He is a genuinely good guy

Read some of his books. It will change your life.

@@unclewazza777which one do you recommend first?

Exactly! I use his techniques all the time as a teacher.

I was pointing at the screen saying that as well letsgo8561, just luv that he is like that. 👍

Right on brotha

@@charmed1593 Thank you 🤛👍

Keep up the good work! I know you can do it and I'm proud of you too! I'm sober myself after years of alcoholism. keep pushing forward my friend.

@@kolarain5986 thank you ❤️

still got many life's ahead of you, my man. I got out of an 8 year weed fog 2 years ago. Never thought I could be without it. Sooooo much better enjoying life with a clear head. SO MUCH better. Best of luck

Why do you write that on the wall? You could write a list instead of what you are proud of refering your abilities or stuff like that. That has more impact than writing something on the wall what you likely don't believe.

​@@JPcommunicates it's not literal it's just Theo's weird way of saying he can't see the good in himself even if it's written out

I really enjoyed your video. I just wanted to share my little story to add to your point by sharing a real example I'll add this. What keeps us going? The fear of losing it all. There's definite a little amount of imposter syndrome. I think it keeps me on my toes and motivated to keep learning and improving where I can and I'm really successful

People should remember: poverty is not an accident, a coincidence or an inevitability. It is something which is manufactured by fear of taking risk and making decisions

You're right you've remind me of what someone once said "The mind is the man, the poor is in it and the rich is it too". This sentence is the secret of most successful investors. I once attended similar and ever since then been waxing strong financially, and i most tell you the truth..investment is the key that can secure your family future.

Agree completely. Seeing others being vulnerable helps normalize it. Really digging these clips.

Good point!! 👍

Find God bubba. Praise the Lord Brother.

Hey bro. Just some practical advice from someone who's been there. Wake up in the morning and think about what you are grateful for. After that take ten minutes to ask God, the universe, nature whatever you want to call it, what it's plan for you is. You already know on the inside how to get through this you just have to take mindful actions to get past this. Good luck man you got this!

Genuinely curious what you’re doing to get better?

@@jared30this is fantastic advice! ❤

This, too, shall pass 💕

Nobody should, its unhealthy and just plain useless to fight it.

Agreed. I feel like theo is all of us learning how to do better as a person. He’s humble enough to keep learning always. Actually a good role model for men.

100%. I’ve noticed since he came of the antidepressants he’s really letting the emotion flow. It’s beautiful to see.

I think this word “trauma” is over used by the people on the left.

And feeling shame about being proud of yourself is actually quite common. Good on Theo for being so open about this. Especially as a man. That's brave (but a shame it needs to be called brave for men to act like humans with emotions.)

That’s a tough one, but I needed to hear it

@heidiv5720 - thank you, that's what I was going to say. For us to see Tony's powerful gifts, we need someone as fearless and open as Theo to let us all be inspired by this beautiful process. THIS is real content.

Omg he’s so vulnerable lol. I’m drawn in and never even heard of him it just showed up on my feed 🍿 but so good. Goals for openness vibes. Love ❤

Same

Agreed, this was beautiful to watch & an amazing duo

Thank you for the inspiration. I can relate in so many ways

He has 2.3million on his main channel! 🎉

The Fauci joke snuck up on me. I laughed so hard.😅 I did not see it coming. Theo willl do that to you

He has improved so much. Love it.

Here here! Haha

I remember when his main channel only had 400k subscribers. Miss those days when he was less known, felt like a secret gem. Now hes mainstream 😭

@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

you can find yourself in loneliness too. I'm alone to an extent, like the friends I grew up with they don't talk to me anymore.

@@thinkbeforeyoureact2988 They weren't friends they were just mates. Most of my friend have passed the rest have Gone woke and no longer want to speak to me. The difference for me is Jesus. A true friend. Been through thick and thin and he didn't walk away. While every one else did. I'm betting my soul he's real. So i don't care now what i lose or don't have in this world. Because i know whats waiting for me on the other side. I wish you all the best, may God bless you and show the love and friendship of his son Jesus.

we still cant see you

​@thinkbeforeyoureact2988 nice name for starters... and keep your head up

@@thinkbeforeyoureact2988 loneliness and alone arent the same. Alone is a state of being whereas lonely is a state of mind. The idea that "loneliness is the poverty of self" signifies, to me at least, that being alone doesnt cause loneliness; having low self worth causes loneliness. A lot of people who forcibly spend every waking minute around other people do so because they themselves are poor company so they cant bear being alone.

