Therapist Reacts To: Inbred by Ethel Cain *trigger warning - please use discretion

Therapist Reacts To: Inbred by Ethel Cain *trigger warning - please use discretion - SA discussed"

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10 ай бұрын

Trigger Warning - this video contains content that may cause a physical or mental reaction due to the discussion of sexual assault. Please take care of yourselves and use discretion.
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@mrovvka6882 10 ай бұрын

Her album 'Preacher's Daughter' is a whole story of fictional character created by her. It's very very good!

@mattgreg0307 10 ай бұрын

Agreed! Definitely something you gotta react to

@mendwithmere 10 ай бұрын

I will absolutely do that one!

@MultiWilliam15 10 ай бұрын

@@mendwithmerestart with hard times!

@jamie8481 10 ай бұрын

@@mendwithmereAhhh i’m so excited !! she’s incredible

@kitanakhan1 10 ай бұрын

@@mendwithmere would love that but brace yourself for Triggers. Just remember that the album is a story not a real events, it may help. 💪

@chargingyellow 10 ай бұрын

you’re so spot on with the ‘deep south hidden away’, that’s her entire vibe

@mendwithmere 10 ай бұрын

Really?!? It really felt like true detective setting to me.

@chargingyellow 10 ай бұрын

@@mendwithmere atleast for preachers daughter anyway !

@elioben5810 10 ай бұрын

As a male victim of incest and sexual abuse, this song means a lot to me and is healing in a way. Thanks for reacting to it Mere.

@enochivn8766 10 ай бұрын

I'm sorry that happened, nobody deserves that

@sparrow_posts_stuff 10 ай бұрын

im so so sorry about that, that must be awful :/

@elioben5810 10 ай бұрын

@@sparrow_posts_stuff thank u and I'm okay now!

@elioben5810 10 ай бұрын

@enochivn8766 you're so right and it's super unfortunate that it happens. Luckily, I got the right treatments and I'm okay now :) 💓💓

@evanblalock9744 10 ай бұрын

I’m sorry you had to be so strong. I’m glad you’ve healed

@backup153 10 ай бұрын

Ethel is the kind of artist that would make you scream WHAT THE FUCK but at the same time make you realize that shit like this actually happens in real life... shes just straight to the point with it.

@ache4u 10 ай бұрын

In Ethel’s own annotations of the lyrics she says the older brother isn’t the perpetrator but a protective figure even though their relationship is flawed. She annotated the lyrics herself on genius !

@Blueborne-music 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for saying this. I kinda wish she had checked out the lyrics on genius but I understand if she didn’t think of that.

@girlsgokawaii 2 ай бұрын

@@Blueborne-music To be fair it's not something you think of doing especially if you just had the lyrics on screen unless you've been at least somewhat introduced to Ethel Cain lore so I get it and it's also interesting to me to get a different perspective or interpretation sometimes even if it isn't the right one

@erin-zf6iv 10 ай бұрын

i'd love to see your thoughts on "ptolemaea", it's absolutely chilling but so well written

@kitanakhan1 10 ай бұрын

I requested that as well, but I’ve had no money so Mere was so kind that she did Inbred request for free.

@shh5665 10 ай бұрын

ooh absolutely

@lisa-ty9gq 10 ай бұрын

I may be wrong, but always thought that her brother and her abuser are two different people. "He (her brother) hates the way you (the abuser) look at me, you're already dead". I think she's saying that if her brother finds out what happened, he'll kill that man. "If he wakes up he will show you what I'm taking about." But it's also possible that she just separates the brother she loves and the brother that abuses her into two people in her head. Maybe that's where the line "if he wakes up he will show you what I'm talking about" comes from. So by "wakes up" she means realises what he's doing.

@Blueborne-music 3 ай бұрын

No ur right. Hayden has said that the abuser is not the brother or even in the family. She said Inbred is a metaphor for trauma within the family.

