Calming Anxiety With Your Body’s Built-in Anti-Anxiety Response 11/30

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Your body has a built-in, natural ability to calm anxiety. Learn four simple, body-based ways you can calm anxiety by turning on the parasympathetic nervous system.
Calming anxiety is something you can learn to do when you learn how the parasympathetic response works as an anti-anxiety reaction.
Anxiety, PTSD, trauma, and other intense emotions are rooted in the nervous system, specifically the sympathetic response, but our body has a built-in natural ability to calm anxiety by turning on the parasympathetic nervous system.
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@misskellyann1013 2 жыл бұрын

You are changing my entire life. I want you to know from the void of the internet that you are changing someone's life that can't afford therapy and didn't have any tools before. Thank you for these videos, they have meant the world to me.

@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449 2 жыл бұрын

He is the best when it comes to recovery pregnancy.... ..

@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449 2 жыл бұрын

ViawhatsApp..

@melodieneil712 2 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@MadisynCzarnecki 2 жыл бұрын

i feel the same, i cannot afford therapy so i am here.

@amazingyoga6871 2 жыл бұрын

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@fraukatze1147 3 жыл бұрын

1. Tapping 2. Laughter 3. Getting upside down 4. Washing face in cold water 5. Mono-tasking 6. Mindfulness 7. Do something slow 8. Sex 9. Pay attention to biorrhythms 10. Hug someone 11. Stretch

@charlesjsescoto 3 жыл бұрын

❤️

@ShyteriaSmith Жыл бұрын

♥️🫶🏽

@LostWithoutHer Жыл бұрын

So, your spouse is in the room next door and hears you laughing at the tv set as you tap on the coffee table and she says 'what was that?' She then begins to follow you to see how weird you could be. You wash your face with cold water, get upside down, start to look at you phone screen and then you tell her that's boring as you slowly, flirtatiously remove some articles of clothing and wink and smile at her way. Then she's lost as you proceed but walks up to you, inquisitively. You pull her in for a hug and the hug runs and takes off into a very rewarding sex session. Biorrythms collide, synchronize. and at the end, if you did it right, you won't need to stretch.

@Lacky546 Жыл бұрын

eating should help aswell, maybe chewing gum

@Saffins Жыл бұрын

@@Lacky546 That’s how eating disorders start. I used to do it when I was younger and did more harm than good because I felt guilty of over eating when my body didn’t need to. I think chewing gum is a better alternative

@tristins9644 2 жыл бұрын

"Your brain perceives multitasking as a threat." Oh my goodness, this explains so much!!!! I am writing that down and putting it on my wall 🤣

@JDOGFTW Жыл бұрын

haha

@quickgirl80 Жыл бұрын

When I think of the term “multitasking” I get stressed. My old boss would constantly tell me I wasn’t doing my job if I wasn’t multitasking. Same with my husband, if I can’t do multiple things at once, then I’m lazy. This explains why I feel the way I do every day. Later I read that no one can actually multitask. We only perform rapid task switching! 😂

@tristins9644 Жыл бұрын

@@quickgirl80I can relate! I'm working on reprogramming my brain away from trying to multitask. It's totally the way our modern society expects us to function and it's insanity because it is impossible! Something always suffers when we try.

@Vivek._Ra Жыл бұрын

I’ve been multitasking for a whole month 😮

@chrisstein5473 Жыл бұрын

@@JDOGFTW kw

@almeier Жыл бұрын

Here are the timestamps! Calm Down Skills - 9:32 1. Tapping - 10:23 2. Laughter - 12:10 3. Getting Upside Down - 12:31 4. Washing Your Face with Cold Water: 12:45 5. Monotasking - 13:01 6. Mindfulness - 13:14 7. Do Something Slow: 13:32 8. Sex - 13:44 9: Pay Attention to Your Biorhythms - 14:05 10. Hug Someone - 14:17 11: Stretching - 14:33

@stellaancimer8505 Жыл бұрын

Some People with laugh get cataplexy and become paralized, someone dont have anyone to hug All the best🙏

@ilyasuad9312 Жыл бұрын

❤

@nowandthennn Жыл бұрын

Thank you for the time stamps .

@alicelee5045 8 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for the time stamps.

@davidleo5766 7 ай бұрын

have been a victim of Anxiety disorder for the past years and all through college, thanks to #DoctorEromon on KZfaq… .. I'm getting hold of my self now,

@happy_nancy4530 3 жыл бұрын

1. Pair the belief that I'm safe... 2. ...with Mindful awareness 3. ...and physical Self-Regulation of my body.

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

yes!

@malipena9751 Жыл бұрын

So I just did the above and actually felt calmness wash over me. Thank you for the quick reference guide!

@actsrv9 3 жыл бұрын

Probably repeating myself on this channel: One trick that works really well for me is to watch videos of cute pet animals relaxing. Their relaxation is instantly transferred onto your nervous system. So videos of cats, dogs and kittens sleeping, yawning, stretching, lazing around playfully, grooming themselves, squirrels eating nuts, cows grazing, goats jumping around, deer, sheep walking around all produce an instant parasympathetic response. I simply cannot stop yawning for a couple of minutes. Hope this helps someone. Also, Emma is a saint. 🥰

@frankwhelan1715 3 жыл бұрын

Ironically, when I see animals being well treated ,as in this video,it reminds me of experiences I'v had, and which I'v seen and read about, of the many who are not so lucky and are abused, and so causes me stress, so even watching a self help vid on stress can cause me stress,can't win, fortunately most people aren't so sensitised, even people who hate cruelty.

