Should We Keep Accepting Money From Our Parents?

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Should We Keep Accepting Money From Our Parents?

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Should We Keep Accepting Money From Our Parents?
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@anthonyfuller9933 3 жыл бұрын

They live beyond their means. It's that simple.

@JorgeRamirezFinance 3 жыл бұрын

Pretty much

@stevenporter863 3 жыл бұрын

...and as an Accountant he needed Dave to tell him that? Sounds like he needs to change jobs again. 😀

@SalisburySnake 3 жыл бұрын

Just getting $2500 worth of food from the store to your house every month would be a full time job. There's no way that's accurate.

@sarahwaters8262 3 жыл бұрын

Somebody's getting food delivered- him, her, or both

@taylerlong2995 3 жыл бұрын

I have a boatload of dietary restrictions myself and we spend $500 a month for three people. Average in my area for a family our size is $250-300 per month. I want to know what specialty foods are on those receipts.

@garys.1415 3 жыл бұрын

If the parents refused to give them more money, I bet he’d figure it out pretty quick.

@tequisaholloway1738 3 жыл бұрын

Sure will

@saribrown7156 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. They are using the wife’s condition to milk for money.

@wanefelicia8779 3 жыл бұрын

Wonder if they use the kids to do it 😵

@twincherry4958 3 жыл бұрын

@@saribrown7156 exactly how it sounds...eating special food for inflammation? Inflammation is so common most people don't have to spend that much to avoid it. She knows what to do to get his parents give them money. Smh

@stillawake76 3 жыл бұрын

It amazes me when an accountant can’t figure out his own household budget.

@mustangthings 3 жыл бұрын

He’s not an accountant, really. He’s just bouncing around between jobs because he doesn’t have to work that hard or commit to anything.

@blizzardgam3s206 3 жыл бұрын

@@mustangthings dude what does this have to do with mustangs

@mustangthings 3 жыл бұрын

@@blizzardgam3s206 I keep watching these videos hoping someone is upside down on a GT500 or something. “Sorry Dave, I’ll sell my kids before I sell the car”

@michealscott9199 3 жыл бұрын

Do police officers always follow the law? Do doctors always live healthy lives?

@Ka_Gg 3 жыл бұрын

When I was in college for finance, I was so shocked at how many other finance majors knew this and that about business finance or how to run numbers for a hard problem, but would make stupid financial decisions. Most of them were broke college students so I understood that, but part of the reason was because they weren't treating their finances the way they were treating their classes.

@Vividlol 3 жыл бұрын

$2500 sounds like eating out a lot. No ones spending 2.5k on groceries unless you’re buying A5 wagyu for every meal.

@ethan4048 3 жыл бұрын

He's spending over 52k a year on food and rent with a 57k salary...and he's an accountant 🤯

@evanmcgough5210 3 жыл бұрын

2500 *12 is 30k... but still if you were to add up food, house, medical all in a month he’s in the hole every month without even any other bills..

@TuyetNguyen-pp2ew 3 жыл бұрын

He’s not a good accountant.

@patrickmeier357 3 жыл бұрын

@@evanmcgough5210 and you know they be spending a good amount of fun money too

@SeemsFutileNow 3 жыл бұрын

I smell an addiction of some kind

@ethan4048 3 жыл бұрын

@@evanmcgough5210 I said food/rent

@mle011 3 жыл бұрын

What on EARTH are they buying with $2500/month on food???? A private chef service? Good Lord.

@GoaltoGo 3 жыл бұрын

It appears that they're using Uber eats or doordash with every single meal.

@iceviking8280 3 жыл бұрын

Two private chefs.

@TuyetNguyen-pp2ew 3 жыл бұрын

Anti inflammatory diet does not cost that much!!!!

@viewsonichomie 3 жыл бұрын

@L Cam lol that was funny lol

@armandol1826 3 жыл бұрын

Clearly he's buying from Bristol Farms

@willelliott5052 3 жыл бұрын

You can afford to make irrational and costly decisions when someone else pays for it all. He would not be my accountant.

@donaldlyons17 3 жыл бұрын

Well even making rational and cheap decisions will only work if he almost always makes rational and cheap decisions. If you buy what you can not afford at any point someone or something will not be paid.

