I have no idea where my roommates are 20 years later. Life goes on

Same - not worth it... They will wish they had the 15k tho

Amen, I did it and I had to call the cops every week because of drunks and party animals.

I went to Mizzou and lived in the dorms too. During one of the visitation sessions, someone in my dorm yelled out to the visitors, "Don't come here. They rip you off!" We all had a good laugh.

I enjoyed my freshman year. It was a difficult year, but I needed to go through it to grow. Then again, I got my bachelors and only owed $18k in student loans when I finished in 2005.

Ben Reilly 🤣

that was one of his best calls lol

@Anny AmayaAyala it's called $280,000 for a tuba degree"

lol feel so bad for that guy as he is now engraved in Ramsey history

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I wont even spend 15k on myself XD

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That's because You have friends. Imagine that You didn't have a friend in the world. What if having a friend would prevent You from Hanging yourself in the garage. $15K is a small price. My first job out of university paid $138K/yr, I was single and no debt. When I went oversea, $160K/yr after taxes. $15K is a weekend in Moscow, Amsterdam, Las Vegas, …. I pay for Pre-school for the SOCIALIZATION, I could keep my 4 yr old home let him watch KZfaq and eat junk food.(I know he would like that more) Minds do not mature in a friendless vacuum.

A Olvaar In most cases a teen girl especially is likely to over exaggerate a little... But there are way better and cheaper ways of making friends. And some people dont like friends. XD I dont really have any friends, or I have them but have maybe seen them like 1 time in a year. 2 friends tho

@@aolvaar8792 Friends can get you in trouble, don't forget that.

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Ray J. Well she’s paying 15k to keep the friends..not for new friends.

Lol

JP Martinez hahaha you are right. Idk why, but that comment made me laugh 😂

Dave is funny 😆😆😆

me_not_me_2008 that’s right she can also join a club or two at the college 🤷🏾‍♀️ this is how u make friends on campus! She sounds pretty pathetic to want to waste money going out of state to be with friends and risk not having her some of her credits transferred. Trying to go in debt to keep up with her friends, she needs therapy! It’s on her to make new friends or keep in touch on social media with her friends until the summer! Life isn’t perfect that we get everything our way all the time! Her father sounds stupid asking for advice and making it sound like he wants to be “Christianly to handle this?? A good parent knows when to say no! You can’t be your kids friend, you are older because u are supposed to have wisdom! A teenager with no money has no say!

@@christian_person5058 that's strong language

Good answer.

Open and shut.

I don't understand why you guys value money over friends and life . 15k is nothing comapred to what others have

BLOODWAR GAMING we don’t. That’s the whole point. You shouldn’t have to buy friends at all!

4:25 You can't have $ex if I'm paying for your college 😂

She is not enjoying the religious environment at home.

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"... trying to convince her ..." sigh, I think this is where the problem lies - hello Dad, grow a freaking set of balls and say simply, "No!", she should be studying and such, not worrying about having friends and playing .. geeze ..

Absolutely. That is my exact experience in high school and now studying electrical engineering.

She wants to party. Simple as that.

Yeah Mizzou is pretty much blah...enrollment tanked at that place after the fiasco they let happen...

I have a strong feeling if she did a semester or two at Mizzou, she would realize the grass isn’t greener, and it takes effort to make friends in college as well. She might even transfer back after a semester after she realizes she messed up.

@@mle011 I think it could be the other way around. These universities are very adept at taking a functional mind and dumbing it down with hate, entitlement, and propaganda. It's very possible she'd come out as an angry misandric SJW witha catalog of reasons why she is a victim of society.

@David DeVito OMG did you swap gametes?

Most of my friends who chased the “college experience” ended up strung out on drugs or alcoholics.

Well just because things are not permanent that doesn't mean they don't have value for that time. The friends you had in college you probably did appreciate and have value for during those 4 years you were in college. Now going into debt for this would be foolish but things having value just for a fixed perod of time or just for a stage of your life is still value. I had friends in college that I do not really keep in touch with anymore but I would still consider them valuable for that time and stage in my life.

Pauline Davis yes but said she went to a very small religious high school. That type of upbringing and schooling frequently stifle maturity as many are taught to ‘obey and never question.’ I ran into a handful of them in community college they all had an extremely narrow/uneducated view of the world and were all really immature.

There are some 12 year old kids that think smarter and make better decisions than many fully developed adults and vice versa, EVERYBODY DEVELOPS AND THINKS DIFFERENT

Me 18 and not having a social life 🥸

18 year olds would be able to think like adults if society didn’t treat them like little kids

Not to mention that by junior and senior year most students live in off campus apartments

HereIsWisdom 1318 Exactly!!! There is no social life in Nursing school!

True. She’s going to eat, sleep, and breathe nursing. I had no time to socialize in nursing school

Most skills are perishable. Social ability is one of those. Swearing off all friends because of education is unhealthy.

