Anyone else watching this after the divorce? My heart hurts :(

So happy she didn't have a kid to save her marriage !

EVERY video where Jeannie talks about not wanting children, Adrienne has been the most understanding and tactful. She always sticks up for Jeannie when someone says 'oh but you'd be such a good mum'

"He's my Freddie and I'm his Jeannie" Broke my heart.

I am glad that Adrienne emphasized that saying "You would be a great Mom" to someone who doesn't want children is not received as a compliment.

OMG Jeanie's fear came true, wowww so sad

People were crying in the audience man. This was deep 😢

Jeannie doesn't get enough credit for how honest and raw she was about her marriage on television for years for the world to see. She opens up about things that many would not even discuss with their friends. But by being so open so many viewers were able to relate to what she may have went through and realize that they are not alone. So thank-you Jeannie ♥️

If Tamera adopts that child will have the most loving home😭😩💕. May God answer her prayers and give Aiden and Ariah another sibling!

ACCEPT IT! SOME PEOPLE DON'T WANT CHILDREN!!! AND IT'S OKAY!!!

5:25 Thank you Adrienne for stepping in quick and reinforcing what Jeannie has tried to make clear every time this topic has come up!

Loved how Loni nurtured Jeannie in that moment... she really is a true friend, even though she sometimes shades the hell out of all the ladies lol

Aww jeannie the answer was no 😭😭

I love Jeannie and Loni holding onto each other💚

Jeanie is beyond brave and strong for facing this head on... its can be such a hard subject for couples. Bless Her 💗

I feel bad for Jeannie, this is a tough decision to make but she can't just give Freddie a child because he wants one, she has to be ready too plus Freddie is away a lot of the time so if she did have a child she would be doing the bulk of the work which isn't fair. Praying that everything works out for her and Freddie.

Sadly jeannie got her answer a year later.

I just love Jeannie so much because you can tell that home girl is GENUINE & REAL!!! Also, I can understand where her confliction comes from because she wants her husband happy, which is a necessity for marriage but she also wants to stay true to herself which is equally as important. I pray that one day God will give Jeannie the clarity she needs and that clarity brings her overall peace and contentment in her life 🙏🙏🙏🙏 #Godblesssis

Loni is so invested in Tamera's uterus...

My heart breaks for Jeanie! I really hope everything turns out ok for her. Also I Love how supportive Loni was when Tamera said she would adopt a child! Amazing friend

Damn it’s insane how much Adrienne back Jeanie up. I would love a friend like her.

This is why i love Jeanie Mai. She's a REAL one!

Who is watching this in Oct 2018... Jeannie, we love you girl. Sending you blessings.

I wish Loni's question would have been personal to her...

Look where Jeannie is now, married with a baby, when it’s real it’s real. You deserve it girl! 💖

Thank you Adrienne for speaking up for Jeannie. She doesnt owe an explanation as to why she doesnt want kids. She is right in that its a total commitment and responsibility. Our kids were planned and its still a huge sacrifice and can create strain in your marriage if you aren't on the same page. It takes alot of time and woyld slow her down. I pray for her an Freddie. watching this it looks like they made a decision. 😢

Um is it me or is Loni living thru Tamera vicariously?? 😅

I mean.. I've seen Jeannie display vulnerability before but this was something else.. broke my heart for her. Also Loni is so caring

This past year I lost the love of my life to suicide. If I could ask one question it would be “can he hear me pray to him every night.” I would feel amazing knowing I can still speak to him

Didnt expect it to get that real! I just wanna give Jeannie hug :(

Who came to watch this after finding out Jeannie is getting a divorce?😢 I am proud that she stayed true to herself

do you Jeannie, do you boo! If Freddy decides to change his mind now then that's on him, bc you've made it clear to him before you got married!

Long story short. Freddie is married to Lindsey, and they have 2 cute kids. Jeannie is married to Jeezy, and they have cute little Monaco! A winning situation for both couples! Won't HE do it!🙏🏼