@daynapeterson9033 3 жыл бұрын

If you cannot afford yourselves, stop having kids! Common sense, people!

@sfappetrupavelandrei 3 жыл бұрын

Of course having kids is the problem. Stop having kids is the solution to any issue in the world.

@WampanoagNative 3 жыл бұрын

@@sfappetrupavelandrei LOL

@jesusalfrb 3 жыл бұрын

Just abort them I suppose right

@dababycar2899 3 жыл бұрын

@@jesusalfrb just have surgery to stop having kids buddy

@bobsacamano2948 3 жыл бұрын

I have no children. I have two full time jobs. I cannot afford an apartment.

@TeddxMusic 3 жыл бұрын

This dude is spending half his salary on groceries and wondering why he doesn’t have money.

@TeddxMusic 3 жыл бұрын

And 1,900 on rent each month. Jesus

@superblump87 3 жыл бұрын

@Dementia Joe their income is, however, unusually low for a big city in America

@sarahwaters8262 3 жыл бұрын

@Dementia Joe He acknowledged they were living in a nicer area than necessary though.

@allisonacton7268 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe they get food stamps, household of five with one income.

@sebastienc.2257 3 жыл бұрын

@@superblump87 not really. The median income in NYC is 50k+, mean is 74k+.

@patty109109 3 жыл бұрын

This guy’s grocery bill is hilarious. Also a large reason he is dependent on parents is because they are enabling. He has yet to leave the nest financially so has never taken true, deep ownership of his finances-which is why he’s struggling.

@twinny555 3 жыл бұрын

I agree, I have to admit I was the same in my 20s because I knew my parents would always bail me out. Then they got divorced and my dad moved north and it just wasn’t an option anymore. I never realised how much I relied on them until they divorced. I sorted myself out pretty quickly but it was a shock how much they supported me when I actually wrote it out on paper. I’m doing it differently with my own kids but it is hard to watch them go through it so I totally get why my parents did what they did.

@genxx2724 3 жыл бұрын

They’re not even his parents. He’s sponging off his in-laws! What a loser. Breeding and letting them pay for it. How exactly did he manage to climb into someone else’s nest? Oh - by demonstrating their little girl and grandchildren will have to struggle otherwise.

@jsixamore 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. There is always a trigger point. Mine was when I decided sleeping on my buddy’s apartment living room floor wasn’t quite the path I wanted.

@oliround 3 жыл бұрын

$2500/month is suspect

@viewsonichomie 3 жыл бұрын

Hella suspect.

@jjfragglerock5020 3 жыл бұрын

$1900 on rent is more than "a little rich" based on their take home as well.

@jjfragglerock5020 3 жыл бұрын

I understand, in that case Dave's bringing up the national household income was not helpful here.(other than trying to make the guy feel better) I live in Seattle (very comparable to SF atm) and the county household average is 95K. They need to move.

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

@@jjfragglerock5020 Somehow my comment was deleted. lol I guess San Francisco is a protected class. lol

@TuyetNguyen-pp2ew 3 жыл бұрын

So is the $2500 on food. Lol

@bobberry1463 3 жыл бұрын

That how much a 3 bedroom apartment is in Southern California

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

@@bobberry1463 That is not too bad. Just get two other roommates.

@moneybee 3 жыл бұрын

Medical issues are always frightening. $2500 a month for groceries is astronomical though. Hope he can figure it out!

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@TheLivedeath 3 жыл бұрын

This guy is ordering Kobe steaks and Maine lobsters shipped to door, every other day.

@allisonacton7268 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe they get food stamps, household of five with one income.

@genxx2724 3 жыл бұрын

@@allisonacton7268 I don’t think taxpayers should have to subsidize their choice to indulge in having three children. Especially taxpayers who made the responsible decision not to have children after considering the cost.

@arberdemiri 3 жыл бұрын

@@genxx2724 you are entitled to that opinion, however their children didn't have a say in being born.

@genxx2724 3 жыл бұрын

@@arberdemiri If you put out cat food, you get more cats.

@genxx2724 3 жыл бұрын

I do not understand having children you cannot afford.