@chorn-tx2bv 10 ай бұрын

If you listen to more of Ethel's music, please keep in mind that Ethel the artist and the character are both trans women, and her life experiences and art have been greatly colored by the specific kinds of transmisogyny, sexualization, and all the other forms of oppression that come from being a trans woman. The lack of love as a child, the longing for real love and handing yourself over to men for validation. Being sexualized and exploited by men, people who want you dead, and yourself. Being demonized, ignored, and forgotten. Grappling between being raised religious in spaces where your existence is an abomination. As a young trans woman from the south, her art has been so comforting to me for so many years. Over 500 anti-trans bills have been introduced so far this year in the US, most of them attempting to criminalize trans existence. Most of them target trans women & girls- attempting to take away already-inaccessible healthcare. These laws particularly affect black trans women, who statistically face higher rates of job discrimination, sexual abuse, and homelessness- and are also disproportionately murdered. 97% of trans people murdered last year were trans women, most of them being trans women of color. Things are very scary but seeing an indie trans artist being appreciated and achieving acclaim is such a powerful thing.

@pweasedonteatme 10 ай бұрын

ethel is not trans in preachers daughter she’s states it in a live that ethel cain is cis woman actually but this still doesn’t make your points invalid

@pabloalarconlopez5923 10 ай бұрын

Ethel, the character, isn't trans.

@mandalorkayla8001 10 ай бұрын

@@pweasedonteatme She's said the character can be interpreted either way, and she'll cast a trans woman in the movie eventually. Regardless there's strong hints to trans specific experiences in her lyrics.

@cvntyextraterrestrial333 10 ай бұрын

I don’t think the character is trans but as ethel cain herself is trans i still think her experience as a trans woman influences her music so i still think you’re very right.

@kmonteith100 10 ай бұрын

@@JulietMHornerYou definitely love your children, that’s very apparent. Thank you for that.

@teddybrooksjr.2868 10 ай бұрын

I know y’all did not make her listen to one of her darkest songs😭 Sun Bleached Flies, A House In Nebraska, and Strangers are wayyy more light than this

@yes-ve5hp 10 ай бұрын

what im saying 💀

@adieljonsson864 10 ай бұрын

Strangers??!

@anyways1715 10 ай бұрын

@@adieljonsson864strangers is heavy but not as violently direct as inbred

@ihavemultiplepersonalities 10 ай бұрын

Or even Hard Times which kinda has a similar meaning but it's not as heavy as inbred

@MYOB00 10 ай бұрын

@@ihavemultiplepersonalities I think Hard Times is just as heavy, when you read the lyrics...

@homosexualskittles9285 10 ай бұрын

This song holds a very deep place in my heart; as a victim of incest and sexual abuse she speaks about it all in a way that doesn't sugarcoat anything. And I love it - it's so important

@mendwithmere 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing and I hate that you had to experience anything like this and I’m so sorry. It is very validating and therapeutic for Ethel to be sharing such details in order for people to feel seen. Sending you ♥️

@AmyAberrant 7 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry that happened to you

@Howtoeatrocks 10 ай бұрын

I always read this song as being a victim of her father's abuse and her over protective brother being kept in the dark about the events to protect him. Interesting to see other perspectives

@mendwithmere 9 ай бұрын

I think you are right and I had it off but it’s so disturbing either way

@AfterLaughterFan 10 ай бұрын

I've always been more of a silent viewer, but I wanted to say thank you for reacting to and discussing songs like this. Ethel has another song called "hard times" that also talks about about this topic, but in a less graphic way. "Hard times" means a lot to me due the complicated emotions I have around my own abuser, and the song really helped me to process my trauma. Once again, thank you for the amazing, educational content!

@mendwithmere 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this with me and watching my content! I will check that song out bc I think those complex feelings could be discussed more in regard to abuse. I’m realizing how much these topic need attention. Sending you ❤

@MYOB00 10 ай бұрын

I was thinking of hard times as well. It's beautiful musically so so difficult to listen to lyrically.