Every family has one. They just don’t listen because the message isn’t wrapped up in a pretty bow and it comes from people you have emotional triggers around. Sometimes it’s the person that tells you the truth. Most people don’t want truth they love smoke up their a$$… especially those who haven’t found sobriety around all the things including work, girly videos, games, and the harsher more obvious stuff.

Tony is good, his personal life has some things that are hard to deal with but it all makes up the man as a whole. I’m talking about some allegations of abuse I read about while looking into who he was

Tony is a charlatan.

be the tony for your family

​@@Lifetimelearningisbrave awesome comment. Thanks for writing it.

Kleenex warning needed for me here as well. I keep telling myself old stories too(and damn they hurt!, why? Am I doing that?)

yeah, and I used to feel offended by that "to stop my old story" because I felt I was abandoning my child self or something. But now I get it - and totally want to expand let go etc.

This is the reason we love him. I hope He can find self love and that if I watch this enough maybe I will too. ( I feel too much self pity also, just realized this lately)

Why do people ALWAYS feel inclined to disclose their professional titles before making a statement. It’s like a “look me too”.

⁠@@12121212293 Sharing the career path or title establishes a sense of validity, a sense of experience and understanding of the importance to what is being said. They also followed up with stating that Robbins is a big influence on their career-which is amazing. Why is it that you feel such an inflammatory emotion towards this kind of comment? They weren’t saying it to prop themselves with ego, it was a genuine compliment while sharing a sense of validation for other viewers/readers

​@@12121212293because they can? Because they feel like clarifying the level of relevance the conversation and subject matter had to them. Because they're attempting to feel part of something, anything, an idea, a group, a person, because we do that as humans as a means of surviving and gaining social acceptance and helping people understand what we feel. It's simply a statement man don't let it bother you so much, it's really not a big deal. Like really what do you expect their answer to be? You want to create an argument for something so basic and normal when really all they can probably tell you is "because I can and I did?". Not a biggy my dude. Peace brotha. Sincerely, Just a fuckin' dude.

@@12121212293because that’s how they see themselves first everyone has their issues no need to have three fingers pointing back 😉

@@12121212293 nah they're just saying "as someone who works in a similar field; i can tell you this person is skilled at what they do."

Theo is one of the best humans. Dudes so down to earth. He's never afraid to show his emotions.

Confidence

Me too. I had tears coming down. Completely relate to this and Tony obviously is gonna make you face yourself.

“Funny” is often a coping mechanism

Yep. I love that hes successful now.

We got to remember the super wealthy have struggles to. And the only way to support them is to purchase from them.

In reality it’s a huge turn off for women, being vulnerable as a man. I identify with him, but if a loving relationship is what he’s looking for, put on a brave face. Keep the vulnerability private and among other men who can help you.

​@@johnqdoe in my experience that only holds true for younger women, the older they are the more they realize how it is to deal with someone who can't open up and be honest. Most women don't want someone who is constantly breaking down crying, but they also don't want someone who is blocking themselves off and burying emotions that will come out later in inappropriate ways

You’re not alone brother. We’ve all suppressed our emotions for years

I made the decision to take a break from weed for this very reason. I distract myself from my emotions alot with weed and felt disconnected from who I was. I’m feeling things way more potently and clearly and it feels nice.

Same here 20 year heroin habit lost loads of friends and family no emotions just thinking about my next hit no one told me your the opposite with emotions when you come off them really got to me would cry for nothing over all the stuff i never dealt with was going to go back on drugs over it didn't no what was wrong with me. Year and a half later still clean 41 years old and getting a second chance with a new family new baby on the way cant wait life is good. ✌️

For real. Went through so much sht as a kid and a teen then young adult in college I crumbled and then the meds started all the way till last year. I'm 33 and been raw dogging tf outta life and damn the first month off was insanely hard. Emotions up the ass and remembering everything that's happen to me. You're not alone my brother. We got this.

