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@DCARA06 9 жыл бұрын
The way Dave handled this call was very admirable!
@faithlovefamily 9 жыл бұрын
I agree
@mimi8352 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed , he was very kind.
@grahamfloyd3451 4 жыл бұрын
This is where Dave's brilliance really shines. He cuts through the BS, realizes the mental health aspect, and gently recommends an achievable path forward. Thanks Dave, you deserve to be doing well.
@AG-so4gl 2 жыл бұрын
Eh. His go to is, go speak to your pastor, puzzling tbh
@Vera-dg3hf 4 жыл бұрын
"don't buy stuff with someone you're not married to"
@joecoolioness6399 4 жыл бұрын
Truer words were never spoken.
@KS-cl8br 2 жыл бұрын
That's isn't a hard rule. He can have left a will or beneficiary saying his possession go to her. If married she would still have to pay those debts.
@angeleyes3319 6 жыл бұрын
I never heard of someone calling suicide as "letting himself out"
@valenteleanos4774 5 жыл бұрын
Yea, I didnt even know what she meant by saying that. I thought she said he bled himself out
@ms.k7449 5 жыл бұрын
He didn't want to marry her Jk
@soundsofnature8225 5 жыл бұрын
Dee Cee really? Let people be, she went through it, she saw it... your on KZfaq listening and judging... let me see how you heal if your so politically profound in words and actions.
@Extended_clipsYT 5 жыл бұрын
all you are so judgemental saying the words killed himself could maybe hurt her too much, maybe its an easier way for her to talk about it all you people judge when you have never went through anything like that
@normabarros3124 5 жыл бұрын
Okay that's what that meant....thank you for this clarification
@camman6912 6 жыл бұрын
I love this guy He not only gives great financial advice but he’s also so compassionate
@elianah8803 2 жыл бұрын
If she’s speaking like this during an interview, she’s unemployable. Please stop, don’t move, don’t do anything but get help. Reach out to someone in your family and get help. Do that before anything else. 🙏🏼
@mistercarroll2474 2 жыл бұрын
This video is six years old.
@gayled3059 2 жыл бұрын
@@mistercarroll2474 And so???
@mistercarroll2474 2 жыл бұрын
@@gayled3059 pretty sure she got help and moved on with her life is the point.
@avaz5490 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, Elianah. It sounds like she was going through trauma (understandably) and having paranoid delusions (symptom of trauma). I hope she was able to see a mental health counselor.
@sharontolbert1112 4 жыл бұрын
I am always so touched by how kind Dave Ramsey always is! God bless him.
@noooddle 4 жыл бұрын
I have mixed feelings about this call. On one hand, Dave did the right thing and guide her toward the start of mental help. On the other hand, the entertainment value is that she's nuts.
@David-ot9tr 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I think Dave is preachy, judgemental, and harsh but his compassionate side really comes through with this caller.
@EllieofAzeroth 4 жыл бұрын
His confused face was my face this whole call
@bigroy38 5 жыл бұрын
Dave’s face when she says cook the books.
@reniehandler2595 4 жыл бұрын
Well, they probably are with that security guard there.
@hyphens 9 жыл бұрын
I LOL'ed when she made the great leap of faith saying that they have a security guard because they "cooking the books". Does she even know what cooking the books mean!?
@treelover1050 2 жыл бұрын
@Elliot Rodger LOL. I LOVE YOUR HUMOR. THEN THEY FLAVORED THE BOOKS WITH ONIONS.
@nataliyak9555 6 жыл бұрын
Do not ever rely on other person for your financial support! Have your own career and make your own money. Never cosign for anything for anybody!
@lonniereynolds7895 5 жыл бұрын
Amen to that!!
@consbulaquena9497 5 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@atdepaulis 9 жыл бұрын
she for sure needs some therapy... i could not imagine seeing someone commit suicide
@abdulghaniabdulkarim7251 9 жыл бұрын
She's fine but it's money-money issue
@Simon-oy7kf 4 жыл бұрын
Why do all you millennials think everyone needs therapy? Most people can deal with their own problems
@katie8325 4 жыл бұрын
Simon48 based on what?
@bentoomet8805 4 жыл бұрын
Simon48 Most people can. Most people also don’t see their fiancé kill themselves in front of them.