@actsrv9 3 жыл бұрын

@@frankwhelan1715 One of the most powerful aspects of anxiety is the forceful negative voice that says: "... that maybe, but remember this suffering and that torture and this sorrow and that pain". It does not stop even if you were to win a million dollars or get married to the best person you know. It just keeps hammering like a broken machine. The solution that works for me against this is to first label it as "hopeless perpetual negative" and step aside from it. Labelling it takes away a lot of its power. See if that helps. If only one thing bad happened to you, the HPN process will use that one bad thing to rob you of all your 100 joys (did you notice how hopelessly negative that sounded?) which is senseless mental self-violence, nothing more. Best way is to label it without fail and step aside.

@sea4605 3 жыл бұрын

I personally love watching aquatic animals, particularly fish. It's calming seeing beautiful underwater scenery paired with the flowy movements of fish.

@actsrv9 3 жыл бұрын

@@sea4605 I agree that is pretty relaxing too.

@cdcdogs4961 2 жыл бұрын

That’s exactly what I do! 👍🏼😁 I always joke about watching cat videos when I’m stressed but it can be any animal that makes you laugh. My new favorite is BiBi the baby monkey… you can’t help but to be happier when your done. 🥰

@miezepups15 2 жыл бұрын

I've been told so often that everything is alright when I *knew* it wasn't and I could *feel* that it wasn't. So now when I'm anxious and I try to breathe deeply, my anxiety goes up even more because I'm again hearing 'It's alright' when my body is clearly telling me it's not. And trying to discuss it with myself makes it still worse. I feel like I'm trying to gaslight myself. The only thing that helps is to just accept that I am anxious and to thank my body for being so vigilant and protective of me. It doesn't make the anxiety go away but it makes it easier to bear it until it fades on its own.

@Kya71887 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. This is the first thing actually applicable to me. This whole video and the comments until yours have felt like they were only helpful to people who weren't already hyper self aware and needed a change in perspective and to acknowledge facts about their situation and other general mental health advice that are too simplistic for situations like mine where there is a lot more involved than is covered here. I was looking for something to see that I'm not the only one who views things as you said. I find my conditions a lot easier when I accept them as they are. Thank you.

@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449 2 жыл бұрын

He is the best when it comes to recovery pregnancy....

@TheTinKunt 2 жыл бұрын

Yep, I am also hype aware and feel like I’m gaslighting myself , so it’s like I am going through a lot of these videos and just trying to find the thing that actually clicks.

@Chickaqee 2 жыл бұрын

She talks about this in other videos, but what these exercises are really for, is disordered anxiety, not regular anxiety. If you're actually in danger you shouldn't just try to keep calm and shut down your real, helpful emotions.

@TawnyC_ Жыл бұрын

Yes

@johnmasella3944 Жыл бұрын

I started to cry uncontrollably while watching your videos, and I think it means that you are helping me have a breakthrough in my anxiety management. Thank you for this gift. You are helping us all.

@danielb.6184 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a healing response! Which video were you watching when that happened?

@maryallen352 7 ай бұрын

Your eyes starts keep doing the exercises

@maryallen352 7 ай бұрын

I meant to say you're having anxiety over and over do the exercise

@ID-8491 4 ай бұрын

I wish i could have better access to crying.

@hisenseks 3 ай бұрын

Mee too 🥲

@baysismful 3 жыл бұрын

I can't believe no one taught us this in school... when we're being "prepared" to eventually do stressful jobs.

@lolalovesfetishclips 3 жыл бұрын

I cried watching this because it was like i finally understood. She is an excellent teacher. Therapists would tell me imagine a happy place, do this or that but never really explained why it would help. Its like my eyes have been opened and im excited to try some of these ideas.

@jonthebutcher 3 жыл бұрын

The government don't give a shit about you,that's why.

@morgansimmons383 3 жыл бұрын

@@jonthebutcher Well damn 😳

@sanjosunshine7091 3 жыл бұрын

I feel you!!! And also how to do burocracy. In Germany this is a huge thing. And when you have trained it you don't panic as much. There are so many lifeskills that should be thought in school 🏫

@wootwootwoot32 3 жыл бұрын

Yassss

@sharonbooboo 3 жыл бұрын

My Dad died of cancer 3 weeks ago. I cared for him for 7 months and held his hand when he passed. It was more traumatizing than I thought it would be. Now that he’s passed, I’m having all kinds of physical symptoms. I stumbled across this therapist’s videos and I can’t stop watching. She explains things sooo well, and she is just so sweet and calming. I keep hearing myself say as I watch her videos, “she’s so sweet; I just love this lady”. I don’t know where she’s located or anything about her, but if she’s in the wash DC or surrounding area, she’d be my therapist!

@DK_1977 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss ❤️

@joseperez1085 2 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss.

@sewmixed4909 2 жыл бұрын

My dad was in home Hospice and it was traumatizing for me too. He died from cancer in Feb. 2022, did this video really help?? :)

@lindaarena4022 2 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry for your loss and pain, you didnt happen to stumble into these videos, it came from God! I went thru the same situation, I lost my father to cancer after close to a year of him suffering and held him as he took his last breath so I can truly relate to your pain and struggles. one of the hardest things I've had to live thru...I'm in a tough season now, years later, going thru a horrible divorce and surviving the abuse...Im now healing and leaning on God with all my might, I too stumbled across these and found such help thru her and her videos and I know in my heart it's from God helping me heal..blessing me daily. Praise God!!