@@mrwhite7128you’re freaking AMAZING! Never give up! No matter what the journey looks like. I’m a recovering addict as well. I have slipped up many times but it’s all been valuable. ❤

On point statement!

Word

There’s a lot more of them out there. He’s a good dude. Just look at the guests he has on his show. Latest one was a lunch lady.

Therapy can help, the REALLY hard part is finding one you can be that open with. I still hide things, but when I'm able to open up I get somewhere.

God bless you and keep your head up

Agreed. It feels like I’m watching an actual therapy session.

He has a radiating presence and energy.

@@KingNiros He practices what he preaches, the proof is in the pudding

As someone who used to work in behavior health, take care of yourself! That was easily the craziest job I ever had. Some of my favorite memories but damn I wanted pull my hair out too

oozes confidence from being tall in a superficial world

I know!! He’s fine as!!!

That bothered me, too tbh Dudes funny and relatable and hates himself. I can relate to the “I want others to feel cared for, but me, I deserve (insert bad lot).” It truly is a wild cycle you build up.

@@snkysnky1730finding humor in things isn’t always a defense mechanism. If anything it’s mostly a sign of creative thinking.

“It’s an old story that got wired a long time ago but it’s not who I am”

@@snkysnky1730 the guys a fucking comedian its not a defence mechanism its his life

Dude the fauci thing cracked me up. Hahahaha "same thing"

Theos brain makes so many off the cuff connections. I love the way his mind works.

How do I shake out of it? It feels like it's integral part of me and I guess I'm so numbed out I cannot even imagine feeling good about myself, it feels wrong and fake af.

@@kubasniak I had a few mindset changes were essentially I realized the only one putting limits on me was myself. The gym was extremelly helpful, as was BJJ. I read Meditations by Marcus Aurelieus and that changed my outlook a lot on life. I also met a women who showed me that I wasn't a POS like I thought

For me it was letting my inner child out and ask why everytime a nasty thought came about. Trace it down with the why's and get to the core, if there really is one be relentless like the why's of a child. It's your brain and your the best detective for the job. For being special the why turned into if I'm still here then hows? Is it even possible I'm not special because I'm still here and made it out. Do you see where this goes, with child like eyes and yourself that made it can you see the thoughts are just habits that need updating! @@kubasniak When I finally after 49 yrs got to my inner child for me she was tired, tired of caring all the emotions that were borrowed yet not mine. I told her I appreciate her strength and love although horribly expressed and I'd never forget what she'd been through but I'm moving on. Do know It did not take me 49 yrs to do this, spent way too many yrs drinking and shying away from dealing with it. Once I sat that aside I showed myself I cared enough about myself to start the work. Best wishes!

Thank you Theo 🙏

​@@kubasniak Act out what you value and gain respect for yourself❤

Look up an “emotions wheel” it will help you interpret your feelings

If you get a chance, as your bucket list, go to Tony's Unleash the Power Within. It's a game changer. Tony is losing his voice so he doesn't have many years of public speaking left. Give yourself this as a gift.

Me too

Look up Dr Richard Bandler. He is more affordable and he's one of Tony's teachers. He will teach you to help other people as well.

Ditto

Nah, he's not, he interrupts too much and talks a lot

Hes a global force

Hope you're still doing ok now

I'm 57 and I don't know as much as Tony Robbins, but I know every year better that love is the answer

That loneliness is the worst. We're all in this together 🙏

😊​@@abba136

Hey buddy ive been through this and just coming out the other side and let me tell you its bliss. But watch your language and your perception of taking about emotions. The "this is rough" or "difficult" is just another story. Ive been at this for nearly 9 years.and let me tell u i saw nothing but love and beauty in this video. How u perceive is how u shape your life so id invite ti look for the beauty in this topic and focus on that. And yes i can be difficult but with time and constant effort u can achieve anything.

@@abba136 No we are not.! Left or Right..?? Will still divide us.!

@@raymondguzman5083 picked the wrong Gen to tell that to.! They think being an influencer is a life's goal.