@marinac3549 10 ай бұрын

Ethel Cain?? THANK YOU! If you wanna check it out, Ethel talks a lot about SA, religious trauma, and poverty in her album Preacher’s Daughter

@mattygreen6233 10 ай бұрын

pretty sure its the dad that is doing it to her, her brother loves her and is protective and doesnt know the dad is doing it, the dad probably loves the son (her brother) more and thats why he is his "baby" while she is not. and she is saying if she told her brother he would kill the dad

@cherrycokee Ай бұрын

that makes a lot of sense! so many different interpretations, all very interesting but this does make a lot of sense. apparently by what i’ve read in the comments hayden confirmed inbred is just a metaphor for trauma within the family but i would love to know a full analysis on what the “canon” meaning is, cuz there’s clearly abuse going on but idk about the incest part? if that makes sense but yeah

@Marshmallow_1111 10 ай бұрын

To me “pissing on the stove to put it out” makes me think she’s helpless. Left alone with only her brother at home and he’s out doing sketchy shit. And she has to put out the fire on the stove cause maybe the fire started to get high since she’s young and alone. “Sucking on the back of his leg to stay warm” makes me think shes describing herself as an animal trying to drink milk from his leg as her mother is in a coma and he’s all she has. But she doesn’t know what to do.

@lanascinnamonboy 10 ай бұрын

Never listened to Ethel Cain but this song really is disturbing. Never listened to music that made me feel so gross.

@mendwithmere 10 ай бұрын

It makes you feel exactly what she felt. That is some powerful art but I agree, I gaged several times after and cried. I hate that this is a reality for so many people.

@danplantman62 10 ай бұрын

Listen to Preacher's Daughter

@liyah6905 10 ай бұрын

try thoroughfare its a bit more positive

@kitanakhan1 10 ай бұрын

Thank you Meredith for my request! It is a heavy song, I wanted to choose one that can start a discussion. I won’t talk about it but yeah, it happened to me, me so I was interested in your feelings. One thing about the mother that “smells rotten” because most likely is dead and they just think she’s sleeping.. the rapist is their dad and the brother swears he kills him, but Ethel acknowledges that he’s not much better since all of that sickness runs in the family.

@mendwithmere 10 ай бұрын

This will definitely start a discussion and I I want to make public so that you get support and know that you are not alone. This happens in so many families yet it’s incredibly isolating bc no one wants to talk about this experience. You are an incredibly kind, beautiful soul that has been subjected to despicable trauma that you never deserved. Ever. Saying sorry does not make it better but I am and wish I could take it away. Please know you are loved and have us here. Look out for my email. ❤️

@sethsummer4743 10 ай бұрын

As a trans man I've never felt an artist that truly gets it the same way Ethel Cain does. I'd love to see you react to more of her songs

@mendwithmere 10 ай бұрын

oh, I definitely will! I didn't even know Ethel's backstory and feel it's so important to discuss, even though it isn't my lived experience. sending you so much love and thank you for watching!

@inactive120 9 ай бұрын

thank you for not being afraid to talk about it, i dealt with this when i was 10 or 11 (details are still foggy) from my older brother and when i told my mom she was kind of making excuses for him like comforting me but saying things like 'well he was still young' and it makes me scared to tell anyone else, i feel like she secretly hopes i wont tell anyone else so she can keep it all hush-hush and you talking sbout it made me a little less scared I'm 22 now but i still feel like that scared little girl and it's eaten away at me for so long now. I had the same nauseous reaction when i heard it for the first time. I also saw my brother get married and found it really strange and kept thinking it was my responsibility to tell his wife who dhe was marrying but i was too scared. I was numb through the entire ceremony, I felt like death when I finally went home it is such a scary feeling.

@mendwithmere 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this bc there is someone else reading this with a similar experience that can’t bring themselves to write the words. It doesn’t matter what age your brother was, it’s not okay. And it won’t ever be okay. You have power in speaking your truth and I’m glad you can share it here. I want to say that if you never want to be around him, you don’t have to. I hate that you even had to attend the wedding and I’m sure it would have been a big deal if you didn’t go. I hate that you had to be around him and stuff it down for the sake of “saving face” for the family. I hate that your mom wasn’t outraged and didn’t think about what your needs are given that he’s your abuser. I hate you ever had to experience that and I hope you get support around this bc you did nothing wrong. You were abused and you must now think about yourself and your needs and your well-being. I’m sitting her so angry for you and all the people that have suffered in this way. I’m sending bc you so much love and please, lean into whatever supports you have 🤍

