic culture too. It’s crushing. I feel trapped

I'm in a very similar situation. Out of curiosity, because quite some time has passed since you posted that comment - what did you end up doing?

Vergel Tolentino wish you the best ! 🙌

All the best man! Wishing you luck!

How did you go?

I quit yesterday it's not worth being unhappy

@@999fieldsie may your future shine brighter full of better opportunities.

Yeah but when broccoli costs $10 for 2 shitty little pieces nowadays there's no choice. We have to have another job lined up before we quit a current job. That's a horrible idea.

​@@mikepawlikguitarhow about moving back to a low cost state? I mean idk about what people in usa going through but moving back to a simple life is often the right choice. Ones life isn't worth the stress these cities are giving...

@@yowaiomae914 I would.. except I live in Canada. There's no dodging that bullet in this country 😕

i feel the same way😞 i haven’t been myself since the start of my job. everytime i wake up, all i feel is this heaviness and i started to cry. and i don’t want to disappoint my loved ones. i genuinely don’t know what to do at this point.

I feel the same way.

Me too dear 😭Kindly,where are you now?

Same 😔

Me too, indeed working in customer service is killing us introverts on the inside. I get panic attacks everyday😳

I was in the same situation (except for the family part), but now I've moved to supply chain. The work is much better and you learn a lot more things there. You should consider it if you have that option.

@@Mada_94_ Exactly 🥺

@@mayankw9047 I'm happy to hear you are in a much comfortable place of work now, this may be the right time for me to think of my options.

Same here. I have never been a people person, which is probably why I hate my job. I work in a grocery store so of course you have deal with customers throughout the day. Every time one of them comes up to me I don't look at them as a customer, I look at them as someone getting in the way of me doing my job. It's exhausting having to deal with them. I can't wait to quit that place someday.

Same...

@@vickieclark5931 i work at the same job and i feel your pain Screw that job man

I’m a people person but hate customer service I work at an auto parts store and I hate the customers

I use to love my job but my boss micromanages me and doesn’t back me with other staff members and now I hate my job

Did you find anything else? I'm in a similar position...

How are you now? I'm also in the same boat, and I'm so depressed and miserable.

Since when does Starbucks pay 7.25/hr?

I just don’t want to work at all.. I have been trying a bunch of jobs and have been working many years, I just wanna do what I love and not wasting my life.😔 life is hard and it sucks but we just need to stay strong🥺

Bless you. I couldn't do that kind of job.

I work in a Call center too....5 years and I have no motivation anymore. I work a lot of overtime and get decent pay, but I am drained.

@@simsesworkshop1546 what is your dream?

Me too!! I feel so stuck, but I try not to complain because I am working, but this Customer Service Job drains my spirit

You're cute

@@DavidVonR not an appropriate place my man.

A lot of entitled brats, mentally unstable, you gave me flashbacks from my internships.

Me!!! I don’t have a passion for anything in life. There is nothing that I want to do everyday for the rest of my life.

@@lytonya1533 I definitely know the feeling. Sometimes things of that nature are revealed at unexpected times and moments though, so hopefully we will get our answers to that question when the right time comes.

Same here. I'm just looking for a job I can tolerate.

@@lytonya1533 You sound just like me. What do you love? Anything you love, you can try to profit from being self employed.

look into glamping renting !

Good advice, paste a smile on my face :)

Working as a adoctor is s stressful job, being a receptionist isn't as hard

Definitely. That’s why I’m trying my best to figure out this mess while I’m young with no children and just a neglected pet cactus.

@@lol.3460 same

@@okaypearl that’s what I want to know

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 so true!!!

Very true. If I had a caring kind boss I would gladly take a pay cut to work for him/her.

I work in stock retail and wearing a mask for almost 46 hours a week is fucking pissing me off. Customers are mentally challenged and everyone is overworked. Almost everyone I know there hates it but no one can get out. Everyone feels stuck man

Same exact thing I’m dealing with it’s the worst I feel trapped 😔

Let me present my perspective here. I am in an IT job in which I need to provide technical support to various problems constantly. Problem solving all the time is draining. Sometimes I feel doing repetitive tasks is relaxing. I think a good job would be like 70% repetitive work and 30% innovation/creativity/doing or learning something new.

Same here mate, I feel so lost and ashamed

I work the same IT support job and I’m hating it absolutely after 3 months. I want to change it but can’t due to Covid-19.

I so resonate with this. 😢

At some point in life you have to make difficult decisions and sometimes it's scary, but if you're optimistic everything will alright, you deserve happiness in your life.

Same here....im crying everyday but because of financial obligations I can’t just quit. Im diagnosed with anxiety because of it. 🥺😢

@@lifeandmorechannel2987 praying for you, I hope you get debt free asap, do what you love after that

I didn’t quit my job 6 months ago to do what I really wanted to do bc the money was less and I felt like I was letting my coworkers down too. Well, most of them quit this year and didn’t care about leaving me behind! Lesson learned!