@queen.kristal8395 3 жыл бұрын

He can afford it he just needs to cut his spending and choose somewhere cheaper to live

@genxx2724 3 жыл бұрын

@Dementia Joe Just a couple of losers. Have kids and let her parents subsidize. And he’s an accountant!

@kara2162 3 жыл бұрын

$625 a WEEK on groceries? What??? So nearly $100 a day? Are they including eating out every day or medications/supplements in that number? Makes no sense.

@patrickmeier357 3 жыл бұрын

i couldnt even eat that amount of food

@sarahwaters8262 3 жыл бұрын

Medical was separate

@ethan4048 3 жыл бұрын

30k a year for food? Does her diet consist of wagyu steak?

@rollingacresfarmstead206 3 жыл бұрын

Lucky!mmmmmmmmmmmmm😄

@YadraVoat 3 жыл бұрын

If it does, move to Japan and work on a farm!

@ayela562 3 жыл бұрын

So much of this doesn’t jive. These people just aren’t living in reality. And while I sympathize with the wife’s chronic pain, it’s doesn’t justify things like $2500 a month in groceries.

@JoeL-dp1ej 3 жыл бұрын

Plot twist, they weigh 500 lbs

@anniealexander9616 3 жыл бұрын

I'm 49 years old and I just told my son that I need my kids to be responsible! I need to focus on my retirement instead of doing for them! Parents should care for children but only if those grown kids are making the same sacrifice and that doesn't seem to be the case these days.

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

That is bad parenting. Your kids always come before you. You should have enough faith that they will help you in retirement by investing in them.

@YadraVoat 3 жыл бұрын

@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 There does not appear to be any Unicode troll-face character available at this time. 🤔

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

@@YadraVoat I am surprised her name is not Karen.

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

@@wordsalad01 Beats being in a retirement home if your kids can help you out, as close to self sufficiency as possible and off the taxpayer dime if you need more than SSI.

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

@daniel And if they somehow end up not listening to your lessons, the taxpayers have to pick it up? It should be a balance. If it can work communally, all for the better.

@DR.Detroit11 3 жыл бұрын

This might be my favorite video, none of it applies to me (currently). However, it shows me the level of insight and compassion Dave has. Love it.

@YadraVoat 3 жыл бұрын

He didn't manage to get to the actual question of: _What are the specific dietary requirements?_

@juju543soccer 3 жыл бұрын

If your spending 2500 on groceries they must be getting delivered. Find the extra time to pick them up yourself

@BagsNBaguettes_327 3 жыл бұрын

This is sad that you have to go to your older parents to help you. You and your wife need to start living in reality and cutting way back. What would you do if you didn’t have mommy and daddy? 🙄

@donaldlyons17 3 жыл бұрын

They don't have the best situation. But they may need to try and make more. He makes an average income but has above average bills in some areas.

@daynapeterson9033 3 жыл бұрын

Sadly, these types resort to govt assistance when the family well dries up. And we know WHO pays for that!

@yamamancha 3 жыл бұрын

Is she juicing using only organic vegetables and combining that with some form of keto? Consuming 3-4 liters of juice per day, which is probably 15-20lbs of organic vegetables, and 1-2 high quality keto meals. That's the only way I could imagine someone spending $80/day on food in addition to the normal grocery bill. You guys might need to start homesteading if she needs to eat her way back to health.

@deannatroy8113 3 жыл бұрын

I think they are better off driving into the country and buying food from farms for cheap

@YadraVoat 3 жыл бұрын

@@deannatroy8113 I'm very pleased to see this comment and the one to which it is a reply. That's what kept striking me throughout the video: They're spending so much money on this food that they might be able to start producing it for less, and sell the extra as they gain economies of scale (or at least buy directly from the sources).

@deannatroy8113 3 жыл бұрын

@@YadraVoat Fantastic idea!

@carylhalfwassen8555 3 жыл бұрын

@@YadraVoat This caller is not a problem solver. You offer a solution to which he would be blind.

@genxx2724 3 жыл бұрын

He thinks using CARES Act money is being independent. Unbelievable. And I don’t understand a woman with a scoliosis surgery problem and chronic pain further complicating life, health, and finances by having pregnancies.