@turntodusk 2 ай бұрын

This is so relatable. I just found this song from this reaction I nearly burst into tears from the lyrics. They hit so hard

@RealCatInWindow 5 ай бұрын

I always took the song as her brother, even though troubled, was the only one who looked out for her. The mother has a substance problem, possibly introduced to her through the assailant as a way to incapacitate her so he has access to the child. An unknown assailant who has complete power over the child (possibly the mother's boyfriend, the child's father, an uncle, etc) and even the mother. The part about the abuser being wrong, not only is it literal, but it's kind of like when you get a vibe from someone that something isn't right with them; basically people knew something was wrong with him but they still sat idly by while he was given access to his victim. The part about pissing on the stove, I always looked at it as the child was more on the feral side, and instead of being taught how to deal with basic everyday tasks, she was left to her own devices to figure it out. The lines "who knows how much longer I'll lay on the floor" I take as, she's starting to question why she isn't fighting back against the abuse. This is getting long, so I'm going to end it here, but I could write an entire essay about this song.

@kaykayy119 7 ай бұрын

this happend to me my whole life up untill i was 10 from my brother. im only 12 now but this still tears me to peices every time. this made me sob uncontrolably even though im not going thru it. thank u for making this mere.

@gametime4567 10 ай бұрын

I think she’s talking about how her dads doing it “Does your baby know her daddy’s a rapist” I think she means does the narrator understand that it’s rape and what’s happening isn’t right and the older brother lines are about how he isn’t that great of a person and gets in trouble with the cops but still cares about her and helps her

@omgwhydoesthatfroghavecurls Ай бұрын

you're right, i do feel nauseous after watching this. I feel the same, i'm about to cry but my head also hurts. at the part where she goes "when he wakes up he'll show you what i'm talking about." i love (love in the way it makes me wanna bury myself in cold dark soil) it so much. And sexual abuse is way way way too common. I've delt with it, i've lost touch with friends because they were going through it, another friend who i was the first person she told after years. Her music makes me feel like i know this, like it's familiar like i've been there before it feels like.

@juniorhuante658 10 ай бұрын

Ethel actually conffirmed that the song is about a toxic relationship between siblings

@v1ntaged1va 10 ай бұрын

ALSO! Yes, you nailed it on the head with the southern gothic / backwoodsy stuff. Ethel (the artist) is from Florida, and the character is from Alabama. Her music takes a lot of influence for southern styles but also really addresses the issues with that part of the country.

@adam-ll1yf 10 ай бұрын

I am so thrilled that you reacted to Ethel! She is truly one of the best newer artists we have today, her music is so layered and emotional and thought-provoking. This song in particular is very heavy, it's hard to think and talk about without feeling unsettled in some way. If you ever want to react to more of her songs, Crush and American Teenager are two songs that feel more upbeat if you need some more levity lol (though they do still deal with darker subject matter). Pretty much any song of her's is worthy of a reaction. Her album Preacher's Daughter is one of my all time favorites.

@seunghunmiko3922 9 ай бұрын

My girl was traumatized😭

@LabyrinthianLex 10 ай бұрын

That was hard. Thank you for doing this reaction, I admire your strength

@mendwithmere 10 ай бұрын

Yes it was but such an important topic to discuss. ❤❤❤

@Latudasandwich 10 ай бұрын

damn, y’all couldn’t have eased her in with Crush or something first??

@evan_sunprince 10 ай бұрын

I have this odd relationship with ethel, I love her music and lense she creates from. A lot of it is disturbing, but cathartic. I've not experienced what she's gone through, and what she talks about. It's interesting to hear an artist write about what they haven't gone through, to process what they have. Take her experiences and go to the extreme to make her stuff feel palatable. It's an interesting catharsis from a listeners stand point

@mendwithmere 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely. Crazy talented and it is healing