When it comes to something like this, people always watch out for their own mental health. So they need to understand you need to do what's best for YOU. Don't feel like you're irreplaceable, you never are in a common job.

I’m literally in the same boat as you. 😭 I hope we both find a way out.

Donsurae Byrd omg I’m so sorry you’re too I’m still going through it and I’m working on a exit strategy I can’t do this anymore 😔

@@SharlenesJourney me too

MF .D 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Same boat here, hun. I used to work in customer service which drained my soul. And now I'm working in a startup IT company, and shit's not any better. Even the pay is worse than when I was in call center. I couldn't leave cos it s pandemic, the boss is manipulative af, and other jobs have work from home setup but I got no personal laptop (I'm using the company's, if I resign I'll return this shit, I got nothing to use). I'm saving up for one til God knows when. And I'm just dying already. *Sighs* Good luck to us.

:( I really want to quit my job but the pay and benefits, I really need it too. My parents said this company is good for me and they said I'm weak because I cant handle these things. Now I'm crying in the middle of meeting at the bathroom. Sorry for my bad english. I hate my job. It is eating my soul day by day. The environment is very toxic

claudia anggreacia I so feel this I’m Going through that same thing 😔 and listen it’s time that you go for your passion don’t worry so much about what your family says , you matter and your happiness matters I too get stuck in jobs because of what family says but if you stay cause of family the. You may have regrets later, I would start to look for jobs now and create an exit plan to get out of that toxic environment

@@claudiaanggreacia4556 your parents are toxic. If you can leave , do it. If you can't right now, save up a few months of expenses and look for something you think you would enjoy. That's what I'm doing.

Oil and gas?

You aren’t a failure, you have guts

You are capable doing incredible things!

You aren't a failure... You are mentally quite strong to resign which most of the people aren't capable of

Truly so! His energy and ability to connect with and help the caller all in 10 minutes is incredible!

to be honest, this was the first video i've seen of ken alone (without dave). he's awesome!

You can always learn and try new things to make a bit more money also. Life is hard on anyone. Day and night we all suffee in one way or another.

@@penguingobrrbrr353 how can I do that?

Goodness....this is just how I feel😢. Am sending you hugs. I literally cry multiple times a day . I almost got a miscarriage because of this job that I previously considered a dream after leaving a toxic one. This one is more than the word toxic....with just a pay raise.

I hope you’re doing better! 🙏

People should've woke up to this a long time ago

Having a 9_5 is not a dream any longer

@@melvinjohnreacher9566 I really enjoy doing my work, and still financially independent having my passive income pay for my lifestyle. I will retire early at 45 so I can travel the world.

@@kimayaknight7180 cool 👍 How do you make so much from passive income?

I make extra income from side business and most importantly investments

Hang in there... You're not alone.

Don’t give up. I am in the same situation. The main reason I am watching this video is to find some support. My job is draining my soul but I cannot quit, and life is too stressful.

Feeling same friend , you are not alone in this world with same situation and troubles. Many are leaving life with this hazardous situation. There is no way , what should we do!. My life , mind , thought process , confidance , freedom , behaviour , beliefs and ultimately my soul collapsed after starting my first ever job. Previously I have done many work and small businesses but I choosen stable work and I got trapped , now I couldn't leave because of family pressure. I don't know why I'm giving such excruciating pain to my self. I also facing many disease and health problems. Mental issues , brain pain and frequent headache. Continuous seating and working without second thought making my every day miserable. I was very feeling ful person who can feel every micro emotion and live happily , I was smiling and cheerful person But now I can't even get feeling of joy and happiness. this is going miserable like hell😩. Still I'm leaving , I don't have any way to get out of this , I'm feeling my life is going to destroy and I am watching it with pain , life has become "pain". Still with some breath of happiness I could feel I'm living with hope that someday everything would be okay.

@@nilayrachchh3371 I wish you find some hope. Prayer to u.

Lol. Same!

That's why so many people build their own businesses. As long as you work for a company or for somebody you'll be a slave and won't be free.

Me too

why dont u find a way to start your own business. Might take some time but go for it

Exactly! I also feel like I’ve ruined my life and happiness with this horrible job I have. I wanted to quit on day 3, now I’m stuck there

Me too. I’ve wasted 25 years in Accounting and it’s not what I wanted to do with my life amd the money isn’t that good. I barely get by.

Tiger , i don’t know how old you are …but your Analysis is spot on . what you said is purely wisdom. I believe you’ll succeed in anything you put your mind into doing …Best of luck to all of us ..

I can so relate to thus I went from retail to a finance firm and I hate it so much it’s so draining and yes I hate it when people aren’t willing to help

Go for it