lush larry seriously omg.

Jeannie and Mama mai are so deep. I just love them.

Oh my fucking Lucifer you're so fucking weak ...... Just kidding

Jessica Locy 💯

well put!

Jessica Locy Real talk

Jessica Locy NOW THAT'S A FACT.

You are so right, my parents till now are rejecting my husband because he is from a country they don’t like. They didn’t even give him a chance to introduce himself to them. Till now they haven’t met him.

Grisel Blanco I'm so sorry for your loss.. And thank you for writhing this. A lot of us need to hear it. ❤

So very true. My mom was the best. I miss her a lot, but the good thing is that she knew I loved and respected her while she was alive. Don't take them for granted..they are not perfect, but neither are you and in many cases they've given you the best while taking the left overs.

Grisel Blanco , I did too! My mother passed over 3 yrs ago & we were really close. She was one who didn't hold anything back. I know most people consider that blunt but I love people like that b/c I'd rather someone be upfront with me than be fake. My mom kept it real & I truly miss her & her advice. 😢

Annette Jones I’m the same way as you. My mom was my best friend. She passed away 10 months ago... I don’t know that I’ll ever get over her loss.

Grisel Blanco sweetheart i pray God wraps you in his arm s during this difficult time..💜

Vladime Young-Sang soooo very well said!

NFarah haha I like when she say's Hunnaaaaayye.😂😂😂

Im gonna be lowkey mad at jeannie if she marries another man and then has kids with him, :(. wasted freddies life. lol

leximakeupful Very immature..not funny at all. She is so fucking immature. Glad Kenny left her ugly face and personality. with Kenny.

Right??? I almost feel like making it my ringtone xD

BeautySyndromeBaby tbh Freddie and Jeanie went in together planning not to have children, so in reality he wasted his own life. But we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors so we both have no idea of the circumstances

i saw tameras dad on the reality tv show one time n they are on tias youtube show sometimes

They re divorced

Roxana Romero her father passed

@@BucckeyTemple whattttt when!!!!! I just saw the video where she talked about her parents divorcing.

Roxana Romero yes . On tia’s yt she talks about her favorite memory with her father is her father daughter dance. And she wish he was still here :( they also posted on Instagram. It’s been awhile now

Naomi P I have a sneaky suspicion that she kinda resents or resented him for making her wait 6 years for a marriage proposal but i could be wrong.

Naomi P a lot of what she was saying i had a feeling about already. i used to feel like she would put up a front about how happy she actually was in the relationship. Especially when she would talk about wanting marriage but still in a 5+ year relationship not heading towards it. He probably only proposed because of how they would talk about him on the show.

nikkicole54321 what did the girls used to say about him on the show?

i don't remember exactly since its been a couple of seasons. i believe that they (i think mostly tamar) was asking adrienne about her relationship with lenny in terms of how long they were together and why he hadn't proposed to her about being together for 5 years.

TheElsaAlvarado she does it herself everyday!

Right? The dark look is gorgeous on her, wowwwww I'm shook

We'd. . I dispike gr8l

TheElsaAlvarado yessss!

It’s always on fleek

Omg your comment is so accurate! I recently spilled the beans about my love life to my family and now I'm hearing all the judgement. Next time, I am keeping it private!

VERY TRUE

Yess

Right.

thats why i pick my own man

nhaliii no they Don't lol, sometimes it is their own emotions talking,instead of discernment to use tamera word.

Your mom was judging culture not character

Same here. My parents did not care for my first boyfriend. I was 21, he 22 and they were like don’t put your eggs in one basket, there are plenty more guys out there. My mom especially, “ I don’t like his hair, his sense of style, he only cares about one thing etc. “ Well 7 years later, that first boyfriend is now my husband, a teacher and currently works with my mother, who is also a teacher. And my parents LOVE him now!!! Sometimes you just got to push through what your parents believe if your belief is greater than theirs. Also patience is a wonderful tool in this situation !!!!!!

true, but selena's mom had to help her through rehab, when her and justin left her sort of brokenhearted so i feel 4 her mom

You will live with him not your mum. I believe it isnt their place at all. I would never let a love go for my mum. I didnt choose my dad either, so let me live.

sundrop sounds like a great mum bless her 😄

Shelly Qay thank you she is

sundrop My friend's mom and grandma knew her man was no good before they even got to know him. They really can sense these things.

Omphile Moerane how?

@@marcusmelton2295 Female intuition is a very scary thing.

Lea Adusei 😂😂

Lea Adusei SAME

Low key same 😳

Me too

Me too because my mom is such a great and nice person that if she doesn't like you there must be something wrong with you that I am not seeing.

Xk8rsx personally I would marry someone regardless of what my parents think and I will tell you why it’s my decision not theirs

soapqueen2008 I agree with you

Some parents are also abusive and controlling/narcissistic. Parents are just people too and have insecurities and their own intentions and sometimes humans are selfish.

YES !!!!