@tessaburnett5084 3 жыл бұрын
Simon48 most people could benefit from seeing a therapist/ attending counseling. Just because you don’t think it would be helpful to you (although it probably still would be), doesn’t mean many others wouldn’t benefit. Besides the fact this woman saw her FIANCÉ commit SUICIDE and most likely needs the help of a professional to unpack that.
@jalv509 9 жыл бұрын
I feel for her. I found my roommate and good friend the day after he offed himself. It's been almost 5 years and it still haunts me. I can't imagine being there when it happened.
@janebaker4912 7 жыл бұрын
I found someone too the day after. You can't be the same after that.
@Mike-ew3gw 6 жыл бұрын
Same here. I feel for her and I can understand how you have a hard time thinking clearly for a while...
@victoriaheindel1143 6 жыл бұрын
J Happened to a friend of mine in 2008. Her husband shot himself in front of her -- he suffered severe depression. Just awful.
@michellekaiser5907 6 жыл бұрын
I had a roommate get severely depressed and I sat her down and told her I could NOT handle finding her if she did something. Turns out she knew somebody else that was traumatically found and she wouldn't do that. So glad her life got better. I feel like checking on her now, just because of these stories.
@sbrazenor2 6 жыл бұрын
I knew a guy who jumped off a small bridge with a cinderblock tied to himself. It took almost two months for him to wash up in a neighboring town. That wasn't a great way to go out.
@singingallalone 5 жыл бұрын
Well said Dave. Poor lady.
@chowfun6526 5 жыл бұрын
Dave is really smart. Listen up and learn a lot. No one teaches this stuff like Dave!
@joslinnick 7 жыл бұрын
"Why does this credit union in particular always have a security guard on duty?...I've never seen credit unions do that." Are you serious, lady?
@jet4415 5 жыл бұрын
Nick Joslin And those guards on duty shows why they are "cookin' tha books".
@victorvodka 5 жыл бұрын
that was when dave ramsey knew there was no way this woman would be able to land a job. notice he didn't tell her she needed to be delivering pizzas
@l-train7876 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen a security guard at every bank/credit union I’ve ever walked into.
@hzuiel 4 жыл бұрын
@@l-train7876 The area i live in, few if any of the banks have security guards on duty, but if you drive 30-45 minutes away there are some. Maybe she just hasn't seen that before and think it's odd when it is pretty normal depending on the area, what bank it is, and what volume of money that particular bank handles in cash.
@babak4952 2 жыл бұрын
@@l-train7876same
@funfamilyfiveplusjax4452 5 жыл бұрын
This woman ..... doesn’t quite understand how things work
@TotyVale 5 жыл бұрын
UnspecificallySarah she has ptsd is what’s wrong with her
@mopar21 5 жыл бұрын
@@TotyVale PTSD is not an excuse for stupidity.
@butterfly-pf8lj 5 жыл бұрын
Don't tread on me yes it is. Insensitive person
@OurFamilyofFour 9 жыл бұрын
That is horrible. God bless that sweet lady. I hope things turn around for her now.
@robertbell525 3 жыл бұрын
Very clear example of why we don't combine any finances until we are fully married. If she was married she would qualify for SS survivor benefits, there may have been insurance policies, any assets would simply transfer to her. And owing $23K on a car with no income, that's not going to turn out well.
@dianeteppert8534 3 жыл бұрын
People have assumed that because I have a boyfriend that he was going to co-sign and live with me when I bought my house and car. I said no I'm not living with anyone I'm not married to. I'm kinda old-fashioned. He's super supportive but not my meal ticket.
@AisforAlibi1 5 жыл бұрын
I took nothing for granted financially until the very second my husband said "I do". We didn't co-mingle funds until AFTER the wedding was over. I will never understand these people who live together and share the money prior to marriage.
@carultch 5 жыл бұрын
Why does marriage make it any better to take on to debt together?
@DavidIstre 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad Dave Ramsey was kind to this lady and gave her a compassionate response. Unfortunately, there are so many people today who are exposing themselves to this kind of risk by signing loans together before they are legally married. Even if one is engaged, it is a bad idea to start combining like this for so many reasons. Don't combine until marriage occurs!
@thecommentmonster 5 жыл бұрын
Dave always has his priorities right when someone calls in crisis
@jblack4735 8 жыл бұрын
Okay this woman sounds craaaazzzyyyy. I'm pretty sure the credit union has bigger fish to fry than a 700 dollar debt. lol
@The2005rwb 8 жыл бұрын
+J Black The Illuminati is after her...