@MyUniqueVibe 8 ай бұрын

I think people should check out the lyrics on Genius as Ethel Cain herself annotates certain parts of the lyrics to give a better insight/context into what she meant with certain verses. It's strongly suggested that the abuser is a third person unrelated to the siblings, an older man with a family and child of his own. Take this verse into consideration: "He hates the way you look at me, You're already dead"; He (presumably the older brother) hates the way you (presumably the the third person) looks at me. This line suggests there are three people, not two. - Ethel Cain herself annotated that: "She assures him her older brother knows and hates him for it, and he’ll get what’s coming to him eventually." Now take this verse into consideration: "If he wakes up, he’ll show you what i’m talking about," - Ethel mentions how : "She (the sister) promises that if her brother can ever catch a break from his own plagues, he’ll punish the man (the abuser)." Throughout the song, I never got the feeling the older brother has a child of his own, nor is the actual abuser, though there could be an inappropriate relationship born from generational trauma.

@finch9782 10 ай бұрын

Tw//sa and incest I always saw the ”does she know her Daddys a rapist” and “if he wakes up he’ll show you what I’m talking about” as direct lines that fit together. Like she’s implying he might go after his own child as soon as she gets too old and less innocent for him to enjoy anymore. I could be wrong but that’s how I saw it.

@mendwithmere 9 ай бұрын

Oh wow, I can see that now.

@jojodunn835 10 ай бұрын

First song I heard by Ethel Cain was Inbred and I was hooked. I'm trans and from the south. Unfortunately, relatable but the song makes me feel seen. 🙏🖤💜

@thedreamerintherye 10 ай бұрын

Ethel's album "preacher's daugter" is absolutely gut-wrecking but incredible. Can't say that i listen to it often becuse of the mood but it definitely was an experience

@youngmia98 4 ай бұрын

Maybe that’s my problem. I’ve been listening to every song consistently everyday for the past week. And it brings me to a dark place but I love it. Maybe I should take a break from mother Cain.

@douglasseugene 10 ай бұрын

The first time I listened to Ethel Cain I legitimately couldn’t sleep. I started watching this because I thought I was prepared… I was not. I’m just a little disgusted. I don’t know if I’ll make it through this whole video, but as someone who suffered at the hands of a close family member… Thank you for the conversations you have started. I’m glad I found your channel. I appreciate your insights.

@AustinAshburn 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your reaction to Ethel

@MiguelAngelGB 9 ай бұрын

Please do ‘Hard Times’ by Ethel Caín as well please 😭

@plamenasiniye 10 ай бұрын

this is my favourite Ethel song... I cry every time I hear it - it's so disgustingly beautiful, horrifying but comforting... having experienced some of the same things she has

@rebecadefreitasdamas1737 10 ай бұрын

I never went to anything like that but I was sick at the end and felt bad even with just the melody... It is really a interesting way to shine a light over this crimes. I feel for everyone who had to go through something so inhumane

@R3hahadjlwh 10 ай бұрын

OMG I never thought i’d see you react to ethel, she’s been my favourite for years, I love your lana reactions 😭 this is so perfect! 💕

@chasedaniels8086 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for having the courage to analyze these songs. And finding a voice for some of these people who have experienced this trauma or anything like it.

@sparrow_posts_stuff 10 ай бұрын

NOT YALL MAKING HER REACT TO ETHELS DARKEST SONG LMFAOOO

@chargingyellow 10 ай бұрын

YES FINALLY ETHEL REACTION!!! i’ve never clicked a video so quick pls tell me you’re reacting to more of her?!?? 🖤

@kitanakhan1 10 ай бұрын

She said she will react to the “ Preacher’s Daughter”

@chargingyellow 10 ай бұрын

@@kitanakhan1 yay

@dayt0nam3th 10 ай бұрын

you dont even know how happy I was when I saw that you're reacting to Ethels music !! hope to see more of her on your channel

@v1ntaged1va 10 ай бұрын

so happy to see you react to ethel! she is really a visionary. her music is incredibly dark, but honestly its super cathartic for me. she is also a super incredible performer. keep in mind, its a character that she created to represent the dark aspects of her life and she plans to really go in depth with the whole Cain family tree. she is really a super cool person!!!!

@Leopur33 6 ай бұрын

OMG when you made the reference to True Detective and southern gothic vibes, I screamed YES! Ethel’s music could be the soundtrack to that show.

