Whoever complained in the comments about the youtube videos being too short, thank you 😂 now i can wash my dishes without having to change the video Edit: wtf thank you for the likes!!! It is my only life achievement

people have always thought i was stuck up because im a quiet person

"i was resistant" 😂😂 tam and jeanie are like "hesitant" 😂😂

That's right tamera don't mistake sweetness for weakness

I think we’re all a little unconsciously judgmental at times, it could be good or bad depending on the situation

Everyone judged me as the “weirdo” because I was very quiet in school. I had and still sometimes have very bad anxiety in large groups of people including of course school. But in reality, I’m the complete opposite of quiet 😂 I honestly feel like people missed out on getting to know my true personality from judging me right off the bat. Their loss!

The fact that Loni was so shocked about Jeannie being called a “hoe” in high school was so funny but also kinda endearing.

I used to think Adrienne was stuck up too but that was because my introduction to her was when she played the popular girl in That’s So Raven 😅

Adrienne lip stick is gorgeous....What color is that? OMG!

Red looks POPPING on Tamera and the slick ponytail is giving me liiiife.

I love the Middle Eastern people and the Muslim, I get so tired of people judging them, just because they have that scarf on their head or accent, it's so ridiculous.

She whipped that chocked right out her pocket ! She was PREPARED 😂😂

You can tell they all get along and love each other

What a nasty note. I don’t know how someone could bring themselves to write that.

I like what Tamara said. It truly does take more strength to be nice.

I was judged by teachers in highschool because I missed school so much. I was sick all the time and I had depression and severe anxiety- but I could just tell some teachers though I was a slacker. In reality I worked sooo hard and despite missing more than half a school year all the time I still got amazing grades. Now I’m homeschooled because I realized nobody helped me - I didn’t even know homebound was a thing.

They wholly turned the judgement topic around. It said do YOU judge people, not do you get judged. Lol

I love how quick the other ladies were to defend Adrienne. Yessss!

A lot of times when we judge others we are really judging ourselves because we are very unhappy with our own lives. So its like taking it out on someone else.

I be judging people I’m not even gonna fake 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️.

I think your producers were judgmental when they moved two Muslim ladies wearing head scarves in your audience. They were told to sit in the back and out of view of the cameras due to studio policy. It's something that really annoys me because the hosts are doing amazing things for women of colour. They are 110% for equality and against racism. Yet this issue was never addressed publicly. Warner Bros issued a statement but I'd really like to hear from the hosts. Every single day I hear you ladies speaking out against racism, yet something in your own studio has been brushed under the carpet. I'm aware it's from a while ago now. But like I said it was never addressed publicly

Yeah I’ve heard rumors of Adrienne but it’s outright jealousy and hate cuz she’s very beautiful and naturally sexy . She’s the type of woman that is effortlessly sexy she ain’t even got to try .

I love Adrienne's vest color

Tamera words about people using her kindness as advantage is so true!!!

My whole problem is : people DO NOT know how to observe situations FIRST & instead they spew hate based off of THEIR personal assumptions without asking questions or anything ! It's COMPLETELY disrespectful & disgusting ! Until you hear something from the horse's mouth itself then don't say anything !

Yes, Adrienne. I experienced the same while in high school, girls can be so cruel. I agree with you Tam and I’ve been there too Jeanie. I was called everything because of how I carried myself and what I liked. Jealousy is a sickness but you all are beautiful and funny!

Speak your truth Adrienne 👏🏾 So sad we live in a world that people have to defend themselves like that

Leave Adrienne alone. Her lipstick is CUTE! Need to know what brand and color.

Tamera is so pretty! i love her!

Has anyone realized that all three husband had the last name that start with a H . Herbert , Houghton, Housley , Harties

Adrienne's describing herself the way people would see her character, Alana from Thats So Raven, if she were real

I can completely relate to Adrienne! I never wore heels in high school but I loved fashion and always wanted to dress up and people assumed that I thought I was better than them! It was honestly an insecurity issue, dressing nice made me feel better about myself.

Lolll I never knew they addressed the chokers. She really used to be wearing them allll the time 🤣🤣.

Side note the yellow shirt, the sleek hair & cute make up look sooo pretty on loni. Her whole look is so cute😍😍😍

Adrienne is so adorable. I love her.

