Therapist Explains How Debt Affects your Mental Health

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Real Life Psych

Real Life Psych

3 жыл бұрын

Money management using psychology.
In January of 2020, meaning before the pandemic, CNBC published a study that reported that 41% of families in the US would go into a debt if they incurred a $1000 dollar emergency like a medical bill or auto repair.
The same survey showed that the average cost of an unexpected emergency is $3,500 and roughly 28% of people experienced a financial emergency.
Learn how money and debt affects your mental health in this episode of Not So Scary Sundays.

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@nunyobidniz
@nunyobidniz 3 жыл бұрын
4:39 actual wisdom, thanks for posting this 5:02 more wisdom 5:15 this is great stuff
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the kind words!
@niebieskimotyl3308
@niebieskimotyl3308 Жыл бұрын
Most people are slaves. It takes only small mistake, if someone doesn't have support, to fall into debt. My son turned out to be autistic, he needed constant support, costly therapy, meanwhile, I couldn't work, marriage fell apart, my parents died and we're in debt, even though we had savings.
@Xaigo_
@Xaigo_ 3 ай бұрын
Life’s just unfair. We’re just all modern slaves in a modernised society
@ashleybcookin
@ashleybcookin Ай бұрын
This is so true. 1 mistake can really set you back. People don’t understand the power of having support either.
@ComradeRachel
@ComradeRachel Ай бұрын
Capitalism is just a flashy new version of feudalism.
@W1LS0N_D
@W1LS0N_D 4 ай бұрын
I don’t know who will read this, but I’ll get this off my chest for a bit. My Hispanic Dad is currently in $30k - $40k of credit card debt. He says nothing is working out for him, that he doesn’t know what has happened to him, that he doesn’t know how he got to this, that he doesn’t know what to do, and that he WILL disappear one day once and for all giving us a better life on the way (to which I ask: HOW?!) The relationship between my mother and him has clearly been destroyed even if they/he tries to hide it (I know why I say it and it’s not because of debt). Worst of all, his drinking has gotten SO MUCH WORSE claiming that it’s the only thing that “helps” him. I pray to God for the best for my Dad and my entire family; but if there is someone out there who can help us one way or another…..please.
@truthtelleranon
@truthtelleranon 2 ай бұрын
There’s a lot he can do! Has he received help yet?
@W1LS0N_D
@W1LS0N_D 2 ай бұрын
@@truthtelleranon Nop
@leratonimusic
@leratonimusic 12 күн бұрын
sorry for your situation. Dave Ramsey has some great videos about debt that also touch on the fact that the root of getting into debt is of a spiritual nature. Fixing spiritual and emotional issues that drive us to overspend will help and heal us, I'm a 100% sure. Praying for you and your family.
@abovethemiddle8408
@abovethemiddle8408 3 жыл бұрын
Such an important video. I must admit money is a big stressor in my life but I am trying to get more comfortable with my current financial situation. Thanks for this.
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
Right, having a strategy is step 1.
@TylerSinden
@TylerSinden 3 жыл бұрын
Really good topic here! My one friend always stressed out because he "didn't have any money." He had no debt, but he had a lot of money in investments and savings, the issue was he had no cash and the amount of stress that caused him was wild. Also, journaling your spending is a great tactic. Lets you know exactly where you're spending your money and on what and helps you be more mindful of your purchases.
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
Right. Journaling also helps because putting yourself through the process of writing out questionable purchases will help you from making them in the future.
@phoenixrising4031
@phoenixrising4031 7 ай бұрын
I just found this channel 2 yrs after your initial posting. And economy is significantly worse. Not a millennial and still found this wisdom super helpful. Thank you for sharing! Keep up the great work. I'm not sure how I tripped on this channel but found it helpful enough on this video to subscribe!
@donterranove8723
@donterranove8723 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks -- used this in my econ class at a HS in Calif. Financial literacy unit. We had a terrific discussion too.
@darkflamethrower
@darkflamethrower 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making, needed this
@moneyversefin
@moneyversefin 2 жыл бұрын
Great stuff!! Took lots of notes 🗒 Thank you!
@sarahdloveskittens
@sarahdloveskittens 3 жыл бұрын
I love this so much Alexa! 💗 I really love the point about redefining happiness. I always try and be mindful before making an impulse purchase and decide if buying the item will truly make me happier and improve my life. There are so many temptations out there, but it's a great feeling when you can say no to junk and meet your savings goals! 😊
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, this comment made my day!
@PakhtunBae
@PakhtunBae 3 ай бұрын
This videos helped me alot thank you ❤
@Sargeantize
@Sargeantize 5 ай бұрын
This doesn't do anything for people making 30 to 50k per year
@nickyassimos7299
@nickyassimos7299 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! Keep up the great content!
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Nicky!
@hydralegend3520
@hydralegend3520 3 жыл бұрын
Great work nice video 😋
@matthewscott9745
@matthewscott9745 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had someone like you in my life
@leeboriack8054
@leeboriack8054 2 жыл бұрын
Great talk, well done! Millennials got a raw deal, raised in an affluent age, where growing up striving was erased. Add largest number of unprecedented of single parent homes. Plus the uncharted hazards of internet social media.
@Evilmindy12
@Evilmindy12 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥰
@lindiwegwebu4184
@lindiwegwebu4184 Ай бұрын
This is a good talk, very practicsl
@Angeladada
@Angeladada 3 жыл бұрын
Super interesting! Thanks for sharing 🥰 - Angeladada xx
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support!
@s.rahman7219
@s.rahman7219 3 жыл бұрын
good advice to all
@TePokuru
@TePokuru 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@steveassimos5466
@steveassimos5466 3 жыл бұрын
sound advice for all age groups
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support!
@gabrielcuillier2936
@gabrielcuillier2936 3 жыл бұрын
Another great video. Thanks for sharing!!
@reallifepsych3309
@reallifepsych3309 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@jenferris6879
@jenferris6879 8 ай бұрын
Every dime i get goes to bills ..so this was NOT helpful
@jtes5604
@jtes5604 2 ай бұрын
No borrowing
@clothandleather2838
@clothandleather2838 9 ай бұрын
And on that note. You owe me $120 now for our 1 hour session. Oh? You came to therapy because of depression due to financial instability? Sorry, i need to get the next years worth of battle passes. See you next week! 😃
@chandlersmith1215
@chandlersmith1215 Ай бұрын
Money kills I agree. 1 person can make 100000 in a day and another can never afford a home. Completely stupid idea.
@Bella-ke7pr
@Bella-ke7pr 2 ай бұрын
It's bad when you have a millionaire in the family that doesn't even offer to help with the financial situation.. She invited us to her house once during Christmas. That's about it
@tayberfurbeck2336
@tayberfurbeck2336 Жыл бұрын
People that commit suicide are 8 times more likely to get into debt? Does that mean they can apply for credit cards in hell? Just joking but I think you may have miscommunicated that statement haha.
@MeVietnambutloveITALIANFOOD
@MeVietnambutloveITALIANFOOD 4 ай бұрын
If you're dead , your debt owner wouldn't able to take back their money that you lended
@TshengisileNdlangamandla
@TshengisileNdlangamandla 5 ай бұрын
How do u save if you are left with nothing every month coz your are paying debts and expenses i think the only way is to get support other than that i don't see a way out except God's miracles.
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