@BrendanEvan 3 жыл бұрын

Oof that term he uses: dependent. They’ve got some tough circumstances for sure but I think his mindset over-complicates things.

@k.d.k1250 3 жыл бұрын

$2500/ month for food?!! What are they buying???!!!😲😲😲

@terryjanssen316 3 жыл бұрын

Liquor!

@Casinogirl56 3 жыл бұрын

Hummingbirds tongues and Romulan ale

@Gus_Chiggins 3 жыл бұрын

$2500 for food!?!? Good god man!!!!

@om617yota8 3 жыл бұрын

Guessing what he calls "groceries" is actually having Uber Eats deliver three meals a day.

@nocalsteve 3 жыл бұрын

Oh no, we don’t eat out at restaurants, they deliver to us.

@b_bogg 3 жыл бұрын

Thats name brand rice and beans for sure

@emilyfpacini 3 жыл бұрын

I have multiple sclerosis and am on a strict diet. I buy all organic and mostly produce. I never spend over $800 with a husband and two boys. In fact, it's usually $650 pre-pandemic. $2500 is INSANE.

@aliceb4070 3 жыл бұрын

What kind of food are they buying that costs $2500 a month? Wonder if that's just for her food or does the rest of the family eat what she eats? Between the crazy high food budget and the crazy high rent, they're spending almost every penny of the money he makes on just those two line items. Holy moly.

@queen.kristal8395 3 жыл бұрын

Said the same thing rent too high for $57k a year and a family who wife doesn’t work.I’ll move back with parents or move to somewhere a lot cheaper

@MikeIsCannonFodder 3 жыл бұрын

Are they buying one of those meal subscription things? Most of them can target certain diet types. But even that seems not enough to get to $2500 in groceries.

@user-qh1dt4nv4j 3 жыл бұрын

@kinocodner4307 3 жыл бұрын

@@user-qh1dt4nv4j goob

@UsernamesSuckHere 3 жыл бұрын

2500 per month in food??? That’s $83 per day!!! Jesus

@blackworldtraveler3711 3 жыл бұрын

Really baffled over the groceries. I’m organic,fresh,imported, and even have a chef on occasion. Have a high food budget sparing no expense It would take me 18 months to get to that amount and less when my girlfriend is here.

@TuyetNguyen-pp2ew 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe extremely large quantities of the best foods

@strawberrywishes33 Ай бұрын

I am severely gluten intolerant AND I’m on an anti inflammatory diet… my husband and I also have four kids… our food bill isn’t even close to $2500 and it’s 3 years after this was aired so inflation plays a part in this as well. This dude is off his rocker!!! Lol

@hammerboycb 3 жыл бұрын

Beans and rice. Problem solved.

@livingunashamed4869 3 жыл бұрын

$2500 would buy me food for 2yrs! They can eat healthy and good for half that, I can't see how the food racks up that high. Plus they need to find cheaper rent, ridiculous on that salary.

@stevenporter863 3 жыл бұрын

$2,500/month on food? Something is mixed in with food budget. Food prices are high but I couldn't do that eating 24/7 non-stop. 😀

@SeanBaker 3 жыл бұрын

Stop making children

@deannatroy8113 3 жыл бұрын

I wonder if his wife is in charge of the money spent on groceries... if so I don't believe all the money IS spent on groceries...

@yarrdayarrdayarrda 3 жыл бұрын

There is way too many prefab meals here, I forsee a lot of, "I just can't cook today, I hurt too much" excuses being used.

@reptar8995 3 жыл бұрын

Your show help me to improve my English, thank you!! :D

@thedaredevil1907 3 жыл бұрын

Best ever show to watch to learn English....good job sir keep it up you got it

@mroberts566 3 жыл бұрын

Good for you. Dave speaks very clearly and the content is helpful, so this is a great place to learn/improve your English. Good luck.

@cchat6262 3 жыл бұрын

I can’t even imagine spending $2500 on groceries. What are they eating?!!

@gabriellejones6451 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe he meant 250?? I still don’t get it

@CaseyMiddlecoff 3 жыл бұрын

They are eating out. Guarantee they are eating out and he's justifying it by saying, "It's the food bill."