What happened to miss Adrienne happened to me. Dressed up once or twice a week in HS, wore heels, knew how to walk in them, felt my most confident in them and was rumored to be "the mean girl" or a prep, that I was only dressing that way to show off, make guys notice me, etc. All of which I was not. The same people (almost always a group of girls) would watch me constantly, try to critique my every move but would then see me talk with everyone, always polite and kind, be the one joking around or start laughing at myself, be anyone's friend, make conversation, making sure everyone felt comfortable around me bc I knew how awful it felt to feel the opposite of that... once they'd see that, I'd be told by one or all of them that I was completely different than how they thought I'd be; that I wasn't stuck up, full of myself, bitchy or mean. I would always feel flattered that they saw my true colors but also so sad bc I never want anyone to see me and perceive me to be something I'm not. Really related to her story. So Adrienne, thanks mama, love you even more. Grew up wishing I could be like you as Chanel in the Cheetah Girls, dressed as your character with a group of my girlfriend's in middle school, looked up to you so so much. Thanks for always keeping it real💋💯👏👏👏

I'm not quick to judge people but man are they quick to judge me smh😟

Referring to the rumor thing : I'm sorry but I got too much stuff going on in my life to be starting rumors about somebody else's personal life !!!

Yes Tam! People don't understand it actually takes more strength to he good to people. Most don't know the difference between kindness and weakness. It's so annoying cause if they do too much then you have to show them how weak you are not lol.

That’s something that I’m learning. Not judging people based on what they wear or say. On Sunday, my pastor said to watch what comes out of your mouth. Your tongue has the power of blessings or curse.

I do agree though. The first thing we do as humans is judge people based on what they’re wearing. For instance, if a guy is well put together, “he’s all about his looks and is a player”. If a girl is put together, “she’s a stuck up b and gets around the block”

Wtf is wrong with people who hell leaves a note like that

yep, ppl have done me like they did Adrienne, not really for looking nice but for doing my own thing

Adrienne Houghton you are beautiful with an without the choker

Tamera is so sweet u can tell by the energy 🙏🏾

Adrienne should have a podcast like Angela YEE has lip service I’m not sure ppl would watch a tv show w just her but she’s mad passionate and has a great voice and her own weekly podcast just talking answering letters or speaking on life would be something I’d listen to 😍😍

So true people always try and take your niceness for a weakness. In actuality it takes sooo much strength and integrity to be kind then to be mean.

That is so true. I agree with tamera because I am very nice and people think I’m a pushover or easy to get or weak because I’m nice but that is not it at all because I can defend myself and others and still be kind.

I feel you Jeannie ... same happened to me. You can't have guy friends back at home cuz the girls would shame you but I got over it 🤣😂

i love that top on loni! The yellow is stunning. :)

I feel Loni. I hate when strangers touch me.

“ I can’t breath in them” .....yeah Adrienne, that’s why it’s called a CHOKEr😂😂😂 I love her so much

I went through the exact same thing you did Adrienne. It felt like you were telling my high school story. People are too quick to judge.

I relate soo much to Tamera and Jeannie. I was really nice and everyone knew that but they took my kindness for weakness and a lot ! Of girls tried to pick on me, but got checked quick ! But I started hating girls and hung out with boys and played sports and a lot of girls got jealous and tried to call me a hoe but they got checked quick! & I’m not talking about fighting I’m talking about being the mature one and saying “ just Bc I hang out with guys doesn’t mean I’m a hoe. They actually respect me more then they respect the rest of you& trust me hanging out with guys I know a lot of secrets about a few of you, so I would use my words wisely and treat people better” they all rolled they eyes and walked away and latter tried to be friends with me to get to boys 😑man I hated school 🙄

I haven’t been on The Real’s YT channel in a minute but I came back to FULL segments of girl chat 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

"don't be touchin on me if you don't know me playa!"

I did once, and I was so wrong to do that. Felt bad at the end. But I learned from that and I try my best not to do it again. Nobody is perfect and everybody has a story to tell.

"People see a smile and assume it means happiness. The pearly whites hide the darkness that hides inside."

I love how down to earth these ladies are.

I’m so glad they’re posting longer girl chat videos!

I’m the least judgmental person I know. If I don’t know a person or their situation I ain’t saying anything.... plus, it ain’t my business half the time

People assume because I'm shy I'm stuck up. But if I try to come out of my shell and speak my mind they say I'm being a bitch or smart ass.

Wow synchronicity at its finest! I just started reading The Four Agreements, and Tam is so right! You dont have to agree to a persons opinion of you, family OR strangers, although its harder to ignore family's comments

Omg Tamera!! I’m reading that book currently it’s the most amazing book and it really makes you reflect on how you think and how to speak to an individual.

I have the same problem I’m 23 and I still get the “ stuck up” label especially from black girls ( I’m black too) if I want to have a beat face at work then I can and just Bc u choose to come to work with a bonnet on that’s u. It’s our JOB there’s no reason why u shouldn’t look put together .