Dear Jeannie mai and everyone in this comments , this is a long one. I think low low low low low key , Jeannie wants a child. But she's scared. She's seen the sacrifices that her parents have made for her. Not only that , the lifestyle that she lives and loves currently , she doesn't see involving children. Period. She doesn't have to carry. She Doesn't have to want to carry. Having a baby won't save their marriage. Not having a baby won't break their marriage. Plus , I don't think people understand. Not a person on this earth , living or dead , asked to be born and brought into this world. But here we are. With no script. No manual. No guide. Nothing but the people who came before us, raising us, trying to educate us for the next generation to come along. Having a baby is no easy tasks. People say "give him just one child." What if , god forbid, Jeannie entertains the idea of a child, gets pregnant, and then she ends up like loni and miscarriages ? How discouraging would that be for her and Freddie. What if she took that miscarriage as a sign that she was never suppose to bare child ? And how dare she try ? But y'all didn't think about that. What if her child ends up being special needs or something ? Everyone doesn't have a strong heart or mind to take care of a child with special needs. Dozens of children with special needs are left at hospitals and doorsteps everyday because people can't handle everything that goes with raising a "special" baby. What if she takes that as a sign that she's being punished? There are sooo many things that go with having a baby. So many outcomes that we are not aware of that could happen. Things we have no control over. Things that you have to have the utmost faith in , no matter what the outcome. It's hard. It is hard. IT IS HARD. And you should not have a child to save a marriage. You should not have a child for someone else. Because Jeannie is the woman. She carries for nine months. She goes through the heartburn. She goes through the morning sickness. She goes through peeing on herself cause the baby kicks too hard on her bladder. She goes through her body changing in all sorts of ways. Hips adjusting. Belly growing. Hormones spinning out of control. No one else. And yall want her to go through all of that because "it's the selfless thing to do" or "if she loved Freddie." Nah dawg. Take into considerations every thing that happens. Cause you're with this child for life. You can kick em out the house at 18 , but that's your blood. That's your flesh. That's half of you right there. For life. Jeannie might not be my favorite panel host, but she has every right to feel every way that she feels. Do I think she could take some steps to ensure a healthy pregnancy just in case she ever decides she wants to have kids ? Of course. Maybe freeze some of her really good and healthy eggs ? Absolutely. Look into surrogates and things like that? Why the hell not. But Jeannie is not my wife. She's not your wife. And she's not the women That we want to mother any of our kids. With all that being said ,before anyone sits and judges and thinks it's ohkay to call either Jeannie or Freddie selfish, selfless, speak ill will or intent on their marriage , or whatever , have several seats. Because this ain't your battle and your blood is not being shed. So don't tell me, or more so , do not tell Jeannie that "it won't hurt if you just have one". Have several seats. And as always , be respectful towards one another under this comment. Period. You don't have to get nasty with one another. Have opposing opinions. But be nice. "Tactful" even. Thank y'all. And goodnight.

Jeannie, don't compromise who YOU are for ANYONE. You're doing great sweetie.

I think they'll end up getting a divorce, not because they want to, but because they haven't got a choice. Jeanie doesn't want kids at all, so adoption isn't even up for question. Jeannie has stated many times on the show that she thinks freddie wants kids, from then, she should've listened to her intuition and Freddie should've just said from the beginning he wants kids (if he hadn't already). If she had a child solely for freddie, no doubt she'll end up being miserable, like she said she doesn't want that responsibility, she's not willing to sacrifice certain things and if she sticks to her gut instinct and doesn't have a child, no doubt freddie will end up miserable. I feel like it's a lose lose situation. They love each other deeply and that's why they're going to cling onto each other, but is it worth it? is there any point, knowing you both want different things? i don't know. it's like, do you want to be happy or do you want to appear happy? never mind what the world tells you to do to be happy. Be truthful to yourself and discover what you REALLY want. I wish them both the best. Also, just because she doesn't want children it DOES NOT mean she's had a traumatic experience with children, she's been around children before! not once has she said she thinks she'll be a bad parent. So there is no need to tell her you think she'll be a good parent, or for people to be coming up with 10,000 different reasons as to why she does want kids, but is just scared to go through with it, and it's only women I'm seeing doing that. She just doesn't want children. IT'S. THAT. SIMPLE! she's going to start questioning herself, thinking there's something wrong with her, and I hope to God you don't, Jeannie. those who are childfree may very well enjoy kids, but not want to have their own, just as you can be an animal lover and not want to be a pet owner. It is so insulting to think all women want the same thing. STOP follow your heart, jeannie, and DON'T feel guilty for not wanting children. RANT. OVER.