@TuyetNguyen-pp2ew 3 жыл бұрын

What is he talking about? He’s all over the place. A lot of excuses.

@WampanoagNative 3 жыл бұрын

Something is off with this guy.

@bdjonter6122 3 жыл бұрын

She's probably buying all her "food" from MLM's

@adamlightfoot5897 3 жыл бұрын

Hope not geez what a disaster That would be

@OutsideTheQuad 3 жыл бұрын

Bro y'all parents really be helping out your kids omg fam I wish I could run to my parents for money ...... folks be blessed

@dalewoodall6889 3 жыл бұрын

The finer details are that his wife is 500 lbs and only eats organic.

@M2161 3 жыл бұрын

He never said shes 500lbs… her medical bills per month is 500 dollars

@shola7987 3 жыл бұрын

@@M2161 it was a joke

@JorgeRamirezFinance 3 жыл бұрын

I’m wondering if he’s using “groceries” for anything bought in the grocery store. Target or Walmart receipts can add up quickly if you are throwing in extra stuff every week that isn’t just groceries.

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

Aldi and Costco.

@YadraVoat 3 жыл бұрын

@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 I agree with Aldi for sure, but Costco prices (per unit) do not impress me.

@dete503 3 жыл бұрын

$2500 of groceries a month? I don't buy it. They must be eating out lunch/dinner and having their other "groceries" delivered.

@MSH3423 3 жыл бұрын

Hey, if they go to whole foods….. $500 is not that much and its what you buy at the store. If you buy stuff in a box it will build up fast. I try not go into lanes. I stay on the parameters… I goto Asian grocery stores for produce. They have too ripe to ship produce in California. Less than perfect apples. I generally spend $100 per week for two people. $5200 is food bill for two.

@evelyndaisy9722 3 жыл бұрын

Sad. He’s draining his parents funds instead of being responsible with his. $2500 on food must be take out food daily . Unreal.

@Believer1995ofGod 3 жыл бұрын

2500 a month for food 🤯

@SeanBaker 3 жыл бұрын

Such an insane amount

@Believer1995ofGod 3 жыл бұрын

@@SeanBaker ikr. Its time he became a part time home chef too 🤷‍♂️

@justinbrown6922 3 жыл бұрын

Beans and rice

@tanpham7411 3 жыл бұрын

I thought our family overspent too much on our groceries until this call. Holy macaroni!

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

Probably buying "holy macaroni".

@todd2456 3 жыл бұрын

Almost $100 per day on food at the grocery store????

@tacooflove6175 3 жыл бұрын

And here I feel horrible about my bill jumping to $600 a month 😱

@BetYouHateMeNow 3 жыл бұрын

as an accountant he should be able to get much more even if just an additional 5-20k. also taxes is a big thing for accountants you can charge around lawyer fees for 30-90 mins depending on complexity and whether sing or for a whole family ,ect.

@enunya 3 жыл бұрын

Grocery bill of $2500 a month?! Did they hire a chef to cook it too??

@breevestal 7 ай бұрын

My daughter is on a very restricted diet and it costs us $900 a month for 4 people. They are out of control.

@mollysmom-bf1yi 10 ай бұрын

Why have three kids in quick succession when you don’t have an established career or a contributing partner? These ppl create their own problems..

@ceceliamendez9907 3 жыл бұрын

I want to hear the details on this diet!!

@viewsonichomie 3 жыл бұрын

*I’ve been coming back every couple hours to read the comments*

@Deezle_Gaming 3 жыл бұрын

Wife with medical bills, can't support themselves and keep having children. Not to mention the insane food budget.

@Rishabh-Dev-N3 3 жыл бұрын

Accepting money and Being fully dependent is two different things.

@nabeelahussain4851 3 жыл бұрын

Some thing wrong with this person.Instead of helping parents he is milking them.I do have the same story of my daughter.2500$ only on food,what type of food the eat? If you have no money for medical why you just apply for charity

@CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 жыл бұрын

These guys just need a more focused plan and a bigger shovel.

@blackworldtraveler3711 3 жыл бұрын

They must be eating with that shovel.