@sharonbooboo 2 жыл бұрын

@@lindaarena4022 hi Linda! As I just got your comment, I lost my Mom just this week - 11 months from losing my Dad. Whew! I feel like I need to go on a anti-anxiety retreat 😩

@Jessica_PMHNP 8 ай бұрын

Battling a season of anxiety! Praying to overcome this soon! Thanks so much for this video!🙏

@yvettemundo6283 3 ай бұрын

Praying for you Jessica. God is always with us and even though we go through difficult seasons in our life, we are not alone. You are not alone, and this too shall pass. 🙏❤️😇

@tashamae Жыл бұрын

I have never been through this much stress and anxiety to the point that I'm experiencing hyperacidity throughout the day and cannot sleep. But one night, I have seen one of your videos on my recommendations (when I needed it the most). I can say that I'm really learning and starting to feel better now. Plus, your voice itself calms me! Thank you so much, Emma. You are a savior for the most of us!

@sarinirangedera7476 11 ай бұрын

thats so great ❤ happy for you! wish you calm and ease and peace

@DGM34 4 ай бұрын

This happened a to me too I get to stressed my stomach starts to hurt so bad

@AnyaReal 3 жыл бұрын

What a sweet caring therapist! Thank you, Emma. You make this world so much better! Happy Earth Day, everyone!

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! You too! Happy Earth Day!

@amazingyoga6871 2 жыл бұрын

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@annamcmahan967 2 жыл бұрын

@@TherapyinaNutshell a am a a a w molly p

@jeanwagner1977 2 жыл бұрын

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@stephaniebaffone2321 3 жыл бұрын

Emma, you are such a gift. I use your videos personally and share them with my clients. It’s tough to accomplish the kind of teaching they need in a 50 minute weekly session. You are my go to co-therapist! So much gratitude.

@jeanwagner1977 2 жыл бұрын

🇸🇳

@missbambiplays7660 Жыл бұрын

I come back to these videos every time i’m having anxiety. You have helped me almost rid my medical induced anxiety! I have been getting out of the blue panic attacks lately while doing anything, laundry, reading, gaming, sitting, walking, you name it. My heart rate slowed down shortly after watching 2 of these videos and I already feel so much better. Thank you so much for these and for helping thousands of people, including myself.

@lxowlife Жыл бұрын

You’re not alone! Sending hugs

@krittikaghosh6812 Жыл бұрын

WOW, I have GAD too amy heart rate is increasing when I wake up and during the say many times, don't know how to deal with it

@nagashreeks380 Жыл бұрын

Anxiety for house work daily morning and slows down evening someone help with techniques to concentrate where in i go blank during anxiety

@tomaszkijak2642 10 ай бұрын

I couldn't agree more. I keep rewatching the videoes when the going gets tough. Emma has a natural gift (or learned skill, doesn't matter) to calm things down. I have lived with OCD for more or less 30 yrs with relapses now and then. Somehow, one gets used to it - unwillingly or not.

@lynnkahle2586 8 ай бұрын

I've been so sick with anxiety I am never hungry anymore.

@cherylpa527 2 жыл бұрын

I just wanted to say, as a a clinician (I'm a PA), you are an amazing mental health care provider. The work you are doing is so important and valuable and you are helping so many people!. I appreciate you and your techniques have been helping me immensely to cope dealing with this pandemic along with my own issues. Sending you love and wishing you all the best! ❤️

@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449 2 жыл бұрын

He is the best when it comes to recovery pregnancy.... ..

@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449 2 жыл бұрын

ViawhatsApp..

@creamrising 3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it's the tiny sound bite that hits home and the message sticks. For me it's when you said "your body sees multitasking as a threat". Wow.

@Sarai1996 3 жыл бұрын

This video is amazing!! This should be added to the curriculum in schools starting in Pre-k and onwards. Adolescent years could be a lot less stressful and it could prevent anxiety and depression conditions.

@staciegulizia4144 2 жыл бұрын

I taught preschool for 30 years. We focused a lot on social and emotional development, noticing and naming emotions, expressing our emotions effectively and appropriately, responding to other’s emotions, coping with stress in healthy ways, etc... Sadly, preschool teachers will just be at the beginning of teaching these important developmental skills but then have to send the kids off to public or private school (K-12) where none of these skills are fostered. Many quality Early Childhood Education programs in our country have been years ahead on this issue, but the upper grade levels never caught on to this important developmental need. It is truly a sad fact of our education system.

@sandra969 2 жыл бұрын

So true so sad it would be so beneficial.

@kimberlykennedy747 2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@lacelace9331 8 ай бұрын

I'm almost in tears with how much calmer I am. It's typically taken HOURS to calm back down

@joy39894 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being part of my healing. Even the colour that you're using on your thumbnails is what I've been recently most drawn to (I just noticed how this shade of green keeps me calm). Thank you. Thank you so much. 🙏💝🌱

@meagles1333 3 жыл бұрын

The work you're doing on this channel is helping a lot of people. It's so simple but so powerful. Thank you so much

@Periscope99985 3 жыл бұрын

I recovered 99 percent ✌ Thanks Just focus on work and care for loved ones

@sauceinnasaucer42 3 жыл бұрын

What helped you most?