@jblack4735 8 жыл бұрын
+The2005rwb I completely agree.
@tkdcow9911 8 жыл бұрын
Fish to fry? They don't fry fish in credit unions. And 700 dollar is a lot for credit unions, being that they are very small. My cousin once had a one cent debt, and they took him to court. Those credit unions are desperate.
@StupidBadyXD 7 жыл бұрын
Her fiance die 3 months back, she's probably in the stage of grief where she blame everyone.
@kennywesley 7 жыл бұрын
TKD COW "to have bigger fish to fry" is an expression meaning one has something more important to tend to.
@frankiesmom8478 4 жыл бұрын
She sounds paranoid. How can a security guard at the bank = cooking the books
@BernardBrunu1 4 жыл бұрын
She sounds stressed.
@heyhey11793 4 жыл бұрын
What does cooking the books mean?
@hollyb6885 2 жыл бұрын
I’m betting she believes a lot of conspiracy theories she sees on line. Those will make you paranoid and crazy.
@joelmil1861 8 жыл бұрын
Are you participating in a church? = Are you seeing a psychologist?
@JustinTheJT 5 жыл бұрын
I mean if she seen her fiance off himself. That would make anyone a little distressed.
@barcode628 5 жыл бұрын
Grant Goldberg She saw her fiance commit suicide, she might still be traumatized, she can't find a job, she is overwhelmed with the debt... Any human being would reach breaking point under those circumstances... I hope you're a troll, otherwise you're just heartless and soulless.
@cooliipie 5 жыл бұрын
If you find a good church it's basically the same yeah
@dinkyboss 5 жыл бұрын
NPC 01001011 it is definitely NOT the same.
@BernardBrunu1 4 жыл бұрын
Visit a psychologist so he could increase her dept?
@joeymckinney 2 жыл бұрын
She said some really sketchy things. I’m wondering if she is just under a lot of stress or if something else is going on
@ccsmith2937 5 жыл бұрын
I agree don’t buy stuff together until you are married, especially cars & houses. 🤔
@caroleehubbard8380 5 жыл бұрын
Cc Smith I would go further...keep finances separate ..even after the wedding. Maybe the house only..put both names...but everything else...separate!
@shannon2748 4 жыл бұрын
@@caroleehubbard8380 I agree...you just never know.
@shannon2748 4 жыл бұрын
Also...never co-sign for anyone...never.
@nathanvenesky1118 4 жыл бұрын
She sounds really really good for someone who just went through this. I'd be comatose.
@willgates9381 6 жыл бұрын
She is going crazy... Somebody has to sit down and talk to her
@BigRed2 6 жыл бұрын
WILL GATES Didn’t you hear that the Bank has a security card and they are cooking the books are her $700 debt 😂
@Purplexity-ww8nb 4 жыл бұрын
This lady is going off the deep end. Blessings to her.
@mcmic1212 5 жыл бұрын
Great advice, Dave! I can imagine her brain is going through so much stress! I feel for her and pray for her.
@wheel-man5319 5 жыл бұрын
Every bank, especially one in Tuscon has a security guard!
@angelamylife661 5 жыл бұрын
Valerie my heart goes out to you. Please get some grief support. Grief is a struggle and makes everything so crazy and lashing out when you don't even know what is going on. Praying that you get some support and help.
@jaiparashuram8682 4 жыл бұрын
Poor girl... I hope she finds her way in life
@amandawalker1196 5 жыл бұрын
You can’t study OSHA.
@klinzons 3 жыл бұрын
What is osha?
@amandawalker1196 3 жыл бұрын
@@klinzons Occupational safety and health administration. It’s an act that was passed back in the 70’s by Nixon that, in a nutshell, is what keeps you safe on the job or keeps companies from doing unsafe things. You can get a degree that emphasizes occupational safety and health or become OSHA certified, but OSHA in and of itself is not a field of study.
@DoctorSmartyPants 2 жыл бұрын
Caller is whacko.
@samjordan8800 2 жыл бұрын
@Amanda Walker She mentioned her study was mainly in the Fire Sciences. That sounds interesting! Especially when you consider she may end up being an employment environment arson investigator upon graduation.
@excelrange4246 4 жыл бұрын
I feel for this lady. I sincerely hope she finds the help she needs.
@CJ2023Incognito 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice, Dave! I hope she takes it
@DanielByrns 5 жыл бұрын
It is never easy seeing anyone or anything pass in front of you. You try and comfort them as best you can and love them as long as you can.