@multistack1502 3 жыл бұрын

Annnnnnnd the spammer is back

@donaldlyons17 3 жыл бұрын

Same thing I thought a higher income or additional net income would really he3lp him but I don't know what is possible on his career path. So many careers and many people can't get better pay.

@appleforever6664 3 жыл бұрын

SPAMMER

@appleforever6664 3 жыл бұрын

@@multistack1502 - SPAMMER WONT GO AWAY!

@drunkrussianisgood 3 жыл бұрын

How do you spend $2500 a month on groceries? I wish Dave prodded more on that because something is missing...

@YadraVoat 3 жыл бұрын

Another commenter speculated that the whole family is eating the medical-grade food. That was the first guess I've seen which made any sense to me in a way that intuitively fit with the personality audible in the phone call.

@user-qh1dt4nv4j 3 жыл бұрын

@alex182618 3 жыл бұрын

2500 a month for food, speaking of family of five, is nothing special. 500 a month per person, that is how much it is. What is so surprising?

@GARNET-DAGGER-FF9 3 жыл бұрын

No wonder he needs help from his parents. I would too if I spend $2500 a month on groceries too.

@deannatroy8113 3 жыл бұрын

As a student I lived on $173/month AUD dollars, just buying mostly fruit, veg and nuts. That was an extremely healthy diet and I was able to do so very cheaply.

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

But how can you live on that? Sometimes you have to enjoy yourself. You only have one life.

@araineacutebrownnurse7315 3 жыл бұрын

Did he say $2500 on food. Not on tube feeding not on TPN but food ?!? That’s ridiculous.

@TheAgiovannym 3 жыл бұрын

This was so valuable!! Thank you

@rachelgooden9981 3 жыл бұрын

So sad what he’s going through 😞

@kelligreer3975 3 жыл бұрын

Something does not add up. My husband is disabled and chronic health issues and I worked and supported my family with zero outside help.

@Dillon-Smith-Email-Marketing 3 жыл бұрын

This is so hard. Hope these people can get some traction.

@bobslenker27 3 жыл бұрын

Duh. Absolutely. I wish my folks had money to give me. I love the titles of some of these videos. My family gave me $100k and I just don’t know what to do with it. F those A-holes!!!!!

@user-qh1dt4nv4j 3 жыл бұрын

@radtash 3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@MattyVice 3 жыл бұрын

My cousin got a scoliosis surgery too. Luckily it was successful but its no joke

@nataliepope3286 3 жыл бұрын

If she has chronic inflammation she needs to be drinking fresh grated turmeric and ginger tea on a daily basis. That doesn’t cost much at all.... Sometimes the simplest things help the body not all these expensive organic food that ppl like to recommend.

@blackworldtraveler3711 3 жыл бұрын

Indeed. Drink it always and a simple pleasure. Making some right now. That inflammation is a flashing red light and pharmaceuticals just makes it worse. Maybe some minor fasting for autophagy and cleanse. No processed food. Exercise. Better foods like spermidine and natural probiotics for gut health as well among other things.

@sooner1125 3 жыл бұрын

We spend $1500 a month on food and half of that is fast food/take out. What on earth is $2500 getting that isn’t from a restaurant? Supplements? Is the whole family eating her special diet? $57k seems low for an accountant. So many more questions

@jessicamanteria1633 3 жыл бұрын

What are they getting every single meal from those companies that prepare it and ship it???

@1timothydillon 3 жыл бұрын

It wouldn't surprise me if they are getting food deliveries, thinking she has to have, x, y, and z specialty foods, but then the whole family eats what should only be for his wife.

@YadraVoat 3 жыл бұрын

That's a very insightful speculation - I'd been combing the comment section for hypotheses as to what's going on with this situation - and your suggestion that perhaps the whole family is eating the medical-grade food, might just be the answer I was looking for. 💯

@1timothydillon 3 жыл бұрын

@@YadraVoat Yawn

@indio2479 3 жыл бұрын

Somebody is buying $12 coffee, toasted avocado toast and organic vegetable lobster tail from an overpriced outdoor hipster cafe every single day

@skip123davis 3 жыл бұрын

this man has a disabled wife. $2500/mo doesn't even add up. she's a princess and needs to be held in check. we can do some of that, but not all.