Soooooo crazy how this was shot 5 yrs ago nd now she’s remarried & with a new born child.. sooooooo happy for you Jeannie♥️

Let's say a prayer Jeannie and Freddie. God may you give this couple clarity and peace of mind. May they find an understanding. Let your will be done in their lives. In Jesus name we pray Amen

4 years later baby Monaco is here and she is happily married to jeezy 💕 see how God works 💪

My question is would I ever graduate

"He's my Freddie, and I'm his Jeannie" There goes the water works

Aww i hate seeing my fave Jeannie like this :( i hope you and freddie will be ok, don't ever compromise your stance on whether you choose to have kids! the fact that you have thought about it deeply and comprehended the magnitude and gravity of what it means to have children is a testament to your emotional intelligence and your character. God bless you and continue to be amazing! ❤️❤️❤️

“ he’s my Freddy and I’m his Jeannie” 💔

the one thing I like a lot about Jeanie is her realness with her life. She just isn't afraid to share what's really going on, and not having to fake it that everything is all good. I find it refreshing. I appreciate it.

I’m so happy that Jeannie didn’t have a baby with Freddie

Crying. I love Jeannie 😭

I’m just now watching this and I know they divorced& I’m like “oh no please don’t ask that question”😫🤦🏽‍♀️ I started crying immediately ! That’s hella sad! 😭

Can I just vent for a minute... Its contradictory being in a relationship because you want to do things for YOU and as modern ladies that's what we've been taught, but you also sacrifice some of your wants & needs because you want to strive to make your partner happy. It's a double edged sword 💯 this is why most relationships don't work because the give & take isn't equal or respected in both parties. Me and my bf broke up because of this reason. He wanted me to fold and give up my wants but he wasn't ready to reciprocate the same. I was upset for a minute, but I've gotten over it. Now I can hoe at 100% with no remorse 😜

And look at Jeanie now! She has a whole child. When it’s right, it’s right.

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. LONI SHE DOESNT WANT KIDS SHE SAID THIS SOOOOOOOO MANY TIMES "What scares you about it" JUST LIKE SOME PEOPLE FEEL THE NEED TO HAVE KIDS JEANNIE DOESNT......... she doesn't feel it......... THATS IT DAMMIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

YOU GUYSSSS JEANIE I completely understand where you're coming from. I don't want children, never have, and never will. You're not alone. I feel the same way and I appreciate you having the confidence to know what you do or do not want. I can't tell you how many people have told me "oh maybe you'll change your mind" or "things change"! Be strong. Hugs all around.

I get exactly where Jeannie is coming from. Doesn't make her less of a woman. To me, it makes her STRONG for admitting having kids today is just not desirable for her #keepsmiling Jeannie 💕

The answer was no jeannie but you're the happiest I ever seen u. So I'm so happy for u. God has big plans for u

Yes Tamera! If you decide to have another, please adopt. Save a life while growing your family ❤️

Watching this in 2021... I am so glad Jeannie is in a happy place now.

Adrienne is the real mvp in this segment👏🏾👏🏾

True questions to all the moms: Did you have a feeling that you wanted kids before having kids? Like a literal, true feeling?

I love these women... so genuine. I am 19, I got a long way to go, these women are really paving a path for me...

I love Jeannie man the REALEST one there. I pray God meets her at her point of need

That is the most real thing they have shared on this show! Praise God for Jeannie's bravery!

And my question is "Will I ever get married?" Coz looooord, it's a desert out here!

Her Freddy wasn’t her Freddy that’s why she couldn’t have kids with him. He wasn’t the one.

OMG life changes so much and God takes the wheel…Jeannie is now divorced from Freddy and she’s re-married and pregnant!!! ❤️✨👏🏼

🍿 I’m binge watching baby talk clips of my favorite show after Jeannie announcement yesterday. 💕🤰🏻🎉💕

Jeannie is a beautiful person she married now and pregnant, she has come really far 😭😊

Is Loni living motherhood through Tamera? Lol

Oh, Jeanie. Watching this now, and knowing what eventually happens, this hurts my heart. You are such a brave, strong, and kind person. 😢

Y'all keep say she low key wants one or she is just scared. She doesn't want a damn kid! Why is that so hard to understand. Not everyone dreams of bringy kids into the world! Why is it that when some who says that want to get married and have kids everyone accepts that? But god forbid someone says I don't want to get married or have kids all hell breaks loose. It's her life she has known from the very beginning of what she wants and doesn't. Freddy changed his mind. Why aren't we asking why Freddy lied?

I LOVE that they're being there for Jeannie. It seems like she's always there for other people and always gets put on the back burner, but to see that Loni literally held her hand, and Adrienne and Tam poured love into her makes me really really happy.