@passyk9968 4 жыл бұрын
Very kind advice.
@jessicaevens9679 8 жыл бұрын
She's in need of mental evaluation!
@mookixox 7 жыл бұрын
Lock her up and throw away the key before the next poor soul mysteriously (lets himself out) before the Wedding day...YIKES
@JAB2010 5 жыл бұрын
Jessica Evens Nope. People go through angry moments as part of grieving-that’s all it was.
@coffeecake8835 4 жыл бұрын
At the very minimum, she is really suffering... this behavior is not abnormal at all. I feel for her. 😢
@Simon-oy7kf 4 жыл бұрын
No
@dreamcastuk1236 4 ай бұрын
Love how Dave uses hes gift to help people when they really need it. And then he goes even further for calls like this poor lady ❤❤❤
@im_cart8656 4 жыл бұрын
thats soul crushing. it had taken me 10 years to finally prioritize and attempt to solve my chemical imbalances and now my life revolves around my quality of life and mental wellbeing which took me from being suicidal and being a complete loaner (literally 0 friends and rarely spoke to family as I was embarrassed of who i was relative to what was expected of me) to be financially independent a healthy social life and living a good and healthy life and becoming in a bit of an unorthodox fashion someone i could be proud of.
@rockintherae 4 жыл бұрын
"Cooking the books" 🤨
@tamekad-b1014 5 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for even saying this since I know people who have died from suicide but she does not make any sense. The whole phone call made it sound like she killed her fiance. She is blaming everyone and said she needed a car to leave Tuscon. It's just a mess. I know she is probably still effected by her fiance's death but she needs to seek out a professional to talk about what happened and possibly be medicated.
@Presmelb 5 жыл бұрын
Ramsey is GREAT
@plsspayorneuter 5 жыл бұрын
Poor soul. She's going through the stages of grief. I hope she's doing better now.
@k.b.9716 5 жыл бұрын
So true. Thanks!
@seaweedgreen4604 2 жыл бұрын
You gave great advice
@llyg4848 5 жыл бұрын
Somethings off about this call...
@tpaairman 5 жыл бұрын
If she's paranoid because the credit union has a security guard, I think Dave maybe needed to ask why kind of church she's going to. There's something just a bit off center with her.
@twinny555 4 жыл бұрын
I feel for her. I wonder where she is and what she’s doing now 😢
@vivianablast3980 2 жыл бұрын
This was such a human approach. I love this. I know you are a money person but you realized she has been going through a lot of trauma and she needs some help to get her mental health addressed. Good job!
@rosterthao 7 жыл бұрын
There's temporary work agencies that can help provide you with jobs in a field that you are trained in. You just have to look in places outside of what you're looking at. Don't live in a little bubble and think that's all there is to offer. Also, credit unions ARE BANKS. So they're going to have security guards.
@candyluna2929 8 жыл бұрын
what does the security guard have to do with her debts?????which isn't even much btw
@TotyVale 5 жыл бұрын
La Dama del Caribe she has ptsd
@normabarros3124 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@zeynand4039 4 жыл бұрын
It's paranoia. It's when you think everything js out there looking at you, llooking for you, it's when you live in fear and you are traumatized, paranoia looks like there. She notices the security guard now but she didn't before. Your attention to detail changed. Its jjst being ceazy which is dangerous becauze you'll make more terrible financial decisions
@chrisconsorte7893 2 жыл бұрын
My condolences to you Valerie.
@ashleelalasmith2792 4 жыл бұрын
Who has joint accounts and are not married legally? I don’t understand this. Me and my husband don’t even have joint stuff.
@IceWhiteice22 5 жыл бұрын
She’s not telling the truth and why she does not have a job. That’s crazy. If you are not married you don’t need to get money involvement together.
@kzimmerman2211 4 жыл бұрын
@@zibzo7180 Hopefully getting a job became easier once she had more time to grieve and get help processing the trauma of what she went through. She was giving off some serious "I'm not okay" vibes that she probably wasn't even aware of. I hope she's doing better now.
@Apollyon-sz9sn 4 жыл бұрын
She pushed her bloke into suicide imo.
@janroach1852 4 жыл бұрын
This fiance killed himself in front of her? Absolutely right about the car. And don't co-sign before marriage. I hope a counselor can help her get over the trauma.