My daughtet is finally going to get to live on campus her senior year. She will be an RA. Room and board paid for.

Shy B Any tips Other than just socializing?

@@shortchubbyneckbeard1681 i am not a social person by any means. That's why I suggested a job. It puts you in a position where you have to communicate with others and naturally grow a friendship. Check out the clubs, my 2 year had bus trips all types of activities. It just how willing are you to put yourself out there.

@A W honestly I lucked out. One of my friend's daughter was in my parents daycare growing up. My other friends we just naturally grew tight. I mean, I didn't like everyone I worked with but yeah.

Same

Hot4 Teacherz want to be friends, feel 4 pizza? You buy

Yep, money is my friend lol

They probably crammed it into he head to go to school. Now she can say "Im doing what you wanted, now you dont want me to?"

Dad had 18 years to worry about it and probably is part of the issue.

@@michellerichardson3090 Yea, there is definitely some to blame on the parents when a kid is 18 and hasn't been socialized or taught to socialize and make friends. He obviously didn't put her in sports/hobbies growing up.

You really don't need to study constantly in college. Any person of normal intelligence should have plenty of time to hang out with friends.

UTubeuzername84 😂

Love this comment!

UTubeuzername84 depends on your major.

Nitrodan No major requires you to study constantly. Some just more than others.

Someone got bullied on a daily basis for being tall.

@@auzten-shorts4608 I got bullied on a daily basis for being short.

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I got bullied on a daily basis for being exactly average height. Darn bullies!

You sound blessed, too! My parents were too greedy to help me. They had the funds and no debt but instead chose not to help. 🤷‍♂️

Today people become adults when they are 30...

Kids living at home are not adults. No matter how old they are.

And if he wanted to stop her what could he do? Exactly, because she is an adult. If she were a child he wouldn't be calling in to the Dave Rasey show he would just tell her no.

Depends on who's footing the bill. If she is, it's her own decision. If not, others have a say.

Everything is up to her, she can decide at any time that she no longer wants his money and she will do things her way.

Especially in college. A lot of those friends fall by the wayside 3-6 months after college.

IGriff TV same! Lol

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I can relate

Theres a whole lot of "instagram models/influencers" that go into debt and go broke to maintain the appearance of living the high life in the hopes it'll get them more sponsors. Some go 6 figures in debt essentially going on vacation.

I've only read news stories, I don't watch or use instagram.

Ok boomer

lol, i'm probably younger than you. But in terms of building wealth, social media is a good way to lose wealth.

That's the best friend you can have

Here here, no you're not!

not weird it's called being wise

Same. I have maybe 2 friends 😂

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Same here

LeftOnSeen It’s not a money problem (yet). She wants friends. Which is probably worse!

I'm not sure if not having money to socialize is the issue, considering that she's able to go to school for low cost now and finish up a 4 year nursing program for free....The Dad said she went to a Christian high school, and most of her friends went away to a certain college, then he said his daughter didn't have other young people to connect with at church, because most of them were off to college. I'm positive she's missing out on opportunities to meet and socialize with other Christians at her community college. Most colleges have groups such as Young Life, Baptist Student Union, Newman Club(Catholic), Cru(formerly known as Campus Crusade For Christ), and others. She is being shortsighted. I hope she listens to Dad and Dave and doesn't go to the college to be with her friends.

To be clear, her entire problem is: she just wants friends. And that’s wrong considering the hard schooling she is trying to get through.

She won't do that because she won't have time for her little friends.

I only went by the title guys sorry if I misspoke about anything. Still though man I know college suckssss especially if you’re stupid like me and took most classes you possibly can on my first semester everrrrr

He doesn't know how to help her raise her self-esteem 🤷‍♂️

I think it's funny both of you completely ignore this mans statement. He asked HOW he could convince her otherwise. She's an adult, he isn't there to say no, he's there to try and teach her why she's wrong. Saying no is a great way to say I told you so 7 years from now, not on how to get it through their teenage head.

Ryan Nevill that is SO true!

Well, that’s what my niece did and she’s a successful model in LA. Her head is on straight and focusing on model and movie career 🤷‍♀️

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Exactly. Sounds like these parents are too soft

15K for friends w benefits. Um, she's a girl. She doesn't even need to be friends!

"Listen kiddo, if you're gonna w- around, at least do it the old-fashioned way-for profit: money, gifts, favors, fancy dinners, trips . . . some sort of gain. But _spending_ money instead to do it would be a first."

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She wants to borrow the money from her dad.

@Dillon Smith That's immaterial, as long as she's not paying her own way in she has no say.

Well shes probably 18, there's nothing he can do

@@michellerichardson3090 he can NOT give her the money.

@@micaonyx5301 i dont think he said she was asking him for money. I think she might take out a loan to go to this school and hes trying to convince her not to

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Greek life 😂

Anna Lesher took the words out of my mouth

Escorts? Prostitutes? Hookers? 🤑

Employees? 😂

That's crazy. College students are adults.

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