@user-qh1dt4nv4j 3 жыл бұрын

@vashtibascombe701 3 жыл бұрын

I have chronic back pain but I’m sure is not the level of hers, therefore I am not minimizing her pain. I make more money than that but don’t feel that I can afford endless physical therapy and chiropractic services. I learned the exercise and stretches and purchased exercise balls treadmill etc, they will give you pictures. I get my husband to massage my back when he can. You have to work your medical and dietary things within your budget. If you can’t afford all organic vegetables then just by regular vegetables, lean meat, no processed food. Sugar is the biggest substance that causes inflammation so keeping that to a minimum is helpful. I’m not being judgmental just offering some suggestions if the caller is listening. I live in Raleigh as well, by the way.

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

"I get my husband to massage my back when he can." I hope it is not through extortion. You have the problems! Be accountable.

@cg741graf5 3 жыл бұрын

That’s insane on groceries! Stop the nonesense. 1/2 of that is still a big bill. She has chronic conditions debilitating her life and put her body through another pregnancy? Who’s her Dr. supporting that.

@lauvasquez7198 3 жыл бұрын

The call before this was also Raleigh NC asking the same thing basically.

@justfine77777 3 жыл бұрын

This guy and his wife are some serious fruits. There are so many problems, that it’s not even funny. Your wife has a loan, and you don’t know the amount? Your cars were both gifts? Get it together!

@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 жыл бұрын

The wife should be paying off her loan. He does not need to know that.

@ladybirdlee3058 3 жыл бұрын

I wish my parents were alive and gave me money. I never got a dime from them or inheritance. Some people are so lucky.

@tjbalistic 3 жыл бұрын

Are they though? It has prevented them from making the truly difficult decisions in life.

@agr-tech 3 жыл бұрын

same boat as you, never saw a dime. However, I learned an important lesson; what not to do financially. This stops with me though. My kids will have an inheritance. although, I refuse to enable them like this family.

@terryjanssen316 3 жыл бұрын

@@agr-tech Money from parents is like starving the sickly dog. Not giving money to kids is like feeding the sickly dog good food.

@agr-tech 3 жыл бұрын

@@terryjanssen316 ???

@terryjanssen316 3 жыл бұрын

@@agr-tech It is an analogy. The kid who is strong and going to be a success is given nothing. The kid who is weak is given money, cars, etc. which makes them weaker. It is only when a person has his back to the wall that they become great.

@janetcross2797 3 жыл бұрын

You got this

@donhill1825 3 жыл бұрын

I have to know the nature of that food bill. What could they possibly be purchasing?

@ashleyjones5396 3 жыл бұрын

This is pretty ridiculous! The parents need to stop enabling this nonsense!

@tristanrodenhauser5267 3 жыл бұрын

Can’t write groceries off on taxes

@ugabuga1361 3 жыл бұрын

Cbd will help this lady. Not an expensive diet.

@elchapojr6219 3 жыл бұрын

Food $2,500????

@AntAnt 3 жыл бұрын

he spends his entire salary on groceries and rent holy cow

@meganjackson4967 3 жыл бұрын

A frenectomy is not 600. You have been way overcharged. I would negotiate that down to less than 200.

@domjohnson2579 3 жыл бұрын

What a great question: What's your problem? Can't afford supporting yourself? Let's have some kids to bring into this misery! A newborn for one! Hey wife you have a chronic health condition let's have another kid! OK! $2500 per month on food? Where do you get your food from space??? Once these people choose to have kids during a crisis, I'm done with the sympathy.

@scarletj.salazar6706 3 жыл бұрын

They may be Shoping at the Whole Foods store

@derrickhyman872 3 жыл бұрын

He didn’t specify his wife’s dietary issues. But, if this guy ends up looking though these comments I’d like him to look into home growing “Micro Greens!” You can do it from any home. There are small countertop grow lights, and information on KZfaq. They are nutrient dense, they are reasonably priced, and they are tasty, or you can blend them into something if you don’t like the flavor. It’s really God’s magic pill! Seed nutrients without eating the seed!