@magicpony9 5 жыл бұрын
First red flag: she gave up her phone number and kept his(??). Dave was really sweet with this woman, who obviously...is going through a lot of challenges (by which I mean her thinking is a tad crazy) right now. Hope she can find some peace and help. Horrible thing to go through.
@shaezawnbarker4973 4 жыл бұрын
If he ended it right in front of her, she did something reeeeally bad to cause it. He was sending a message.
@pollodormido2 5 жыл бұрын
If she were living here in Georgia I would help her by going with her to the Credit Union so she doesn't get ripped off and find her a job.
@lockedandloadedsigns4424 4 жыл бұрын
I look forward to the Court TV show featuring how this really went down!
@LinzyLinz7 3 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to use the statement "That paranoid statement is out of control." on my mother Lol
@nunyabiznis817 6 жыл бұрын
None of a deceased fiancé's debts are in your name, you owe nothing on them. A fiancé is not a spouse or any other legal title. "Fiancé" means nothing, legally speaking. Putting a fiancé's debts in your name while they're alive is dumb, but putting their debt in your name AFTER their death is an action that will surely win person a Darwin Award.
@arleneaugustahair8393 5 жыл бұрын
Nunya Biznis she co-signed for the Debt when he was alive so it automatically became her debt when he died.
@stephanieharries7746 Жыл бұрын
😢 the fact that he did it in front of her is just
@kc836 4 жыл бұрын
That's my point, I agree with Dave. DO NOT go into debt until you're married plain and simple. Hope she gets the help she needs to get back on her feet.
@mmmmmvodka 5 жыл бұрын
Her story doesn't sound right. She may be delusional and is probably making it up but believe it's real.
@ChristoherWGray 5 жыл бұрын
What are you studying? OSHA with a concentration in fire science Dave says Huh? Say again?
@christianmcnally4323 4 жыл бұрын
I literally read this the millisecond they said it 😂
@IceColdProfessional 2 жыл бұрын
First of all, Dave's brilliance was on full display with this call. Second, I'm guessing her fiancé "let himself out" by a handgun since that's the way most men choose. Third, his timing and her paranoia suggest people are blaming her for his demise.
@jeepneygang 5 жыл бұрын
I want to look into this case.
@rvarnum 4 жыл бұрын
Poor Dave. Crazy woman.
@minnesotajames1 4 жыл бұрын
Dave has way too much faith that a pastor can handle situations like this.
@GaelinW 2 жыл бұрын
He was being polite. Saying see a pastor is nicer than you need a shrink. He said sit down and talk to someone. So a pastor is a start.
@diannamc367 2 жыл бұрын
A pastor may also be able to direct her to someone in the area who can help her.
@darksydesamy 2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully a pastor will recommend someone like this to go get professional psychological help. This isn’t like a marriage problem that a pastor may be useful for. This is a deep depression and ptsd event.
@tbofamily8509 9 жыл бұрын
I don't think the lesson here is to not combine finances before marriage, the bigger focus should be suicide awareness. Even the happiest of people can't be depressed behind closed doors, and the symptoms should never be ignored. Such a sad situation and it sounds like it hasn't even hit her yet.
@candyluna2929 8 жыл бұрын
yeah bc that's Dave specialty
@steve03260 2 жыл бұрын
Beginning to see why this guy checked out .... this woman has more red flags then a Chinese parade. Everything is someone else's fault and everyone is out to get her. Hopefully, she didn't latch on to some other poor sucker that she met at a bar.
@kelleykalomiris1256 5 жыл бұрын
She's pink clouding right now. She's not fine. I hope she saw a professional.
@christianmcnally4323 4 жыл бұрын
So sorry for this poor woman 😢. I hope she contacts a good therapist, I know it's done me a lot of good.
@maureenhargrave3568 22 күн бұрын
My credit union has always had a security guard for years.
@QueenStylin 4 жыл бұрын
I hope she is better now. Poor lady.
@corinnemcwilliams3954 4 жыл бұрын
Where are her family or friends? She needs to be staying with someone. What a sad situation. And did her fiance have NOTHING to leave her? No retirement, no savings, no life insurance through work? Just because they weren't married doesn't mean she couldn't have been listed as beneficiary.. What about his TVs or computers or anything she could use to sell?