I'm so sad for Jeannie. With what she is going through now is so sad. Also good on Adrienne for really listening and suporting her.

Watching this post Jeannie pregnancy announcement and my heart hurts. You can tell here, at least to me, that she wasn’t only questioning the decision of having children. She was questioning that and also who she would be having them with. It sucks. You can love someone with your entire being and if everything doesn’t align, it’s not right. You can fight it but you won’t be able to truly be content. Im glad they are both in happy places, even if they didn’t end up there together.

I am sooooo glad she never had a baby with Freddie! That relationship was toxic and that's why her gut told her not to with him.

I'm so happy that she's happy now. God pulls through, even when you can't see the other side God has a plan.

Watching this in 2019. jeannie is a great strong woman

😭😭 watching this now years later hurts my heart to see Jeanie.. she got her god given answer and she’s thriving!! Good for her!!❤️❤️🙌

That took a lot of courage for Jeanie to talk about so openly in public. Wishing her well❤

And now jeanie is happy with a new man and she’s pregnant 🥺🥰🥰

This is intense. Watching this after she divorced and now he is having a baby....

The fact that she acknowledges how important it is to bring a child into the world in a STABLE, IMMEDIATE environment makes me respect her so much more. she's so special.

Nobody should blame this on Freddy , they've been married for 8+ years now. Feelings change, maybe back then he didn't want children but that was 8+ years ago, life simply makes feelings change. I doubt he's putting her against the wall on this, but Jeannie herself feels the guilt because just knowing that your partner wants something so bad and your not able to give it to them can take a major tole on yourself. I really hope they figure this out , because you can tell Jeannie really loves him.

I always love when Adrienne comes to Jeannie's aid. She always has her back when they talk about motherhood and children.

First time not a Madame Noire article....

Whose watching this in 2022?! Damn look at Jeanie now being an amazing mother and wife 🥰❤️

Jeannie got her answer....

I appreciate you for being so honest Jeanie. God bless you and Freddie with what ever decision he guides you to. Wow such amazing transparency!

And now Jeannie and Adrienne are both mothers!

I’m sad cause they divorced and he had a baby with someone else 😭😭😭

I really didn't even know Jeannie before The Real, but it's moments like this why i've grown to like her so much.

This is why Jeannie is my favourite.❤Always keeping it REAL.🙏Bless her! I hope she makes it through this.

Why do we keep talking about her not wanting to have children she doesn't want kids leave her alone. Freddie knew she didn't want to have kids when he married her 🙄

My heart goes out to Jeannie and her husband. May God give them the strength to overcome this obstacle --whatever the outcome may be.

I feel Jeanie on this one. There is alot of pressure on men & women alike to have children and people never really talk about what it is to be a parent especially the behind the scenes stuff. Sometimes people are more in love with the idea of having kids without realizing how much of a LIFETIME responsibility parenting is. It's also not easy being a child. There are many layers & for some people it can be very daunting. Only few relate but I applaud Jeanie for talking about this. I feel less alone. Thank you.

Wow!! This is so crazy to see this and now to come full circle to what has happened. Jeannie stood in her truth and is BRAVE to admit and to follow through. ❤️❤️❤️ My heart goes out to them. Marriage is not easy and these choices are tough!!

This Just Touch My Heart❤️I Feel You Jeannie Not Everyone Wants To Have Children There Are A lot Responsibility Is Very True But Thank You For Telling Everyone..There A lot Ppl Out There That's Feels The Same Way💯💯

I love how honest she is, there are people out there who don't think about stuff like that and get a child and do horrible unthinkable things.

My question would be “does everybody have a soulmate?”

So good that Jeannie can be so transparent on this issue. She is very brave to speak on that and open with people because people can be rude.

It's sad to watch this video now and see how Jeannie's question got its sad answer. However, I think it's for their best interest.

Aaaaaawwww Jeanie, dont cryyyy. As long as you have prayed, cried about it then u have ABOLUTELY nothing to worry about coz God heard your prayers. This season is going to be bring you n Freddy more closer than Ever before !,,, Remember, even adversities work in our favor. It might not make sense now but soon it will. None of u is selfish. Most of the time we do not understand the will of God, n thats why we have to be STILL n know that HE IS GOD. Smile baby girl, Gods got u !

I'm loving Loni makeup! Tamera is definitely having another baby, she's a great mom. Praying for Jeanine on the baby situation. God will definitely bring peace in their marriage considering that situation.