THIS GIRL CHAT WAS EVERYTHINGGGGG

When people judges me, they only show me their own insecurities. People tend to judge what they don't understand. And often times people judge you because you are too comfortable in your own skin.

when i first met my now bff i didn't particularly like her, but thank god i gave myself a chance to get to know her and change my attitude. if i hadn't i would have missed out on the best friend i've ever had in my life! what she's been to me, what she's done for me is priceless. next to my mother she is second in whom i hold in high esteem💖

Dang this is reality what Jennie and Adrienne went through been there.

12:34 "I'm the one that's the hoe at the table". 😂😂😂😂 Long as you know, Loni.

so true Adrienne, I know people in my life who don't like me just coz I like putting myself together, so they have a pre notion abt me.

Good clip. I appreciated all of their insights, particularly Loni' s. I too am an introvert and misperceptions, rumors, etc. are for the birds. What other people feel/assume regarding me has nothing to do with me and my happiness journey. It took a long time to get to that approach to living but I'm so glad I got there.

I'm with Adrian about the heels in school I used to wear heels to high school because I was so short I'm 5'2 and honestly my whole group of girlfriends did it.

At (0:14 seconds) Adrienne's hair & makeup looks sooo pretty!! 😍🖒💇

Thankgod for Loni!!! Yeah we all have to stop judging each other it is very important to do that.

You right people are so quick to judge

I'm a black mother with two black daughters...ages 3 and 8... I did this just last night. I have to put the 3yo in and out of her car seat because she can't do it herself. THATS ALL IT IS. I don't have yo check on the 8yo cuz she can do all that herself. She gets in and out by herself. I stopped doing that for her when she was 6 be cuz at that age I no longer feared her smashing a finger in the car door. To make that about race... Child, bye!

Loni, there's a difference between being an introvert and just not liking for people to touch you 😂

I just love and adore the relationship Tam and Loni have with each other. They really go a long way together🥹🥹😍😍I want that.

Living for these long videos♥️

But honestly I feel like they’re posting long OLD clips because they might think if they post the full CURRENT clips we’re not gonna watch because we’ll just tune in here which is FAKE NEWS!!! y’all we’ll watch on both!! Please bless!!

12 minute clip?😩🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. Thank you.

8:26 I feel that! I went through the same thing at my work place. I was being nice and friendly to everyone and people thought I was being flirty.

i get that a lot.. most of my friends always say they thought i had a bad attitude when we first met till they got to know me and realized im just sweet

All the ladies look lovely but Jeannie is looking extra glowing. I'm enjoying these conversations

I believe Adrienne. That rumor has been out there for the longest. Adrienne, you wanna know who started that rumor? Rob.

Yes the 4 agreements - don’t assume and don’t take things personally

Thank you for the longer videos!!!!!!!!

Love Adrienne's look today very fall and he hair is on point. Love loni's wig it's slayed. Not feeling jeannies look it's giving me season 1 vibes and that was a dark time for all of them lol. Anyways, this woman was out of line for this note she didn't know the situation and to judge like that is sadly normal but to write a note to these people was too much. We all need to give people the benefit of the doubt and stop jumping to conclusions.

Clicked IMMEDIATELTY when I saw 12 minutes... (Edit) Oh... It’s old. meh! You get what you get and you don’t get upset 🤷🏾‍♀️

That explains why Loni was trying to block the fan from hugging Kim Kardashian. She wasn't trying to be rude. She just figured maybe Kim is like her and doesn't like to hug strangers.

A 12 minute and 47 second video?! A blessing.

Never felt more relatable to a loni comment like I do now with covid-19 (7:38) 🤣🤣

Just based on assumption this is my list of who would be friendliest to meet: Jeannie Tamera Adrienne Loni

Oooh you ladies are talking real today! I actually wrote a poem about people mistaking my kindness for weakness and posted it live. You won't believe how many people out there can relate to it. I think it takes strength to be kind. Thank you for keeping it real ladies. Love you all.

after the 3rd minute mark, I kept wondering why the video kept going. not fully used to these 10+ minute videos yet but I’m liking it

I judge people based on how they text or walk .. if you text like “how r u “ I’m out 😂

I realized as a mature adult that girls said mean things about me probably out of jealousy. I was also called a hoe when I hadn’t even had sex yet. Lots of rumors made up about me, it was so hurtful because I was nice to everyone and friendly. The worst betrayals always came from girls who I thought were my friends 🤷🏻‍♀️

We all should be nice to one another and live peaceful nice lives.

I love how Loni talks.