@kca741979 9 жыл бұрын
Like Dave said, she needs healing from the situation. However, from purely a financial perspective, couldn't she get rid of the credit card pretty easily? I'm going to suggest something that smacks of robbing Peter to pay Paul, but why not do an additional 3K in student loans, but use it to pay off the $700 credit card and then get a used vehicle for around $2500. She'd then turn around and sell the expensive car, assuming she's not crazy upside down. Then, as Dave said, spend a year or so waiting tables, etc that pays off the now 10K in student loans and gets her additional money for school.
@sarasuperid 5 жыл бұрын
Student loans are the most dangerous kinds of debt because they are not forgiven in bankruptcy. Of course avoid bankruptcy if at all possible, but even Dave had to file. If you are going to take student loans, which you should not, take as little as possible to stay in school, use scholarships, work study, a job, and living at home or with roomates packed in like sardines to get through and then get to work and pay them off fast, if you are lucky in the 6 month grace period before the interest starts accruing.
@Ramsez 5 жыл бұрын
Osha? With a concentration in fire science?
@aromavaginal60 5 жыл бұрын
R VW I’m mastering in Dog Walking
@Ramsez 5 жыл бұрын
@@aromavaginal60 Why? He let himself out.
@joyebriggs 5 жыл бұрын
OSHA with a concentration in fire science. She has a safety certification, and will be able to do fire safety certifications
@twinny555 4 жыл бұрын
I thought she said viral science. Would make more sense.
@TylerCummings6 5 жыл бұрын
It sounds like there is something else amiss here.
@zibzo7180 5 жыл бұрын
She just witnessed her financé killing himself. I think she needs to see a professional
@stew7479 7 жыл бұрын
I understand that her fiance killed himself, but did she say, "He let himself out," or "He bled himself out"? I had trouble making out exactly what she said.
@ImprovementisGrowth 7 жыл бұрын
She said, He let himself out." Sad
@stew7479 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the clarification. Yes, very sad for all involved.
@cooliipie 5 жыл бұрын
Same thing
@TheAIKnowledgeHub 5 жыл бұрын
I started laughing when he asked if she was going to a church. A security guard doesn't equal to the place being shady.
@jamess9808 5 жыл бұрын
How many people are thinking of "letting themselves out" right now listening to her
@Simon-oy7kf 4 жыл бұрын
"He let himself out"?
@gatti3933 4 жыл бұрын
student debt to study fire science.......:
@DanielGarcia-zz9eg 5 жыл бұрын
Dont do it at all no matter what your status is as a couple
@carultch 5 жыл бұрын
I know, right? Why does marriage make it any better to go in to debt together?
@araineacutebrownnurse7315 5 жыл бұрын
She’s a total basket case. She’s paranoid, bitter , frustrated and somewhat delusional. Hope she gets the mental , emotional and financial help she needs.
@joecoolioness6399 4 жыл бұрын
When I got engaged, my fiance and I opened a bank account together so we could save for the wedding. We did not buy debt together or anything else like that. If one of us had decided to take all the money and scram, then it would be a cheap lesson, and better to find out before tying the knot. It worked out for us. We waited until marriage to buy a car and a house together.
@samanthasmiles9112 4 жыл бұрын
This lady is a bit off her rocker. "The bank is officially scamming me because they have security." "Umm... yea, it's a bank filled with lots of money." 😑
@IreneZGoodman 4 жыл бұрын
The trauma of watching her fiance kill himself really messed with her head. She's fearful and bitter.. Dave is right, she needs some help.
@dpeagles 4 жыл бұрын
Why would someone pay off someone else's credit card debt?
@phamoo 5 жыл бұрын
I want an update on this
@Jemgirly 4 жыл бұрын
There's a difference between not being able to get a job and not being able to get a job you want. Her problems unfortunately are not due to a poor job market. 😟
@chrisconsorte7893 2 жыл бұрын
And even if you officially get married, be careful how you merge and manage your finances!
@chrisconsorte7893 2 жыл бұрын
@@happycook6737 So is California. I was married from 2004-2010. We didn’t have children, but nonetheless it bloody. I know what you mean.
@MsYlatan 4 жыл бұрын
Poor thing done lost it...so sad.
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 5 жыл бұрын
Some comments here are absolutely disgusting. Do people not have compassion these days? This lady saw her fiancé kill himself. That’s going to have a monumental impact on almost anyone.
@katebattista7400 5 жыл бұрын
David Ramsey's comment sections on yt are always cancerous. Which is bizarre because he seems to have empathy for other humans.
@rousseau8182 2 ай бұрын
@@katebattista7400 Every comments section on youtube is pretty much cancerous.
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