@Periscope99985 3 жыл бұрын

@@sauceinnasaucer42 keep busy

@amihere383 Жыл бұрын

I can’t thank you enough for this. Trying to hold back this breakdown until after work, because it’s like you read my mind in every session. You’re better than any of the three therapists I’ve had and I can’t even actually talk to you. Thank you so much.

@morganmcneill2210 3 жыл бұрын

As a military member, someone who deals with anxiety, someone who has endured several traumatic experiences + someone who has definitely felt the physical manifestations of choosing to not feel my emotions after suddenly losing a close family member, I thank you SO much for these videos 🙏🏽🧡!!

@Sarai1996 3 жыл бұрын

Same!

@morganmcneill2210 3 жыл бұрын

@@Sarai1996 🧡🧡🧡

@sabine3769 3 жыл бұрын

Thank sincerely for serving

@staciegulizia4144 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your service. It’s commendable and courageous of you to be searching for help and support. Keep reaching out. You deserve it!

@morgan.a.mcneill 2 жыл бұрын

@@sabine3769 Thank you, sincerely, for your support 🙏🏽.

@shanonknowlton5224 3 жыл бұрын

Emma you have been a great blessing in my life!! I have struggled with intense anxiety and depression for almost 30 years and no one has ever taught me the things that you are so selflessly teaching in your videos. THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!! I have been trying to find a therapist to help with the stress ladder and making small steps to overcome the fear of having severe anxiety and have not had a lot of luck. I know Heavenly Father will guide me as I truly feel that He guided me to you!!

@tristins9644 2 жыл бұрын

I can relate to that kind of anxiety Shanon, you will come out the other side! Prayers for you 💜

@alayameinhold975 2 жыл бұрын

Whenever the times get low I find myself back at your channel. You remind me that there is hope 🥺

@donnadesrosiers9198 2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU so much for sharing this therapy!!!! I needed this!!!! I appreciate your videos as someone who has had trauma, PTSD & a veteran you don't know how helpful these are! You are helping me every time I watch one of your videos! Thank you again!

@laiqism 3 жыл бұрын

I have been struggling with stress, anxiety and it’s related side effects on my mood, and despite practising meditation and general wellness techniques, i felt at loss for how easily i slide into stress response. Watching your videos have helped me put things into perspective. So much so that just realising that i am safe, and realising that i have created a dependency on avoidance (like you said) which causes more stress, i already feel calm and relaxed. Thank you. I needed this.

@sistergoldenhair0727 2 жыл бұрын

This is such great advice! My stress has always hit me in my body BEFORE my thoughts and I feel this is because I had a very dysfunctional childhood where I was ALWAYS in fight or flight mode and never felt safe. I’m 51 now and still experience anxiety and stress in my body long before my thoughts catch up and when they do it’s to elevate the anxiety by asking why I’m stressed when nothing is ‘wrong’.

@desinysmith1900 2 жыл бұрын

Your energy is so soothing.. even through the phone. Thank you for all that you do ❤

@sarahpuckerin667 2 жыл бұрын

I've only recently started watching your videos, let me say how grateful I am to you. I've been dealing with panic attacks and anxiety since 2008, and recently lost a close friend and got covid, and it just skyrocketed. So thankful for the advise giving, I've learnt soo much from watching your videos, and it has also helped me to better understand how I can deal and hopefully fully recover from this horrible experience. 🙏

@joepatch126 3 жыл бұрын

I am so appreciative of you offering these videos for free, they help me so much and I would not be able to access them otherwise. Namaste! With love from the UK

@tothemoon8465 2 жыл бұрын

1 thing that also can trigger calm is to "Relax into what you feel". Accepting the sensations, not trying to change anything, and just be OK being with them for a moment

@xx_jae_jay_xx5819 Жыл бұрын

Your videos help me out all the time. I usually have my anxiety under control, but when i dont, i always know where to turn to for reassurance, here. Thank you for all you do. Everything you say is everything all i wanted to hear. ❤️🙏

@peaches8864 2 жыл бұрын

As a new psychologist, your comments on feeling as though you NEED to be stressed and as intense as possible to do a good job rings so true. Thank you so much, I hadn’t even realised I was putting this pressure on myself.

@toothsometofu 3 жыл бұрын

I suffer from cptsd as a results of being an autistic queer person raised in a cult like religion. Until now i never had the words to describe my experiences but i now know that Iv’e struggled with severe depression, and two anxiety disorders (general and social) since about age fourteen. Discovered and got diagnosed with ASD this year at 31 has been incredibly eye opening. I’ve spent the last few years learning all i can about trauma, emotions, disassociation, different modes of therapy, regulation, polyvagal theory, attachment theory, etc. Thank you for the tips and reminder to stay in my body; it’s a constant struggle to stay conscious and aware. When I’ve used EFT in the past, I repeat the cycle over and over until i feel my body relax somewhat and like to incorporate also the mantra “My body doesn’t feel safe, but I am okay.”. It can feel like I’m lying because I don’t feel Olay so I might initially end it more like “and I don’t feel okay.” Then to “but i will be okay” and so forth until I feel I can genuinely say and believe the whole lot “My body doesn’t feel safe, but I am okay.” By that point my sympathetic nervous system has typically mellowed. It’s extra hard to develop inner awareness/consciousness when you have underdeveloped interception and have had to modify & suppress your natural way of being and moving in the world to mimic neurotypicals and developed an uncanny survival skill of disassociating to block out overwhelming sensory sensitivities.