Silver Bat Mine

Kaykay Lo yuppies

Definitely. I feel like they talked a lot about the emotional factor here, but what if your mama don't like him bc he's a different race, religion, his personal beliefs, his background, his job, etc. Maybe straight up she just doesn't think he's cute and she doesn't want ugly grand babies? 😂😂😂

YOUR absolutely right. My mom didn't like my husband when we was dating because she was jealous that someone else was taking up my time and it wasn't her she didn't like him still after we married UNTIL 4 years later after all of a sudden I needed a lung transplant and he did EVERYTHING and stood by my side every night in the hospital for 3 months and she saw just what a man he was. If I listened to her inn the beginning I would have missed out for no reason at all. So yes its definitely a case by case decision

Crystal Nguyen lollll ugly grand babies 😂 good one

Lakeisha Smith wow.. sometimes not listening is actually best .. glad u have a good man by ur side 💛

Ema Star 😊 Thank you

ypm 123 tell me about it... African child struggles smh

You are not alone. Indian parents are like that too if not worst. Sigh :(

Caribbean parents too

Mexican parents too.

Arabic parents toooooo!!!

Maria Ray ikr

This

ATrueLove,com same!!!!! Lmao omg.

same

Trueee

Ana Dé yes girl.

But it would still hurt you to see your kids get hurt, and you would wanna protect them, right? If you could somehow prevent your kid from getting hurt by someone you feel ain't right, wouldn't u do everything to try and prevent that?

SilverTongue Yes of course when it comes to natural disasters, fires, etc, but someone they love? No. My daughter is my child, but she's a human being with her own mind & heart. My job is to raise her well so she makes good decisions, but part of that is trusting myself AND her. Cos I can't protect her from everybody and I want to so while she is a young child I will. But once she's 21 and a legal adult in my culture if she chooses to love someone I don't like I'd rather love her so much she leaves on her own rather than forcing her to do something just because I think it's a bad idea. I've learned this from my friends. I have close friends who I worry about, but I'm not God. I'm not so perfect that I can save people with their own mind, free will, and sense from their choices. I CAN love them though and be there for them like I will always be for my child. Cos there's always the what if. My granddad tried to have my dad arrested to keep him away from my mum and it didn't help. It resulted in a 30 year marriage lol.

Andrea Pachas That’s so cute. How old are you?

Yeah foreal.. a grown man moving into your moms house should be a no.

sdee to each their own

Ain't no way.! I'm assuming your about 18 and he's about 19/20 bc there's no way in the world a grown man would be staying in my house.... And with that being said I'm also assuming they think/know y'all having sex and I know parents can't control every thing we do but she's basically saying get my daughter pregnant I don't care...

chelsea Moore never really heard her say that but I would ask her just in case that's in her priorities. Like I said, to each their own. Don't assume stuff about my mom, you don't know her, me or my boyfriend. Just because you have different perspectives or a different opinion, you don't have to come off rude. I think it's more of a respect relationship. Saying "he can stay but he has to pay rent. He can eat but he has to help out bringing up groceries." I respect my mom. You can think whatever you want about me. But don't talk about my mother or assume what she wants just like you wouldn't want anyone to talk about yours

K de la Cruz lol is a Virgo? 🙂 or maybe she has that sign in her chart somewhere ... look up the actual number day she was born, that will tell you a lot

K de la Cruz My mom too 😞😣 it’s hard even liking a guy sometimes bc of her

Just do you best and remind your mom that you are doing your best but you value her opinions too.

Joseph Crespin I agree

True

FACTS

h Bag not necessarily. At the end of the day parents are also humans capable of being very irrational, immature, and very judgmental of their children's boyfriends or girlfriends.

Book Bag in my experience parents only think they are right

i agree and you wont see true colours until things get serious.

Yousra El amen same here! I need their blessings and input they are here before me for a reason they are wiser and full of helpful insight. My god given guidance❤️

Same here, I have a good relationship with my parents. They mean the world to me, so whoever he is will have to be comfortable with them as well.

I fucking love you 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼

😂😂😂😂

My mama might not like my man, but my man loves eating what my mama made, if you get what I'm saying 😏😏 PS I love #HoeChronicles and I read your comments religiously

OMG I'M DEAD ON THE FLOOR

Ariel Matthews same. We don’t beef, but my old school mom would have more of a say than my actual mom.sadly we just never were close like that for me to make a big decision in needing her approval

ItsTheBullSix I agree.

My family hated my first boyfriend who I was with for 3 1/2 years and engaged to. I stayed with him almost just to try to prove them wrong. They were so right about him, but I still feel like I had to go through that relationship anyway.

Very true, but if you start to notice everyone close to you doesn't like him. You probably blinded by love

brittany wallace Exactly! I had to learn that the hard way. Not only did my family not like my boyfriend, but none of my friends did either. We were together my junior and senior year of high school. By the time graduation came, I literally had no friends. It was so sad and pathetic. He always made me feel like everyone was jealous of us, and it was us against the world. I wish I hadn't of been so naive. If I could go back in time, I would rather have my friends than him. However, being in that relationship is what led me to my wonderful husband today, who everyone loves, so I guess it was all meant to be.