@jessehansen5978 24 күн бұрын

What a moving reaction. The song is horrifying and haunting and I broke down the first time I heard it. To know that this is something that so many people have had to deal with being SA'ed and the physical and emotional aftermath is soul crushing. Thank you for reacting.

@owenadams6510 10 ай бұрын

Her drinking the Pepsi when she feels sick is kinda Ethel-coded idk

@Shiro-uz2pq 10 ай бұрын

Omgg thank you for this!!! We need a preacher's daughter album reaction 😭❤

@mimimilani8620 10 ай бұрын

you need to listen to preachers daughter the thing is a concept album centered around the character Ethel Cain and it is incrediblee theres so much symbolism in the lirycs and so much to talk about with the whole story. I recommend reading about the album first, great video 😃

@myopia2020 10 ай бұрын

You're such an empath, Mere🥰 Sometimes that's both a blessing and a curse. That was intense. I don't know too much about Ethel other than she's a trans woman whose father was a preacher (The few songs I've heard from Preacher's Daughter are very good) Oh, and that she finds yellow teeth attractive😬 (I watched part of a LIVE)

@mendwithmere 10 ай бұрын

Ok, I had no idea about her history and I want to listen and react to so much more. And you are cracking me up about the yellow teeth!

@myopia2020 10 ай бұрын

@@mendwithmere I made one of your faces when she said that!🤣

@hgsgagshehaha6117 10 ай бұрын

YES I REQUESTED ETHEL ❤ THANK YOU PLEASE LISTEN TO PREACHERS DAUGHTER IN ORDER

@chargingyellow 10 ай бұрын

yes yes yes

@rayplaysguitar4257 10 ай бұрын

It’s amazing when a singer can portray how they felt in real life through music. Thanks for reacting, this is a hard but important subject ❤

@angelprat6080 10 ай бұрын

The topics that can be touched by you reacting to the full album are very useful and needed by so many people, BUT I really think that this album is a piece full of all that you felt just with this one song. i think that youtube isn't gonna promote this kind of content and sadly Ethel doesn't have a huge fan base to support this videos. if you decide to continue to post about her I will be impressed and grateful for your bravery but if you don't, we completely understand that this is hard. we love your content, nobody is doing what you do, in the way and with the nuance that you have.❤

@nahuelconstantine 10 ай бұрын

Oh god…. I could only listen until the middle cause it was hard. Thank u for your thorough analysis Mere❤ I recommend you to listen to Florence and the Machine, particularly to King, Hunger or Various Saints and Storms. The themes in her songs vary so much. She is literally a mermaid on earth (there is kinda an intrinsic connection between her and water, the ocean). This shows in several of her songs. Another recommended artist is Weyes Blood. Well, I can’t put into words what I feel when I listen to her. Her voice is reminiscent of magic, purity, and a mix of galactic, powerful energy that covers up your entire body, particularly when you listen to Movies. Too hyperbolic but that is what I feel 💜 haha. Movies and Andromeda are fantastic! Their sounds are most unique. You will not regret. Also you kinda remind me of Florence! Xoxo💜

@kitanakhan1 10 ай бұрын

I’ve chosen a tamer one, 😅interesting to see people’s viewpoint since it’s family for me

@mendwithmere 10 ай бұрын

That’s a major compliment about Florence! It is very hard to listen to but so important. I will definitely check out and react to these other artists. I love the way you described how it makes you feel! Makes me so curious❤

@bryancarson5908 10 ай бұрын

This is my favorite Ethel song I’m so glad you’re getting into her! I’d also suggest artists like Phoebe Bridgers and Florence + The Machine, deep artists to digest but won’t make you feel as disgusted 💜

@nathangrimes4071 10 ай бұрын

thank you so much for reacting to Ethel Cain

@klevisknushi8391 10 ай бұрын

You radiate such an empatic energy

@ellie17130 7 ай бұрын

this video came onto my recommended a few days ago n finally decided to watch it , this happend to me with my father up untill i was about 15 or 16. now 23 still going to family events and everytime he will come up to me and try to give me a hug n kiss (even though i dont want it.) but i never really said no because i didnt want my family to ask why because nobody knows because when i did tell my mother she told me that she would make sure that my family never talked to me/contacted me again and i dont want that at all so i never really told anyone else. im not really gonna say anymore but thank you so so so much for making this video. love u sm and respect you so much for making this.