@talvez6845 3 жыл бұрын

Well said and well done, I like the mantra🙏🏼

@jimspencer4413 3 жыл бұрын

You've been through a lot of serious trauma, but should be very proud of how well you've marshaled your own resources to get better. You are still fairly young, and I wish you well in your future endeavors. Take care, an older person who's dealing with somewhat similar problems (and solutions!)

@markmontes1795 3 жыл бұрын

You are blanking awesome!

@ahoopz7692 2 жыл бұрын

You got this and don’t give up 💪🏽💪🏽

@proletaariat 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Recovering from narcissistic abuse, and anxiety is not a joke. Keep sharing this great information!

@beReal406 8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your channel. This video is THE first time any mental health professional has made the distinction between self-regulation and relaxation techniques in the context of work stress. I work a very "stressful" job and have experienced symtpoms from that "stress." All I ever hear is "reduce your stress." I always think, "What am I supposed to?? Quit my job and live off the grid??" I've shared your channel with people who aren't open to therapy and/or had bad experiences seeiing a therapist IRL. Your channel and others like it help soo many people out there get past the stigma of seeking therapy. I hope you and yours in your life are doing well and are happy. You provide so much to so many people!

@mistie101 7 ай бұрын

Just coming back to this video to say thank you. Never in my life did I think something a simple as the tapping method would work but it really does. It's become such a comforting thing for me now and I'm very, very grateful. Thank you!! 💗

@oliviainocencio9574 Жыл бұрын

I stopped my activity just to watch you! You are a blessing to all the people who are experiencing these like me! God bless you also because you brought light to my clouded,anxious mind.

@ronlugbill1400 3 жыл бұрын

I started using the first technique. The dog technique. I used to reach for food when feeling stressed. I confused hunger and stress. Then, instead of reaching for food, I lied down and closed my eyes. And I feel my emotions. The dog technique. Just lie down and close your eyes, not to relax, but to feel emotions.

@dariosergevna 3 жыл бұрын

I’m also laying down every time it’s too much

@jennadanielescobar4440 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. I am Healing from a lot of trauma back to back and PTSD and now I need to reteach my Body to regulate itself. Thank you.

@Amethystxxxxx Жыл бұрын

When I’m stuck in fight flight I watch these videos. Education soothes me and helps me talk myself down. I need these reminders. Thank you ❤

@DaniFernandesVideos Жыл бұрын

If I was allowed to be subscribed to just one channel on KZfaq, just one option, yours would be it. So much healing information, presented in such a soothing and compassionate way ❤

@damlab9609 Жыл бұрын

Emma, I love you. I was having an anxiety attack in the middle of the night for seemingly no reason at all and yours was the first video that popped up when I looked for help. And I am so glad it did! I have grown accustomed to just wallow in my fear whenever it hit me, and I did not know about many of these techniques. Tapping worked wonders for me. What you are doing is amazing, I cannot put my gratitude in words. Thank you so much!!

@grayven123 5 ай бұрын

Your videos are making an impact on my mental health. I have chronic depression and anxiety, and over the last few years my anxiety has increased. Once I started watching your videos and started to learn about anxiety I gained tools and knowledge on how to effectively defuse the bomb that is my anxiety.

@nelw818 2 жыл бұрын

thank you, I appreciate you tremendously. the amount of safety you're adding to people's lives is amazing I even feel much calmer after watching this video.

@jeffshapiro4996 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for another helpful video. As far as inversions go I have found a yoga posture called "legs up the wall" to be easier and more effective than shoulder stands, headstands, or using an inversion table. I highly recommend it for the relief of anxiety. Thanks again for all the great work that you do. You're awesome!

@hotelpousadaportomilenio3502 3 жыл бұрын

Every night when going to bed, my anxiety symptoms start, this, even if I am calm and relaxed!

@Bloogly89 3 жыл бұрын

Have you tried Wim Hof breathing? It's like a heavy duty parasympathetic response. Search it on KZfaq and do it in bed.

@msprecious3498 2 жыл бұрын

You feel loss of. Control perhaps then

@alexpickle2413 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe it’s cause you are trying to force yourself to sleep

@bellydonut 2 жыл бұрын

So happy to have found you. Even your voice and your manner is soothing. I’ve been chronically ill for a year and really starting to realize how much my nervous system has been impacted because of it. I am doing the Gupta program now but it definitely takes a lot of patience. Thank you so much for your information! It is so helpful! I cannot believe how powerful our brains are over our bodies… I’m trying so hard to have power over my brain and I never ever realized how difficult it actually is.

@stephanievaldez5996 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Emma ima start to work with my anxiety each time a day because I’ve been having anxiety attacks and I didn’t know how to control them at all for me to listen to you for the first time I wanted to cry because I don’t want to feel this way and this help me little by little when I get I just go to your videos and see what could help me out with day to day life ❤ very grateful that you are here telling us how to calm ourselves down and how to deal with anxiety you are awesome therapist because nobody an afford it thanks again Emma and I’m try to heal myself little by little ❤️🙏🏼god bless you

@Skyrie87 2 жыл бұрын

I often tap on my collarbone to calm my anxiety. I noticed myself unconsciously doing it once in a stressful situation & it was actually helping. It was so nice to hear you mention this technique in your video!