Jenny Eddins there's a difference between one person not liking your significant other because they're over protective and everybody not liking your significant other if you're in Tire family and all your friends didn't like him you were blind and that's on you but my mom literally doesn't like anybody I date and quite frankly I don't like anyone she dates so I don't want nor ask for her advice and when she gives it without me asking I ignore it... mom knows best is not always true

daniellelove I would never break up with someone because my parents don’t approve I actually have a policy I won’t introduce someone unless we have been dating for at least 6-8 months

What if they don't approve the second, third, fourth, fifth and etc...You still going to have them take over your life? Parents can have an opinion, but you need to learn from your own experiences and you be the judge of your own relationship/ marriage whether it is good or bad.

If he’s good to you. Treats you right. Respect you. Loves you. Care for you. And you’re happy with him. But for some reason your mom doesn’t like him. So You dump the guy? Yikes 😳

@@whatsupfoo4592 I don’t get how grown people let their parents run their life. Why break up with an amazing person if your parents don’t like them??? Also I think romantic lives should private anyways, who cares what your parents think?!!

Magdalena Ozbolt boyfriend of 12 years? Girl is that by choice? Y’all not gonna tie the knot or do you not believe in marriage?

Yes it is by choice. Why should we tie the knot? I know a lot of couples who have kids my age and are together for 30+ years that never married. Besides a wedding costs a lot of money that we dont have.

Magdalena Ozbolt 12 years and no marriage?! wow

Why do you have to get married anyway?

Magdalena Ozbolt you keep telling yourself that. whatever makes you feel good 😂😁

asma al RIGHT

Akbbba 1 our friends point of things & we don’t listen. Y’all know damn well y’all not listening EVERY SINGLE THINGS your mother tells you when it comes to these men. Let’s be real lol

My sibling brought a new guy to meet the family and he was read severely by my mom... the worst. I'm an aura individual and sensed a few things. Long story short, sibling asked my thoughts. I stated he wasn't for her, and we had a fallen out. A few years later, she revealed the relationship is over and court. I know folks don't consider family, but I do because they see and sense things when I'm blind.

asma al how can you dismiss the opinion of thr one human that has carried you in her stomache for 9 mths, and that breast fed and nursed you when u were little and weak. If there's ONE opinion to consider it should be your mother's, but time will teach you that lesson.

Yesim I ...yep exactly good question...

Hmm... one has to determine if it's coming from a good place. Are the parents concerned about their image or the hardship on you? Sometimes parents project their fears thinking you're unable to handle situations when you actually can. If their justification is invalid, express your stance. They raised you to be "xyz", so why wouldn't you select "xyz" in a mate? Trust, believe... support me. Express from your mind, not the heart; be real with yourself. Weigh the pros and cons, and be willing to accept the out come if your parents disagree. Best wishes.

Jane Dough i really do understand what you re saying... i’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years... after 1 year of being together, he got sick with a serious condition... it resulted in 9 surgeries in 3 years and now he has a pouch which allows him finally to live a « normal » life!we are both 28 y.o...He s so brave and amazing ! Such a generous soul and a giving heart... he s everything for me... Each step of the way, he had all type of complications, long healings, problems... but we fought through, we got help from a therapist, we stood strong... oooh it was sometimes really really hard to deal with. It is such a curse to deal with sickness at such a young age... being for months in a hospital, seeing other people suffer ! But it made us stronger and we juste know that we can surpass any difficulties... i grew up so so much with this « experience »! And became much confident as well... The problem is my parents can’t understand how i can stay with sbdy who had been sick... as you said they project their fears on me(he cab die, you gonna be alone someday, you re suffering for someone else etc) but i love my parents to death and not having their support in such situation, trial, experience is hurting me so much... i m so sadden by the fact they can’t see my strength and how i became a better person... how can someone blame another human being of loving someone who got sick... this is nobody’s fault... i m so sorry that i cause them stress and anxiety... but why can i do? Leave the person that i love ? I would only leave if i dont have the strength to go on anymore or don’t love him, or any problem that can cause a breakup... damn life is sometimes not easy 🤷🏻‍♀️

Yesim I my view is tell your mom that ether she accepts the person for who they are or and I’m not kidding you don’t talk to mom if she isn’t going to be open minded

dance4life1208 It’s funny because her opinions also changed since she got with Israel too

Can I ask what things???

ypm 123 Her opinions didn't change about Lenny, he was a great guy and good to her but he wasn't RIGHT for her for life. She needed things he didn't do and she adapted to make it work but she is very clearly an affectionate person at heart. Israel gives her that in public and privately.

Are you from every part of Africa?

LittleBanana This a general thing for most Africans, not every African but most Africans..

LittleBanana She's not lying. It's really how it is here. Even bringing a man home is VERY important once your parents see him you have already secured a marriage

Farisanani Angel Matshona True

Mexicans too!!!