Tony Robbins is a really good guy, not just surface level good, but deep within

People are aware.! This is the most medicated Generation in history. They would rather take some form of medication than face those emotions. And i can't really blame them.! Others just self delete rather than deal with it. That would have been my choice, but God had other plans.

Man guys need to get away from there emotions more these days men are too soft and thats fine but making money off it is weird theo been sad for years lol like when is it gonna stop prolly when it stops making money

​@@slowmotionradio73 used to think like you, watched redpill stuff years back. Shit will get you running into a wall.

Fer sure Tony is a great human that has helped countless people. So stoked Theo is doing this work for all of us to see

Well said.

I think sealing it off is not the way, though

@@Krzy-hoo not sealing off like being closed off but as a response or conclusion to past hurts. A lot of time trauma is a looping thought or experience. I'm no Gabor Mate or Bessel Van Der Kolk. Sometimes it's hard to know when you made it to the "other side".

I know that feeling of feeling overwhelmed, its feeling uncomfortable.

Yeah Tony is legit.

He is absolutely the best. If you haven’t seen it, find the video of him at a conference talking to a suicidal man. The way he talked to him, it was like watching a man go through 20 years of therapy in 5 minutes. It’s amazing, Tony really has the gift

Dang I thought the same thing…

I made a joke in a comment a long time ago that Theo is so funny that I would consider becoming an alcoholic just to attend some of his AA meetings. He's not just funny but a legit good soul, helping people in ways he never intended, ironically. I hope more people find their path like he has. Including me.

@@johns7530 I agree, I hope Thro understands exactly how much he has and is helping people worldwide. I watched King and the sting just to feel connected to something when I was in a complicated situation. Healing is hard but seeing Theo be successful and vulnerable just shows me that wearing your heart on your sleeve can impact people so positively. Our armour should be honesty and not fear and Theo shows is that in spades ❤

but of a fucked up comment to make dont ya think?@@johns7530

thats so weird. thats exactly what happened with me. got 5 hours of sleep 3 days in a row that makes me delusional and rewiring the mind is exacty what I needed it to hear because its not true what we say to ourselves much of the time and you and I both have a purpose which made me think, how dare I be sad, and it made me smile. god bless you random stranger

How is this not typed by me, from Germany too as well 😂❤

I highly suggest watching the seasons of mtv's The Challenge that Theo was on, it's not a big part of his career but he opens up about himself a bit similar to this. Good to see him connecting to his self again.

I truly agree, I admire him more than anybody

when I see bad in everyone that is my HUGE red flag that something is not right with my internal state. For me this is my self protective mode when I feel abandoned, in shame, triggered by insecurity or unworthiness. Fortunately I belong to a 12 step fellowship (like Theo) that can help me be the person I want to be not just the one that reacts to a variety of stimuli like a mindless cog. One day at a time, I get to walk around being a part of the whole instead of better or worse. It feels like freedom. I wish you luck on your journey.

You pulled the words from my mouth. Listening to him makes me feel really safe. Don't know if that is odd but...there is that.

I have to say I agree wholeheartedly 🎉

That was beautifully I have had a lot of hard years since I came home from Afghanistan and living with things I did and witnessed and this was over 10 years ago

Couldn't have said it better myself brother, beautiful words and all the best to you!

Indeed❤❤

Yes !! I am embracing all my parts. I love EMDR to heal my triggers and embrace my strong parts. I am learning boundaries with myself and others. I change my dysfunctional beliefs. I do matter. I am grieving what I didn't get as a child. I am learning and accepting how I really feel. I am changing my mindset. Learning the truth that I am a wonderful person who is capable of healing and doing anything I want. I can have healthy relationships with myself and others. I an also learning emotional regulation with a DBT course.

I now tell my younger self...... You are with me now and I won't let anything bad happen to you. ❤

hope 2024 is a good year for you!

Sending you love and healing 💕 ❤

wishing you the best!

Sending you warmest blessings from Ireland for healing in 2024🙏🏻…

Praying for you tonight ❤🤗

@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

Please change your therapist. Love.

That’s beautiful. 👍🏼