@mendwithmere 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this and you can hopefully see from the comment section that you are not alone. Sharing this is brave and keep in mind that there’s someone not ready to even acknowledge what happened as real within themselves and they may be reading this and understanding how prevalent this experience is. I hate how you were treated when you talked about it to your mother. Sounds like you were treated like the perpetrator, not the victim. It’s not okay and I hope you are getting support in the ways you can. Sending you so much love.

@samayreroman02 10 ай бұрын

Ughhhhh I’m so excited for you too react to more Ethel Cain!!!🖤🖤

@ignxtev 10 ай бұрын

omg i love Ethel so much!! thank you for this video!🤍

@jnknoire9781 10 ай бұрын

Omg I’ve been wanting you to react to Ethel Cain!! Such a great artist!!

@Iron_Stigmata 10 ай бұрын

This was my first Ethel Cain song, the song hit me so hard it made me sob, but I couldn't stop listening to it. Not an easy introduction, but oh my God. It's phenomenal.

@Marshmallow_1111 10 ай бұрын

You’re so insightful and bright i love you

@cherrydelrey1949 10 ай бұрын

Mere, the first season of "True Detective" was probably one of the best shows to come out in the last decade. Omg it was so good & SHOOK me to my core. I thought of it immediately when this song started. I haven't heard this song before, so I'm here reacting with you. I had to pause at about 11 minutes in to go pet my dog and cat, because Holy moly, this was difficult. We were definitely making the same face. I got choked up too. I hope you're doing okay, this was tough. I wanna hug you through the screen because I think we both need it. 💜💜

@mendwithmere 9 ай бұрын

Omg I’m so glad you felt that show too!! I’m doing okay but it was rough. This song is so powerful. Glad you have pets to love on and have them love on you.

@renosplants1048 3 ай бұрын

I think that Ethel explained the lyrics to this song. The older brother wasn’t the abuser, but he was protecting her from their molesting father.

@a.a677 10 ай бұрын

Ethel Cain is so so so amazing, once you understand that she is a character, everything falls into place with her story and the tragic ending.

@3407 7 ай бұрын

i'm here after watching True Detective because of you and i love it. thanks for the suggestion

@doitsushine92 6 ай бұрын

first time seeing one of your videos and omg you were going through it... don't worry though that's pretty much how everyone feels listening to ethel's music for the first time. hayden (ethel's real name) is an amazing storyteller and she certainly doesn't hold back when it comes to telling the story she wants to tell

@remember2wander548 10 ай бұрын

Thank you, Meredith, for helping us thru difficult stuff by listening and reacting to this wonderful artist Ethel Cain.

@karlycartwright 10 ай бұрын

Love that you mentioned deliverance, best southern movie

@missmiisery 10 ай бұрын

this song is a crazy introduction to Ethel Cains music haha, she's one of my favorite artists. I'd love it if you could react to anything off of the album "preachers daughter", it's fantastic.

@benkoren7980 10 ай бұрын

This is my favorite song by her also if you want you can check the genius annotations on this song for some more context since she wrote many of the notes herself

@gayplastic1237 10 ай бұрын

I really recommend doing a full reaction to preachers daughter. While my fave body of works from her are the EPs carpet bed and inbred, preachers daughter is literally the thesis statement of who Ethel is and her story. She falls into the wrong crowd, gets trafficked, forced into sex work, killed, then eaten. As dark as it is, it's a very powerful record that discusses intergenerational trauma, religious trauma, and struggles with family and life in the south. She's following it up with the preachers daughter b sides which are about her first love and teenage years.