@ptlyc3669 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for making these incredibly valuable videos freely available for all of us. There’s so many of us struggling out here, sending love and strength to you all 💜💜

@seinfeldfan442 2 жыл бұрын

I'm getting better at managing trauma, I'm learning to not panic when I think I'm in danger, anxiety in general can also be paralising so you have to practice whatever techniques work for you, keep watching these great videos

@carolebuckle7977 2 жыл бұрын

I had agoraphobia for 27 years, first 8 years I was a recluse ….one day I had reached a point. And I said to my husband let’s go for a drive & let’s face this anxiety head on! I had a huge anxiety attack, But I relaxed my muscles & took deep breaths, even when I my heart was racing, I was not forcing it & eventually my palpitations stopped. I went through it & came out of the other side & realised I was not going to die! finally after all these years I got it. I do not label myself anymore I found that did not help ! Hence why I say I had Agoraphobia, I now tell myself I have made progress & I do not put myself through to much in one day. This programme is so helpful to people who have no tools or still learning how to use them. Hugs from England to everyone 🇬🇧 😉🙋‍♀️xxx

@blesd4success 2 ай бұрын

I’ve been there. Afraid to leave the house.

@carolebuckle7977 2 ай бұрын

@@blesd4success we have good days, we have bad days, we all have them. Stay well 🙏🏻❤️🇬🇧

@gyorgykiraly5380 3 жыл бұрын

You are fantastic Emma. Thank you so much for the time effort and energy you are putting in. We all love you.

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@sadistickitten 2 жыл бұрын

My mom's a narcissistic & my dad's abusive, I've got CPTSD & anxiety which I'm working on dealing with better. I get these flashbacks at times that are traumatizing. After watching your videos, you've helped me to better deal with my stress and get over these moments. Thanks again for every video you do

@yoyoholck 2 жыл бұрын

Same

@nestorlasala2088 Жыл бұрын

Woman, thank you. Like, really. Hearing you makes me feel sooo good, like a mother or a wife. I have a partner for 4 years now is not about you as a woman, is about the calmness, the good vibes and the kindness you transmit. All that, backed up with fantastic explanations and organised speech. Thanks a lot, Im going to bed feeling safe, happy and glad that you are so kind to share this with us. Have a great day.

@copperbittner2303 2 жыл бұрын

I just finished a session with my therapist. We were talking about this exact thing and I brought up John Sarno's book that I'd read way back when. Love the coincidences in life. I want to thank you for making these videos ... they help me so very much.

@Nox934 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for these videos. I have all my life had a problem with the freeze response, and the people around me have always been confused and at a loss for what to do. Not even the therapists I've talked to have helped, focusing on my thoughts and not my emotions. I have a lot of work to do on my emotions and I finally feel that I have the opportunity to make progress.

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

Great to hear!

@amj0215 Жыл бұрын

I'm so grateful I came across your channel. Thank you so much. I almost call 911 I literally thought I was going to die🤦‍♀️ My anxiety was so bad. After I finished watching your video I'm so calm and back to normal. God bless you and all of us that is going through it. We keep going and never give up. WE ALL GOT THIS🙏❤🙂💪

@lauras6300 3 жыл бұрын

This is so incredibly helpful, wow. I’m going through CBT right now for severe depression, anxiety (& awaiting diagnosis for ASD) and have real struggles regulating my emotions. These are great techniques to use along with my CBT (my therapist taught me 5,4,3,2,1 technique, compassionate thinking, loads of good stuff), together these are helping me get out of what was an awful cycle of depression and shutdown. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 I’ll definitely follow up and check the other videos 🙂

@shyaaammeneen63 2 жыл бұрын

Laura, Reduce negative thoughts to have a good life. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be still and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly they will reduce and relax the mind. No deep inhalation-exhalation or breath counting needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Be as still as possible as it reduces negative thoughts. Make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

@nickbernacki5603 11 ай бұрын

I have bi polar and adhd and had no tools growing up to help me. Been on meds for 30 years trying to be my best self. You are helping me so much learn coping skills and to get away from bad self talk. I used to beat myself all day everyday all day. I felt damaged or not good enough. I feel like there is hope from these horrible thoughts. Your teaching me to rewrite my thoughts and practice self love. I’m in high pressure sales for military aerospace and it is so stressful. There’s hope for me to enjoy my life and enjoy ME. Learning how to overcome my thoughts

@sindygovender3105 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Emma for these free therapy sessions, that are helping so many people to get freedom from anxiety. Your labor of love is appreciated, and is bearing much fruit. ❤

@7Annamallover7 3 жыл бұрын

I won’t be able to really express how much your video, about being stuck in that nervous loop, helped me realize why I couldn’t get better. I got into an outlandishly awful state. It was so bad it was worse than being bed ridden and mentally paralyzed! That video helped me understand that it was a constant state of extreme fight or flight. I knew this, but I didn’t know I could trigger my parasympathetic nervous system to actually start working again. My body needed, and is currently learning, that it’s safe and I’m seeing results. This is life changing! I owe you (and my husband) my life. I don’t really know how to thank you for what many doctors and therapists couldn’t even help me with!

@mjchecksfield914 2 жыл бұрын

I have never understood why traditional western medicine gives you pills or pushes you to see cliincal pyschologiists when there are such simple mechanisms like we see here to retrain your mind/body responses. Even just as little as tapping your face or chest, or licking your lips or looking with your eyes to 3 o clock position, putting your hand on heart = they all work at creating the safe or rest and digest state of mind.

@7Annamallover7 2 жыл бұрын

@@mjchecksfield914 I suffer from extreme high anxiety to the point where I can't even get up from bed to make breakfast. Literally a normal lifestyle is impossible. I'm someone with a lot of will power, I got straight A's throughout school. I'm a perfectionist and a high achiever by nature. All that to say that there are definitely real mental disorders. I know more than anything that there is something legitimately wrong in my brain. I've seen so many therapists, countless doctors, I've explored many avenues of healing my mental state. There are people like me where your brain doesn't respond to positive situations and only negative situations and there is nothing you can do to force it. I would have thought the same thing as you but unless you've lived through the hell you won't be able to understand that it is a very serious brain issue.

@7Annamallover7 2 жыл бұрын

@@mjchecksfield914 Although I've seen some results with this video I'm still in great need of a medication to be somewhat functional.

@shyaaammeneen63 2 жыл бұрын

@@mjchecksfield914 Reduce negative thoughts to have a good life. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be still and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly they will reduce and relax the mind. No deep inhalation-exhalation or breath counting needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Be as still as possible as it reduces negative thoughts. Make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

@shyaaammeneen63 2 жыл бұрын

@@7Annamallover7 Reduce negative thoughts to have a good life. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be still and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly they will reduce and relax the mind. No deep inhalation-exhalation or breath counting needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Be as still as possible as it reduces negative thoughts. Make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

@ggonsg 3 жыл бұрын

You are such a gift to this world!

@bimalradia1969 2 жыл бұрын

Emma - thank you for posting this and other videos. So much better than even paid therapists. You are doing God's work on earth and will be amply rewarded for that. Very helpful and coming from a place of true caring and kindness. God speed.

@TextheT_Rex 2 жыл бұрын

I watched part one during a panic attack and this one right after, definitely already helping. The yawn technique is my favorite

@FreeMeJB 3 жыл бұрын

I taught myself to “spin down” every few minutes. It’s basically relaxing. It literally changed my entire life. Patience is all it takes.

@sandstone_block5980 Жыл бұрын

how do u do that?

@foreverleah7445 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Emma! This video is life changing for me! It's frustrating especially in public when anxiety hits. Thank you for explaining how to deal with it. Sending you a big hug ❤

@julietteferrars3097 2 жыл бұрын

I was in a car accident and have had such intense feelings of panic. Previously I dealt with anxiety but it was mostly irrational and mental but now I’m coping with sudden physical anxiety that catches me by surprise because it’s often not triggered by a conscious thought. Thank you for your videos, I am too scared to go to therapy so this is the next best thing. ♥️

@kittykat632 Жыл бұрын

I love sharing your videos with SO MANY PEOPLE I know who have been dealing with anxiety

@jenntheavenger 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this, you’ve really helped me on my recovery from panic disorder. Thank you ❤️

@loriar1027 Жыл бұрын

My biggest struggle with anxiety and panic is triggered by minor physical illnesses. A bladder infection or upset stomach sends me into meltdown mode with fears that what I have is going to get worse. I like your approach to dealing with this so I’ll check out your other videos to see if you address that kind of situation. Right now my only recourse is medication but I’d like to be able to avoid it altogether.

@DS-ng6qz Жыл бұрын

I think you should also her anxiety health cycle .it will help you for sure.dont googling about diseasesor symtoms. it is just your sensation ..

@NoxCattus Жыл бұрын

It took me decades to realize I did that. For the longest, I wondered why I would dry heave any time I got sick (even if if was a cold). I basically ended up in situations where there was no physical ailment and I got sick to stomach to make the connection....

@campfortune 7 ай бұрын

so I am not the only one

@snowps1 7 ай бұрын

Omg, me too. I'm in the middle of this right now. I also want to avoid going back on meds!

@rayshellray2824 6 ай бұрын

Omg u are not alone that Is so me I today had some belly ach that be no big deal to most and some back pain made my mind think kidney stone I even went out to the er buy the waiting area was so busy I came home manged to get my kids in bed now I'm listening to this hope it help

@rebeccaclement2132 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for this video. As a retired teacher, I wish I could teach this to teachers everywhere. Their job is so stressful, and I know they would pass this valuable info on. Thanks again. You are amazing.

@kenhoover1639 2 жыл бұрын

I subscribed to your channel a couple of weeks ago and I'm really enjoying your content. I'm making a commitment to not only watch these videos but actually apply the techniques that you provide. I am so grateful that you have chosen to share this invaluable information with the world for free. I am not currently able to support your work monetarily, but I am sharing this information on my social media. Thank you again!

@littletodger7008 3 жыл бұрын

Real intelligence tickled by gentle humour is so vivacious. Emma has it in spades.

@ArtsyMusic 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. The soft eye technique is just amazing for my issue. I tend to overthink breathing and this technique just got me right back on track thank you

@appelliefieaudiobooks1410 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for this amazing series of videos. It REALLY works!! My nervous system was sensitized three weeks ago after getting a panic attack while on stage in front of about 400 students. I followed the tips in your video to get out of the sympathetic overdrive. Just three weeks later I probably have 10% or less of the anxiety I had and I can continue with life. Stay away from Benzodiazopienes if possible as they are difficult to get off of. Rather do these simple things. They really work.