@elliotsssssboisssss3872 10 ай бұрын

Ethel Cain shall eternally be recognized as an extraordinarily courageous and resilient woman. Present-day popular music typically avoids exploring specific topics and fails to venture into the depths of darkness that she fearlessly embraces. In the current music landscape, songs predominantly revolve around relationships breaking apart, enduring hardships, and eventually healing. However, Ethel Cain, particularly through her remarkable full-length album "Preacher's Daughter," weaves a mesmerizing narrative of trauma and harrowing experiences that sets her apart and grants her an unparalleled uniqueness. The countless times I've immersed myself in the haunting melodies of "Inbred" and "Preacher's Daughter," absorbing her heartfelt cries of pain, it becomes impossible for tears not to stream down my face, and an eerie sensation to travel down my spine. When I saw her live the connection I felt in her voice as if I had grown with up with her and know that it was just me and her against the world.

@L_taylorsversion24 10 ай бұрын

Thank you for this reaction ❤

@Gerhardt637 10 ай бұрын

Yessssssssss. Thank you for reaching to her.❤

@champainon7633 9 ай бұрын

I love this song so, so much but I can’t listen to it often because of how haunting and sad it feels… Like some other people said in the comments, it kind of reminds me of things that happened to me. Thank you so much for the video. If you do another Ethel Cain video I would love if you did Crush (also from the Inbred EP) or any of the songs on her album Preacher’s Daughter.

@taylerallen7681 10 ай бұрын

YESSSSSSS!! So happy you’re reviewing ethel cain :)

@Destin65 4 ай бұрын

Powerful. Filled with pain. That ending, though. You can feel it.

@lenapinsandneedles 10 ай бұрын

One of my favorite off the album. Please review more if you can.

@luisahedo8952 10 ай бұрын

Omggg I never thought you would react to this!!

@hlynurelli 7 ай бұрын

I have not lived through this, but as someone whose boyfriend has dealt with SA as a child, this song always makes me scream and sob as I think of him. The fact that these things happen yet so often go unnoticed tears me apart. Ethel truly captures the essence of despair and sadness. Incredible reaction - I could tell it definitely struck you hard.

@janamcpherson4885 6 ай бұрын

Art should comfort the disturbed and disturb the comforted

@800cherries3 6 ай бұрын

damn i love that

@guicolaboni 10 ай бұрын

loving to see some Ethel Cain here on the channel!

@vollmilchbaum6873 10 ай бұрын

my girl mere is NOT ready for the ethel cain catalogue x). but it is really gut wrenching

@jordanrollins624 10 ай бұрын

PLEASE DO HOUSE IN NEBRASKA

@chargingyellow 10 ай бұрын

YESSS

@bimbokhoi 10 ай бұрын

I LOVE YOU MERE😭😭😭 PLZZZ DO MORE ETHEL CAIN PLEASEEEEEEE

@SinthetikLED 10 ай бұрын

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS

@jrm4625 10 ай бұрын

Hayden is an absolute genius at creating music and stories. She will forever be one of my favorite artists.

@elirussell1352 10 ай бұрын

You should do some Lingua Ignota. Similar to this, it does have really heavy themes, but I'd be very interested to hear your thoughts on it. I basically describe Ethel Cain as a middle point between Lana Del Rey and Lingua Ignota, if that gives any context. Both of the songs "How Do You Doubt Me Now Traitor" and "I Who Bend The Tall Grasses" are the best examples. Its basically a response to being abused by someone you were close with and trusted heavily, and it frames this abuse as if its a betrayal of biblical proportions. Very interesting stuff, but also very heavy.

@yphomerc6718 10 ай бұрын

MORE ETHEL CAIN ❤️❤️❤️we here for it girl

@giacomoferraiuolo8957 10 ай бұрын

You did Lana and now Ethel! Thank you ❤

@Elena-Studio 6 ай бұрын

"Pissing on the stove to put it out" makes me think that it was a form of punishment and one of the coping mechanisms was to piss on the stove so it doesn't hurt as much.

@gavenhernandez550 10 ай бұрын

Another great song by her is head in the wall, very heart wrenching but I always listen to it such a beautiful song as well

@nekronimus_IV 10 ай бұрын

Omg finally Ethel. Please do Preacher’s Daughter album.

@Hannahbun21 2 ай бұрын

your first reaction of “okay, there’s something… wrong going on here” killed me 😂

@s0lgem 10 ай бұрын

i was also born in west virginia, although i've been in north carolina for well over a decade... let's just say that ethel cain's music is very cathartic for me