@finite934 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes you come across people like you who are just so thoroughly authentic and genuine in their desire to help people. You deserve a lot of cred for these videos.

@Enchanted3DPrints 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. You are saving lives and doing it without asking a dime. You're everything right with the world. An amazing human being. ❤️

@jeanwagner1977 2 жыл бұрын

We are not the same.

@joanneshaw3071 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy that I’ve come across this video. I’m a nurse and as many people are aware it’s such a stressful time to be a nurse. I’m constantly stressed at work and when I’m not at work I’m thinking about work. I get anxious before shifts hoping that the shift will go well. I almost quit my job due to the effect it was having on me. Since then I’ve had to really look at how I can do my job and not get so stressed and so anxious

@marjamerryflower 2 жыл бұрын

Rooting for you!

@heatherholyland157 2 жыл бұрын

Me too … feeling overwhelmed most of the time 😟

@blancacasillas8226 Жыл бұрын

Same got bad anxiety because of nursing job

@jcnoriega 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making this video. It really helped me out. I was having anxiety when ever I ate and knew that acid reflux was going to come. I used your technique and kept telling myself that everything is going to be ok and I am safe, and my acid reflux and anxiety got better! Thank you!

@Andtherewaslight427 2 жыл бұрын

This series is the best thing that's ever happened to me. I am so thankful.

@clintonwoodssolofthesoul1734 3 жыл бұрын

Pneumonic activities are amazing for helping with anxiety and stress thank you for reminding us and sharing these techniques I’m so very grateful for these vids and the material you so freely give. I’ve found that this is the true way to peace, self mastery and prosperity in life. Guys quit chasing the material gain from this just seek peace within and everything else will flow to and from you with ease. Bless you all. Stay awesome ♾❤️🔥🙏😇

@CreatewithColgan 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Always very grateful for all you do. I watch all the time, and look forward to the next one. You’re very good and help tremendously, thanks again… ❤️

@jackbenimble999 Жыл бұрын

Nice video! I've heard "pay attention to your breath", "be mindful", and "be present" a billion times. But there are a lot of other ways to calm down and relax. A real eye-opener - thank you!

@latter-daysaintpud1432 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for putting these videos on KZfaq, they are extremely helpful. The techniques help me deal with issues and teach me a lot about human behaviour.

@donnabolt5847 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I have aggresive ms and was told stress is one of the worst things for ms. Im working on improving how I handle stress and you are making a difference in the quality of my life

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

You got this!

@zonderbaar 3 жыл бұрын

Try a carnivore diet, the Facebook groups are full of success stories for autoimmune disease and ms

@engelneen1686 3 жыл бұрын

I cannot thank you enough for these videos. This is so helpful. God bless you!!!

@ciliaumali4797 Жыл бұрын

I cant tell you how much i needed this and how thankful I am right now. God Bless!

@lisa-annishamael3355 2 жыл бұрын

You have helped me so much! I'm so glad I found your channel. My anxiety calmed down from a level 8 to a 2. Thank you.

@boosqueezy2418 2 жыл бұрын

after years of doing therapy and taking anti-depressants that didn’t work, i have learned more from your videos in a week! i, too, assumed to be working, it has to be frenzied. lightbulb moment lol. and when you said in another video that “thoughts are not facts,” i realized how often i get trapped in that cycle. i shut down as soon as i feel overwhelmed, so i never resolve the actual issue-i get stuck at the avoidance phase, instead of trying to feel the bad feelings and release them. thank you so much!!!

@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449 2 жыл бұрын

He is the best when it comes to recovery pregnancy.... ..

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@AA-eq2zq Жыл бұрын

definitely try different therapists (maybe specialized to your biggest issues/their sources), medication and maybe psychiatrists

@JessicaDarling2 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making these!! ❤️✨🙏🏻 I appreciate you so much.

@jessstuart7495 Жыл бұрын

I've struggled with self regulation for a long time and have never really figured out how to maintain high levels of productivity without getting stressed out. Thank you for this video.

@sumitsingharora5469 5 ай бұрын

You are amazing. I am commuting to work and am experiencing extreme anxiety. I searched for this video again to do the tapping. I did it and it works.

@ieatpaintchips72 2 жыл бұрын

Holy crap! That tapping this took me from a 7 to a 4. That's freaking amazing.

@leoncharles1431 2 жыл бұрын

Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once. Breathe. You’re strong. You got this. Take it day by day.

@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449 2 жыл бұрын

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@joannaedwards6325 2 жыл бұрын

@@asamauabdullahianyagwa3449 Your constant repeated IRRELEVANT comments are nit helpful to these ppl here who need mental help. Plus you are just plain ANNOYING. Please stop!!

@alexasmith6473 2 жыл бұрын

This is great content. It's tying into my new understanding of somatic experiencing, which has been helping me start to reverse my crazy nervous system dysfunction. Living w fibromyalgia for 10 years, type 1 diabetes for over 40 years, tons of physical, emotional and sexual trauma, chronic anxiety and depression, etc... I reached my highest point of dysfunctional living in the last year, despite a nearly lifelong search for practical and spiritual healing but finally all my accumulated knowledge, awareness and experience have been dovetailing to a real shift towards true healing. Your content is reaffirming and deepening this shift. Very supportive and helpful. Thank you!

@tomsale5142 Жыл бұрын

Is it helping your fybromyalgia